Post Separation Abuse: With Sara Davison
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- Опубликовано: 4 окт 2024
- Sara Davison, best known as ‘The Divorce Coach’ is a multi award-winning Coach, twice best selling author and podcast host of 'Heartbreak to Happiness'.
She joins me today to talk about what to expect when separating or divorcing a narcissistic person, post separation abuse, and some ideas to help navigate your way through.
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“ Hard to reconcile the monster with the wonderful person they were…” So true and so well said. Heartbreaking after so many losses and injuries. Crimes really.
For me, my grief of less about losing the person who I thought I married, and more about the loss of time, wasted investment of a relationship, and the loss of self.
I'm just sobbing through the video
Thank you both for this video, I am going through this pretty terribly right now - leaving a 30 year marriage and he has continually threatened, harassed, bullied and now his latest is full on blackmail. I so know what you mean when you talk about the panic attack when getting a letter or notification from the lawyer. I've been going through this for 14 months and there are days when I don't know if I will make it...thankfully I have a good support system and videos like this that are validating.
Observe and not absorb!!! What a great turn of phrase ! This is my Achilles heal! Easy to remember when I am in this moment either someone! Thank you Darren!
Family court! A carrot does not make a soup!
I also liked the idea of being assertive and being polite and not waiting for the barb when they sidle up to you at a function. Gosh these two things will save me so much frustration and heartache. Now to put them in practice. !!!
This is gold dust. Thank you both so much ❤
Thank you Sara and Darren. Very helpful.
Thank you both! Screw you, watch this! That’s the one 🎉
Yes Darren, I agree that they may possess objectively exceptional qualities, like intelligence, ambition, success, tenacity, incredible drive. Mine was and is a rare man, very accomplished. But his love for me was a pretense. I left him and he fought for me for 6 months, as he cannot stand any kind of failure. Love bombing involved spectacular and extravagantly expensive fairy tale. Twenty years later I am a much hated and unnecessary fixture in his life and we are fighting an acrimonious divorce battle. Very dirty battle on his part. I knew it was coming and I was prepared for his psychopathic moves. He will not defeat me even though I am deeply traumatized. I have not spoken to him for over a year and do not intent to ever again talk to him or see him. I see very clearly what kind of monster and evil man he is. I am done. I am a grey rock. A diamond, ha.