THE PENUEL SHOW WITH SIPHESIHLE NXOKWANA 00:00 - INTRO 04:10 - Biography 07:30 - Do you hate women 09:45 - Thoughts on Christian way of living 14:07 - How often should women slip up 16:10 - Does one’s past matter 18:40 - How do you teach people to be accountable 21:55 - Where did humanity go wrong 25:52 - The feminist agenda 29:50 - Do you hold men to the same standard 33:18 - Do you have a similar message for black people 38:20 - The issue with culture & language 48:10 - Do you believe in history of human evolution 53:30 - How other races came to existence 57:15 - How culture & biology shapes us 1:02:25 - What do you understand of feminism 1:10:00 - The issue of physical violence 1:12:55 - The downside of equality 1:16:05 - Women voting, Are women children 1:29:45 - Do we still have men 1:35:00 - How has your social media journey been 1:44:00 - Making money on social media 1:49:14 - What’s your vision for your work 1:57:20 - Closing comments 2:01:16 - ENDS Compiled by Khwezi Ndlovu IG: kzndlovu Tt: khwezindlovu
I really think that majority of us women do think like siphesihle. I think exactly how she thinks. The only difference is that she has a platform to talk about these issues. I'm so happy that she's vocal about it. Thank you, for speaking out . All from the USA
I love the conversation: I get a bit sensitive to the question about woman and children- Children are not allowed to make adult decisions because they are incapable of doing so. The human brain is fully developed at approximately 25 years, the prefrontal Cortex is the Last part of the brain to develop which is responsible for decision making amongst other things - so it is difficult or almost insane to expect a child to be able to determine cause and effect, measure the consequences of their decisions. Hence am adult would take about those roles for them. It is not just mere vulnerability, it biology, it's developmental capacity, it's lived experiences. So no WOMEN cannot be compared to children.
Thank you having me Penuel🙏🏾 I knew coming here would be a necessary test to the things I say and believe in. I’ll always choose being honest over being right and I’m grateful for platforms like yours that allow that. Til next time🎉💃🏽🙏🏾
Yoh my sister, your videos on TikTok always gives me goosebumps every time am listening to you... I was a victim of cathexis every time I hear your voice on social media however coming here really made things easier and calm Thank you for your content cc.
I love how she said even if you slip, you can still get up and do better. and thats the grace of our lord Jesus Christ, we dont have to die in sin we can do better and be better.
@@SbusisoNkosi-22 they are hard to answer because the bible is a collection of methology. It's all an allegory, those stories were never meant to be taken literally. It's such a shame that as these religions gained traction, we totally abandoned knowledge, for superstition. Eg. In the literal sense. The story of a virgin birth, will never make sense however you try to spin it. However, the principle there is the 'purity' of a women'.
@MentalFacility-u7o this is part of the paradox in her argumentation. She speaks about religion and then she speaks on African cultures as if they share the same values which they don't.
Damn Sihle!! Whenever I listen to the penuel show I always listen to hear the guests intention more than anything, and I love how Sphe sounds like she's actually trying to solve a problem more than bash someone else, what a delicious conversation.
"If you have to be a bully, you have to have an upper hand over the person you're bullying... You guys don't have anything I want or anything that I respect! So I can't necessarily say you're bullying me..." Sheesh!!!
A breath of fresh air,a conservative, disciplined,confident SA🇿🇦 voice,pro rata to her age,her scope is wide, No appropriation of the media talking points, she's Original ❤🤔
And I've been anticipating this for the longest time. Coz wow things that are happening in our SAn communities have been exposed to the negative western notions on Freedom without accountability or responsibility whatsoever and it is not funny..but sad
I am about to go follow Sihle on all her platforms because she is a really wise lady ❤❤ I'm 22 and I must say I really want to be like her. I wanna grow up and be a respected woman❤❤
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Great content as usual Penuel, I would like Sihle to be hosted again, she serves best and such kind of women are needed in Christian space may God bless her and continue the great work
I pray to have a wife that can hold a conversation like this. One think I want my childrent to be, is being an independent thinker and allow your mind to learn and being able to correctly debate social affairs. Women like her are Gold, I can say we are safe as a nation when we have more women like her. Nice interview guys. 🙏❤
Dope episode. In 2021 I was suicidal, and was diagnosed with severe depressive disorder. I got the help I needed, and I'm raising awareness about mental health. Mental health is a real thing in the black community. AboGogo in townships suffer from Dementia, a mental health issue. Bipolar Disorder is a growing issue among black people. Suicide rates are on the rise among blacks. All I'm saying is, mental health is a real issue in black society.
@thami.rubushe and we have dealt with it traditionally as well. Just because all black people do not run to the biomedical world does not mean mental health never existed within black communities and its a dangerous and ignorant agenda sihle is pushing.
Thank you for this comment Thami. Thank you for standing for mental health. We may not have had a term for it back in the day, but that doesn't invalidate that it existed. It's a pitty we still have to tell people this, when there is evidence of mental illness all around us.
@senzomajola6805 what I've come to find out is that when the four facets of umbilini, uvalo, letswalo or what some may call kundalini, when there is an imbalance here what we as black people would call umoya ophansi amongst other things that is similar to what western biomedical thinking would call mental health issues or depression. A healer or sangoma at times will emulate talk therapy but it will also go into the spiritual realm to help people so to say that mental health in Africans doesn't exist is rubbish.
Yes brother! I have been married for 29 years and have adult children. I can attest to the importance of a father figure in a girl's life. I have the life that I live now because my father laid a solid foundation. I wanted same for my children. Both my girls are doing great and we are looking forward to welcoming our first SIL into the family.
I started the video thinking I’ll probably watch for 30min. Fast forward, it feels like it’s been 30 minutes but the video is ending ! Beautiful conversation
In this conversation, i just learned that we often listen to people who are also learning, no disrespect... and i just like how she thinks. PEN, you just showed me that saying something with conviction doesn't make it true. Most importantly is that, we should continuously broaden our knowledge in doing research and learning to further have meaningful engagements.. dope convo Tata🤙
I didn't know who Sihle was, but I came across one of her videos and thought she made some strong, valid points. But I went into the comments section and was shocked to find a war there... That's the problem she faces. A lot of people don't seem to like her, and they don't really engage appropriately with whatever message she was delivering. They call her names and attack her motives, but don't engage robustly in conversation. She's young, too. It's actually refreshing to see a youngster that can think differently and articulate themselves as coherently as she does in the things she posts. Thanks, Penuel for bringing her on!!! 💪🏾
one thing i have come to learn is never underestimating punuels guests. He does not just sit it has to be relatable, challenging and logical in the sense that everyone is raw and Straight
The concept of accountability is quite logical. It begins with self-accountability, and when you hold yourself accountable, everything else in your life tends to fall into place.
But we can only take accountability for your own personal actions. I cannot take accountability for the women that are walking in the streets naked because I personally don't do that and I don't know why people do that. So saying women need to stop behaving in a certain way when not all women actually do that. I think the initial thing to do is to treat women as individuals. I cannot personally be accountable for women smoking when I personally don't smoke. Just saying.
I love this lady's message the only problem is I don't like TikTok so I guess I'll only be able to watch her content on Podcasts. Great interview 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Thanks Penzo for inviting this young brave lady hopefully will see her again in your platform and more woman like her being invited to your show. There was a part where she was speaking about research on Google and how deep she goes for it and she spoke about the books she reads can you kindly ask those books for me(the name of the books that knowledge is needed
May God keep you steadfast in your path. There will be challenges, but the journey will be worth it. My hope is your example will light a path for other young girls.
I love Siphesihle...1st time I hear of her because i do not have tick tok and I am blown away, I agree with 90% of the things she said. I previously worked 8:00 to 16:00 job and left my job to relocate with my husband, now mainly because of high unemployment rate I am a stay at home wife and mom and it has been a blessing and I actually love and enjoy it!
It maybe because youre married, but what you said is RARE alot of women even if they agree with 90% of what she said they FOCUS on that 10% to the extent of trying to cancel this chic, they always report her videos which get taken down
Sihle just really revived something in me to just keep pushing my work despite the narrative out there. And to be fair, it would seem like ii don't have much going on for me on the surface level, but its deep seated fear that holds me back at time, because ii know what type of messaging things like these get. I grew up in a Christian background, sheltered a lot because of (in my opinion) fear. But as ii got older ii realized that its all for protection. I was depressed when ii was young reflecting back and literally rehab taught me a lesson that ii will never ever forget. That good things take time, and to focus on myself.
I just wanna take this moment to show my appreciation for Sihle's intelligence, critical thinking, perspective, composure and mindset. She's so smart and all though most people don't agree with her, u can clearly see she knows what she's talking about. Anyone who knows how to listen without getting emotions involved can listen to her for hours. She should start her own podcast ❤ Love to see it Sihle
@@NostalgiaCore-i4r u can hate her all u want, but the truth is the truth, and she tells the truth. Wena u just wanna hear what u like, learn to be open-minded and accept different thinking. Sihle is very intelligent. Wena u just know how to make jokes, if u disagree with her, explain why u disagree instead of just spamming insults cos u have nothing else to say.
❤️Wisdom and knowledge really shape our lives and our choices ,totally agree our environments do have a certain influence on our behaviour. You are blessed to be exposed to the truth and righteous way of living.Also once you see your mistakes persue change and don’t lean on the past.😊Very true Sihle
Penuel, Thank you so much for being so gentle and kind with Sihle, you literally came down to her level and conversed respectfully with her even on topics she had little knowledge of. There were questions that I felt like I was running out of patience with forgetting that she cant know everything, but man you are so patient and I respect it!
If Christ is your fixed point, you will walk in the wisdom of the Most High. The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom. Well done Siphesihle for speaking out the truth. May God use you more and more to lead the way!
I love this lady, she is so matured. i like the part where she said " we work and get paid our 3K but we do nothing with it and we expect to be trusted on big responsibilities our run the country for that matter.❤
23:46 - Good questions are an indispensable ingredient for good accountability. While we listen, instead of quietly mulling what we might say, we can ask what we might ask. What question might pull back the heart layer under the update I’m hearing - the emotional and spiritual layer that matters most, but often goes untouched? I admire this conversation to the core!
We have not been given the spirit of fear...but of power, of love and a sound mind..Sihle, this is the scripture that kept replaying in my heard as i was listening to you...may the Lord grant you long life!!
I raaan❤ Thank you Siphesihle, it's so sad how we're all viewed as liberal. It's sickening to be told that you're wasting your body by being conservative. Society looks at you and automatically thinks of the money you could make using your body. I have 4 daughters, and it is scary. Men are so afraid that one day their women will "wake up" and "boss up".
I love Sihle so much. I feel like people intentionally misunderstand her content. She's not alwys 100% correct but, most of the time she is. I like that she reflects on her content and will reflect and apologize if she has to. She's a much needed young lady.❤Her parents should be proud.
I love how Sihle stands for what she believes in. It is so sad to see black women undervaluing themselves like that, what about the generations to come. Most of us see it but we do speak out like she is
Thats a lie sis . You have been brainwashed to believe that . Feminism didn't allow you anything. My grand went to school in 1967 became an educator .. you have a car because you work , you work because you have a qualification.. education has always been allowed to woman . Woman who were capable have always been allowed to own cars
I also enjoyed the part about what factors contributed to GBV and the idea of voting as South Africans being shallow. Voting because you want Malema to be president, not because you have read and understood their manifesto.
Oh man, it is the first time I listen to this young, beautiful,intelligent, woman, what a gem south africa has in this woman, she is pure gold man, wow
Lord, I pray that you would bless my children. Watch over them and keep them safe. Lord give me strength as I struggle to support my sons. As a single mom I’ve been overwhelmed trying to pay all the bills on my own. so where there is lack, Father, I pray that you bring abundance. I pray that my children would grow up to know and love you. Be with them as I raise them each day to be God-fearing lovers of Christ. Give me wisdom and patience as I continue to struggle to provide for my sons❤️
WOW!!!!! It takes an eccentric woman to speak for other eccentric women. She is so daring, some women who follow or have the same discipline or morals wouldn't dare to even speak out on this(myself included), she is a good representation of women. I appreciated this discussion.
i was losing hope in us women but this young lady is enough to light my flame of hope, yes she is young but makes sense. thanks Sihle and thank you too Penuel.
My kids are not loosing their language(Setswana) even if we currently live in England 🏴 and they speak English too. We are even adding more languages to the languages(Swahili and Spanish)they already know. People here make sure to teach their kids their native languages like Indians, Koreans, Chinese, French, Zims(Shona, Ndebele)etc. it is not a loss to teach your kids their native languages just because they live in a different environment to theirs. Why is it okay for them to be fluent in other people’s languages but not theirs??? I don’t get that
I hate the idea that because the present doesn't work the way we expected it to work maybe we should go back to the past esp when we never experienced the hardship of that past . It is low thinking capacity because no generation was perfect. Yes we can take from the past and merge with those that work currently and forge a new way that might be better. But lets never forget that every path whether 'progressive" or not will have a down side. This battle of the genders is not set in stone, its forging a new path and if we constantly shut it with comparing it to the past we will never see the fruits. And I think its about time we realise that most times its not a men are this or women are that but a fault we all have as humans. Humans are messy in general
The Red Pill - Men's Rights Documentary is very much what this conversation is... what a brilliant Documentary covering why a woman no longer identifies as a feminist...
Thanks for the show as usual great content. I am abit late for this one. First time hearing about your guest and she sounds so matured than most of the women who are older than her. Please bring her back again. I like the way she expresses herself.
43:29 it’s for this reason why I as a coloured person would like to learn a few more of our official languages. Communicating with people and conversing with them is a way of showing appreciation and understanding.
Giving birth is not the bare minimum, my best friend didn’t know her mother cos she died of child birth. I went to a colleagues wife’s funeral cos she died from child birth to twins. How many men die from taking lunch to their kids if you are going to make that comparison ? You said men don’t listen to the content creator who directs his message to men but he’s not that popular, even the men in America like KS first started talking to men but only gained popularity when he held women “accountable” because men as a collective don’t care to listen, improve & change! By your standards men are the leaders, which organisation doesn’t hold the leaders accountable first & harder ?
Siphesihle's parents are so fortunate, she's among the embodiments of a 2 parent household... What a beautiful mind from the young lady, may she go far in life.
About mental health. Mental illness is real and it can be threatening just as your diabetes. The thing with mental health we have people who are undiagnosed speaking about it we misuse the word “depression “ or “anxiety” while they are real people who have this illness and it affects their daily lives. Unfortunately we still have a long way to go in the black community when it comes to mental illness it’s not fiction it’s real staff.
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THE PENUEL SHOW WITH SIPHESIHLE NXOKWANA
00:00 - INTRO
04:10 - Biography
07:30 - Do you hate women
09:45 - Thoughts on Christian way of living
14:07 - How often should women slip up
16:10 - Does one’s past matter
18:40 - How do you teach people to be accountable
21:55 - Where did humanity go wrong
25:52 - The feminist agenda
29:50 - Do you hold men to the same standard
33:18 - Do you have a similar message for black people
38:20 - The issue with culture & language
48:10 - Do you believe in history of human evolution
53:30 - How other races came to existence
57:15 - How culture & biology shapes us
1:02:25 - What do you understand of feminism
1:10:00 - The issue of physical violence
1:12:55 - The downside of equality
1:16:05 - Women voting, Are women children
1:29:45 - Do we still have men
1:35:00 - How has your social media journey been
1:44:00 - Making money on social media
1:49:14 - What’s your vision for your work
1:57:20 - Closing comments
2:01:16 - ENDS
Compiled by Khwezi Ndlovu
IG: kzndlovu
Tt: khwezindlovu
I really think that majority of us women do think like siphesihle. I think exactly how she thinks. The only difference is that she has a platform to talk about these issues. I'm so happy that she's vocal about it. Thank you, for speaking out . All from the USA
Thank you for the timeline stamps, Khwezi ❤
1:40:28 damn… I’m posting on TikTok starting when I deal with my procrastination!
I love the conversation: I get a bit sensitive to the question about woman and children-
Children are not allowed to make adult decisions because they are incapable of doing so. The human brain is fully developed at approximately 25 years, the prefrontal Cortex is the Last part of the brain to develop which is responsible for decision making amongst other things - so it is difficult or almost insane to expect a child to be able to determine cause and effect, measure the consequences of their decisions. Hence am adult would take about those roles for them. It is not just mere vulnerability, it biology, it's developmental capacity, it's lived experiences. So no WOMEN cannot be compared to children.
Thank you having me Penuel🙏🏾 I knew coming here would be a necessary test to the things I say and believe in. I’ll always choose being honest over being right and I’m grateful for platforms like yours that allow that. Til next time🎉💃🏽🙏🏾
You're a Force to be reckoned with. Big ups to you @Sihleeey 💪🏽❤️
this is the way!!
Yoh my sister, your videos on TikTok always gives me goosebumps every time am listening to you... I was a victim of cathexis every time I hear your voice on social media however coming here really made things easier and calm
Thank you for your content cc.
We support you all the way Sihle ❤
I can’t find your tik tok account 🙆♂️
Sihle is the type of girl our daughters should be listening to.
i agree
I agree..
Candice Owen of South African. These are the conversations that I love to listen to.
😂😂😂 Candace Owens, she's not that clever like her though
@@neomotlhacwi7077 hypocrite of note that one. Wish we could find a better comparison.
Most Christians struggle to answer these deep questions, but I’m glad you eased her in and out of those.
I love how she said even if you slip, you can still get up and do better. and thats the grace of our lord Jesus Christ, we dont have to die in sin we can do better and be better.
@@SbusisoNkosi-22 they are hard to answer because the bible is a collection of methology. It's all an allegory, those stories were never meant to be taken literally. It's such a shame that as these religions gained traction, we totally abandoned knowledge, for superstition.
Eg. In the literal sense. The story of a virgin birth, will never make sense however you try to spin it. However, the principle there is the 'purity' of a women'.
@@MentalFacility-u7o I agree 🎯
@MentalFacility-u7o this is part of the paradox in her argumentation. She speaks about religion and then she speaks on African cultures as if they share the same values which they don't.
@@inaanaking9107but while in the meantime the African culture is powerful than Christian
Destined for greatness this woman. Love her to bits. She says everything some of us are afraid to say. Truly inspirational ❤
Damn Sihle!! Whenever I listen to the penuel show I always listen to hear the guests intention more than anything, and I love how Sphe sounds like she's actually trying to solve a problem more than bash someone else, what a delicious conversation.
"If you have to be a bully, you have to have an upper hand over the person you're bullying... You guys don't have anything I want or anything that I respect! So I can't necessarily say you're bullying me..."
Sheesh!!!
thrs so many w0men offended by her
@@bigthangz5489 which is always weird for me, why would I choose to engage something that offends me? I'd rather watch cartoons
A breath of fresh air,a conservative, disciplined,confident SA🇿🇦 voice,pro rata to her age,her scope is wide, No appropriation of the media talking points, she's Original ❤🤔
And I've been anticipating this for the longest time. Coz wow things that are happening in our SAn communities have been exposed to the negative western notions on Freedom without accountability or responsibility whatsoever and it is not funny..but sad
@@suezcontours6653 👍 thank you. I meant the extreme version of it.
I am about to go follow Sihle on all her platforms because she is a really wise lady ❤❤ I'm 22 and I must say I really want to be like her. I wanna grow up and be a respected woman❤❤
May you be blessed ❤
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Great content as usual Penuel, I would like Sihle to be hosted again, she serves best and such kind of women are needed in Christian space may God bless her and continue the great work
She's very articulate. Beautiful lady ❤ I may not agree with all her views and beliefs, but I respect them
Awwww Sihle maarn you have been sent for such a time as this. Thank you for pouring out like this.
I pray to have a wife that can hold a conversation like this. One think I want my childrent to be, is being an independent thinker and allow your mind to learn and being able to correctly debate social affairs. Women like her are Gold, I can say we are safe as a nation when we have more women like her. Nice interview guys. 🙏❤
Profund. Pick wisely and remember that whoever you marry, that is the future for your children. Been married 29 years and I can attest.
Amazing episode. Sihle is the woman I would want my daughters to listen to (when I have daughters one day).
This was my first time here watching this show and listening to both of them. I thoroughly enjoyed the entire 2 hour show. Thank you
Dope episode.
In 2021 I was suicidal, and was diagnosed with severe depressive disorder. I got the help I needed, and I'm raising awareness about mental health.
Mental health is a real thing in the black community. AboGogo in townships suffer from Dementia, a mental health issue. Bipolar Disorder is a growing issue among black people. Suicide rates are on the rise among blacks.
All I'm saying is, mental health is a real issue in black society.
@thami.rubushe and we have dealt with it traditionally as well. Just because all black people do not run to the biomedical world does not mean mental health never existed within black communities and its a dangerous and ignorant agenda sihle is pushing.
Thank you for this comment Thami. Thank you for standing for mental health. We may not have had a term for it back in the day, but that doesn't invalidate that it existed.
It's a pitty we still have to tell people this, when there is evidence of mental illness all around us.
You’re doing Gods work, may he bless you and the work you do brother 🙏🏽❤️
Manje uthi senzeni, sime silibale ileyonto?
Ibangwa yini vele i-mental health?
Ngabe ikhona i-link phakathi kwe-mental health nengcindezelo or ubandlululo okwenzeka kubantu ngezikhathi ezedlule?
@senzomajola6805 what I've come to find out is that when the four facets of umbilini, uvalo, letswalo or what some may call kundalini, when there is an imbalance here what we as black people would call umoya ophansi amongst other things that is similar to what western biomedical thinking would call mental health issues or depression. A healer or sangoma at times will emulate talk therapy but it will also go into the spiritual realm to help people so to say that mental health in Africans doesn't exist is rubbish.
This shows how important it is for a girl child to have a good and competent father figure image in her life. I enjoyed this interview.
Yes brother! I have been married for 29 years and have adult children. I can attest to the importance of a father figure in a girl's life. I have the life that I live now because my father laid a solid foundation. I wanted same for my children. Both my girls are doing great and we are looking forward to welcoming our first SIL into the family.
@@NMC1634 That is beautiful. I wish you guys nothing but grace. May God be with you all.
Sihle is brave and courageous. Fully support her!
Ohh lm love with this girl ,Thank you for being my voice . 😮
This is deep. We need more of this conversations.
Dankie Penuel for bringing Sihle on , I can’t wait for this one 🙌🏽
The facts machine in the house. Eloquent & articulate. Continue to share your wisdom sisi, we love you.
I started the video thinking I’ll probably watch for 30min. Fast forward, it feels like it’s been 30 minutes but the video is ending ! Beautiful conversation
In this conversation, i just learned that we often listen to people who are also learning, no disrespect... and i just like how she thinks. PEN, you just showed me that saying something with conviction doesn't make it true. Most importantly is that, we should continuously broaden our knowledge in doing research and learning to further have meaningful engagements.. dope convo Tata🤙
@@bernettlifalakane1263 🔥🔥
Touche!
Ayeye, long overdue. This lady is thee breath, kunini ndifuna abuzwe kwezindawo. Big up Pen, smart one Sohle
I didn't know who Sihle was, but I came across one of her videos and thought she made some strong, valid points. But I went into the comments section and was shocked to find a war there...
That's the problem she faces. A lot of people don't seem to like her, and they don't really engage appropriately with whatever message she was delivering. They call her names and attack her motives, but don't engage robustly in conversation.
She's young, too. It's actually refreshing to see a youngster that can think differently and articulate themselves as coherently as she does in the things she posts.
Thanks, Penuel for bringing her on!!! 💪🏾
We love uSihle & we know ukuthi she's gonna get attacked ngoba legender ayilifuni iqiniso. Big up Sihle.
Penuel ndoda... Yoh! Your mind works overtime. Impressive
This girl spake a lot of my mind (The man's mind)!
Thank you for your advocacy.
thank you for bringing such wisdom to the world,the world needs more women like her,Big up 💯
one thing i have come to learn is never underestimating punuels guests. He does not just sit it has to be relatable, challenging and logical in the sense that everyone is raw and Straight
The concept of accountability is quite logical. It begins with self-accountability, and when you hold yourself accountable, everything else in your life tends to fall into place.
But we can only take accountability for your own personal actions. I cannot take accountability for the women that are walking in the streets naked because I personally don't do that and I don't know why people do that. So saying women need to stop behaving in a certain way when not all women actually do that. I think the initial thing to do is to treat women as individuals. I cannot personally be accountable for women smoking when I personally don't smoke. Just saying.
I love this lady's message the only problem is I don't like TikTok so I guess I'll only be able to watch her content on Podcasts. Great interview 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Thanks Penzo for inviting this young brave lady hopefully will see her again in your platform and more woman like her being invited to your show. There was a part where she was speaking about research on Google and how deep she goes for it and she spoke about the books she reads can you kindly ask those books for me(the name of the books that knowledge is needed
She needs to be protected at all costs, she oozes so much wisdom & maturity and she is definitely a noble role model for younger girls.
Trust and believe that young women are not listening to this nonsense
@@Cresentmoon649😂fr
Yeah and I'm going to force my daugher to look up to her once she's teen😃
May God keep you steadfast in your path. There will be challenges, but the journey will be worth it. My hope is your example will light a path for other young girls.
Finally a women who tells the truth
Truth about what💀
I love Siphesihle...1st time I hear of her because i do not have tick tok and I am blown away, I agree with 90% of the things she said. I previously worked 8:00 to 16:00 job and left my job to relocate with my husband, now mainly because of high unemployment rate I am a stay at home wife and mom and it has been a blessing and I actually love and enjoy it!
It maybe because youre married, but what you said is RARE alot of women even if they agree with 90% of what she said they FOCUS on that 10% to the extent of trying to cancel this chic, they always report her videos which get taken down
Penuel's style of questioning is top-shelf
Bro is a groomer and have multiple baby mamas
Sihle just really revived something in me to just keep pushing my work despite the narrative out there. And to be fair, it would seem like ii don't have much going on for me on the surface level, but its deep seated fear that holds me back at time, because ii know what type of messaging things like these get.
I grew up in a Christian background, sheltered a lot because of (in my opinion) fear. But as ii got older ii realized that its all for protection.
I was depressed when ii was young reflecting back and literally rehab taught me a lesson that ii will never ever forget. That good things take time, and to focus on myself.
This is why I don't argue religion. Yoh! Penuel your follow up questions are fire! Well done for standing your ground Sihle.
You know right he have multiple baby mamas
Bro literally have baby mamas💀
I just wanna take this moment to show my appreciation for Sihle's intelligence, critical thinking, perspective, composure and mindset. She's so smart and all though most people don't agree with her, u can clearly see she knows what she's talking about. Anyone who knows how to listen without getting emotions involved can listen to her for hours. She should start her own podcast ❤ Love to see it Sihle
Is the intelligence in the room with us????
@@NostalgiaCore-i4r u can hate her all u want, but the truth is the truth, and she tells the truth. Wena u just wanna hear what u like, learn to be open-minded and accept different thinking. Sihle is very intelligent. Wena u just know how to make jokes, if u disagree with her, explain why u disagree instead of just spamming insults cos u have nothing else to say.
Smart lady, well spoken. She deserves a loudspeaker, siyabulela Pen Elimnyama. Bakhona abanengqondo.
❤️Wisdom and knowledge really shape our lives and our choices ,totally agree our environments do have a certain influence on our behaviour. You are blessed to be exposed to the truth and righteous way of living.Also once you see your mistakes persue change and don’t lean on the past.😊Very true Sihle
Smiling throughout as I listen to Sihle! 😊😊 You are super smart girl.
Penuel, Thank you so much for being so gentle and kind with Sihle, you literally came down to her level and conversed respectfully with her even on topics she had little knowledge of. There were questions that I felt like I was running out of patience with forgetting that she cant know everything, but man you are so patient and I respect it!
Panuel literally have multiple baby mamas💀
@@DressesConceptSo??????
If Christ is your fixed point, you will walk in the wisdom of the Most High. The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom. Well done Siphesihle for speaking out the truth. May God use you more and more to lead the way!
Enjoyed the language breakdown you did. Even though I hold onto the language with everything in me lol, I appreciate the new perspective.
I love this lady, she is so matured. i like the part where she said " we work and get paid our 3K but we do nothing with it and we expect to be trusted on big responsibilities our run the country for that matter.❤
I agree.
23:46 -
Good questions are an indispensable ingredient for good accountability. While we listen, instead of quietly mulling what we might say, we can ask what we might ask. What question might pull back the heart layer under the update I’m hearing - the emotional and spiritual layer that matters most, but often goes untouched?
I admire this conversation to the core!
We have not been given the spirit of fear...but of power, of love and a sound mind..Sihle, this is the scripture that kept replaying in my heard as i was listening to you...may the Lord grant you long life!!
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I raaan❤
Thank you Siphesihle, it's so sad how we're all viewed as liberal. It's sickening to be told that you're wasting your body by being conservative. Society looks at you and automatically thinks of the money you could make using your body. I have 4 daughters, and it is scary. Men are so afraid that one day their women will "wake up" and "boss up".
I love Sihle so much. I feel like people intentionally misunderstand her content. She's not alwys 100% correct but, most of the time she is. I like that she reflects on her content and will reflect and apologize if she has to. She's a much needed young lady.❤Her parents should be proud.
They intentionally misunderstand her to avoid accountability for any action and blame men
Yes, I agree, hey. She isn't always right, but she makes a good point a lot of the time. Some people just don't want to hear her.
Great presentation Sihle, awesome information that you share we need to all walk the talk and be practical Christian's.
Well done, Siphesihle. Keep going and pushing, we definitely need more conservative voices in SA. Love it💕 Coming from a female with the same views.
this girl is just AMAZING, shes just in her own class,oh man
I love how Sihle stands for what she believes in. It is so sad to see black women undervaluing themselves like that, what about the generations to come. Most of us see it but we do speak out like she is
Yet you take part in undervaluing black women.
You are so right. I hope a lot of people listen to you.
I Hope men will persue women like her fully and passionately and leave the rest of us alone pls pls
Sha sha😂😂😂
😂mina ngifuna wena haha
we are begging them please 😂leave us alone
Instead they will be dogging her and pursuing women like you 😂
😂😂😂
Baby girl YOU ARE A PRODUCT FROM FEMINISM.
You went to school, have a job, drive a car, etc
All of this is because of feminism dear.
be grateful love
Fr is she dumb or what💀 someone pick her💀💀
the same feminism she shits on gives her an opinion.
Thats a lie sis . You have been brainwashed to believe that . Feminism didn't allow you anything. My grand went to school in 1967 became an educator .. you have a car because you work , you work because you have a qualification.. education has always been allowed to woman . Woman who were capable have always been allowed to own cars
It doesn't mean feminism should be toxic. She is talking about toxic feminism
@@MolebatsiMokwena-jf7djso, it’s the same as a woman saying “men are trash” ?
She's a real one.... one in a million. All the best to Sipesihle...
I also enjoyed the part about what factors contributed to GBV and the idea of voting as South Africans being shallow. Voting because you want Malema to be president, not because you have read and understood their manifesto.
Oh man, it is the first time I listen to this young, beautiful,intelligent, woman, what a gem south africa has in this woman, she is pure gold man, wow
Ukuhamba ukbona… travelling more and learning different cultures opens one mindset.
Lord, I pray that you would bless my children. Watch over them and keep them safe. Lord give me strength as I struggle to support my sons. As a single mom I’ve been overwhelmed trying to pay all the bills on my own. so where there is lack, Father, I pray that you bring abundance. I pray that my children would grow up to know and love you. Be with them as I raise them each day to be God-fearing lovers of Christ. Give me wisdom and patience as I continue to struggle to provide for my sons❤️
WOW!!!!! It takes an eccentric woman to speak for other eccentric women. She is so daring, some women who follow or have the same discipline or morals wouldn't dare to even speak out on this(myself included), she is a good representation of women. I appreciated this discussion.
She is such a breath of fresh air. Wow.
I can’t help but think of Candice Owens when listening to Sihle
We love Candace owens shame❤. She is a truth speaker
Neh 😁
Candace Owens of Mzansi sounds decent
A people have a messenger. This lady is a messenger.
Her spirit is brave ,honest and pure❤🎉🎊💐..✨🤗🤗😘🤗 Xhosa hun ❤ the most brilliant and smart tribe🎉
This is the side of social media I wanna be part of❤ very thought provoking I love Sihle
I give your Podcast to the rest of SA Podcast 100 % pure content🔥🔥🔥 i love everything about it
i was losing hope in us women but this young lady is enough to light my flame of hope, yes she is young but makes sense. thanks Sihle and thank you too Penuel.
My kids are not loosing their language(Setswana) even if we currently live in England 🏴 and they speak English too. We are even adding more languages to the languages(Swahili and Spanish)they already know. People here make sure to teach their kids their native languages like Indians, Koreans, Chinese, French, Zims(Shona, Ndebele)etc. it is not a loss to teach your kids their native languages just because they live in a different environment to theirs.
Why is it okay for them to be fluent in other people’s languages but not theirs??? I don’t get that
Agreed. You can always add (learn) other languages without having to sacrifice the native tongue.
This was a great conversation, thank you Penuel for this interview
Penuel style of questioning is underrated bruh
Thank you for interview our generation needed to hear this especially this girls
I hate the idea that because the present doesn't work the way we expected it to work maybe we should go back to the past esp when we never experienced the hardship of that past . It is low thinking capacity because no generation was perfect. Yes we can take from the past and merge with those that work currently and forge a new way that might be better. But lets never forget that every path whether 'progressive" or not will have a down side. This battle of the genders is not set in stone, its forging a new path and if we constantly shut it with comparing it to the past we will never see the fruits. And I think its about time we realise that most times its not a men are this or women are that but a fault we all have as humans. Humans are messy in general
So well said, I couldn’t agree more . 👏🏾🙏🏾
I agree with this
I know her from Tiktok. Its funny how i just went ahead and pressed "like" before even listening to her
Mama uyathandwa on behalf of Men la eMzansi 😍❤️
Not just men only
@@SinethembaCele-xc5dh❤
I’m a woman I love her ❤❤❤
The Red Pill - Men's Rights Documentary is very much what this conversation is... what a brilliant Documentary covering why a woman no longer identifies as a feminist...
I enjoyed this ....Sihle is open-minded.
I love her mind. I also love how you are trying to strech it further there. There is a brilliant teacher somewhere in you Penuel.
I wish penuel would bring in Nonhlanhla as well so we can see nuanced views on this matter
Yes!!
Please!!!!
Thanks for the show as usual great content. I am abit late for this one. First time hearing about your guest and she sounds so matured than most of the women who are older than her. Please bring her back again. I like the way she expresses herself.
43:29 it’s for this reason why I as a coloured person would like to learn a few more of our official languages. Communicating with people and conversing with them is a way of showing appreciation and understanding.
Couldn't wait to be plugged in>>>>I love this. Keep up the good work Pen for opening up such conversations its only the beginning. Bless you Lil Sis
I love me some Sihle❤she keeps it 💯
By far the best episode! 👏 Well done!
Giving birth is not the bare minimum, my best friend didn’t know her mother cos she died of child birth. I went to a colleagues wife’s funeral cos she died from child birth to twins. How many men die from taking lunch to their kids if you are going to make that comparison ?
You said men don’t listen to the content creator who directs his message to men but he’s not that popular, even the men in America like KS first started talking to men but only gained popularity when he held women “accountable” because men as a collective don’t care to listen, improve & change! By your standards men are the leaders, which organisation doesn’t hold the leaders accountable first & harder ?
Siphesihle's parents are so fortunate, she's among the embodiments of a 2 parent household... What a beautiful mind from the young lady, may she go far in life.
Thank you for uploading this episode 📺Mr P am watching from vosloorus east Rand
You are a God of Podcasting, Penuel. Thanks for inviting this Goddess. 2024 - what a time to be alive.🎉🎉
About mental health. Mental illness is real and it can be threatening just as your diabetes. The thing with mental health we have people who are undiagnosed speaking about it we misuse the word “depression “ or “anxiety” while they are real people who have this illness and it affects their daily lives. Unfortunately we still have a long way to go in the black community when it comes to mental illness it’s not fiction it’s real staff.
@@michellerisimati yes!!! Like people are neurodivergent like Zakes Bantwini's kids and the son is a literal musical genius.
From today, this moment I am taking accountability for everything I've put myself through... Thank you Sihle for undivuselela❤
Pen i like your show and the broadness the knowledge it brings to society.
Thank you so much for consistently stimulating Mondays you provide us with bhuti...
Much appreciated 👊 ❤
Yoh Sihle....wow you were CLEARLY prepared for this platform
Thank you Sihlee. Your information is big