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  • @OwenCookSelfHelp
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  • @youllmakeit
    @youllmakeit 8 месяцев назад +11

    I legit pray someone has all the videos that aren't here anymore. I learned so much from them and use to go back to them like a book. I'm talking pre 2014 videos.

    • @Sabbathforman
      @Sabbathforman 3 месяца назад

      I tried to memorize as much as possible for that reason. I bet he may have the videos on another site like rumble. I know there is a lot of reddit posts from the old rsd stuff but yeah I miss the old stuff

  • @andreslikesramen
    @andreslikesramen 2 года назад +39

    The negative motivational part to get your goals is defintely the better way. I watched an Andrew Huberman video on goal setting that proves you are more than likely to stay with goals if you focus on how you will fail if you don't do them. Anyway always love the videos they are super helpful . Thank you.

  • @DarkKniteZ
    @DarkKniteZ 2 года назад +10

    Tyler risking his life to teach us a lesson. Love you man

  • @karimahclintonfilms
    @karimahclintonfilms Год назад +2

    Its crazy that content like this only has 19K views. Absolute goldmine of knowledge not found anywhere else

  • @indigosteel
    @indigosteel 2 года назад +11

    I love how your latest content has the vibes of your oldschool videos, but very well refined and perfected. Thank you so much!

    • @afrosenjuxll
      @afrosenjuxll 2 года назад

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  • @martinaleksandrof7863
    @martinaleksandrof7863 2 года назад +1

    Owen....dude...
    The cinematography...On a totally crazy level...Just freaking beautifull!

  • @coolaidforsurebabey5132
    @coolaidforsurebabey5132 2 года назад +2

    Hey guys if your wondering if this is A+ content and questioning how this is free. Just breathe and accept that this content is in your reality and going to advance you 100x. Owen cook info is a cheat code. Best stuff on RUclips, god damn

    • @afrosenjuxll
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  • @HotHeadCringe
    @HotHeadCringe 2 года назад

    Track: Falling Away (Armin van Buuren Remix) Hannah - Location: Apple Music @2:25 - Notes: Merry🎄Christmas. Track starts at 2:25 ends on 5:34.

  • @tmttmf
    @tmttmf 2 года назад +6

    Bro, the lengths you’ve gone for these videos literally make the difference, ahead of the curve and a trend setter, because of rsd I’ve got commas and fw baddies lolol thanks Owen 🎃

  • @ibeAmir
    @ibeAmir Год назад +1

    Thanks for having put out so many great videos so that I can always find great answers and ways on how to come out above what i'm going through at the moment. You've been such a great mentor throughout my life.

  • @otakuharu331
    @otakuharu331 2 года назад +2

    so pretty, the scenery is incredible. Amazing points on how to take back your power. Love the "I am dumb" mindset. We take ourselves too seriously and I am a culprit.

  • @EmberPsycho
    @EmberPsycho 2 года назад +6

    Love the video Owen! Long time fan, attended a few hotseats as well.
    One thing I actually found issue in is how to hold yourself accountable to continue improving after you actually achieve everything you wanted.
    3-4 years of going out and building willpower landed me a girlfriend, 6 figure job, home. All happened right before cough cough year.
    Found myself getting very stagnant in times of comfort and struggling to get back to who I was before and to continue hustling.
    Love coming back to the og for getting me back on the right mindset 💪

  • @plasma-buddha2435
    @plasma-buddha2435 Год назад

    Owen, you're a champion. Thanks brother.

  • @Merritt2323
    @Merritt2323 2 года назад +2

    Might be one of my favorite videos you’ve ever made. Great stuff man!

  • @beemo9
    @beemo9 Год назад

    I like how you synthesize the teachings of the big names in the self improvement world.

  • @gainzplz4028
    @gainzplz4028 2 года назад +1

    Gorgeous views. Love how consistent you always are with these videos, thanks for all your knowledge.

    • @afrosenjuxll
      @afrosenjuxll 2 года назад

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  • @tuannguyen4103
    @tuannguyen4103 Год назад +1

    Thank you Owen, i very much appreciate your content . Its help me a lot since I discovered you last month.

  • @TotallyChase
    @TotallyChase 2 года назад +2

    Thank you Owen, I was just remembering a video where you said no matter if you have to work 10x as much to get to the same place someone else was given because you got to that place. Like it doesn't matter if you had to work 16 hour days for 10 years to become a millionaire and someone else was given a million dollars, you're still a millionaire.
    On the topic of willpower, this is so interesting how it intertwines learning and automated synaptic pathway activations. How it is frustrating to learn something new, but once it is learned it can be activated. The push and impetus in this process is also very interesting to observe. Thanks again Owen.

  • @tomf8784
    @tomf8784 2 года назад +2

    OWEN, you did a video a long while back, which was set on the East Shore of O'ahu and was centred on the topic of Depression and how for the guy starting out who is right at the bottom, its the same sort of process as when Bruce Wayne had to essentially lose his fear of death in order to escape from his prison.
    Just an opinion from a humble friend - but I remember that video was hugely popular and I think it could do with seeing the light of day again as it seems relevant. given Jordan Petersons stance about a month ago on Piers Morgan. I have it myself but not going to repost it for obvious reasons.
    You've don a lot for me, keep winning
    Tom
    Edit: I reckon if you shaved off the first 14 seconds, and did an intro of you now, it would transition pretty good.

  • @jefferysethcoaching9456
    @jefferysethcoaching9456 2 года назад

    I like the pay money and punch in shoulder technique. I had a friend that had “approach anxiety” and on the beach one day, I said, “ f you don’t open, you’re holding my hand all the way back to the car hahaha. He opened.
    I don’t believe in Willpower….I believe in conditioned responses. As far as breaking loose of conditioned responses, I recommend command Z or undoing work that’s changing the structure of the brain and de-conditioning oneself. Also, doing anything different is restructuring the brain as well…whether that’s cold bath, hot sauna, learning jazz flute, juijitsu erc.

  • @julio1982
    @julio1982 2 года назад +3

    This is super high level info. Life changing to identify the fatigues

    • @afrosenjuxll
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  • @dario4385
    @dario4385 2 года назад +1

    Great video! Pushed me to take action, thank you!

  • @Myrrhth
    @Myrrhth 2 года назад +1

    this is what I needed right now, thank you

  • @nickpapageorgio4835
    @nickpapageorgio4835 2 года назад

    From start to finish, this is about Dopamine. Here, it's in the context of the social arts.

  • @TotallyChase
    @TotallyChase 2 года назад

    I just made a video about pushing your edge, and impetus giving the example of Eddie the Eagle, he was the worst at the olympics but pushing his limits the most which is why he is so memorable. I love that movie.

  • @KhalilAynaou
    @KhalilAynaou Год назад

    love it, thank you Owen!

  • @HARwinsOUTagain
    @HARwinsOUTagain 2 года назад

    I needed this. My brain is always on autopilot and keeps me from many experiences.

  • @unatardedelibroscafeyfilosofia
    @unatardedelibroscafeyfilosofia 2 года назад

    The 3 fatigues! one of the best practical concepts from RSD

    • @afrosenjuxll
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  • @nasti362
    @nasti362 2 года назад

    Just watched you on Timcast! This is just what I needed thank you!

  • @shaolin-c9l
    @shaolin-c9l 2 года назад

    download, vibes, cinematography 1000/10

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  • @fasihkhan7777
    @fasihkhan7777 2 года назад

    Reeeaaaly grateful for this video man, definately needed this rn! . Thanks

  • @lejune5083
    @lejune5083 2 года назад

    Hey man that's a awesome view point about that we aren't made for all that we have going on. Very humbling but true thought

  • @komeitakano7976
    @komeitakano7976 2 года назад

    was feelin derpy, turned on this video, instant motivation❤‍🔥

  • @mimjack
    @mimjack 2 года назад

    Yesterday I went out for Halloween dressed as Deadpool, I made everyone I came across part of the party, part of the game. I felt such an expansive energy. This was only one night. but since 2014 I've had many many many such nights and days. I owe A LOT to this ginger bearded high pitched voice nerd. I honestly wonder brother, how cool does it feel that millions of people have had success because they imitated your vibe. You made me want to be happy person and make people around me happy.

    • @afrosenjuxll
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  • @HighAltitudeInvesting
    @HighAltitudeInvesting 2 года назад

    Owen Great choice recording at Lake Powell I have been there and love it there!

  • @DirectorBrazil
    @DirectorBrazil 2 года назад

    I love the coloring on this video. Def see the improvement

  • @MartinTB6
    @MartinTB6 2 года назад +1

    Brother. I struggle with the opposite. Of taking TOO MUCH action. That “never enough” feeling. You may struggle with it too. Of too much action. Getting burnt out. God I know that feeling. Rest. Weakness. Strength in weakness. Jesus Christ help us to heal.

  • @Jameszlin
    @Jameszlin 2 года назад

    Great topic!! Read the willpower instinct for deeper understanding of this element. I have always felt I could do a lot. Yet a lot of people feel that, as long as you have energy flowing. Now the truth is that reality feels REAL REAL when you push yourself to do something. Like getting feedback from your social interactions over and over again. Or running a marathon where your mind and body are against you, wanting you to stop for hours but you push through!!!! Never thought about it as willpower. I thought it was sheer consciousness strength. Willpower is a close accurate word for it I agree.

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  • @kevinslyter
    @kevinslyter 2 года назад +4

    Dam I want to go to lake Powell

  • @rhobodub
    @rhobodub 2 года назад +1

    It’s already not so difficult for me to meet new people (bless RSD for that), but it’s already not so exciting for me either. Maybe, because I haven’t achieved my goals by taking massive action, or it’s simply comfortable for me to be alone at home (music is my girlfriend, as I say), or I’ve got deep issues that are complemented by the war in our country (Ukraine).
    Anyway, I continue forcing myself to say hi to strangers whenever I’m outside and inspiring by videos of the ex-RSD team despite of internal contradictions. I literally trick my brain to do so, as Owen says.
    Hope it’d be better someday, and I’d really enjoy the interactions. Wish you the same. Peace.

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  • @nf-ib2cr
    @nf-ib2cr 2 года назад +1

    This video is sooo practical💯💯💯

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  • @carloslxix6599
    @carloslxix6599 2 года назад

    Great vids man! Keep ‘em up!

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  • @JoseRamos-fh6ds
    @JoseRamos-fh6ds 2 года назад

    Amazing Owen ty I haven’t seen any of your videos since the 90 day challenge but this was a good refresher
    Thank you man

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  • @gregmichael1236
    @gregmichael1236 2 года назад

    Great content . I resonate because I developed a stiff personality . :(

  • @jarredgarretty
    @jarredgarretty 2 года назад

    Loved this one ❤

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  • @realhabilidadessociales
    @realhabilidadessociales 2 года назад

    Good video thanks

  • @amitjain4120
    @amitjain4120 2 года назад

    LOVE this video, would love to know more about how our brain works in social situations, and how to “hack” our brains survival mechanism and become more high status. Are there any books you’d recommend on this topic?

  • @iscareurmum1508
    @iscareurmum1508 2 года назад

    Maaajor value here, tank u!

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  • @216trixie
    @216trixie 2 года назад

    These last couple of videos are exactly what I need to hear and what I'm going through and just good confirmation. Keep up the good work thanks. Is that Dead Horse point?

  • @ayy2193
    @ayy2193 Год назад

    2:25 12:23 21:15

  • @tatewinters5565
    @tatewinters5565 2 года назад

    Is that a quarry lake? It's absolutely huge! Look at those cuts in the rock 👀

  • @paultimmer106
    @paultimmer106 2 года назад

    Love you Owen.🥳

  • @petroniusarbiter2632
    @petroniusarbiter2632 2 года назад

    Looks like you're in Page Arizona. I was just there a month ago. You can rent jetskis for like 275 a person a day and it's a blast!

  • @davecopp9356
    @davecopp9356 2 года назад

    Great video.

  • @bassgodgandhi6559
    @bassgodgandhi6559 2 года назад

    Put these on Spotify bro ✨

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  • @aymanhimself
    @aymanhimself 2 года назад +1

    5 min in and this really resonates. What I find is that I don't even need to give cash or be tapped on the shoulder if I don't approach because whenever I'm with a wing I just do it, it comes off as the easiest thing in the world, they can just stand there and watch and I would do it, but whenever I'm by myself I feel like something just stops me; what could that be, and how do I make myself go all in ?

    • @ponder2006
      @ponder2006 2 года назад +1

      It’s just like how Owen said it. Those are external motivations and they work because there is someone holding you accountable or some associated money loss. When by yourself you need to find that kind of motivation, Owen said to right down the cost of you not taking action, let the pain land when you write it down, that will be the motivation same as someone taking money from you

    • @aymanhimself
      @aymanhimself 2 года назад

      @@ponder2006 I really should hold myself accountable and not be dependent on any form of external motivation.

    • @ponder2006
      @ponder2006 2 года назад

      @@aymanhimself Yes that is important. But dont underestimate motivations. Your brain is very powerful at keeping you happy and satisfied where you are. You need something to force you to take action at least at first until you get momentum

  • @DefeatLust
    @DefeatLust 2 года назад

    The goat

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  • @teddyv2798
    @teddyv2798 2 года назад

    Like the video but where did you get the shirt jacket really nice

  • @tonyednalvo
    @tonyednalvo 9 месяцев назад

    Saw this the week it came out, today im rewatching it and panicking

    • @tatewinters5565
      @tatewinters5565 5 месяцев назад

      Why did you panick watching this video?

    • @tonyednalvo
      @tonyednalvo 5 месяцев назад

      @@tatewinters5565 "should've listened" coupled with "how did i not see this"

  • @chromyb.
    @chromyb. Год назад

    gem

  • @samuraisaint2360
    @samuraisaint2360 2 года назад

    As someone who is boardine handicapped since birth defects that infected my speech. By share balls an will power I was able to approach a playboy model in a club in San Francisco an was able to vibe , get a hung an share good energy. Felt like I was jumping out of a airplane and I realized I could fly like Peter Pan in essence. My wingman was terrified to back me in the approach even thou he was very competent speaker an tall guy.

  • @Full2635
    @Full2635 2 года назад

    Those sceneries

  • @TotallyChase
    @TotallyChase 2 года назад

    The Overton Window is stretching right? You the prophet.

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  • @johndodson8464
    @johndodson8464 2 года назад

    There's a bracelet you can get that has an inflatable balloon as a flotation device. You guys need some of those when boating.

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  • @MrMadisonSocial
    @MrMadisonSocial 2 года назад

    Beautiful intro shot @owen cook

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  • @mcaldwell27
    @mcaldwell27 2 года назад

    Owen, what's your camera man's name? Does he have a channel? I met him in Chicago but forgot to ask. Love the content!

  • @angelcontreras3956
    @angelcontreras3956 2 года назад

    Thank thank thank you this video clicked I’m my subconscious that I can see how I’m sabotaging my self from editing fx on my videos. I’m so dumb

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  • @Myrrhth
    @Myrrhth 2 года назад

    so what youre saying is I should practice talking on the side of a cliff?

  • @hahahashish
    @hahahashish 2 года назад

    hey guys, try sailing, audio will be amazing 🤣

    • @hahahashish
      @hahahashish 2 года назад

      just kidding, I love your content, good stuff ❤

  • @nf-ib2cr
    @nf-ib2cr 2 года назад

    💯💯💯

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  • @HotHeadCringe
    @HotHeadCringe 2 года назад

    ❤Content.

  • @olivertaveras9896
    @olivertaveras9896 2 года назад

    Bro your videos are so fuckin dope

  • @arminunruh452
    @arminunruh452 2 года назад

    first!

  • @chrissa1896
    @chrissa1896 2 года назад

    I'm a bit dumbfounded ... I actually thought that you can get to a higher paradigm where you don't need willpower anymore. I'd love to hear clarification from you, even if it is just a "You can't" or "you can". I'm stuck for a while now, running in circles, and I need a hint on how to get out.

  • @Lightbringer.528
    @Lightbringer.528 Год назад

    epic views

  • @louisroblesdemedina5990
    @louisroblesdemedina5990 2 года назад

    Premortum

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    @0xnpctim 2 года назад

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  • @ninjareflex
    @ninjareflex 2 года назад +2

    Love u Owen but this is like the 3rd video so i must say; please stop supporting these culture vulture "fashion" brands that steal native American designs.