One year later and my experiences (you know my back story) are making this video even clearer to me. It's seems easy but its so damn hard. You want to fix it but reality is that you can't fix it. You have to have your other women (don't loose your hoes). You have to not need respect, generate respect from who you are, your goals, your achievements and not women or society. You have to let her leave when you start noticing disrespect. Engineer this shit, do it over and over again untill it gets easier. You know your shit RM. Fuck.
The worst thing a man can do is try to fix shit. If she starts treating you bad.BAIL!!!! Better to be alone and have self respect,than kiss some miserable womans ass. I regret trying to fix my failed realtionships. So much wasted time.
Exactly. And the reason it's so hard and futile to fix anything is because she enjoys seeing you sweat and suffer. So guess what? She complicates it deliberately, sabotaging your very best efforts. Fuck trying to fix it. Let it burn.
My fellow Kenyan... We are fortunate to be redpilled brother... How many Kenyans are thinking marriage is sweet?? Many of us don't know MGTOW... We should push this movement in Kenya and Africa
The only way for a man to be respected in a relationship (short or long term) is if the woman KNOWS for a fact that he can and will go out the door if she disrespects him.
Thats a nice idea but I dont think it works in reality. Women always find ways to accuse you of having have behaved badly and hurt them. This is the core of the problem: Women wrongs you - You react by going out of the door. Two or three days later she texts him "I am sorry if I have hurt you". One week later: "I am sorry that I have hurt you". Man comes back, woman disrespects him after some days again, he leaves again... now forever. Man meets new woman.. game starts all over again. I dont think this is a solution. The only solution for respect as I see it is to get the right woman from the beginning on. One that has a loving heart and is able to change with time to the better even through some fights and quarrels. Gaining respect for each other even while one knows that the other one can look bad.. stink and do major errors. Still loving the other one and holding the other one up is a core characteristic that has to be learned.
seitekihikaru - For woman to respect a man,.. She first has to WANT him, & not depend on him,... not to see him, simply as a MEAL TICKET for the rest of her life,... but to ADORE him in every way possible, and to demonstrate this at every moment possible,.... in the smallest things. SEX, should not be a means of control or punishment,... but is a THERMOMETER of how healthy your relationship IS,... If she has enetered into the situation based on an EMOTIONAL LIE, then generally, the only intmacy you wil ever show or feel, will be OBLIGATORY & NOT true - because you have PROSTITUTED yourself, and do not respect yourself,... so how can you ever respect the MAN you have CHOOSEN to be a PARASITE upon .
And thats a damn shame. Cause that also shows that shes not important to us. Which is true, but it REALLT sucks that *thats* the card we have to pull just to keep her.
Sad but true. Part of the dynamic for women is the novelty of something new. When a woman has been in a relationship long enough, you're old news, and she's looking for something new and exciting, which is her idea of romance and love. Men look at this more logically, and understand how enfatuation dwindles, but see the value in loyalty building as this happens. This is where many men are in for a surprise, because women often have no loyalty or appreciation for what a man has done for her up to the present moment, and continuously look for her best option whether for fun and excitement or a better trade for another man's resources. Hypergamy rules for women, and this is their version of love.
Women,... basically treat, use and have the same 'loyalty' towards men,... as men do about their jobs. A man, generally uses and looks upon his job, as no more than a 'utility', a resource, and a momentary 'means to an end', based on the current or limited conditions he finds himself. Should his needs change, he (like she, in regard to her 'current' man) will move on at the next opportunity,... and will BEGRUDINGLY go through the 'daily motions' whlie keeping alert for the - next best thing. When he/she leaves,... there is no remorse, just the seeking of the better more satisfying situation. - - to HER, the IDEAL guy, is the one she will break all the rules to be with and fcuk him anywhere,... when he says FCUK,... she says 'hell YES'... however this 'bad-boy' guy moves on FAST,... and she then 'settles' ( probably pregnant ) for the DEAL with the 'nice guy',... which to her is a compromise right from the start,... so sex, now, is a CHORE, NOT driven as a desire, she knows she's a WHORE,, living a (an emotional ) LIE,... SHE'S cheating herself, pretending she's in the situation she wants to be,... while YEARNING for the bad-boy passion. From here on in, everything including SEX is a negotiation, a fight, a manipulation,... of her 'nice guy' , and when he says FCUK,... she says fcuk NO !!!!
Correct, women in the past had one chance, one opportunity to select the best matching provider for life, so as she ages, and deteriorates in short time, he will be there to support her, after she's hit the wall, but today, with make up and conveniences, women can prolong their beauty but even then there needs to be some source of funding and that's where men are taken advantage. Men need to cut that off, sadly. Women lie with make up. So that's one thing a guy should look for, women who don't prize their makeup. A low maintenance woman, yeah, might not be Miss America, but as long as she can get you into the mood, that's all that matters.
Tony A Yes. To look really good all you need is SENSIBLE diet, REGULAR exercise, GOOD sleep, decent enough fitting clothes and SLIGHT makeup ( basically a touch-up).....no more. Any female who is into above average makeup at the expense of the above points is just fooling herself as well as the man.
@@main_stream_media_is_a_joke Sleep? What's sleep? Us guys are worthless pieces of... if we caught sleeping. All those things are like a full time job these days. Pampered dolls spend the whole day in these regimens. But yeah, is true. Even a good wife is going to show some wear and tare, after pushing out a few babies and raising them, pulling her weight in the partnership..
There's a saying which goes, "familiarity breeds contempt," which I believe is the essence of what you are saying in your video which I am in agreement with. You can be a rockstar or a famous actor and you're still not going to be able to satisfy the ever-changing whims of your girlfriend or wife. Happiness comes from within not from without.
Give your wife a slap on the ass every now and then! Keep things lively and not boring! Peel out with the car, ignore her whining! Enjoy life regardless of any testing or criticism!
So true. I was just told by wife of 35 years marriage, that romance was killed decades ago because I wouldn't hold her hands in public and I don't buy presents for her. Christmas etc.
this is WELL DONE. I am just a bit younger than you at 46, and living in Nicaragua, and I have slowly come to this information, and of course I was always trying my hardest to please one, one who was crazy about me at one time, but then slowly started to fade to disrespect. Really, once you catch one whiff of disrespect, the relationship has left you, and it is time to let her go.
Women,... basically treat, use and have the same 'loyalty' towards men,... as men do about their jobs. A man, generally uses and looks upon his job, as no more than a 'utility', a resource, and a momentary 'means to an end', based on the current or limited conditions he finds himself. Should his needs change, he (like she, in regard to her 'current' man) will move on at the next opportunity,... and will BEGRUDINGLY go through the 'daily motions' whlie keeping alert for the - next best thing. When he/she leaves,... there is no remorse, just the seeking of the better more satisfying situation. - - to HER, the IDEAL guy, is the one she will break all the rules to be with and fcuk him anywhere,... when he says FCUK,... she says 'hell YES'... however this 'bad-boy' guy moves on FAST,... and she then 'settles' ( probably pregnant ) for the DEAL with the 'nice guy',... which to her is a compromise right from the start,... so sex, now, is a CHORE, NOT driven as a desire, she knows she's a WHORE,, living a (an emotional ) LIE,... SHE'S cheating herself, pretending she's in the situation she wants to be,... while YEARNING for the bad-boy passion. From here on in, everything including SEX is a negotiation, a fight, a manipulation,... of her 'nice guy' , and when he says FCUK,... she says fcuk NO !!!!
@@tonybrowns649 I just got this message from F U Tube, 3 years later. I lived in Granada for 1.5 years and absolutely loved it, wouldn't trade that experience for the world.
I‘ve gone through this, and it sucked. Guys have to be willing to walk away from women when the woman gets to that point of being bored, and disrespecting the guy. This separates the alpha from the beta. A beta will try so hard to put the toothpaste back into the tube, and you just can‘t do it. You have to walk away.
yep..that is so true..took me like forever to understand that concept...and now i see women for what they really are. kinda sad too....pure creatures....
True!!! In this case the "toothpaste" represents respect. I learned the hard way that a man can recover from many things. Certain types of character faults, or even infidelity it's possible to recover from. Once a woman has lost respect for a man however, it's a wrap. And "fighting"/ "pleading" for redemption makes him look even weaker to her. Like you said...it's best to walk away, learn,& move on.
Phillip Cotton ...And that statement is so TRUE pleading for redemption is frutile don’t do it .. what’ll you’ll hear or subconsciously hear from her in her Cruevilla Deville ..voice “ GET UR BITCH BOY ASS OUT OF MY FACE”
exactly Stop getting the tab is perfect way to do it. Then ur free they will almost immediately find a bs reason to break up.shows woman's true motivations
For me, in a long term relationship, it wasn't so much about the sex as it was the commitment itself. She might not have even been a dynamo in bed, but if she was the kind to concernedly come scoop me up when my car broke down on the highway at midnight, that's a keeper, or so you'd think. Knowing what I know now, I'd tread carefully, because the very thing that makes you grateful to them could very well be the one thing they resent you for. Womens' thinking is weird and far twisted than I ever could have possibly imagined when I was younger.
You're welcome, buddy! 🙂 It takes a while to really figure this stuff out. A long time! And at one time, I thought it was just me going through the motions with women. It was both a relief and saddening to see just how wrong I was, if that makes any sense.
Know the feeling well Avery. Change requires being wrong in most cases. That's too difficult for many men. Once I realize I'm wrong, it's relatively easy to look for solutions and keep trying them until change occurs. Rinse wash repeat!
I really had to chime in here ,,, yea exactly you thought she had value like ,,,dare I say it like a man and put herself out to help you out in a jam and BAMM,,,,,!! Sometime later it's being thrown back in your face ,,, which hurts double cos as I said you thought you had some kind of value or trust going ,,,and now your being ambushed and berrated for accepting an act of love? ,,kindness,,? or care,,.? friendship ? In your mind ,,,!!! That you've probably done so many times for so many folks ,,, it was nothing ,,, ,,,, just saying ,,,
Long term relationships DO work. They are not common simply because they take a LOT of work, a lot of communication and a LOT of compromise. Most people who attempt these kinds of connections bailout when it becomes plain what it takes to make them work.Fact: Long term relationships are not for everybody. Fact: To make a long term relationship work you need to believe that the entity produced by two people is more important than either individual. Fact: A relationship without Purpose will not survive. Relationships are not for the shallow, fainthearted or wannabes. If you are not up for it, that's OK.
I have listened to this episode a few times to actually get it and been through wringer a few times and RM is bang on, in my experience. Let her go, outride the pain and let her go with her dignity in tact, or what’s left of it!
Very wise. Of course it's no guarantee but if you leave her with her female pride, she will be less likely to do things that could hurt you. It's very counterintuitive and can be challenging because on the way out they often do things that rile you up to respond.
They will lose respect to those that give them stuff (whether material or not) without girl actually earning it (and deep down she knows it) - it’s human nature in general
I feel like I've already done that with some relationships. Breaking up is a process. There comes the point where you make a choice, she doesn't like it because it doesn't include her, you try to be nice to her, but you know there's no coming back. I had a girlfriend like that. I really liked her. Enjoyed the sex, we lived together, but I decided I didn't want to take the next step with her. She was very hurt, but she didn't want to be alone just yet. During the last 2-3 months, I moved into another bedroom in her condo, the same bedroom her ex before me slept in. She asked me what my plan was. It seemed like she was giving me the choice, so I laid out a plan that was all in my favor. She thought about it for a couple of weeks, then decided to cut my timeline short. I got a new place and within a few months, I got another career opportunity that moved me out of town. it was a great deal. However, I still maintained friendship with her. I had a commitment that required me to attend some meetings once a month over the next 3-4 months. When I told her about it, she offered me to stay with her on those nights I came back to town. The sex was great. The friendship continued. Things actually got better for her in her life as they did for me after that. But I know what you mean by that point of no return, when they lose respect for you. Women are very unforgiving that way. You can still ease your way out, avoid the post-relationship drama and keep your self-respect.
What I admire about you is that you never come off as a woman hater like some of the other MGTOW guys . You just seem to live in reality, judgment free. You just keep it real.
Gotta say you are bang on the nail man! I have been a very long haul dude, 20+ years with one til it became ever more stale and she ended it, but as you rightly said, I had her very best years, never thought of it like that back then when it all happened, it's a hell of a positive to come away with. It always feels that men in relationships are held to such high standards, viewed under a microscope, yet so often women are the one's who fail miserably to come up to standard or better!
James Davis yeah I was with my wife 12.5 years. The first four were great and she was very hot with beautiful natural double d tits....I guess I need to focus on that then the misery I allowed the last 7 years.
This is so articulate! When you talk about "doubling down" & getting her to leave you on "her terms". I call that the "illusory takeaway" I have another called "advanced illusory takeaway". It works so fucking well because you're placating her ego by letting her believe you're not the "man" for her. With these techniques you will keep the Cluster b and crazy at bay!! Thanks, dude!
Great video. What i learned is, no matter how great i become, how rich, famous, buff, or talented i can make myself. I can never entertain a woman for the long term.
@the champ -correct. Next stop: draw a curtain on trying to entertain them, which is why they split. Entertain yourself, and they are here for your entertainment. Period. If they're not entertaining, they're not acting correctly, in my eyes. Your mindset is still focused on them in your statement. I understand, I do it myself. But catch yourself on these thoughts. You. Are the Prize. if you have that mentality, you're where you need to be. And it will reflect in your orientation and comments.
Holy crap you're so insanely spot on, absolutely amazing listening to your stuff man how much it resonates with my experience. I'm pushing hard for my brothers to listen to your stuff, this one in particular, as one has made the mistake of marriage and the other is just about to. I'm the only one who hasn't and never will. Thanks so much for everything Paul, cheers from Australia.
Thanks Paul! Ronin Man episodes don't come from rehashing other stuff on the net. I dig down in my own experience and try to find useful info that others can use. Appreciate your kind words! If you can, come to the Melbourne Summit Jan 10-12th. The boys are all gearing up. It's gonna be good. If you haven't seen it, here's a breakdown ruclips.net/video/1ZJe3ZEbRHs/видео.html
Thanks Jimmy! Knowing how it all works makes the whole process easier. A guy knows what to expect and doesn't take it personally. In fact, he can be ahead of the game and make proactive choices to avoid it entirely or to opt out before the real pain comes. And to make smarter choices in future
This one was a real eye opener for me, so much good stuff in here. That line "It's better to make a lot of girls happy than to make one girl miserable" really resonates with me. Really good video, great work Ronin Man!
YES! I have done this "letting them drop me" technique with all my short and long terms! I too gradually become less interesting and gain 25-30 pounds. Although with my ex wife it took gaining 100 pounds and asking my old boss (who was divorce raped) to demote me and drop my hours for her to divorce me without taking a thing from me (LOL SCORE!).
Your boss is worth his weight in gold! Guys the man. Very rare to have men help each other like that. Your comment got me laughing up my morning coffee here in Bangkok. thanks Njoydancing!
Adoration is a concentrated form of respect. When a woman loses that for you she is gone, it doesn't matter what you did in the past for her or how fun you used to be, all that shit is erased in her mind.
Shakespeare said it best: Familiarity breeds contempt, or was it disdain. I agree with you , best make many women happy then one unhappy. By the time one come around again she hasn't seen you in days or even weeks, and she is HAPPY to see you and whatever you do is great; see her everyday and she starts to demand and nag for MORE.
This was spot on broski 👌 Did a long term from 20 - 26 (basically was a married man) stumbled on the manipulated man and now i’m free at 27 ready to explore all that life has to offer
All true except as you get older you get better at pretty much everything. If you get with a woman who has some idea of reality then as you get older so does she and the more she realizes that you are the best part of her life. But if you choose poorly then you are fucked.
I am 58 cohabitating with a 39 years old woman for the last 9 years. In the begining years she used to suck my penis early in the morning before going to her low paid job. Now, I bear all her expenses , and she says O oldie , whenever she is horny. I ignore, she repeats several times rubbing my groin with her leg. Finally, I come into action.
It's funny. I've come back to this channel after a few years and this is a different view from other MGTOW channels such as Howard Dare. It's a lot more positive in some ways and doesn't just take a negative view on women. 11:08 What RoninMan said here is in direct contradiction with Howard Dare who would say KEEP HER MISERABLE and had a video with that title 11:44 Wow to that guy's advice.
Perfect description Of how to get out of an old stale relationship where you’re not respected or she has let her body get out of shape. In my last long-term relationship I told my wife “don’t get fat” . When I notice she was putting on weight I knew then that the relationship was over and I engineered her out just as you described. I’ve done that many times and none of them have ever caught on just like you mentioned. Great work you’re doing keep it up.
I watch an over 60 yo woman and I can't grasp it how the older she gets, the more irrational and emotionally unstable she becomes. It was a shock to me that a woman that age can be so illogical, driven purely by emotions, making false accusations, endlessly trying to draw attention herself, trying to elicit pity for herself and complaining of her alleged ordeal of cooking and cleaning every few days. she worked maybe 2-3 years in her whole life and endlessly tries to impress her husband with the exhausting things she did during the day- mopped the floor, made dinner and went shopping. She makes such a big deal of it. The more I watch older women (I am a young man myself) the more convinced I become it's best to never marry. Another woman I know, almost 40 yo, worked maybe for 1 year in her life, married a wealthy guy, she's lazy, hardly ever cleans, cooks once a week, has plenty of $ to spend, indulges herself to everything she wants and she's never pleasant to her husband, she doesn't respect him, doesn;t appreciate him, is always upset. I don't get what a guy with lots of $ gets out of it?
@@RoninMan so the girls on Fresh and Fit are the worst of the worst, but they are just the extreme version of todays woman. Actually, women will behave as badly as they are allowed to by society so women are just being more honest.
@ 20:28 Refer to the 1st corollary of Briffault's law which states that a past benefit provided by the male does not provide for continued or future association.
MeatRocket99 Two kid knees. By that measure ,I have given her 4 kid knees. She respects me fine...from her mother's house. (She takes care of her parents in their twilight years) Respect is earned. You give it to yourself before anybody else notices. You also take it away from yourself in the same way. It matters not what anybody else says about that. It is an inside game. Women simply notice whether you have done the work ...... or not. Sex can relate here but, it is not about sex in reality. If that were the case, you would not feel like crap over this subject. My advice would not be about sex. It would be about, don't do things that hurt children. They pay for what you leave behind. It is not necessary to hurt people, just to get off. That, in my opinion ,is being alpha.
Married 13 years and tired of the disrespect and sexless marriage, after ups and downs and a last try I finally had enough, had a talk and she agreed, we're getting divorced. I guess her agreeing with what I told her is kind of letting her think it's also her decision (I would leave anyway) , and we don't hate each other, we're still on friendly terms, but I've known her for 20 years, she seems oddly at ease with it and I suspect she already has someone waiting in the wings even if she hasn't cheated. Having said that, there was no fire anymore but she seemed content to remain in the marriage out of comfort and the kids, while at the same time not doing anything now to stop me from leaving. So I'm finding her behavior a bit strange.
Ronin Man exactly the same experiences here with multi dating and monogamy. You've articulated something I only sensed and kept beating myself up about. Many thanks! I have a nawalt-ish one now but again recently after health issues I got that spidey sense tingle that things may have started that slight and almost imperceptible cooldown that is gonna end in a really bad way relationship wise. I was busy thinking about how I wish I am wrong this time, before I watched your video, now I am already thinking when it comes to that point that will be when I start multi-dating again.
You are correct in the way to depart a relationship. Having the detached emotional state of walking away is the best position be in. I would add.. Do something everyday for someone, even if it is something they can never pay you back for. Do it even if you are never recognizes for what you have done. You will begin a path of righteous self actualization and success that cannot be described in words. If its a chick with no respect that you have helped... walk.
The reason she loses respect for you is because she never respected you. You're just a fun ride. Respect is built day by day. Its built through a combination of love, chastisement, and physical disciplining a woman. If she gets out of line she should expect the disciplinary consequence of her action. If she does not fear the consequences that are enforceable by you then shell lose respect. Respect is very important to a man. It's so important that God kicked Lucifer and his band of angels out of heaven over being disrespected. God also kicked Adam and Eve out of the garden for being disrespected. Since it's important to God its definitely important to man
I admire how Ronin breaks the concept scientifically, even if you just friends with a woman long term ,she will lose respect for you & start taking the guy for granted ..keep up the great work Ronin ,this channel rocks🎉
I had never been disrespected before as I had experienced with the mother of my child in spite of doing everything right. This is exactly what I needed to hear.
I heard it said somewhere that there was a study of men vs women regarding the question: Would you rather be in a marriage/relationship in which you feel unloved but respected, or loved but unrespected? Surprise, it split decidedly down sexual lines, that men would rather have respect, even without love, and women can live without feeling respected, as long as she feels loved. Who could have predicted that?
This is as good as your Marriage: The End of Sex video, in other words, superb. So grateful I found your channel. The critical commonality is their truth, and the just-the-facts presentation of information that frees men because it demonstrates that, frankly, these problems are not our fault. These things are just the way they are. Thank you so very much.
lots of deep wisdom there Ronin. so many things there echoed with my own experiences. I've had lots of anecdotal scenes where you could really tell how respect is an entirely different concept for men and women (honor is another one which most women aren't probably even genetically capable of understanding). anecdote 1: I was visiting an enterpreneur friend in Bucharest. he makes mid 6 figures in USD from his business which is EXTREMELY good money for Romania, and is generally a very funny and social guy. he had a pro model LTR GF at the time (3 years into the LTR), 8 years younger than him, and me and another pro IM guy both stayed at his place for a few days. and what shocked me was how his GF treated him at the time. she was literally, habitually, putting him down in front of us, saying how "we both know who does all the work in this relationship", "your ideas never work out anyway", etc. and not just jokingly, no, with a sour face and a contemptuous smirk. and that while he was financing her own ambition of starting a designer clothes boutique and online shop. that literally blew me away, I mean yes the chick had T&A of very high quality (seen her near-naked in a thong bikini at the Bucharest Therme Spa - was the first time that I actually saw a goodlooking girl sport a thong at a public pool, too), but I'd have kicked her ass right out the door the same day if she were my GF. the Romanian friend btw never said anything even remotely rude to her while we were around. and yes, sure enough, the Romanian friend did kick her out a few months later, then went through a crazy Russian chick and a Thai chick in quick succession and currently basically is single and happy with it. anecdote 2: while chatting to a Russian woman I knew for numerous years from RL (married mother of a teenage daughter, around 40), and who had always seemed fairly reasonable, we came upon the topic of the civil war in Eastern Ukraine (both of us being of course heavily against the current Neonazi Ukrainian regime and supporting the Novorussian republics in the east of Ukraine). I mentioned a young 20-year-old guy from Germany, born in a Russian German emigrant family, who actually went by himself twice as a volunteer to defend the independence of the Novorussian republics, just out of abstract loyalty and honor to his ancestors (who were from the region), not even making any money or anything, and not even speaking very good Russian himself. to me, that's very honorable and worth of major respect - by far not every guy out there will stand up and be ready to fight and die thousands of kms away, just for the honor of his ancestors and the self-determination right of some people whose language he does not even speak very well. many locals in the area actually just ran off across the border to safe Russia, instead of joining the fight (luckily not all, otherwise it'd all long be Neonazi-land by now). he was totally inexperienced with combat, so they mostly kept him off the frontlines doing logistics and support jobs, but his very action and motives are IMHO more than admirable. now, how did my Russian acquaintance characterize him? "stupid child" and "cannon fodder". those are verbatim quotes. that left me f-ing speechless and then really angry, when she stubbornly persisted on that viewpoint. this woman has never fought anyone in her life. women dont serve in Russia (healthy men are ALL drafted at 18 for a year of military service, with only a few exceptions). she probably cant fight or shoot a gun to save her life. she has never lifted anything heavier than a handbag, doing some mundane office job in Moscow marketing/sales of a mobile accessories retailer (yet she holds her "skills" in very high esteem). she lives in a country which is built on MONUMENTAL sacrifice of tens of millions of men's lives, both in WW2 (where almost 50% of Russian men between 18 and 45 died fighting Nazi Germany, and just 3% of women - since they were next to non-present at the frontlines) and in other more recent conflicts such as Chechnya etc (where I would've been drafted since I was the right age at the time - 18 - except that I was very short-sighted and deemed only limited-capable, i.e. only during wartime), where men pay near 80% of the taxes (since the traditional women's role is to sit home with the children, and even if they do work, it's usually in safe and routine low-paid office and clerk jobs), where men live 15 YEARS LESS than women on average (among other things, because men shoulder ALL the stress and ALL the danger - workplace fatalities are near 100% male in Russia - and because women are vastly over-represented in the free healthcare system AND the pension system, paid for by men). the average Russian man DOES NOT LIVE TO SEE HIS PENSION (average death at 58 from heart trouble and stroke, pension at 60). the average Russian woman lives 18 YEARS as a pensioner (they get to retire at 55 and live to 73 on average). and when a young idealistic guy actually goes above and beyond that and volunteers his LIFE for honor and duty, this woman just spits on him gleefully. what an idiot, from her standpoint. he should rather work off his ass at BMW or Daimler, make lots of money, and give it all to some stupid broad like herself. I'm paraphrasing what she said to me afterwards to justify her words. interestingly enough, I challenged her to ask a few of her male friends or relatives about their viewpoint on this. she asked two (a work colleague and her father) and BOTH sided with me completely, which absolutely astonished her. she then quickly polled all her female friends to confirm her world view, who of course all sided with her.
I think your point is that this woman was pretty materialistical. Im a man and I understand patriotical feelings, I myself have russian ancestry in my blood, I find it honorable of the young guy to have went into war, yet on the other side it is truly dangerous and he is truly young and inexperienced, not a professional. I think that all sane opinions have a weight in this world, but I get your point about some women wanting men to simply work for them instead of doing something good or honorable.
The great majority had to have been another guy's chick. In my experience - single chicks are always shopping for that sucker. They'll come and they'll go based upon whether they think they've found one or not. But in the beginning they want to hang out way more than once a week. If you shut them down to once a week - they'll realize you're game oriented, and will go right back to shopping. They will still show up so long as the sex is good, but it's nothing you could plan a calendar around. The only time I've had chicks where I could plan a schedule around, and have it be routine for years on end - is married chicks. Which means your 4-7 were married chicks. Which means you had to have focused on married chicks and a routine for locking down the side guy role. The others, coming and going, were the single chicks shopping for a sucker. I'm not judging. Just looking for the common denominator with my experiences. Am I right in this assumption?
If I am - do you have a video that is strictly your program for this technique? I've found the funnest relationships I've ever had were with married chicks, as the H takes all the BS while I was her vacation. Which of course means she's always at her funnest. And they can never hang out long enough to be annoying. I've just never thought about being systematic with it. But I'm sure it was awesome.
Countless women who I was once involved in has ask me where do I see myself in 3 to 5 years , It took me all this time to realize , That wasn't a concern they had for me or our well being :; That question was ask of me to see what's in it for them and what's their percentage at the divorce , I'm glad I was dogged out for being the nice guy because i'm about to receive 2 retirements and then I'm going back to nursing ,......... I'm still in my health and strength , I still body build , and have my own in all regards , Hey Ladies , these 2 fingers i'm holding up is not a peace sign ................................ IT'S DUECES .
The secret to keeping respect in a relationship for me is.. keeping my word on everything. If I threatened to leave they know damn well that I WILL GO ! Be honest about what you like and expect. Do not ever deviate from something you have made clear. Because the first time you do..SHE WILL OWN YOU. AND NEVER RESPECT YOUR OPINIONS AGAIN. Have some balls and stand up for yourself. Women need compromise. To feel comfortable. But never break your own rules.
in all the marriages I know the wife has no respect for her husband even though they earn well, are faithful, obedient, caring. I even know a guy who after 40 years of marriage got slapped, offended & nagged for a few hours just because he came back home drunk. I realized that there is no pleasing women. no matter what you do, they always complain
@ Ronin Man, Wow, thanks for the warning! Unbelievable insight ! I have never heard this! You were livin it ! The right guy in the right place at the right time! This information is priceless!
The analogy with an old car that starts to break down... sell it cheap, and let the next owner deal with fixing all that shit, she'll be comparing you with that other guy, and the more he tries the more she will realise she fucked up, but it is toooooo late, she is out of your life. Divorced women tend to eventually fuck the ex because they realise he wasn't as bad as the new one, smart men fuck them when they go pick up the kids but keep them at a distance, with vasectomy in place WITHOUT telling her. And you are tight, she does need that self esteem boost to say I left him because he was closer after all. Some women can take a whole lot of abuse though, specially if they think you are the best they can do compared to whoever approaches them, and if you are a fairly successful guy, that means most other guys are below you in her eyes, so the exit strategy has to be different; you need to start having financial trouble, asking HER for loans, "losing" your job, always in a panic over money, car breaks down and cannot fix it... just a few weeks of this and she's out the door with lots of apologies and It's not you its me, I have changes and of course it is not because you lost your job you are a great person for ANOTHER woman, you'll find somebody better... and out she goes, make sure she stays gone because the guilt will fuck with her SOME and you need to not take her back. After a while, if she tries to check on you to see how you're doing and tries to come back, just tell her you found someone else and you hope she is also happy as you are, it will be hard if she shows up at your door dressed sexy, so DO NOT invite her in, and have your sister or female friend call her [if need be] to "ask" he what she wants showing up when she is not there, "yes of course he told me." That should fix that. Good luck.
I was stuck with a consumer for 3.5 years and couldn't figure out how to get away from her without serious vindictive repercussions. She was mean and controlling. I knew if I actually broke up with her she'd call the cops on me and invent all kinds of lies to get me arrested. How I was able to get out was I stopped having sex with her the final year. Maybe 2x that year. She eventually found some other sap to shack up with and moved on. Never gave me any grief afterwards.
An effective way to have respect for the man in long term relationships would be if the marriage laws were set up so that a woman would usually never really get anything financially or gain anything from the man if she left, or if he chose to leave. The lack of respect would really be during this post feminism era that we're in. I'm not saying that I realistically want the world to go this way, but it was a standard way things were for much of human history. I'm very sure that in previous centuries the man had respect from his wife. If you can imagine a situation in the middle ages, where hypothetically you were married, but if you left instead of getting what women get today, you'd be going back to sharing a one room house with your parents and helping them plough their field, or worse you living with your in-laws, I'm sure you would respect your husband.
Hey Christina! I think that family courts should be forced to abide by the current laws not because of respect but just to abide by the legal principles they are based upon. The laws are fair or close to fair on paper but judges don’t abide by them and favor women. This is a violation of basic human rights of children and fathers and should not be permitted. As some groups have advocated, I believe that family courts have proven themselves unable to police themselves and that the FBI should get involved and judges and lawyers that violate laws should be disbarred and jailed. False allegations should be punished at least as long a sentence as the alleged crime.
@@RoninMan ok, this is interesting information from you. I have to admit I officially don't know the legal details myself about the family court system...all I know is that everyone keeps implying that the laws are not fair. I always interpreted this to be simply that the laws in this field are not right/fair. However you have now added on an extra layer in what you have said, what your saying implies that there are fair laws but that there is some form of corruption/corrupt actions taking place... which makes it so much worse.
@@christinatachdjian3752 most guys don’t know either. Even if they lost a very unfair case. It’s only if you slog through reading the laws do you find that they are basically fair as written. It’s a stain on our present times that they are not t enforced to the great detriment of children. Statistically it’s a nightmare for kids. They lose the only man who will love them unconditionally and have greatly increased risk of teen pregnancy, drug abuse and incarceration
Ronin Man: Of course, I was only (half) kidding. I remember seeing cracks in the matrix, asking my parents about my doubts before marriage, and getting hollow sentiments in return. Similarly, it is clear the extent to which mass media, religion, etc. essentially groom young men for the slaughter. Now it seems that if you are questioning/doubting the natural order, the information is freely available. I only wonder what more that means....
If I were going to predict the future, which I'm not good at, I'd say, if the volume of men avoiding marriage due to unfair treatment rises significantly, society will react by agreeing to some MGTOW and MRA demands. Perhaps a few changes in family law? Just enough to placate the middle of the roaders. Nothing significant enough to stop smart men from making choices that are in their interests. Men are essentially waking up. This has never happened before that I'm aware of and is very dangerous for the people, companies, governments who rely on the status quo of men working for women and buying a lot of stuff, paying a lot of tax and being a scapegoat (speed traps to give expensive tickets to a man on his rare holiday, taxes on the middle class and on and on. Society has killed the golden goose and there's no telling what this will lead to
Do you think a woman harbor resentment when a man will have sex with her but will not impregnate her, even if it's just subconscious she must understand or believe on some level that he does not think highly enough of her to procreate with her and perhaps this causes dissatisfaction. What are your thoughts?
Also some women do not think they will be wanted if they can't give you a child. Sort of a different angle on the procreation dissatisfaction. She worries that she is not enough to keep you unless there is a kid tying you together!
They did a study and found it all over the world regardless of cultural or religious values there was a spike where women left Men When the children reached four years old. One theory for this is that is the age when historically children would have been able to walk and gather their own food. There's no way to be sure why but the phenomenon was there.
They seem to use the time around you to file incidents and situations that worked or showed you at a disadvantage or in a bad light. Then the EVIDENCE is used in the court of her to condemn you to firing squad with no cigarette.
I created a different playlist for this video for myself cause I know that in a few days in my daily busy life, I will forgot these important concepts!
Ronin, you have come to the same conclusions as I have. Not only that but I’m doing what your doing. I think this outloook is the way to deal with relationships and it works for me as well.
Thanks Jolly Joker! If you like this one, you'll love the latest episode. Some overlap on the topic. Check it out here! ruclips.net/video/ji0J8Bp8lzI/видео.html
The part where she didnt understand what you did for her reminded me of another channel i watch when he often says "women are really just children with breast"
I'm so glad I never got married. I live in Thailand where there are plenty of young ladies under 30 years old that make themselves available for 'short term' rent to men.
Hey Brother, great insight and great vids! I’ve lived the last 10 years mostly in Asia and have enjoyed not being tied to one woman and have lived very similarly to how You have. Now However, the girl I REALLY was into after 10 years of searching is 7 months pregnant, however the lack of respect has now become extreme. I want to be there for the birth and to assist her and bring about a Bless ed’ Family. Yet, if there is continuously no respect how to manage’. Lack of respect that leads to confrontations where my only option is to step away... Can You be a great Father and not be with the Mother!? Welcoming All thoughts gentlemen’ Responsibility, Love for my Daughter, and what once was with my Lover, and then the Self Respect to not take the emotional abuse... Thanks Gents! 🙏
There are no easy answers. Read, study, listen to your ever changing inner voice and act decisively. Men change after seeing their offspring so keep in mind that your own feelings may change suddenly.
RELATIONSHIPS CAN BE SOMETHING TRUELY BEAUTIFUL TO REQUIRE SUCH A RELATIONSHIP ITS IMPORTANT TO MAKE CLEAR THAT EITHER THE BOY OR THE GIRL IS THE SLAVE IN THE RELATIONSHIP
I think women adore men so much that they subconsciously try to do everything that we do that is admirable (be strong, be powerful, provide) but they do it using manipulation as a shortcut without realizing they aren't being even being feminine! Such a turn off that they don't even realize. That's why a lot of powerful women are single
One year later and my experiences (you know my back story) are making this video even clearer to me.
It's seems easy but its so damn hard. You want to fix it but reality is that you can't fix it. You have to have your other women (don't loose your hoes). You have to not need respect, generate respect from who you are, your goals, your achievements and not women or society. You have to let her leave when you start noticing disrespect. Engineer this shit, do it over and over again untill it gets easier.
You know your shit RM. Fuck.
Kenyan Man! Agreed that it ain't easy.
The worst thing a man can do is try to fix shit. If she starts treating you bad.BAIL!!!! Better to be alone and have self respect,than kiss some miserable womans ass. I regret trying to fix my failed realtionships. So much wasted time.
Daniel Decker #respect
Exactly. And the reason it's so hard and futile to fix anything is because she enjoys seeing you sweat and suffer. So guess what? She complicates it deliberately, sabotaging your very best efforts. Fuck trying to fix it. Let it burn.
My fellow Kenyan... We are fortunate to be redpilled brother... How many Kenyans are thinking marriage is sweet?? Many of us don't know MGTOW... We should push this movement in Kenya and Africa
The only way for a man to be respected in a relationship (short or long term) is if the woman KNOWS for a fact that he can and will go out the door if she disrespects him.
Thats a nice idea but I dont think it works in reality. Women always find ways to accuse you of having have behaved badly and hurt them. This is the core of the problem: Women wrongs you - You react by going out of the door. Two or three days later she texts him "I am sorry if I have hurt you". One week later: "I am sorry that I have hurt you". Man comes back, woman disrespects him after some days again, he leaves again... now forever. Man meets new woman.. game starts all over again. I dont think this is a solution.
The only solution for respect as I see it is to get the right woman from the beginning on. One that has a loving heart and is able to change with time to the better even through some fights and quarrels. Gaining respect for each other even while one knows that the other one can look bad.. stink and do major errors. Still loving the other one and holding the other one up is a core characteristic that has to be learned.
seitekihikaru - For woman to respect a man,.. She first has to WANT him, & not depend on him,... not to see him, simply as a MEAL TICKET for the rest of her life,... but to ADORE him in every way possible, and to demonstrate this at every moment possible,.... in the smallest things. SEX, should not be a means of control or punishment,... but is a THERMOMETER of how healthy your relationship IS,... If she has enetered into the situation based on an EMOTIONAL LIE, then generally, the only intmacy you wil ever show or feel, will be OBLIGATORY & NOT true - because you have PROSTITUTED yourself, and do not respect yourself,... so how can you ever respect the MAN you have CHOOSEN to be a PARASITE upon .
If a women has to withhold disrespectful behavior out of fear (of him leaving) then the relationship is doomed anyway and she's just manipulating him.
Laura S. On the contrary; her unaccountable, irresponsible, selfish, and greedy parasite nature is all that is doomed. As it well should be!
And thats a damn shame.
Cause that also shows that shes not important to us.
Which is true, but it REALLT sucks that *thats* the card we have to pull just to keep her.
They know deep inside they are worthless, so they despise you for nevertheless wanting them, as you must be then even less worth.
There is a degree of truth in that bro...
Sad but true. Part of the dynamic for women is the novelty of something new. When a woman has been in a relationship long enough, you're old news, and she's looking for something new and exciting, which is her idea of romance and love. Men look at this more logically, and understand how enfatuation dwindles, but see the value in loyalty building as this happens. This is where many men are in for a surprise, because women often have no loyalty or appreciation for what a man has done for her up to the present moment, and continuously look for her best option whether for fun and excitement or a better trade for another man's resources. Hypergamy rules for women, and this is their version of love.
Mr F
See briffaults law for a further explanation of the true female nature
Women,... basically treat, use and have the same 'loyalty' towards men,... as men do about their jobs. A man, generally uses and looks upon his job, as no more than a 'utility', a resource, and a momentary 'means to an end', based on the current or limited conditions he finds himself. Should his needs change, he (like she, in regard to her 'current' man) will move on at the next opportunity,... and will BEGRUDINGLY go through the 'daily motions' whlie keeping alert for the - next best thing. When he/she leaves,... there is no remorse, just the seeking of the better more satisfying situation. - - to HER, the IDEAL guy, is the one she will break all the rules to be with and fcuk him anywhere,... when he says FCUK,... she says 'hell YES'... however this 'bad-boy' guy moves on FAST,... and she then 'settles' ( probably pregnant ) for the DEAL with the 'nice guy',... which to her is a compromise right from the start,... so sex, now, is a CHORE, NOT driven as a desire, she knows she's a WHORE,, living a (an emotional ) LIE,... SHE'S cheating herself, pretending she's in the situation she wants to be,... while YEARNING for the bad-boy passion. From here on in, everything including SEX is a negotiation, a fight, a manipulation,... of her 'nice guy' , and when he says FCUK,... she says fcuk NO !!!!
Correct, women in the past had one chance, one opportunity to select the best matching provider for life, so as she ages, and deteriorates in short time, he will be there to support her, after she's hit the wall, but today, with make up and conveniences, women can prolong their beauty but even then there needs to be some source of funding and that's where men are taken advantage. Men need to cut that off, sadly. Women lie with make up. So that's one thing a guy should look for, women who don't prize their makeup. A low maintenance woman, yeah, might not be Miss America, but as long as she can get you into the mood, that's all that matters.
Tony A Yes.
To look really good all you need is SENSIBLE diet, REGULAR exercise, GOOD sleep, decent enough fitting clothes and SLIGHT makeup ( basically a touch-up).....no more.
Any female who is into above average makeup at the expense of the above points is just fooling herself as well as the man.
@@main_stream_media_is_a_joke Sleep? What's sleep? Us guys are worthless pieces of... if we caught sleeping. All those things are like a full time job these days. Pampered dolls spend the whole day in these regimens. But yeah, is true. Even a good wife is going to show some wear and tare, after pushing out a few babies and raising them, pulling her weight in the partnership..
There's a saying which goes, "familiarity breeds contempt," which I believe is the essence of what you are saying in your video which I am in agreement with. You can be a rockstar or a famous actor and you're still not going to be able to satisfy the ever-changing whims of your girlfriend or wife. Happiness comes from within not from without.
Give your wife a slap on the ass every now and then! Keep things lively and not boring! Peel out with the car, ignore her whining! Enjoy life regardless of any testing or criticism!
Yep true.
yes 👍
@@superchuck3259 Exactly. Basically do what you want and stop being a puss that’s beholden to everything your wife says. You’re the man- act like it.
So true. I was just told by wife of 35 years marriage, that romance was killed decades ago because I wouldn't hold her hands in public and I don't buy presents for her. Christmas etc.
A woman only respects you if she fears you. Fear is a part of her respect. Letting her leave you is mgtow advanced classes.
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Wrong so wrong...
@@suziewheeler6530
Women only fears of loosing the perks she is getting from men. Thats why concubine respects man , not wife or girlfriend.
@@suziewheeler6530 true so true
100% right even if people don't like it..a fact is a fact
this is WELL DONE. I am just a bit younger than you at 46, and living in Nicaragua, and I have slowly come to this information, and of course I was always trying my hardest to please one, one who was crazy about me at one time, but then slowly started to fade to disrespect. Really, once you catch one whiff of disrespect, the relationship has left you, and it is time to let her go.
AnAmericanMan how is nicaragua for an american. I've read good things.
AmericanMan, I'm interested in Granada, and would like your opinion if that's OK; What's your email? Mine is MondayWasher@gmail.com
Women,... basically treat, use and have the same 'loyalty' towards men,... as men do about their jobs. A man, generally uses and looks upon his job, as no more than a 'utility', a resource, and a momentary 'means to an end', based on the current or limited conditions he finds himself. Should his needs change, he (like she, in regard to her 'current' man) will move on at the next opportunity,... and will BEGRUDINGLY go through the 'daily motions' whlie keeping alert for the - next best thing. When he/she leaves,... there is no remorse, just the seeking of the better more satisfying situation. - - to HER, the IDEAL guy, is the one she will break all the rules to be with and fcuk him anywhere,... when he says FCUK,... she says 'hell YES'... however this 'bad-boy' guy moves on FAST,... and she then 'settles' ( probably pregnant ) for the DEAL with the 'nice guy',... which to her is a compromise right from the start,... so sex, now, is a CHORE, NOT driven as a desire, she knows she's a WHORE,, living a (an emotional ) LIE,... SHE'S cheating herself, pretending she's in the situation she wants to be,... while YEARNING for the bad-boy passion. From here on in, everything including SEX is a negotiation, a fight, a manipulation,... of her 'nice guy' , and when he says FCUK,... she says fcuk NO !!!!
@@GUITARTIME2024 F U Tube just sent me this message four years later. Nicaragua is great, and the people are humble and kind. My GF now is Nica.
@@tonybrowns649 I just got this message from F U Tube, 3 years later. I lived in Granada for 1.5 years and absolutely loved it, wouldn't trade that experience for the world.
I‘ve gone through this, and it sucked. Guys have to be willing to walk away from women when the woman gets to that point of being bored, and disrespecting the guy. This separates the alpha from the beta. A beta will try so hard to put the toothpaste back into the tube, and you just can‘t do it. You have to walk away.
Matt H amen!
yep..that is so true..took me like forever to understand that concept...and now i see women for what they really are. kinda sad too....pure creatures....
True!!! In this case the "toothpaste" represents respect. I learned the hard way that a man can recover from many things. Certain types of character faults, or even infidelity it's possible to recover from. Once a woman has lost respect for a man however, it's a wrap. And "fighting"/ "pleading" for redemption makes him look even weaker to her. Like you said...it's best to walk away, learn,& move on.
Phillip Cotton ...And that statement is so TRUE pleading for redemption is frutile don’t do it .. what’ll you’ll hear or subconsciously hear from her in her Cruevilla Deville ..voice “ GET UR BITCH BOY ASS OUT OF MY FACE”
Let them break up with you is the smartest thing. That is what I have been doing for years and it has saved me so much trouble
john doe lol yup
exactly Stop getting the tab is perfect way to do it. Then ur free they will almost immediately find a bs reason to break up.shows woman's true motivations
was always and will ever be the best tactic to handle relationships. ;)
+cry like child to make it real and let them feel sorry for it too :)
I was such a damn fool for getting married! It was a dignity syphon.
Women can't respect men who stick around because a con artist can only have disdain and resentment for a mark who keeps falling for the same trick.
very well put my friend...that's exactly what happens!
For me, in a long term relationship, it wasn't so much about the sex as it was the commitment itself.
She might not have even been a dynamo in bed, but if she was the kind to concernedly come scoop me up when my car broke down on the highway at midnight, that's a keeper, or so you'd think.
Knowing what I know now, I'd tread carefully, because the very thing that makes you grateful to them could very well be the one thing they resent you for.
Womens' thinking is weird and far twisted than I ever could have possibly imagined when I was younger.
No good deed goes unpunished! lol Thanks for your comment Avery!
You're welcome, buddy! 🙂 It takes a while to really figure this stuff out. A long time! And at one time, I thought it was just me going through the motions with women. It was both a relief and saddening to see just how wrong I was, if that makes any sense.
Know the feeling well Avery. Change requires being wrong in most cases. That's too difficult for many men. Once I realize I'm wrong, it's relatively easy to look for solutions and keep trying them until change occurs. Rinse wash repeat!
I concur 100%.
I really had to chime in here ,,, yea exactly you thought she had value like ,,,dare I say it like a man and put herself out to help you out in a jam and BAMM,,,,,!! Sometime later it's being thrown back in your face ,,, which hurts double cos as I said you thought you had some kind of value or trust going ,,,and now your being ambushed and berrated for accepting an act of love? ,,kindness,,? or care,,.? friendship ? In your mind ,,,!!! That you've probably done so many times for so many folks ,,, it was nothing ,,, ,,,, just saying ,,,
This guy is dropping some serious wisdom. If I'd heard this 12 years ago it would've saved me a LOOOOT of misery
he doesn't know that 12 years ago, that's all.
Long term relationships DO work. They are not common simply because they take a LOT of work, a lot of communication and a LOT of compromise. Most people who attempt these kinds of connections bailout when it becomes plain what it takes to make them work.Fact: Long term relationships are not for everybody. Fact: To make a long term relationship work you need to believe that the entity produced by two people is more important than either individual. Fact: A relationship without Purpose will not survive. Relationships are not for the shallow, fainthearted or wannabes. If you are not up for it, that's OK.
compromise = sell out your soul
Spot on.
I have listened to this episode a few times to actually get it and been through wringer a few times and RM is bang on, in my experience. Let her go, outride the pain and let her go with her dignity in tact, or what’s left of it!
Very wise. Of course it's no guarantee but if you leave her with her female pride, she will be less likely to do things that could hurt you. It's very counterintuitive and can be challenging because on the way out they often do things that rile you up to respond.
They will lose respect to those that give them stuff (whether material or not) without girl actually earning it (and deep down she knows it) - it’s human nature in general
I feel like I've already done that with some relationships. Breaking up is a process. There comes the point where you make a choice, she doesn't like it because it doesn't include her, you try to be nice to her, but you know there's no coming back. I had a girlfriend like that. I really liked her. Enjoyed the sex, we lived together, but I decided I didn't want to take the next step with her. She was very hurt, but she didn't want to be alone just yet. During the last 2-3 months, I moved into another bedroom in her condo, the same bedroom her ex before me slept in. She asked me what my plan was. It seemed like she was giving me the choice, so I laid out a plan that was all in my favor. She thought about it for a couple of weeks, then decided to cut my timeline short. I got a new place and within a few months, I got another career opportunity that moved me out of town. it was a great deal. However, I still maintained friendship with her. I had a commitment that required me to attend some meetings once a month over the next 3-4 months. When I told her about it, she offered me to stay with her on those nights I came back to town. The sex was great. The friendship continued. Things actually got better for her in her life as they did for me after that.
But I know what you mean by that point of no return, when they lose respect for you. Women are very unforgiving that way. You can still ease your way out, avoid the post-relationship drama and keep your self-respect.
What I admire about you is that you never come off as a woman hater like some of the other MGTOW guys . You just seem to live in reality, judgment free. You just keep it real.
Gotta say you are bang on the nail man! I have been a very long haul dude, 20+ years with one til it became ever more stale and she ended it, but as you rightly said, I had her very best years, never thought of it like that back then when it all happened, it's a hell of a positive to come away with. It always feels that men in relationships are held to such high standards, viewed under a microscope, yet so often women are the one's who fail miserably to come up to standard or better!
James Davis yeah I was with my wife 12.5 years. The first four were great and she was very hot with beautiful natural double d tits....I guess I need to focus on that then the misery I allowed the last 7 years.
This is so articulate!
When you talk about "doubling down" & getting her to leave you on "her terms". I call that the "illusory takeaway" I have another called "advanced illusory takeaway".
It works so fucking well because you're placating her ego by letting her believe you're not the "man" for her. With these techniques you will keep the Cluster b and crazy at bay!!
Thanks, dude!
Great video. What i learned is, no matter how great i become, how rich, famous, buff, or talented i can make myself. I can never entertain a woman for the long term.
Why would you want to waste your time doing that ?
brad pitt is a good example. rich good lokking gave the woman kids and adopted some extras...still didnt please her
Cause she need more attention from other men she needs to have it all "to obtain the unobtainable!" That's what we call greedy!
@the champ -correct. Next stop: draw a curtain on trying to entertain them, which is why they split. Entertain yourself, and they are here for your entertainment. Period. If they're not entertaining, they're not acting correctly, in my eyes. Your mindset is still focused on them in your statement. I understand, I do it myself. But catch yourself on these thoughts. You. Are the Prize. if you have that mentality, you're where you need to be. And it will reflect in your orientation and comments.
Holy crap you're so insanely spot on, absolutely amazing listening to your stuff man how much it resonates with my experience. I'm pushing hard for my brothers to listen to your stuff, this one in particular, as one has made the mistake of marriage and the other is just about to. I'm the only one who hasn't and never will.
Thanks so much for everything Paul, cheers from Australia.
Thanks Paul! Ronin Man episodes don't come from rehashing other stuff on the net. I dig down in my own experience and try to find useful info that others can use. Appreciate your kind words! If you can, come to the Melbourne Summit Jan 10-12th. The boys are all gearing up. It's gonna be good. If you haven't seen it, here's a breakdown ruclips.net/video/1ZJe3ZEbRHs/видео.html
This is one of THE best videos on long term relationships EVER. I need to watch this EVERY SINGLE MORNING!!
Thanks Jimmy! Knowing how it all works makes the whole process easier. A guy knows what to expect and doesn't take it personally. In fact, he can be ahead of the game and make proactive choices to avoid it entirely or to opt out before the real pain comes. And to make smarter choices in future
This one was a real eye opener for me, so much good stuff in here. That line "It's better to make a lot of girls happy than to make one girl miserable" really resonates with me. Really good video, great work Ronin Man!
James Bentley thanks James! Yea Whitey was the man. Dropping wisdom to the young dudes. Lucky to have been his friend
Ronin Man that was a great line.
YES! I have done this "letting them drop me" technique with all my short and long terms! I too gradually become less interesting and gain 25-30 pounds. Although with my ex wife it took gaining 100 pounds and asking my old boss (who was divorce raped) to demote me and drop my hours for her to divorce me without taking a thing from me (LOL SCORE!).
Your boss is worth his weight in gold! Guys the man. Very rare to have men help each other like that. Your comment got me laughing up my morning coffee here in Bangkok. thanks Njoydancing!
wow we need for ideas like this passed around! let them leave without taking anything, like if that is possible.
Adoration is a concentrated form of respect. When a woman loses that for you she is gone, it doesn't matter what you did in the past for her or how fun you used to be, all that shit is erased in her mind.
Shakespeare said it best: Familiarity breeds contempt, or was it disdain.
I agree with you , best make many women happy then one unhappy. By the time one come around again she hasn't seen you in days or even weeks, and she is HAPPY to see you and whatever you do is great; see her everyday and she starts to demand and nag for MORE.
Yes, women take for granted whatever you do for them. AWALT.
Wanting to be Respected / Admired by Women is Men's Kryptonite - Thanks Ronin Man
No doubt!
This was spot on broski 👌 Did a long term from 20 - 26 (basically was a married man) stumbled on the manipulated man and now i’m free at 27 ready to explore all that life has to offer
When a woman asked me to change I simply said you knew many men just like that. Why did you choose me?
Damn your right on the money man, you've really analyzed this stuff. Your describing many of my experiences and others that I have witnessed.
If he is perfect , she is still gonna complain that he is "too perfect" , so she will nitpick and make excuses to self-justify her fading attraction
I replace women every 10 years, I start a new adventure and excitement, feels like I'm always in honeymoon, i love my life
Fascinating concept Ronin ,thank you for delving into this
Thanks John!
Everything you've said in this (and other videos) rings true in my experience. Real wisdom here.
Look at older couples, the guy is almost always a shell of himself.
All true except as you get older you get better at pretty much everything. If you get with a woman who has some idea of reality then as you get older so does she and the more she realizes that you are the best part of her life. But if you choose poorly then you are fucked.
I am 58 cohabitating with a 39 years old woman for the last 9 years. In the begining years she used to suck my penis early in the morning before going to her low paid job.
Now, I bear all her expenses , and she says O oldie , whenever she is horny. I ignore, she repeats several times rubbing my groin with her leg.
Finally, I come into action.
Ronin is the best. Thank you for your desire to help Men figure out all of this crazy shit.
It's funny. I've come back to this channel after a few years and this is a different view from other MGTOW channels such as Howard Dare. It's a lot more positive in some ways and doesn't just take a negative view on women. 11:08 What RoninMan said here is in direct contradiction with Howard Dare who would say KEEP HER MISERABLE and had a video with that title 11:44 Wow to that guy's advice.
Perfect description Of how to get out of an old stale relationship where you’re not respected or she has let her body get out of shape. In my last long-term relationship I told my wife “don’t get fat” . When I notice she was putting on weight I knew then that the relationship was over and I engineered her out just as you described. I’ve done that many times and none of them have ever caught on just like you mentioned. Great work you’re doing keep it up.
Very smart. Saved yourself a boatload of headaches. Thanks John!
Wow why are you bold btw? Judgemental fool everyone becomes sick or old . Should couples abandon each other because of that?
I watch an over 60 yo woman and I can't grasp it how the older she gets, the more irrational and emotionally unstable she becomes. It was a shock to me that a woman that age can be so illogical, driven purely by emotions, making false accusations, endlessly trying to draw attention herself, trying to elicit pity for herself and complaining of her alleged ordeal of cooking and cleaning every few days. she worked maybe 2-3 years in her whole life and endlessly tries to impress her husband with the exhausting things she did during the day- mopped the floor, made dinner and went shopping. She makes such a big deal of it. The more I watch older women (I am a young man myself) the more convinced I become it's best to never marry.
Another woman I know, almost 40 yo, worked maybe for 1 year in her life, married a wealthy guy, she's lazy, hardly ever cleans, cooks once a week, has plenty of $ to spend, indulges herself to everything she wants and she's never pleasant to her husband, she doesn't respect him, doesn;t appreciate him, is always upset. I don't get what a guy with lots of $ gets out of it?
I actually paused the video to read this. That's what happens with a highly interesting comment.
I guess that the second guy gets to lose half of all his $$$$ when it's all over.
@@davebellamy4867 not quite. If they were to divorce, she'd have to pay off half of the loan they took so she's waiting for him to pay it off.
2018, “This would never happen to Tom Brady.” Opps
Things are in flux. That’s how bad it is now. Even the best of the best get it
@@RoninMan so the girls on Fresh and Fit are the worst of the worst, but they are just the extreme version of todays woman. Actually, women will behave as badly as they are allowed to by society so women are just being more honest.
You sir deserve more subscribers! Thanks for the truth bombs.
Francois Vandal thanks Francois!
@ 20:28 Refer to the 1st corollary of Briffault's law which states that a past benefit provided by the male does not provide for continued or future association.
I found out also you can give a chick a kidney and she still won't have gratitude!
Yes I agree my ex wife had stag 4 cancer my insurance paid out over one million dollors , but dosn't care .
MeatRocket99 Two kid knees. By that measure ,I have given her 4 kid knees. She respects me fine...from her mother's house. (She takes care of her parents in their twilight years) Respect is earned. You give it to yourself before anybody else notices. You also take it away from yourself in the same way. It matters not what anybody else says about that. It is an inside game. Women simply notice whether you have done the work ...... or not. Sex can relate here but, it is not about sex in reality. If that were the case, you would not feel like crap over this subject. My advice would not be about sex. It would be about, don't do things that hurt children. They pay for what you leave behind. It is not necessary to hurt people, just to get off. That, in my opinion ,is being alpha.
Married 13 years and tired of the disrespect and sexless marriage, after ups and downs and a last try I finally had enough, had a talk and she agreed, we're getting divorced. I guess her agreeing with what I told her is kind of letting her think it's also her decision (I would leave anyway) , and we don't hate each other, we're still on friendly terms, but I've known her for 20 years, she seems oddly at ease with it and I suspect she already has someone waiting in the wings even if she hasn't cheated. Having said that, there was no fire anymore but she seemed content to remain in the marriage out of comfort and the kids, while at the same time not doing anything now to stop me from leaving. So I'm finding her behavior a bit strange.
Don't you love her as she's walking out the door?
Why long term relationships don't work
Ronin Man exactly the same experiences here with multi dating and monogamy. You've articulated something I only sensed and kept beating myself up about. Many thanks! I have a nawalt-ish one now but again recently after health issues I got that spidey sense tingle that things may have started that slight and almost imperceptible cooldown that is gonna end in a really bad way relationship wise. I was busy thinking about how I wish I am wrong this time, before I watched your video, now I am already thinking when it comes to that point that will be when I start multi-dating again.
+Ronin Man Knows da wae! Never re-open the door!! ruclips.net/video/dPlqd3Y55cU/видео.html
What's the longest relationship you've been in?
Because after so many problems you have to call it quits. The more long term the more problems.
Its lack of commitment.
Coach RP, Early Rollo Tomassi videos were the most educational videos for me, they helped me a lot!
Dads...introduce the sons to this as earlier as is possible.
12:04 Ha! You're kind of talking about Richard Feynman here. The woke types have tried to cancel him posthumously.
You need to always show her you are wanted by other women and she will respect and ride you like a wild horse, most of the time!
Short term, tactics like this can work well
You are correct in the way to depart a relationship. Having the detached emotional state of walking away is the best position be in. I would add.. Do something everyday for someone, even if it is something they can never pay you back for. Do it even if you are never recognizes for what you have done. You will begin a path of righteous self actualization and success that cannot be described in words. If its a chick with no respect that you have helped... walk.
I can dig that. Thanks Jay
The reason she loses respect for you is because she never respected you. You're just a fun ride. Respect is built day by day. Its built through a combination of love, chastisement, and physical disciplining a woman. If she gets out of line she should expect the disciplinary consequence of her action. If she does not fear the consequences that are enforceable by you then shell lose respect.
Respect is very important to a man. It's so important that God kicked Lucifer and his band of angels out of heaven over being disrespected. God also kicked Adam and Eve out of the garden for being disrespected. Since it's important to God its definitely important to man
I admire how Ronin breaks the concept scientifically, even if you just friends with a woman long term ,she will lose respect for you & start taking the guy for granted ..keep up the great work Ronin ,this channel rocks🎉
There are exceptions to the rule of course
Love is a choice. You can love someone when it is hard to love them. Love and Lust are different!
Charles Granata Right! Love is a verb, an Action.
I agree, it's a choice and a decision to be made. Love is not Hollywood romance.
I had never been disrespected before as I had experienced with the mother of my child in spite of doing everything right. This is exactly what I needed to hear.
I heard it said somewhere that there was a study of men vs women regarding the question: Would you rather be in a marriage/relationship in which you feel unloved but respected, or loved but unrespected? Surprise, it split decidedly down sexual lines, that men would rather have respect, even without love, and women can live without feeling respected, as long as she feels loved. Who could have predicted that?
My friend used to call "suffocating the relationship" slowly as "turning off the drain."
This was AWESOME Ronin Man!
This is as good as your Marriage: The End of Sex video, in other words, superb. So grateful I found your channel. The critical commonality is their truth, and the just-the-facts presentation of information that frees men because it demonstrates that, frankly, these problems are not our fault. These things are just the way they are. Thank you so very much.
lots of deep wisdom there Ronin. so many things there echoed with my own experiences. I've had lots of anecdotal scenes where you could really tell how respect is an entirely different concept for men and women (honor is another one which most women aren't probably even genetically capable of understanding).
anecdote 1:
I was visiting an enterpreneur friend in Bucharest. he makes mid 6 figures in USD from his business which is EXTREMELY good money for Romania, and is generally a very funny and social guy. he had a pro model LTR GF at the time (3 years into the LTR), 8 years younger than him, and me and another pro IM guy both stayed at his place for a few days. and what shocked me was how his GF treated him at the time. she was literally, habitually, putting him down in front of us, saying how "we both know who does all the work in this relationship", "your ideas never work out anyway", etc. and not just jokingly, no, with a sour face and a contemptuous smirk. and that while he was financing her own ambition of starting a designer clothes boutique and online shop. that literally blew me away, I mean yes the chick had T&A of very high quality (seen her near-naked in a thong bikini at the Bucharest Therme Spa - was the first time that I actually saw a goodlooking girl sport a thong at a public pool, too), but I'd have kicked her ass right out the door the same day if she were my GF. the Romanian friend btw never said anything even remotely rude to her while we were around.
and yes, sure enough, the Romanian friend did kick her out a few months later, then went through a crazy Russian chick and a Thai chick in quick succession and currently basically is single and happy with it.
anecdote 2:
while chatting to a Russian woman I knew for numerous years from RL (married mother of a teenage daughter, around 40), and who had always seemed fairly reasonable, we came upon the topic of the civil war in Eastern Ukraine (both of us being of course heavily against the current Neonazi Ukrainian regime and supporting the Novorussian republics in the east of Ukraine). I mentioned a young 20-year-old guy from Germany, born in a Russian German emigrant family, who actually went by himself twice as a volunteer to defend the independence of the Novorussian republics, just out of abstract loyalty and honor to his ancestors (who were from the region), not even making any money or anything, and not even speaking very good Russian himself. to me, that's very honorable and worth of major respect - by far not every guy out there will stand up and be ready to fight and die thousands of kms away, just for the honor of his ancestors and the self-determination right of some people whose language he does not even speak very well. many locals in the area actually just ran off across the border to safe Russia, instead of joining the fight (luckily not all, otherwise it'd all long be Neonazi-land by now). he was totally inexperienced with combat, so they mostly kept him off the frontlines doing logistics and support jobs, but his very action and motives are IMHO more than admirable.
now, how did my Russian acquaintance characterize him? "stupid child" and "cannon fodder". those are verbatim quotes. that left me f-ing speechless and then really angry, when she stubbornly persisted on that viewpoint. this woman has never fought anyone in her life. women dont serve in Russia (healthy men are ALL drafted at 18 for a year of military service, with only a few exceptions). she probably cant fight or shoot a gun to save her life. she has never lifted anything heavier than a handbag, doing some mundane office job in Moscow marketing/sales of a mobile accessories retailer (yet she holds her "skills" in very high esteem). she lives in a country which is built on MONUMENTAL sacrifice of tens of millions of men's lives, both in WW2 (where almost 50% of Russian men between 18 and 45 died fighting Nazi Germany, and just 3% of women - since they were next to non-present at the frontlines) and in other more recent conflicts such as Chechnya etc (where I would've been drafted since I was the right age at the time - 18 - except that I was very short-sighted and deemed only limited-capable, i.e. only during wartime), where men pay near 80% of the taxes (since the traditional women's role is to sit home with the children, and even if they do work, it's usually in safe and routine low-paid office and clerk jobs), where men live 15 YEARS LESS than women on average (among other things, because men shoulder ALL the stress and ALL the danger - workplace fatalities are near 100% male in Russia - and because women are vastly over-represented in the free healthcare system AND the pension system, paid for by men). the average Russian man DOES NOT LIVE TO SEE HIS PENSION (average death at 58 from heart trouble and stroke, pension at 60). the average Russian woman lives 18 YEARS as a pensioner (they get to retire at 55 and live to 73 on average).
and when a young idealistic guy actually goes above and beyond that and volunteers his LIFE for honor and duty, this woman just spits on him gleefully. what an idiot, from her standpoint. he should rather work off his ass at BMW or Daimler, make lots of money, and give it all to some stupid broad like herself. I'm paraphrasing what she said to me afterwards to justify her words.
interestingly enough, I challenged her to ask a few of her male friends or relatives about their viewpoint on this. she asked two (a work colleague and her father) and BOTH sided with me completely, which absolutely astonished her. she then quickly polled all her female friends to confirm her world view, who of course all sided with her.
I think your point is that this woman was pretty materialistical. Im a man and I understand patriotical feelings, I myself have russian ancestry in my blood, I find it honorable of the young guy to have went into war, yet on the other side it is truly dangerous and he is truly young and inexperienced, not a professional. I think that all sane opinions have a weight in this world, but I get your point about some women wanting men to simply work for them instead of doing something good or honorable.
Nothing but truth! Great vid.
Best MGTOW/Red Pill content I have come across yet A++++
Damn Ronin, epic advice! Thanks man
Vital Hamster very welcome ! Thank you
The great majority had to have been another guy's chick.
In my experience - single chicks are always shopping for that sucker.
They'll come and they'll go based upon whether they think they've found one or not.
But in the beginning they want to hang out way more than once a week.
If you shut them down to once a week - they'll realize you're game oriented, and will go right back to shopping. They will still show up so long as the sex is good, but it's nothing you could plan a calendar around.
The only time I've had chicks where I could plan a schedule around, and have it be routine for years on end - is married chicks.
Which means your 4-7 were married chicks.
Which means you had to have focused on married chicks and a routine for locking down the side guy role.
The others, coming and going, were the single chicks shopping for a sucker.
I'm not judging. Just looking for the common denominator with my experiences.
Am I right in this assumption?
If I am - do you have a video that is strictly your program for this technique? I've found the funnest relationships I've ever had were with married chicks, as the H takes all the BS while I was her vacation. Which of course means she's always at her funnest. And they can never hang out long enough to be annoying.
I've just never thought about being systematic with it. But I'm sure it was awesome.
Closing on 60, I can say there is a lot of Truth to what this young man is saying.
Man this is one of.best videos I've ever heard on RUclips that could save most men's lives! Salute 100 🔥
best to play useless than to be used
Countless women who I was once involved in has ask me where do I see myself in 3 to 5 years , It took me all this time to realize , That wasn't a concern they had for me or our well being :; That question was ask of me to see what's in it for them and what's their percentage at the divorce , I'm glad I was dogged out for being the nice guy because i'm about to receive 2 retirements and then I'm going back to nursing ,......... I'm still in my health and strength , I still body build , and have my own in all regards , Hey Ladies , these 2 fingers i'm holding up is not a peace sign ................................ IT'S DUECES .
The secret to keeping respect in a relationship for me is.. keeping my word on everything. If I threatened to leave they know damn well that I WILL GO ! Be honest about what you like and expect. Do not ever deviate from something you have made clear. Because the first time you do..SHE WILL OWN YOU. AND NEVER RESPECT YOUR OPINIONS AGAIN. Have some balls and stand up for yourself. Women need compromise. To feel comfortable. But never break your own rules.
Ronin Man is the ultimate boss. I'm coming to the MGTOW world summit for sure!
in all the marriages I know the wife has no respect for her husband even though they earn well, are faithful, obedient, caring. I even know a guy who after 40 years of marriage got slapped, offended & nagged for a few hours just because he came back home drunk. I realized that there is no pleasing women. no matter what you do, they always complain
@ Ronin Man,
Wow, thanks for the warning!
Unbelievable insight !
I have never heard this!
You were livin it ! The right guy in the right place at the right time!
This information is priceless!
TheGlassasylum thank you! Had a bit of luck too. Glad it was helpful
The analogy with an old car that starts to break down... sell it cheap, and let the next owner deal with fixing all that shit, she'll be comparing you with that other guy, and the more he tries the more she will realise she fucked up, but it is toooooo late, she is out of your life.
Divorced women tend to eventually fuck the ex because they realise he wasn't as bad as the new one, smart men fuck them when they go pick up the kids but keep them at a distance, with vasectomy in place WITHOUT telling her. And you are tight, she does need that self esteem boost to say I left him because he was closer after all.
Some women can take a whole lot of abuse though, specially if they think you are the best they can do compared to whoever approaches them, and if you are a fairly successful guy, that means most other guys are below you in her eyes, so the exit strategy has to be different; you need to start having financial trouble, asking HER for loans, "losing" your job, always in a panic over money, car breaks down and cannot fix it... just a few weeks of this and she's out the door with lots of apologies and It's not you its me, I have changes and of course it is not because you lost your job you are a great person for ANOTHER woman, you'll find somebody better... and out she goes, make sure she stays gone because the guilt will fuck with her SOME and you need to not take her back.
After a while, if she tries to check on you to see how you're doing and tries to come back, just tell her you found someone else and you hope she is also happy as you are, it will be hard if she shows up at your door dressed sexy, so DO NOT invite her in, and have your sister or female friend call her [if need be] to "ask" he what she wants showing up when she is not there, "yes of course he told me." That should fix that.
Good luck.
I was stuck with a consumer for 3.5 years and couldn't figure out how to get away from her without serious vindictive repercussions. She was mean and controlling. I knew if I actually broke up with her she'd call the cops on me and invent all kinds of lies to get me arrested. How I was able to get out was I stopped having sex with her the final year. Maybe 2x that year. She eventually found some other sap to shack up with and moved on. Never gave me any grief afterwards.
Some real gems in this one, much appreciated
Don't ever demand respect. Remember what happened to Fredo.
Fredo, true. His strategy was doomed from the get-go
An effective way to have respect for the man in long term relationships would be if the marriage laws were set up so that a woman would usually never really get anything financially or gain anything from the man if she left, or if he chose to leave. The lack of respect would really be during this post feminism era that we're in. I'm not saying that I realistically want the world to go this way, but it was a standard way things were for much of human history. I'm very sure that in previous centuries the man had respect from his wife. If you can imagine a situation in the middle ages, where hypothetically you were married, but if you left instead of getting what women get today, you'd be going back to sharing a one room house with your parents and helping them plough their field, or worse you living with your in-laws, I'm sure you would respect your husband.
Hey Christina! I think that family courts should be forced to abide by the current laws not because of respect but just to abide by the legal principles they are based upon. The laws are fair or close to fair on paper but judges don’t abide by them and favor women. This is a violation of basic human rights of children and fathers and should not be permitted. As some groups have advocated, I believe that family courts have proven themselves unable to police themselves and that the FBI should get involved and judges and lawyers that violate laws should be disbarred and jailed. False allegations should be punished at least as long a sentence as the alleged crime.
@@RoninMan ok, this is interesting information from you. I have to admit I officially don't know the legal details myself about the family court system...all I know is that everyone keeps implying that the laws are not fair. I always interpreted this to be simply that the laws in this field are not right/fair. However you have now added on an extra layer in what you have said, what your saying implies that there are fair laws but that there is some form of corruption/corrupt actions taking place... which makes it so much worse.
@@christinatachdjian3752 most guys don’t know either. Even if they lost a very unfair case. It’s only if you slog through reading the laws do you find that they are basically fair as written. It’s a stain on our present times that they are not t enforced to the great detriment of children. Statistically it’s a nightmare for kids. They lose the only man who will love them unconditionally and have greatly increased risk of teen pregnancy, drug abuse and incarceration
Beautiful game and analysis. Where were you 20 years ago, when I really needed you?
Thanks Maven! #metoo LoL I wish I was born with this knowledge. But still plenty of time to help other young guys and pass it on
Ronin Man: Of course, I was only (half) kidding. I remember seeing cracks in the matrix, asking my parents about my doubts before marriage, and getting hollow sentiments in return. Similarly, it is clear the extent to which mass media, religion, etc. essentially groom young men for the slaughter. Now it seems that if you are questioning/doubting the natural order, the information is freely available. I only wonder what more that means....
If I were going to predict the future, which I'm not good at, I'd say, if the volume of men avoiding marriage due to unfair treatment rises significantly, society will react by agreeing to some MGTOW and MRA demands. Perhaps a few changes in family law? Just enough to placate the middle of the roaders. Nothing significant enough to stop smart men from making choices that are in their interests. Men are essentially waking up. This has never happened before that I'm aware of and is very dangerous for the people, companies, governments who rely on the status quo of men working for women and buying a lot of stuff, paying a lot of tax and being a scapegoat (speed traps to give expensive tickets to a man on his rare holiday, taxes on the middle class and on and on. Society has killed the golden goose and there's no telling what this will lead to
Do you think a woman harbor resentment when a man will have sex with her but will not impregnate her, even if it's just subconscious she must understand or believe on some level that he does not think highly enough of her to procreate with her and perhaps this causes dissatisfaction. What are your thoughts?
Also some women do not think they will be wanted if they can't give you a child. Sort of a different angle on the procreation dissatisfaction. She worries that she is not enough to keep you unless there is a kid tying you together!
@I AM Z Correct
@Charles Granata Also correct.
Totally makes sense. I've seen that with friends before but couldn't put a finger on it. You nailed it
They did a study and found it all over the world regardless of cultural or religious values there was a spike where women left Men When the children reached four years old.
One theory for this is that is the age when historically children would have been able to walk and gather their own food. There's no way to be sure why but the phenomenon was there.
Invaluable advice on how to let the disrespecting woman leave. Thank you.
They seem to use the time around you to file incidents and situations that worked or showed you at a disadvantage or in a bad light. Then the EVIDENCE is used in the court of her to condemn you to firing squad with no cigarette.
great job !!! good analogies thanks for breaking it down.
Familiarity breeds contempt
Dude! You nailed it. Its so true about guys and girls on their perception in a relationship. Thanks for the eye opener! You da man!
awesome! gonna add to my "watch later" list
I created a different playlist for this video for myself cause I know that in a few days in my daily busy life, I will forgot these important concepts!
Ronin, you have come to the same conclusions as I have. Not only that but I’m doing what your doing. I think this outloook is the way to deal with relationships and it works for me as well.
Awesome! Best vid I ever seen.
Thanks Jolly Joker! If you like this one, you'll love the latest episode. Some overlap on the topic. Check it out here! ruclips.net/video/ji0J8Bp8lzI/видео.html
U are so right!! I agree with you 100 percent.
The part where she didnt understand what you did for her reminded me of another channel i watch when he often says "women are really just children with breast"
I'm so glad I never got married. I live in Thailand where there are plenty of young ladies under 30 years old that make themselves available for 'short term' rent to men.
Hey Brother, great insight and great vids! I’ve lived the last 10 years mostly in Asia and have enjoyed not being tied to one woman and have lived very similarly to how You have. Now However, the girl I REALLY was into after 10 years of searching is 7 months pregnant, however the lack of respect has now become extreme. I want to be there for the birth and to assist her and bring about a Bless ed’ Family. Yet, if there is continuously no respect how to manage’. Lack of respect that leads to confrontations where my only option is to step away...
Can You be a great Father and not be with the Mother!?
Welcoming All thoughts gentlemen’
Responsibility, Love for my Daughter, and what once was with my Lover, and then the Self Respect to not take the emotional abuse...
Thanks Gents! 🙏
There are no easy answers. Read, study, listen to your ever changing inner voice and act decisively. Men change after seeing their offspring so keep in mind that your own feelings may change suddenly.
RELATIONSHIPS CAN BE SOMETHING TRUELY BEAUTIFUL TO REQUIRE SUCH A RELATIONSHIP ITS IMPORTANT TO MAKE CLEAR THAT EITHER THE BOY OR THE GIRL IS THE SLAVE IN THE RELATIONSHIP
I subscribe,I listen to every word and its past my bed time,good night.
I think women adore men so much that they subconsciously try to do everything that we do that is admirable (be strong, be powerful, provide) but they do it using manipulation as a shortcut without realizing they aren't being even being feminine! Such a turn off that they don't even realize. That's why a lot of powerful women are single
After listening to this, I can’t help wondering why we bother at all.
Quit feeding the kitty cat and she'll bother someone else.
You are a certifiable genius dude...course I already knew everything you were talking about...I just never heard anyone else verbalize it...
Donnie G thanks Donnie! And thanks for reaching out by email too. Truth is within
Great message Ronin. Much Needed.