How to Change Your Life
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- Опубликовано: 24 апр 2016
- Hi!! I'm so excited to have a channel dedicated just to advice videos. Can't thank you all enough for inspiring me to share this type of content with you. I often talk about these types of topics on my Snapchat and Facebook too, so feel free to follow along. If there's anything you'd like to see, let me know =) Lots of love. xoxo
A whole bunch of stuff I referenced in the video:
✦ Mala bead bracelets (I need a new one!): www.malasbyemma.com/ or her Instagram: / malasbyemma
✦ The Five Minute Journal: bit.ly/1SPnAKZ
✦ The two meditation apps I mentioned: Headspace is the one Alex Ikonn uses. Buddify is the one I use and the app I showed in the video.
✦ Did I forget something? Let me know! =)
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"Stop describing yourself as a shy person, for God sake." lmao I love how you keep it real :)
Oh God yes. I was shy, always afraid what people will think. Little thing--remembering names. I was so embarrassed I forgot someone's name, I would get so stressed. Until I just stopped, someone tells me their name and I just jokingly say "I'm so bad with names I'll forget it in 5 seconds". Honestly, idk what I expected but a lot of people just smile and say they're the same. I started being more honest since, because we're all people.
You literally make me cry every time with these types of videos. I'm really trying to turn my life around and you make me feel safe like everything is gonna be ok haha
+kaleidoscopicmind5 And remember that we're all here because we are trying to turn our lives around.. It can be so daunting, but you're not alone in this community :D X
kaleidoscopicmind5 we all in the same boat love🙋🙋
Lol same!!!
Do you ever read a comment like this and wonder what happened to the person--did they change, what did they change?
@@valesth4903 have you changed? My boyfriend just broke up with me. I have attachment issues and just pushed him away. I dont know if i loved him or needed him. I wanna have control over my life. Id love to hear how far youve come :).
You nailed it. I'm a lawyer with a huge loan that matures when I am 62. I am miserable in my career b/c how i perceived it is not what it is. I am now inspiring others to carve your own path in life, look things up, research better living, higher consciousness, emotional control and recreate yourself starting with loving yourself. I'm happier today because of it.
That's sad. Did u have some financial advisors?
my mom says that when something of meaning breaks it had fulfilled it's purpose and you have reached a new stage in your personal growth. Maybe the bracelet breaking symbolises that you have reached a new stage in your growth with patience. 😊 Love your videos they're showing me a new perspective I have a tendency to stay in toxic relationships because I can see how much they're hurting and I want to help but them I end up getting hurt. I'm going to start focusing on my happiness so thank you.
Me also ,, going to focus on my happiness, thank you for the positivity 🏝️
Why doesnt she upload anymore
Idk
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Who else still listening in 2018❤🙌
Omonse mi duh
2019
Did she quit??? I'm shook, I just showed up!
2019!!
Lizzie Deerest I was wondering the same thing! I just found her and I hope she makes more videos.
I wish she would do more of this now. She’s been really helpful on what I’ve been going through.
She’s on ig, same username- she’s really active on there
I'm in love with your thought process. The way you break things down and sort them out is inspiring. It's very refreshing to listen to a genuine soul.
I'm listening to Nur in 2019! Nur I hope you'll come back, you and your video's are amazing!❤
I see you becoming the Oprah of youtube 💕 Thank you for this amazing video
holy shit the realest video I've ever seen hands down!!!! you remind me so much of the person I use to be before I got into an abusive relationship. and holy fuck did you just whip my butt back into my independent self. I've forgotten so much in the 1 year I was broken down into almost nothing. thank you so much!!!
I am usually very impatient and want RUclipsrs to get to the point. I just watched your April's favorites videos and this one, the best 45 minutes spent. Every second is knowledge. Thank you.
Nur! I got SO excited when I saw that you posted this. I absolutely love your advice videos and can't wait to see where this channel goes. Thanks for sharing your wisdom and encouragement. This video was a really great push in the right direction for me!!
+Drew Tabor DREW!!!!! My favorite little songbird!! Thank you for the support, I appreciate it!!
I can listen to you talk all day every day. Definitely buying "The Happiness Advantage" not now, but right now. ❤
Nur, you are very...VERY good at articulating your thoughts/ideas and transferring your knowledge through the RUclips platform, and I encourage you to keep doing these videos. I think you are meant to be a teacher so please make more videos about life and love and fear, and everything that is our shared humanness. #LoveAndPeaceToYou
Hey pretty lady thanks for your video! As a girl working on her PhD in earth science I wanted to add that learning about the periodic table, and the origin of elements that compose the universe, brought me great peace and sense of connection to all that exists when I was a sad lost fawn in high school. Peace and love to you and yours 💕
This almost brought me to tears because it was EXACTLY what I needed to hear right now. Literally, the answer or sign I needed in this moment. ❣ I can't wait for the next video! Love, love, love!
YOURE SO CARING AND GENEROUS i love everything you stand for
I love your style of advice girl! So amazing! I couldn't agree more your statement on not playing the victim card all the time. While listening and reading advice, I always think about those who never take a look into their own ways and only attack others. Hearing you address how we need to also take ownership was so refreshing! I hope this channel reaches a lot of people :)
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Nur, seriously just hearing you talk about your thoughts is what I'd wanna hear as far as content. i wish you would make more videos, just about anything you feel like talking about. i know that you are very thoughtful and you have 2high expectations for yourself when you put things out, but i think just listening to you is really relaxing and thought provoking. i listen to your videos like a podcast or an audio book, i just wish there were more! someone said you were the oprah of youtube...i agree. youre awesome!
This is a great advice video. I remember in my first semester of university, after encountering a lot of personal challenges, realising that I sucked at managing my emotions and that I was not emotionally mature. And I remember that I started to read and thinking about how to be "emotionally mature" and realising that not everybody did that, and wondering why nobody had talked to me or taught me about managing emotions. I think it's great you're putting it out there.
Understanding how your environment affects yourself and being really honest about what you want really makes change easier. Thanks so much for sharing!
I say Nur for president!!!!! Your videos are amazing doll ... Thanks for being you and being diff than what's out there ...
You have changed my life with these videos. My mother recently passed away and I felt myself getting into a really dark place. Watching your videos has helped me to realise that by focusing my attention on positive thoughts, I can conquer anything. And that thought alone has really helped me 💕
Maybe sharing your tips for beating procrastination. I know sometimes i have trouble getting motivated. I say "10 more minutes then ill go to bed"... well then i found your video. 20 minutes long. Completely worth it, but you see my dilema! I do this type of thing all the time where I give myself a time limit then when its that time, I completely ignored it like "oops oh well". OOOH or tips for maintaining motivation for school? Sometimes i get discouraged but i have just been taking it day by day and doing the best I can with some improvements, but sometimes i slip up and get lazy :( I know the motivation to get things done comes from within myself though, sometimes it just hides from me lol. I guess that's a part of growing up and turning from a teenager into an adult.
Your courageousness is the most beautiful thing I have experienced. Everything connects and you helped to grow a seed of positivity and reality within my mind and heart. I cannot thank you enough for this. The last time I watched you video was few months ago about fake people and since then, you have taught me where to place my focus (on myself and my mental health) and have taught me what standards are and even better, how to uphold them. THANK YOU SO MUCH YOU BEAUTIFUL PERSON
I'm really happy that you popped up in my recommendations. :) You've taught me many things that has made me feel higher than where I used to be. I finally now understand that even if my dreams lead to many depressing moments, its my job to pick myself back up because I know that I'm the only one that can change the things happening in my life, no others.
I love how genuine you are and actually care to see people around you succeed and do well for themselves in things that actually matter in life. This is why I love you and everything you do! Subscribed!!
So glad you are doing advice videos, you do the best ones.. now a channel for one, so dope!
Love that you're making this channel devoted to spreading your words of wisdom and positive energy. For me, silent affirmations, journaling and reading it back to myself and daydreaming about the event or type of characteristics I want to embody helps me along the self improvement process. Thanks, Nur! Love you.
OMG This video inspired me so much! Please make more advice videos, especially on this channel :) Lots of love your way, Nur!
These videos seriously speak to me..I feel like your channel is what I've been searching for. Please don't stop making videos!!
You speak so fast but everything you say makes sense. I like the guided sleep meditations too. I have subscribed and look forward to hearing more from you x
what I loved about this is that you pointed out that we shouldn't buy into the delusion that everyone is wrong and we're right, it's important to teach on both sides. thank you
I thank YOU from the bottom of my heart for inspiring me and giving me hope, motivation and strenght to go through this rhough time. I appreciate you so much.
i love ur advice, im a young introverted sensitive girl myself, getting into the business world and your advice really helps.
I love you so much as a being! You inspire because you want to and that's my goal, to live, experience, learn and inspire. You've taught me many valuable things that I keep close with me. Don't stop doing what you're doing, you're amazing. Can't wait for your next video! Xo
I absolutely love you! I need someone like you in my life 24/7 please make more! You have helped me see the world through a different lens
Omg please upload more videos I LOVE them!!!
Wow this is extremely motivating, and so TRUE! You’re so right about everything and I believe this is my year, and I will do whatever it takes to make this a good year. I am no longer shy, I am no longer full of anxiety. I do a lot, I am brave. I am social. THANK YOU SO MUCH! This really helps and I will start a journal every morning! How to stop caring about how others think really moved me. You said so pretty brilliant things I will now tell someone to watch this video when they come to me. I will say as I always do “you know what’s best for you” but this time I’ll leave out my opinion. Very beautiful you’re an incredible person! I will soon be 17 and I’m I AM ready to make some big bright beautiful changes for myself. Thank you again, and happy new year!♥️
Watching in 2020 and all your videos are still applicable to life and I seriously hope you come back to RUclips. 🥺✨
This video has made my day. I cannot tell you how many times I've shared your videos with my friends, and quoted your Nur-isms to them. I am so so excited to start this journey with your channel and actively make changes in my life. I'm READY to take steps towards the life I want and deserve. Can't wait to talk to other followers and hear their tips and experience!
You are like fresh air. Looking forward to the content. I agree with you a lot in this video.
Thank you ! I’m a huge fan and looking into your interview course right now .your advice is always on point !!
Just came across this and it truly made emotional because I started an advice channel and I thought that I’d be the only one that felt like we need more of this to help others get through life. And this is just so inspirational to keep going so excited even more know!
this inspired me immensely. wow, i will implement these principles into my life. seriously. genuinely, your soul is so beautiful. continue to inspire love. thank you again for being you and sharing your light.
thank you for all your videos.i always come back for your videos especially when i get depressed with flashback about things that happened in my life or shits people said to me.
haven't even watched the whole video yet but subscribed!! i love how blunt and straight forward you are!
I’m so glad/ grateful/ appropriative I found your videos at 7 o’clock in the morning!
You have came into my life at such a perfect time
I'm so excited for this channel. I've seen such a positive change in my life every since I starting watching your videos. Thank you
I love your videos and really admire you for sharing such wonderful and useful information with us. I need to keep reminding myself things won't just come to me from watching one or two videos a month. I know i need to stay consistent and work on myself everyday. Please keep these video's coming because you're definitely helping me out. X
I have been looking for you for ages 😭. I remember watching this video years ago and feeling like I could relate so much. I was typing in “neurology” 😅 I’m so glad I found you!
I was just going through some of your previous advice videos again, not because I felt as though I needed any advice, but just because I have been missing your wisdom and amazingness. I was so happy to see that you posted :D
I love this! I'm definitely one of those screenshot quotes and expect change type of person :/ my thing is, I wish I could be the person I was 8-10 years ago. The one who didn't give a crap about others opinions of me, loved people and being around them, enjoyed nature, being hopeful and positive about career and love, etc. Now, I hate everything. I know what triggered this and I'm sad every day that I let that affect me for this long. I just think, why me?
I feel exactly the same.... Remember you have the power to rediscover yourself
Jessica Hernandez same
You are by far my favorite person, your videos are transforming. I am so grateful for you and your advice. I really cannot tell you how much this helped.
This video is 4 years old yet it has impacted me so much! You probably wont see this but thank you ❤️
I love your video's .I just found this channel when I was freaking out,crying and feeling very unconfident about myself .a few video's later now I'm smiling at myself in the mirror ,I really needed the peptalk and different perspective .
It is so good to have you back! Thank you!
this video has made so much impact on me. Everbody wants to improve but actually implementing inspiration/goals/wishes in your own life is really hard sometimes. I love that you not only look at other people or the problem itself but more of a self improvent point of view. can't wait to watch you other video's
Ok, this girl is good. I like her style. She's real and honest in a refreshing kind of way.
I HAVEN'T EVEN WATCHED IT YET BUT I KNOW I WILL LOVE IT THANK YOU SO MUCH!!! your videos have helped me so much with confidence and how to get up from a rough path. Again, thank you so much and you are so beautiful inside and out
Yaaay! So excited! Your advice is always super inspiring, Nur xo
Yup, application of all this is not taught to us and we simply repeat the stuff our parents showed us, which they did on the fly. So glad I found your channel. Thank you Queen, many blessings to you 👑🤗💖
كتير بنبسط لما بشوف ناس عم تطور نفسها وبنفس الوقت انها عم تطور ناس تانية معها . قمة الرقي بالاخلاق . شكرا كتير عالنصايح الحلوة , وخليكي هيك
Loved this video Nur! 💗 I love your snaps and have been following your beauty and advice videos for years. I can't wait for you to add content to this channel! I would love if you could do some videos on the job search, interviews, etc. This video hit a cord with me and I have decided to finally make the change in my life that I am desperately seeking. TY for that!
I just discovered your channel and I just have to say thank you! I've been stuck in a rut since febuary. I dropped out of school and I just don't feel like doing anything but staying in bed. Watching this vide, it's the first time in four months that i have felt that kick that forces me to get out of bed and taking my life in my own hands...Thank you :)
can you make a video about loving your body?
gosh nur you need to make a book of your own one of these days or years. i will 1000% buy it and more. i love how you are able to be so real with us but so sincere at the same time
I have needed this tough telling, im going through anxiety and depression and girl im ready to kick its butt and change!
Very excited about the content coming up on this channel! Love the advice you give and how you deliver. Would love some vids on tips/tools re: confidence, anxiety, public speaking, and creating a presence both in a professional and social environment ! xo
Hi Nur, I started a RUclips channel not to long ago, and I was despondent after my 3rd video or so, Then I came across your videos , it changed my entire attitude, you say the things I sometimes fear to say. I love it, I have a looooooooog way to go, but I know I will get there, I am just happy that I started. I am following you and I am just happy there is still genuine people like you out there that truly want to make a difference in other peoples lives. Great stuff keep them coming!!!! Mwaaaah
Girl you got me crying right now..Your so beautiful.. You literally could be my best friend because we have so much in common..Especially the family part when you said that our parents only focus on merit and achievements. I feel like I had good parents but they lacked in basic life skills --things that I lack today... I wish I had those life skills to truly be successful in my life. I love how when you talk its as if your talking to me... Im so glad I found you here...
thank you so much for making this video and channel! A lot of videos about social dynamics and science are so irrelevant but I feel as though you are speaking to me through your videos! I have implemented numerous tips into my life and it has changed for the better, THANKYOU!!
So glad you're back making videos again! You have no idea how much I needed this video today!!
+Jennifer Cheng Happy to hear that!!
So inspiring. I feel like you're talking directly to me. I can't wait to watch the next one. THANK YOU for such practical, useful advice!!
I am only 6 minutes into this video and I absolutely love it! You're mind set is amazing, I definitely subscribed! You're so inspiring and your make-up is so flawless!
It's 2.42 am it's 31st Dec, here in India, its New year's eve and you have changed my thinking and I think I'm about to change my life.(just had a video marathon)
True no one teaches us how to deal with life events in school or elsewhere.U are doing an amazing job.
YES!!! Sign me up for more Nurology videos!!!! I love meditating, affirmations and journal writing. What I have learned helps is, substituting my music during commuting hours with motivational/helpful videos or podcasts that I would never usually listen to. Even if it's a 10 minute ride to work, those small moments make BIG change in my day.
+curibe tvnews Absolutely!!! It's the small changes that create big results!
I am so happy I stumbled upon your videos, everything you say is inspirational. Recently I have felt "stuck" in my job, relationship, my mind and body. I am going to start taking actions to get unstuck and focus on myself. Thank you!
I think morning positive affirmations are brilliant. You feel great listening to these, even at the gym, cleaning or when you feel stressed 😊
aaaaaaand I love you! I have been binging on your videos lately and JUST found your Nurology channel!I just love how grounded you are. Sometimes it's refreshing to watch someone whose smile and personality are genuine for a change. xoxo
Haha, the feeling is mutual!! I LOVE your personality!!!!! I owe my first-born child to whoever introduced us on Twitter!! 😂💙
Sooooo happy to see that you're back to making videos! I've been waiting for you to come back! Can't wait to see what's next.
Thank you so much Nur . Because of your sweet lovely advices . My life has shaped to a better direction , I have became a better person to everyone. Moreover, I cant wait to wake up to chase my dream . I love you. Keep inspiring people and have a lovely day ahead!With love,May:)
I recently tried out for this dance team at school, and it broke my heart when they didn't call my #.. I felt like a complete failure, but then I came to the conclusion that if I just went to dance classes throughout the year, and improved , soon I would reach my personal goals! And this video mentioning , " I'm too weak" or " I'm not worthy", I don't want to live like that!! Time to put action, can't be patient on this one! Haha thanks Nur for your willingness to make these types of videos !
Thank you so much for all your advice! I'm currently 19 and a student at Webster University. Your videos have really helped me so much! I'm EXCITED for this channel!! You really have inspired me and I look up to you! I love seeking knowledge and wisdom from you. I also love your eye make- up in this video! Would love a tutorial in your other channel of this look!
When something happens, even if it is just a little something but that resonates hard in my mind for a little while, I just write it on a random piece of paper... just a free piece of paper and I do a huge rant about how I feel and how I perceived the situation, how I perceive the people around me during the specific situation, whether it is about friendship, love, self-esteem, whatever it is, I rant for a good page and a half maybe two pages or until I don't have anything new to add or until the point where I feel better with everything out of my mind and on a paper. Then, I throw the paper out. I fold it up nicely and I throw it out. No one has to know about it, just me and the fact that it is out feels so great! But sometimes I will keep it and just put it in my drawer or near my diary, just somewhere where no one will see it except me at some point and that's the end of it!
Such a POWERFUL massage. You are very special girl :D I hope that nobody andf nothing ever will steal your amazing shine
Thank you... your like an angel guiding me through this rough patch right now. Everything your saying I know. It's just a different affect coming from someone else. Thank you again!
This is such an awesome channel. You're right, most people are never taught this stuff. I'm so excited to watch all of your videos.
I've just recently started watching your videos and I absolutely love the pointers and tips you give. Its amazing how much of inspiration I get just by watching these. Keep on making more! It's great :)
Like another person mentioned, I jumped (can we say yelped like a happy puppy!!) when I saw your face in video list!! Loved the content, need to re-watch to listen better to your suggestions - this time I was just too excited that you were back :) thanks Nur for taking the time
aw i love this video, thank you so much for having this channel! :) literally everything you said in this was exactly what i needed to hear at this point in my life
You're so right, we always have to continue to improve ourselves and not think we're perfect in everything all the time .. Also, incorporating true religious beliefs in your life and diving in it/educating yourself about it, starting with the situation/issue at hand usually helps, positive change happens without you even knowing it
I always come back and watch your videos whenever I'm not feeling 100%, and they always help me. Thanks Nur :)
You are amazing !!! I'm so glad you made a separate page for advise
When you are changing something you dont like about yourself, there will be many days that go really bad. The only thing i want to do after that is go to sleep or cry and there are still many things to do in the day but you cant focus at all. Some excersice to move on from those bad moments and focus on the rest of things you can do to improve.
I think that what you are talking about is one of the most important things for people today. You have clear and well thought-out things to say.
I love how real you are. you say what you mean. I feel like your a good friend I'm sitting with talking philosophy and having coffee