@@Joemight13no,the centre ref was right, to question the refs decision is a red card, as it means you are downgrading the refs control of the field, if a player just says oh cmon ref quietly it’s not a ref as it’s not to the ref and it’s would play on, don’t just agree with side liners, refs have to go through hours of hard training, trust there knowledge
@@armandoroman6644 have you gone through around 24 hours of red training and have had multiple reminders about questioning the refs decisions and all of that, I have gone through that as a proper ref but believe what you want I guess 🤷♂️
Respect to him for having the bravery and confidence to throw em off. Can’t say how many times I’ve played and wanted parents to go away because they’re talking trash
I love how the ref was straight back to business even while the coach is still screaming on his way off the field. No need for that crap even if the refs are imperfect. Good handling of the situation there.
the AR could have done more before it got to that point to try to keep the coach calm ..not all parents and coaches are wrong because they don't have the whistle ..I wish I was there to see the whole game
Those kids don't even look 13. Great call by the ref, stop this behavior before it gets worse. It really is a shame when parents think any behavior like this is remotely acceptable. Coach learned a good lesson.
The unhinged coach should not coach in any league. Referee was awesome and managed this situation perfectly. The coach, on the other hand was a bad representation for his team. He even trounced across the field after ejection- a sure sign that he respects nothing about this sport.
I’m a referee and I see that every Sunday when I ref their games. It happened yesterday in two games, I got cops called on me by them lol everything was okay tho the couple got kicked out 😅
As a athletic I’d prefer players referees in coaches, communicating with each other I got my first technical foul because I was falling around. I said that’s bullshit. 😂
Hey kid, you're doing great, there's so many adult center refs who don't have the spine to put unruly staff or parents in their place. Keep it up. That's exactly what you should do
it's not that they don't have the spine..they are lazy and don't want the extra paperwork, don't want the assignor seeing he can't handle that age group..I was an AR for a game with the Philadelphia union academy team. The ref was a younger ref ..the Philly keeper was yelling the F word from the net at players and the ref..I was telling the keeper to stop cursing and the center ref just ignored the whole thing..I told the ref at half time that he needs to clamp down on that..he said, "I'll never be invited back if I start cracking down on stuff like that.,.smh..it's a huge problem when the clubs have that much power all because of money
In our association, abuse of the referee is taken very seriously; by a coach even more so. God help you if you abuse a teenage ref (that you know by definition has limited experience and is likely to make more errors); this generally results in a permanent ban. I say generally as if I'm aware of it happening in the 8 years I've coached, but at the coaches' meeting every preseason, the association states in no uncertain terms that a permanent ban is the result of this behavior.
These kids are like U7 why is bro getting heated, like it’s not like a scout or some shit to see this and he is going to become the next man united coach or one of the players will get signed to Chelsea
1. This is a kids game, not the World Cup final. This is where they are having fun and getting a workout. 2. If by some chance there is a referee that is making bad calls, as long as it’s consistent in both ends of the teams then it’s just a coin flip for the decisions, and a review of the arbiter post-match so he can learn from those mistakes. 3. We are human, people make mistakes. If you think you can do a better job, put on the uniform. Otherwise you’re just a spectator with zero say in what goes on the match regarding rules
"I walked away from you!" Ref: "Yeah, you walked away from me after you stepped on the pitch to verbally harangue me. That's what the red card is for, bonehead!"
my older brother was a soccer referee at 14, that was his first job. so many parents would argue with him but he was little and was scared. when he got older he spoke back and took control of situations where coaches were almost gonna fight each other. mind you my brother has played soccer his entire life so he knew what he was doing. he also took a class to make sure he was great. when i turn 14, i’m gonna have to do the same but mind you, i have a little bit of an attitude so with my attitude i’d probably scare the parents and get them to shut up before i cancel the game. mind you, you can do that. i’ve learned so much from my brother and i can’t wait to work. hopefully parents now a days are no longer vicious animals
We don’t have the context of the disagreement. The ref may very well have been making bad or one sided calls. Bad officiating, along with bad coaching, are both ruining youth sports.
And the loser walks directly across the field. No shame, no understanding. I own my own club, indoor facility and leagues - in 8 years I have reffed nearly 7000 games, and am ruthlessly strict with parents. I do not use cards.. minor fouls are incidentals (free kick), anything malicious/dangerous is a strike. After 1 strike, the next foul is an automatic goal for the other team and a free kick.. In this span there has not been 1 injury (due to a foul). Ive only had to permanently ban 4 families, and 1 entire team during a tourney. Does it work? There is now a 9 month waiting list (35 pre-paid families) for each and every program from u5 to Mens and womens leagues being held in escrow.. I decided to do it myself.. and now the national program is coming by.. they are actually considering what I am doing..
I see so many of these soccer clips. First a red card is for players not the coach or parents. Coach can be sent off and has to leave and the assistant coach takes over. I refer for many years.
its a twofold problem, parents and coaches that do not understand the game, and then frustrated parents and coaches with refs that are horrible. Its a kids game but its also safety concerns, hours of volunteer hours poured into a team, both sides need better training
the coaches anger is coming from week after week seeing poor officiating ..I've assessed refs and believe me, there are refs that should be doing something else. there's not enough info shown unfortunately
@@forzajuve4845 yes but you have to start some where. Young refs need a place to start, and there are not enough refs to go around. They need to be trained more frequently, especially as they are being paid. I as well have assessed refs, coaches and clubs.
It's not just the parents and coaches. It's the leagues, too. Obviously this isn't universal, but a lot of leagues don't protect their refs by backing up their ejection decisions with bans, so the refs are thrown under the bus constantly.
Hey "Coach" - here's a thought: Why don't you give up coaching (since you set a piss poor example for the kids anyway), and put on the stripes since you obviously know so much about being a Ref!!
When I was a teenager playing traveling club ball, I didn't respect any of the coaches in their 20s or 30s that already had a beer gut. They were weirdly common, and they were never any good at coaching. A good coach has to be an effective disciplinarian. He has to set an example. What does it say when a coach isn't even disciplined with his own body?
That coach couldn’t run the length of the field - so there is no way he could do the job of the ref. So, let him ref the game. Best thing for the kids - kick those who aren’t a positive influence on the game and the players out.
I swear adults, whether they are watching their kid or playing in a rec league, who suck ass just go to blow off steam. They just show up and are already pissy looking for drama. It’s pathetic
As a 14 year old ref, while the ref made the right decision to eject the parent, you are supposed to ask the coach to remove the parent and if they or the parent do not comply the coach can get a red or the game can be abandoned. You are never supposed to give a red card to a spectator even if they did deserve it.
Each league and tournament has their own policies for spectator removals. You are correct that there isn’t a Soccer Law about Red carding a spectator for ejection unless they step foot on the pitch…even then it’s a straight ejection
"I walked away from you!!!" (And you kept mouthing off, while you were walking away) Do you think the Ref gave you the red card for the direction of your walk?
im not a fan of this ref's handling of this situation..he has a lot to learn ..he will lose control in many games if he thinks the solution is yellow and red cards..there are many ways to handle this without tossing the coach . as a ref since 1981 this ref should be taught other methods
Instead of giving the muppet a red card, the ref should give him a ball and he can demonstrate all the skills and techniques that he passes onto his U11 D grade (??) players. Its usually these guys with the biggest mouths that think they're coaching in the big time that are the most inept !!
at least it adds heat to the game. No parent actually likes watching a trashy 8 year old game. If stuff like this happens at least it gets a little interesting 😂
I see dad brought his soccer dad body to face off with a 16 yr old. Why don't you ref then dad if it's so easy. Way to handle it ref, the league has your back.
the ref doesn't know what he's doing ..unless there was more that happened before, that is not a red card ..he also should have pulled the coach aside and had a stern talk with him..when there's an audience, it escalates ..when the coach said he needs to be consistent he should have said "not another word"..then if he continues you can toss him
To the teenage official I say, Bravo!
Dude walks across the field too to delay the game even further
Ref should've called the game for that and given it to the other team. Red means off the field, not walking across it.
Listen to the trashy parents cheer for the coach and say they have his back. They're everything that is wrong with youth sports.
I mean, can you blame the coach he didn’t even attack him that sports
@@Joemight13no,the centre ref was right, to question the refs decision is a red card, as it means you are downgrading the refs control of the field, if a player just says oh cmon ref quietly it’s not a ref as it’s not to the ref and it’s would play on, don’t just agree with side liners, refs have to go through hours of hard training, trust there knowledge
@@demonthesweatyI get what you're saying, but it should have been a yellow and not a straight red. Thats bs lol
@@armandoroman6644 have you gone through around 24 hours of red training and have had multiple reminders about questioning the refs decisions and all of that, I have gone through that as a proper ref but believe what you want I guess 🤷♂️
Everything that is right with youth sports. The big leagues ain't no daycare. Ain't no friendly environment.
Good job Ref. These coaches want to keep talking... time to go
Respect to him for having the bravery and confidence to throw em off. Can’t say how many times I’ve played and wanted parents to go away because they’re talking trash
Yo BC what are you doing here!? I love your videos! (I'm a friend of Christopher Connelly.)
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I love how the ref was straight back to business even while the coach is still screaming on his way off the field. No need for that crap even if the refs are imperfect. Good handling of the situation there.
We need to adopt a zero tolerance attitude against adults like this or we will lose youth sports forever
Definitely need some better policies
You must not have been around sports.
Youth sports has been lost for years and years.
And lose officials. There is a referee and umpire shortage for a reason.
@kt-ru4hq oh No Skippy, better call the Authorities! We have to do something 🤡
This teenage ref deserves a commendation. Standing up for respectful play and conduct. Good for him. 🏅🏅
the AR could have done more before it got to that point to try to keep the coach calm ..not all parents and coaches are wrong because they don't have the whistle ..I wish I was there to see the whole game
Those kids don't even look 13. Great call by the ref, stop this behavior before it gets worse. It really is a shame when parents think any behavior like this is remotely acceptable. Coach learned a good lesson.
Grown man trying to bully a teenager at a child’s game. Classy. Quite a role model.
The unhinged coach should not coach in any league.
Referee was awesome and managed this situation perfectly. The coach, on the other hand was a bad representation for his team.
He even trounced across the field after ejection- a sure sign that he respects nothing about this sport.
Imagine being a full grown adult acting like a child at a kids soccer game smh
I’m a referee and I see that every Sunday when I ref their games. It happened yesterday in two games, I got cops called on me by them lol everything was okay tho the couple got kicked out 😅
As a athletic I’d prefer players referees in coaches, communicating with each other I got my first technical foul because I was falling around. I said that’s bullshit. 😂
Theres a right and a wrong way of teaching kids this guy clearly showed himself who he was 😂
I am a teenage ref myself, who does a lot of adult games, and trust me I see it ALL THE TIME!!
Bro soccer moms these days are just way to overprotective of their children
They feel very entitled.
That's what I'm saying. Sports are sports man. Not pedicures
@@ronaldmartinez6732 Excellent 😂😂
Just looking at that coach, you could tell he was once an elite athlete accustomed to competing at the highest levels.
This is why I love Parent coaches vs the real thing. Total disregard for the game
Hey kid, you're doing great, there's so many adult center refs who don't have the spine to put unruly staff or parents in their place. Keep it up. That's exactly what you should do
Totally agree
it's not that they don't have the spine..they are lazy and don't want the extra paperwork, don't want the assignor seeing he can't handle that age group..I was an AR for a game with the Philadelphia union academy team. The ref was a younger ref ..the Philly keeper was yelling the F word from the net at players and the ref..I was telling the keeper to stop cursing and the center ref just ignored the whole thing..I told the ref at half time that he needs to clamp down on that..he said, "I'll never be invited back if I start cracking down on stuff like that.,.smh..it's a huge problem when the clubs have that much power all because of money
he showed them, walking across the pitch like the hero he is.
The entitlement to think he can berate an official while simultaneously stepping onto the field during a match is next level nutzo...
This video alone is enough to get that coach banned from coaching for multi-season cycles in our association
In our association, abuse of the referee is taken very seriously; by a coach even more so. God help you if you abuse a teenage ref (that you know by definition has limited experience and is likely to make more errors); this generally results in a permanent ban. I say generally as if I'm aware of it happening in the 8 years I've coached, but at the coaches' meeting every preseason, the association states in no uncertain terms that a permanent ban is the result of this behavior.
Parents and coach are a damn joke.
"You're a joke" says the adult getting kicked out of a kids soccer game 😂
Parents getting in mob mentality against teenagers is insane..
Dipsick walked across the pitch to spoil the game even longer...
My son coaches, he's calling the refferee a joke and look at the age of those kids. Shameful and disgusting.
These kids are like U7 why is bro getting heated, like it’s not like a scout or some shit to see this and he is going to become the next man united coach or one of the players will get signed to Chelsea
Proud of the referee. 🎉🎉🎉
Agree
It's children playing.. Relax man 😂
What a cheeseburger coach.
1. This is a kids game, not the World Cup final. This is where they are having fun and getting a workout.
2. If by some chance there is a referee that is making bad calls, as long as it’s consistent in both ends of the teams then it’s just a coin flip for the decisions, and a review of the arbiter post-match so he can learn from those mistakes.
3. We are human, people make mistakes. If you think you can do a better job, put on the uniform. Otherwise you’re just a spectator with zero say in what goes on the match regarding rules
Great lesson for the kids coach...walking disrespectfully across the field...
"I walked away from you!"
Ref: "Yeah, you walked away from me after you stepped on the pitch to verbally harangue me.
That's what the red card is for, bonehead!"
my older brother was a soccer referee at 14, that was his first job. so many parents would argue with him but he was little and was scared. when he got older he spoke back and took control of situations where coaches were almost gonna fight each other. mind you my brother has played soccer his entire life so he knew what he was doing. he also took a class to make sure he was great. when i turn 14, i’m gonna have to do the same but mind you, i have a little bit of an attitude so with my attitude i’d probably scare the parents and get them to shut up before i cancel the game. mind you, you can do that. i’ve learned so much from my brother and i can’t wait to work. hopefully parents now a days are no longer vicious animals
For the most part, the sidelines are decent, it’s a few that ruin it for others.
Good job to that kid ref. Parents are a joke.
There is no need for a coach to act this way - there kids are like 7 years old
And then he walks across the pitch.
"At the end of the day you gotta be consistent " ... How does this warrant a red card ??
And we wonder why our kids have no respect for authority
Tossed😂😂
We don’t have the context of the disagreement. The ref may very well have been making bad or one sided calls. Bad officiating, along with bad coaching, are both ruining youth sports.
Been seeing this a lot and i know parents and coaches catch flack for being ridiculous but some of these refs be soft af.
Typical suspect
The kids look like they are about 9 years old. After being tossed, he had to walk across the field instead of walking around.
That coach never ran a day in his life
And the loser walks directly across the field. No shame, no understanding.
I own my own club, indoor facility and leagues - in 8 years I have reffed nearly 7000 games, and am ruthlessly strict with parents. I do not use cards.. minor fouls are incidentals (free kick), anything malicious/dangerous is a strike. After 1 strike, the next foul is an automatic goal for the other team and a free kick..
In this span there has not been 1 injury (due to a foul).
Ive only had to permanently ban 4 families, and 1 entire team during a tourney.
Does it work? There is now a 9 month waiting list (35 pre-paid families) for each and every program from u5 to Mens and womens leagues being held in escrow..
I decided to do it myself.. and now the national program is coming by.. they are actually considering what I am doing..
Don't let your kids play soccer, its whack
i can’t even tell you how many times i’ve wanted a parents or a coach off the field. sm respect to that referee
i tossed an ex nfl player who was coach from a little league game when i was umpire at 12
I see so many of these soccer clips. First a red card is for players not the coach or parents. Coach can be sent off and has to leave and the assistant coach takes over. I refer for many years.
Just can’t keep their mouth shut
its a twofold problem, parents and coaches that do not understand the game, and then frustrated parents and coaches with refs that are horrible. Its a kids game but its also safety concerns, hours of volunteer hours poured into a team, both sides need better training
the coaches anger is coming from week after week seeing poor officiating ..I've assessed refs and believe me, there are refs that should be doing something else. there's not enough info shown unfortunately
@@forzajuve4845 yes but you have to start some where. Young refs need a place to start, and there are not enough refs to go around. They need to be trained more frequently, especially as they are being paid. I as well have assessed refs, coaches and clubs.
Dang this is why I will never volunteer for youth soccer reffing, I remembered when I was playing lmao!!! HELLLLNAAHH I don’t want any part of it!!
There is a ref shortage.. I wonder why?
It's not just the parents and coaches. It's the leagues, too. Obviously this isn't universal, but a lot of leagues don't protect their refs by backing up their ejection decisions with bans, so the refs are thrown under the bus constantly.
Hey "Coach" - here's a thought: Why don't you give up coaching (since you set a piss poor example for the kids anyway), and put on the stripes since you obviously know so much about being a Ref!!
I seriously wonder if the American coach even knows what is offside and there are positions in football?
When I was a teenager playing traveling club ball, I didn't respect any of the coaches in their 20s or 30s that already had a beer gut. They were weirdly common, and they were never any good at coaching.
A good coach has to be an effective disciplinarian. He has to set an example. What does it say when a coach isn't even disciplined with his own body?
That coach couldn’t run the length of the field - so there is no way he could do the job of the ref. So, let him ref the game. Best thing for the kids - kick those who aren’t a positive influence on the game and the players out.
Agree
Great ref coach doesn’t know what he is talk about
I swear adults, whether they are watching their kid or playing in a rec league, who suck ass just go to blow off steam. They just show up and are already pissy looking for drama. It’s pathetic
another dad (coach) that thinks his kid is going to play for team USA 🙄
As a 14 year old ref, while the ref made the right decision to eject the parent, you are supposed to ask the coach to remove the parent and if they or the parent do not comply the coach can get a red or the game can be abandoned. You are never supposed to give a red card to a spectator even if they did deserve it.
Each league and tournament has their own policies for spectator removals. You are correct that there isn’t a Soccer Law about Red carding a spectator for ejection unless they step foot on the pitch…even then it’s a straight ejection
Tossed for saying we have to be consistent. I thought only MLB umps were that soft.
Saying "we have to be consistent" is code for "I'm going to be a jerk, but use weasel words like "consistent" to make myself seem fair-minded.
Lead by example and teach your kids that sometimes things don't go the way you want. Learn to deal with adversity.
Respect the referee even if they make mistakes. unless you have vr. people complain about the ref but don't want to be the ref. isn't that irony?
Adults at sports should be banned , they act worse than the kids always
It should be required for any parent or coach to take anger management course before being allowed back.
Once the man walked through the field & Ref had to stop the game he'd ended the game.
Walk of shame. 😂
"I walked away from you!!!" (And you kept mouthing off, while you were walking away) Do you think the Ref gave you the red card for the direction of your walk?
Yes I remember what happened there I played there for soccer once 🤦
Hats off to that ref. Amazing situation handling with a coach that acts more like a kid then the teenage ref himself
But the problem is I heard what your parents said. U have to control your parents or its on you.
Bad by the ref. Refs gotta go to the coach before the spectators.
8 year olds dude.
im not a fan of this ref's handling of this situation..he has a lot to learn ..he will lose control in many games if he thinks the solution is yellow and red cards..there are many ways to handle this without tossing the coach . as a ref since 1981 this ref should be taught other methods
Instead of giving the muppet a red card, the ref should give him a ball and he can demonstrate all the skills and techniques that he passes onto his U11 D grade (??) players.
Its usually these guys with the biggest mouths that think they're coaching in the big time that are the most inept !!
This is a grown man arguing with college/hs kids (refs) over 8 year olds playing a game
at least it adds heat to the game. No parent actually likes watching a trashy 8 year old game. If stuff like this happens at least it gets a little interesting 😂
Whatever happened to the adults?
AHO coach
To be fair the coach didn’t continue talking. It was the cameraman he heard saying something about consistency😂
You're deaf
The coach didn’t exactly do anything to stop him. At the end of the day to use his words, it is his side line and his responsibility.
I see dad brought his soccer dad body to face off with a 16 yr old. Why don't you ref then dad if it's so easy. Way to handle it ref, the league has your back.
Lol...
I get it. But league rules tell you Not to argue with the refs....especially a teen....come on. U know they are learning
Funny....the coach is supposed to Lead the way, not be the head jackass...
the ref doesn't know what he's doing ..unless there was more that happened before, that is not a red card ..he also should have pulled the coach aside and had a stern talk with him..when there's an audience, it escalates ..when the coach said he needs to be consistent he should have said "not another word"..then if he continues you can toss him
So strange that volunteer officials are hard to find these days
I was a ref as a teen. Job sucked
nice of him to invade the pitch after being sent off
This coach shouldn’t be coaching kids
I did this referee nonsense for ten years.
I didn't hear the dad trash talk. Just saying refs need to be consistent. Witch is true. The problem is the young ref power tripping.
So what exactly happened? I might be able to help if you don't understand
Lol the fuck coach walks off…. While every kid on the field just wants to go home and play video games..
Sad stuff to see in kids sports.
I think the red overrated a bit but thats sports for you.
Acting like it's the world cup lol Lame O
I played at that field
where is that field?
That wasn't that bad.
Reported for thieving content
Thieving? From who?
That’s my soccer team strikers
SoCcEr not FoOtBaLl
Doesn’t happen often enough