Woman Turns Man Down Then Needs Him
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These women don't need us men, guess what, we're now making them stand on what they say.
Please make those hyena’s “stand on bizness!” They have the nerve to look in my husband’s direction when he’s at Home Depot. He’s not the one so he keeps walking like he doesn’t even see them.
They spent the last 30+ years telling the world that they don't need us. Now, they're mad that we listened.
And they hate that, they see us as pawns
Yeah they even need help with that
If she didn’t like him before the groceries she’s not going to like him after the heavy groceries. She was just using him to get something out of him so his decision to leave her alone was a good one
I agree.
More common in the communitah then you think
What women don't understand is that we never helped you because we cared about YOU. We helped you because we cared about OUR wives and sisters. When women are wives a man helping a woman is paying it forward for the help that his wife will receive from another man. Their is no communal benefit to helping slures. It is supposed to be hard to be an independent slure.
Bingo.
Facts
Ding ding ding (why aren’t men holding doors anymore”
They think every black man owes them something. His time his choice
Facts
We definitely don't
Community Simps, resources, useful idiots
RIGHT 💯 ✅️
NO free resources
NO free protection
NO free attention
She should have called the bear.
The bear knew better...
Exactly
@@doncalypso facts
You mean Wade Wilson
lol 😂
He should've ignored her once he saw the toddler.
Any woman with a 2yr old and no man, is a walking red flag, because she most likely chose to be a single mom.
And still fkin him.
Best comment here
🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃
At the very least, he should have disengaged the first time he got shot down - he should not have persisted. However, I have to point out that he should not have taunted her. Don't be childish and petty when a woman isn't interested in you. A man with self-respect can move on with indifference.
if it doesn't benefit her its misogynistic.
💯
I'm glad we're learning the real definition
@@Helminthis same thing with all their other buzzwords...
"Sassy" = having the nerve to respond to their BS with logic they can't stand.
"Abusive" = holding them accountable for their actions
"Controlling" = enforcing boundaries
"Narcissist" = doesn't worship her and give her unfettered attention 24/7 (ironic)
And yes, misogyny is anything that leaves them nonplussed or without the upper hand in any given situation.
I've been this guy a couple of times in my 45 years. The first time, I helped without hesitation. The second time, it was a chick who had JUST tried (keyword "tried" because you can't play me) to play me out like I was a sucker... then when all the people who she was trying to impress were gone and she needed help with a flat tire, I was the only one there to help. Wasn't going to leave the woman stranded at a venue with strangers at 2 am. I walked off.
...with my girl.
And didn't look back.
Standing ovation sir!
Kudos, brother! I stopped doing that too.
Whenever a BW calls a BM “sassy”, it should assumed that she’s calling him g*y as an insult. They would not try that with non-BM.
And that's the type of dude she secretly will sleep with and got kids by after he been bent over in prison
Sign language is horrible. That is why she is a BM and not a wife.
The day cometh when they will eat these words. What a great feast it will be.
🪦
Facts
Can't expect chivalry from a man you're not in a relationship with or even interested in. Those guys are called simps
💯 % Facts
"CORNY" AND "LAMES"
Chivalry was a thing when women had the same rights as children.
Today a lot of em act like they have more
Chivalry was between men not some bitc. I’m tired of hearing that.
Chivalry was put into place to “help the weak “.
@@mahdul8or Yes, women and children
Yes yes... If you don't allow yourself to be used by women, you sassy... The classic
I agree.
Hyenas draw power from attention so you see she posted a thirst trap picture up before telling her story. That man would’ve been called a “lame” by her after he helped her.
One-thousand percent.
Ladies you have every right to say no to any man you choose, but that also means men have a right to say no to you. Women have made the choice to make everything transactional and they have to live with that choice. Which also means that if you are unwilling to act in a traditional women's role do not expect a man to act in a traditional men's role either. You would not want us men to give you the ick or seem creepy or try to manipulate you by being nice or chivalrous toward you, would you.
Great comment. Be traditional, you get traditional help. Be modern, you don't need no help, you got it.
Chivalry is dead,it is buried right next to Provision. Feminism killed them both. 😅😂
Tha baby father wasn't a bum, a scrub when she was taking ALL THAT PLEASURE!!!
Lol.
Hahahaha shout out Messy Michon
SO ... HIM HELPING HER TO LIFT GROCERIES IS NOT HER HAVING "ACCESS" TO HIS BODY, RIGHT?! 🤦🏿♂️😎
Hell yeah it is.
You're not supposed to think about that.
They genuinely feel entitled to the protection, resources, and attention of the men they have labeled unworthy. Very hypocritical
Men, for years, have themselves undervalued their provision. One of the reasons because most women undervalue them.
Men have to value themselves enough.........to do absolutely nothing for a woman.
And that's why we don't provide anymore for the ungrateful.
@@NickM_FirstofHisName don't provide for women. They can provide for themselves. This ain't the 50s. Plus their ran through, not submissive or respectful, cheat all the time(more than men) and don't cook or clean. What exactly are we providing for?????
I never have, and they hated me for it (while still smashing... which is ANOTHER reason I hate simps and panderers... you can stand on principle, piss them off, and STILL clap).
Gentlemen are only required to be chivalrous to traditional ladies.... not modern hyena baby mamas...
INDEED AND AGREED!!!!! 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
good one!
It's funny how a man is "SASSY" when he knows his value!😅
Funny how that works... They always trying to shame men and it's another reason to not help.
And you can always tell when the sisterhood learned a new word, because they'll all in unison start constantly repeating it like a talking bird. They used up "misogynist" and "narcissistic", now the new word is "sassy".
Soon as they can't get what they want out a man or soon as he checks her, he sassy....these women are so elementary.
Been knew 90% of them was sheep when I graduated high-school 12 years ago
The issue for me is the entitlement. The idea that random men owe something to these women.
The problem is the baby daddy is in jail, but she will send all her mony to him
or THE SIMP'S DOUGH!!!!
Get your Passport ✈️👈:
Travel.
See the world.
Expand your horizons.
Go where you are APPRECIATED and not TOLERATED 👈
Forget about these broads over here🤣
She ignored him the last time he spoke to her but could’ve used his help. He did the right thing by returning the same energy she gave him.
My neighbor talked down to me one day...3 weeks later, the elevator is out, and she's there with two HUGE luggages. She looked at me and didn't even try, she knew the answer
These the same women they say strong and Independent in one breath then need help in another breath. They some hypocrites and losers.
It’s cool when they do it, it’s a problem when men do it! ✌🏿 They stay scheming
Screw the women and simps enabling this behavior. Props to the brother for not helping, simping for her and keeping it moving.
He’s supposed to be a gentleman, but there ain’t no way she ever gonna be a lady
Men are not required to be gentlemen. It's a personal choice a man makes.
INDEED AND AGREED 💯
@@jonthomson9262you must be slow smh
@@kojoefante since your insulting me......the least you can do is offer a logical explanation for the insult. 😂 😂.....especially since I haven't insulted you at all. Does it make you feel better about yourself to insult random strangers on the internet for no reason?? Does it boost your self esteem?? 😂 😂
I remeber a chick who lived in my building she had a bunch of groceries, she was bringing up a 24pk of water. Clearly she was struggling, so i offered to help she had an attitude and gruffly said no, no problem with me. I already saw one problem, her long nails tore through the plastic, as she was going upstairs, the plastic ripped and water bottles were everywhere and she was cursing the water, i just walked past her and went in my place.
That's the thing. The woman in the post said she'd already rejected the man. I suspect she _actually_ wanted him to offer help so she could reject him more harshly this time. Some women get off on doing shit like that.
@@BiggieTrismegistus Yup.
If he would've tried to be a gentleman.... She would've tried to say he was weak .. a simp... doing too much trying to get at her. It's crazy that men get more attention for being unbothered.
These ladies don’t owe men anything. AND…. Men don’t owe ransom ladies anything either. They said they was strong independent and didn’t “…need no man…” then chose the bear 🐻
The expectation of traditional / patriarchal chivalry while advocating for egalitarianism has always been a head scratcher for me.
Ladies if you advocate for egalitarianism then you must understand that the benefits of patriarchy evaporates.
Give something to the kid to carry so they can learn how to help.
She will turn him into son husband.
They say they're STRONG, INDEPENDENT, CAN DO THINGS BY THEMSELVES & THEY DON'T NEED A MAN FOR NOTHING. Men need to start forcing them to LIVE IT! Most off them would never help if it was the other way around & I bet SHE' NOT TELL THE FULL TRUTH about what really happened.
So the strong independent, leave me alone, no I don't owe you a smile or kindness, I hate you but I should still be able ti use you to help me through life, all these ninjas aint ish, I'm grown, don't tell me nothing about my kids brigade now want a community? Amazing.
Its all good for women when they need they car fixed help with groceries lifting something heavy stopping a intruder from enter your house but any other time its get out my face im a boss b Strong independent woman who don't need no man girl please
I love this one Miss Cure. I have no issues with any women who don't find me attractive to reject me. That comes with the territory. The moment that rejection happens, she is cut off from all communication. Asking me for assistance or wanting to be friends is a HELL NO!!!
Bingo.
Let her go chase her son and bottles of Aquafina rolling down the street by herself. She got this.
(I've seen this play out and stood by like that duck smoking weed gif).
Short answer? 🤔
You're on your own....get it how you live🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Black women think everybody want them
I know it's funny.
It's so weird that they think pretty much every man is always trying to hit on them. Maybe when a guy says "hi" he's just being friendly?
Facts, and I'm over here get to this money 💵 😂😂
they are perfect even though they are #1 on the skip-me list and last on the Pick-me list. why they have this ego is beyond me
Statistics shut down that bs real quick
I learned early in life not to expect help for any and every man. I'm grateful to any man that helps me when he isn't obligated to, but I do not expect it.
Exactly. I am the same way
"I'm in a bind Nate." The bind is undefeated!!!
This title is the title of what so many good men went through when we were in our 20s figuring out life. At 41 now, i ignore them on trains and in streets. Passport bros exists for a reason
Yep. Made that comment early on. I'm 45 and stopped giving them any attention over 15 years ago.
Use of his resources
When some men are being a gentleman and open the door for a woman. Some women say “I had it or I could’ve gotten it myself” and or don’t even thank you
His time his choice 🤷🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️
His body his choice too. Women complain about men wanting access to their bodies but expecting a man to carry heavy things for them somehow doesn't count as access to _his_ body.
@@BiggieTrismegistus i only see facts here 💯
She also maybe realized she no longer had the same attention coming from him and wanted to see if she still had it
If he helped her after she ignored him all those times he was trying to get with her, she would have been thinking I have this guy wrapped around my fingers and I can make him do what I want and I can still treat him like crap.
Or, if he'd gone to help her, she would have told him to get the hint and leave her alone. She could have been hoping for an opportunity to reject him again.
I'll be "Sassy" and proud haha he should've said "RESPECT MY BOUNDARIES!" They want men on demand like a cable service. You get the whole package or nothing, you can't pick and choose.
I love how women can just waltz into Home Depot, buy a whole ass double wide refrigerator, wheel that itch out the her Toyota Tercel/ Dodge Neon//Jetta and just wait for a man to show up.
Lol.
Tercel lmaooooo you gotta be my age (40s).
THIS😂😂. I used to work at a retail store, and it sold furniture, when these ladies would come in and buy these things off of impulse. So of course they called me to help them take it to the car. If it was a Nissan Altima, versa, Dodge neon, or a Ford explorer. I would tell them it's not gonna fit, "How do you know", so I kept quiet, forced the furniture in the car and heard all kinds of cracking and breaking, got it in, mission accomplished. One lady offered me $50-100 to go to her house and bring it in for her. I told her no, because I'm not putting my back or anything at risk. She said I could at least be a gentleman, I told I was being a gentleman, I turned down the offer gently. 🤷🏾♂️
@@Mr.Edwards233 That Allstate lady owes you royalties, B.
@@Mr.Edwards233 But lmaooooo to the rest of that. They gotta find out the hard way since they REFUSE to listen.
Yelp! Tried to help a lady change a tire once. She said you ain't getting my number. Left her in the parking lot
Bad women (most women in black America current culture) don't like or should I say respect gentlemen. Men can use their free will as they please.
She probably turned him down disrespectfully. A lot of women turn down men, but they do it with disrespect. Now had she turned him down respectfully, he probably would've still helped her.
I think she _really_ wanted him to offer to help so she could reject him more harshly this time. As you say, some women get off on disrespecting men in that way,
Crimson hit the point perfectly about knowing he likes her and her using that to extract some level of benefit from him. In this case, it was his physical ability that she needed in that moment....
I wonder if her baby daddy ever held the groceries for her?🤔
No, but he had swag. Oh, and he changed after! 🙄
@@NickM_FirstofHisNameIs that a Sinestro Corps logo? Are you a fan?
@@BiggieTrismegistus It is. Are you a fan too?
"If she like you, you dont have to ever help with anything." - Ray Ray Jermaine
Nothing is free in this world.
I’ve experienced this with a previous neighbor. She would never speak (completely ignored me several times) but got extremely chatty when they delivered her furniture but left the boxes downstairs. I did not help her. I’m not concerned with being a gentleman to a woman that’s not a lady.
She better do something
there is always the bear.
Bw have lost everything
Including the plot.
Everything
EVERYTHING!!!! And their minds were the first to go!
HOLD UP so when he said you ignored me and why you need a man AT THAT SAME MOMENT she dropped the water 🤔
Don’t approach women, don’t talk to women, don’t don’t don’t… or something like that
Sassy = Giving them a taste of their own medicine
Also, strong, independent boss babe "kween" can't handle some bottles of water?! 😂
The trick to carrying awkward and heavy (if you're a woman) things like that is to carry them on your head. Other women all over the world have figured that out but American women can't.
The Brother did the right thing! Let her baby daddy handle it! SYSBM!
That is if she knows who her baby daddy is....lol
SHE wanted ACCESS to HIS BODY.
(Wanted him to use his body in order to make her life easier).
In the mind of women "body" means "genitals". That's how they get around demanding the use of men's bodies while pretending they're not demanding the use of men's bodies.
I AGREE IN FULL, JUST NOT SEXUALLY! WE MEN ARE NOT JUST A PIECE OF MEAT! NO MATTER HOW BIG WE MAY BE..
Modern Women have increasingly become Masters at Burning Bridges,
but still expecting a Men to swim back across to help her at the drop of a Hat.
No second chances.
2:41 I'm not a gentleman when the hyena isn't a lady.
Would she had help him? Hell naw. Never see women helping even when it’s their job. 🤷🏾♂️. Nice for what
She said she don't pay him no mind, so he owes her nothing
He shouldn't have even acknowledged her. he gave her alil validation by talking to her.
A few years ago, during that Texas winter storm I was cleaning the snow and ice off of my car with my snow brush/ice scrapper. A BW who never looked my way and always right past me since I had been living in the complex for a couple years tried to charm and sweet talk me from off of her balcony. She asked if the scrapper was my mine and if she could use it to clean off her car while pointing to it. I can tell she was hoping that I would clean it off since it was below freezing outside, and I was already out there bundled up. She had on house clothes asking me that. I told her sure, and that I would bring it up to her. I'm not going out of my way to help a woman that doesn't even want to look at me except when it's beneficial for her.
i laughed, especially at hte baby daddy line.
That was the coup de grace. Absolutely beautiful.
Yep as a BW I never just expect random men to help me. If they do they do, however I don't feel entitled to the help from some random man. Smh
you don't think less of them when they just walk by and don't force their patriarchy on you?
He would have helped and the next day she would have barely said hi to him once again.
I never trust anyone who say "community" or "we are black, we have to stick together."
As far as I know, I'm Japanese, Dutch, French, English, and spanish, now.😂
You shouldn't. That kind of solidarity is harmful to any community that believes it. Stick with the people you want to because they share your values and beliefs, not because of their race.
Hey a ex girlfriend of mine said she didn’t need me for anything and left me for her baby daddy and then a few months later her baby daddy kicked her out and she called me to try to move back in with me and I told her to call your baby daddy and she said I was being sassy last I heard her sister kicked her out and now she with her mom
Chivalry is many things. One of those things is a method of raising a man's self-esteem FOR HIS OWN BENEFIT. And if it is an act of kindness or service then it also benefits the other person. Chivalry is not obligatory only self-respect. The guy in the post respected himself in this situation, the other men calling for gentlemanly behaviour are wrong.
It's also a mindset that women are weak
A Woman can respectfully deny a Man in regard to a relationship. However, if she does, but remains cordial with him; I think most Men would still be a gentleman and help her.
However,
If a Woman is disrespectful and is not cordial with the Man; He has every right and should deny her assistance; in most cases. Unless, she is willing to provide a Financial Incentive or Food for his assistance.
Lol they said this is why the community is broken 😂😂😂 yeap ok
It's broken cause they broke it.
Using anyone for benefits never end well
Why would dude even try to push up on a single mom to begin with? That’s my question.
Whoever the young man is, I applaud him! Like he said, "call your baby daddy," I love it! Why should he help her, I don't understand? She basically told him, "I don't need a man." Now that she needs some type of assistance, he's supposed to just relax his standards to help her lol? If it was vice versa, would she assist him? I DON"T THINK SO! Again, I applaud him and push for more black men to do the same.
We hunters got something sassy waiting for you .
All these HE COULD'VEs from people projecting not realizing HE DOESN'T HAVE TO and doesn't need a reason for what he doesn't have to do according to someone else's thoughts.
And why call anyone at all? She can do it all, right?
Respect is earned ladies.
If you don't show it don't expect it.
We are watching your tiktok vids of you saying horrible things about us so we are keeping our distance.
I am a helping gentleman, when I FEEL Like It! Selective Gentleman, hate it or love it. I decide to be a gentleman or totally ignore any situation. I owe no Man or Woman anything! PBP!! Drizzle Drizzle me!
The one 🤡 in the comments said, " Don't date in the same complex."😂😂 That dog won't hunt!
Really shouldn't do it though.
Usually when things go sour it can be detrimental if you both live in the same apartment complex.
@@Feathermoon16 whew I know a couple of guys PERSONALLY who learned that the hard way.
@@Feathermoon16 google Eric Somuah and Katrina Ben... I'll never forget that.
He's not required to help her especially since she most likely wasn't cordial when he told her hi before. We women can respectfully reject a man without being rude about it and no one that we're not in a relationship with but is just passing by is supposed to help us off the strength of we're women and he's a man. It's about respect.
She probably doesn’t even know who the baby’s daddy is! 😒😒
It is AMAZING how she didn't think to call a bear.
The 19 year ol girl who married and then divorced her 61 year old husband did the exact same thing.
She cussed folks out first. Now, she set up a gofundme with a $20K goal to get a house and car.
Are we in the Twilight Zone?
See the people in the comments section saying he could have been a gentleman are ridiculous.
I’ll be the first to tell a female - “sorry I’m a modern man just like you are a modern woman. I’m not a gentleman, that’s an outdated concept, just like the concept of a female staying chaste and pure until marriage and then staying with the man she married until death do we part.. women don’t play that outdated role anymore right? So why should you expect chivalry from us?”
He wasn't Pookie enough for her, that's all! Now she has to deal with the mess she got herself into! They hate logic and guys with standards!
She loves the Pookie, the problem with those guys is women won't ask for help from because she doesn't want to become a burden to him
and he won't come when she needs to cum.
Just experienced this and im going to take the same approach as before..continue to ignore especially if you have something to lose excluding them
Here's the dilemma today's women do not like men, but they Need men and that's why you see the attitude from women that feel you should pay for stuff but don't get close to me or don't ask me for anything. type attitude/energy it's a real crazy confliction. That we're witnessing from today's women.
She still expected boyfriend duties after she rejected him. Delusional
The issue here is we have a man does acting like a man should a gentleman. And the min he does just that, it always translates to oh he just trying to get some box. Instead of him just wanting to help her. And she wants to get mad when he turns her down after she already declined him once. You turn me down once don't get mad now lol. And then she started saying oh what's wrong with men? But you stopped him from helping you 😂😂😂
She's strong, independent and doing it on her own. She's don't need no man other than to make babies. You go girl, you got this.
They want that Thuggin'Love, period. Let the water bottles roll!! 🤪🤪🤪
I notice alot of OTHER women wear their attractiveness alot better than sistas. Some sistas get a little hair, clothes, makeup aaannnnd they become royalty and men become servants. Great incite and content as always kendra. 👍
You know damn well she was giving this dude stank attitude before this incident.