I Wish I Had A Time Machine and Could Redo My life
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- Опубликовано: 29 июн 2024
- 0:00 Intro
2:46 My Regrets
9:37 Final Message
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I would go back to right after I graduated high school. I would do soooo many things different
Most of my regrets stem from my inability to make good decisions for myself and others which is ultimately based upon the way i am. As a consequence if i could travel back in time to change all of my regrets i would change my own nature which would lead me to be completely unrecognizable in the present day.
Thank you so very much for sharing this topic! I've been carrying a baggage of guilt, regrets, pain and anger since my teen years and to this day, I still haven't forgiven myself nor gotten over some issues.
If I could go back in time, I would very much change my low self esteem/self confidence,/insecurities/doubts/fears, rid of the negativities, and timidness. I'm almost sure if I hadn't struggled from lack of self confidence, I'd be in a better place in my life right now as in a stable job and stable life. And as some friends would remind me, it's never too late to start from scratch........maybe 🤔
Thank you again, Kenny for this video 👍🏼
Regret is such a waste of time. I quickly get over it and move forward. Accept the things I cannot change and understanding that life is HARD AF because it is, sooner or later, things we can't control. I'm 21/22 years old, if I live to 80... I will go through pain and suffering. Thats why I'm jealous of the dead, but at the same time I do enjoy staying above ground while I still have this finite time available to me. Nowadays I just don't seem to care... life isn't long. Theres 8 billion+ of us on this earth. No one is making it out alive within the first 100 years. Even if you do live to 100, are you really enjoying being elderly+ stuck at some nursing home waiting to die. But right now... I gotta work and pay them bills, it is what I must do. Suck it up. Is what I tell myself.
I also feel guilty for things almost same like you. But regret guilt are things which are still with me. I fail to forgive myself and let my self fail, fall make mistakes just so I can make myself more miserable (like in movies, being Revengeful) . Now I try to self affirm that I did the things which were the best of my abilities in those moments. There is also a NLP technique which helps a lot but words are the double edged swords which can hurt if used wrong.
If I could start my life over again then this is what I would do. First I would change the schools I went to and go to better ones. Next I would try to become a celebrity such a singer, actor, voice actor, dancer, musician and martial artist. I would try to be in many movies and tv shows both live action and cartoons. I would start my career as a child.
Thank you Kenny. Wonderful match up listening to you and a Twitch livestreamer playing music.
Hey, I randomly found this video as I'm having a kind of a crisis of meaninglessness as a 30 year old with lots of fear and no accomplishments to build my self-esteem on.
Something that struck me about this video was you talking about your siblings. Please start that relationship now. In 5, 10, 20, 25, 30, 40 years you'll think "hell, why didn't I reach out to them when I first realised I regret not having a relationship with them?" You might find surprising points of connection and similarity with them, because being a sibling is weird like that. It could be something as simple as "Hey, I've been thinking about things and I regret that I don't have more of a relationship with you and/or X. You're important to me even if we don't see or talk that much. Would you want to visit/go for a coffee/see me/(whatever) at some point?"
I'd be surprised if they didn't appreciate the vulnerability and you reaching out. I regret not reaching out to someone who then ended up dying of old age/covid, because now that chance will never come. There can only be regret for me, but yours can still be temporary. Life is feeble and we never know when we lose our chances, don't take them for granted, don't be complacent and comfortable in the idea that "maybe some day", please start now. The worst thing that could happen is you'll stay in the same situation that you're in right now.
Edit: alternatively, if they're not adults yet, just start doing stuff with them. Kids/teenagers love to spend time with an older sibling, plus you can take them places and hang out and do fun stuff without having to be with with their parents. Movies, arcades, burgers, things like that.
Also, random note but the first video I saw from you just now was the one about you turning 25, and it's actually crazy how much better and more put together you look these days. Great job on the self-improvement!
Thanks for the words man, helped me a lot.
i can relate i want to go back to tell my mother that i hate that school that i transferred to and in high school i woulda fight someone cus they just troubled
It’s all good man
Such a small RUclipsr no views but this was great and impacted my life
I have so many regrets, I don't even know how i can live with myself any longer.
Hi Kenny hope your ok over the pond, can I make a suggest to you regarding your contact with your sibling. Why don’t you take the lead and invite them out to your place for the day. Or consider bowling or golf anything really to get back within the family circle with them. Are they gamers like you. ?? Just a few ideas for you to Think about .
Great question. My ultimate conclusion is that I don't know what negative consequences would come of changes that I desire. No one you know that was conceived after the time you go to will be born because of how everything has a knock on affect.
However, for the purpose of this I would do things with confidence and speak my mind in front of people. I would be a stronger person to help and guide others. I would prevent a class mate that I didn't know well from hanging themselves.
I was not diagnosed until about 30 with ADD (ADHD Predominately Inattentive). I also had Selective Mutism, so hardly anyone got to hear me speak at school. This went into depression, social anxiety and Avoidant Personality Disorder. So, quite a great start to life!
I am 4 of 14 siblings too, which in some ways probably helped and in others made things worse. More interaction with siblings but less time being parented.
Going back to your past is a great fantasy with a zing of melancholy as you can't change a thing... that is why I just look at the good in my roll of the dice. Roll the dice again and you don't know what will happen (like someone dying in an accident that didn't before). I'll keep my issues thanks!
Kenny, with your siblings you need to meet with them one on one. Maybe pay for a meal or to do something. If you meet all of them you probably will be left on the outside, which makes perfect sense. They need to learn who you are and enjoy your company. You don't need to get serious with them, have fun. People do not like meeting with people where the outcome is negative. Leave them thinking that it was alright to spend time with you. A few meets later and hopefully you build up a banter that makes interactions fun. Then meeting becomes something that is enjoyable on all sides. You need to relearn who they are and vice versa. I've been there!
i thought the "time machine" would be killing myself and re-living my life, or atleast a new one. im still considering this
A video about using a time machine to redo your life, which is a redoing of an earlier video about precisely that. There's a palpable post modern vibe going on there. Art imitating art. Or something. I think I'd go back to before my parents met, and try to put them off each other! Bit whingy. Sorry everybody. But the question is, "COULD you/I/we/anybody have done any better?" Maybe. Maybe not. Yes you could change the odd spot decision here or there. But more generally, could we have just somehow been better at school, at work, in relationships, in life in general. It's a big ask.
But I'd say you're right to concentrate on the here and now. Although the time machine idea is a good hook (and may the word "clickbait" never pass my lips), and gets the ball rolling, at the end of the day it's just an unattainable fantasy. But having a "from this moment on" ethos definitely has legs. My Dad used to have this (in my opinion rather cheesy but I include it here as it may help some people a bit) phrase, "Today is the first day of the rest of my life." A triumph of blind positivity over experience? Possibly. But at least it is a triumph.
Probably continue my college degree
I do too
change from today. don be like me at 64 and having said that a million times and never did
I don’t know what to even do right now I chipped my back tooth and I haven’t left my house in almost 2 years because I am so skinny I won’t even go out my front door only the back because there is no one that can see me
I’m not scared no more
I quit doing drugs to
Same here 😞
If you could go back in time, what would you redo in your life?
Too much to name 😟
School. I would socialize more, take advantage of dating options. many people liked me and wanted a relationship. now im 25 its harder
But amore fati. Im learning to be okay and love my fate, dont want to focus past and regret too much. i liked people at school, But one person specifically really admired her wanted to marry fantasized about family with her. Lost her , i still think of her sometimes
I'd go back to my HS days and be like Yu Narukami. Guy balances everything - school, girls, personas, all. I kept to myself way too much and as a result, my isolation and social avoidance continues into my 30s. No career, either.
Nothing would change.
I was like you but i figure out that i have learning difficulties. Which is hereditary. Nothing can cure neurological conditions.
Sometimes I want to kill myself. I live a failed life. I never had a girlfriend. A 11 years old friendship ended this year. I only have 2 friends and let's say 2 buddies. My job is a dead end job
How are you now?