I gotta agree with a few of the other comments about the last story. The guy doesn’t play that much, actually (especially with a game that is usually very much a “Farm away or fall behind” type game). He works, he helps cook and with the dog, he DOES spend time with her, even though she’s on her phone during that time, he tries to bring up other activities to try out and give gifts, and he leaves the game when something comes up (such as dinner or walking the dog). And it sounds like they also go out on weekends together as well. Meanwhile her only argument the entire time is “but you’re on the game and don’t focus on me”. Look, if I’m sitting next to you, no phone or computer with me, and am watching a show with you, HOW is that not focusing on time with you!? How is it the game’s fault I’m not soending time with you when I am going out of my way to give you attention. Meanwhile the girl is ignoring him, throwing out gifts, and playing on her phone during all this.
About the last one.. I feel like the guy isn't in the wrong? Yeah he plays alot but he works all day, helps cooking picks her up and watches shows with her plus offered to play games with her if she wants to so I really feel like he's trying here, plus it's not like he puts the game before her or forgot to pick her up before or something he just plays it when he has time
And this narrator drops the ball again. 3rd story clearly sounds like someone blaming her ex for her personal problems. 1st off, she never gives any examples for any of the terrible things he did during the relationship, just that he did do some. 2nd, she is blaming her horrible job, her weight gain, and her mental state on her ex. 3rd, she literally mentions that her ex has a "perfect life".
Couldn't agree more, while it is in the realm of possibility, how she is behaving is out of unhinged jealousy. As you said she is blaming HER PROBLEMS on her ex when there is no reasoning given as to the break up does make it sound like she has been listening too much to the 3rd wave feminists. Yes break ups are harsh especially from long term relationships. You need to take time to yourself, figure out how your going to move forward and begin self improvement.
Yea the op doesn’t go into detail about the supposed badmouthing. If they were mutual friends I bet it was probably about the op’s severe self loathing that just became to exhausting when the pandemic hit
Glad I am not the only one to believe that. She sounds super entitled in this story. Also if she did gain weight as she claims because of him that’s concerning. She needs to sort out her life.
I have been noticing this narrator does this quite often. He/she would side with the Toxic and manipulative female Karens. Which makes me think, even though it's a male voice, the narrator must be female as they instantly side with women against any men. No matter how toxic the female Karen is. Feminism at its best. Feminism = Men Bad/ women good All the Narrators stories are Anti men, even story 4 and 5. Just proves my point.
Last story: The friction seems to be created by his partner, not the game. The points that the OP brings up are very valid, he drops everything to spend time with her yet it seems like it's not appreciated.
The lady in the 3rd story just sounds insane and is making stuff up to try and turn people against her ex because he's now seeing someone else and happy. I mean, he has no reason to insult her behind her back and her jealousy is making her act like a total psycho which is what's really pushing her friends away. At the rate this woman is spiraling, if a guy ever even cracks a smile at her or tips her a wink, she's going to go full yandere.
I agree, in fact, she says that the ex was bad/abusive over their relationship, but most abusive relationship are mutally abusive, and she doesn't know WHY. he left her, INSTEAD of trying to contact him and find out why he left she JUST assumes that he left for the pandamic, and then SAYS he's bad and BELIEVES her thought
"He had no reason to insult her behimd her back" Neither do other people, but they still do that. That's called being toxic and malicious and it happens.
@@clericofchaos1 We don't know whole story. She is mentaly shattered and kinda paranoid, but it's common for people with shi**y life. He may not be that bad, but who knows.
As a gamer, as clearly stated by the OP THAT HE LOGS OUT WHENEVER THE FIANCE NEEDS ATTENTION. Do you still think that he spends too much time with his video games? And the fact that video games make him SOMEHOW relax after a long day at work. Of course you WOULDN'T KNOW IT because it seems to me that you are not a gamer. THERE ARE BOUNDARIES I KNOW FOR SURE, but not trying to fit both shoes to give that KIND OF COMMENT is RIDICULOUS.
3rd story: THIS FEELS BIASED. I feel like she got emotionally dependent on him. But he isn't RESPONSIBLE about how she feel or How her life is going. Job isn't dependent on him. Psychological health is up to her and therapy to improve. And no proof was given that he was the reason people left her. He does not owe her anything. Him leaving was probably a maneuver to preserve his mental health, because dealing with someone else's mental issues can get tough to everyone around too. Honestly, SHE might be the reason the friends left. The feels I got from her is Very negative and self-pity/self-centered. This can be draining for people to deal if that is the only dimension she ever shows. Fifth story: Once again, very biased POV. He deserves a time for him too. He stated how much time he spends with her and How he tried to bring her to his hobbies or start new ones with her. While with her it feels like you either give attention when she wants, no matter what you're doing, or you didn't give at all. And talking as gamer: I know what is to ignore the whole world to play for hours on end. He said he logged out whenever she called and spent time with her. They go out every weekend. This feels healthier than an Obsession and prolly is her picking on his hobbies.
Unless you've been the victim of abuse you have no idea the pain it causes. My ex-husband is the direct cause of my mental illnesses because of all the abuse that he put me through. When someone's a narcissist they will gaslight you. when you go through that for so long all you can think of how crazy you must be and that it's not him, it's you. You have no idea the recovery time it takes to get away from that. You obviously have never been abused so you obviously have no say in this because you don't know what you're talkin about
last story hes wrong he made a clear point that he already spends a lot of time with her and that what little time he does play the game is allowed to be interrupted since he values her more she is toxic and he should divorce if she does not cut the shit
Divorce seems a bit like overkill but yeah something is going on with their relationship and shes using the game as an excuse to blame him. Maybe go see a couples counselor to resolve the underlining issue before it hits a breaking point.
@@zeeluzz14 and she is in the wrong and their is no middle ground and she doesn't accept that divorce is the answer people like this are toxic and don't deserve the time of day
@@BASED877 there is more to that story, dude needs to play less runescape, and offer couples activities other then videogames, she also needs to be more flexible. Both have issues that can be worked out, divorce should not always be the go to option
@@Cyrus_Nagisa he already spends a lot of time with her why should he have to give up what little time he has left dedicated to a video game to her when she already gets so much? She's in the wrong and he doesn't need too change
@@Cyrus_Nagisa what? they both have jobs... they don't have any free time. he also mentions they always go out on weekends and he cooks dinner with her, walk the dog with her, watch tv with her, and even said he drops everything and logs out of the game to go and be with her. they already interact a lot... if she wants to be with him more then maybe just play games with him... i mean there's so many games in the world that she would probably like also they have jobs... they literally cant interact until theyre at home and even then like what I mentioned earlier, they still spend a lot of time together. Runescape isn't the problem, its the woman, I think she just misses being young and always having free timeand not like being an adult where you spend everyday working and having little to no time with your loved ones
Number three is creating her own reality. Regardless of what he's doing behind her back she's the one that has the problems. You're talking about people in their 20s that are thinking about the rest of their lives. If somebody is already chronically ill and mentally ill on top of it that's not somebody that you want to take in for the long haul. That's not a good investment in your time. I think the placating her is just doing her more damage
I honestly don't find anything wrong with being with someone who's chronically/mentally ill AS LONG AS they have their issues under control or are seeing a medical professional about it and there are compromises made when it comes to how time is spent. The OP in story 3 just sounds like her life is crap and she's refusing to take responsibility for it
3rd story. Op sounds just bitter about her life and blaming her ex. She's probably omitting some information about how she acted, and her ex is conveying that to their mutual acquaintances. It's not talking garbage if her ex is asked "So why'd you break up with OP?" and he says "She was crazy/did x-y/ etc". Her problems don't sound like her exs fault, some of them at least. The mutual acquaintances are kinda iffy without hearing both sides, but given how against her ex OP is, I'm thinking it was something on her side that's damaging her relationships
last story, his partner sounds horrible. Yes, he plays the game too much. Needs to take a few days off IMO. However, he stated that she isn't receptive to his suggestions for couple activities and she trashes the gifts he gives her. It's an ESH kind of situation.
3rd story and 5th story both require more information and context before rendering a judgment. We're only hearing one side of things in each case, and there could be more going on. I know AITA stories are always going to be inherently one sided, but story 3 is very vague on details about why they broke up and story 5 sounds like she might actually be the unreasonable one if he's being honest - or they might just be incompatible people.
story 3: I wouldn't really trust OP's side of the story. It sounds like the BF just wanted to break up and she wouldn't let him. She did not explain what he is telling to the friend group but considering her attitude on the post some of it might be true. Half of her complaint is she still wants to be with a guy that dumped her. I understand not wanting to have to start over with someone new when you've put all the effort into this one relationship, but if it wasn't so hard on her to find someone new like the ex did she probably wouldn't want him back anyway.
There is a reason why so many people point out that the narrator dropped the ball on story 3. It really seems like she blames him for everything that is wrong in her life. I would say she drove him away and blames him for actually choosing happiness over drama.
lmao with the 3rd story. OP is just bitter and can't take accountability for her own problems so she has to push them on her ex. and of course the narrator has to activate simp mode and drop the proverbial ball ... yet again.
As much as I hate the argument, I can guarantee that if this was a male poster, he’s telling them that they’re delusional and that they need to get their life together. To which I’d agree, by the way, but I have the same feelings for this poster. She’s saying she’s old and overweight and unattractive and won’t take any shit from me which is why they won’t date her. She’s talking crazy because my 40 some year old mom is a little chubby, I’m not gonna lie, but she found a man who loves her and they’re still together now that she’ll turn 50 next month.
This is the same as the last story too. There are a few stories with this narrator where he just takes the side of the girl in the story even if the OP makes valid points
3rd story sounds more like she is blaming all her problems on her ex and that she is saying that her ex is saying nasty things about her is a lie trying to make him look like a bad person
Agreed. I’ve dealt with girls that have done the same thing. I’m sure he may have made mistakes, but that’s called being human. Otherwise, she needs to grow up because clearly that therapy isn’t working
The last story no! the whole story was about spending excessive time with her he needs to take a break from her a bit and just play runescape and she wont let him! he is nta
Last story. Maybe cut back on the game but also when your having "Us" time make her shut off her phone. If she refuses go back to your game because at that point it's her just wanting to control what your doing. Also OP needs to stop wasting his money on her. If I buy you something then you toss it the next day I ain't buying you shit. Not on your birthday, not on Christmas,not ever.
1st story: This is just insane. The Karen caused so much chaos over flatware, FLATWARE. There's so many ppl out there that also want to buy this flatware, besides many other stores sell these type of stuff why can't she just buy from somewhere else instead of wasting time trying to bargain by literally threatening the OP??
Too many people have too little compassion, she knew that her threats had no foundation, she was just hoping to get them for cheap so she could sell them at gouged prices i bet.
@@Hydromaniacanoid Somehow Karens always try to force their way even if it means doing the most ridiculous things that won't even benefit themselves just because they want to
She seemed to spend a lot of time on that site, which probably means she makes a living buying and selling things. She saw a popular post and figured she could make an easy buck by buying for $8 and reselling for $75 (or more because they were on back order at the store) it's not about the flatware.
Lmaooo, 3rd story, the op is 100% wrong, he had nothing to do with how she coped with the breakup, her downward spiral was not his fault at all, homeboy just broke up with her 😂😂😂😂
The lady in story 3 has literally given us nothing on what her ex did to her. Besides him supposedly talking about her behind her back. She's literally blaming him for everything in her life. She needs a wake up call and fast because she's doing this to herself.
I think the break up story isn’t the boyfriends fault she’s placing blame on someone for breaking up with them like he has no choice in who he loves. And if she’s acting this way towards her ex she’s probably acting the same way towards her friends and they just aren’t for that but now she’s placing blame on the boyfriend for the friends leaving too. She is not probably the only one in the wrong here as she’s talking shit when he’s moved on.
@@solsotice6775 or she’s just a buzz kill because she focuses on her size constantly and how she should be married at 30 but because she was dumped she’s not.
Story 3: Narrator, if you truly believe what you said about this story, then you might just be the stupidest person on the planet. The OP is clearly someone who is unhappy and instead of trying to fix her own situation, she thinks it's easier to blame it all on her ex and avoid all responsibility. The fact that she's fat, unstable or unhappy is NOT her ex's fault or responsibility, it's her own. OP needs to either start working on herself to gain happiness, or just stay quiet in the dark little hole that she dug herself.
As someone who is a facebook admin of a group, if this happened in my group, the Karen would be out of my group faster than she comment underneath that flatware post. Karens like that only cause problems in groups and makes the whole social media experience unpleasant.
2nd story: You wouldn't believe how many people have the conspiracy in their head that any billing error is intentional. They believe that companies make false charges all the time and just hope you don't notice.
The response for the last story is way off, op is clearly spending time with his gf. I mean yeah he plays the game a lot but from the story it sounds like he's doing more than a lot of guys would do if they were actually not spending time with their gf. On the other hand the gf seems needy since he does spend time with her. The game is not the issue the gf is.
… you got broken up with and this is how you handle it??? You proved his point in more ways than one. Get yourself together and don’t blame him for YOUR choice to be with him. You’re worth the work but your attitude is HORRIBLE. Check yourself hun. It’s really really bad
#3 - Accountability is a females kryptonite! The OP is looking for someone to blame other than herself so it is all mens fault. Her being so insecure is probably why he broke up with her. Her life is in ruins because of a break up? Then it is up to her to grow up and stop acting like 15yr immature girl. Also the narrator yet again gives a BETA response and must have an issue with other men. I don't just believe a female just because she is a female. Also I would love to hear his side of the story.
Story 3: STOP BEEN A SIMP! again. She never specify what the guy did, and what he said to her friends. Friends never blindly believe someone without proof. And she describe the guy has a "perfect life" while she is blaming everything who happen to her to her ex. Maybe this post is more than meet the eyes as well. Nobody leave someone with strong motive and reason as well. And again stop been a simp. If this was a female OP you will be telling she is not in the wrong and he is right as well while the partner is unreasonable. This last is the case with the OP because its not the game but her the one who is unreasonable, since she is a lot on her phone as the OP describe. Just like in the 3rd, there must be some missing context as well too.
Last Story the girlfriend dosent want to combromise needs to get rid off her .If i would log out of my game for tasks she can put her phone down to watch tv whit me. PS narrator did a really bad job and its not the first time sadly PPS sry for my Bad english Not my first language
1st story. If the flatware were sterling silver they were a lot more then 60 bucks. Unless they were for single utensils. A set of 4 pieces at 925 silver would be about 100 dollars minimum.
To the chronically ill person, you CAN find someone I was overweight even after a gastric bypass and had many medical issues and I found myself being loved by someone 12 years younger. You need to have more belief in your value as a person.
3rd story yeah ex is probally being a dick but like op is blaming this ex for all their personal problems, as a plus sized, chroinically ill and mentally ill person in a truly loving relationship, op grow up. The hand you were delt in life is not your ex's fault
For story 3. The op seems to be blaming her life situations on the ex, which doesn't seem right. Sure, talking behind the back isn't cool but she seems to be blowing it out of proportion.
I have to disagree for the fact of she's on her phone when they watch TV and unless runescape went mobile he is actively watching while he is being ignored.
Well the fact is that simply anytime your billed digitally it's a scam. And I'm only saying that because they can take it out IMMEDIATELY from your account, but then they claim it can take 3, 5, 7, 10, all the way to 2 weeks of business days for your money to be refunded. If it can come out immediately, it SHOULD be able to go right back in immediately. Any other excuse these companies make is bullshit lollygagging...
That last story you're completely wrong. Dude said he dropped it when she asked of him or when she wants to do something. Sounds like she just wants to take the one thing he enjoys and to decompress from the world. I'm not a gamer but I understand that when you have the one thing you enjoy you are gonna do it. My thing is guitar and digital art. If someone said I spend to much time on those and don't spend enough time with them I'd tell them it's all I got that's just mine. It brings me the extra bit of piece I need to stay sane. Not fair to that guy for playing a game on his free time when they're not doing anything anyways. Also she said she tosses the clothes he gets her so to me she just sounds ungrateful
Story 3 - I think the guy had every right to end the relationship with this woman. She sounds very toxic. No one has to be in a relationship with somebody that's toxic. She needs help! You're judging on somebody that you don't know the full story too, no matter how flat you make a pancake there's always two sides to every story and I think this is the case. I hope this lady gets help but it's not the man's job to put up with that kind of abuse either. And if he's talking bad about her maybe it's because he's telling people what she's done? Yeah Story 3 kind of irks me
I had a hotel 🏨 charge me $500 for a birthday party 🥳 we canceled right after booking it. It was three months early and thought was no problem then a week after the event I noticed they changed us. They kept saying you can’t cancel and blah blah. It took me going to my bank and then saying that since we didn’t receive anything they will demand the money back. We got it back but they taught for 3 days. We stopped going to that hotel half because of this but mostly because they WOULDNT CLEAN ANYTHING ANYMORE. They got too lazy and nvr kept people out of the area either. We have three kids and much easier to do parties not at the house so don’t need to clean and more room. But if they hotel doesn’t clean and has literal 💩 all over I think everyone should check hotels out multiple times and never book too far ahead!
Facebook is worst place to sell stuff and I know this based on experience. There 4 types of people on here that you will come across. 1: The time wasters. Theses peope will message you showing that they are interested in the item. Half the time they never reply back and the other half they will agree to meet at a location just to end up not showing up. Therefore wasting your time on false hope. 2:The stupidly blind These people will message you asking for the price when it is right in front of them. I usually ignore these people cause I don't feel like putting up with there stupidity. 3: The Dumb Negotiator These peole will message you offering only a quarter or less of what your asking for. Then they get mad when you don't give in to their Demands. 4: The kind shopper These are very rare to find in the market place. They will let you know if they no longer interested in your item. They will meet up and pay the price that was agreed on. These people are my favorite but it is rare to come across one of these.
For the FoURTH story how funny would it be if it was like nickelback? LMAO maybe green day? Or blink-182? Okay I'm crying I'm laughing so hard right now I really want to know who she's talking about the Nickelback thing killed me I almost dropped my scotch! HERES WHAT YOU DO....MEET SOMEONE AT ONE OF THE SHOWS. FIND OTHER SIMILIAR INTRESTS, SPEND QUALITY TIME. AND YEAH... NEVER BEEN IN A RELATIONSHIP BECAUSE OF BILLY JOE ARMSTRONG?? MY GOD.SOMEONE PUNCH ME IN THE FACE
2nd story, yeah that dude (not the op) was a jerk, but to act like getting double-charged is no big deal is kinda privileged. Doesn't matter if you can easily undo it, it's not something to just sweep under the rug especially with our current economy.
Story 3- Girl, he broke up with you bc he didn’t find you attractive & fell out of love with you. Move on. You would much rather him stay in a relationship that he’s obviously not happy in with a person he doesn’t find attractive? It’s not his fault that he’s not sexually attractive to you or mentally attractive to you. He did what was best for him but your angry with him bc he put himself before you? 🤪. If he would have stayed, you would be all up on here complaining about how horrible he treats you, how he doesn’t touch you, how he doesn’t talk to you, let alone respect you, how he’s cheating on you & everything else. Here’s something no one is gonna tell you bc either you don’t want to hear it or they don’t GAF, Your problems are not his, stop feeling sorry for yourself, pick yourself up and make some changes.
The last story is quite misguided. It's clear that the op does spend time with her but it's like he can't have a life outside of her, when she herself is doing what she's accusing him of. He buys her stuff just for her to throw it out, watches tv with her while she stays on her phone. It's total hypocrisy.
With the OP that got broken up over her weight issues is suffering from the effects of an underactive thyroid, so maybe a biochemical form of therapy that addresses that issue is the way to get that fixed. I know that thyroid imbalance that was giving Oprah Winfrey during the time she was suffering from her fluctuating weight. I just can't help but think that something biochemical more than the depression of a sudden and toxic breakup going on for that poor woman.
I wouldn't say it was all of that although you could be correct. This is the result of trauma. And trauma can definitely build up and build up until you are able to get out of it and you look back and you realized that you were being abused. It takes time
20:35 and the fact you've not been listening to anything you said. Their work ends at 6:00 and he said he logs out if if fiancé is watching a show. He said they cant go out on work days due to this. THEY ALSO SAID THAT THEY GO OUT ON WEEKENDS! Can you not side with the obvious liar here?
Last story: yea thats the first thing everyone does blame the video game if he has to shut off the video game his girlfriend should be required to shut off her phone hes doing his part it doesn't sound like she is
Last story is BS. Everyone looks down on video games but u can say the same thing about women that craft, knit or crochet, gardening but it's always men and sports or video games that they have to give up. If a man told his GF/WIFE the same thing you'd say red flag and he's being controlling
Last story. Once again this reader blindly sides with the female. This isn't someplace I usually go, but I feel like if the roles were reversed, he'd be saying the woman has a perfect right to relax by playing her game and the guy's an absolute monster for even suggesting she should ever turn it off.
@@155chipmunkz Are you stupid? Because that's a stupid question. Many commenters on these stories frequently say they think if the genders were reversed that peoples' opinions on the story would reverse also, which I generally think doesn't apply, but in this instance I do. Did you injure yourself jumping to the conclusion that my opinion about a story means anyone "hurt" me? Because you sound a couple of sandwiches short of a picnic.
For those new to the channel and are just seeing this comment the narrator in this video is very biased towards the people that the Op is talking about don't listen to him listen to the comments and boy are all of them saying the same thing
Story three sounds like a whining whale thats blaming every tiny thing on him after he went 'this psycho is too much trouble and will for sure only cost me in the future'
Although I do agree with the narrator and he needs to cut back on his game time I do also feel like he is also wrong because I do feel like he spends enough time with her already
I gotta agree with a few of the other comments about the last story. The guy doesn’t play that much, actually (especially with a game that is usually very much a “Farm away or fall behind” type game). He works, he helps cook and with the dog, he DOES spend time with her, even though she’s on her phone during that time, he tries to bring up other activities to try out and give gifts, and he leaves the game when something comes up (such as dinner or walking the dog). And it sounds like they also go out on weekends together as well. Meanwhile her only argument the entire time is “but you’re on the game and don’t focus on me”.
Look, if I’m sitting next to you, no phone or computer with me, and am watching a show with you, HOW is that not focusing on time with you!? How is it the game’s fault I’m not soending time with you when I am going out of my way to give you attention. Meanwhile the girl is ignoring him, throwing out gifts, and playing on her phone during all this.
About the last one.. I feel like the guy isn't in the wrong? Yeah he plays alot but he works all day, helps cooking picks her up and watches shows with her plus offered to play games with her if she wants to so I really feel like he's trying here, plus it's not like he puts the game before her or forgot to pick her up before or something he just plays it when he has time
And this narrator drops the ball again. 3rd story clearly sounds like someone blaming her ex for her personal problems. 1st off, she never gives any examples for any of the terrible things he did during the relationship, just that he did do some. 2nd, she is blaming her horrible job, her weight gain, and her mental state on her ex. 3rd, she literally mentions that her ex has a "perfect life".
Couldn't agree more, while it is in the realm of possibility, how she is behaving is out of unhinged jealousy. As you said she is blaming HER PROBLEMS on her ex when there is no reasoning given as to the break up does make it sound like she has been listening too much to the 3rd wave feminists.
Yes break ups are harsh especially from long term relationships. You need to take time to yourself, figure out how your going to move forward and begin self improvement.
Yea the op doesn’t go into detail about the supposed badmouthing. If they were mutual friends I bet it was probably about the op’s severe self loathing that just became to exhausting when the pandemic hit
Glad I am not the only one to believe that. She sounds super entitled in this story. Also if she did gain weight as she claims because of him that’s concerning. She needs to sort out her life.
I have been noticing this narrator does this quite often. He/she would side with the Toxic and manipulative female Karens. Which makes me think, even though it's a male voice, the narrator must be female as they instantly side with women against any men. No matter how toxic the female Karen is. Feminism at its best. Feminism = Men Bad/ women good
All the Narrators stories are Anti men, even story 4 and 5. Just proves my point.
@@fabulousilver i personally believe the narrator is the absolute biggest simp on earth.
Last story: The friction seems to be created by his partner, not the game.
The points that the OP brings up are very valid, he drops everything to spend time with her yet it seems like it's not appreciated.
People are allowed to have hobbies and it seems that fact is apparently an issue between OP and his girlfriend
Yeah I agree the op is dropping the game to spend time with the fiancée
The lady in the 3rd story just sounds insane and is making stuff up to try and turn people against her ex because he's now seeing someone else and happy. I mean, he has no reason to insult her behind her back and her jealousy is making her act like a total psycho which is what's really pushing her friends away. At the rate this woman is spiraling, if a guy ever even cracks a smile at her or tips her a wink, she's going to go full yandere.
I agree, in fact, she says that the ex was bad/abusive over their relationship, but most abusive relationship are mutally abusive, and she doesn't know WHY. he left her, INSTEAD of trying to contact him and find out why he left she JUST assumes that he left for the pandamic, and then SAYS he's bad and BELIEVES her thought
"He had no reason to insult her behimd her back"
Neither do other people, but they still do that. That's called being toxic and malicious and it happens.
@@sweet_cha0s maybe, but i really don't believe that's what happened here. Bitch sounds crazy to me.
@@clericofchaos1 We don't know whole story. She is mentaly shattered and kinda paranoid, but it's common for people with shi**y life. He may not be that bad, but who knows.
@@sweet_cha0s I may not KNOW, but i suspect very strongly. I've learned to trust my gut over the years.
As a gamer, as clearly stated by the OP THAT HE LOGS OUT WHENEVER THE FIANCE NEEDS ATTENTION. Do you still think that he spends too much time with his video games? And the fact that video games make him SOMEHOW relax after a long day at work. Of course you WOULDN'T KNOW IT because it seems to me that you are not a gamer. THERE ARE BOUNDARIES I KNOW FOR SURE, but not trying to fit both shoes to give that KIND OF COMMENT is RIDICULOUS.
3rd story: THIS FEELS BIASED. I feel like she got emotionally dependent on him. But he isn't RESPONSIBLE about how she feel or How her life is going. Job isn't dependent on him. Psychological health is up to her and therapy to improve. And no proof was given that he was the reason people left her.
He does not owe her anything. Him leaving was probably a maneuver to preserve his mental health, because dealing with someone else's mental issues can get tough to everyone around too.
Honestly, SHE might be the reason the friends left. The feels I got from her is Very negative and self-pity/self-centered. This can be draining for people to deal if that is the only dimension she ever shows.
Fifth story: Once again, very biased POV. He deserves a time for him too. He stated how much time he spends with her and How he tried to bring her to his hobbies or start new ones with her. While with her it feels like you either give attention when she wants, no matter what you're doing, or you didn't give at all.
And talking as gamer: I know what is to ignore the whole world to play for hours on end. He said he logged out whenever she called and spent time with her. They go out every weekend. This feels healthier than an Obsession and prolly is her picking on his hobbies.
3rd story. You don’t even know what’s really going on.
She’s blaming him for her probs.
That’s prob why he left.
I don’t blame the guy.
Unless you've been the victim of abuse you have no idea the pain it causes. My ex-husband is the direct cause of my mental illnesses because of all the abuse that he put me through. When someone's a narcissist they will gaslight you. when you go through that for so long all you can think of how crazy you must be and that it's not him, it's you.
You have no idea the recovery time it takes to get away from that.
You obviously have never been abused so you obviously have no say in this because you don't know what you're talkin about
@@shadowcollins4589 I stand on what I said. Get a back bone and leave. Or go to the cops. Stop using the victim roles as an excuse
last story hes wrong he made a clear point that he already spends a lot of time with her and that what little time he does play the game is allowed to be interrupted since he values her more she is toxic and he should divorce if she does not cut the shit
Divorce seems a bit like overkill but yeah something is going on with their relationship and shes using the game as an excuse to blame him. Maybe go see a couples counselor to resolve the underlining issue before it hits a breaking point.
@@zeeluzz14 and she is in the wrong and their is no middle ground and she doesn't accept that divorce is the answer people like this are toxic and don't deserve the time of day
@@BASED877 there is more to that story, dude needs to play less runescape, and offer couples activities other then videogames, she also needs to be more flexible. Both have issues that can be worked out, divorce should not always be the go to option
@@Cyrus_Nagisa he already spends a lot of time with her why should he have to give up what little time he has left dedicated to a video game to her when she already gets so much? She's in the wrong and he doesn't need too change
@@Cyrus_Nagisa what? they both have jobs... they don't have any free time. he also mentions they always go out on weekends and he cooks dinner with her, walk the dog with her, watch tv with her, and even said he drops everything and logs out of the game to go and be with her. they already interact a lot... if she wants to be with him more then maybe just play games with him... i mean there's so many games in the world that she would probably like also they have jobs... they literally cant interact until theyre at home and even then like what I mentioned earlier, they still spend a lot of time together. Runescape isn't the problem, its the woman, I think she just misses being young and always having free timeand not like being an adult where you spend everyday working and having little to no time with your loved ones
Number three is creating her own reality. Regardless of what he's doing behind her back she's the one that has the problems. You're talking about people in their 20s that are thinking about the rest of their lives. If somebody is already chronically ill and mentally ill on top of it that's not somebody that you want to take in for the long haul. That's not a good investment in your time. I think the placating her is just doing her more damage
I honestly don't find anything wrong with being with someone who's chronically/mentally ill AS LONG AS they have their issues under control or are seeing a medical professional about it and there are compromises made when it comes to how time is spent.
The OP in story 3 just sounds like her life is crap and she's refusing to take responsibility for it
“Ok here’s the price per set *shows a sign that says 60”
“I’ll only pay 8 per set”
3rd story. Op sounds just bitter about her life and blaming her ex. She's probably omitting some information about how she acted, and her ex is conveying that to their mutual acquaintances. It's not talking garbage if her ex is asked "So why'd you break up with OP?" and he says "She was crazy/did x-y/ etc". Her problems don't sound like her exs fault, some of them at least. The mutual acquaintances are kinda iffy without hearing both sides, but given how against her ex OP is, I'm thinking it was something on her side that's damaging her relationships
last story, his partner sounds horrible. Yes, he plays the game too much. Needs to take a few days off IMO. However, he stated that she isn't receptive to his suggestions for couple activities and she trashes the gifts he gives her. It's an ESH kind of situation.
Didn't he say that he logs out of his game to be this his fiancé? He allows his game to be interrupted so no, he didn't play too much.
3rd story and 5th story both require more information and context before rendering a judgment. We're only hearing one side of things in each case, and there could be more going on. I know AITA stories are always going to be inherently one sided, but story 3 is very vague on details about why they broke up and story 5 sounds like she might actually be the unreasonable one if he's being honest - or they might just be incompatible people.
story 3: I wouldn't really trust OP's side of the story. It sounds like the BF just wanted to break up and she wouldn't let him. She did not explain what he is telling to the friend group but considering her attitude on the post some of it might be true. Half of her complaint is she still wants to be with a guy that dumped her. I understand not wanting to have to start over with someone new when you've put all the effort into this one relationship, but if it wasn't so hard on her to find someone new like the ex did she probably wouldn't want him back anyway.
There is a reason why so many people point out that the narrator dropped the ball on story 3.
It really seems like she blames him for everything that is wrong in her life.
I would say she drove him away and blames him for actually choosing happiness over drama.
I'm no expert but the OP in that story either sounds like a narcissist or a femcel- maybe both.
lmao with the 3rd story. OP is just bitter and can't take accountability for her own problems so she has to push them on her ex. and of course the narrator has to activate simp mode and drop the proverbial ball ... yet again.
As much as I hate the argument, I can guarantee that if this was a male poster, he’s telling them that they’re delusional and that they need to get their life together. To which I’d agree, by the way, but I have the same feelings for this poster. She’s saying she’s old and overweight and unattractive and won’t take any shit from me which is why they won’t date her. She’s talking crazy because my 40 some year old mom is a little chubby, I’m not gonna lie, but she found a man who loves her and they’re still together now that she’ll turn 50 next month.
This is the same as the last story too. There are a few stories with this narrator where he just takes the side of the girl in the story even if the OP makes valid points
3rd story sounds more like she is blaming all her problems on her ex and that she is saying that her ex is saying nasty things about her is a lie trying to make him look like a bad person
totally agree with you, I strongly think she had a big role to play in the breakup and is blaming her ex. Hopefully I am wrong.
@@dobiqwolf nice pfp
Yeah..she sounds very toxic.
She is ranting needs more extensive therapy and maybe take some accountability for her personal attitude.
Agreed. I’ve dealt with girls that have done the same thing. I’m sure he may have made mistakes, but that’s called being human. Otherwise, she needs to grow up because clearly that therapy isn’t working
The last story no! the whole story was about spending excessive time with her he needs to take a break from her a bit and just play runescape and she wont let him! he is nta
Last story. Maybe cut back on the game but also when your having "Us" time make her shut off her phone. If she refuses go back to your game because at that point it's her just wanting to control what your doing. Also OP needs to stop wasting his money on her. If I buy you something then you toss it the next day I ain't buying you shit. Not on your birthday, not on Christmas,not ever.
1st story:
This is just insane. The Karen caused so much chaos over flatware, FLATWARE. There's so many ppl out there that also want to buy this flatware, besides many other stores sell these type of stuff why can't she just buy from somewhere else instead of wasting time trying to bargain by literally threatening the OP??
Too many people have too little compassion, she knew that her threats had no foundation, she was just hoping to get them for cheap so she could sell them at gouged prices i bet.
@@Hydromaniacanoid Somehow Karens always try to force their way even if it means doing the most ridiculous things that won't even benefit themselves just because they want to
She seemed to spend a lot of time on that site, which probably means she makes a living buying and selling things. She saw a popular post and figured she could make an easy buck by buying for $8 and reselling for $75 (or more because they were on back order at the store)
it's not about the flatware.
@@sanddagger36 I see, that's a nice hustle but threatening the OP is just way too far she completely deserved what she got.
@@mustachiopotatoe no doubt, and if my theory is true it was far more detrimental for her to get banned than it would've been for the OP.
Lmaooo, 3rd story, the op is 100% wrong, he had nothing to do with how she coped with the breakup, her downward spiral was not his fault at all, homeboy just broke up with her 😂😂😂😂
And he’s thriving while she stays mad
4th story sounds obsessive. It's called erotomania, or excessive love towards a celebrity.
In the first story I think that the Karen started the pay more than originally planned and overcome the first come first serve rule.
Dude 3rd story, sounds like a crazy ex, I do wonder what story the ex would post, I feel like she may be paranoid
Story 4 OP then later kidnaps the band member and locks him up inside her basement.
why do I have the feeling story 4 is obsessed with Harry Styles?
I thought the same thing
for some reason i was thinking one of the guys from 5sos
The lady in story 3 has literally given us nothing on what her ex did to her. Besides him supposedly talking about her behind her back. She's literally blaming him for everything in her life. She needs a wake up call and fast because she's doing this to herself.
I think the break up story isn’t the boyfriends fault she’s placing blame on someone for breaking up with them like he has no choice in who he loves. And if she’s acting this way towards her ex she’s probably acting the same way towards her friends and they just aren’t for that but now she’s placing blame on the boyfriend for the friends leaving too. She is not probably the only one in the wrong here as she’s talking shit when he’s moved on.
It's a typical case of pushing people who are trying to help you away.
@@solsotice6775 or she’s just a buzz kill because she focuses on her size constantly and how she should be married at 30 but because she was dumped she’s not.
Story 3: Narrator, if you truly believe what you said about this story, then you might just be the stupidest person on the planet. The OP is clearly someone who is unhappy and instead of trying to fix her own situation, she thinks it's easier to blame it all on her ex and avoid all responsibility. The fact that she's fat, unstable or unhappy is NOT her ex's fault or responsibility, it's her own. OP needs to either start working on herself to gain happiness, or just stay quiet in the dark little hole that she dug herself.
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As someone who is a facebook admin of a group, if this happened in my group, the Karen would be out of my group faster than she comment underneath that flatware post. Karens like that only cause problems in groups and makes the whole social media experience unpleasant.
4th Story: Plot Twist. This post is about Weird Al Yankovic.
Nobody is meaner and nastier to each other than woman. I swear.
I got a conversation about this with my girlfriend like a week ago she said something similar
The girl that got dumped has major red flags, no wonder the guy left, and he has every right to do what he did.
With the last story I feel like I have heard the woman’s version of this story before 😂
2nd story: You wouldn't believe how many people have the conspiracy in their head that any billing error is intentional. They believe that companies make false charges all the time and just hope you don't notice.
Story 2: wow that was an interesting story, especially since I'm off to a Motel next week
The response for the last story is way off, op is clearly spending time with his gf. I mean yeah he plays the game a lot but from the story it sounds like he's doing more than a lot of guys would do if they were actually not spending time with their gf. On the other hand the gf seems needy since he does spend time with her. The game is not the issue the gf is.
Third story, no, would have to disagree, she sounds like she is blaming everything on him. When she seems to be the problem
… you got broken up with and this is how you handle it??? You proved his point in more ways than one. Get yourself together and don’t blame him for YOUR choice to be with him. You’re worth the work but your attitude is HORRIBLE. Check yourself hun. It’s really really bad
He watches dinner. Man that's a waist of good food
I'm writing this on the 8th of noveber.
#3 - Accountability is a females kryptonite! The OP is looking for someone to blame other than herself so it is all mens fault. Her being so insecure is probably why he broke up with her. Her life is in ruins because of a break up? Then it is up to her to grow up and stop acting like 15yr immature girl. Also the narrator yet again gives a BETA response and must have an issue with other men. I don't just believe a female just because she is a female. Also I would love to hear his side of the story.
The ops who get “revenge” are the true karens
😮 this is funny cause I'm listening to ur video & playing RuneScape. Osrs to be exact lol
Story 3 is literally a crazy ex-girlfriend lol
Story 3: STOP BEEN A SIMP! again. She never specify what the guy did, and what he said to her friends. Friends never blindly believe someone without proof. And she describe the guy has a "perfect life" while she is blaming everything who happen to her to her ex. Maybe this post is more than meet the eyes as well. Nobody leave someone with strong motive and reason as well.
And again stop been a simp. If this was a female OP you will be telling she is not in the wrong and he is right as well while the partner is unreasonable. This last is the case with the OP because its not the game but her the one who is unreasonable, since she is a lot on her phone as the OP describe. Just like in the 3rd, there must be some missing context as well too.
Yes he plays the game to much BUT she's throwing away his gifts?
NONONONONONONO HE DOES NOT PLAY TOO MUCH IM SICK OF YOU GUYS SAYING THIS. He logs out to be with his fiance, who is being a HUGE hypocrite.
9:52 Here I am instead of listening to the story, I’m trying to figure out what the hell is going on in the background
Last Story the girlfriend dosent want to combromise needs to get rid off her .If i would log out of my game for tasks she can put her phone down to watch tv whit me.
PS narrator did a really bad job and its not the first time sadly
PPS sry for my Bad english Not my first language
1st story. If the flatware were sterling silver they were a lot more then 60 bucks. Unless they were for single utensils. A set of 4 pieces at 925 silver would be about 100 dollars minimum.
Bruh what is the guy afraid of on the second story? Violence beats violence
There's a lot more to the story in story 3 maybe she was controlling or something
To the chronically ill person, you CAN find someone I was overweight even after a gastric bypass and had many medical issues and I found myself being loved by someone 12 years younger. You need to have more belief in your value as a person.
I wonder what was the full story of story 3.
3rd story yeah ex is probally being a dick but like op is blaming this ex for all their personal problems, as a plus sized, chroinically ill and mentally ill person in a truly loving relationship, op grow up. The hand you were delt in life is not your ex's fault
For story 3. The op seems to be blaming her life situations on the ex, which doesn't seem right. Sure, talking behind the back isn't cool but she seems to be blowing it out of proportion.
Love the vids keep it up
Yo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Game: Sonic Adventure DX
Story: Sonic's story
Stages: Sky Deck-Lost World
Also, I'm gonna go out on a limb and say the band from story 4 is my chemical romance. They are touring again now after 10 years
5:54 not Karma, Poetic Justice
I have to disagree for the fact of she's on her phone when they watch TV and unless runescape went mobile he is actively watching while he is being ignored.
Dang, this an interesting one.
Well the fact is that simply anytime your billed digitally it's a scam. And I'm only saying that because they can take it out IMMEDIATELY from your account, but then they claim it can take 3, 5, 7, 10, all the way to 2 weeks of business days for your money to be refunded. If it can come out immediately, it SHOULD be able to go right back in immediately. Any other excuse these companies make is bullshit lollygagging...
That last story you're completely wrong. Dude said he dropped it when she asked of him or when she wants to do something. Sounds like she just wants to take the one thing he enjoys and to decompress from the world. I'm not a gamer but I understand that when you have the one thing you enjoy you are gonna do it. My thing is guitar and digital art. If someone said I spend to much time on those and don't spend enough time with them I'd tell them it's all I got that's just mine. It brings me the extra bit of piece I need to stay sane. Not fair to that guy for playing a game on his free time when they're not doing anything anyways. Also she said she tosses the clothes he gets her so to me she just sounds ungrateful
Story 3 - I think the guy had every right to end the relationship with this woman. She sounds very toxic. No one has to be in a relationship with somebody that's toxic. She needs help! You're judging on somebody that you don't know the full story too, no matter how flat you make a pancake there's always two sides to every story and I think this is the case. I hope this lady gets help but it's not the man's job to put up with that kind of abuse either. And if he's talking bad about her maybe it's because he's telling people what she's done? Yeah Story 3 kind of irks me
I had a hotel 🏨 charge me $500 for a birthday party 🥳 we canceled right after booking it.
It was three months early and thought was no problem then a week after the event I noticed they changed us. They kept saying you can’t cancel and blah blah. It took me going to my bank and then saying that since we didn’t receive anything they will demand the money back. We got it back but they taught for 3 days.
We stopped going to that hotel half because of this but mostly because they WOULDNT CLEAN ANYTHING ANYMORE. They got too lazy and nvr kept people out of the area either. We have three kids and much easier to do parties not at the house so don’t need to clean and more room. But if they hotel doesn’t clean and has literal 💩 all over I think everyone should check hotels out multiple times and never book too far ahead!
Facebook is worst place to sell stuff and I know this based on experience. There 4 types of people on here that you will come across.
1: The time wasters.
Theses peope will message you showing that they are interested in the item. Half the time they never reply back and the other half they will agree to meet at a location just to end up not showing up. Therefore wasting your time on false hope.
2:The stupidly blind
These people will message you asking for the price when it is right in front of them. I usually ignore these people cause I don't feel like putting up with there stupidity.
3: The Dumb Negotiator
These peole will message you offering only a quarter or less of what your asking for. Then they get mad when you don't give in to their Demands.
4: The kind shopper
These are very rare to find in the market place. They will let you know if they no longer interested in your item. They will meet up and pay the price that was agreed on. These people are my favorite but it is rare to come across one of these.
This is extremely well done manipulating blue pill content.
For the FoURTH story how funny would it be if it was like nickelback? LMAO maybe green day? Or blink-182? Okay I'm crying I'm laughing so hard right now I really want to know who she's talking about the Nickelback thing killed me I almost dropped my scotch!
HERES WHAT YOU DO....MEET SOMEONE AT ONE OF THE SHOWS.
FIND OTHER SIMILIAR INTRESTS,
SPEND QUALITY TIME. AND YEAH... NEVER BEEN IN A RELATIONSHIP BECAUSE OF BILLY JOE ARMSTRONG?? MY GOD.SOMEONE PUNCH ME IN THE FACE
Your just a rule breaker 😂
2nd story, yeah that dude (not the op) was a jerk, but to act like getting double-charged is no big deal is kinda privileged. Doesn't matter if you can easily undo it, it's not something to just sweep under the rug especially with our current economy.
Story 3- Girl, he broke up with you bc he didn’t find you attractive & fell out of love with you. Move on. You would much rather him stay in a relationship that he’s obviously not happy in with a person he doesn’t find attractive? It’s not his fault that he’s not sexually attractive to you or mentally attractive to you. He did what was best for him but your angry with him bc he put himself before you? 🤪. If he would have stayed, you would be all up on here complaining about how horrible he treats you, how he doesn’t touch you, how he doesn’t talk to you, let alone respect you, how he’s cheating on you & everything else. Here’s something no one is gonna tell you bc either you don’t want to hear it or they don’t GAF, Your problems are not his, stop feeling sorry for yourself, pick yourself up and make some changes.
you've torn the third one to shreds, like wdym? she blamed her mental state on her ex and Never gave an example of what he did
In the first story the girlfriends of the jerk he even said he cooks with her with the dog with her
Last story, that guy needs to get off runescape
HEY YOU! PAY ATTENTION TO THE OP'S WORDS! He says he logs off to be with the hypocrite that is his fiance. The OP in the last story is NTA.
@@Arts-N-Cats724 sounds like what I said hit a nerv or something, calm your ass down.
Also if you listen to it all, it is clear he is addicated.
The last story is quite misguided. It's clear that the op does spend time with her but it's like he can't have a life outside of her, when she herself is doing what she's accusing him of. He buys her stuff just for her to throw it out, watches tv with her while she stays on her phone. It's total hypocrisy.
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Billy Eilish went on reddit lol.
With the OP that got broken up over her weight issues is suffering from the effects of an underactive thyroid, so maybe a biochemical form of therapy that addresses that issue is the way to get that fixed. I know that thyroid imbalance that was giving Oprah Winfrey during the time she was suffering from her fluctuating weight. I just can't help but think that something biochemical more than the depression of a sudden and toxic breakup going on for that poor woman.
I wouldn't say it was all of that although you could be correct. This is the result of trauma. And trauma can definitely build up and build up until you are able to get out of it and you look back and you realized that you were being abused. It takes time
Okay I just have to ask, where is this game from that's being played in the background? I mean what's it called?
Love the stories, however, sometimes the video playing in the background is just so... distracting. Not tryna backseat but, WHAT ARE YOU DOING!?!?
20:35 and the fact you've not been listening to anything you said. Their work ends at 6:00 and he said he logs out if if fiancé is watching a show. He said they cant go out on work days due to this. THEY ALSO SAID THAT THEY GO OUT ON WEEKENDS! Can you not side with the obvious liar here?
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Story one a few days ago I got a set of stuff for 10 quid like boxes and boxes from a wedding we gave 3 away to family and friends
drop the chick keep the runescape
L on the last one
for story 5 i think that the reader is to harsh on it
Can someone please tell me the name of the video game being played please.
POV: your not first
oh cool you're first
No soniya Singh is first the top isn’t the first it’s just the most recent
@@kaylierangel5912 lol nah I liked first
Last story: yea thats the first thing everyone does blame the video game if he has to shut off the video game his girlfriend should be required to shut off her phone hes doing his part it doesn't sound like she is
Its only fair if they both have to put away something they like
Last story is BS. Everyone looks down on video games but u can say the same thing about women that craft, knit or crochet, gardening but it's always men and sports or video games that they have to give up. If a man told his GF/WIFE the same thing you'd say red flag and he's being controlling
First. Keep making great content
Last story. Once again this reader blindly sides with the female. This isn't someplace I usually go, but I feel like if the roles were reversed, he'd be saying the woman has a perfect right to relax by playing her game and the guy's an absolute monster for even suggesting she should ever turn it off.
I read your comments. Who hurt you?
@@155chipmunkz Are you stupid? Because that's a stupid question. Many commenters on these stories frequently say they think if the genders were reversed that peoples' opinions on the story would reverse also, which I generally think doesn't apply, but in this instance I do. Did you injure yourself jumping to the conclusion that my opinion about a story means anyone "hurt" me? Because you sound a couple of sandwiches short of a picnic.
For those new to the channel and are just seeing this comment the narrator in this video is very biased towards the people that the Op is talking about don't listen to him listen to the comments and boy are all of them saying the same thing
Goofy ahh voice
Story three sounds like a whining whale thats blaming every tiny thing on him after he went 'this psycho is too much trouble and will for sure only cost me in the future'
A fish
Although I do agree with the narrator and he needs to cut back on his game time I do also feel like he is also wrong because I do feel like he spends enough time with her already
So, you're saying that he plays too much even though if she does something he goes out of his way to do it too. Most men would keep playing.
Gamers should marry gamers or you will end up being told everything you do isn't good enough because you play a game.