Sex and Psychology Podcast: The Science of Sexual Fantasies with Dr. Justin Lehmiller
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- Опубликовано: 17 сен 2024
- What are the most common sexual fantasies in America? Where do our fantasies come from, and what do they say about us? And how can we communicate more effectively with our partners about our fantasies?
In order to answer these questions, I conducted the largest and most comprehensive study of sexual fantasies ever in the United States. I surveyed more than 4,000 Americans from all 50 states ranging in age from 18-87 and wrote a book about the nature of sexual fantasies in the U.S. today, titled Tell Me What You Want: The Science of Sexual Desire and How It Can Help You Improve Your Sex Life.
In this episode of the podcast, I describe some of the key things I learned from this research, while also telling you the story behind the book (it was a long process!). I also share how writing this book completely changed my life.
I’m excited to announce that the paperback edition of Tell Me What You Want was just released! Learn more here: www.hachettebo...
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❤️ the cover design of the pb edition! Absolutely the wisdom of less is more in action. Bravo!
Wow you really sound like an extremely balanced, caring, intelligent and mature person. Very illuminating insights. Thank you for such important insights into such widespread and deep behaviors which are still confined to misunderstandings and taboos. Gonna look for that book. 1000 bows noble sir :)
Is this book available in Greek?
Hi Dr. Justin, I would like to know more about incest because for someone it seems normal but for others the way they brought up to talk about it is a taboo or not allowed to share. let me give you an example my of neighbour what happened. the husband of that house had a child from his daughter, now the neighbour gossiping about what's going on but the family it seems they know nothing. the girl looks depressed, guilty, even there was a time she tried to do a suicide but she was rescued. Where I come from is forbidden to speak out. Please Dr. Justin I need your help how to bring the awareness on this issues and to end this abusing innocent children because they deserved to be loved and to be cared. Thank you.
How about you get a grip, manned up and contact's relevant authorities, instead of relying on superficial Internet communication?
@@OmmerSyssel How about not being judgemental? Maybe it will make it more encouraging for people to follow your advice. When something is happening to you or to someone close, it's not always obvious what to do. Preaching will lead you nowhere constructive in life.
@@byamboyhow can it be judgemental, asking another citizen to contact relevant authorities, instead of wasting precious time on unreliable strangers on the Internet?
Which broken hippie society are you living in, with such questionable standards..?
Such woke crap is highly destructive for children in need of professional help!
@@OmmerSyssel The tone maketh the music. It's not about what but about how you do it. It's about being polite and kind to someone going through a stressful situation, without preaching to them about what they should or not do ("how about you get a grip, manned up" - you're literally calling her a coward by coming here first instead of going to the authorities, so, yes, judgemental). Do you think language is that simple and that people don't notice what you're doing indirectly? No woke crap here either: I'm just so tired of bullies on the internet pretending to be so superior. You don't have to be one of them. This person happens to be asking for advice HERE, so give it to her here without condemning her for making a poor choice about where to get advice from. You could have just said: "I understand you might be going through a lot of confusion about what to do and I'm not Dr. Lehmiller, but it is very important to inform authorities about this immediately, something has to be done urgently". Would it hurt you? If you're not a fan of politeness, you can go with "You have to go to an authority urgently with this". Be kind, it's got nothing to do with wokeness, it's basic human kindness.
What an interesting find.... that acting on a fantasy with a partner could bring you closer together ... a lot of girls who don’t want to try 3somes, is bc of the EXACT OPPOSITE...the fear that they will like the 3rd person more than them & in the long run abandon them or feel they are less satisfying to their partner. These same people believe if their partner wants a 3some that they are not enough “why do u need someone else ? Am I not enough for you”... but yur saying they’ll like there partner more ? (Maybe)...(grantees you said fantasIES...more typical male fantasy is a 3 some ...)...half the guys who had the opportunity wouldn’t even be able to handle it due to overstimulation AND lack of experience 💖👌🏻
That’s an arguable statement . It’s more so double standards. Women can’t openly be sexual or “explore “ because society shame them.
The government will allow a man to live out his fantasy ( strippers, escorts, etc ) but restrict the women.
Those that have a sexual proble.