Was Your Roommate Really That Bad?
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SO ANNOYING when your roommate doesn't do dishes, throws clothes everywhere, & you can't blame him bc he doesn't exist and you live alone.
Blame the little trolls that live under your bed and take your socks
Binge Reddit I had to chuckle… my husband of 43 years has rarely ever helped with anything and whines, gripes, and moans when asked to do something simple like fold towels! 😒 I have begun handling this by reminding myself that I live by myself and those who live alone take care of everything. If “THEY” can do it, so can I. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
That was a rollercoaster from start to finish lmao
Honestly, the worst feeling
I understand
"I had a roommate who said he was "having delusions of killing us" and would describe how he would kill each of us and why. Luckily I convinced him to kill me last"
*SPEECH 100*
I have one word for you…RUN!!
I have one song for you.............……………RUN
What was his name sounds like someone I know
I hope this is a joke.
Jerez-us.
It surprises me how some people are so willing to live in filth and act like it's not a big deal. I'm not even a clean freak since my room is filled with clutter. But when it gets to the point where your messiness is near violating health codes, either you clean that shit up or you're on your own.
We should always listen to the signals of our bodies. If something smells bad, it’s generally because its bad for you and you should do the thing that makes it stop smelling bad.
I'm notoriously untidy, but you can eat a meal out of my kitchen sink or bathroom. There's no excuse for being unhygienic.
@@Chuckf66 fr. My desk is kinda messy but I bleach & clean everything
For me. it's just the task of putting my clean clothes away. They just sit on my chair. I am usually tidy, though.
I’m a complete slob (ADHD), but when things start to smell bad, it’s time to roll up my sleeves.
Some of these ppls parents should be ashamed of themselves.
Either that or they didn´t have parents.
@@wendywhoisit1819 every shit roommate Ive ever had has had either neglectful or overbearing parents
@@reggiepollock4669 facts
No, these grown people should be ashamed
she didn't seem to understand that I don't want her using my things. She'd be trying out a recipe and say "hey where's the peach tea?" and I'd be like "What? Why?" she'd say "I'm using 6 teabags for my recipe," which doesn't seem like a big thing, but despite me telling her over and over that it made me uncomfortable, she always acted as if anything I owned or bought was always hers. Just hearing her say "I was using the red hairbrush" when the red hairbrush was actually MY red hairbrush made me extremely uncomfortable
Should have locked stuff away and told her to buy her own when she asked for it. I would have dealt with any tantrums quite firmly.
Sounds like u were her mommy or Kroger lol. I hate people who take advantage.
You see if anybody tries using any of my things I will go off on them because I’m very possessive and aggressive of the stuff I have and if you don’t Ask first You were going to get chewed out
@@celeste.cutz2020 stfu
@@Choujifangirl facts
Suddenly still living with my parents doesn’t sound so bad.
Yes. I'm 49 & lived by myself for 20+ years! Heaven!!! 🙏🏼
@@DavidLLambertmobile yes. I HAVE to live alone. It's mandatory, no matter how good roommates are, it's a no go.
@Mjsi619 I'd say give it a try, if roommates are not going to work out for you, you'll find out fairly quickly. Once the initial party phase fades out and it's time to start living like productive people, on a consistent regular basis, you'd be surprised how many people aren't ready to carry their own weight. Keep a job, clean up after themselves, sharing things and space, minding their boundaries, keeping to themselves, etc.. forget about being in a relationship with someone you live with, save that noise for later on when you're older to do that nonsense.
@Mjsi619 I recommend making sure you have an income and that you can pay for rent, look into a roommate see if it works out but you may have to stick with a bad one given your age
@Mjsi619 well.. honestly i will say my experience has literally been 50/50 which is why for the past few years I stopped bothering with roommates even to save some extra cash ... depends on where you live as well
One of my roommates was totally crazy. She shouted at us randomly and she would get angry at the slightest provocation. Twice she called the cops for absolutely no reason. At times she would hurt herself in minor ways. Luckily she never hurt me or our other roommate. The final straw was when she tore off the blinds from her window, and then opened the window all the way, threw the blinds outside and started screaming bloody murder out the window. At this point our landlord rushed into our apartment, gave her a lecture, and then proceeded to kick her out of the apartment complex. Last I heard she was in a mental hospital.
Jesus
That’s actually sad
@@helenf.7221 Yeah, schizophrenia is hard to deal with all around. Obv Eunae's roomie needed to get referred to a care home as soon as she was screaming at no one. But I have family friends who take care of a sch sister, and she hates being drugged out on meds, 1) because it flattens her, and 2) because she wants kids. But when she goes off the meds, she ends up roaming the streets, getting lost and arguing with strangers.
One day we'll figure out the science of it!
Wow compared to the situation I had with my two roommates mine is tame in comparison to that shit show, I am so sorry
I hope this person got the help they needed, this is really sad but horrible to deal with.
Has vodka with his cereal...
Narrator: FRAT LOOOOPS!
*I can't breathe* 🤣😂
Frat Lööps
@@appleslice4412 frãt £òöp$
@@Forlorn_Overseer fræt łœœpś
My roommate refused to clean and ate my food and refused to buy toilet paper, shampoo, soap etc. I cleaned the house completely before I left for two weeks for a vacation. I came back to a filthy house and when I got angry she just stared at me and said, “You know I don’t do housework and we are out of toilet paper and toothpaste.” She also would spit her toothpaste in and around the bathroom sink, never cleaning it up...yuck! She finally moved in with her boyfriend. Oh, and she thought she shouldn’t have to pay rent. I guess she thought I should just be honored that she was living with me🤯
That's BS 🐂. I had a goof, 🧽 room mate off & on for 2+ years; PA. He would eat my food, never go to the 🛒. Never offer to let me use his used 🚘. He dated a few girls which was fine but they paid for everything & he had no game. He'd have scams, schemes but no real direction.
Aaaaand THAT'S why I'm going to have my own room.
It'll be lonely when I get to college but it'll be nice wacking it wherever I want, peace and quiet, no snoring, and a place where I can have my much needed alone time in my own space
the chinese kid making masa with cornflour and water makes me laugh. "we'll cook it in a wok!" my friend, you just made a giant corn tortilla
Tbh i would wanna live with him he sounds fun to be around
@@cz5629 Yeah, I still probably wouldn’t eat his cooking, but he’s trying.
@@KnakuanaRka F for result A for trying
Sounds good. I want one one now; giant corn tortilla for giant burrito.
Sometimes it's those Randomly put together dishes that you never forget 😂 sometimes forming nice memories to look back on
We were both on the lease. His gf wasn’t the same as my bf wasn’t (we had leased the 2 bedroom unit before we both had SO’s). He moved his girlfriend in & when I told her she had to pay towards rent & bills she flipped her shit. They moved out. My bf moved in. They now live with his parents 😶
My boyfriend & I now live happily splitting everything 50/50
Reasons why I've always, always ensured that I'd never have to have a roommate just to be able to live somewhere. It's never worth the stress and all the additional bullshit that comes from losing the roommate lottery.
Believe me I’ve lost the roommate lottery and got metaphorically shot in the knee twice so after the second roommate I was done so now I live alone and it is the best thing that could’ve ever happened to me because I’m a loner by nature so this suits me perfectly
Some of these stories make me wanna live alone
Seriously it's alot better. Some people are animals without their caregivets
You should.
Yeah living alone is sometimes the way to go
Screw living with room mates. It’s terrible
Highly recommend it after living with a terrible roommate
the toothbrush one....dude.....you can get a 10 pack of toothbrushes at the dollar store....i know homeless people who still brush their teeth. some people's kids man
God my roomate fall of sophomore year was so fucking bad for my mental health...her passive aggressive bullshit literally caused me to reach a point where I was vomiting from stress...at that point I asked residential life to move me out and I was out within two weeks. Next roomate was literally the sweetest human being ever. So cool, open communicator, understood what it meant to make mutual compromises. It was like a breath of fresh air. I ended up moving out completely in december in order to take a semester off but I still miss my second roomie. Hoping to reconnect with her when we all go back to campus post-pandemic.
My current roommate is condescending, wanted us to live in 78 degrees permanently, and very proudly told me she was “tolerating” me because I’m gay. Those were literally her words. “I tolerate you.”
I’m suddenly wondering if I’m lucky.
My roommate (good friend since college) lied about rent and said it was spilt equal between us and our other roommate paid $150 less because the room was significantly smaller. I paid 900, she paid 450 the roommate paid 250. I was expected to do all the cleaning even though I worked 80 hours a week and they’d yell all night
You got screwed. My son was living in Queens, New York. He was having roommate issues so another "friend" of his offers to let him stay in this dump of an apartment for $1000 a month. Turns out his roommate paid nothing but utilities because the unit was owned by the company he worked for. Only found out after 18 months as he was leaving New York. What a nice friend. There are some real dirt bags in this world.
George Minton yeah my roommates were taints
And surprise earn I didn’t want to renew the lease
My exacr situation, jesus christ what a shocker to read this comment as im about to loose my shit over my roomates
43:25 “Sweating in Lithuanian” 😂
Roommates are a TERRIBLE idea! If it's a friend they will just take advantage of you and screw you over, if it's a stranger they will bring their sketchy friends over and who will touch your stuff and possibly steal if you are not there, not to mention when a roommate moves his girlfriend in who will eat all of your food and usually won't get a job. Also they leave a mess and expect you to clean it and you also have to deal with their bad habits, drama, weird behavior and having your personal space invaded! I've never had a good experience with roommates EVER! Just live alone or get a girlfriend or boyfriend to live with you. No one else!! Having a roommate just doesn't work. I gave up on roommate long ago and have been living happily and care free on my own home for 10 years now, got a girlfriend, she moved in a year later and then got engaged. Just say NO to roommates!
She didnt clean at all.
and so i threw lotion at her.
oh wait thats my twin sister.
HEY STEPBRO! _i s e e y o u b r o u g h t m e l o t i o n_
Lol me to my dad he grew up with his hoarding mom so he tends to tornado out wherever he is and just blaim you for not watching your step when you trip over his piles of shit
not funn y didnt laugh
is your sister waffles on a rabbit?
My first college roommate was one of my best friends. It only lasted a few months before I switched rooms.
First of all, she was a smart as a door. After taking this mandatory self defense class, I was texting her about it, talking about what the instructors had to say about what to do in the event of a school shooter and a general synopsis of the class because she’d be taking the same course the next day. She argued with me about it and said, “but in the movies they run out and fight immediately! That’s what you need to do!” And told me I was shoving my opinions down her throat. Another time, I was talking about some fossil findings we talked about in my archeology course, and she got mad and said, “the government planted those bones because they didn’t think we had enough history!” And when I told her that wasn’t true she blew up.
She’d go out partying every night, and she’d invite people over to pregame in our tiny, one-room dorm beforehand. They’d always end up being extremely loud, so loud neighbors would complain, spill their drinks all over the rugs I bought for the room, and make a total mess. We weren’t allowed to be drunk, let alone have alcohol, in our rooms. If we did, there would be consequences, which could include expulsion. I’m fine with having alcohol, but not being super obvious about it every night and disturbing others because of it. When I tried to tell her this wasn’t something I was okay with happening every night, she blew up. When I told her that I wasn’t okay with her sisters (large family, lots of kids, lots of chaos, lots of noise) coming over whenever she wanted without asking me first, she tried to say I was keeping her from her family and that I couldn’t tell her when she could see them. You can see them!! Just not always in this tiny room where I need to live and study and sleep! Not without telling me they’re coming! Have some awareness of how you’re affecting those around you! We didn’t all grow up with 100 kids in the house so some of us like a little peace and quiet. If Id had my own room, that’d maybe be different, but we had a small little box that barely fit in our two bunk beds, desks, and drawers.
She’d take my room key on accident sometimes, while always leaving hers in the same spot on her desk, and mine was always on my desk. There’s no way this wasn’t on purpose. I couldn’t even go to the bathroom without that key, let alone leave my room at all. It locked automatically when it shut. I peed in a trash can one time out of desperation right after a night of sleep. Why? Why did this keep happening?
We ended up screaming at each other eventually, not sure what about, but stuff like this. When I tried to move out, she told me she’d never speak to me again if I did, and that I was her rock. Your rock? All we do is fight! I’m trying to make us both happier and possibly save our friendship! I did move out. We never did talk again.
“Ohhh your leaving...? So sorry to see ya go..” *celebrates inside*
lol
My roommate rarely clean, did dishes, or even laundry. She was incredibly lazy and wouldn't even cook for her self. All she did was game and watch movies all day and night. Oh wait, that's me. I live alone
Lol. Gotta be honest, it's a dream if you can hit that sweet spot with someone where you share a hobby (gaming), can handle moderate messiness, encourage each other to catch up when it gets too much, and even spot each other when guests are coming. Someone who gives you privacy and company when you want it. I wouldn't want to get to the point of flies or mould or evictions like these reddit stories. But it's just as stressful living with someone who gets bent out of shape over a dish sitting out, and leaves no room for personal belongings. Too much tidiness can make a place feel unwelcoming, like you can't touch anything or relax.
Personal recommendation: Level 2 of lazy eating is food you can bake, or leave cooking all day in a crockpot, or microwave (if it doesn't have assloads of salt)
I’m gonna be honest you had me going for a second 🤣
haha, you sound great!
Lol no one can judge you if no one is there! Unless you judge yourself!
@@sg-cg6lr very true, that's freedom
I lived with a load of pigs at uni too, who never did their dishes or cleaned anything, we kept getting warnings and fines from the uni about their shit rotting everywhere in the kitchen and when I finally lost my shit and threw all their filthy dishes in the bin (they had been there for ages at that point and they had been asked multiple times to clean it) they tried to kick my door in and were totally shocked and annoyed by it, I was sick of warning them and I refused to pay fines for a mess that wasn’t mine! I dunno how some people get on in life if they can’t even wash a dish by the time they’re 19! 🤦♀️
That one is even manageable. I can grin and bear just about anything short of excessive noise and not enough personal space. I don’t mind tidying up after people so long as they can shut up a bit and get used to not seeing the kitchen itself as a 24/7 family home extension. You can buss-up with your buddies across the weekend or once or twice a week but when you have to tell them not to think it’s their prerogative to over-socialise and sleep in there every day, there’s obviously a problem with their understanding (really lack thereof) of personal space. At 2am they need to budge-up and quieten down at least four nights out of seven. The ones who can’t understand that shouldn’t be in shared living.
In high school I lived in a house with a couple friends and this chick and her bf that I didn't know.
Chick ended up being psycho and packed all my stuff up while I was at school. Came home to an empty room and a note on the floor. Her freaking out that I had apparently forgotten to wash a single pot I'd used. Along with accusing me of making a mess because their dog had gotten into the bathroom and chewed up stuff in the garbage at some point.
Then proceeds to keep some of my stuff (including furniture) when I finally get it back from her. She was mad that one of the other roommates had covered part of my bills and felt justified messing with my stuff, even though my friend was chill about spotting me. At least that's what I can assume based on the note, since she never said anything to me in person about all these supposed issues lol.
I ghosted my roommate. She was disgusting and stealing from me. I tried to address it in a nice way but she brushed me off. I found out she was worse than I thought one night and literally moved out that night while she was at the bars. I didn’t text her or anything because my anxiety was so high I couldn’t. Maybe your old roommate was the same way but you didn’t take her seriously/notice that she was trying to communicate that she was upset about things.
@@blobblobblob4419 I wasn't disgusting, nor did I steal from anyone... Not even the same ballpark lol there's a shit ton of bad roomies out there so I understand doing what you had to do but tbh that came off super rude =\
There were three other roomies in that house and I'm still on good terms with all of them lol. They were even like wtf I don't know what to say when that happened because it was mostly about the money and nobody (including the girl who lent it) cared about that or had issues.
Girl got mad I got lent money and responded by stealing my shit lol. Got mad cause the dog got into feminine stuff in the garbage (which was supposedly my fault... For leaving literal garbage in the trash)... And that I didn't wash one pot lol. All that speaks for itself man. Sorry you had a shit experience but don't project that onto me ✌️ Because that experience sucked and there was no reason for it. Like I said she never once said a single word... Not even when the dog made the mess, I found out from the note after she took my shit. Not the same man.
For me, my roommates were SUPER hypocritical. They would leave dishes in the sink for weeks, leave out food that's supposed to be in the fridge/freezer, left their clothes and stuff out in the living room, and ate an entire thing of cookies and cupcakes that I brought before I even had the chance to eat 1. Meanwhile, they yell at me for leaving 1 plate in the sink for a day and for eating one of their snacks (I apologized and replaced it). I ended up moving out, but I told housing about all the rules they broke so hopefully they got in trouble.
I have a bird and I’m going to college in a couple years, so yeah I’m gonna make sure I find a decent roommate. Also I’m shocked the bird survived being sprayed with kitchen cleaner multiple times, birds have very sensitive lungs and you aren’t even supposed to spray perfume in the same room as them
When i heard that story I wanted to kill that person. I love birds and I'm glad the bird is okay now
Really? I never knew that thank you for the information that’s very interesting👍
I'm not saying hurting animals is okay. But why not leave pets at home? If you live with other people, they may not like your animals
@@gnhun101 Usually they would talk to you about that, not attempt to poison your animal.
@@Blaze23124 why would you bring a pet to college? Seems kinda juvenile.
30:05 "The worse part of all was that he was a chronic fapper" Uhh no, the worst part of all was that he was grooming a 14 year old to sleep with! WTF! Priorities my GOD
RIGHT?! Like call the cops dude!!!
Call 911
I feel like he watched the NAMBLA episode of South Park and got the wrong idea.
In some countries 14 is legal, so it depends where the OP was fron
@@Solo-vh9fm It may be legal w parebts concent BUT WTF THAT'S NOT NORMAL TO MODERATELY DECENT PEOPLE
I cleaned constantly because my roommates had three cats and I was disgusted by the amount of cat hair everywhere, I bought and cooked my own food, I washed and put away my clothes, my room was always clean and organized. I was mostly quiet, kept to myself and never had people over.
Despite me being in my very best behavior my roommates kicked me out.
In their opinion me spending to much time in my room, doing groceries and cooking for myself and not hanging out with them all the time was mean and selfish.
So literally my independence and solitude made them mad. Hahaha
People can never be pleased.
two of my suitemates had friends over and blasted music at midnight. my room was next to the living room. so guess who didn't get sleep
THEY SHOULD USE EARBUDS
My roommate was absolutely neurotic. Everything had to be spotless and pristine. All the time. Always. It was exhausting.
I had roommates not that extreme but in the same vein. They would tell me to clean up my side of the counter and rearrange my stuff on the shelves bc they can’t stand the sight of anything disorganized.
Worst roommates were all the roommates I have ever had!😅
First Roommate: I explained to her that the room should remained unlocked during the day. (We lived in a dorm room with a security camera right above our doorway.) It seemed fine...Until she started purposefully locking me out and writing nasty messages on the mirror in our room.
Second Roommate: Transferred rooms. I went to being with previously mentioned brat to rooming with one of my friends. Again, everything was awesome. However, after Christmas break passed, she started spreading rumors that I was being violent towards her-I was hardly ever in our dorm room anyway because she was constantly having sex with some guy.
Third Roommates-Actually, these people were more neighbors than roommates, considering we didn't live in the same room. Anyway, these people loved to complain about everything I did, have super loud sex, and smoke inside. The girl's drunken boyfriend broke the toilet, too. He attempted to blame it on me, but I was on vacation in a different state. Needless to say, both my landlady and I are glad that they are moved out.
Had a previous roommate who had a pretty big superiority complex and was _aggressively_ passive-aggressive about it.
One night, my gf at the time had come over to binge-watch anime. I guess my roommate had a bad day at work and was looking to take it out on people around him like a healthy human being does, because when he got home he immediately took the vacuum out of the closet, marched into the living room where my gf and I were, and started vacuuming the carpet in front of the TV while complaining about how he was, "the only responsible one around here."
I had to pull him aside and tell him that what he was doing was not okay. He said in response that he, "worked too hard for people like [me] to talk to [him] that way," as though I was out of line. I told him that if that was how he wanted to do things then he could do it with another roommate, and on the spot told him I was moving out.
This was only three weeks after I moved in. My name wasn't on the lease, he just went through roommates faster than a bad McDonald's went through employees, so there was nothing legally stopping me from just walking away.
all these stories make me want to deep clean my house
I was that roommate. I had sleep apnea, and would snore so loud my roommate would get little to no sleep. I felt terrible once he told me though, and got a CPAP.
Believe me my brother I know how that feels being a fellow C-PAP user myself
I have a roommate that doesn't work, doesn't clean, wakes me up too early in the morning, leaves hair everywhere, sometimes doesn't even respond when I call his name, and requires we go out together at least two times a day.
Yep. I wouldn't change my fur boy for anything 💕🐶
I currently have a terrible roommate.
Here’s a timeline of the events:
-Year and a half ago she left her good job and beautiful apartment in a nice area to go to another country for the promise of an apartment she was “owed.” She sold all her stuff and had no backup plan, living with shady relatives in the meantime.
-Five months in and she calls my mom begging for money because she went through her savings so mom tries to send her money any time she can.
-Each month she demands more money for food and medication but my mom is retired and on a fixed income so it’s impossible at times.
-She starts to call my mom constantly, complaining how she’s so depressed and that she never got the apartment because her plans fell through.
-Eventually she calls nearly every night, crying. She says she is miserable, she wants to die, she wants to kill herself, etc. Demanding help, putting more stress on my mom.
-At this point, she starts to blame my mom for not helping her as much, not sending her more money and for not “talking her out” of leaving everything (I want to point out, neither my mom or I knew of this and only found out about her leaving the country a few weeks before she was set to leave.)
-She gets more upset that my mom won’t buy her an apartment (needs to be reiterated again, mom can’t and won’t because she’s on a fixed income.)
-At some point, she’s able to leave the country (not sure with money saved or someone paid her flight) and comes back, living a state over.
-She’s housed with friends. Not even a month in and she’s miserable again. She has issues with her roommates and vice versa. Constantly calls my mom again stressing her out.
-Eventually I let her move in to take stress off my mom. Nope. Bad idea. Does not help.
-Sleeps all day and constantly calls my mom to talk in the middle of the night. My mom is an insomniac and barely sleeps. When mom does have a chance to sleep, she calls her waking her up. It’s hard for my mom to go back to sleep.
-Found out that she has a sleeping pill addiction and will take about 7-12 pills in one take. I found out after I came home from work one afternoon to see her wobbling around, speaking incoherently and going through my mothers things (my mom will leave her stuff at my place at times since she likes to stay over from time to time. Mom was there at the time.)
-Next morning, she’s somehow still inebriated and manages to crash into my bathroom while also ripping out the shower rod off the wall. (The rod was insanely strong and well in place, still don’t understand how she managed to do that.)
-Got caught going through my moms personal items.
-Constantly wanted my moms things (shoes, purses, costume jewelry etc.) despite the fact that her clothes and items are much more expensive and better quality than my moms
-Constantly stole my mom’s medication. When mom caught her in the act at one point, mom ended up giving her a well deserved whack across the face.
-Accidentally broke most of my dishes
-Eats my moms food without permission (mom is a picky eater, she doesn’t like what I usually eat which consists of meat and vegetables so she’ll have her own groceries)
-Whenever I go out to do laundry or buy groceries, she will often dump her laundry with mine or ask to do her errands. She doesn’t do anything all day and when she’s invited to go with my mom, she will not lend a hand in carrying groceries. My mom also has a bad back and that pisses me off.
-Gave her an ultimatum eventually: stop with the foolishness or get the heck out.
She’s my aunt, my moms older sister.
She’s calmed since then and to her credit has been on the search to find work (well before quarantine) and helps out with cooking but I’m extremely worried about her common sense.
I love her but I also want her to leave soon
Holy shit
God what a nightmare
I'm usually less inclined than judgemental folks to "cut someone out/off" But that's *obviously* unmanageable
What are your thoughts on basic income (UBI) that would house her, alone, somewhere small, with the basics, so she doesn't have to burden you/your mom/unfortunate roomies?
She sounds like she'd still have spending issues. But with some kind of work rehab program, do you think she'd cope and be productive enough to 'earn her keep' in life... So to speak
I know this was posted months ago, but WTF?? I'm so sorry you and your mother went through that. Your aunt needs serious therapy and needs to be kicked in the butt and out the door o_o! No one deserves that type of drama.
@@37thraven I didn't realize my post got comments, so sorry for the late reply. I live in the city so rent is pretty costly, this doesn't include utilities and food. If she had something like her old job, which paid a decent livable wage she'd be able to move out and live comfortably. Unfortunately, with the global situation it's nearly impossible to go back to that. She's also a picky person as she refuses to work any retail or customer service jobs (which in a sense I can understand as I had to do those earlier in my life, but I sucked it up in order to survive.)
She is supposed to be in a rehab program but I honestly don't know enough about that.
Thankfully she's been much better but we have to stop her at times when she's about to cross boundaries
@@hlb9834 Thanks. Thankfully shes calmed down a bit but we still have to keep an eye on her so she doesnt stomp on our boundaries again.
I would be the first to kick her out but this is my moms sister and my mom doesn't want want to see my aunt homeless so I ended up putting up with a lot for my moms sake.
These stories made my roommate experience normal and in the end I do really appreciate having my own place. This is a huge blessing.
Seriously. My roommate just nags me about leaving lights on and the little mistakes I make yet her messy shit piles are everywhere and I don't say anything cuz every time I ask something of her she makes excuses cuz she can't admit she's wrong but honestly compared to all this shit, my roommate is perfect lmao
I've had 4 roommates over my 3 years of college. My first always complained that I never cleaned to her standards (She wanted me to basically make our room to a level of cleanliness that takes all day everyday to clean/4-5 star hotel clean) and then she never cleaned anything herself. She cleaned our shower ONCE the entire time we lived together. She also cursed at me, yelled that I was telling everyone she was garbage/basically trashing her reputation? Idk what she was referring to as I only talked to my mom at that time. My second roommate was chill but she never cleaned and she smelled funky as she only showered like once a week. Third roommate was almost always gone but when she was here she would talk on the phone from midnight to 4-6 am everyday. She would also turn on all the lights, open all the doors, and would turn the TV on before leaving while I was trying to sleep. She also smoked a lot of weed and smoked up our bathroom to the point I avoided it. 4th roommate was never there except to sleep and she sprayed rediculous amounts of perfume to cover up her smoking habits. I have sensitive skin so it caused me to break out and be itchy the whole time she lived there
Wow, you couldn't catch a break! I can understand your frustration. I hope you are now either happily living alone or at least have a decent and considerate housemate that doesn't drive you nuts. 😵😄
Roomie: (poisons my bird).
Me: So you have chosen death? >:(
Stories like these are the reason I was so thankful to have "medical exception" for not having a roommate in college.
I genuinely love living alone. I’ll never get another roommate.
Poor bird.. glad he's ok.
They should have called the cops on that guy.
If you don’t like the bird, why wouldn’t you just take it and give it to a pet store or humane society or give it away? Still a super shitty thing to do but it’s better than POISONING the poor thing.
@@sophieelofiee exactly!!
i can top most these stories. my college matched me with a girl currently in cancer treatment because i had recovered from mine, who stole from me, purposefully put her hair on my bed, peed herself without cleaning it, threw a fit when i had a friend in the room even though she did all the time, and badtalked me to everyone she knew, then when i (the heaviest sleeper in the world) slept through her getting taken from our room to the hospital told the whole school i was selfish and our dorm hated me until i, unable to handle the smell, started sleeping in the lounge and people realized they could scream by my ear and stack objects on my head and i wouldnt wake up(apparently she is a light sleeper.... not a liar. wild) i got called in by the ra for not sleeping in our room, scolded for not doing my ‘christian duty’ to befriend her, and finally told i’d have to ‘confront her’ if i wanted to be move. Jokes on them. Unlike anyone else they paired her with I was not going to take the sympathetic cancer card. She was a terrible roommate and cancer didnt matter to me as a fellow (idk, victim?) survivor(?). I was happy to tell her i was moving and didnt want to be her roommate. They put me in a closet. My things didnt fit, i put the bed on boxes and had to put some things in a hallway closet the room was so small (which i was also scolded for, hey. Not my fault id packed for a large room and ended up in a closet i could touch both walls with my arms outstretched) I paid 40,000. I did not return for a second year.
Forty. Thousand. Dollars.
Also the renown professor i came there to learn from was a ‘close talker’ who gave me heebie jeebies and was a weird teacher who constantly belittled his students for not having ‘life experience’ to fuel our art, he made us write an essay revealing our most tragic experience and i wrote one filled with jokes about my Boob Job that got an F until my bff told him it was about breast cancer (suddenly had an A. I didnt change any of the writing. Not joking. An F to an A. wtf)......he got Me Too’d two years ago by basically a hundred women he’d taught or went to conferences with.
Taylor University. Dont go there.
Jeezus Christ. Cancer isn’t an excuse to be an @$$hole, and I have to wonder what she said for everyone to hate you that much. And was this a religious college, given the “Christian duty” bit? Small wonder it was so screwed up.
I've escaped that shit by moving in with my best friends. That way compromises are kept to a minimum, and all house decisions are usually unanimous and everybody do what they want since no one ends up objecting 99% of the time. Same taste in fun, overall same ideas for the place. Organising a party is easy, upgrading something is done within the week. No resentment.
I couldn't go back living with randoms. Would either end up taking over or conflict would be permanent. Am too used to a certain degree of freedom.
To others, I give this advise. Grandfather's principle. Who was there first has the final say.
Living with best friends is infinitely better, can't imagine living with randos cause I've never done it.
@@jmjedi923 I’ve been doing that for 4 years that I’ve been working at a hotel . The only exception is that my best friend worked with me over the summer . This was infinitely helpful because it meant I didn’t have to face a new person ( third roommate ) alone . It’s hard living with randos and in the room I’m in currently I haven’t had the best of luck regarding living with randos . Luckily the first two I didn’t have to face alone . The first roommate that I left my old room for to move in with my best friend( plus this third rando person) that person was a nice person in front of others maybe but she wasn’t warm and receptive towards me and made me nervous. The positive thing was that the girl never put her foot in anything and we never had disagreements with her despite my first less than warm impression of her . The second one after that was a little warmer but she smoked weed and even asked my friend who is a living saint where to buy weed in town ! After my friend left and I had to interact with her alone i found it difficult. I had to go to the bathroom in the middle of the night and she would complain about me turning the bathroom light on. Not long after she switched rooms without saying goodbye for that reason . I have since been turning on the light after I closed the door even with new roommates. My current roommates are a pair of best friends. Personality wise I get along fairly well with them and out of the all the new roommates in the current room I think they are the best I’ve had . Still I have trouble when they occasionally go out and party about once or twice a week and get home late when I work at 7:30. They will likely switch to evening shift in the new year and they may move because of that . If I stay in the same room as them I will have to get used to being woken up at midnight when they get off . However usually when that happened and they have worked that shift on occasion before , I go right back to sleep . I will have to see how it goes when they work that shift permanently. On one side I know it’s not good for me , on the other hand I don’t want to face any new people . I’ve learned from experience that not all roommates will be warm and receptive towards me and I don’t want to roll the die again .
Lived with an effective rando, now I live with my best friend and boyfriend. Things are so much better now than then.
Agreed with the Grandfather's Principle. First present has final day.
So glad I didn’t have to go the roommate route when I moved out because all I hear in a lot of these are the charges I’d incur 😧
My best friend had a girl staying at her house bc she had no where to go. She said she doesn’t do dishes no even her own. I wonder what her house looks like now? Gross.
“He is running after her, naked, but turns around to put something on when he sees me”
At least that roommate had common decency and respect enough for OP to cover up
My sister in law told me this story and it makes me die laughing every time,
So she was going to collage and lived with this one other girl who she almost never saw. She was always in her room with the door locked. They had a trash can in the bathroom and the kitchen and for SOME REASON this girl kept moving the kitchen trash can into her room and my sister in law would silently take it back to the kitchen. Every time she would bring it back to her room my sister in law would silently go get it.
One day she catches her taking the trash can into her room and asks her to stop because they needed it in the kitchen, her roommate dropped the can and went to her room. The next day the can was missing AGAIN, and my sister in law finally had enough, she was doing this over and over and she was done. She started yelling down the hallway at her door telling her to put the trash can back. No response. She walks over to her room and try’s opening the door to take it back, door locked and the girl inside was crying and started yelling at her to “LEAVE ME ALONE ITS MY TRASH CAN” (it was not her trash can) and a lot more yelling continued and after a while my sister in law had to go to class and left. She gets back later and goes to the bathroom and sees the fucking trash can in there was ALSO GONE. So lots more yelling happened between the two (yes she was STILL in her room locked with the now, two trash cans). She unlocked the room finally and ran out crying with anger. My sister in law went in her room and she had all the trash in her room everywhere, her room was a mess. The girl moved out a month later and locked her room before she left. My sister in law didn’t open it for a year, her next roommate was actually my other brothers wife now and the two are best friends, I’ll call the first sister in law K and the new roommate C. K and C where both moving her stuff in and after they where done K asked C if she wanted to try to open the door, C agreed and they spent a hour trying to unlock it and FINALLY it worked, K opened the door and there was rotting food and horrible smelling things from over a year ago in there but somehow she never smelt it.
I only considered roommate once, and it instantly healed me. My potential roommate was two years older than me (I was 19 yeas old at this time). I was very reluctant, but there was also the advantage of having a cheaper rent. We lived in the city, the rents were terribly expensive for two-room apartments, even with the rent cut in half. I wasn't even looking yet. She started to say that she wanted two televisions and two computers. That I managed my money better than she did, so I had to pay Netflix, her four Japanese anime internet sites, (for a total of 42 € / month just for her anime sites) and the internet connection. She had better pay than I did by doing seasons in hotels, but she spent all her money on mangas, Japanese anime DVDs and junk food. Her bank account was still overdrawn when she returned after 5 months of station work. I explained to her that if she came back with her account in the red and stayed in an apartment until winter came back, how did she expect to pay the rent ? She replied that it would be easier to take an apartment with one bedroom, that she would take because she needed room for her things, and that I would only have to sleep in the living room on the sofa. I asked her what I would do with my things, my bed, my bookcase, my books, my DVDs, my clothes ... etc. She replied that I just had to sell them and take two pairs of spare clothes that I would wash every day. (Yes, she was serious.) When I asked her if she would agree to live like this while I took the room, she said that she would never live like that in her life. I told her then, why did she find it normal to think that I would want to live like this ? She looked me straight in the eye and said, "I don't understand. When you were in internship, you slept on the floor on the cement, so you won't mind."
I said to her, "Imagine your father hitting you when you were a kid. Does that mean that now you would like to live with a man who hits you ?"
She laughed and said "no, but the situation was not the same." I told her that I would not take an apartment with her, and that if she ever wanted to have a roommate, she would have to start thinking that what she refuses to go through, the others will not want to live it neither.
She blamed me for letting her down and that I was a bad friend. 3 months later, she returned to live with her father after 4 months of unpaid rent.
I have never been late in paying my bills. The first red flag for me was we had only considered a roommate, and she already wanted two TVs and two computers, "to each see the program you want instead of sharing, and that she had always had TV in her room." I understood from talking a little more that she was so immature that she was only looking for someone to take care of her while she was out of work. She refused to take her driver's license, because she knew that after that, "she would have responsibilities and would have no more excuses for not working more." (her own words when I asked her why she didn't want to learn to drive at 22)
I house shared with a school friend, this friend never showed any interest in animals, I six months he bought 6 parrots and 3 rabbits which soon turned to 15 rabbits
. I like animals but not this many and the main issue was
He didn't like the idea of keeping them in cages.... So they all had free run of the house. I have never seen so much animal shit in my life, I ended up moving out because the combination of animal shit and the sleep deprivation from tbe noise of 6 parrots that never shut up was the deciding factor
I had my parents over for dinner and I had a roommate that walked over to the food at the table and ate out of the serving dishes. Literally ate potatoes with the big spoon, picked up the roast and ate it with her hands. And she would leave her son in a playpen all day while she watched tv.
This kind of video re-affirms my decision to live alone. I should have been doing this shit from the beginning! Lesson learned!!
I liked it when I was 19 but I’ve reached the same point as you. Unless there’s some sort of mutual/personal connection you’re not going to like random people taking up space and being noisy after a certain age. Sometimes you have to actually love them (at least low-key) to tolerate them. If you’re not friends you’re going to need braces and anti-cataplectic surgery for all that grinning and bearing. In the meantime good earphones, a fan and a white noise machine should do it if you’re stuck with people you don’t really vibe with.
@@Anonymous_Anon882 I hear you on that one my friend.
I once lived in a house with 4 other people. Two were ok for the most part, other than one or two things with one of em, I didn't mind em. But the other two... Jfc.
Never bathed - ever, never cleaned (and whenever the rest of us would get together and clean they'd complain about the noise - btw they were both unemployed, not in school, not looking - nothing, and weren't sleeping or doing anything... Just didn't like the noise) but were noisy AF whenever THEY did shit, I was regularly woken up by them, but always got in shit for it when I complained.
They left their shit everywhere, everyone had to bend over backwards to accommodate them, to the point that I couldn't use certain common words bc I sounded too much like one of their parents??? It was weird.
Oh and they took shit. Like when we all moved out they just took some of my shit with them! I'm talking furniture and a cord from my PS2 so now I can only use one controller! Shit like that! I'm still pissed. It's been 4yrs but I'm still so mad.
Be glad they left. Small price to pay to get rid of them.
Worst I ever had was the guy in college that was obsessed with the doors. Like literally every single moment of the day would be doors o clock. He would play them constantly if had headphones on would sing along every conversation routed to the doors being amazing etc etc. This went in for months and since this was not a major issue I dealt with him as it could be worse.
Oh, you mean the band. For a second I thought you were actually talking about doors. Like he was a carpenter or something.
@@Phoebe5448Or he had some OCD issue with repeatedly checking if the doors were locked.
I lived with this one guy, I was in a bad place so the deal was that I'd clean in exchange for rent, but luckily he let me off the hook for that. See, it's not that I didn't try, it was the stunning amount of stuff he owned, and how the only place he'd ever put any of it was on the floor. I tried to clean up for him, I really did, I filled boxes and lined the walls in a desperate attempt to get the floor visible and a single room would take me all day, only for every single box to be upturned and all the stuff back on the floor the very next day, every single time. I'd start laundry, and a week later be completely out of places to put the clean stuff. My spirit was thoroughly broken from this and I gave up after a bit, just no self esteem left, the only time the place was ever vacuumed was when it flooded and I got to just throw everything away. It wasn't until 7 years later I learned he wasn't actually understanding and secretly resented me that whole time for not holding up my end of the bargain.
I'm still with the guy that rescued me from that crap, happy ending.
I had a roommate who would go through my desk and take my stuff and keep it. I went through her desk and took it back. I had another who would bring guys into the room and bang them right there in front of me. I kicked the guy out since I was trying to sleep, didn’t feel like watching (and hearing) their terrible banging, and she moved in, not the other way around. She and I were constantly at each other arguing and being petty. I eventually moved out, but not before jumping on her pillow with my shoes on, opening a tin of sardines, and turning the heater on full blast before leaving. I wonder how long it took for her to get rid of it. I feel like since she’s a skank she might as well smell the part and warn the many guys she brought in. I’ve been roommate free for eight years. Never again. I’d rather pay the rent myself than have another trash roommate.
Legend 👍👏😂
5:34 Man, this one freaking cracked me up! Dude just couldn't catch a break, especially his spouse-like roomie XD XD XD
These people make me anxious
My own complaint about roommates wouldn’t be about the people specifically but about the way the room is set up . I’m my hotel staff accom it’s a single room and 2 or 3 people per room and the bathroom is shared . I’m the first person to get up for work everyday at 6:15 and so I literally have to turn the alarm off as soon as I hear it to prevent waking up the other girls . Then I go to the bathroom to change , turning the light after I closed the door not before . To prevent making excessive noise I even put my clothes on the drawers instead of the hangers . Add this to the fact that my roommates occasionally go out partying at night and return home late when I have to work the next day and it’s so hard .
After over 8 years of living with many different housemates, I'm extremely glad to be living on my own now. It's so nice not having to clean up other people's mess and be able to sleep at night without being woken up by their noise!
My FIRST roommate.
She used my melamine bowls (plastic) in the microwave, which I asked her to stop doing the moment I saw her using them that way. We had ceramic bowls, so it wasn't for lack of options. If she didn't finish what she ate, say... a "baked" potato with cheese, she'd lay the plate/bowl containing it on the floor for her cats to work over, and I'd usually find it after it had about 16 hours to harden.
She couldn't wash dishes. Not saying she couldn't put them through soapy water... she probably did. Not saying she didn't scrub them some... she likely did. But when I reach into the cupboard above my head, expecting to grab a clean plate and feel bits of food hardened onto it? Yeah, I don't accept that you cleaned the dishes. Because they are most certainly NOT CLEAN.
She didn't clean the apartment. Like... ever. Someone who used to be a mutual best friend to us both would come over, we would discuss fun plans... at which point I discovered I wasn't included. I'd stay home and clean, having nothing else to do, and not wanting to go out on my own. They'd leave with newspapers scattered all over, kitchen littered with dirty dishes and plates of food on the floor for her cats to pick over, and return to actually clean dishes drying, no newspapers visible (I'd bought a bin to put them in), floor vacuumed... a clearly cleaned apartment. Somehow, our mutual best friend believed my roommate FOR YEARS AFTER as well as during, that SHE was the one doing all the cleaning, and I was the slob. WTF?!
Her cats... I still love cats, and have two of my own. But she had four, in a 2br apartment, and was lazy af about cleaning out their catbox. They were indoor only cats, so this was A Problem. "Oh, I don't have any litter!" I'd buy her litter, and it would be added only to her half of the food bill, as I did the food shopping. I made her clean it out, though. All the cats were hers, and I really hate cleaning out the catbox...
I worked swing at the same place she worked overnights; this should help explain the "16 hour" thing above. One night, I finish up early on a light night, and get sent home on the last bus out of downtown. Cool! I enter the apartment and head for my room, only to hear the creak of my double papazan protesting under a significant weight that just shifted. Hairs rising on the back of my neck, I silently pad to the kitchen and turn on the light. On the plus side... I did know him. On the negative side, I never liked him, and was not warned he'd be there when I got home, even though she'd seen me at work and spoken with me before I went home. I chewed her out over that, telling her it was NOT cool how she let me be surprised by the fact that someone was staying over. I mostly trusted he wouldn't DO anything to me, and as far as I could tell, he didn't ever steal from us. But he was a letch, would suggest we have sex in front of my roomie and our mutual best friend (whom he was supposedly going out with, from all I'd heard, still was). I recoiled in disgust... and this was BEFORE I found him sleeping over.
Hey, Cat. I figured out a clue. Want it?
@@billskinner7670 ?
Screams, loudly moans, swears randomly, uses slurs, hitts me, keeps me up at night...
Oh wait, that’s just my Tourette syndrome.
(Id be a horrible roommate lol)
I lived with my brother. He had his gf over all the time even though he promised he would never bring her to the apartment (they had broken up a few months prior and they would have screaming matches). Within 6 weeks we had several noise complaints due to them arguing with each other. My bf moved in in august and in January we were kicked out because they had an argument so bad we had the police called on us. After 6 months my bf and I finally have another apartment (we had to move in with his parents). My brother? He got to move into his own apartment immediately.
My first roommate in a college setting was during a 3 week summer program. He was a self proclaimed anarcho-communist and I swear I've never been more uncomfortable around someone in my entire life. I wish I was making this up, but here's just some of the following that he'd do while we roomed together:
1. Repeatedly play a song about a man lighting a baby on fire.
2. Got offended that I'm a criminal justice major and called me a "property enforcement agent."
3. Loudly proclaim controversial and completely unsolicited opinions in inappropriate settings, ex. He once half-shouted "We need to arm all of the blacks" while on the public transit. (Kinda ironic he was there with me considering the anarchism bit, but I digress).
4. Talk about his desires to commit what was essentially domestic terrorism against Scientology buildings, I mean they're a shady organization but Jesus Christ that dude went completely unhinged talking about his violent fantasies against them.
5. He got offended (again) when I told him that I identified with the Libertarian party, claiming that it was a "misappropriated" name or some such.
6. When I was giving a presentation in class on gun violence, I brought up the 1997 North Hollywood shootout and how the bank robbers tried killing the police with full auto weapons when he shouted from the back of the room that bank robbery was a "victimless crime."
There's probably more that I'm forgetting (or more likely repressing), but suffice it to say when we all parted ways at the tram system at the airport, I have never been more glad to see someone go thousands of miles away in the opposite direction I was going.
But I bet you really miss him, deep down, I mean really DEEP down.
Damn that guy wasn't a poser, that's for sure. Good story at least.
@@carojames6776 to quote Bishop Bullwinkle, "Hell to naw."
@@_lil_lil I guess, I just hope my next roommate isn't any worse than that. 😬
You jusy described most of the left winged people in America. 😂 they are bat shit crazy.
The apartment had 3 bedrooms, and because it was the spring/summer semester, only 3 other people were living there when I moved in. The guy in my room would walk around naked after he got back from the gym. He got me kicked out because I "smelled bad," and I was making the couches smell. Turns out he'd been putting banana peels inside the couch since I moved in and mice had made the couches their home. Guy just wanted to be on his own again. And then ther was the guy who would get back from work, make macaroni and cheese, then play World of Warcraft until 4 in the morning...
The potato pancakes that started reaching for the electrical outlets . . . . to take over the world. I damn near pissed my pants 😂😂😂
Living alone is a MUST. No exceptions, not even with a woman.
Amen and Awomen
I lived with my ex-bestfriend for a while, not that long ago.
He had ongoing mental issues and that led to him festering up some not so great feelings towards me, and leading to him being annoyed by every little thing i did, for example if id accidentally close the door too hard. All the little things and the bad and nasty feelings that grew bigger and bigger inside of him festered into him borderline hating me. The worst thing about this is that i was completely unaware of this, as he wouldnt talk about it to me even if id ask if something was wrong and if im upsetting him in any way, as he started to act off towards me and i could see him getting fed up by me just existing.
It got to the point that the night before i left to stay at a hotel for the night, he seemed like he was actually gonna go beserk. I ate the rest of my leftovers i had cooked the day before, left the bowl to sit in the sink, went to the bathroom and went to the room we shared (it was a small apartment, and his mother was living in the living room) to get my phone and charger so i could take them to the kitchen so id be able to put some random YT video to listen to whilst i would clean the dishes. I sat down on my bed, ready to leave after checking a snapchat and he snapped. He said "Why wont you go clean you fucking dish" in a hostile tone, before even waiting a minute to see if id leave to do it. I said something along the lines of "Chill, i just went to the bathroom and came to get my phone" and he fucking lost his mind over that, saying that i was incredibly rude to snap back at him like that. He said he can help find me a new place to live in.
After i cleaned my dish, i decided the best thing for me to do was get a cheap hotel for the night so we wouldnt be confined to the small room, as he was visibly very upset. He got worried because i didnt say anything before i left, but i assured him im fine and i just needed some time away from him and was sure it would benefit the both of us.
Some nasty comments were said by the both of us after me leaving turned into a fight. It led to him kicking me out, packing my bags and saying i need to come pick them up the following morning. I explained that i cant do that, as i dont have a car and anyone who could help me with my stuff wasnt available or lived far away. He said he didnt care, and i needed to get the stuff.
Obviously i couldnt, and the following day he said hes gonna throw my stuff away to the garbage section of our building, as i just tried to talk it out and explain that its actually impossible for me to hurl 15+ bags of my stuff by myself to take them to my parents house, aka the only place i could take them to, a 1,5h train ride away. He didnt seem to care and wouldnt give a flying fuck if i said anything.
To end the story, we finally agreed on a pick up date for my stuff. At first he said he wouldnt let me in the house beause he was scared i would do something to his pets or steal valuables, keep in mind i was accompanied by my 40+yo sister and her kids. I explained that i just wanted my stuff and after a bit of back and forth he said hed go for a walk and i can go pick up my stuff. Did that, left the key on the kitchen table and left.
Even after this whole ordeal, i lost my house and my job because i didnt have an address in the city anymore and couldnt get ftom my parents house to work every workday. He would keep messaging me, and i said that it really wasnt my problem he didnt talk it out like a normal person would, especially when i had given him alot of chances to talk about how he felt. I said that i could never look him in the eye again, and i wish to not talk to him. He played the victim card, and said "How dare you act so hurt. You didnt even like your job, i thought i was giving you a favour. You know, i lost a friend in this and im hurt too."
Basically he was an asshole in the hiding, i could have never imagined my bff of 4 years would ever do such a thing and act like it was ok to do that.
Luckily i now finally have an apartment, still get go live in the city i wished to live in for years, and im looking for a new job. Everything seems to be going good so im hopeful for my future :)
@Reginald Dove I hope so too. We still share the same friendgroup, but im ok with that cus nobody seems to be picking sides, not even in the way of them being on my side if they dont actually feel like what happened is a fucked up thing for him to do to me. Havent told much about the situation to most of the friendgroup, so i would just see picking sides with me or him as childish if you dont know what happened actually. All they mostly know is that i he kicked me out, i lost my job and now have a new apartment
He did start spreading shit (quote from him) to people, mostly our shared friendgroup and other mutual friends as he doesnt really know anyone, as i intruduced him to most of the people he knows atm. It made the situation even worse for me, even tho most people just listened to him and didnt think much of it, and some even asked me for my side of the story before having any deeper thoughts about it. I just would have hoped that even after all he had done to me, he would have the human decency to keep it between us. He said he started to spread bullshit things about me and the situation after i told my s/o about it and they tried to get him to calm down especially with the picking my stuff up drama. He assumed i was also spreading my own rumours and lies so..
My assigned roommate was severely depressed, closed blinds and turned off my lights if I’d go pee. Hooned American spirits, and reeked.
When he moved out I went into his bag to get my grinder, and found a gallon bag of cig butts bursting at the seams.
Wild, and ruined my freshman year!
Lived with my sister. She was berating me for not cleaning something. I wasn't dignifying her with a response. She grabbed the cooking spray and starts spraying with me with it. I screamed at her and walked away. She wrote me a poem that explained that she's not perfect but she tries as an "apology."
One of my roommates looked me in the eyes while he shit on the table. He’s a cat tho so it’s kind of normal
Go to the litter box Mr. Kitty, but I still love the little fur ball. 🥰🐈💕
Is he playing rent?
@@ArkyThePig eh, he’s cute so I’ll let it slide lol
I think I would go into an uncontrollable violent out-of-body experience if I caught my roommate spraying my bird with poisonous chemicals. Those people handled that situation so calmly. Kudos to them.
idk why but the best part of this for me is the fact that the one guy knows what warhammer is
I had a roommate where everytime a girl moved in he would fall in love with her. In short, we couldn't keep roomates.
Four years ago, I moved in with a guy who was in the same treatment program I was in. The guy rarely let soap touch his skin or a toothbrush touch his teeth. He took a bath maybe once a month. He refused to clean the apartment. When I moved in, the living room carpet was so crunchy I had to empty the vacuum twice. He also thought he was a werewolf and he was vegetarian to control his meat eating impulses. I could smell him every time I passed his room. Yes,, his B.O. was that strong. When he moved out, his room was full of trash he left behind. Needless to say, I cleaned out the trash, shampooed the carpet, and sprayed down the room with Lysol and air freshener. I left the window open for a few days too so the funk could escape. I made the room better than it was before for another room mate to move in.
The worst was my most recent room mate. He was twice my age. He revealed himself to me and constantly hit on me. He made comments about my weight and the food I ate. He would wait outside the apartment, shirtless, when I would come home from rehearsals and asked why I was so late, why didn't I call him for a ride, and it wasn't "proper for a lady" (I'm assigned female at birth) to be out so late. He also got mad when I didn't cook for him. I need to use lotion, expensive soap, and face wash for my sensitive skin; and specialized shampoo and conditioner. He decided to use those things as well. The final straw was finding my hairbrush in the bathroom when I didn't leave it there the night before. He came into my room while I was sleeping, grabbed my hairbrush, and used it. When he moved out, he got into my face and his friend threatened to beat me up. My former room mate went on to spread rumors throughout the complex and our friend groups that I was hiding the kitchen knives to self harm.
Honestly, the moment he said something ignoring identity (I caught that AFAB mention!) I'd be getting rid of him or getting out of there myself. I won't tolerate it from someone I'm living with.
@@TelaniGrey It was a frightening situation. I live alone now, even though I can't really afford it.
@@dimitritucker1077 I get that. I've gotten lucky enough that I was able to move in with my best friend and my partner, but I know not everybody has that opportunity.
Be safe, my friend.
27:32 Isn't listerine way more expensive than a new tooth brush?
Yes, yes it is.
Pure laziness.
I was confused about ppl in America complaining about roommates and how there were always two ppl in rooms in college movies
I thought a friend was always hanging out there to make it interesting but no.
Turns out shared uni flats in the us are different to the uk.
In the uk you have your own room but have a shared kitchen/lounge space
(It’s size depends on how good you went tho) and some you have your own toilet and others it’s a shared toilet.
But in the us you literally share a room and I cannot imagine anything more horrifying than sharing a room with a complete stranger and trusting them with my personal belongings.
Yeah, I'm also in the UK and I was trying to figure that out too.
My first years of College were a nightmare living with very dirty, very loud, very rude, very egocentric, very entitled and not very communicative roommates. My last 2 years I lived with the best roommates ever whom later became my best friends.
That poor bird. Thank God it made a full recovery. My heart just sank, as a parrot mom. Birds are so loving, loyal, and graceful. They deserve the best 😔 not to be sprayed with chemicals
Love is magic but I know I’m always gonna fall into the friend zone.
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2:10 the sad part is the child is stuck in that situation, having a deadbeat mother.
Oh no I’m caaaaaaaackling right now 🤣 “he would drink vodka with his cereal it was incredible”
This is why i live alone 👍
I heard "drinking pot brownies" and was like *shocked pikachu face*
yeah I stayed in a staff house with like 12 girls and mostly they were fine but there's one who never did her dishes and was nasty af and then one of my roommates ate my food and expected me to cook for her. went back home after 2 weeks. I can't live with people like those
They threw spaghetti on my door. They said oh, I didn't know you were home.
if someone was never home and their ferret cage was always stinking up the apartment, I'd sell their ferret and tell them it died.
And this is why I'd rather live in a shoebox than with roommates.
Washing the dishes just takes a few minutes, but a lot of people act like it's the worst thing ever lol.
Only roommate I ever had was during my year at tech school out of state... he was lousy. Barely cleaned his own dishes. Went home every weekend. Never really cleaned up the room, which was basically a 6x10 closet (building used to be a convent). Not once took out so much as one damn bag of trash. I worked at FedEx Ground from 5-10 at night. Asshole always kept me up after midnight with his TV shining right in my face with crap shows like Robot Chicken. Always ate the food I bought on next to no money using my bowls, cups, plates, and silverware. Almost never bought food himself.
The best though? We had to be out of the dorms the weekend before Christmas so they could do remodeling and repairs. Which meant that, after school let out in the early afternoon, I had to pack my car, clean the room, wait for someone to show up for a room inspection, and try to sleep before work as I had a 7 hour drive ahead of me after work to get home. Doesn't the asshole skip out of school early and leave me hanging? Yeah, I didn't get to sleep before work. And almost fell asleep on the highway on my way home at 3 in the bloody morning.
Screwed him over in the end though. The aforementioned eating supplies, the alarm clock, and the FRIDGE were mine. And left when I did for my internship week before school let out. Sucked to be him. And I left the trash too! Kevin, you suck!
Freshman year of college my roommate would play videogames ALL. DAY. LONG. I'd get up, get ready, go to a class, come back, playing. Grab something, go to another class, eat lunch, there he sat at the desk under the "bunk bed" thing. Playing away. Sometimes he'd call hos long distance GF but he'd basically just ignore her unril sbe started basically begging for him to talk to her. Sometimes his mom would come and do laundry, clean our dorm room uninvited (it was a triple room with one other "empty space" Keep in mind I was 17-18 at tue time, him about 23. Supposedly the "adult" but he had the humor of a 14-15 year old.
Makes me feel better that the worst I do is leave piles of spam mail lying on the table and not mopping the floor
42:54 I kind of figured that’s where the story was going but the punchline was worth it😆
Worst room mate I ever had was a complete stoner. Like... Smoked weed every single day of his life since the age of 14... He was in his mid-30's. He'd get high in the morning, at lunch time, and when he got home. Problem was that his job was with a public school, and he would get high in his car during lunch break. How he never got caught, I'll never know.
Problem is: he always had the munchies, and would constantly eat food that wasn't his. So I purchased my own mini-fridge and locked it up, but he called me "greedy" and that "splitting things like cereal and milk isn't a big deal". It is a problem when you are literally throwing up from overeating, and we go through 2 gallons of milk a week.
Late on rent, wouldn't clean, etc.
When the lease came up for renewal, I told him it wasn't working out and that I was moving out. He flipped out and said that I was being dramatic, and that he can't afford the place on his own, or the rental truck to move out.
Told him tough-titty, and I never renewed the lease. I made absolutely sure that the rental manager had my payment for the last months rent, and that I was clear. Apparently he tried to find a last minute room-mate but had to move back into his parents house. Last I heard, he was enjoying his "covid vacation".
My last male roommate.
I am female. Was mid-40s when I found his ad on Craigslist. I know, I know... I was desperate, about to lose the place I had. He seemed okay at first, and was subletting the only bedroom to me. The A/C only worked in the main area, and to keep my cats from overheating, I had to leave my door ajar.
He'd come in and... take things. Came in once and cleaned my catbox for me, but considering he said my room would be private... I wasn't grateful. Couldn't find my lighter? Oh, there it is, next to his very large bong.
The door to the bathroom would not stay shut. And could not be locked. I tried to only use it when he was not home. Very awkward when he was home, knowing that he could enter any time he wished.
Oh, and he would always be asking for rides.
I tried to not be there, as much as I could manage.
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Sure, I like clues!
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...what clue?
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Hm? I've missed the clue.
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Sorry, I've not gotten a link to it.
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Wow... Yeah, I think YT is down on allowing a lot of comments on that sort of thing.
I dodged a bullet with one guy. He needed a place to stay because his roommates were kicking him out. (no red flags there) He's the kind of guy who had zero issues with covering everything with his varied bodily fluids. Doesn't like the idea of being locked out of anywhere, so he definitely would have tried to break into my safe. Also had no issue with trying to sleep with anyone I was dating. And generally did things just for the sake of being different. So I told him that my place was too small for two people who aren't f***ing. I think he considered crossing that line just to have a place to live. (we're both dudes and I'm straight) I'm friends with a few of his exes, and they confirmed he's a nightmare.