Wavy/Curly Hair Mistakes I made | Part 1
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- Опубликовано: 23 авг 2024
- I wanted to share some mistakes I made when I first started taking care of my Wavy/Curly Hair. You guys know I follow a modified version of CG.
Lookie here sis, sometimes its okay to modify the Curly Girl Method to suit your own needs.
Cowashing isnt typically suited to Indian weather conditions. Finger detangling may not be for everyone. Using a dime size amount of product like you see in most tutorials might not be your best bet. There are so many little things that we could be doing wrong without even realising it.
Listen, if these 'so called mistakes' work for you, go for it. I keep saying that what works for me might not work for you.
The point is, its okay to modify the Curly Girl Method to suit your needs. You can absolutely pick and choose and build a routine that works for you.
If you happen to have made mistakes, I've been there okay.
We all make mistakes.
Progression over perfection ok?
(I heard Robert Welsh say that)
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My wavy curly mistake would be trying to do it all from the beginning and comparing my hair to the beautiful results of those following CG for 2-3 years and getting upset
Another one would be letting the negative opinions affect me initially. Doing so much better now.
Oh man! That's true! Comparing your results to someone whose been doing cgm for ages is a huge mistake I made too.
All of us want and expect instant gratification!
@@MichelleManuel soo true!!
I adore that smile on your face in every vedio like you're truly a motivation! Also, you look really cute speaking hindi😅🤭
That's so sweet Aditi! ❤️❤️❤️ You're such a cutie!
I'll tell you my story as well. I started following CG with all the non CG products. 😭 I followed this routine for almost two months and then one fine day I literally cried while detangling my hair and that's when I stopped. My hair became extremely dry plus I lost a lot of hair because of that. You won't believe I would use one full bottle of conditioner but still unable to detangle them. It was that difficult for me. We all make mistakes a d that's exactly how we learn.
I must appreciate you for such informative videos. Lots of love. ❤️
You look so pretty 🥺❤️
Oh man. That sounds rough!
True about making mistakes! Sometimes we learn the hard way
Thank you for sharing Rashmi! 🤗❤️
This is gonna be another insane series!!
Thank you Karn! ❤️❤️❤️
Great video, so relatable!! I used to dilute my shampoo too in the beginning 🥺.. Then I realised my mistake!! I understand now that "clarifying" is very important too.. Your hair looks amazing - 1 year mark is a big one! Keep the awesome content coming.. 😁
I'm sure we all did it at some point! Lol.
Very excited for you to clarify your hair! ❤️
@@MichelleManuel mixed feelings about it honestly, but it's needed. RESET & REVIVE!
@@amrapalidasgupta3103 please! 🙏🙏🙏🙏
1. Use adequate products, experiment with the quantities.
2. DON'T dilute your shampoo and use about products
3. Take time to adjust your hair to the CGM routine
4. Don't over cleanse, it creates the opposite effect and makes your hair more oily and greasy
5. You can follow a modified version of CGM. EXPERIMENT
Good advice abt product amount. I am not gonna use a comb to detangle now , i always forget it🙃🙃
keep them coming:) Awesome insight once again
Thank you so much Roshe! ❤️
I was already using a sulfate free shampoo and shampoo once a week, since that's all the time i can afford
Made the same mistakes.. Now I know better. Waiting for part 2 .
Coming right up! ❤️❤️❤️
You look so cute in this dress and hair looks great as always ❤️
Thank you so much Alisha! Note to self, buy more yellow dresses. Lol.
@@MichelleManuel Yellow and pink suit you well😚❤️
@@alishathomas4540 ❤️❤️❤️
Yeah the dress is so cute and refreshing! 😁
@@amrapalidasgupta3103 so what you're saying is to buy more yellow dresses! Roger that! 😂
So a few months back I learnt that ketoconazole is a good chemical to treat dandruff in the hair. Since I have oily scalp (while my hair remains dry) I get oily dandruff. I've been using ketoconazole and salicylic acid shampoo for months now but it doesn't sud well so my sulfate-trained mind is never convinced that I've cleaned (despite the water after the first rinse coming off as slightly gray. Gross, I know 😂). To compensate, I use q tiny amount of Loreal professionals and then to condition I used to use the masque that came in the violent tub. After using the masque for a few years I still saw no difference in the quality of my hair, only saw it getting progressively worse. During the lockdown I was compelled to use whatever was available and I tried the Coconut shampoo and conditioner. It was then that my hair just went all out, got puffy and frizzy and wouldn't stay straight like it always was no matter the amount of conditioner I applied. I quickly moved back to loreal once it became accessible again only I still wasn't happy with how my hair looked. I had purchased the pink wala conditioner by Re'equil just to try and it had been lying in my drawer for days. At this point I had been somewhat double cleansing, once with ketoconazole and then with very little loreal, and then applying the heavy masque. Recently the masque got finished so I turned to my tube of Re'equil. It's been two washes with this new conditioner and almost no loreal shampoo and suddenly I have some very beautiful waves going on. As a child I had mad curls falling in ringlets around my face until I had my mundan and my hair came back straight. I think I may have 2B hair at least and I'm thinking to try the cure hair method to check, because even simple scrunching with just the conditioner and then while drying gave me waves and my hair suddenly feels like a hopeless mass of frizz and limp together. I'm hopeful and I'll start my CGM journey soon. Here to see what not to do. ❣
You HAVE to watch my hair journey videos. That's all I'll say!
@@MichelleManuel That's the plan! 😄
@@MichelleManuel SOOO... I finally got around to trying the CGM today. Used the True Frog shampoo, Reequil deep conditioning mask, and the Arata set of hair cream and gel to style. I may have messed up somewhere because my hair looks a wee bit stringy and way too frizzy BUT... I got some promising waves going on. I tried to finger curl and maybe I don't need that just yet because there's a lot of damage induced breakage in my hair (hard water and ocassional heat and and years of SLS and silicone ridden products to tame the frizz). Maybe I'll gently go into the routine and see if my hair likes to be this way and then proceed accordingly. HOWEVER! Had it not been for your simple demonstration of the CGM, sans all the many levels of works, I wouldn't have been able to pull this through. So many thanks are in order!! Maybe if I put up with it my hair would also fi ally have the defined ringlets like yours!! ❣❣
Hey! can you make some videos on coloring gray hair following the CG!!
Hey. So cg doesn't allow hair colouring at all. Maybe mehendi and henna would be ok if you're following cg strictly. However mehendi and henna coats the hair and therefore the hair becomes coarse and dry.
I don't follow cg to the t. I do a root touch up every month at home.
Hey hey Curl queen you look soooo damn pretty today and so does your hair 💖💕💕
Agreed a hundred percent!
@@esthersimick8054 💖💖
Thank you so much Seema! ❤️❤️❤️
You're welcome... and I think yellow is your color 😄😄
I am obsessed with yellow & mustard dresses! ❤️❤️❤️ Obsessed!
Would be so nice to see you washing your beautiful hair TWICE, making a huge foam on that superb hair....
Errrrr.... erm... That sounds like only fans content. 😂😂😂
how can I stop combing my hairs 2 days ke baad bahut irritation hone lagta haii
You don't have to do anything that makes you uncomfortable. Make your own rules.
my hair is screaming if i didnt use sulfates shampoo on my weekly (causes dandruff and my scalp is oily but my hair is dry) but i also loss a lot of hair. what should i do
Please modify and make your own rules. If you absolutely must use sulphates, then do it.
There's a difference between dandruff and a flaky scalp, covered it in my winter hair routine video.
I have a video on hairfall. Please check it out.
Your question is super important but one that I cannot address in a single reply. I have detailed videos on all these issues. Please have a look.
Agreed
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I have just started my cgm. I have fine hair 2b type. Pls suggest some tips and products that I should use in the beginning.
Hey Shubhashree! I'll make a video! ❤️
Does waves/curles become better
When we have long hairs
Vs short hairs?
My hairs are 8 inch or so
Im growing hairs long
That depends on the curl pattern I think. It won't make the biggest difference but if you have a super loose wave pattern, the long the hair the more the waves will be visible right? That being said hair, is beautiful at every single length! ❤️
@@MichelleManuel your hairs are amazing 🖤
I need to oil my hair too but sulphate free shampoo makes it difficult for me to clean my hair completely.please make a videa on oiling curly hair too
I have a video on how I pre-poo my hair with oil. Please have a look. I've also made a video on shampoos where I list from least cleansing to most cleaning. The more cleansing shampoos are able to remove oil if you pre-poo like I do
Relates😅
Lol ❤️
Hey, Michelle we have like the exact same hair 2b,2c,3a 😅. What are your thoughts on biolage smooth proof range ? ( I've tried the serum , (not CG friendly ),but works like a charm)
Haven't tried it. They're not cruelty free so my hands my tied...
Completely off topic but how do you like WOW Retinol serum and cream? Is the percentage mentioned in them?
It doesn't have the percentage on them. The fact that you asked this question makes me want to caution you against buying an active like retinol without doing your research. My number one recommendation would be retino-A (0.025 percent) anyday.
Retinol is not the same as vitamin C where we check for 5% or 10%. A lot of information would need to precede using it. Irritation vs purging. How to use an active. For someone who is a newbie & needs a no fuss cosmetic grade solution, I find the retinol serum and cream will be better tolerated because of the other ingredients infused in the formulation like jojoba oil, witch hazel, vitamin B3. This makes it better suited to a lay person as it would be better tolerated by someone who doesn't have the expertise/knowledge/patience to build up tolerance & use medical grade retinol.
That being said, I would say people with oily skin would appreciate their retinol cream more than a person with dry skin. :)
@@MichelleManuel Thanks a ton for explaining. I am asking for my mum, she is newbie in terms of actives in skincare.I am definitely doing research before buying! Everywhere I see 2% and more or less. She has normal skin type but more towards the dry type I would say, so these will work for her?
@@alishathomas4540 it's better for your mum to use medical grade retinol. Watch Dr Aanchal MD (she has content on retinol) or Dr Dray on youtube to understand how to use retinol. You'll be sorted.
The recommendation for new users is 0.025% medical grade retinol.
Also check out this app called Doc 24/7 from your app store to get a dermats professional opinion before use.
@@MichelleManuel Thanks a lot! Will check it out.
@@alishathomas4540 the serum yes. But not the cream. Again im saying for your mum, I suggest a consultation with a dermat. Also a medical grade retinol cream like retino A. Use the sandwich method. Limit exposure initially. (Use once a week for 30 mins and then wash off)
Then increase wear time super gradually. Only use at night. Skin must be bone dry during application. Sunscreen during the day is a must must must.
Woaaaahhhh
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I have started cg 2 months ago.but now what I am facing that after the 2nd day of wash my hair looks crazy, tangled and pathetic,dry. Then when I go for next wash I loose many hairstrands like many!!! All because of my tangled hair.it took 2 hours in shower to completely ged rid of tangles. So now what will I do??😒
Hair getting tangled like crazy point to some issues with protein. Check my protein moisture balance series.
Check your hair porosity. Is your hair protein sensitive? What happens when you perform the stretch test? Is it a case of high porosity hair struggling with moisture retention? Or do you have low porosity hair that doesn't want to allow moisture to enter your cuticle? Film forming humectants in your products would be key for moisturised curls.
If you're losing hair like crazy and feel that it's more than the normal amount (ie more than 50 to 150 strands a day) you need to go to an endocrinologist and get some blood tests done asap. If you have a deficiency, you might need to start taking supplements.
I'm quite worried about you Roshni. You've had some really bad experiences on CGM. Please understand that CGM may not be best suited to everyone. If this method is not working out for you, you could consider the possibility of quitting.
@@MichelleManuel thank you so much. But I really like cgm as my hair looks better now. But yes I haven't done so much test with my hair..☺️
Heyy...how do we not comb our dry hair before going to work the next day...my hair are so frizy when I wake up in the morning..what do I do with my frizy hair if not comb them...I am soo confused ..pls help🙄
Please have a look at my curly hair night time routine. It should give you some clarity.
@@MichelleManuel ok mam ...thankyou...I saw a lot of your videos yesterday..they are amazing and gave me a lot of clearity
Hey, my hair is dry and frizzy. And recently got a bad haircut. I am literally crying. What can i do to grow them faster as curly hair takes time.
Oh man. That's really rough.
But we've all been there.
It's hair. It will grow back. ❤️❤️
I have a playlist on hair growth. Please have a look.
Also check out my video on oils.
Might help you identify which ones to use for hair growth.
@@MichelleManuel you're a savior 🌹
I’ve tried to get more days in between washes but My scalp gets itchy if I don’t wash my hair every alternate day! No clue why
Time to ask yourself some questions!
Do you have an extremely dry scalp?
Are you using a pre-poo? Is your shampoo moisturising or too stripping?
Do you have an oily scalp with lots of build up? Are you using a cowash only?
Do you dry scalp massage everyday?
@@MichelleManuel definitely going to really consider these questions! Thanks!!
Can I use khadi shampoo??
Khadi is not cg friendly
@@MichelleManuel thank you so much for replying ♥️✨
Is it ok dilute sulfate shampoo...
Plz comment..
@@reshminair6246 if you're going to shampoo your hair, you're starting on wet hair anyway. The reason you're using a sulphate is to clarify and remove buildup. So use based on how much is needed.
My hair gets tightened curls.Any advice on losing up those curls?
You can use a tiny bit of oil/serum and separate the curl clumps once you hair is completely dry. Try using a root pick and pick at your roots.
Fluff and stretch the clumps out with your hands. This should help to come extent.
I think your styling method + styling products will also determine how much your hair shrinks and clumps together. So maybe experiment a bit with your styling technique
@@MichelleManuel I don't tend you use any styling product,except coconut oil as leave-in or else flax seed.I have adopted finger coiling method.
How may I change my curl pattern?
@@anjiyasaleem6462 hey! Don't try to change your curl pattern. You won't be able to do that. You have what your mama gave you!
Please watch my playlist on curly advice. I always wanted 3b hair. I slowly accepted my own hair and now I finally I love my hair the way it is and wouldnt change it for the world. The grass is always greener right?
I know for sure that your hair is stunning. I implore you to give your hair the kind of love and acceptance that it deserves. Please! 🙏🙏🙏
There are people out there who would kill to have what you have! Tight curls are absolutely gorgeous!
Sending you a big hug! 🤗
@@MichelleManuel Thanks for getting back.I love you❤️
I was using dime size amount too but I realized soon that it was doing no good and that I won't finish them just like that even if I use a little extra💁🏿♀️
Hehe. I think keep an eye out for film forming humectants in your products. Thay may not penetrate the cuticle but atleast it will hold onto the moisture in and around itself, giving you the appearance of swollen hair, hydration & thickness.
Hey.. Hi.. Can we talk one to one.? Need some solution to my queries.. Want to start my cgm journey.. please help.. Can i PM you anywhere. I live in kolkata.. Please help.. I am very motivated from your vedios but dont know where to start. Please help
Hey. You can ask me here in the comments.
I also think if you take the time to watch my cg beginner playlist you'll get all your answer there itself.
omg, you are from Kolkata !!
Yup
@@MichelleManuel nice, dekha hobe someday.
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I wear hijab. As a result instantly after a hour my hair gets sweaty and frizzy. I can't go without washing my after 2 days
Try to line your hijab with satin or silk. It should reduce frizz. For sweat there's no solution. Satin would have it even hotter.
@@MichelleManuel thanks for replying. Love from Bangladesh
Sending love to you in Bangladesh! I've performed with my band in Dhaka. Best audience I've ever experienced!
My biggest mistakes- diluting shampoo haha, using too much or too little product, comparing my hair with others, and expecting results instantaneously.
My saviour: Last week, I decided to not use any styler and give my hair a break. I was happy to see that the health of my hair has really improved. I had VERY little frizz and a beautiful shine. Such a thing really helps in breaking that obsession with hair and lets your hair breathe. It also reminded me that the reason I started this whole thing was to have healthy hair. So why obsess over a few bad days?
Beautifully put! I cannot agree more. ❤️
Hi! I live in very humid Azerbaijan and last summer was hotter than hell. I also gave my super thick hair a break from stylers in August and had to wash it almost every other day (my regular wash routine is just once a week). I can say it has really helped and I think I will do it in summers when I keep hair braided or in updo.
Good luck on this journey!
Don't be chindi 🤣😂
😂😂😂😂 it's true but! 😂😂😂😂
@@MichelleManuel yep very true 😅
Thats what I was doing with my shampoo, diluting it and the results are my prepoo oil staying on my hair giving me clumsy curls😑
Hmmmm. Same! And then you have to stay with that greasy dirty hair for one week until your next wash you! 🤭🤭🤭🤭
@@MichelleManuel So true.