What Type of Parents Will We Be?!
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- Опубликовано: 21 окт 2024
- Jackson gives us plenty of practice, but one day the two of us will be ACTUAL parents! Seems far off now, but it's never too early to daydream about it with y'all!
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First comes reality TV, then comes engagement, then comes… real life! Jojo and Jordan fell in love in front of millions of viewers and now they’re letting you in on their day-to-day struggles, solutions, and fun along the way. They are navigating life on their own terms- together and engaged! New episodes every Tuesday at 10AM PST. #JoJordanEngaged
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The BIGGEST tip: Never blame the other parent or say “Mom thinks” or “Dad says” - WE WE WE. If you disagree talk about it in private!
Yeah! So true! I used to watch my friends play their parents off each other. My parents were always united. If one said "no," we knew it counted from the other, too.
Great advice! Thank you ❤️
@@EngagedwithJoJoJordan I just Wish that I gotta come up with become a Dad unless I have to get on the bachelorette or else Bachelor in paradise
@@EngagedwithJoJoJordan I don't have kids but mine are my guitars
@@EngagedwithJoJoJordan thats not good advice guys! kids need to know they have 2 chances to get what they feel they might deserve. if one parent says no, maybe the second parent can agree with the kid but with conditions set by the first parent or something like that. if parents have 1 shared view on things the kid might feel isolated in the home or might even think 1 parent is more submissive to the other bc lets face it, 1 parent will be the more assertive decision maker.
We miss you soooo much guys! Please come back and do more video!❤
Agree with Jordan, participation trophies are a no go. Not everyone’s a winner all the time 🤷🏻♀️😝
Have all of my high fives
And that’s great advice for being a parent! You don’t just get a trophy, it’s a thankless job constantly
Erin Nickle what do you do if your child is small and never wins. Loses confidence bc never gets a hit, no one choose him for a team etc? Just let the child sink into a depression thinking they will never be good enough?
@@gaelcrane8008 positive reinforcement is different than a participation trophy. Parents needs to be encouraging and push their kids to do their best but rewarding mediocre outcome with a participation trophy does nothing for a kid other than stunting their growth and expectations. They will grow up thinking they never need to be the best or try hard in life to get ahead.
I REALLY need a podcast from you two. It would be really successful because watching your videos is like sitting down and having a casual convo.
Why did you stop making videos? Please make more miss you both :(
I am no parent I am just a teen but I'll tell you the thing I live most about my parents is I can be so open and real with them they will always accept my opinions and my decisions!
you lucky!
Why no new episodes? I know you're still together and then you two are such goals for a couple. I was a little late on The Bachelorette bandwagon and just binged your season. You two are my favorites. Updates????
my dad is a stay home dad and it was awesome! whenever we would come home from school he would be ready for us with snacks, etc! truly was a blessing having him be there!
It will come naturally once you have your own baby.. Being a loving nurturing dad.. I think you'll be a great dad Jordan..
We NEEEEED more videos! Wedding details? Home essentials everyone needs? Just more bach / love talk..... I need it all.
Loooool totally agree with Jordan, 20 swings is too many. Go practice !!! then the satisfaction will be much sweeter
When y’all have kids, would you consider sticking with the “J” names?
yeah! Julie would be the best choice 😻
Jordan, don't feel bad. I felt the same way ! A crying baby freaked me out, I was scared to hold a newborn, etc. It changed once I had my own
Your baby will have amazing parents!! 😍❤️
Thank you love!
Love you two!! ❤️❤️
They are so funny. They crack me up! I love them. Amazing couple! 😁
From what I see, definitely great parents. You guys have the patience and have grown so much since the ending of your season JoJo! You guys are perfect together. ❤️
They would be perfect parents! So patient and constantly building each other up. They are perfect for each other and that would make them great parents
Elementary teacher here! Positive reinforcement is the way to go with kids for the most part! But each child is different and some kids need different things, so you’ll have to test out a few parenting styles before seeing what works best for your child. You have to go in with parenting with an open mind ☺️
You guys would make the most fun, loving, and compassionate parents. I hope to see beautiful mini Jordan and Jojos soon❤️🥰
Thank you for not swearing on every other sentence, like some Bachelor Nation people do on their podcasts, and basically never swearing on this. It makes your content even better and more enjoyable! Best wishes on your future wedding and kid(s)!
I went to college got my degree and always thought I would be a working mom. I got pregnant and had my first daughter. My whole outlook on life changed and I'm a stay at home mom now. I'll go back to work when my kids are older. Being home with them everyday is the greatest gift. I never thought I'd be at home with them and I love it so much!
You guys have the perfect balance for nurturing / authoritative parenting. Can’t wait to see the cute 👶 👶
Always wanted a boy first too, but had my sweet girl first and then 2 boys (and now #4 on the way that will be a surprise this summer) and wouldn't want it any other way. She is so helpful and another little momma and it makes my job easier! You all will be wonderful parents and love hearing from you guys every week, thanks for sharing your life with us!
Awww, mama's helper! She sounds like the sweetest! 😍
Agree with Jordan about baseball.T ball is best to start + at home. But think of the kids waiting behind the boy trying 10 times?🤦
Just wanted to tell you both that I love you two! Definitely my favorite couple! I actually almost went on the bachelor too a few years back but I had just met a guy at the time (which is now my husband lol)and decided I couldn't let him go. Now 5 years later we have a beautiful baby boy and he's the best thing that ever happened to me and i love staying home with him everyday more than anything I've ever imagined. I did have a full time career nursing and then travel nursing all over and i was very career driven. I still work occasionally( 3 shifts a month) but i truly love staying home with my boy. So my advice to you is get everything out of the way before you have kids. Have no regrets whatsoever so u can fully give yourself to your babies! I'm so excited for y'all to have kids one day. I hope y'all are still posting videos by then. I'd love to see it!! You guys will be amazing parents!
So my husband never wanted to hold any of my nieces or nephews and not going to lie I was concerned for a little if he would be a good dad. He 100% surprised me and was more hands on then I ever could have imagined. You all will be great parents! And 100% no participation trophies!
Can you guys please make another video soon?! We have all been waiting ❤️
I have two children (now 21 & 16). I had my first child at 34 and my second at 39. I wish I had them closer together, but it worked out well for us. I did continue to work after having my children. Your priorities will definitely change once you have children, but you will adapt willingly to accommodate.
You and Jordan are sooo like my husband and I!! We make it work, we definitely disagree on parenting but I think it’s good to give your kids two different perspectives and also balancing each other out with parenting.
I totally agree with Jordan on the baseball situation. And here’s why..... you want to tech your kids to work hard. To be okay to “fail” and not be good at something. They have limits and boundaries. They also have to develop tough skin. To try hard and get better at something. And that is so exciting!
Omg...in love with Jackson... look at him just staring at u guys! Lol
biting is huuuuge and normal problem for young kids! I worked in a daycare for 2 years, it was constant and unexpected biting. But, the bad biters definitely grew out of it and it won't las. but BEWARE!!
I agree with Jordan about doggy-parenting style this time! Aww JoJo's gonna be the parent that the kids run to when they want something 🤣 spicy dad vs sweet mom
This is great!! Love how real you both are! No couple agrees 100% on how to discipline/raise their children.
Can’t wait till u guys get married and have babies!!🥰
Crying laughing! This is me and my husband 💯. My husband is like “I’m the leader.” I’m like “mama’s baby boy...don’t chew on the door.” 🤣
I love you guys so much! I'm sure you will be amazing parents! 😀 You are my favorite couple💗
I am an early childhood educator and I promise you them learning three strikes and you’re out and that sometimes you lose is the BEST thing for them! They learn to work hard and that also makes the joy of winning or doing well so much sweeter! Let them lose. Teach them the actual way to play the game. The students I have that do, are more mature because of it. And trust me, they aren’t damaged by it!
You guys are going to be absolutely incredible parents. It’s important to remember that it’s all a learning process and it’s okay for things to not be “perfect”. You both will show your children love and compassion and that’s what matters ❤️
My best advice in parenting, is treat your children the way you want to be treated. If you made a mistake how would you want some one to react. Show grace. Teach consequences without making the child feel like they can’t trust you. Also I agree with Jordan it’s important for them to fail, it is the only way they’ll learn how to improve and become better. Also it’s more important to instruct them in the right way to go then to only instruct them in all the things they shouldn’t do. Example “ when we get to the store you guys will be my big helpers by staying close by and helping me load and unload the food.” Not “ don’t you dare run away in the store and scream and shout and beg for candy, you will be in big trouble if you do!” Set them up for success. It’s easy to focus on everything we don’t want them to do and we can forget to instruct them in the right way. To set them up for success we need to show them the way to it.
Love this example of positive reinforcement!! 😘
A few things I learned as a parent.... We aren’t perfect and will make mistakes. This was one of the best lessons I was able to teach my son. Own it and learn from it!.... Take help when it’s offered. I was fortunate to have my parents close by and they were always offering to spend time with my son. Obviously it was a great help to me but it also allowed them to develop an amazing relationship with my son!......Lastly, start disciplining early. It is so easy to give in to the little people as they are adorable (or throwing a tantrum lol) but when you put the work in early it makes the later years SOOOO much easier!
I think you guys are going to be wonderful parents! I really enjoy your videos. Your down to earth personalities, humour and obvious love and respect for each other make me smile! Thank you!
P.S. Your dog is adorable!
thank you soooo much, you so amazing personslites! God bless you!
I don’t know if you read these but I am a big fan of you two! I have two kids myself! Andi (girl) and Strider(boy). My daughter was a biter and that was SO hard. But they are the best! They are very strong willed, athletic and passionate (as I’m sure yours will be) but I’ve learned to embrace imperfection and messes. But you will never ever go wrong by just loving, hugging, kissing, snuggling and playing with your babies and kids. One day they will grow up so just treasure them being small, tantrums and all. Make all parenting decisions based on love. You will be blown away at the love you will feel for these little humans that you created.
We read these! 😉 🙋
I love that you guys are so excited to be parents! It’s been the most rewarding thing in my life! You asked about career driven women transitioning to full time Moms and I’m so glad you asked about that. It was hard for me at first, because I am super ambitious. But my husband has been the best at reminding me how much our kids benefit from me staying home! And I really do feel like no day care can love them like I, as their mother, can. And I have found that motherhood is just as, if not more, challenging than a career. I can also see how much staying at home makes them feel more secure and loved too so hopefully you’re up for the challenge! It’s the best adventure!
I know you guys are gonna be the perfect balance of parents! Love you both ♥️
I agree with Jordan when it comes to sports! Hardwork and practicing!
Your kids are gonna be rock stars..... with her awesome heart and his sincerity mixed with all the good looks💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽
I’m a mom to a 2 1/2 year old girl and 1 yr old boy. My advice to any parent is:
“Be kind to yourselves, because you are doing a great job!”
Also there is a lot of judgement and advice that gets thrown at you once you’re pregnant even and continues once the child is born. I found that a bit confronting and unexpected! Just do what works best for you and try to focus on that! I’m 28 as well
Pop a Johnny and a Susie out.. the sooner the better.
I met my partner when I was 23 and it took us until I was 29 to have our daughter.
You never know if you may need help and the time can just get away from you.
She’s our miracle IVF baby.
So excited to see you guys go through all these experiences 🥰
Be strong and team work!! My husband and I have always worked as a team when it comes to disciplining our child. He does most of the discipline since I work nights but when I come home I make sure I pull thru with whatever discipline my husband already set down with our son.
Such a tease you guys, can’t wait, can y’all hurry up please🙏🏾 pretty please??? Ok so you were right...you are talking about kids before wedding😂 set a date yet...yet...yet...yet🤣
JoJo your outfits are adorable where do you shop?
Jojo - to answer your question on becoming a mom and work, etc...I struggled with my identity as a new mom. I chose to quit my job because I worked 55 hours a week and so did my husband. And I knew that I wanted to be my kids primary care giver. However, I did not realize how hard it would be to "just be a mom". My identity before kids was in my job. And honestly, in todays culture, I felt bad for wanting to "just be a mom"...like I was doing a disservice to women as a whole. But I am finally changing my thinking and trying to embrace this time of my life and enjoy it completely and making my new identity as a mom, and I couldn't be happier! I still do some side work to help contribute and have "me time"...you will discover what works best for you! All the best
Wow, this is some really great perspective. Thank you for sharing!!
After my army career was ended due to injury I became a stay at home mom. Feel totally fulfilled and like it’s the best thing for me and my family... although I get told that I’m “wasting my education” and could be doing so much better with my time... I know it’s out of style but there’s nothing wrong with stay at home moms!
There absolutely is nothing wrong with stay at home moms! Thank you for your service ❤️
Coming back to this from a long day of lectures is mind relaxing. You guys are the best❤️❤️
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When it’s your own baby it’s a different ball game, you are more comfortable and can handle the crying situation better, you will know as soon as you have your own, it’s different. Also my husband is the best hands on Dad doing everything I also do and it’s the best partnership to be, so the other one doesn’t get worn down. It’s about teamwork!
But just have kids! Don’t overthink it or wait. It hasn’t stopped me or my husband from still doing the things we have wanted. Sure there are times when things are harder with kids and there are periods of real adjustment but I would say don’t wait or hold off. When I had my first I thought ‘why did it take me so long or why didn’t I do this sooner.’ It’s the best having that new parent love. The first year is THE BEST! And then they grow up some more and get the attitude and that’s when you start pulling your hair out haha. But it’s amazing to see them grow and become their own little person. You guys will be amazing parents 😍🥰
And usually when you have your first, that period of first adjusting to a newborn is HARD! But once you get the hang of it, it’s the best and then when you have another one you realise how easy the newborn stage is because toddlers get testing! You will get this statement when you go through it and a lightbulb will click 😃😊
JoJo, you and Jordan are the sweetest couple ever!!! You'll be fantastic parents!! I wish you nothing but the best!
My husband stays home with our daughter. She’s 4 months old. And it kills me not to be with her everyday. So... that’s gonna change soon. Haha But I think you can do both if that’s what you want. Having kids is so much more difficult than I ever thought it would be but at the same time, so much better too!
Ugh can’t get enough of u two. #couplegoalsforlife I love love how honest you guys are about evrything on this channel. So raw and so fun to watch. My fav channel on RUclips!
I'm starting her season now and I knew the first few men who showed up would get the furthest. I very much expected Jordan to win too. He is a dreamboat
I am 30, a full time practicing attorney and had my first child in 2017 when I was 28. Having a great support system, including family, was huge in making it okay continue working and pursuing my goals and dreams. I am currently back in school part time pursuing my LL.M in tax. I don't know if there is ever a 100% ideal moment, however once you do have kids... you will never know how you could have lived without them!
Wow, good for you!! What an inspiration! 💪
Can you pleeease come livin up my wedding next October! its small with mostly family and im gunna be the only one on that dance floor! Jordan come save my reception!! haha
Girl, even if you are the only one dancing, LIVE IT UP!! 💃
@@EngagedwithJoJoJordan oh heck yes I will!!!! Thanks for the response guys!! love your channel!!!
I'm obsessed with Jackson!!
jojo & Jordan are such great Future parents.
We waited a few years after marriage to have kids and it was the best thing we could have done. We were able to really enjoy each other and spend that time as a couple. I will say having kids is hard so find your tribe and love on them cuz help is everything! Also always remember that you are a team and dont forget to rely on each other for emotional support too! Little Suzie and Johnny will be so loved!!
cant wait to see your kids! they will be so lucky to have parents like YOU!
As always, love you guys! Whoever little one gets you as parents will be the luckiest ❤️
Awww Jackson!!! 🐕💕
Always love watching your show! You both will be amazing parents when the time comes! 💕
Jordan I know you say you're going to be the tough guy, but that's what I said I had all these plans of being the tough guy and I am with other kids(nieces, nephews), lol but not my own. I'm a SOFTIE. Soooo u guys must redo this 2 years post baby. And well see if these answers are the same ♡ p s. U too would make the cutest babies 😍😘
I HATE the “don’t tell your mom”. I would be devastated if I found out my husband taught my child to lie. I live on 100% communication and honesty.
LOVE LOVE LOVE watching you both!!! Y'all are my favorite couple from the show! Jackson is so adorable and very lucky to have you both! I cannot wait to see your babies, they will be so adorable :) Much love from your neighbor in Austin
My mother in law birthed 16 children and her husband was a Dr. they were the best in laws and the best advice they gave us was “You are the FIRST parent they have ever had, they don’t know you put diaper on wrong or their food should be hot. Just relax and enjoy. If parents are stressed, kids will be too.” They feed off your emotions, if you laugh and are relaxed, firm and hard workers. Your kids will be too, they do what you do NOT what you say!!!
16!?!?! 😱WOW! But this is great advice, thank you for sharing your in laws' wise words!
Discipline as a unit. Don’t let them play you against each other. No participation trophies, that breeds entitlement. They should earn their trophies and learn that it’s okay to lose. It just means that they have to work harder. Their victories will mean more to them that way. The common saying I’ve heard about your life is over after kids is a terrible way of looking at it. Your life becomes their life. Their experiences become your experiences. Their hopes and dreams become yours. It makes you better at life because you in a matter of seconds become more selfless and more motivated to be great for them. You guys will do great! The way you balance each other out will translate to how you raise your kids. You will each bring something special to the table. As long as you continue to respect and love each other openly, your kids will blossom because they will grow up witnessing that mutual love and respect and that’s how they learn to love their siblings and one day their own significant others.
I can guarantee you guys it will change what jordan thinks about babies. When the baby arrives its an automatic parenting that comes and he wont even ask for u when ur child cries
Speaking as a brand new parent here ☝🏽☝🏽☝🏽🙏🏼
You guys will be great parents once the time comes
You guys make me smile and laugh! Team JoJo-Jordan all the way! Jordan you're a scream! Jo Jo I can tell you'll be a "Mama Bear". So cute!!
Y'all will be great parents! You seem to strike the perfect balance. I was 28 with my son and 30 with my daughter. It is ten times harder than we expected, but so much more in other ways!
I’m so glad you picked Jordan! You guys are going to make amazing parents!❤️❤️❤️ Much love
Thank you for saying that!!! xx
I have twins & my names Susie. 😂 Love your videos!
You guys are to cute! Don’t worry you will be great parents!!
In regards to your question about career vs. waiting to have a family - just make sure you are talking to your doctor about your family planning (even the idea of waiting). I’m all for girl boss, power to the women but our drive for a career has no effect on biology and the truth is, pregnancy over the age of 35 is considered a GERIATRIC pregnancy. If a family of your own is the goal, just make sure to educate yourself about natural fertility and biological consequences of waiting.
Can't wait for you guys to have kids you guys are going be amazing parents 💗💗
Loved this video, it was so much fun! Can’t wait till you guys have kids they’re going to be so cute. ❤️❤️
You two are so funny! You'll be great parents!!!!!
We married while I was a senior at the University. We have 3 boys now ( unplanned lol) and I had my first at 25. I graduated with Bachelor's while pregnant and started the Master's program pregnant and then with baby at home. I was determined to push forward with my desired career in Education and be a great mom. I was only one semester (and student teaching hours) away from a Master's degree but I just couldn't do it anymore. My husband was working longer hours than ever and I no longer had available consistent childcare. I wanted to be able to devote myself to my sweet baby, he deserved all the nurturing he could get. To me, daycare was never an option as a path of parenthood. Due to financial constraints, I have not completed my Master's to this day. Our kids are so sweet ( 9, 3, 2 ), but you will lose most of your lifestyle as it was once they come. So be prepared to "die to yourself" so to speak. However gloomy that sounds, it is only a season of life that will pass. And they are worth it! (And you will get some type of bodily fluids on you at some point! Lol) Just keeping it real. Sorry so long. So good luck guys!
you guys are going to be amazing parents!!! we are going to need a full time reality show when that time comes!!!!! 😂🤩👌🏼
You guys remind me SO much of me and my husband it’s a little creepy! Haha we are currently letting whatever happen right now as far as having a baby goes, not forcing it as it’ll happen when it’s meant to be. 😇 Very excited! I am the same age as you as well! You guys are the cutest and love your channel. Always watch as soon as I get the notification ♥️
Aw this one was so sweet and fun I loved this one. You guys will make AWESOME parents one day and I agree Jordan definitely needs at least one boy!! Hahaha
Hi JOJO I am a career driven women worked in the corporate world for 14 years since I was 19 as an optician, and I go married about 7 years after that- and had my first baby 4 years after that and left my profession and never looked back, as a stay At home mom, so blessed❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Oh PS now I do meal prep from home! My hubby is a teacher and we are so blessed and happy!
You guys are just the best! I love seeing the notifications for your new videos. I always end your videos with a huge smile and can’t wait for the next one!
You guys will be great parents. Speaking of a woman who was business oriented and juggle with kids now is Jillian Harris.
OMG!! Jordan I just can't with you! Why are you so adorable? JoJo you are beautiful! Your personality is so refreshing! I remember watching your season and I was always team Jordan! You both are PERFECT for each other!! You compliment each others personality!! I LOVE LOVE LOVE your videos!!!
Y’all are going to be awesome parents!!
I absolutely love these videos! I’ve been here since the first video! So awesome to see y’all grow as a channel and also with each other. Y’all are the best!♥️ much love from Alabama!!
Thank you for continuing to watch!!! ❤️
Aw thank youuuu! Xx
You guys will be the best parents out there, no doubt❤️ Allways so sweet and caring to everyone, so i can totally see you guys as parents!😄
I am only 27, and i actually had to remove my uterus just a few months back. I had no kids either, so this was a hard message to get.. Several doctors said i had no chance to ever getting pregnant because it was so broken at that point, and the inflammation had spread to other organs as well. So i really didn’t have a choice...
So this is one of the toughest things I have gone through, but i’m allways trying to be positive and not least be grateful for all the good I have in my life, and for me it is much more important to appreciate what you have right now, than worry about what you don’t have.☺️ I will never get the chance to have my own kids, but I am forever grateful for my wonderful boyfriend, family and friends that i do have in my life. So i am very lucky, after all❤️
And now we have decided to get a GOLDEN RETRIEVER!! 😍😍 So in a couple of months, we will be parents to a beautiful little puppy, a puppy that will be SO loved!👫🐶
So we will be a little family of 3, and i am allready looking forward to see my beautiful golden child for the first time!😍🥰 So now i’m going to be a mommy after all, and i’m just so happy!
So i cross my fingers that our new baby behaves well and don’t become a gangstah-dog with a bad attitude... 😆
So it will be okey after all❤️
Allways looking forward to a new video from you guys☺️
Much love from Norway🌼
This was such a sweet comment to read. I love your perspective!! Thank you for sharing!
Engaged with JoJo & Jordan And thank you for the support❤️❤️
Much love🌼
Would LOVE it if you added a link to what you wear in each of these :)
I think you two will be amazing, loving, helicopter parents!! 🤣🤣🤣❤️❤️❤️
I am 100% with Jordan about the sports. I hate when kids get participation medals and excessive praise for not doing well. Sports are about discipline, hard work and fun. But in order to develop resiliency and work ethic in anything, people need to fail. It’s part of life but it builds a strong character.
I just love y’all as a couple.
Awww I love you guys. I’ve been a fan of your love since night one of the bachelorette 💗
Love you guys! Jojo I agree with Jordan on the baseball thing. What you are saying is this generation nothing is earned anymore. It’s given to them. I have a 17 year entitled teenager and I’m struggling! Show your kids that you have to work hard to succeed. You the two of you as an example! You both are hard workers and worked hard to get there! Jojo the reason my daughter is entitled is bc I catered to her:( I failed lol. Love you both!
I'm obsessed with Jackson.
Same 😍