Why I initially said NO when he proposed

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  • Опубликовано: 6 май 2024
  • Hello Everyone,
    We are Hope and Josh, we met in America and we are now living in South Africa. When Josh first asked me to marry him, I just was not ready. Here is the the whole story of what went down....

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  • @Willetmaseko
    @Willetmaseko Месяц назад +12

    I love how Hope is honest and clear about what she wants… I totally get her 👏🏾 I think she is vocal about things that a lot of women think and feel

    • @BeyondBorders_jh
      @BeyondBorders_jh  Месяц назад +4

      Great observation hey. Almost everything is out in the open and what you see is what you get, there’s no second guessing. We have really worked hard with communication though, with some therapy here and there.

    • @deekay_entertainment1
      @deekay_entertainment1 Месяц назад +5

      Right... things that most women would love to say but they don't...

  • @D_A_Marv
    @D_A_Marv Месяц назад +7

    Hope knew what she wanted to accomplish and that was her education first and then the next steps will come after. Kudos to Josh for being patient and respectful
    BTW, I like the name of your channel
    Congratulations!

    • @BeyondBorders_jh
      @BeyondBorders_jh  Месяц назад +1

      She really did and I’m happy that I did it exactly how she wanted me to. She is a great person and she truly deserves my respect for how hard she worked. Thank you 🙌

  • @Afrosoil11
    @Afrosoil11 Месяц назад +6

    I love these type of videos on your channel

    • @BeyondBorders_jh
      @BeyondBorders_jh  Месяц назад +1

      Aww this warms our conjoined hearts ❤️ thank you for this feedback. We will bring you more.

  • @mathildap.7705
    @mathildap.7705 Месяц назад +3

    Beautiful story. I will continue to follow you

  • @missfmulovhedzi6985
    @missfmulovhedzi6985 Месяц назад +3

    I just love you guys❤. This is beautiful to watch. May the Lord keep and protect you.

    • @BeyondBorders_jh
      @BeyondBorders_jh  Месяц назад

      Aww ❤️❤️❤️ we love you too 🫶🏽Thank you 🥹

  • @HibSun7
    @HibSun7 Месяц назад +1

    Lovely video!😊 And best wishes to you both

  • @BelindaAJones
    @BelindaAJones 2 дня назад +1

    Love your transparency…..you are a jewel❤❤

    • @BeyondBorders_jh
      @BeyondBorders_jh  2 дня назад

      Aww thank you so much for your kindness 🥹❤️

  • @annamojapelo2292
    @annamojapelo2292 Месяц назад

    Beautiful 😍. Enjoyed watching

  • @rahabpulanemakwala4447
    @rahabpulanemakwala4447 Месяц назад +1

    You had patience for one another and also you had to know and understand one another, that great couple in love❤❤

    • @BeyondBorders_jh
      @BeyondBorders_jh  Месяц назад

      You are right! Patience and understanding is truly what keeps us afloat. Thank you ❤️

  • @Willetmaseko
    @Willetmaseko Месяц назад +1

    I definitely see what Hope is talking about when she says y’all understand each other.

  • @idaadams3867
    @idaadams3867 Месяц назад

    Beautiful story

  • @thenjiwedube9639
    @thenjiwedube9639 Месяц назад

    I love you guys you've found a new subscriber in me I will be waiting for those vlogs❤❤

    • @BeyondBorders_jh
      @BeyondBorders_jh  Месяц назад

      Welcome 🥰 the vlogs are coming your way 🫶🏽

  • @Willetmaseko
    @Willetmaseko Месяц назад +2

    Josh is such a lover boy 😂 love that for Hope😂😂

  • @conniematilda1041
    @conniematilda1041 Месяц назад +1

    Beautiful ❤❤people

  • @rosetterasidile9712
    @rosetterasidile9712 Месяц назад +1

    The Ts and Cs 😂😂😂 from the beningin. Love you guys ❤

    • @BeyondBorders_jh
      @BeyondBorders_jh  Месяц назад

      They were all laid out 😂😂😂 but he followed suit

  • @ceciliahelpinghandlimpopo1037
    @ceciliahelpinghandlimpopo1037 Месяц назад +2

    Finally she said Yes ....🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @nkwastibwerahma5314
    @nkwastibwerahma5314 Месяц назад +1

    I love u guys so much u make search great beautiful couple wow

    • @BeyondBorders_jh
      @BeyondBorders_jh  Месяц назад +1

      Aww 🥹❤️ we truly appreciate the love. Thank you so much 🫶🏽

  • @AfricanHope
    @AfricanHope Месяц назад +2

    Enjoyed watching this

  • @khumomogami3020
    @khumomogami3020 Месяц назад +1

    South Africans, with wanting to come back to SA, honestly, I get it. South Africa is a very diverse and vibrant country. I would also struggle to live anywhere else.

    • @BeyondBorders_jh
      @BeyondBorders_jh  Месяц назад +1

      What a beautiful country we live in. I’m glad to be back 🥰🇿🇦

    • @lotusflower8030
      @lotusflower8030 Месяц назад

      Same with Namibians... & Foreigners always think it's a bad thing, but nah home is home, it's easy for me to make a name for myself and be successful career wise, build at home....So as Namibians 1s our mission/ studies/ contract has ended , we wrap it up....we have to settle home

  • @mantubatlhomola99
    @mantubatlhomola99 Месяц назад

    Wow what the nice story, Hope your are so fame, you know how to start for yourself, this guy loves you so much he don't want to lose you🤣🤣🤣

    • @BeyondBorders_jh
      @BeyondBorders_jh  Месяц назад

      😂😂😂 Thank you ☺️ he has so much love. Very patient too! Thank you for watching 🥹

  • @Willetmaseko
    @Willetmaseko Месяц назад +1

    To answer Josh’s question… I think it would have been funny to see her reaction and how you also reacted to her initially saying No 207 times as part of this video - maybe at the end after y’all told the story.
    But otherwise, I think you really out did yourself with the trip to her favourite city, getting her to do her hair and nails , getting there on time to get nice pictures - that is a lot of effort.

    • @BeyondBorders_jh
      @BeyondBorders_jh  Месяц назад +1

      I thought you’d wanna see it 😂 unfortunately we didn’t film but at least we have the memories to share, and the pictures too. We will just share that with you and hopefully you were able to visually it 😂

  • @user-rt2jl4tx4z
    @user-rt2jl4tx4z 10 дней назад

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @darlenemack4973
    @darlenemack4973 Месяц назад

    If he's not what you looking for why waste his time of what he wants and you not wanting it? It's not fair to him when he could find someone that's ready for what he wants and looking for.I don't think he should continue to be in a relationship with you if you not looking for the same thing you both need separate lives from each other.

    • @BeyondBorders_jh
      @BeyondBorders_jh  Месяц назад +2

      Mam, did you watch the video?

    • @D_A_Marv
      @D_A_Marv Месяц назад

      @@BeyondBorders_jh🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I’m dying of laughter because I was about to ask the same question 🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @inemesitebong4254
      @inemesitebong4254 Месяц назад

      Please have some peace of mind because you are stressing out for nothing.