MONEY Over LOVE in Marriage... Choose WISELY... Love will not pay your bills.
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Whether you marry for love or money marry someone that respects you!
The truth of the matter is money makes love easier and sweeter
True🤷🏽♀️
I fell inlove with a rich man and married him 😁after dating for 4 years we decided to get married. 1month after marriage already pregnant I discovered that my husband is in a huge debt and he completely kept it away for me. He lost all his money and now starting from the beginning, the love I have for him has vanished, I’m angry and sad. We fight always because I’m literally raising my baby alone. Then he suddenly turned to a lazy man. This life just pray God should direct your steps.
Omo 😩 what did I just read
This is scary 🤦♀️
Wow
This is a lot!!!!!
Mheen one should pray God leads their steps
Yes ! My biggest fear with dating men with money 🤭
This is where love comes in. If he has been rich before, that means he already has the seeds of greatness. PLEASE encourage and remind him of who he is. He will rise again. Don't do the opposite because you may live to regret. This life is a mystery and loyalty can go a long way.
So sorry about that dear, God will see you through. Please watch Pastor Kingsley and Pastor Mildred s messages on RUclips, you will learn a thing or two from them and will be encouraged.
I actually married for LOVE with the belief that MONEY would come...and this is honestly the case! I made more money than my husband when we married and now my husband earns more money than I do. He also pays the vast majority of the household bills. Thankfully, this worked out in my favor BUT I believe if you marry a hard working, dedicated, and ambitious man who wants to take care of his wife...he will work to make this happen!
Sameeee. Thank you
Exactly! Marry for the right reasons and you won’t regret it. A lot married for money and had the money in abundance but still miserable in their marriage. 🤷🏽♀️
Hi Nelo, please do you marry your hubby for love, money or both?
I'll marry for love but let the love have money 😂😂
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Hahaha
Love + Laziness = FRUSTRATION!!
Totally 👌 Banter with NJ in the building!💃
Absolutely
I married for love. My husband and I met when we were in high school. So we both had no money. It never crossed my mind to marry for anything other than love. It’s been almost 27 years now and life is wonderful. We built everything we have together. He’s a wonderful family man and loves providing for our family.
As Davido said “love is sweet oo, when money enter love is sweeter”😂
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Yeah. The reality of bills that keep coming will douse the love if there's no money.
@JYO. So with all the money He has, why didn't any of his relationships last? Use your common sense..
@@caesarx8139 play dey his eyes that’s why..but when money enter love is sweeter
It is both for me o, I saw how love without money quickly turned to frustration when I was younger in a family friend's marriage. Both love and money is highly important. You even need money to show love sometimes
Very true!😄
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I married for love, but he is also the most hard working man I know..... The best decision I ever made 😍
I lined up people with prospects and chose to marry the one I loved the most. 😄
👌I totally like this. It makes so much sense.
Correct Babe!😆😄
You are a wise woman
Haha. Smart!
I’m not married yet but I will line up guys with the most prospects and chose who loves me the most. I just need to like the guy enough to be with him. I will never choose a guy I love more. The man must love me more if not, I no do.
I married based on love and today we are very comfortable. I personally would never advise my daughters to marry based on money. What I'm enjoying in my marriage I don't think I would enjoy if my motives were all about what can you provide for me.
Do you know why you are still enjoying that love? It’s simply because you are comfortable. Am not against marrying for love but don’t just have kids because once their is children involved and you can’t feed them, get them clothes or see them sent back from school due to unpaid fees, the frustration and anger in both you and your partner will sweep the love out of the door
@@destinychukwuani no I totally disagree. Like I said my love for him is not because I'm comfortable. When we met and had our first kid we were broke broke. But honestly maybe because of where I come from I just didn't feel it. Women in my part of the world are expected to work, we women are the sons of our families so naturally we don't look at what a man can give, although it's a plus, however culture in West Africa is very different and it's understandable why many marry solely on the basis of money .
@@destinychukwuani If a couple can't feed , cloths or pay their Children's School fees, then having children should be the least of their worries. Use your common sense...
@@caesarx8139 madam common Sense they are so Many couple who cant do it and still had 5 kids.
@@ladyMillionGroup I have witnessed high school lovers that became cat and dog due to financial struggles. Am not saying it must be the man who provides but when a woman has no means of income and marry a man with no means of income in the name of love. I don’t know if love will pay their bills or feed them. At least one person should be able to pay the bills before talking about marriage
I choose stability my sis , no vex. I love money, I will develop the love when there is money and happiness follows. I can't go and shop for food items with love , it's money that I needed for it
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She is making money on RUclips and it’s part of her and her husband have money 🙄
I married for both!😆😄
@@akendon7260 I didn't have issues about you picking neither. You know why I ended our little chat with "lol"?? Cos, it was evident you already misunderstood me, and, I just wasn't in the mood for Comment section brouhaha.
I went to where there was money and found a good rich man 😌
Nelo I really want to understand why after more than half a decade being married to Oga baby he still makes you shy. It’s too cute.
It's Love😄
@@BanterWithNj 🤣🤣🤣🤣
When I was younger, love was my thing but as I get older I understand that this concept of modern love is a western construct. Love fades and fades very fast. If people want to admit it or lie to themselves, we marry for Economic reasons and to extend our lineage. How can you extend your lineage (children) and be broke. Sometimes we need to sit down and analyze these things very well.
Now you don’t want to marry a nasty rich man but as long as he is kind and y’all are compatible, Nnem Carry go.
Great video Nelo
I love the way Oga Baby torments Nelo while she's making videos.
The blushing is real 🤣🤣🤣
Amen! I cast and bind suffering from my life too oooo.
AMEN O!!🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Amen
Amen and amen
May I never take pride in suffering 🤣🤣🤣... I refuse to see suffering as a sign of a virtuous woman.. Amen
Love will come with time when you are been treated well and pampered(money)
You know!😄😄
I ABSOLUTELY ABSOLUTELY agree with everything you've said so far!👌🏽👌🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 Let me keep watching💃🏽
Nj i see u got time today 🤣
@@NeloOkeke Yes o!😄😆😆
I can’t cope with poverty! It irritates me.
Marry for money, love will come/grow.
I was saying this same thing with my friends
Money is very important
Before you get married, have money ooo
Thank you 😊
You are so right when you marry them because of love and when the money comes they will now go for another person and say you didnot fit them again
Marriage is work-teamwork- two people making it work. Don’t use because of pressure and enter into something you aren’t ready for.
Exactly!👌🏽
When I go to the store they ask how are you paying cash,credit or debit. My sister they haven't added love to the list,when I shop online they ask for visa or Mastercard they never added love to that payment option
🤣🤣👏🏾👏🏾good one
Amen, I cast and bind suffering from my marriage.
Even though you want to marry because of love let there be money very necessary at least the man should be very hardworking Nd not a liability if not it will be everyday quarreling Nd fight una two go just old b4 Una time....Kudos to y’all marrying bcu of love wen there’s no money on ground 🤧 with a lot of children expenses you all are strong God will see you through AMEN 🙏🏿 🙏🏿
I have travelled a lot to Nigeria and other parts of the world and it’s a norm to married by fire by force. The sad reality, a lot of those desiring to be married are not ready for marriage. Love alone doesn’t makes a marriage successful. Being a Christian is a great asset before being married but that is not only the requirement for marriage. Marriage is beautiful and love is beautiful, but marrying with financial and or other stress/barriers only brings frustration. It is also even worst when children are brought into the marriage when the couple in its self cannot even feed themselves. I firmly believe anyone getting married must first try to empower themselves, establish a good career, skill or business and have a decent revenue/income before going into a marriage. I am totally shocked with the amount people pay for their weddings in the name of tradition or other silly reasons when the wedding is only for a day. If one have to beg or borrow to pay for their wedding, they are not ready to be married. I think you could be a good advocate for people before they rush in marriages. Finally, it is better for one to get their lives together before marriage than to rush into to a marriage and have to endure suffering or the pain of separation or divorce.
IF YOU ARE GOING TO HAVE KIDS U NEED TO MARRY FOR MONEY......LOVE .....can't survive without electricity OOOO 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣.women by nature tend to eventually love a man that provides....you even become more kinder 🤣🤣🤣🤣dusty men can frustrate 🤣🤣🙆🙅
God forbid I shall not suffer. Amennnn🙏🙏🙏🙏
AMEN!!!!!🙏🏽🙏🏽
I found both in one person and I’m extremely happy
Honestly I married for money,but i thank God along the way I also found love.
I married for love o but super grateful that money is in the mix…
Amen 🙏 to those amazing prayers oooo, I HATE SUFFERING AND NO AMOUNT OF LOVE WILL RENDER ME BLIND TOWARDS SUFFERING 🙏 I'm still single I'm currently enjoying 🤑🤣 hopefully it works all fine, funniest part is I never loved my hubby from the start, neither did I go for his money, but his wahala was becoming too much, because he is capable, I had to give him a try, I'm not regretting it today o, I can't even count what I've gained from him😩 but things changed gradually, the love isn't 💯👌 yet on my side, but for sure he's all over me, and it annoys me at times, I'm like oga give me space, but the money part always make me smile 😍
Are you the type that love playboys with no money? Married but single. Kontinu oo.
@@chichikito3618 read again please 😘
Hi nelo, i literally watch all your video, but this is my opinion about you, you are too original, in short you are yourself.
And i love you for that. Well done.
I absolutely absolutely absolutely enjoyed watching this video! Thank you, so much, for sharing👏🏽👏🏽❤❤❤
Your reaction when Oga Francis walked in really cracked me up
I married for both, money makes love to grow fast , love without money is frustration,,, More money to my hubby in Jesus name amen
Yeah, and that frustration eventually strangles the love to death.
That LIKE button, I don’t play with it at all. I LIKE then save to watch later if I’m busy or just go ahead to watch , but that LIKE best believe I’ll do it. I know how much liking a video is to content creators.
LIKE (ing) all the way.
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Thank you ❤
I married for a lot of things but love was pretty high up… thank God the money is coming…
Me too! 😆
Hype it biko na you get am💕💕💕💕💕Nelo you are beautiful always😍😍😍
My husband said that if family responsibility hold you like this amu agaghi ekeni( no erection when family responsibility comes). Kudos to all men giving in their best to take care of your family. Father Lord please provide for us all🙏🙏🙏
AMEN!🙏🏽🙏🏽
Hahaha 😀😀. Your husband got it right. Wealth makes the AMU harder, while hardship weakens the AMU.
@@johnkevinoguike6522 😂😂😂😂😂😂
I married for both but at first the money was not that much with time our finances started boosting excessively. We thank God
I love your sincerity.😍
Personally it should have a balance. Pick with sense.
Like you said compatibility is key. Someone who can cope with your excesses and vice versa. Yea marriage is full time duty.
Hello Nelo your choice of topic really made sense. But in an actual life setting, we can never know where life takes us to and so we have to be spiritual in our choice because it would leave a lasting effect in our lives. In my case, I never choose on my own and I thank the Lord because he helped me made the choice and I am more than comfortable in my home and with all the luxuries I could ever want.
I married for love not for money, how did i settle down with this kind man or woman, this question is not really what someone is praying to ask in marriage. Your hubby is funny, I like the acting you both did anywhere. Marriage is a school, we need to be very careful while choosing life partner. I really enjoyed watching. Thanks for sharing
I said the prayer after Nelo.. hahah all I know is I am going where money is, love will follow and this is not to say that I am going to be solely financial dependent on him.
I claim it for you, in Jesus' Name! AMEN!!!!!!🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
i think you should do this with francis. to hear his perspective as a man too. maybe a part 2
Love isn't everything... because we are going to raise humans with money not love
I am not married yet, but I think I will go for money now, this love thing is not working, LOVE IS A SCAM
She drops 🎤 . This babe totally said the truth. Love is not enough. Don’t follow laziness cos of love. Open your eyes 🙌🏾
Don't follow laziness cos of Love👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽
Biko, leave Asher alone!🤨 We Love him like that!😍❤
Well I married for love and I thank God I did. Las Las people should just have sense when choosing.
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 you might not be an expert but you hit the nail on the head. Love is not enough period! Money is very important also. For the yet to be married, love cannot solve all problems. And yes, another key point, you can live without anybody. All these saying “I cannot live without you” or “I love you pass my mama or myself “ all na scam 😂. Compatibility is very, very important. I was all for love conquers all, but life has taught me Oba of Benin. Still working on being the best me each day almost 23 years since “I do”Change is constant Gbam! Marriage takes a whole lot of work on both sides to make that sweet melody. Simply put, bittersweet experience. The amount of effort put in can either make bitter or sweet more or just in between. Marriage is no bed of roses if you’re not devoted 100% the good, the bad, the ugly and everything in between. But awareness is key. Know thyself first, that is the starting point. Nice topic Nelo 👍🏽😘🤗 Keep preaching! 😁. Also, even for the most devoted, trust me when I say ejiro afufu akwa coat. Suffering is in nobody’s DNA. When push comes to shove, tears turns bloody cause love is not enough.
Amen and amen
We shall not suffer in the mighty name of Jesus Christ Amen
Wowwwww thank God you made a video on this topic i asked! Well I got married because of money Nd a little touch of love😂
Lemme start sharing this video to those my single ladies blinded,deing Nd sufferings bcu of love I hope this will motivate them....
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To me if the money is there love will come am not going to pretend on this one
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Thank u !!! 🙏🏾
I daphinitely married for LOVE..but association of sabi sabi & amebo pimples have their own reasons on my behalf!🤷🏾♀️
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I can’t talk again if you lie down😂😂😂😂😂. Nelo talk your talk. We want to hear it raw
Oga Francis wants to put sand sand in our garri!😄
I claimed it
No pride in suffering 🤣🤣🤣
At all o!👏🏽
Amen to that prayer in the beginning of this video, what we believe , wish and speak out for ourself is what comes to us as there is power in our tongue. NELO HAS TURN TO PASTOR MRS.
Married for love %100. But what is love? Is it all butterflies? Definitely not.
What people need to learn is self worth, their purpose, where they are going etc. If you're marrying for money then go get that money why are you marrying someone because of their money?
I held my love and gave it to the person that can provide o...
What is love without money. Love is maintained and it's money that maintains that love so how on earth will someone marry a man who don't have money. Both should be there for any marriage.
AMEEEEEEEEEEEN!!!!!!!🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
10 seconds/ a minute will not be enough o!😍😍😍🤩🤩🤩🤩😆😆😆😆
I want to ask ooo- what if you marry someone because of six packs and along the line the person developed pot belle,will you fall out of love😃😃🏃🏃🏃
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Exactly my dear, Am looking out for compatibility o!
Secondly it not about marrying someone that has money,it about marrying a giver...
Amen to your prayers...🙌
Let's not glorify suffering...
God forbid I marry someone I don't love.
I married whom I loved and still do, but had to make sure he was and still is hardworking.
I actually had both options but I went for love hmmm
God bless you my dear sister if you will remain faithful to the man God will surely make sure that you are the one to enjoy the good things that are coming only be praying and be patient as well though it may tarry but surely it shall come to pass in Jesus Christ mighty name AMEN!!!
When i think about the many men i have rejected with money tells you alot but i still love money though.
Hold my hand let's pray together 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. Love sha!!! To each is own. Yes, you are beautiful my lady.
you are a fine babe jare. vlogmas is gingering me every evening with your videos. me i got married for love but your pocket must be lined too because love alone is not enough
Even in relationship it is very hard. Ladies it is not about being materialistic but seriously money is good
Interesting topic, everyone defines love differently. In some situations we may look at that love as stupidity. Looking at someone for just the physical, you will be in trouble ooh. If the man/woman has potential great but a man/woman with some issues you cannot tolerate in the end, will drive you crazy. I married for love, money and compatibility. Celebrating 5 yrs this month 🍾 🥂 🎉
I say this a lot
Choose someone you can manage
Very important
First off,I will say that prayer all over again biko😂😂.
And 2,how can anyone not like you biko😂
Marry for potential and love. To a man who has become my best friend & lover for life 👑💋👑MARRY WITH SENSE. Struggle love don’t suit me.
Awe cute the face glow during the interaction with Oga Francis
Isnt that a very materialistic way to look at life? I tend not to agree with this view. Money can also vapourize what do you have left then?
Amen ooo,may I never take part in suffering oo🙏
AMEN!!!
Your hubby said ka love gbazie oku 🤣🤣. Nwanne. Biko. Let that love catch fire ô. Love cannot pay school fees biko
Don't know how familiar you are with soca or calypso,there's a song that goes cant make love without money cant make love on hungry belly, no money no love. Love is for my eight year old and my fifteen year old who doesn't pay their old bills.
I do not take Pride in Struggle or Suffering..............Thank you SweetHeart! (It is soooooooooooooooooo sad that the Black Community has always waved the Love flag when choosing a Partner. Legacy, Wealth, and Abundance is a conversation we are too shame to talk about. As long as I have to find MONEY to be Clothed, to be Housed, to be Educated, to worship in God's Kingdom, to experienced good Hygiene and Sanitation, to be Healthy then MONEY will always take Precedence and Priority in my life, everything else falls somewhere in the Line.)
I so much love the part you caught on camera with Oga. It was so fun for me.
Married for money o PLEASE! I can't come and be suffering abeg. I have no love to give anyone, i can only respect u as long as you're doing your part of the deal because I see marriage as a partnership/contract. You don't have money? Then I have no business with u
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I will always choose money over love anyway anytime even my husband knows…I refuse to glory in poverty
Amen to that prayer like AMEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEN!!!
Great advice 💓
I like the way you smile at your hubby…. You love him sha
Me i marry for both oo . Who like suffering? I'm always advicing my daughter not to marry an empty pocket Man. love is good but if their is no money the love will sweet.
I married for both, love and money yes ooo.
So beautiful, loving the colours 😍, this topic is hilarious but let me keep watching
This makeup loook ehn! 😍😍😍😍😍
Thanks Nelo! Well analyzed
I relate so much with most of your views on different topics and it feels good to know my thoughts are valid and not unrealistic like how people make it seem
😂its funny when he asked you and if its only love? smart man he knew you were hiding the full gist
Nelo you made a lot of sense in this video... You are very right....
Who suffer epp??
Ego amaka HOHA! 😊