Car CEX, Dressing $exy, Falling Out of Love + More EXPECTATIONS VS REALITIES In Marriage

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  • Опубликовано: 11 сен 2024

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  • @talkwithtobi
    @talkwithtobi 3 года назад +11

    Nelo can talk ehnnn, Near with the contagious laughter, Adaeze on the calm side throwing points. I really enjoyed this video. 👍👍👍

  • @purityalbert
    @purityalbert 3 года назад +20

    This is the best collaboration i've ever watched on RUclips. My goodness! Its the reality and honesty for me. Every single one of you have very distinct and amazing vibes. Omoh, the energy in Adaeze's house on this day can sure light up a Christmas tree. Chai... God bless you ladies for making my Mondays through Fridays bearable at work.

  • @Nezeville
    @Nezeville 3 года назад +51

    I haven’t started watching but am already laughing 😂!!!!!!!

  • @NnekaNwogu
    @NnekaNwogu 3 года назад +40

    U guys are absolutely right. Its always good to differentiate between expectations and reality.. let me finish taking care of my kids b4 I will have time to knack 6 days in a week🤣🤣🤣

    • @NeloOkeke
      @NeloOkeke  3 года назад +3

      🤣🤣🤣🤣 my sister you are capable

    • @NnekaNwogu
      @NnekaNwogu 3 года назад +2

      @@NeloOkeke am not oo🤣🤣

    • @Mosiwomeka
      @Mosiwomeka 3 года назад

      🤣

    • @nkechiamandaanyabolu2009
      @nkechiamandaanyabolu2009 3 года назад +2

      Intentionality is the key,he was there before the kids,so we should try and call all to mind and balance all. I love Neze smile,Ada always calm and Nelo always real.keep the vibes umunnem

    • @TORIMONGER
      @TORIMONGER 3 года назад

      You are really funny and I love tuning in to your channel. A real goofball.

  • @ShalouCuisine
    @ShalouCuisine 3 года назад +50

    Neze’s laugh is so contagious 😂😂😂😂😂
    I enjoyed the topic👏👏👏👏

    • @eluanmark4204
      @eluanmark4204 3 года назад +1

      Like the smile never stops... Love y'all

  • @AbujaYummyMummy
    @AbujaYummyMummy 3 года назад +8

    Papa Ebuka come and take what is yours🤣 Kai Una scatter me with laughter

  • @sandrabrianafrica3360
    @sandrabrianafrica3360 3 года назад +22

    I can't stop appreciating the beauty... gosh you all look so amazing

  • @AbujaYummyMummy
    @AbujaYummyMummy 3 года назад +5

    At rumpled singlet and torn boxers 🤣🤣🤣 this was so hilarious

  • @RoszeyBrowny
    @RoszeyBrowny 3 года назад +5

    Bikonu why am I smiling so sheepishly in public laik this😁😁
    I have laughed my ass out oo my aunties in marriage 😂😂 Nna e no be small thing and Nezeville killed me when she said you were nau tie wrapper and say oga come and take what’s yours, you want or not🤣😂😅🥲😄😃😅

  • @TeewaiVlogs
    @TeewaiVlogs 3 года назад +17

    Oh my....that eating together and oga finishing the meat,fish or other encouragement in the food is so true o🤣😂😂😂

  • @AlmaNgur
    @AlmaNgur 3 года назад +1

    See ehn!! I was supposed to be the 4th person in this video!!! 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼

  • @AdaNwaozor
    @AdaNwaozor 3 года назад +18

    Nelo 🔥 I love your energy. I so much enjoyed this series. 3 beautiful ladies spitting nothing but the truth. I love that you ladies keep it real 💯

  • @theroadsideinvestor
    @theroadsideinvestor 3 года назад +19

    Neze's laughter has me rollingg. Lmaoo

  • @ogomsseries
    @ogomsseries 3 года назад +61

    When am angry, I have found a way to write all I want to say so that I don’t forget what I want to say so that I can reference when we are talking about it.

  • @ogomsseries
    @ogomsseries 3 года назад +8

    Communication is key,but communicating the right way is important👏👏👏.

  • @ogeirenediary6693
    @ogeirenediary6693 3 года назад +3

    I love how open all women were in this video, ahhh nelo is a big influence ooo look how adaeze talk smooth from her heart without alot of hesitation. I am here for this bcos i am a newly wed and this video is making me have an open mind wen stuffs like these show up.

  • @bennethezinwa6567
    @bennethezinwa6567 3 года назад +10

    I believe if Oga participates in running things in the home, such as cooking, bathing the kids, bring them to school or pick them up from school. Basically Oga being active participant in the home PLC, will avail more time for bedroom activity. Though not a guarantee some women/men are naturally lazy when it comes to bedroom activities. In my opinion, once a week is too dull! Nelo thank you for the "COMPREHENSION MATTERS", very vital for a healthy and progressive home.

  • @floxysfeed4448
    @floxysfeed4448 3 года назад +9

    Plsoo let your husbands gather and do their own amino,you guys shld facilitate that,it will be fun.

  • @doyinoyekunle4195
    @doyinoyekunle4195 3 года назад +6

    This Neze’s laughter ehn! Very contagious

  • @miraumeh5599
    @miraumeh5599 3 года назад +5

    Atugom down👩‍💻let me balance well, abeg who dey my seat. I don't like trouble

  • @GiftyUncensored
    @GiftyUncensored 3 года назад +1

    What’s no to like about you 3, this is so relatable and funnily not what people like to talk about. Thank y’all

  • @christyokoli9328
    @christyokoli9328 3 года назад +9

    Very proud of you guys.I live in Los Angeles and I'm happy how you guys represent Nigerian women cos some people in this part of the world does not know that we have beautiful, educated well spoken ladies like you guys

  • @sandraezejianyaele8288
    @sandraezejianyaele8288 2 года назад +1

    You ladies are so hilarious 😆. Nelo said communication without compression is noise and l can't agree any less. Some expectations in marriage only happen in movies; you don't agree on everything in marriage. You have to be intentional about your Marriage so that you continue to love each other regardless. Learn to be yourself; don't fake it because you go tire. I have so many points on channel about marriage expectations versus realities. I am new on RUclips though but l have years of experience in marriage. You three ladies rock. Neze, l will be your first student when you start laughter masterclass; your laughter is contagious. I enjoyed this video honestly.

  • @bellznjollz80
    @bellznjollz80 3 года назад +16

    Nelooooo u just hit it with the first point: Communication without comprehension is NOISE!! 👏👏👏 let me continue watching I'm sure gonna enjoy this...

  • @naturalinspirationsbynekod2143
    @naturalinspirationsbynekod2143 3 года назад +4

    Hey Nels, Ada and Neze! This was such a treat, just having you three gisting and all. I enjoyed sha, I can't complain when it comes to either of you ladies. 🥰 Ah ah abeg o, this laughter and talk is so real joor. Had to pause, so I won't miss a beat. Lol 😄

  • @gloriad216
    @gloriad216 3 года назад +1

    My expectations when I got married is that oga will pet me , kiss me and serve me breakfast on bed.
    Reality is when he will wake me up early and ask me to prepare breakfast for him. After two weeks,I couldn't endure because in my father's house I wake up anytime and eat anything I want because I have younger ones. I went back to my father's house and ask oga to stay on his own .
    Then after one week daddy asked me if I was quarrelling with oga I said no daddy asked me to return back to my husband's house.
    I went back to oga's house crying that I will never go to daddy's house😄😄😄.
    This November will make us 10 years together.

  • @Chykoli
    @Chykoli 3 года назад +5

    The sleeping and cuddling part for me...my dear we sleep with different blankets ooo...I need to turn any how I want and fart inside my blanket anyhow I want 😃 😀 😄

  • @KelechiChukwurah
    @KelechiChukwurah 3 года назад +6

    LMAO 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I really enjoyed this. So true and realistic. I thought that when we get married, he'd be the one to drag me to pray even more...WO ! 🤣🤣🤣 Thanks,dear for this evening laughter. Now heading to the other channels to show love 😘

  • @oyoyondokikitchen
    @oyoyondokikitchen 3 года назад +11

    Enjoyed watching you ladies…. The eating together is not my thing I never tried it … I just love eating by myself.

  • @jynb1947
    @jynb1947 3 года назад +2

    It's the way nelo and neze said are you serious same time 😄😄

  • @onyinyesspace9085
    @onyinyesspace9085 3 года назад +1

    🤣🤣🤣 Neze o..."come and take what is yours. Are you doing or not" 🤣🤣🤣

  • @francesjane3544
    @francesjane3544 3 года назад +7

    I kind of connect with Nelo. I love her vibe. She’s my spirit sister😀

  • @kehindeakinlabi1650
    @kehindeakinlabi1650 3 года назад +1

    I really love you guys and I’m about to clock 20 but you guys (Nelo and Adeze) have taught me alot about marriage and family. Because i reallly have this fantasy about family and my future but you guys have made me become more realistic when thinking about family and my future

  • @Rubychika
    @Rubychika 3 года назад +1

    This is so fun and so serious at the same time. I have saved all the videos sha. When I get to that point in life sha, I will go back to these videos to take advice.

  • @tee-kayTv
    @tee-kayTv 3 года назад +6

    Had so much fun watching this☺️☺️☺️☺️
    And yes!Comprehension is key!

  • @tinuboroni8607
    @tinuboroni8607 3 года назад +1

    These women just spilled it all out💪💪💪

  • @favordestiny5711
    @favordestiny5711 3 года назад

    Nelo the break all tables .Always say it raw,no pretends where she dey.cute video and crazy ladies, nice fun

  • @vickieogb1262
    @vickieogb1262 3 года назад +2

    The content i signed up for, another lovely watch ❤❤❤👍👍, FACTS!!!

  • @ChyHairDiaries
    @ChyHairDiaries 3 года назад +1

    I think the single club enjoyed this video most.....on behalf of us, thank you ladies!!!!!

  • @oduekiokonkwo4339
    @oduekiokonkwo4339 3 года назад +3

    Neze can laugh for africa....I really enjoyed the diversity of this video. really fun to watch

  • @cherryblue746
    @cherryblue746 2 года назад

    Please can we have more of this content? This was hilarious, entertaining and educative . Thank you ladies

  • @vio4025
    @vio4025 3 года назад +2

    I hated that eating together thing we both hated it we just realized we couldn't cope and drifted 🤣🤣

  • @AbujaYummyMummy
    @AbujaYummyMummy 3 года назад +3

    Almost 4:0 am and I’m here laughing 😩🤣🤣

  • @anonnona6433
    @anonnona6433 3 года назад +3

    9:18 Peperempe thinking of all the freaky times 🤣

  • @glamourouscool6114
    @glamourouscool6114 3 года назад +6

    Really enjoyed this conversation😂😂 hard truths, 7yrs in like Nelo.

  • @nomzy448
    @nomzy448 3 года назад +2

    Had so much fun watching the three videos from the three channels, me the part of eating together resonate with me o 🤣🤣🤣

  • @Ursula.s_Spot
    @Ursula.s_Spot 3 года назад +3

    I really learnt so much from this video. Comprehension not communication, very valid 👌

  • @jynb1947
    @jynb1947 3 года назад +2

    I was actually having a conversation with some of my single friends
    One was saying after birth with two weeks she will continue having sex with her husband
    I was just laughing
    One whose boyfriend gives her gifts everyday
    I told her hope when they marry she won't be expecting it
    She said he must continue or else she will divorce him
    I told them they are not ready for marriage mbok

  • @Miss_Princewill
    @Miss_Princewill 3 года назад +7

    3 shades of beauty!!!!! 😍😍😍 what a Triooooo

  • @miraumeh5599
    @miraumeh5599 3 года назад +6

    I over enjoyed it o😂🤣🤣🤣see me laughing like a fool. That food,sex and love part ada brought up I had that expectation but the reality was different.
    Let me head over to Ada's channel then Nez

  • @NazorEzeh
    @NazorEzeh 3 года назад +4

    That laugh from 18:09 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @TeewaiVlogs
    @TeewaiVlogs 3 года назад +7

    My car is not big enough😂fat has added🤣you guys are amazing ❣️ enjoyed all of these

  • @abbyvictoria2389
    @abbyvictoria2389 3 года назад +1

    Really nice video…
    You should do these kinds of sit down videos with other views and perspectives more often, we need to know these realities.

  • @adaonyeocha
    @adaonyeocha 3 года назад +18

    😂😂😂 ladies this is so interesting, i enjoyed every bit of the discussions

  • @ogberahaabigeal32
    @ogberahaabigeal32 3 года назад +1

    It still boils down to couples doing what works for them. Nice one

  • @chinitascorner3021
    @chinitascorner3021 3 года назад +7

    Honestly, this video is super dupe. So hilarious and entertaining. My stomach is paining abeg

  • @ogomsseries
    @ogomsseries 3 года назад +5

    Negodu 3 beautiful umu asa😍😍😍😍

  • @PhayteasPulse
    @PhayteasPulse 3 года назад +1

    The laughter in this video is contagious. You ladies are speaking facts

  • @ucheobuekwe
    @ucheobuekwe 3 года назад +2

    The quality of this video is amazing! Please what camera was used to film it? 😍😍

  • @jenkech5824
    @jenkech5824 3 года назад

    Wow you ladies dropped some straight up wisdom. Very entertaining thank you so much for such a great video

  • @LearnIgboWithBarbara
    @LearnIgboWithBarbara 3 года назад +3

    I’m just 100% Nelo in character🤣🤣🤣

  • @jasmineoladokun2734
    @jasmineoladokun2734 2 года назад

    18:10..... I dare you not to Laugh🤣🤣🤣 Nezeville, your laughter is contagious 💋

  • @Nanaekanem6132
    @Nanaekanem6132 3 года назад +2

    Honestly comprehension is really key especially during arguments 💯

  • @sheilaochaka4082
    @sheilaochaka4082 3 года назад +21

    Nelo you are awesome I just watched you on Neville's channel and you are the real deal....always on point...beautiful content and very INFORMATIVE 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼❤❤❤❤💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻

  • @asaahprecious07
    @asaahprecious07 3 года назад +5

    Neze’s laugh 😂😂😂😂😂 this was soo interesting

  • @NotesandBebaibee
    @NotesandBebaibee 3 года назад +3

    I enjoyed this video, thank you guys for this, I just got married, I needed this 😀😊

  • @obioraperpetua3934
    @obioraperpetua3934 3 года назад +1

    I really enjoyed this. I laughed all through. Plz do more of this collaboration

  • @gloriaukay392
    @gloriaukay392 3 года назад +1

    Umu Ada Igbo,Ekele muo,you can pass as siblings,ndewo nu.

  • @momentswithadwoa5264
    @momentswithadwoa5264 3 года назад +2

    I love this and I'm definitely trying the Car cex thingy with hubby hahahahaa

  • @camelak8953
    @camelak8953 3 года назад +1

    I just Nezevilleeeeeee!!! Plus I enjoyed this talk, I learnt a lot.

  • @simplyjoy6840
    @simplyjoy6840 3 года назад +1

    I love such group conversation to increase my understanding and here what other couples are doing.

  • @Mosiwomeka
    @Mosiwomeka 3 года назад +4

    Never loose your individuality

  • @zwashebangani8328
    @zwashebangani8328 3 года назад +12

    Its the smiles and positive wholesome energy for me❤❤❤❤😍

  • @trippledworld9088
    @trippledworld9088 3 года назад +2

    Wow! I really enjoy this video we need more of this can of video

  • @obiemmanuel2782
    @obiemmanuel2782 3 года назад +2

    You ladies are just too on point

  • @maureenbrowny6385
    @maureenbrowny6385 3 года назад +1

    Neze that food part eehh.. hubby will prefer eating together to finish the whole meat, lol cos I'm a slow eater..

  • @cyndycjay
    @cyndycjay 3 года назад +4

    My faves in one video.. this is definitely the video of the year for me.🤣. seeing my faves collaborating together.. you ladies look so GREAT... THIS VIDEO IS AMAZING

  • @chikajudith648
    @chikajudith648 3 года назад

    A collaboration of three gorgeous ladies. Wooow! The topic was hot mehn! I laughed all through.

  • @uchegbumaryjosephine9746
    @uchegbumaryjosephine9746 2 года назад

    I totally enjoyed this! More collab biko

  • @sakehswurld
    @sakehswurld 3 года назад

    I have been married for 11 years and honestly I agree with you, comprehension is key.
    Everyone communicates but do we really understand each other.
    Nobody cuddles all night biko, how will I sleep properly?
    I always say there’s no manual for marriage, do what works for and your partner.
    I’m still hoping that one day I’ll sit with you ladies🙏 So help me God.

  • @jennysoutlet
    @jennysoutlet 3 года назад +8

    I actually screen recorded the part about sex to send to hubby because I know he won’t watch the whole thing but I want to still let him see this important part.

  • @Nicey_Young
    @Nicey_Young 3 года назад +3

    Communication without comprehension is noise
    Truee🔥👏👏

  • @loolar5983
    @loolar5983 3 года назад +4

    This was so much fun to watch…great job guys 💕

  • @Bamsworld01
    @Bamsworld01 3 года назад +2

    Awww it was so much fun watching 😘

  • @debbiedo-er9672
    @debbiedo-er9672 3 года назад

    "Papa Ebuka come and take what is yours...are you doing or not???" Neze, kee me!

  • @mildredopubiri6161
    @mildredopubiri6161 3 года назад +2

    This was so much fun, you 3 are so beautiful and a vibe. Seen the videos on all 3 channels and was so much fun and informative ♥️♥️❤️❤️❤️

  • @rhodaboateng5822
    @rhodaboateng5822 3 года назад +2

    I love you ladies so much❤🇬🇭
    I really enjoyed this😅

  • @EnglishPrepClass
    @EnglishPrepClass 3 года назад +1

    Real talk, truth delivered. BTW you ladies look so stunning🥰🥰🥰

  • @zaiahphilips7000
    @zaiahphilips7000 3 года назад +1

    Nezeville papa ebuka come and take what is yours. 😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆

  • @TeewaiVlogs
    @TeewaiVlogs 3 года назад +9

    All points valid💯💯💯💯🥰🙌 insightful and interesting

  • @prestigeofficial8855
    @prestigeofficial8855 3 года назад +2

    Awwwwn this is so cute and interesting too. Thank you

  • @bonitahaura9131
    @bonitahaura9131 3 года назад +4

    This is alredy giving vibes

  • @teamria
    @teamria 3 года назад +1

    The smiles popping

  • @amahdesmond253
    @amahdesmond253 3 года назад +1

    Its just like you people were in my body nd soul. All you said were all my expectations bfor marriage. And now nne it is a diff ball game. Sometimes I don't even want to see him around me talk more of him touching me. But i love him o,but love is not all.

  • @obiomachidozie2496
    @obiomachidozie2496 3 года назад

    Well-done ladies, the most important point here is to be able to know the Right time to communicate with him or else it will be a waste of time

  • @ejohhenrientta6976
    @ejohhenrientta6976 3 года назад +1

    About sleeping and waking up in the arms of my husband for like our first 4yrs together we to sleep and wakeup so sweetly oh my God but now eh we sleep together and wakeup separately and we blame each other for it bcus I use to love it oh

  • @johnettekanu1044
    @johnettekanu1044 3 года назад +3

    You ladies are very funny it was so interesting . Its true don't try to change your partner let him or her be.

  • @_SarahEzekiel
    @_SarahEzekiel 3 года назад +1

    This was soo fun to watch and I relate to most of what you discussed ❤️❤️❤️

  • @njimbuacolette2896
    @njimbuacolette2896 3 года назад +6

    🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
    You ladies are very interesting, I have enjoyed the discussion and it helps bring certain feelings to realities. Thanks

  • @davidandchy
    @davidandchy 3 года назад +2

    My people! Love u guys!🥰😍