Joshua R ..this does not come down to preferences and u know it. This thing of us hating each other is systematic...cultural at this point. It's what is passed down thru the generations. So get the Fuck out of here talking about everybody has preferences.
what a stupid argument. Computer programmers don't have a look, its just a profession. I hate this stupid argument and I bet you were a tomy sotom. groupie because they ALL use that tired argument of black women not being open to other men. Anyone with a brain knows that is false.
Why should he have to just to keep stuck up black women happy? If the hot black women don't like computer nerds fine. Plenty of hot white, Asian etc. do.
Findoutaboutme I feel like an outsider in this conversation because my father was the head of our household growing up and my husband is the head of my house now. And yes I'm a black woman. I don't get why you think black men cant be the head of the household?
Findoutaboutme Black women don't want to lead. It's much easier to sit back and let the man lead. The problem is most black men don't know how to lead because they never had a decent father in their lives to show them how to be a real man. Those women probably feel like they have to lead because they are with men who are dependent on women. That sucks.
Jayo Patt Trust and believe...I am an instructor. It is a breeding ground for bacteria and fungi. Natural Hair all the way long or short,,,most women don't know how most men do not like weaves.
I'm retired from a county government job. While in that job, I was always approached by women black and otherwise. Then once I retired, and became a security guard for extra income black women assumed I was broke, and had no money. Where as other women Asian and Hispanic women still gave me action. So guess what I'm with the women who gave me attention, and it was not my black sisters.
I'm a white male who is married to a South Korean female. I didn't marry my wife because I do not like my own race or any other race, I married my wife because I met her, she is a woman - a very smart, beautiful and amazing women who I fell in love with. That being said, my feelings about our amazing black women go like this. I have known and loved black women my entire life- 56 years. I was raised in a predominately black neighborhood. I joined the Army at age 17 and was assigned to S. Korea- where I met the woman I would be with for the rest of my life. The black women I am acquainted with and work with each and every day are quite educated, clever, down to earth, beautiful, magical and have so much to offer. God bless our black women!
+Rick H Yes sir, the magical word "I'm white". You not have this same perception if you were black my man...because you would get the same respect you are getting...walk in my skin then avert this issue that I have.
You are correct- I'm not black nor can I ever be black or feel black, however, at least I can form a complete sentence- " you not have this same perception ?". Forming an intelligent sentence using the English language has nothing to do with being black or not; its about education my friend!
thanks for proving to us that whites are trolling these videos. Why are you concerned about black issues, issues you ancestors created in the first place?
I haven't dated a black woman in almost a decade. And I'll tell you my brothers, my life is much better for it. I work around sisters, I know a lot of them from childhood. But I just don't date them. It's refreshing not having to hear the rhetoric, and experience the behavior.
Very hard for me not to give up on my sisters when my own mother was unable to show love or respect to her children. Then, when I started dating them, they were disrespectful and condescending (as my mother was toward me), eye rolling, yelling, hate to listen to sound advice, aggressive, haughty, dismissive, etc. So, I wound up having my daughter (very young) with a Latina woman who treated me like I’ve never been treated before by any sister!! Came back home and married a sister-divorced in 5 years! Have been single for many years now and I’m complemented and engage with other women much easier than my own sisters. I’m trying not to give up on them, but it’s hard when most sisters I meet are just like my mother!
Its interesting that you say that and only shows that your opinion is based on hatred for your own kind and its blinded you from seeing that the majority of the women in the room were wearing their natural hair and they few non black people that were in there were wearing extensions. The lips, butt, hair, tan..non blacks pay to have but your hatred is as thick as the wool over your eyes to notice it. Smh wake up brother.
BIONIK DIKK They go broke to look Not "Black" and then say other women when there is a problem. Then keep using brother when you try to distance your looks form the "Brothers"
Benjamin X Yes Benji I had to, these sistas think they're men, so you have to punch them like men, they don't realize we stand when we piss, they squat.
BIONIK DIKK dammit man!!....but Overall the discussion was alright BUT it did seem like some of our brothas in the video were scared to speak out and if they did, it wasn't eloquently enough -_-
Black male here: For all of those people who feel personally insulted by the generalizations made on these type of videos, I'd like to share the greatest piece of advice I ever received courtesy of my late grandmother: "If you care about what someone else says about you, you make them your master." Throughout your life you will be slandered based on your gender, race, sexual orientation, interests, political positions, (put your favorite here). By giving any credence to what any person of any ethnicity says to you, you forgot that only your opinion of yourself is what matters the most. By caring about what 'some (race here)males on youtube' or 'some (gender here) idiots you meet in life' are saying is literally like saying "God, or master said this ... I am giving it credibility. It's of the utmost importance to me. Their silly ass opinions matter." I say fuck em. The mind thinks by association. I'm not even going to respond to someone who has prejudices about me based on their experiences with another black male they've met. I don't need them to love me. I love myself. You are going to find someone that loves every part of you as long as you love yourself and live to your fullest potential. You won't even need them then. It will be like an accessory to the full, loving self image that you have already created for yourSELF. Hurt people HURT people.
@@filmtressmu8552 no he is wise Damn can't give him his props because he is a blk man part of the problem don't u think he said some wise words n u just couldn't leave that alone smh
+Terry Wilson you sound pitiful I truly feel sorry for you there's no real words to describe how pathetic you sound it just confirms your character..grow up!!
I'm the black woman's biggest supporter; but it's kinda hard to root for them, when they diss me every chance they get. They say they're strong all the time. News flash: A man doesn't want a woman who's always combative and declaring her strength. We want a woman who is feminine and non-conflictive. It would also help if they didn't wear horse hair in their heads, and had bad attitudes. I am 30 plus years old, and I've been trying to stick with black women all my life. Looks like i'm gonna have to go outside my race or outside of African American in general to find peace when it comes to women.
Brother, get a passport and travel. Women in other countries aren't the same as black women in the U.S. (at least not most of them). If you're not into black women, hit up South America and Africa.
damndisplace07 Bro you are wasting your time and living a pipe dream if your waiting for a good American Black women.You got a better chance of wining the lottery 3 times in one week.They dont respect nice good men.Call the same women you where chasing bitches and hoes and they will love you.Move on to another race bro if you know whats good for you
damndisplace07 That seems like you are around the wrong black women; it doesn't represent black women as a whole. Now, I love my weave, and I will wear it as much as I like; but that doesn't define who I am. I don't think the issue is that there aren't good black women, it's that even good black men aren't checking for good black women. I know plenty of good black woman who can't get a good black man either.
A man shouldn't compare himself to woman. Why should a woman's strength take away from a man's strength...if anything a strong man, should want someone that enhances his strength, supports him and even carry him if he needs it. This is not a stand off. Let women (all women) be who they are. Sista love yourselves and never feel bad about being strong. Strength is attractive.
Ladies do u want a man. Listen carefully. C a guy u like ask him do he no any one who can fix xyz or put n a abc. Once he volunteers when he comes by. Make sure u cooked . no sex or flirting. Just make sure the house smells like big momnas house on Sunday. Do this 3 times u will have a good man. no sex ladies no going out. Just cook cook cook. Then u have him. In two wks take him to c ur family. Make sure ur best uncle or aunt is there. Also plenty of food. Feed him first sex will come later. Let him no u r a good woman n u want a strong man. Ladies to get a good man is gonna require u to stay off ur phone when he is with u for about 3wks. A good man would rather have a good home cooked meal than a nut. Trust me.
When i was younger, i thought about not dating black females. Here's the thing, they reject good men for bad men. Every time i see a black female she's with some bad boy, then comes back to a good guy crying on him saying i'm sorry will you take me in after she been used up and had kids with the bad guy. While this is true, i did some thinking and i asked a lot of question to my mom and female friends. Females are unstable, their emotions, hair and periods are messing them up. A lot of black females aren't being raise up right. Luckily me i found myself a gf, a fine black young lady. I convince her to stop wearing weaves and all that makeup. She has natural beauty and her hair is perfect. I understand about weaves, my mom cut her dreads and use weaves, and wigs until her hair grew back. Also us guys needs to stop trying to make ourselves seem perfect. Now us guys wants a big booty woman with big breast and a good attitude. Sometimes it's not like that, you have to stop and think about who would make a great wife. Most black females don't have big booty and big breast, some just have a big booty or big breast. We have to stop being immature and picking on these females about their hair. We're not perfect, so that gives us no right to judge females. I understand that SOME black females are bad, but that doesn't mean we have to go picking at them. Trust me if you seen those videos about men gluing hair onto their head, you wouldn't be saying anything. With me i am half Mexican and half black so when i wake up, i really do nothing to my hair because it's curly. Anyway I've seen so many black females reject good men until they realize, good men are rare and sometimes black females will realize they rejected a good guy by getting use up for sex,money or worst by the bad guy. So men stop trying to act perfect cause we're not, and female get it together.
same shit in the gay world they date all the bad boy lesbians and wantto find a good one when the single ones dont want them. Rgardless of gender some african american black women are fucked up
"Room full of weaves, not of their texture, and the spoken word girl says "They pay to look like me"! I'm surely in the Twilight Zone SMH." BIONIK DIKK dude i had to quote you.
@10:30 ... soo... you're saying that I hate myself because I don't like a woman that happens to match my skin color? I hate myself because I don't date ghetto females, which in my personal experience is the majority of the black women I've met or run into? So what you're saying is that I hate myself because I don't want you. You (as a black woman or man) do not define me. NO black woman defines me, so therefore I do not hate myself even if I went so far as to hate YOU. I love other women that aren't YOU. That doesn't mean that some magical arrow is pointing back to me and that means that I hate myself. I don't owe black women ANYTHING. I don't owe you as in NEEDING to get with black women, I don't owe you as only marrying a black woman, and I don't owe you as in standing up for you when you are wrong.
Why would you ever want to date a man who at one point said "I don't date Black Women"? find a man(of whatever colour) who would never say such a stupid thing.
Hello everyone, I love black women. My problem is the majority of black women I meet are interested on if I have a car, my financial assets, have an attitude, concern with private size, can't even except a guy walking by & saying hello. They'll keep walking by without a word. Majority will prefer a rough neck/thug or someone I guess they feel who can manipulate them, & most have kids. I'm a truck driver, Navy vet, raised by both of my parents, no kids & what I get all the time it that I'm handsome , why are you alone. I'll like to know is the generations now, the one before & after losing our self control, spirituality, the ability to to hold on worth keeping. I'm at the point where I watch videos such as this one & get emotional because it's sad. I'm from Brooklyn NY, for those who know about NYC know it's crowded & no room for us to grow mentally among others. I won't give up but I'm 40, I'm really tired. When I was in the service my brother & who I thought was my lady had a sexual relationship. I have stories. I won't give up because I think sisters are beautiful in every sense of the word. Check me at deja by open mic experience. Tell me what's wrong with me
Dennis Watson, There's nothing wrong with you, instead of focusing on what's wrong with you, focus on what's right. From what I read, you have it going on. I'm sorry that incident happened to you, you are now free to enjoy life and be with some one who is going to Love, cherish and respect you. Get busy living or get busy dieing.
Sonya P. White hello, how do you focus on what's right when all so long things have been wrong. I do appreciate how my life is now, thank the lord almighty.
The reason why didn't date black women because the majority of the one I talk to was into thugs! I was even told I was lame because I work, pay my bills, don't hangout in the streets. They said I was white washed! So I was turnt off of black women based on this! They either call me broke because I didn't wear chains and so forth! I had my own place payed my own bill, nice car, no legal records, no kids. I have been at my job for 17 yrs this coming January. I make decent money! But they black women wanted that thug guy. These was the women I was around and ran into! I was even told that I was to nice of a guy! She can't date me and she'll do nothing but use me! Then a this other black guy was like dam bitch you got a fat ass! Whats your name! She smile walk over to him and introduce herself! That made start dating white women! Because talk to her politely!
As a Blackman , what I hear is more black woman issues. It's definitely too late for me. I WONT EVERE DATE BLACK WOMAN AGAIN. I'm very happy with that decision. GOOD LUCK BLACK WOMAN, OTHER WOMAN ARE TAKING CARE OF YOUR MAN. As a result, a lot of us are okay with that.
Just one of my thoughts most black women pay top dollar to look European they buy European hair they dye their hair blonde they change their eye color and wonder why men go after European women. only if black women new and understood how beautiful, and how much we need, want, love and appreciate them if they could see the power and beauty that they possess, so much more....
I gave up on our race of men a long time ago. I strictly only date outside of my race. Black women were weaves seem to be their only excuse. In the end weaves aren't permanent but surgeries are.
Did you see what you were replied to, " least desired women" We all get the name calling directed to us. I guess, we have nothing to bare but all these names we get. 😕😕.
Mary they are non black men as a whole got Black women the last on the dating list as whole keyword black women are seen as masculine and Asian men as feminine
LaQuinna T that’s unfortunate that you feel that way. You obviously have had previous experience that were negative but at the end of the day the enemy is happy that you have written off your own
Any man who would say this is not a real man. And, factually, the percentage of black men who date outside their race is estimated to be less than 20%. So we are talking about a very small demographic of black men who embrace self-hatred. This type of story is very counter-productive and embraces conflict rather than dispelling destructive media memes being employed by the dominant society to divide us.
So, black women who date outside their race also suffer from self hate? The white man who dates a black woman also hates himself? Does self hate apply to anyone who has a partner who doesn’t look like them?
Another Black Male here: First of all we act like we love through instinct like a mating dog, because a dog will mate with any other dog simply because that natural internal mechanism kicks in that says mate. We are humans, God gave us the will to make free choice to chose who we love. We may not chose who we meet and come in contact with socially, but once we meet all of the choices come into play and dictate every move from that point. So I’m sick of these black guys saying they can’t help who they fall in love with, when you most certainly make every choice after an initial meeting which may be by mere chance, all the way down the aisle. Just man up and say you want a white woman and don’t want to be with a black one. That’s permitted, but don’t lie and demean the black woman make her feel a certain way because she is who she is, and has had to evolve into because you weren’t there. You shouldn’t be comparing a black and white woman anyway that is juvenile. The black womans plight in life and her struggle is uniquely different and was supposed to be dealt with by the only real man capable of dealing with her needs like a black man can, and vice verse, we were made to be with each other, cut from the very same cloth so to speak. Yes most black women are strong and some even angry, but its because there is the lack of the black man really being a man in his household, being the priest or lord in his house, making her want to submit. She don’t want to submit to someone who is not treating her right and she shouldn’t have to. Going over making babies with other women who are not of Royal black Lineage and becoming the model father figure, making every soccer game, and at every parent-teacher conference, and smoking dope and chillin wit da fellaz and leaving the black woman at home manning the house and figuring it all out, and now she has figured it out by herself without your help and you mad because she ain’t taking no crap from you, now you say she is angry, and she has every right to be because the black boy with a penis has proven himself to be less than a man, he is just a baby maker. Of course The Black Queens are different, from white women. We are Royalty. The sad part of it is that those black guys forfeit their position. So who’s not different? We all are different. I don’t know any other species on this planet or in the universe like white women, very strange creatures. We just have to be strong enough to stand and out man the black woman, not by beating her or misusing her. But be a man, a leader, a confidante, the back bone of the family is all she wants. At the end of the day she is strong, but she is a woman, the bible calls her the weaker vessel. She shouldn’t have to do it all by herself. Be a real leader and she will follow, even the most independent ones will. Black women love being women and letting their men lead, we just have to do so. Just like the white girl and white woman will let you mack, the black woman will too if they are treated with the same respect. They know their worth, black men just don’t know who they are many times.
Listen I once too at one point in my life gave up on black women. I felt like they were very loud and materialistic and looking for the guy with the fast money. So I changed what I liked and started dating others. Yeah I was treated well but it was still something missing my heart wasn’t full. True story I was on my way to work and I seen this black woman man I thought she was really beautiful and sophisticated out of my league I thought to myself but I remembered what my dad told me.(what’s the worse could happen she say no) long story short we’ve been married for 22yrs. Brothers don’t give up on black women please there are plenty of great ones out there looking for you.
the natural hair comment killed me bc I have seen so many black men be against natural hair....and she was right when she said they go for the fake stuff.....which I'm not opposed to bc what our black fails to realize is that a lot of Blk women's hair is not considered professional and I feel that maybe why a lot of Blk women wear fake hair as well and its can be convenient....
We're still having these same discussions in 2017..... Smh. And every time we have these discussions the elephant in the room is NEVER addressed and that is the fact that A LOT of black women REJECT good decent black men for shallow/superficial/materialistic reasons..... Not enough money, not enough swag, an old car, not tall enough, not enough muscles, to big, to skinny, to dark skinned, to light skinned, etc. Now there are other factors that go into black men not wanting to date black women but I just laid out the main reason here in this comment. Black women REFUSE to address this whenever this same tired lame discussion is brought up and it's getting old. I feel like black people should just date and be with whoever they want IF they can't find a suitable black mate to be with?
There are SO many issues facing the Black community, I cannot believe this conversation about not stereotyping ppl is STILL being had. These are lesson we learn as children. if a grown person watches a reality show and can not recognize the difference between his real life and entertainment, it's very disturbing and sad that we are STILL talking about this very elementary topic. It's embarrassing.
Where were you beautiful ,perfect ,loving, understanding and supportive black Women in the 35 years of my life of dating you all. I'm 49 and I'm finally happy with my Asian Queen. I love her and found all of the things I wanted in a woman.
A lot black women do too much but there are some good black women out here also. I am marrying a black man myself so don't give up on black women. Be strong and realize that there are good women out here. You choosing wrong women is your fault. Work on yourself and that women will come.
It's weird all of those beautiful "intelligent" sisters in the room, trowing innuendos from left to right, not one has pulled out or mentioned a study that supports the subject matter. who told these women, black men don't date black women. Most black men i see are with black women.
Black women do not care if you do give up..Black women think they are better off with out Black men since so many are educated..and see Black men as being nothing but Drama...Black women is the strongest women..so they dont care if you stay away.... according to stats Blackmen do not make good mates to any race of women..
Let the black man go. He's not worth fighting for. The black man does not want the black woman, so let them go....don't sweat it. Good you don't date black women. The black man is perfect girls...stop fighting and accept that fact that he feels superior to you...let him go. Bye Bye. Please stop caring and save yourself time, money and undue stress. Bye bye birdie. Here's your mantra..I don't care...go..go..go!
+jbiz979 The same woman that raised me and I grew up alongside is NOT the same woman that roams these streets today, so when people like you claim that if I don't like the attitude of black women today that I don't like my own mother or sister,... etc (or making comparisons to our black mothers and family based off black women as a whole as you just did by)... it really cringes my stomach. Those women are NOT a representation of my family, and never will be! Ignorance will never represent me, and my family was called "not black" for not behaving ghetto all over America, by BLACK PEOPLE no less! So no... I don't feel that just because I won't support a ghetto mentality that I'm dissing my own family. I don't lump people together as a whole. If you act decent, I'll have words with you. If you don't, I'll probably avoid you.
+jbiz979 It would appear I misunderstood your comment? Were you not asserting that black men (in general) love black women, and that those (in general) women ARE our mothers, sisters, grandmothers (therefore a representation of black mothers, sisters,etc)? If you were not asserting that any old black person could represent a whole, then I've misunderstood your comment and I apologize. My point was to make a clear distinction in the fact that JUST because I don't like nor support the actions of all black women and that to act black is not synonymous with acting ghetto. I assumed that you were saying that we (as black men) would support a black woman and her actions regardless of what those actions were simply because we also have black relatives. I was going to soundly disagree with you. My apologies :)
I tend to feel when black women get bashed that it's like being young children again...like when we get our hair pulled or something thrown at us...but deep down, the boys like us and can't express themselves properly...that's how I feel now...u say 'not all' but start off saying 'black women...' and never say anything nice...I want to say much more...even wanted to do videos but when I think about it...it hurts so much all these videos I feel it's a waste of my time...I love black men to the core and I'm just going to remain hopeful...best I can do...ladies u need to NOT bash back and be patient too
42:35 "we have not made it as a race" I am a BM but! Consider this. If you have 4 islands (a) with 100 White women (b) 100 Chinese women (c) 100 Indian women (d) 100 black women, on each island put 100 black men, isolate for 100 years then go back to each island. Island (a, WW will be modern) (b, CW super advanced) (c, IW hard working) (d, BW ghetto). The biggest contributory factor that makes them all different is the way women select partners & treat their men. (Female Seletion) that cultivates BM over generation is one of Natures Laws that BW chose to ignore or don't understand & WW are not going to help BW to understand. Good or bad Wright or wrong I can't judge but, it would be good if I am proven wrong. If Men are responsible for quantity then BW are responsible for the quality of BM in their culture. Have BW dropped the ball? I can only say men push & women steer. BW have got exactly what they have ordered, if BW want to change then BM will have to change & want to date BW.
+Eric S. thanks brother, i can just hear the BW on island (d, ghetto) saying that the women on the other islands (a b & c) stole all the best BM. i think every race of women have different ideas of what an alpha male needs to be to protect & provide for her & their children. so sad but, if i needed a glass of water i would first ask a BM a WW then a WM before a BW, yes! some would give me & many would refuse to give me but, only a BW would look at me as if i just killed her mother. we don't like it but we all have to live with it.
I see that one of reoccurring sub topics in this conversation is representation & the stereotypes created by the lack of positive representation of black women. I feel that this an multifaceted issue caused by several things including what I mentioned above. If I had time I'd chime in my two cents but conversations like this should continue, great work!
I think this title and subject matter is very misleading, the Vast majority of Black men date Black women and we all know and see this everyday, now their maybe a few men that have a racial preference for whatever reason and that's ok, now the true questions is why don't black folks get married any more? Why are we ok with being baby mamas and daddies and that for the most part comes down to our change in priorities and morality. As far as the few Black men who don't date Black women because they have had experiences with Ratchet ones well that's your fault, if you want intelligent educated, healthy Black women then go to College involve your selfish in fitness and you'll meet well educated fit sisters all day.
Why are Black men the only race of men to produce such "masculine" daughters? Perhaps weeding your sperm out of the gene pool might be the best thing for BW after all. 🤷♀
Firstly we discuss things in generalities and patterns. This is how we process information. Ofcourse there are exceptions. Im sorry but when 70% of black women are not married its time for them to do an introspection. Stop deflecting and ignoring the elphant in the room. Behaviour! Black women have no clue what men want. Men want a feminine, kind, & submissive woman and most black women are not. Majority have comabive masculine attitudes, they have musltiple baby daddies. No amout of talking will make black men find this desirable.
Kanye Shakur. im trying to figure out when have u met. Majority of blk women? Have u ever had a real conversation with a real blk woman ? No matter what goes in our community , I would never get on the internet and disrespect my Black Men, why would u do it to us? As the king you are supposed to lead by example. Is this your example?
BLACK WOMEN HAVE BEEN ATTACKED FROM EVERYONE BUT BLACK WOMEN GOD IS COMING TO RIGHT THE WRONGS THAT HAVE BEEN DONE TO US. WORLD BEHOLD THE POWER OF GODS GRACE.
Have to agree with Why Knot Now on this one... the opening poem is very desperate and insecure. Why are all these lovely and desirable Black females running blindly in behind Black males??? Let it go sista soliders...stop solidering for Black men. Get a life of your own (a professional career, financial autonomy, feminine wardrobe, make-up and hair, a social life that includes diverse outings, hobbies)...and the right men of any shade will be knocking the door down. Unbelievable how the Black community has indoctrinated its females!
You are on target when you say these Black Women are lovely and desirable. Yet an astonishing amount of these lovely and SO-CALLED DESIRABLE Black Women are single. The reason: Black Women's REFUSAL to HEAR and EXCEPT that she has SERIOUS flaws in her character!!! You are asking Black Women to date, hook up with, marry her career, financial autonomy, wardrobe, make-up, etc and this is unexceptable and silly. Most Black Women want to pair up with a Black Man but she must address HER problems first.
Nathaniel Snipe What i am advocating is that Black women--those who are not closed minded to do so--stop allowing advice like yours to keep them from living the best life they can. And, to stop begging these Black males to "come home" who are exercising their god-given right--choice. Men of ALL shades are attracted to quality Black women which entails her having a life and passions of her own. Anybody readily denying this does NOT care a thing about the well-being of Black women.
kyla berry :p That’s right Klya. Black Women have the right to “want” whomever they choose and generation should have nothing to do it. The hit TV show “ Scandal” is living proof of this. Years ago, it was the TV series “Dallas” followed by “Dynasty.” I feel that Black Women, like all Women, crave Men with money and power. There is another twist with Black Women. Some of you seek to produce offspring with refined hair, lighter skin, and anglo saxton facial features (which may be the dominant reason the TV show “Scandal” is loved by Black Women). Black Men and White Women have, nor had, any problems with any of the TV series I just mentioned. Question Klya: Why did Black Women and White Men go absolutely bananas over a 32 second TV commercial featuring a Black Man and a White Women who produced a beautiful mixed girl??? The commercial in question was sponsored by Cheerios a few months ago. Can you answer this for me Klya???
kyla berry :p I did not say anything about you being mad nor did I resort to profanity. I could care less about who you copulate with. I, as an older Man, am not restricted to any particular race. I feel that you should care less.
I am so disappointed with the discussions in this video. Everything they are saying is so superficial. They are not addressing real issues and the root causes of why so many black men say the things they say about black women here in America. I feel that the real problem in this video are the men in this video. They are not saying the same things that hardcore black men say in videos on RUclips; therefore, it is a boring, lame-duct conversation. I think the men in this video see these beautiful black women face-to-face and are afraid to say the things that they should say. They are afraid of offending these black women in the video for fear of also offending the men in this video who may be their husbands, boyfriends, or friends, etc. It's either that or the men in this video simply do not the real root causes of why black men say the things that they say about black women here in America.
Well, please school us black women - you seem to have lots to say in the area of why black men say the things they say about black women in America. I would really like to hear you honest opinion on the subject.
It's interesting that you say that as your entire post did not say what you say those men needed to say. Black men need to remember this anger we have is often based on the fact that we didn't grow up with fathers. So the mess y'all created has come back full circle. Let's start a conversation on how messed up Black men are lets see how that works. I think black men are some of the most disappointing humans on this planet. Remember when you open your mouth you are speaking of your mother and women in your family. Fix yourselves be men then women will follow. You guys want women to be your slaves and to worship you when you don't deserve to inhabit the same space as us. When you all understand your role then life will change for us as a race. Simple minded idiot get some self respect disrespecting your own where is your loyalty. White women were always higher than us in this society which is part of the problem. Sad smdh
Sounds racist. I don't like this type of talk from any race. I don't reject black women. I accept all women. That means I will date any woman who I feel is best qualified to be with me based on my personal prejudice and discrimination based on what I look for in a woman that I feel would best suit my needs as a man in this world. When I accept all races of women I am not rejecting black women. That is a stupid notion.
I honestly fear the modern black women will most likely never understand that beauty will never be found in their hair, clothes, social or financial status, but by possessing genuine grace mixed with submission; Attributes that can't be aquired with money, but only through a strong and genuine relationship with the Lord....
+nalo 101 No hype it's all you black women. You did this on all of your shows, in public, through the court system and to the seed of the man (yo daddy ain't shi@ and you ain't going to be sh@$). You brought the hate on yourselves by trying to be what the white man wanted instead of wanting a black man with leadership qualities to raise children with. Most black women have been stretched by multiple thugs by 22 and with multiple children by those thugs by 25 but then you want a good man in your late 30s and 40s and you still don't want him to be the head of your home. You just want his finances.
nalo 101 That's my point in what I wrote. My own black mother told me that she hated me. You black women have been telling black men not only that our shi@ stank but that we were the very shi@. I do judge because the almighty told us to do so but if you really read the scriptures you would understand that. This is how I know you're full of bull. At no time did I write that black men were perfect: I'm basically telling you that you as a black woman have attempted to destroy us to be at the table of the white man. It's why black women wear white women's hair over their own.
Kib Kilo im not talkin to anybody with mommy issues, talk to a therapist for that. Alot of you men up here have serious mental issues. Stop dealing with them in the comment section.
stand with black men and protest the child support system!! let's demand the courts to restructure it's policies to incentivize family Unity..until then we headed separate ways
Think that was the most profound thing I heard in this video, coming from a fatherless home myself and my mother having to be both father and mother created a dynamic that is unnatural and is carried on in daughters today.
Just before I discontinue watching this Painful Display of #SelfHate and particularly in front of #whiteFolks....I in no way can take ANY of the presenters / speakers, SERIOUSLY! You would NEVER find an OPEN Discussion about a Racial nor Cultural topic that is posing such a devastating impact on a Group ....#InPublic for the WORLD to See & Hear! #CloseThatBathroomDoor!
I only date black women but it is so challenging. The attitudes and being combative is a recurring theme and who has time for this. The only man in my relationships should be me. I'm more attracted to BW but now thinking about what its like to date other ethnicities of women. I may be forced to date outside of my race.
Throughout my tenure in my college, I recalled playing a game with my friends called "who can count the most weave on the campus," and black women will always win on that department, they even dominated in the fake eyelash department as well.
Take a look at the when they're acting like they're normal. Look at the clothes the hair, the smiles, the kind words, and the well thought out lines of verbalisation. Look real hard....Now flip the record over. That's what you really get. Everyone of em acts like they care and concerned but let a couple months slip by after the claws are in place and you'll get the real woman. A self centered domineering woman who can't shut up, who'll get you locked up and blame you for every bad thing that ever happened to her. Their not to be believed when their at their best. They are oscar winning actress's with narrow minds.
Interesting talk. I don't feel like I heard enough from the men. There are probably plenty of reasons why Black Men don't date Black Women, but those reasons were not well represented here. I don't blame anyone but the men there for not speaking up much more. However, as usual, women love to talk instead of listen. I couldn't think of a better time for the women in the room to yield more time to listen to what the men have to say. The women were mostly defensive, trying to legitimize dating Black Women while quickly dismissing any negative comments about Black Women. Also, I'm surprised how much time was spent talking about hair. I'm not sure what to make of that... Generally, all I would add is that "I don't date Black Women" is not a problem that Black Men have to fix. I heard these Black Women say many times "Black Men need to do X, Y, and Z." No we don't. We don't have to do shit, actually. It's simply not a problem we are required to solve. Ultimately, Black Men have the freedom to choose, and if Black Women are not the most desirable potential mate on the market, guess what... they're going to be skipped over for someone else, and in today's market, Black Men are not limited to dating within their race. And with the power of the Internet and air travel, Black Men are not geographically limited either. Let me put it this way, the first time I was called a Black Prince was from a white woman, and I'm no stranger to Black Women (up until recently, perhaps).
People saying black men that complain about weaves are childish are missing the point. The issue isn't "the weave." The weave can be a reflection of who that woman is. The sister that feels she NEEDS her weave is the same sister that feels she NEEDS her makeup. She's the same sister that feels she NEEDS a certain car or man that drives that car. She's the sister that NEEDS a certain type of house. She NEEDS a man to be a certain height or physique. In other words she's probably materialistic and driven by superficial WANTS that she feels are NEEDS.
Mr Solo Dolo Weave and a lot of makeup is an issue with me but don't complain about it. Too high maintenance and fake for me and just stay from them which is simple to do because I avoid single mothers. And the list goes on from there.
Women have altered their hair and appearance for millions of years, period. Those with straight hair want curly hair and vice versa. Judging women by their choice of adornment is very suspect. There are many fine black women in the world just as there are fine women of all types. Like attracts like. Blaming one's dating problem on a whole group of people is absurd. You enemies have taught you well.
I really feel that you can't help whom you fall in love with. I've seen beautiful black women with some beautiful black men. it depends on the situation it's not base on color,your race or ethnicity. how you compromised on each other. 50/50 relationship
You don't change a persons mind you start by changing there heart, and with the BW stereotype there a DIFFINETY cons and pros STOP ALWAYS TRYNA Be like the next person or race🤦🏽♀, I believe there is a time and place for everything and people shouldn't just be 1 particular way you should definitely be VERSATILE, learn to love yourself and in return you will love your people more than ever❤ #MuchLove
40:23 This is the best part of the whole discussion. She spoke the actual truth and pointed out only a few of the issues that are the problem to why black men are walking away. Need to listen and change.
Linda Moore, when I read the introduction, it moved me. The core of the video is to find solutions to a serious CRISIS. Be a part of the solution and not the problem. Even with my interracial spiritual relationship, I'm still a part of the solution. Jana's know everything and I tell her about my disagreement and plight with "black" females. I am open to dialogue with anyone on this issue. My love for Jana's is divine and we are spiritually comparable. Love and let's love be LOVE.
You don't date black women? So!! I don't like Frosted flakes, I don't like stupid people, I won't date asians (ever again). I don't like white men (I don't see the big deal.. I dated them, they not all that..) I like nerds! This is just my preference! Everyone has a preference!!! Oh well!!
This is old. Black women don't care. Sister-women don't want men who have been with Caucasian and other types of women. If I was infatuated with a Brother who dated Caucasian women, I wouldn't want him. Sorry, not sorry.
I love this dialogue it is what's really needed in the black community when it talks about black men and black women this is positive communication thank you
lol you are so stupid!! Everyone thinks mixed or light skin girls are more good looking in real life. Just go around ask guys what they think. there is a reason why black men are getting after light skin girls.but black girls dont get light skin guys coz the light skin guys dont want them.men are visual so want good looking women (light skin), women are emotional they want guys that make them laugh and who can protect them, hence light skin girls dont mind dating black guys even if the black guys are ugly.common sense. end of story.
All i know is all my friends ( different races) dont find black women attractive.Seriously! The dark skinned "attractive" women you mentioned are the only ones who people may think are attractive. I am talking about majority. Dont single out a few good looking dark skin bitches and say dark skin is as attractive as light skin. You live in a different planet. Do you wonder why you single or only dated a few men in your life or a virgin? Most black women these days are
***** I know skin color doesnt make a woman attractive or unattractive. But a dark skin girl looks better red. Dark skin girls happen to be uglier than light skin.You would look better if you were light skin. Just saying. You should know this. Just accept the truth and be proud. Don't lie to yourself to make yourself feel better.
Black man I love you just the way you are, it is most important to me that you are very happy with who you are and happy with what you do. I AM.........
Leave the Black male alone. Stop worrying about who they date. Let them go.
Can't do that when they know black men are their meal ticket.
West Adams do you hate black women!
Dana Antoinette Kelly they mad the rappers n ball players don't want them. Sorry get you a rich white man like Janet or Eve
Joshua R ..this does not come down to preferences and u know it. This thing of us hating each other is systematic...cultural at this point. It's what is passed down thru the generations. So get the Fuck out of here talking about everybody has preferences.
Dana Antoinette Kelly the black women left the black man hundreds of years ago,
I HAVE SOME ADVICE FOR THESE LADIES....being desperate is unattractive....very unattractive
+MrYouKnowWhoItIz AT LEAST THEY DO NOT CHASE PALE FLESH... NOW THAT WOULD BE DESPERATE,YUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
+MrYouKnowWhoItIz Peeps who breed lice,,,ewww!
WOW lol
+MrYouKnowWhoItIz that is true
Thirsty black women are a norm....but most men don't care about them....I certainly don't.
Well, if more BW didn't consider BM computer programmers unattractive, maybe things would be different. We're not all rappers, and ballers you know.
what a stupid argument. Computer programmers don't have a look, its just a profession. I hate this stupid argument and I bet you were a tomy sotom. groupie because they ALL use that tired argument of black women not being open to other men. Anyone with a brain knows that is false.
And yet these BM that got all their money taken from them by the women they divorced have been non BW umm okay
but they are unattractive.
if black computer guys would hit the gym and get in shape, them maybe black females might find them attractive.
Why should he have to just to keep stuck up black women happy? If the hot black women don't like computer nerds fine. Plenty of hot white, Asian etc. do.
Black women want to be in control but the man is the head of the household.
Exactly! Matriarchy does not work in our community.
Findoutaboutme I feel like an outsider in this conversation because my father was the head of our household growing up and my husband is the head of my house now. And yes I'm a black woman. I don't get why you think black men cant be the head of the household?
Findoutaboutme Black women don't want to lead. It's much easier to sit back and let the man lead. The problem is most black men don't know how to lead because they never had a decent father in their lives to show them how to be a real man. Those women probably feel like they have to lead because they are with men who are dependent on women. That sucks.
Yea because most of time they are head of household because the let of black father in household.
@vivian wade I didn't no welfare gives black women money , when this started happening ?
putting someones else's hair in your head is self hate..period
It's not. I love my natural hair. Wearing weave is a protective style to keep my hair retaining length underneath.
Jayo Patt Trust and believe...I am an instructor. It is a breeding ground for bacteria and fungi. Natural Hair all the way long or short,,,most women don't know how most men do not like weaves.
I agree .want to look different to how god made them
not really more like we want to protect our sensitive kinky hair
Excuse me are you serious white women wear extensions as well, it's about style so please stay in your lane. That's such a low blow.
I'm retired from a county government job. While in that job, I was always approached by women black and otherwise. Then once I retired, and became a security guard for extra income black women assumed I was broke, and had no money. Where as other women Asian and Hispanic women still gave me action. So guess what I'm with the women who gave me attention, and it was not my black sisters.
Good luck to you brother.
I married a black women once.Never again,with one life Iam doing what I want to do date who I want to date period.
I'm a white male who is married to a South Korean female. I didn't marry my wife because I do not like my own race or any other race, I married my wife because I met her, she is a woman - a very smart, beautiful and amazing women who I fell in love with. That being said, my feelings about our amazing black women go like this. I have known and loved black women my entire life- 56 years. I was raised in a predominately black neighborhood. I joined the Army at age 17 and was assigned to S. Korea- where I met the woman I would be with for the rest of my life. The black women I am acquainted with and work with each and every day are quite educated, clever, down to earth, beautiful, magical and have so much to offer. God bless our black women!
+Rick H
Yes sir, the magical word "I'm white". You not have this same perception if you were black my man...because you would get the same respect you are getting...walk in my skin then avert this issue that I have.
You are correct- I'm not black nor can I ever be black or feel black, however, at least I can form a complete sentence- " you not have this same perception ?". Forming an intelligent sentence using the English language has nothing to do with being black or not; its about education my friend!
Roger that my brother...
Rick H if u know any nice bw let me know im a bm
Rick H ...u say ur a white male then talk about our black women.......u are confused or being clever. I'm not sure which.
Why do they even need men? They have the government to support them.
thanks for proving to us that whites are trolling these videos. Why are you concerned about black issues, issues you ancestors created in the first place?
no its true black women don't need black men. thats the real issue and why we can't get along
Black men are not supporting them!!!!
Most black men can't support themselves.
Lmaoioo
I haven't dated a black woman in almost a decade. And I'll tell you my brothers, my life is much better for it. I work around sisters, I know a lot of them from childhood. But I just don't date them. It's refreshing not having to hear the rhetoric, and experience the behavior.
Very hard for me not to give up on my sisters when my own mother was unable to show love or respect to her children. Then, when I started dating them, they were disrespectful and condescending (as my mother was toward me), eye rolling, yelling, hate to listen to sound advice, aggressive, haughty, dismissive, etc. So, I wound up having my daughter (very young) with a Latina woman who treated me like I’ve never been treated before by any sister!! Came back home and married a sister-divorced in 5 years! Have been single for many years now and I’m complemented and engage with other women much easier than my own sisters. I’m trying not to give up on them, but it’s hard when most sisters I meet are just like my mother!
Room full of weaves, not of their texture, and the spoken word girl says "They pay to look like me"! I'm surely in the Twilight Zone SMH.
Its interesting that you say that and only shows that your opinion is based on hatred for your own kind and its blinded you from seeing that the majority of the women in the room were wearing their natural hair and they few non black people that were in there were wearing extensions. The lips, butt, hair, tan..non blacks pay to have but your hatred is as thick as the wool over your eyes to notice it. Smh wake up brother.
BIONIK DIKK They go broke to look Not "Black" and then say other women when there is a problem. Then keep using brother when you try to distance your looks form the "Brothers"
BIONIK DIKK damn....you didn't have to do her like that??? O_o
Benjamin X Yes Benji I had to, these sistas think they're men, so you have to punch them like men, they don't realize we stand when we piss, they squat.
BIONIK DIKK dammit man!!....but Overall the discussion was alright BUT it did seem like some of our brothas in the video were scared to speak out and if they did, it wasn't eloquently enough -_-
Black male here: For all of those people who feel personally insulted by the generalizations made on these type of videos, I'd like to share the greatest piece of advice I ever received courtesy of my late grandmother: "If you care about what someone else says about you, you make them your master." Throughout your life you will be slandered based on your gender, race, sexual orientation, interests, political positions, (put your favorite here). By giving any credence to what any person of any ethnicity says to you, you forgot that only your opinion of yourself is what matters the most. By caring about what 'some (race here)males on youtube' or 'some (gender here) idiots you meet in life' are saying is literally like saying "God, or master said this ... I am giving it credibility. It's of the utmost importance to me. Their silly ass opinions matter." I say fuck em. The mind thinks by association. I'm not even going to respond to someone who has prejudices about me based on their experiences with another black male they've met. I don't need them to love me. I love myself. You are going to find someone that loves every part of you as long as you love yourself and live to your fullest potential. You won't even need them then. It will be like an accessory to the full, loving self image that you have already created for yourSELF. Hurt people HURT people.
+Lamarr Robinson The best comment here in my opinion =)
Lamarr Robinson 👏🏿
This is a wise man!
Actually, it's his grandmother. She raised him well.
@@filmtressmu8552 no he is wise Damn can't give him his props because he is a blk man part of the problem don't u think he said some wise words n u just couldn't leave that alone smh
They don't date Black Women?
Good, more for me!
prosay have em lol
prosay good luck 🍀
prosay good luck
+Terry Wilson you sound pitiful I truly feel sorry for you there's no real words to describe how pathetic you sound it just confirms your character..grow up!!
Lol good luck.. you will find out eventually.
I'm the black woman's biggest supporter; but it's kinda hard to root for them, when they diss me every chance they get. They say they're strong all the time. News flash: A man doesn't want a woman who's always combative and declaring her strength. We want a woman who is feminine and non-conflictive. It would also help if they didn't wear horse hair in their heads, and had bad attitudes. I am 30 plus years old, and I've been trying to stick with black women all my life. Looks like i'm gonna have to go outside my race or outside of African American in general to find peace when it comes to women.
Brother, get a passport and travel. Women in other countries aren't the same as black women in the U.S. (at least not most of them). If you're not into black women, hit up South America and Africa.
damndisplace07 Bro you are wasting your time and living a pipe dream if your waiting for a good American Black women.You got a better chance of wining the lottery 3 times in one week.They dont respect nice good men.Call the same women you where chasing bitches and hoes and they will love you.Move on to another race bro if you know whats good for you
*kyla* strawberry No American black women are
*kyla* strawberry Do I know you?
damndisplace07 That seems like you are around the wrong black women; it doesn't represent black women as a whole. Now, I love my weave, and I will wear it as much as I like; but that doesn't define who I am. I don't think the issue is that there aren't good black women, it's that even good black men aren't checking for good black women. I know plenty of good black woman who can't get a good black man either.
A man shouldn't compare himself to woman. Why should a woman's strength take away from a man's strength...if anything a strong man, should want someone that enhances his strength, supports him and even carry him if he needs it. This is not a stand off. Let women (all women) be who they are. Sista love yourselves and never feel bad about being strong. Strength is attractive.
Feminism has made all 1st world men weak n women to aggressive
True, a man should'nt compare himself to a woman, but should a woman compare herself to a man? And is'nt that what feminism is all about.
Ladies do u want a man. Listen carefully. C a guy u like ask him do he no any one who can fix xyz or put n a abc. Once he volunteers when he comes by. Make sure u cooked . no sex or flirting. Just make sure the house smells like big momnas house on Sunday. Do this 3 times u will have a good man. no sex ladies no going out. Just cook cook cook. Then u have him. In two wks take him to c ur family. Make sure ur best uncle or aunt is there. Also plenty of food. Feed him first sex will come later. Let him no u r a good woman n u want a strong man. Ladies to get a good man is gonna require u to stay off ur phone when he is with u for about 3wks. A good man would rather have a good home cooked meal than a nut. Trust me.
Strength?! Sorry but I don't see any "strength" from black women when I'm at the gym.
Tamara S. Is that due to women being a weaker species?
Dating a black woman is living life in Expert Mode.
***** Peeks?! Perks?! You wanna talk about Perks?! You don't even get respawns!!!
When i was younger, i thought about not dating black females. Here's the thing, they reject good men for bad men. Every time i see a black female she's with some bad boy, then comes back to a good guy crying on him saying i'm sorry will you take me in after she been used up and had kids with the bad guy. While this is true, i did some thinking and i asked a lot of question to my mom and female friends. Females are unstable, their emotions, hair and periods are messing them up. A lot of black females aren't being raise up right. Luckily me i found myself a gf, a fine black young lady. I convince her to stop wearing weaves and all that makeup. She has natural beauty and her hair is perfect. I understand about weaves, my mom cut her dreads and use weaves, and wigs until her hair grew back. Also us guys needs to stop trying to make ourselves seem perfect. Now us guys wants a big booty woman with big breast and a good attitude. Sometimes it's not like that, you have to stop and think about who would make a great wife. Most black females don't have big booty and big breast, some just have a big booty or big breast. We have to stop being immature and picking on these females about their hair. We're not perfect, so that gives us no right to judge females. I understand that SOME black females are bad, but that doesn't mean we have to go picking at them. Trust me if you seen those videos about men gluing hair onto their head, you wouldn't be saying anything. With me i am half Mexican and half black so when i wake up, i really do nothing to my hair because it's curly. Anyway I've seen so many black females reject good men until they realize, good men are rare and sometimes black females will realize they rejected a good guy by getting use up for sex,money or worst by the bad guy. So men stop trying to act perfect cause we're not, and female get it together.
Great comment
Blessing Alemu De Jaye Btw guys e.e i got cheated on by my black gf...soooo yeah cancel the part i said about me having a gf
Sapphire237 right they dumb Asf
same shit in the gay world they date all the bad boy lesbians and wantto find a good one when the single ones dont want them. Rgardless of gender some african american black women are fucked up
D Carter. Wow so disrespectful
"Room full of weaves, not of their texture, and the spoken word girl says "They pay to look like me"! I'm surely in the Twilight Zone SMH." BIONIK DIKK dude i had to quote you.
What are you talking about?.....the women talking hair is natural it's just straight.
@@gapeach14 stfu. I see his point. You dont .
18:00 "When we get home, I'm going to let you know..." And that's why black men aren't marrying African-American women.
room full of simps.lol
Why are they simps?
Exactly because they could be somewhere pleasing men n sucking dick
Simps getting the cookie 🍪 😅
@10:30 ... soo... you're saying that I hate myself because I don't like a woman that happens to match my skin color? I hate myself because I don't date ghetto females, which in my personal experience is the majority of the black women I've met or run into? So what you're saying is that I hate myself because I don't want you. You (as a black woman or man) do not define me. NO black woman defines me, so therefore I do not hate myself even if I went so far as to hate YOU. I love other women that aren't YOU. That doesn't mean that some magical arrow is pointing back to me and that means that I hate myself. I don't owe black women ANYTHING. I don't owe you as in NEEDING to get with black women, I don't owe you as only marrying a black woman, and I don't owe you as in standing up for you when you are wrong.
I don't see why black woman complain about black men dating white women when black women try they best to imitate a white woman.... I'm confused af.
New topic. Black men who love to date black women.let's focus on that.
Why would you ever want to date a man who at one point said "I don't date Black Women"? find a man(of whatever colour) who would never say such a stupid thing.
Hello everyone, I love black women. My problem is the majority of black women I meet are interested on if I have a car, my financial assets, have an attitude, concern with private size, can't even except a guy walking by & saying hello. They'll keep walking by without a word. Majority will prefer a rough neck/thug or someone I guess they feel who can manipulate them, & most have kids. I'm a truck driver, Navy vet, raised by both of my parents, no kids & what I get all the time it that I'm handsome , why are you alone. I'll like to know is the generations now, the one before & after losing our self control, spirituality, the ability to to hold on worth keeping. I'm at the point where I watch videos such as this one & get emotional because it's sad. I'm from Brooklyn NY, for those who know about NYC know it's crowded & no room for us to grow mentally among others. I won't give up but I'm 40, I'm really tired. When I was in the service my brother & who I thought was my lady had a sexual relationship. I have stories. I won't give up because I think sisters are beautiful in every sense of the word. Check me at deja by open mic experience. Tell me what's wrong with me
Dennis Watson, There's nothing wrong with you, instead of focusing on what's wrong with you, focus on what's right. From what I read, you have it going on. I'm sorry that incident happened to you, you are now free to enjoy life and be with some one who is going to Love, cherish and respect you. Get busy living or get busy dieing.
Sonya P. White hello, how do you focus on what's right when all so long things have been wrong. I do appreciate how my life is now, thank the lord almighty.
Sonya P. White love cherish & respect me, real talk I don't even know what that is. Thank you for those kind words sis. Stay up. Luv ya
Jane Ash, girl you are on fleek. What you said reminds me of a segment I saw on Steve Harvey.
The reason why didn't date black women because the majority of the one I talk to was into thugs! I was even told I was lame because I work, pay my bills, don't hangout in the streets. They said I was white washed! So I was turnt off of black women based on this! They either call me broke because I didn't wear chains and so forth! I had my own place payed my own bill, nice car, no legal records, no kids. I have been at my job for 17 yrs this coming January. I make decent money! But they black women wanted that thug guy. These was the women I was around and ran into! I was even told that I was to nice of a guy! She can't date me and she'll do nothing but use me! Then a this other black guy was like dam bitch you got a fat ass! Whats your name! She smile walk over to him and introduce herself! That made start dating white women! Because talk to her politely!
Solution:
Dont act a like a man!
Youre Welcome
Don't look like a man Black women
As a Blackman , what I hear is more black woman issues. It's definitely too late for me. I WONT EVERE DATE BLACK WOMAN AGAIN. I'm very happy with that decision. GOOD LUCK BLACK WOMAN, OTHER WOMAN ARE TAKING CARE OF YOUR MAN. As a result, a lot of us are okay with that.
I wish you all the best man. I don't blame you.
I found out early in life that to date bw you have to be a character. 43 years of living now, and they still love clowns.
Just one of my thoughts most black women pay top dollar to look European they buy European hair they dye their hair blonde they change their eye color and wonder why men go after European women. only if black women new and understood how beautiful, and how much we need, want, love and appreciate them if they could see the power and beauty that they possess, so much more....
Nationalism or Feminism...the black woman must choose.
I gave up on our race of men a long time ago. I strictly only date outside of my race. Black women were weaves seem to be their only excuse. In the end weaves aren't permanent but surgeries are.
Least desired race in women. BW have no choice but to stay in their lane.
Did you see what you were replied to, " least desired women"
We all get the name calling directed to us.
I guess, we have nothing to bare but all these names we get. 😕😕.
Mary they are non black men as a whole got Black women the last on the dating list as whole keyword black women are seen as masculine and Asian men as feminine
LaQuinna T that’s unfortunate that you feel that way. You obviously have had previous experience that were negative but at the end of the day the enemy is happy that you have written off your own
LaQuinna T nobody cares
oh yeah angry black women way to convince me to come back to you
People like you make the angry black women.
Most Black Women are always angry for no reason
I think if they did a little more listening than talking, they would understand a little better
+Napolian Myhand black men can leave so what
vegasdime brown be quiet
Any man who would say this is not a real man. And, factually, the percentage of black men who date outside their race is estimated to be less than 20%. So we are talking about a very small demographic of black men who embrace self-hatred. This type of story is very counter-productive and embraces conflict rather than dispelling destructive media memes being employed by the dominant society to divide us.
In 2013 25% of the black men who got married, married outside of their race.
+The King
And they also have a higher divorce rate!!
Natasha Brown yet you don't hear black men complaining. But the so called queen has been complaining for years.
Gerald Bowman nigga stop simping you acting you irrational lol a man could date who we want same with a woman
So, black women who date outside their race also suffer from self hate? The white man who dates a black woman also hates himself? Does self hate apply to anyone who has a partner who doesn’t look like them?
Another Black Male here: First of all we act like we love through instinct like a mating dog, because a dog will mate with any other dog simply because that natural internal mechanism kicks in that says mate. We are humans, God gave us the will to make free choice to chose who we love. We may not chose who we meet and come in contact with socially, but once we meet all of the choices come into play and dictate every move from that point. So I’m sick of these black guys saying they can’t help who they fall in love with, when you most certainly make every choice after an initial meeting which may be by mere chance, all the way down the aisle. Just man up and say you want a white woman and don’t want to be with a black one. That’s permitted, but don’t lie and demean the black woman make her feel a certain way because she is who she is, and has had to evolve into because you weren’t there. You shouldn’t be comparing a black and white woman anyway that is juvenile. The black womans plight in life and her struggle is uniquely different and was supposed to be dealt with by the only real man capable of dealing with her needs like a black man can, and vice verse, we were made to be with each other, cut from the very same cloth so to speak. Yes most black women are strong and some even angry, but its because there is the lack of the black man really being a man in his household, being the priest or lord in his house, making her want to submit. She don’t want to submit to someone who is not treating her right and she shouldn’t have to. Going over making babies with other women who are not of Royal black Lineage and becoming the model father figure, making every soccer game, and at every parent-teacher conference, and smoking dope and chillin wit da fellaz and leaving the black woman at home manning the house and figuring it all out, and now she has figured it out by herself without your help and you mad because she ain’t taking no crap from you, now you say she is angry, and she has every right to be because the black boy with a penis has proven himself to be less than a man, he is just a baby maker. Of course The Black Queens are different, from white women. We are Royalty. The sad part of it is that those black guys forfeit their position. So who’s not different? We all are different. I don’t know any other species on this planet or in the universe like white women, very strange creatures. We just have to be strong enough to stand and out man the black woman, not by beating her or misusing her. But be a man, a leader, a confidante, the back bone of the family is all she wants. At the end of the day she is strong, but she is a woman, the bible calls her the weaker vessel. She shouldn’t have to do it all by herself. Be a real leader and she will follow, even the most independent ones will. Black women love being women and letting their men lead, we just have to do so. Just like the white girl and white woman will let you mack, the black woman will too if they are treated with the same respect. They know their worth, black men just don’t know who they are many times.
Listen I once too at one point in my life gave up on black women. I felt like they were very loud and materialistic and looking for the guy with the fast money. So I changed what I liked and started dating others. Yeah I was treated well but it was still something missing my heart wasn’t full. True story I was on my way to work and I seen this black woman man I thought she was really beautiful and sophisticated out of my league I thought to myself but I remembered what my dad told me.(what’s the worse could happen she say no) long story short we’ve been married for 22yrs. Brothers don’t give up on black women please there are plenty of great ones out there looking for you.
Too late I already did
@Sum mer you cared enough to comment on 8 month old comment
@@koncha0422 You made the right chose.
the natural hair comment killed me bc I have seen so many black men be against natural hair....and she was right when she said they go for the fake stuff.....which I'm not opposed to bc what our black fails to realize is that a lot of Blk women's hair is not considered professional and I feel that maybe why a lot of Blk women wear fake hair as well and its can be convenient....
courtney nice but I thought y'all were the fastest group of entrepreneurs lol
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More excuses
Excuses excuses lol. If i see a weave on your head you are a DUB in my eyes
courtney nice only SIMPS like fake hair
It's too late.lady's.we don't want you no more.WE Out.
We're still having these same discussions in 2017..... Smh. And every time we have these discussions the elephant in the room is NEVER addressed and that is the fact that A LOT of black women REJECT good decent black men for shallow/superficial/materialistic reasons..... Not enough money, not enough swag, an old car, not tall enough, not enough muscles, to big, to skinny, to dark skinned, to light skinned, etc. Now there are other factors that go into black men not wanting to date black women but I just laid out the main reason here in this comment. Black women REFUSE to address this whenever this same tired lame discussion is brought up and it's getting old. I feel like black people should just date and be with whoever they want IF they can't find a suitable black mate to be with?
Not trying to be funny but I've never seen this many black women together and not act belligerent.
There are SO many issues facing the Black community, I cannot believe this conversation about not stereotyping ppl is STILL being had. These are lesson we learn as children. if a grown person watches a reality show and can not recognize the difference between his real life and entertainment, it's very disturbing and sad that we are STILL talking about this very elementary topic. It's embarrassing.
All that weave in the room. Wonder how many black kids they could send to college if they stopped wearing weave for 18 years.
Where were you beautiful ,perfect ,loving, understanding and supportive black
Women in the 35 years of my life of dating you all. I'm 49 and I'm finally happy with my Asian Queen. I love her and found all of the things I wanted in a woman.
Tried to date a black woman, but she went nuts and accused me of stalking her, so I'm back to dating other races. Do not need the drama.
Jon Hunt. the police should take u out for treason..
The black female in white at the beginning of the video looks like a super hero.
be respectful submissive and feminine
The question is: After we do all that will the men be leaders or will their trend of bsing thrive.
A lot black women do too much but there are some good black women out here also. I am marrying a black man myself so don't give up on black women. Be strong and realize that there are good women out here. You choosing wrong women is your fault. Work on yourself and that women will come.
It's weird all of those beautiful "intelligent" sisters in the room, trowing innuendos from left to right, not one has pulled out or mentioned a study that supports the subject matter. who told these women, black men don't date black women. Most black men i see are with black women.
BassStudent4life OMG thank you
All my black male friends and relatives, Date and Marry black women
BassStudent4life you must live in the south......because where I live almost all the brothas have white or latina ladies
I shouldn't have to deal with an attitude because we 're both black.
I love black women ... and will never give up on y'all
+Khari Rashidi you need work to ww are not gueens
+Eric S. lol
D. Roca It's the truth ...
some black men are gay david carol even said it....
Black women do not care if you do give up..Black women think they are better off with out Black men since so many are educated..and see Black men as being nothing but Drama...Black women is the strongest women..so they dont care if you stay away.... according to stats Blackmen do not make good mates to any race of women..
Sisters you want to get black men in line? Close your legs and you'll see how black men will get their act together.
Let the black man go. He's not worth fighting for. The black man does not want the black woman, so let them go....don't sweat it. Good you don't date black women. The black man is perfect girls...stop fighting and accept that fact that he feels superior to you...let him go. Bye Bye. Please stop caring and save yourself time, money and undue stress. Bye bye birdie. Here's your mantra..I don't care...go..go..go!
+Linda Moore Black Men love black women, your still our mothers, sisters, grandmothers, etc. We love yall to death and we ain't going no where.
+jbiz979 The same woman that raised me and I grew up alongside is NOT the same woman that roams these streets today, so when people like you claim that if I don't like the attitude of black women today that I don't like my own mother or sister,... etc (or making comparisons to our black mothers and family based off black women as a whole as you just did by)... it really cringes my stomach. Those women are NOT a representation of my family, and never will be! Ignorance will never represent me, and my family was called "not black" for not behaving ghetto all over America, by BLACK PEOPLE no less! So no... I don't feel that just because I won't support a ghetto mentality that I'm dissing my own family. I don't lump people together as a whole. If you act decent, I'll have words with you. If you don't, I'll probably avoid you.
RamzaBeoulve02 I don't disagree with anything you just said, I don't see the problem you have with my statement.
White women takem!!!....THEY ARE ALL YOURSS!!!...and thank you..Less drama for Black Women...
+jbiz979 It would appear I misunderstood your comment? Were you not asserting that black men (in general) love black women, and that those (in general) women ARE our mothers, sisters, grandmothers (therefore a representation of black mothers, sisters,etc)?
If you were not asserting that any old black person could represent a whole, then I've misunderstood your comment and I apologize. My point was to make a clear distinction in the fact that JUST because I don't like nor support the actions of all black women and that to act black is not synonymous with acting ghetto.
I assumed that you were saying that we (as black men) would support a black woman and her actions regardless of what those actions were simply because we also have black relatives. I was going to soundly disagree with you. My apologies :)
I tend to feel when black women get bashed that it's like being young children again...like when we get our hair pulled or something thrown at us...but deep down, the boys like us and can't express themselves properly...that's how I feel now...u say 'not all' but start off saying 'black women...' and never say anything nice...I want to say much more...even wanted to do videos but when I think about it...it hurts so much all these videos I feel it's a waste of my time...I love black men to the core and I'm just going to remain hopeful...best I can do...ladies u need to NOT bash back and be patient too
Tiia Chapell M Thanks Tia Thanks girl!!!!
42:35 "we have not made it as a race" I am a BM but! Consider this. If you have 4 islands (a) with 100 White women (b) 100 Chinese women (c) 100 Indian women (d) 100 black women, on each island put 100 black men, isolate for 100 years then go back to each island. Island (a, WW will be modern) (b, CW super advanced) (c, IW hard working) (d, BW ghetto). The biggest contributory factor that makes them all different is the way women select partners & treat their men. (Female Seletion) that cultivates BM over generation is one of Natures Laws that BW chose to ignore or don't understand & WW are not going to help BW to understand. Good or bad Wright or wrong I can't judge but, it would be good if I am proven wrong. If Men are responsible for quantity then BW are responsible for the quality of BM in their culture. Have BW dropped the ball? I can only say men push & women steer. BW have got exactly what they have ordered, if BW want to change then BM will have to change & want to date BW.
+Rikshaw223 Rikshaw223
I concur wholeheartedly !
+Eric S. thanks brother, i can just hear the BW on island (d, ghetto) saying that the women on the other islands (a b & c) stole all the best BM. i think every race of women have different ideas of what an alpha male needs to be to protect & provide for her & their children. so sad but, if i needed a glass of water i would first ask a BM a WW then a WM before a BW, yes! some would give me & many would refuse to give me but, only a BW would look at me as if i just killed her mother. we don't like it but we all have to live with it.
men have told you - you dont and wont listen
It's amazing how toxic the comments are about black women....this is so sad
MrUnknown and they won't fuck you
Buri Don't Won't to Bitch
Please learn proper spelling.
Learn to SHUT THE FUCK UP BITCH
MrUnknown Another "baby boy."
I see that one of reoccurring sub topics in this conversation is representation & the stereotypes created by the lack of positive representation of black women. I feel that this an multifaceted issue caused by several things including what I mentioned above. If I had time I'd chime in my two cents but conversations like this should continue, great work!
Thank you very much Junior! I agree with your comment 100%
These little discussions aren't deep enough to explore the depth and root of what the core problems are.
Im a black man and I LOVE BLACK WOMEN!!!
I think this title and subject matter is very misleading, the Vast majority of Black men date Black women and we all know and see this everyday, now their maybe a few men that have a racial preference for whatever reason and that's ok, now the true questions is why don't black folks get married any more? Why are we ok with being baby mamas and daddies and that for the most part comes down to our change in priorities and morality. As far as the few Black men who don't date Black women because they have had experiences with Ratchet ones well that's your fault, if you want intelligent educated, healthy Black women then go to College involve your selfish in fitness and you'll meet well educated fit sisters all day.
15 minutes in and no bulletin board comment on how black "AMERICAN" women on average are masculine.
Why are Black men the only race of men to produce such "masculine" daughters? Perhaps weeding your sperm out of the gene pool might be the best thing for BW after all. 🤷♀
9:58 Why does a man need to "outman" a woman? why does a man have to be "enough man"? I think that this way of thinking is key issue here.....
THE POET IN THE BEGINNING WAS GREAT!!!
Real Talk!
Firstly we discuss things in generalities and patterns. This is how we process information. Ofcourse there are exceptions. Im sorry but when 70% of black women are not married its time for them to do an introspection. Stop deflecting and ignoring the elphant in the room. Behaviour! Black women have no clue what men want. Men want a feminine, kind, & submissive woman and most black women are not. Majority have comabive masculine attitudes, they have musltiple baby daddies. No amout of talking will make black men find this desirable.
Kanye Shakur and there it is
Kanye Shakur. im trying to figure out when have u met. Majority of blk women? Have u ever had a real conversation with a real blk woman ? No matter what goes in our community , I would never get on the internet and disrespect my Black Men, why would u do it to us? As the king you are supposed to lead by example. Is this your example?
BLACK WOMEN HAVE BEEN ATTACKED FROM EVERYONE BUT BLACK WOMEN GOD IS COMING TO RIGHT THE WRONGS THAT HAVE BEEN DONE TO US. WORLD BEHOLD THE POWER OF GODS GRACE.
Have to agree with Why Knot Now on this one...
the opening poem is very desperate and insecure. Why are all these lovely and desirable Black females running blindly in behind Black males???
Let it go sista soliders...stop solidering for Black men. Get a life of your own (a professional career, financial autonomy, feminine wardrobe, make-up and hair, a social life that includes diverse outings, hobbies)...and the right men of any shade will be knocking the door down.
Unbelievable how the Black community has indoctrinated its females!
You are on target when you say these Black Women are lovely and desirable. Yet an astonishing amount of these lovely and SO-CALLED DESIRABLE Black Women are single. The reason: Black Women's REFUSAL to HEAR and EXCEPT that she has SERIOUS flaws in her character!!! You are asking Black Women to date, hook up with, marry her career, financial autonomy, wardrobe, make-up, etc and this is unexceptable and silly. Most Black Women want to pair up with a Black Man but she must address HER problems first.
Nathaniel Snipe
What i am advocating is that Black women--those who are not closed minded to do so--stop allowing advice like yours to keep them from living the best life they can. And, to stop begging these Black males to "come home" who are exercising their god-given right--choice.
Men of ALL shades are attracted to quality Black women which entails her having a life and passions of her own.
Anybody readily denying this does NOT care a thing about the well-being of Black women.
kyla berry :p That’s right Klya. Black Women have the right to “want” whomever they choose and generation should have nothing to do it. The hit TV show “ Scandal” is living proof of this. Years ago, it was the TV series “Dallas” followed by “Dynasty.” I feel that Black Women, like all Women, crave Men with money and power. There is another twist with Black Women. Some of you seek to produce offspring with refined hair, lighter skin, and anglo saxton facial features (which may be the dominant reason the TV show “Scandal” is loved by Black Women). Black Men and White Women have, nor had, any problems with any of the TV series I just mentioned. Question Klya: Why did Black Women and White Men go absolutely bananas over a 32 second TV commercial featuring a Black Man and a White Women who produced a beautiful mixed girl??? The commercial in question was sponsored by Cheerios a few months ago. Can you answer this for me Klya???
kyla berry :p I did not say anything about you being mad nor did I resort to profanity. I could care less about who you copulate with. I, as an older Man, am not restricted to any particular race. I feel that you should care less.
Thanks for UNDERSTANDING my last post
I am so disappointed with the discussions in this video. Everything they are saying is so superficial. They are not addressing real issues and the root causes of why so many black men say the things they say about black women here in America. I feel that the real problem in this video are the men in this video. They are not saying the same things that hardcore black men say in videos on RUclips; therefore, it is a boring, lame-duct conversation. I think the men in this video see these beautiful black women face-to-face and are afraid to say the things that they should say. They are afraid of offending these black women in the video for fear of also offending the men in this video who may be their husbands, boyfriends, or friends, etc. It's either that or the men in this video simply do not the real root causes of why black men say the things that they say about black women here in America.
absolutely not talking about the real issues
absolutely not talking about the real issues
Well, please school us black women - you seem to have lots to say in the area of why black men say the things they say about black women in America. I would really like to hear you honest opinion on the subject.
It's interesting that you say that as your entire post did not say what you say those men needed to say. Black men need to remember this anger we have is often based on the fact that we didn't grow up with fathers. So the mess y'all created has come back full circle. Let's start a conversation on how messed up Black men are lets see how that works. I think black men are some of the most disappointing humans on this planet. Remember when you open your mouth you are speaking of your mother and women in your family. Fix yourselves be men then women will follow. You guys want women to be your slaves and to worship you when you don't deserve to inhabit the same space as us. When you all understand your role then life will change for us as a race. Simple minded idiot get some self respect disrespecting your own where is your loyalty. White women were always higher than us in this society which is part of the problem. Sad smdh
Sounds racist. I don't like this type of talk from any race. I don't reject black women. I accept all women. That means I will date any woman who I feel is best qualified to be with me based on my personal prejudice and discrimination based on what I look for in a woman that I feel would best suit my needs as a man in this world. When I accept all races of women I am not rejecting black women. That is a stupid notion.
I honestly fear the modern black women will most likely never understand that beauty will never be found in their hair, clothes, social or financial status, but by possessing genuine grace mixed with submission; Attributes that can't be aquired with money, but only through a strong and genuine relationship with the Lord....
basically black men have bought into the hype.
+nalo 101 No hype it's all you black women. You did this on all of your shows, in public, through the court system and to the seed of the man (yo daddy ain't shi@ and you ain't going to be sh@$). You brought the hate on yourselves by trying to be what the white man wanted instead of wanting a black man with leadership qualities to raise children with. Most black women have been stretched by multiple thugs by 22 and with multiple children by those thugs by 25 but then you want a good man in your late 30s and 40s and you still don't want him to be the head of your home. You just want his finances.
Kib Kilo why do black men go around thinking their sh*t don't stink? Don't judge unless u are Perfect and believe me black men are no where near that.
nalo 101 That's my point in what I wrote. My own black mother told me that she hated me. You black women have been telling black men not only that our shi@ stank but that we were the very shi@. I do judge because the almighty told us to do so but if you really read the scriptures you would understand that. This is how I know you're full of bull. At no time did I write that black men were perfect: I'm basically telling you that you as a black woman have attempted to destroy us to be at the table of the white man. It's why black women wear white women's hair over their own.
Kib Kilo im not talkin to anybody with mommy issues, talk to a therapist for that. Alot of you men up here have serious mental issues. Stop dealing with them in the comment section.
Kib Kilo
bye bitch
stand with black men and protest the child support system!! let's demand the courts to restructure it's policies to incentivize family Unity..until then we headed separate ways
The only black man that ALL black women respect and will never have an attitude with is a Pastor.
Chocolate Baby Milk yeah no.
That's a lie. I'm not a church-goer. 😑
Think that was the most profound thing I heard in this video, coming from a fatherless home myself and my mother having to be both father and mother created a dynamic that is unnatural and is carried on in daughters today.
Just before I discontinue watching this Painful Display of #SelfHate and particularly in front of #whiteFolks....I in no way can take ANY of the presenters / speakers, SERIOUSLY! You would NEVER find an OPEN Discussion about a Racial nor Cultural topic that is posing such a devastating impact on a Group ....#InPublic for the WORLD to See & Hear! #CloseThatBathroomDoor!
I only date black women but it is so challenging. The attitudes and being combative is a recurring theme and who has time for this. The only man in my relationships should be me. I'm more attracted to BW but now thinking about what its like to date other ethnicities of women. I may be forced to date outside of my race.
Throughout my tenure in my college, I recalled playing a game with my friends called "who can count the most weave on the campus," and black women will always win on that department, they even dominated in the fake eyelash department as well.
Who win in how much coolaid can the blk man drink from fluffy?
Good dialog! Respect, authenticity and attitude all key to a person being attractive and datebable.
Take a look at the when they're acting like they're normal. Look at the clothes the hair, the smiles, the kind words, and the well thought out lines of verbalisation. Look real hard....Now flip the record over. That's what you really get. Everyone of em acts like they care and concerned but let a couple months slip by after the claws are in place and you'll get the real woman. A self centered domineering woman who can't shut up, who'll get you locked up and blame you for every bad thing that ever happened to her. Their not to be believed when their at their best. They are oscar winning actress's with narrow minds.
well said my brother. I see it everyday.
thomacj Thanks, I still need them though...
I swear to God once they reach 28 and up to early 30's, they become so desperate and demanding so many material things.
Interesting talk. I don't feel like I heard enough from the men. There are probably plenty of reasons why Black Men don't date Black Women, but those reasons were not well represented here. I don't blame anyone but the men there for not speaking up much more. However, as usual, women love to talk instead of listen. I couldn't think of a better time for the women in the room to yield more time to listen to what the men have to say. The women were mostly defensive, trying to legitimize dating Black Women while quickly dismissing any negative comments about Black Women. Also, I'm surprised how much time was spent talking about hair. I'm not sure what to make of that...
Generally, all I would add is that "I don't date Black Women" is not a problem that Black Men have to fix. I heard these Black Women say many times "Black Men need to do X, Y, and Z." No we don't. We don't have to do shit, actually. It's simply not a problem we are required to solve. Ultimately, Black Men have the freedom to choose, and if Black Women are not the most desirable potential mate on the market, guess what... they're going to be skipped over for someone else, and in today's market, Black Men are not limited to dating within their race. And with the power of the Internet and air travel, Black Men are not geographically limited either.
Let me put it this way, the first time I was called a Black Prince was from a white woman, and I'm no stranger to Black Women (up until recently, perhaps).
People saying black men that complain about weaves are childish are missing the point. The issue isn't "the weave." The weave can be a reflection of who that woman is. The sister that feels she NEEDS her weave is the same sister that feels she NEEDS her makeup. She's the same sister that feels she NEEDS a certain car or man that drives that car. She's the sister that NEEDS a certain type of house. She NEEDS a man to be a certain height or physique. In other words she's probably materialistic and driven by superficial WANTS that she feels are NEEDS.
Mr Solo Dolo
Weave and a lot of makeup is an issue with me but don't complain about it.
Too high maintenance and fake for me and just stay from them which is simple to do because I avoid single mothers.
And the list goes on from there.
Women have altered their hair and appearance for millions of years, period. Those with straight hair want curly hair and vice versa. Judging women by their choice of adornment is very suspect. There are many fine black women in the world just as there are fine women of all types. Like attracts like. Blaming one's dating problem on a whole group of people is absurd. You enemies have taught you well.
was this filmed in the middle of the freeway? I had to put my speakers real high to hear what they're saying.
I really feel that you can't help whom you fall in love with. I've seen beautiful black women with some beautiful black men. it depends on the situation it's not base on color,your race or ethnicity. how you compromised on each other. 50/50 relationship
Great discussion. I would like to attend one of the events/groups. When is the next one?
We would love for you to attend! The next one takes place March 8th
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100%
MGTOW for life
Stacey Scarlett
Actually, I like to rub one out before going to a bar so that I'm not tempted to buy some chick a drink.
Michael Walker 🤣🤣🤣
This is pretty cool. This is a discussion on a sensitive subject. BUT no one is being emotional!! Amazing, I love it
You don't change a persons mind you start by changing there heart, and with the BW stereotype there a DIFFINETY cons and pros STOP ALWAYS TRYNA Be like the next person or race🤦🏽♀, I believe there is a time and place for everything and people shouldn't just be 1 particular way you should definitely be VERSATILE, learn to love yourself and in return you will love your people more than ever❤ #MuchLove
40:23 This is the best part of the whole discussion. She spoke the actual truth and pointed out only a few of the issues that are the problem to why black men are walking away. Need to listen and change.
watching the entire video. I have to run away from BM. The behaviour is disgusting!
jk joke hurry up and run faster we don't want you
jk joke play victim elsewhere
Linda Moore, when I read the introduction, it moved me. The core of the video is to find solutions to a serious CRISIS. Be a part of the solution and not the problem. Even with my interracial spiritual relationship, I'm still a part of the solution. Jana's know everything and I tell her about my disagreement and plight with "black" females. I am open to dialogue with anyone on this issue. My love for Jana's is divine and we are spiritually comparable. Love and let's love be LOVE.
You don't date black women? So!! I don't like Frosted flakes, I don't like stupid people, I won't date asians (ever again). I don't like white men (I don't see the big deal.. I dated them, they not all that..) I like nerds! This is just my preference! Everyone has a preference!!! Oh well!!
This is old. Black women don't care. Sister-women don't want men who have been with Caucasian and other types of women. If I was infatuated with a Brother who dated Caucasian women, I wouldn't want him. Sorry, not sorry.
This is some messed up sh*t!.
I love this dialogue it is what's really needed in the black community when it talks about black men and black women this is positive communication thank you
Non black women are just more attractive that is all
***** 99% of the population's opinion
lol you are so stupid!! Everyone thinks mixed or light skin girls are more good looking in real life. Just go around ask guys what they think. there is a reason why black men are getting after light skin girls.but black girls dont get light skin guys coz the light skin guys dont want them.men are visual so want good looking women (light skin), women are emotional they want guys that make them laugh and who can protect them, hence light skin girls dont mind dating black guys even if the black guys are ugly.common sense. end of story.
All i know is all my friends ( different races) dont find black women attractive.Seriously! The dark skinned "attractive" women you mentioned are the only ones who people may think are attractive. I am talking about majority. Dont single out a few good looking dark skin bitches and say dark skin is as attractive as light skin. You live in a different planet. Do you wonder why you single or only dated a few men in your life or a virgin? Most black women these days are
***** I know skin color doesnt make a woman attractive or unattractive. But a dark skin girl looks better red. Dark skin girls happen to be uglier than light skin.You would look better if you were light skin. Just saying. You should know this. Just accept the truth and be proud. Don't lie to yourself to make yourself feel better.
***** i didnt mean to piss you off, just trying to open your eyes.
Black man I love you just the way you are, it is most important to me that you are very happy with who you are and happy with what you do. I AM.........
Weaves are not a problem for REAL MEN who love THE WOMEN.
This is embarrassing for both sides… Let’s stop airing our dirty laundry i