being productive when you don’t feel like it | in my 20s diaries

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  • Опубликовано: 28 апр 2022
  • episode 5 of in my 20s - sometimes you need a break
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  • @khalilahd.
    @khalilahd. 2 года назад +398

    You learning how to cook and get out of your comfort zone has been so inspiring. I’m in my 20’s now too and this series has helped so much 💛 you’re killing it Haley!

  • @addierevak9411
    @addierevak9411 2 года назад +196

    This series is so amazing because Haley is being vulnerable and taking us along on her journey. I’ve been struggling with my life just feeling boring in this series has helped so much. Thank you Haley!🤍

  • @PARISWILLIAMS-qf1kc
    @PARISWILLIAMS-qf1kc 2 года назад +161

    being in ur 20s is so scary but this series makes me feel less alone in this process

    • @larrycollins1538
      @larrycollins1538 2 года назад +1

      I love being in my 20s ! I’m out of school 😐😬

  • @nija2106
    @nija2106 2 года назад +173

    YOU ARE KILLING IT BABE! this series has been so good I’m proud of you for pushing to be a better you ! So inspiring! ALSO ITS OK TO JUST CHILL OUT ! I’m trying to teach myself I don’t always have to do a million task and be “productive “ every day 😂

  • @purplebutterfly5110
    @purplebutterfly5110 2 года назад +30

    i understand this sm, sometimes there’s just those days but it doesn’t mean u aren’t doing amazing💗

    • @oliviaclairexo
      @oliviaclairexo 2 года назад

      exactly this! 🤎🤎also i recently started my own channel if ya wanna check it out~~i just posted my room tour !! :))

  • @meganelise3376
    @meganelise3376 2 года назад +10

    I was literally laying on the couch watching this and then got motivated to get up and clean and workout. It’s genuinely so nice to see someone also figuring out what your 20s are supposed to look like. Love this series so much!

  • @TheLizardKingReal
    @TheLizardKingReal 2 года назад +21

    13:31 That's interesting. I never thought of it like that. Haley is sharing her wisdom with us.

  • @amelia-dk4yy
    @amelia-dk4yy 2 года назад +13

    this series is absolutely everything haley!!! i love that you're showing us that you are a real and normal human being and not hiding the "bad" and unproductive parts of your life!!

  • @lionalouisedagoro5296
    @lionalouisedagoro5296 2 года назад +38

    Lovee this series. Makes me want to get out and be productive when im reaally lacking motivation.

    • @nija2106
      @nija2106 2 года назад

      Exactly I don’t know what it is but seeing someone else be productive makes you want to be 😂

  • @averypenner488
    @averypenner488 2 года назад +31

    this series is the most relatable ones i've seen on youtube in a long time and it is super refreshing! i really appreciate how real you are with us on camera! i really want to get a girlypop sweater for myself
    and friend but noticed you are sold out. are you restocking soon because i know i (and a lot of others) would like one!

  • @user-ef6mx1yc9h
    @user-ef6mx1yc9h Год назад +2

    “honestly enjoying your life is the most productive thing you could do” YESS
    -haley

  • @naomihenry2408
    @naomihenry2408 2 года назад +32

    Hey just so you know I treat this series like a Netflix show I'm always so exited when I see you've posted! I have a suggestion for an episode: "Growing Closer to God" I just think that would be a good idea

    • @renawebb8300
      @renawebb8300 2 года назад

      Pls like @naomi Henry’s comment

  • @amongthechallengers3647
    @amongthechallengers3647 2 года назад +7

    IM LOVING THIS SERIES!!! I’m very happy that you show the good and the bad. It makes me feel so much better to know I’m not the only one having bad days! Thank you so much! You are literally one of my favorite RUclipsrs!!

  • @albertequintafranch8598
    @albertequintafranch8598 2 года назад +10

    Since you started this series, i’ve just wanted to change my life too, and watching this every friday just makes me more motivated to change my life. Love watching your videos❤️❤️

  • @angelamata6985
    @angelamata6985 2 года назад +8

    Haley I’m in my 20s too and you’ve motivated me to get my life together! I’m getting out of my comfort zone for just about everything, thank you for this series☺️💗💗

  • @akhalya6625
    @akhalya6625 2 года назад +14

    THIS SERIES IS SO GOOD.LITREALLY I WILL JUST WAIT FOR ANOTHER EPISODE TO COME OUT. THIS JUST MAKES ME WANNA :)

  • @Kaitlynsulli
    @Kaitlynsulli 2 года назад +1

    Gosh! I mean you are so inspiring! I have started a summer goals list bc of you and seeing you become a better person had given me so much motivation. Watching relationship with the lord and your motivation to talk to him is incredible.

  • @isabellaflecha1801
    @isabellaflecha1801 2 года назад +2

    i love the rain!! its makes me feel calm, and it makes me work better !!!

  • @katedillon1977
    @katedillon1977 2 года назад +4

    Currently loving this series! when i saw the first episode pop up in my notifications, i was skeptical because i'm a teenager, but i love seeing your growth and the advice you're giving! ty. also...love the container store, but the prices are ASTRONOMICAL; it's crazy.

  • @CC-ri1og
    @CC-ri1og 2 года назад +1

    i’m absolutely loving this series :)) i look forward to it every week and it’s kinda comforting because i’m trying to guide my self through my teens (i’m 17) and i’m scared for my 20s and adult years so yeah

  • @emmiedez
    @emmiedez 2 года назад

    I love sharing similar emotions with you Haley. I love how open and vulnerable you are ❤️

  • @mady1387
    @mady1387 2 года назад +2

    You’re literally so inspiring,I love your personality so much. It just brightens up my day when you post a video I love you!!🤍🤍

  • @abi196
    @abi196 2 года назад +1

    I really needed this video tbh, I’m at uni at the moment and I always study nonstop, but mainly procrastinate; so, I’m trying to find that balance of relaxation and efficient study. It feels really reassuring to know that it’s okay to rest because that is still just as productive.

  • @Joonphoric
    @Joonphoric 2 года назад +2

    this series is so good!! I have so similar things I've been experiencing lately and it's crazy how you can sometimes relate to people on internet so well!!

  • @cecimendoza2364
    @cecimendoza2364 2 года назад +3

    In love with your 20s series 💓 Makes me feel motivated about this crazy stage

  • @mackenzieadams2904
    @mackenzieadams2904 2 года назад +1

    your videos are so motivating! I love that you include your faith in your videos as well! 💞💞

  • @madalenapinto9845
    @madalenapinto9845 2 года назад

    I'm in love with this series, it's so good and refreshing, and also accurate, makes you feel good with yourself. Amazing work haley, keep going !!
    I can't wait to see more, very inspiring

  • @sabroonus
    @sabroonus 2 года назад

    loved to see how happy you were in this video!! this series is so inspiring to me, also in my 20‘s

  • @rosella1066
    @rosella1066 2 года назад

    Man! I am loving this series! I'm reading atomic habits too cause of you, also I got a whiteboard like right before you got one so I was like whoah, was this made for me! Thanks so much Haley! I think repeating some of these concepts would be good in the future, like literally repeat your videos at a different time in your life, that'd be great

  • @lauraparker2569
    @lauraparker2569 День назад

    10:35 OH MY GOSH I LOVE THAT BOOK. The beginning and middle were so good, but it kinda forced me to appreciate unhappy endings 😭

  • @aaizahtahir2108
    @aaizahtahir2108 2 года назад

    eeeeeee i've been loving these videos sooooo much,it feels like im hanging out with you and just ugh its amazing and makes me feel so happpy

  • @allison9517
    @allison9517 2 года назад +1

    i love to play ur videos in the background while im doing something i dont enjoy like cleaning, washing/folding clothes, or washing dishes but ur videos help me get motivated

  • @Beeboi.
    @Beeboi. 2 года назад +3

    I love this series :)
    Thank you for not pretending that everything went perfectly too

  • @444lomacdonald
    @444lomacdonald 2 года назад +1

    i love this series so much, it’s so comforting :)

  • @ashleytomco9734
    @ashleytomco9734 2 года назад +1

    haley!!! this new series has really been helping me lately! i just finished undergrad and didn't get the internship i applied for so i am lost and don't have a good routine down. it's so reassuring to see im not alone when i have an off day! 😊😌

  • @lydiawilkes6886
    @lydiawilkes6886 2 года назад

    i am OBSESSED with this series your editing is so freaking cool i love your videos so so much you're just so relatable and down to earth!!

  • @ashleylarocca5644
    @ashleylarocca5644 2 года назад

    I love this series and so happy for you 🫶 love you lots!! ❤️

  • @katmancilla5777
    @katmancilla5777 2 года назад

    I really needed this video today so I’m so happy that it popped up on my feed. Love your sweet soul!

  • @littlebitsarahjane
    @littlebitsarahjane 2 года назад +6

    You know is going to be a good day when Haley posts! 💕

  • @andreawolf3241
    @andreawolf3241 2 года назад

    Love your vibe girly, keep it up, being you. Your so motivational and inspiring. Love your energy, have a great year girly❤️🙌

  • @colette00
    @colette00 2 года назад

    This is my favorite one so far. Discipline is important but it’s also so important to listen to your bodies signals! Love this series and watching you grow and love ur life 💜

  • @s3rendip1ty_
    @s3rendip1ty_ 2 года назад +4

    Hey, I had stopped watching you about a year ago after watching you religiously for a while and this little video feels like such a reconnect, we're about the same age so the struggles of womanhood and transition to adulting are felt dearly. Thank you for sharing, love your style right now

  • @juliawatts5060
    @juliawatts5060 2 года назад +1

    HALEY I'M SO OBSESSED WITH THIS SERIES. so proud of u and love u so much

  • @kimberlypastuizaca1533
    @kimberlypastuizaca1533 2 года назад

    I love this series so much, it's so relatable and inspiring. Haley, you are doing amazing!!

  • @ambermarie5124
    @ambermarie5124 2 года назад +1

    This series is fully the highlight of my days! Ur doing so good love u💖

  • @fatima-qn2le
    @fatima-qn2le 2 года назад +2

    this series is literally the best thank you so much

  • @truthfromjames7411
    @truthfromjames7411 2 года назад

    Period keep going these changes are needed and have even been showing me how I could reach my full potential to

  • @valeriaromero1061
    @valeriaromero1061 2 года назад

    i watch every episode after my friday class and it makes me so happy for the rest of the day!! loving this series

  • @ckane2854
    @ckane2854 2 года назад

    Your channel is seriously so good both channels are great! Love your book videos too 😫

  • @Sam-ez4fs
    @Sam-ez4fs 2 года назад +13

    The series in my 20s is such a good series, that she’s made I am not in my 20s. But it has motivated me to do more than I usually do. ❤️❤️❤️

    • @khalilahd.
      @khalilahd. 2 года назад +2

      I’m in my 20’s and it has helped me so much 💛

    • @oliviaclairexo
      @oliviaclairexo 2 года назад +2

      that is so true !! i’m not in my twenties either but it’s a good lesson for anyone🧡🧡also i recently started my own channel if ya wanna check it out~~i just posted my room tour!! :)

    • @Sam-ez4fs
      @Sam-ez4fs 2 года назад +1

      @@oliviaclairexo you just earned a new sub and you’re so pretty ❤️❤️❤️

    • @Sam-ez4fs
      @Sam-ez4fs 2 года назад +1

      @@khalilahd. and you’re so pretty too

    • @nija2106
      @nija2106 2 года назад +1

      Same! Been spending less time cooped up in my room 😂

  • @Voven
    @Voven 2 года назад +1

    Hi Haley, this is the first vlog of yours I've watched as I mainly watch Ryan's videos that you're in, but I just wanna say it's really awesome seeing how mature you are for your age and of course seeing your ambition as well. Keep up the great work!

  • @maddyjohns4841
    @maddyjohns4841 Год назад

    every time I watch your videos I feel so cozy! you give gilmore girls marathon, and autumn energy

  • @jessicadvora2321
    @jessicadvora2321 2 года назад

    YOU ARE SUCH AN INSPIRATION. YOU DOING SO AMAZING AND ILYSMMMMMMM

  • @HaileyBlaser
    @HaileyBlaser 2 года назад

    I like the in my 20's video series. During this time I think everyone is going through so much transition that they feel lost. Whether you are married, just out of high school, or working at a job, I think at any state in your 20's you feel lost. Everyone is doing something different and you always feel behind even though, in reality, that's how everyone else is feeling. it's such a special time to grow and learn different hobbies that make you happy. I just went through this transition and felt very lost for a couple of years. I learned to love myself and found a lot of new hobbies like cooking/cleaning/reading/and crafting. It is cool being able to see someone go through this stage in life because you really feel connected and not alone. Your 20s are hard, thank you for sharing your journey!

  • @themedicdroidx10
    @themedicdroidx10 2 года назад

    Habit research and organizing in the same video. Loveeeee it. Thanks for keeping it real and encouraging stopping if you dont feel like it. I'm stupidly highly self motivated in a way that is not always healthy and I feel like this reprogrammed me a little in a good way. "Enjoying your life is probably the most productive thing you could do" really hit me so hard. That's going to stay with me j think.

  • @zeelywa
    @zeelywa 2 года назад

    Rain is my favourite weather tbh.
    I love how real you try to keep your videos. It shows us that nobody is perfect and I love it!

  • @sarahcastaneda3429
    @sarahcastaneda3429 2 года назад

    HALEY I FREAKIN LOVE YOU!!!! Ahhhh the encouragement you’re giving me!!! I’m so happy for you and I’m thankful for you sharing this journey with us!!! You’re amazing! And that fit with the socks and heels is SOO CUTE! And I have recently separated my clothes so now I have winter/fall clothes and Summer/spring clothes! It’s amazing! 💕💕💕

    • @oliviaclairexo
      @oliviaclairexo 2 года назад

      YESS 🤎🤎also i recently started my own channel if ya wanna check it out~~i just posted my room tour !! :))

  • @kvncrts
    @kvncrts 2 года назад +1

    loving this series!!

  • @berinahodzic8708
    @berinahodzic8708 2 года назад +1

    I completely relate to the laying on the floor thing! Especially when I'm sick or feelings bad and uncomfortable

  • @angelinarosario__
    @angelinarosario__ 2 года назад

    You have no idea how comforting this series is to me. Literally thank you soo much for all of this 🤍

  • @MariasNook
    @MariasNook 2 года назад +2

    I really like that you decided to show us this part of your week as well. Yes, rest is productive as well and I feel like that mindset has slipped away way too far from society these days... everyone thinks we have to work all day everyday and get a million things done every day in order to be productive. But no, that's just not true. Resting and recharging energy is just as productive. Thank you for reminding us (me including cause I do forget that from time to time) of that. Loved this video

  • @allierenee5545
    @allierenee5545 2 года назад +1

    These help me so much please don’t stop making them

  • @summerteitsma8872
    @summerteitsma8872 2 года назад

    This series has motivated me so much thanks haleyyy

  • @charrain22
    @charrain22 2 года назад

    I'm absolutely in love with this series! Thank you Haley for being so real, it helps so much

    • @oliviaclairexo
      @oliviaclairexo 2 года назад

      YESS🧡also i recently started my own channel if ya wanna check it out~~i just posted my room tour !! :))

  • @xerindavisx
    @xerindavisx 2 года назад

    idk how i only found you now, I'm obsessssssed with your editing, personality, music. wow. here to stay

  • @iz26storm
    @iz26storm 2 года назад

    I love this series, it motivates me to improve myself, THANK YOU ☺️☺️☺️

  • @edwardleecaliforniausa
    @edwardleecaliforniausa 2 года назад +2

    Good morning haley happy Friday morning and I just wanted to say that your vlogs makes me feel happy because every week I always catching up on your channel because you are sweetheart

  • @BeingTaegen
    @BeingTaegen 2 года назад +1

    Love this series-- I can totally relate to so much of what you've been doing and going through.
    RE the Atomic Habits concept you mentioned: I think the brain would have to jump through way more hoops if you're telling yourself that you're something that you're not. I do agree that an identity shift is what's needed in order to make big changes, but I think just repeating it in your mind will make you feel more disjointed.
    I've heard that it's effective to take small actions to prove to yourself that you can change. And those baby steps can then snowball into bigger wins that bring you closer to the kind of lifestyle you want. It's personally helped me a lot just to start on something small to build momentum. (Little wins motivate you to try for bigger wins)
    Then like you mentioned, not beating yourself up if you mess up or need a break.
    Finally, when you do achieve something, celebrate it! Enjoy the feeling of accomplishment, even if it seems small in comparison to what you think you "should" be able to do. A step in the right direction is a step in the right direction.
    Keep up the good work. Looking forward to the next vid 😊

  • @remsreads
    @remsreads 2 года назад

    Absolutely love this series!

  • @alixmonette4554
    @alixmonette4554 2 года назад +3

    I just turned 20 so this series is really gonna help me ! Haley my mentor 😎

  • @jaymeestahl
    @jaymeestahl 2 года назад +1

    i’m obsessed with Ryan’s keyboard😍 it sounded so nice!!

  • @sofiehoving_oos
    @sofiehoving_oos 2 года назад

    what helped me with my energy is gaining the confidence of my abilties back, im more confident that i am able to get stuff done and im not actually a failure, also i started seeing taking a break as productive, cause if you are hating yourself while you r resting and you think you should be doing something else you are not actually resting, and then when u are still tired after that you hate yourself even more.

  • @jaymeestahl
    @jaymeestahl 2 года назад +1

    i love laying on the floor so much!!

  • @mackenzie901k
    @mackenzie901k 2 года назад

    I’m loving this series so much!!!

  • @olivia_leigh1
    @olivia_leigh1 2 года назад +1

    i LOVE this series!!! it motivates me so much 💖🥰🫶🏻

    • @oliviaclairexo
      @oliviaclairexo 2 года назад

      hellooo name twin !! and right?!🤎🤎also i recently started my own channel if ya wanna check it out~~i just posted my room tour !! :))

  • @ckane2854
    @ckane2854 2 года назад

    This series >>>>>>>>>

  • @KylaMichelleC
    @KylaMichelleC 2 года назад +1

    THIS!! i need to remind myself a lot more that i need to rest and it is OKAY to not be doing something 24/7 but having that balance of discipline. i love this series so much

  • @marccolomayt82094
    @marccolomayt82094 2 года назад

    I always feel motivated while I'm watching this new vlog by Haley! 😍💖💖💖

  • @georgiam.3957
    @georgiam.3957 Год назад +1

    My body said no today so i didn't go to the gym but you know it's okay . It's better than getting worse . Also i have stomach problems almost everyday and i also work as a waitress so when you said you wanted to do nothing because of the discomfort,i literally felt that. Love you Haley 🖤

  • @jessicavega776
    @jessicavega776 2 года назад

    I really love ur videos, I love that u are so real🙌🏼

  • @mags1373
    @mags1373 2 года назад

    really loving this series

  • @hannahhood8956
    @hannahhood8956 2 года назад

    THIS SERIES IS SOOOO AMAZINGGG💗

  • @jettwashed
    @jettwashed 2 года назад +2

    not forcing yourself to do things is sometimes the biggest motivator in actually doing them

  • @lexidoesstuffsometimes
    @lexidoesstuffsometimes 2 года назад +1

    I LOVE this series. It’s like a vlog, but more. Love love love love love love love

    • @oliviaclairexo
      @oliviaclairexo 2 года назад

      i completely agree🧡also i recently started my own channel if ya wanna check it out~~i just posted my room tour !! :))

  • @shrii9442
    @shrii9442 2 года назад +1

    the thocc of ryan's keyboard is so satisfying

  • @irinaliu5218
    @irinaliu5218 2 года назад

    I’m so invested in this series!!

  • @bellareadsandvlogz
    @bellareadsandvlogz 2 года назад

    I look forward to this series ALL THE TIME

  • @creatingfineart
    @creatingfineart 2 года назад

    I think this is my favourite vid of this series yet 🤍

  • @toneless1
    @toneless1 2 года назад

    Dedication is everything, episode 5 came so quick.

  • @alliceson6464
    @alliceson6464 2 года назад +1

    Scrolling through RUclips seeing that Haley posted is exactly what I needed today.

  • @emilynelson1207
    @emilynelson1207 2 года назад

    something as simple as you showing a real, messy bathroom is so comforting idk how to explain it. i feel seen

  • @baileyhess735
    @baileyhess735 2 года назад

    Omg you are killing it!🤍

  • @isabella.ann11
    @isabella.ann11 2 года назад +1

    i love this series

    • @oliviaclairexo
      @oliviaclairexo 2 года назад

      love your pfp so much 🌻🤎also i recently started my own channel if ya wanna check it out~~i just posted my room tour !! :))

  • @noracomanda4973
    @noracomanda4973 2 года назад

    I loooooooove this series! Still encouraging me 😁

  • @_amiya
    @_amiya 2 года назад

    Literally my new comfort video 💞

  • @sillyzillyzally6
    @sillyzillyzally6 2 года назад

    Girl I enjoyed that so much 🥰

  • @karinstofferahn8811
    @karinstofferahn8811 2 года назад

    So wholesome, love it 🥰

  • @julianaroza7465
    @julianaroza7465 Год назад

    This video inspired me to actually fully get ready this morning thanks girl!

  • @katarinaczenczek4885
    @katarinaczenczek4885 2 года назад

    I LOVE THIS SERIES

  • @avadugal3073
    @avadugal3073 2 года назад

    Love love love this