If I ever decide to actively pursue an org I would come straight to your videos for some sound advice. You're always so thorough and articulate. You go girl!
What about getting a letter of rec from an active member of the opposing sorority in which you are showing interest. For example, having a mentor that’s a delta and showing interest in AKA..
I mean for some people, I guess it would be cool but just thinking of my process .. nah. Everyone I knew at that time that was an AKA wasn't financial so it wouldn't have been helpful for me and it's not like they could just be like "well I can get such and such to write it" lol then idk how they would have felt about having an undergrad member do it. Idk. I guess! Lol.
Shea Miller I wrote two letters of recommendations as an undergrad. And the active Delta could be from anywhere in the world. I was in Louisiana and wrote a letter for someone in TX and someone in Pittsburgh.
I personally feel that letters of recommendations aren't needed. You're trying to join an organization, not competing for a job. If anything, write a letter of intent for your interest in the organization, provide a resume and be yourself during the interview.
The letters of recommendation (usually 2) are required though along with a letter of interest lol. They're social organizations but still operate as businesses in some ways so I understand why they're required .. but I get you as well!
Adrienne Elle I respectfully disagree with your statement because my resume along with my personality speaks alot about my character. My resume alone, has have three NPHC fraternities interested in me for the upcoming Fall 2017.
Adrienne Elle And I speak from a person like myself who is an active alumni member of three Co-Ed Professional Fraternities which I have served on my executive boards as President for my Service Fraternity, Director of Intake for my Law Fraternity and Vice President for my Business Fraternity. And I also have brought in a line of twelve members so again, I respect what you're saying however, I respectfully disagree with what you're saying.
That was the HARDEST part lol I'm a researcher like no other so google was my best friend when I tried to do this. I just put "ways to write interest letter" or something like that in the search bar. I tend to overthink with things like that but those searches kind of helped me to put it together for the most part. You really want to tell your story with the interest letter .. like what got you here to having interest in THIS particular org. For example, when I was interested I participated in a lot of organizations but I noticed that once people graduated, it was just "over" and you had to make new bonds with people. It wasn't always the same because they didn't have ties to this "org" anymore now that they left. Experiences in sororities and fraternities are what you make it .. but they also seem to be more of a "forever" thing. You ALWAYS meet new members and there are ALWAYS new members coming in .. so that's what I mentioned with my story because it was my truth. Membership extends beyond these 1-4 years you'll be a member in undergrad. But, I would say that my biggest tip would be to really demonstrate your personal qualities to make you stand out, show the members why you would be a positive attribute to their org, and how you can bring these things to the org without seeming like you're "bragging" .. after all, the purpose of the letter is to really sell yourself. Then, go in to brief, but strong, detail to provide examples of how you use your strengths to your advantage. Try to avoid clichés like "I've always wanted to be in xyz org" if that's not really how you feel.
At my high school majority of staff was Greek. Meaning only one staff member is apart of the org I’m interested in, or their frat. Could an opposing org give me letter of recommendation?
I'm seeing that it may be different across orgs but to my understanding the graduate level process begins only after an active member agrees to "sponsor" the interest (kinda just taking them under their wing, agreeing to be a mentor) so I guess technically that's getting a "recommendation" from a member because they have to agree to sponsor you.
Thanks for this video:-) I was also wondering can you ask for a letter of recommendation from someone who's currently active in the chapter that you're applying to?
+Riley Cooper No problem! It depends on the org & what's mentioned on the application. For example with my organization, it has to be an active graduate member, not undergrad (assuming you are asking from an undergraduate standpoint) but for other organizations it may be allowed.
The organization I’m interested in has been inactive for years and now they’re coming back, but I don’t know any active members of the organization that would be willing to write me letter. No friends, no family, no leaders no one and I’m stressed out.
Don’t be stressed. You’ll likely have to take a little more initiative and show your face at functions, then ask if anyone would be able and/or willing to assist if a LOR from a member is required. Make something shake!
Hello Shea and thank you for all of your videos. My question is about letter of recommendation as a tranfer student. The organization I desire to pursue needs a letter of recommendation from a college/university professor or official. Would it be ok if I gotten a letter of recommendation from my professor at my previous Intuition? Or would it be better if it was at my current school? Thanks for your help and advice in advance!!
I've been very interested in joining a org. and I've been hearing rumors that the chapter I want to join is suspended. How do I find out for sure without being so obvious? By the way lovvvvveeee your videos ☺️
Thank you Shianne! But check with the on campus greek life coordinator for sure. In most (if not all) instances, they will know whether or not the chapter is suspended officially or if they're just not having processes.
Also, depending on the organization, some have their suspended chapters and members listed directly on their public website. You can try there as well.
My mom is in an organization, AKA to be exact but she is no longer active. Would it be smart to have her as a backup, after my managers and professors?
If I ever decide to actively pursue an org I would come straight to your videos for some sound advice. You're always so thorough and articulate. You go girl!
Thank you so much!
What about getting a letter of rec from an active member of the opposing sorority in which you are showing interest. For example, having a mentor that’s a delta and showing interest in AKA..
I love the advice you give soror 💗💚 You keep it 100 but are conscientious about discretion as well. Skee Wee!
+EmpireOnEighteenth thank you Soror! 💕💚
For Delta you will be REQUIRED to have one letter of recommendation from an active member.
+Adrienne Elle geeesh smh.
I think it's a great thing!
I mean for some people, I guess it would be cool but just thinking of my process .. nah. Everyone I knew at that time that was an AKA wasn't financial so it wouldn't have been helpful for me and it's not like they could just be like "well I can get such and such to write it" lol then idk how they would have felt about having an undergrad member do it. Idk. I guess! Lol.
Shea Miller I wrote two letters of recommendations as an undergrad. And the active Delta could be from anywhere in the world. I was in Louisiana and wrote a letter for someone in TX and someone in Pittsburgh.
I also think if you can't find someone that is financially active vouch for you, then really, what have you been doing lol.
This depends on your organization. My fraternity requires both of your letters come from a member of the chapter you are looking to join.
Both from the chapter? LAWD.
I personally feel that letters of recommendations aren't needed. You're trying to join an organization, not competing for a job. If anything, write a letter of intent for your interest in the organization, provide a resume and be yourself during the interview.
The letters of recommendation (usually 2) are required though along with a letter of interest lol. They're social organizations but still operate as businesses in some ways so I understand why they're required .. but I get you as well!
If you can't have people speak to your character, then that is a problem.
Adrienne Elle I respectfully disagree with your statement because my resume along with my personality speaks alot about my character. My resume alone, has have three NPHC fraternities interested in me for the upcoming Fall 2017.
pitbull4christ I disagree with the letters of recommendations not being needed, and I speak from having been over bringing a line in.
Adrienne Elle And I speak from a person like myself who is an active alumni member of three Co-Ed Professional Fraternities which I have served on my executive boards as President for my Service Fraternity, Director of Intake for my Law Fraternity and Vice President for my Business Fraternity. And I also have brought in a line of twelve members so again, I respect what you're saying however, I respectfully disagree with what you're saying.
What are your thoughts/ tips about writing your interest letter?
That was the HARDEST part lol I'm a researcher like no other so google was my best friend when I tried to do this. I just put "ways to write interest letter" or something like that in the search bar. I tend to overthink with things like that but those searches kind of helped me to put it together for the most part.
You really want to tell your story with the interest letter .. like what got you here to having interest in THIS particular org. For example, when I was interested I participated in a lot of organizations but I noticed that once people graduated, it was just "over" and you had to make new bonds with people. It wasn't always the same because they didn't have ties to this "org" anymore now that they left. Experiences in sororities and fraternities are what you make it .. but they also seem to be more of a "forever" thing. You ALWAYS meet new members and there are ALWAYS new members coming in .. so that's what I mentioned with my story because it was my truth. Membership extends beyond these 1-4 years you'll be a member in undergrad.
But, I would say that my biggest tip would be to really demonstrate your personal qualities to make you stand out, show the members why you would be a positive attribute to their org, and how you can bring these things to the org without seeming like you're "bragging" .. after all, the purpose of the letter is to really sell yourself. Then, go in to brief, but strong, detail to provide examples of how you use your strengths to your advantage. Try to avoid clichés like "I've always wanted to be in xyz org" if that's not really how you feel.
I would love to see your probate video, or any step shows you've been in! BTW Love your videos!
I have a storytime about this step show I did last month coming soon lol! I'll include clips.
Yay! Can't wait!!
Deltas require an active member to write your letter of recommendation.
At my high school majority of staff was Greek. Meaning only one staff member is apart of the org I’m interested in, or their frat. Could an opposing org give me letter of recommendation?
This helped me a great deal! Is it same (as far a recommendations) if you are pursuing membership at the graduate level?
I'm seeing that it may be different across orgs but to my understanding the graduate level process begins only after an active member agrees to "sponsor" the interest (kinda just taking them under their wing, agreeing to be a mentor) so I guess technically that's getting a "recommendation" from a member because they have to agree to sponsor you.
Ok. That defiantly helps me to better understand what I will need. I also read your comment on interest letters and you gave some great advice!
Ms. Morgan Alicia you still need letters for grad. My sponsor and both co-sponsors wrote my letters 😊 good luck in your journey!
Thanks! :-)
Sponsors??? What?
Can you have a letter from a member of another D9 .org?
Yes!
Thanks for this video:-) I was also wondering can you ask for a letter of recommendation from someone who's currently active in the chapter that you're applying to?
+Riley Cooper No problem! It depends on the org & what's mentioned on the application. For example with my organization, it has to be an active graduate member, not undergrad (assuming you are asking from an undergraduate standpoint) but for other organizations it may be allowed.
Yes, if you are seeking membership in Delta Sigma Theta
The organization I’m interested in has been inactive for years and now they’re coming back, but I don’t know any active members of the organization that would be willing to write me letter. No friends, no family, no leaders no one and I’m stressed out.
Don’t be stressed. You’ll likely have to take a little more initiative and show your face at functions, then ask if anyone would be able and/or willing to assist if a LOR from a member is required. Make something shake!
Hello Shea and thank you for all of your videos. My question is about letter of recommendation as a tranfer student. The organization I desire to pursue needs a letter of recommendation from a college/university professor or official. Would it be ok if I gotten a letter of recommendation from my professor at my previous Intuition? Or would it be better if it was at my current school? Thanks for your help and advice in advance!!
In my eyes, you'd be fine with any professor. A professor is a professor lol.
UNLESS they explicitly state "from current institution"
I've been very interested in joining a org. and I've been hearing rumors that the chapter I want to join is suspended. How do I find out for sure without being so obvious? By the way lovvvvveeee your videos ☺️
Thank you Shianne! But check with the on campus greek life coordinator for sure. In most (if not all) instances, they will know whether or not the chapter is suspended officially or if they're just not having processes.
Shea Miller thank you 😊!!
Also, depending on the organization, some have their suspended chapters and members listed directly on their public website. You can try there as well.
Thanks for sharing this dear ❤❤
Thank you for watching!
My mom is in an organization, AKA to be exact but she is no longer active. Would it be smart to have her as a backup, after my managers and professors?