start doing more of what you love & less of what you don't | 30 days of creativity challenge

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  • Опубликовано: 28 окт 2024

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  • @SamElle
    @SamElle 3 года назад +306

    i feel like ive constantly done what other people want from me that I've lost sight of what I actually enjoy doing. I've been just doing what my parents want me to do and I'm still trying to find myself!

    • @rowena
      @rowena  3 года назад +37

      sending you the biggest virtual hug Sam 💕 just the fact that you're aware is reason alone to celebrate. as cliche as it may sound, awareness really is the first step to anything and everything :') for as daunting of a realization as it may be, it can also be incredibly exciting & freeing 🌻

    • @iolandatesta7748
      @iolandatesta7748 3 года назад +9

      🙋 i relate a lot. Now that i've started doing what i love, my parents support me anyway though. Hope yours do too

    • @stargirl22219
      @stargirl22219 3 года назад +3

      So relatable!! And then when I get actual free time (usually late night) I spend it on scrolling social media or sleeping 🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @SamElle
      @SamElle 3 года назад +4

      @@iolandatesta7748 yes, my parents do support me and I'm grateful for that but I'm still scared that they will get mad or disappointed at me idk

    • @SamElle
      @SamElle 3 года назад +2

      @@stargirl22219 that is literally me, scrolling right before bed hahaha

  • @brittanymiranda5008
    @brittanymiranda5008 3 года назад +254

    I've definitely spent too much of my free time thinking about how I could have made the day more productive and feeling like I don't deserve to have my free time for myself. So, I end up spending too much time on social media and not doing the things I enjoy. I guess that would be called self sabotage? IDK but, this video def helped me in realizing that my problem probably stems from not organizing my time better (a probably a drop of ADHD), so thank you!!!

    • @rowena
      @rowena  3 года назад +30

      same girl, same 😅 I'm always like "duuude you could've spent the past 30min you spent scrolling on the phone doing something you actually want to do like reading.. why don't you??" to myself baha and *proceeds to continue scrolling on phone*

  • @sacdaabdurhman
    @sacdaabdurhman 3 года назад +12

    “You cannot be protected from the things that frighten you and hurt you, but if you identify with part of your being that is responsible for transformation, then you are always equal or more than equal of the things that frighten you”
    Keep you head up 💜

  • @XxxTinyTrintiyxxX
    @XxxTinyTrintiyxxX 3 года назад +88

    wow this was perfect timing for me. just last night i was thinking about how i end up doubting my decisions once i hear someone else’s input, how i survey everyone in my life on what i should do, and how i ultimately struggle to know what i really want. thank you so much!

    • @rowena
      @rowena  3 года назад +7

      super cheez, but we truly all have the answers we're seeking within 😀✨

  • @rachgeorgia9993
    @rachgeorgia9993 3 года назад +18

    I've started to get a home chef come to my house to cook meals. The time I save not having to go grocery shopping, prep, cook and clean up means I have so much more time to spend on the things I love. It can be a bit pricey but I weighed it up and it's worth it for me. Also I find cooking such a chore, I don't enjoy it at all so it takes away that feeling of having a burden to complete.

  • @wachithepotato1985
    @wachithepotato1985 3 года назад +5

    Sorry but amazing content and message aside... The part of the video where you kidnapped Fel was so good I kept smiling like an idiot and laughing. Really cheers me up and makes me feel better whilst I'm slowly burning out from studying for my final year of uni. Love you content!!! So aspirational, totally friendship goals.

  • @mariemeba3160
    @mariemeba3160 3 года назад +35

    How do you manage to always make videos I need the most? Your timing is always on point! 🥺😆

    • @rowena
      @rowena  3 года назад +9

      hehe I gotchuu! also feel like we're all collectively "going through it" together

  • @ft.jackjimmy7282
    @ft.jackjimmy7282 3 года назад +11

    I feel like my busy schedule is due to me always feeling not enough and impatient to achieve things. I feel like I'm always behind on things and not accelerate on things fast enough but overworking myself always made me even slower. Still trying to find the best method to learn things and do things more effectively without ending up with me hating my progress or my results.

    • @rowena
      @rowena  3 года назад +3

      my loveee, you're enough as you 😌 the world may try to tell you otherwise but you're exactly where you need to be right now to learn the lessons you need to learn so that you can continue to grow and be your amazing self 💕

  • @rootedro
    @rootedro 3 года назад +16

    Yesss Love this topic!
    I think the first step to finding fulfillment is knowing yourself on a deep level. Tuning into your heart to really know what lights it up ✨💖

    • @rowena
      @rowena  3 года назад +1

      yes yes & yes 🙏💕

  • @thesensiblefay
    @thesensiblefay 3 года назад +2

    This came at the perfect time. I've been asking myself this for the past month and have set aside August to take time to rest and recenter. I think one of the hardest parts is really honing in on WHAT it is that you love. When you spend so much time working for other people and have gotten into that habit of working just to numb out the hard questions, it's hard to slow down enough to really reexamine your personal passions and hobbies.

  • @jameshizon4861
    @jameshizon4861 3 года назад +2

    Walks increase creative output by 60%. Need to keep that mindset by scheduling at least 30 mins. daily.

  • @frauthefangirl6518
    @frauthefangirl6518 3 года назад +2

    I just watched this and THAT BEAST BEAUTIFUL NIGHT PLAYING IN THE CAR RIDE IS LIFE

  • @shivangigusain24
    @shivangigusain24 3 года назад +1

    Rowena, thanks for being you.
    🌸🍀

  • @elsa3069
    @elsa3069 3 года назад +9

    thank-you for providing all this guidance and positive energy during these past few years, it’s really helped me so much 🥰✨

    • @rowena
      @rowena  3 года назад +1

      :') sending my love Elsa!

  • @amcgee0668
    @amcgee0668 3 года назад +1

    ... Yes to the simple things in, and about life-Gratitude🌼

  • @oa164
    @oa164 3 года назад +8

    * love how comfortable and honest you are in this. Feels like you're friends with us irl. lol *

  • @Natallz
    @Natallz 3 года назад +1

    Perfect timing, I have a free day today and don’t know what to do

  • @alonemusk27
    @alonemusk27 3 года назад +5

    You literally bring out the best in me , you're a blessing and I'm grateful that I have access to your videos . Love you forever ❤️🥺

    • @rowena
      @rowena  3 года назад +2

      😭😭 grateful for you just the same Muskan!

    • @alonemusk27
      @alonemusk27 3 года назад +1

      @@rowena I can't control my happiness , omg 😭 ily

  • @izuzuchan
    @izuzuchan 3 года назад +1

    Ahh I love living in upstate NY so much and I’m so glad you guys had a great time! This video was so great to watch as being creative is something I’ve been working on for the last few weeks. I also took your advice from another vid and started doing more things in silence/focusing on one thing at a time when I’m doing creative stuff and WOW what an amazing difference and change it’s been! Can’t wait for your next video! ✨✨Sending much love and good vibes 💖💖

  • @nataliedube1665
    @nataliedube1665 3 года назад +3

    Could you do a video on making decisions for yourself? Sometimes I’m not sure if I’m just doing things for myself for for my family or my friends. Also I love your content it’s very inspiring!

  • @naddyn685
    @naddyn685 3 года назад +4

    So glad you posted 🥳. Crazy kidnapping and I laughed so much! Loved those pretty balloons too 🌸🇬🇧

    • @rowena
      @rowena  3 года назад

      hehehe sending love Naddy! 💕

  • @Sunshine-yk2eg
    @Sunshine-yk2eg 3 года назад +10

    I so stan Ro and Felicia's friendship!! They're so on the same wavelength, its like they share the same braincell sometimes lol

  • @sqibls6040
    @sqibls6040 3 года назад

    great timing for me. I honestly feel like as a person, I don't have a huge range of things I'm extremely passionate about? It's probably from comparison because I feel like everyone else has all these amazing hobbies and I dont. After this video I'm going to make myself focus on knowing myself more :)

  • @mymomantailife4790
    @mymomantailife4790 3 года назад

    Omg my post appeared on the video! A very happy surprise! Can't wait for the meetup!!!! ♥♥♥ Lots of love!

  • @harpergreen6455
    @harpergreen6455 3 года назад +2

    Your videos are so calming I love them!!!

    • @rowena
      @rowena  3 года назад

      thank you!! :')

  • @Vic-gz1ht
    @Vic-gz1ht 3 года назад +3

    This is coming to me at the perfect time thank you for this 💚

    • @rowena
      @rowena  3 года назад +1

      sending you so much love Victoria! 💘

  • @Emily-yf3go
    @Emily-yf3go 3 года назад +1

    What I run into is just being so tired after my 9-5 that I don’t have any creativity left to do what I’d actually like to do

  • @aryaim8171
    @aryaim8171 3 года назад +11

    I see Ro's video, I clickkkkk!!❤️❤️❤️
    No matter where I am, what I am doing.
    PS. This is also an example of doing more of what I love UwU

    • @rowena
      @rowena  3 года назад +1

      hehe SENDING YOU LOVE ARYA 💕

  • @PetDKK
    @PetDKK 3 года назад +1

    This is one of my favorite videos from you ❤️❤️🌸🌸

  • @mkjwow
    @mkjwow 3 года назад +5

    You are SUCH a motivation, my unofficial older sister frfr❤️

    • @rowena
      @rowena  3 года назад +3

      my official little sister 💕 LOVE U

    • @mkjwow
      @mkjwow 3 года назад

      Please 🥺 day made

  • @seigiaiko9340
    @seigiaiko9340 3 года назад +1

    6:55 good taste in music

  • @ms.darecee1029
    @ms.darecee1029 3 года назад +2

    Rowena: Hello sweetest potatoes
    RUclips auto-caption: hello Swedish potatoes

  • @rajshreepardeshi_
    @rajshreepardeshi_ 3 года назад +1

    Awwww, OMG, Thank you soo much for this beautiful video, My Lovee !! I really needed this babe !! I ABSOLUTELY LOVE THISS AND I LOVE YOU SOO MUCH MY ANGELL !! SENDING YOU LOADS OF LOVEE, BLESSINGS, POSITIVE ENERGY AND BIGG HUGSS !! MAY GOD BLESS YOU SOO ABUNDANTLY MY LOVEE !! ❤️❤️❤️🦋

    • @rowena
      @rowena  3 года назад +1

      ACCEPTING ALL THE LOVE & SENDING MORE BACK hehe

  • @riadonitamalonzo2928
    @riadonitamalonzo2928 3 года назад +1

    i super love your channel.. always looking for your videos whenever i feel down.. greetings from the Philippines 🇵🇭😊💜🤍❤️

  • @octoberrosesaxon8818
    @octoberrosesaxon8818 2 года назад

    This is so helpful thank you!!🤍🙏🏽🌈

  • @WiredSims
    @WiredSims 3 года назад

    Yessss ❤ My ex was constantly irritated that I set boundaries so I could have my time to do me

    • @rowena
      @rowena  3 года назад +1

      have all the time you need to do you booboo!!! proud of you for setting boundaries and taking care of yourself 💕

  • @soksokhunbopha6205
    @soksokhunbopha6205 3 года назад

    I will start my challenge from now

  • @rominacaceres6573
    @rominacaceres6573 3 года назад +1

    thanks rowena, you're an angel ♡

    • @rowena
      @rowena  3 года назад +1

      :') sending my love Romina~

  • @petitsjoujoux5011
    @petitsjoujoux5011 3 года назад

    Oh I live for these kinds of videos from Rowena :) Thank you for another inspiring video!

  • @shadhaebadhy1146
    @shadhaebadhy1146 3 года назад +2

    My life is less messy with you ro ❤️. You'll always be my big sisssyyy 🥺🥺😘😘

    • @rowena
      @rowena  3 года назад +1

      we be less meshyy together 💘 LOVE U LIL SIS

  • @hannahnguyen533
    @hannahnguyen533 3 года назад +5

    this was much needed!! btw love your top at 5:58. i need more smart casual shirts to wear to work and i’m struggling to stay stylish haha

    • @rowena
      @rowena  3 года назад +1

      it's from free people!! let me link it :)

    • @hannahnguyen533
      @hannahnguyen533 3 года назад

      @@rowena eep thank you! :)

  • @arbbarbasa1352
    @arbbarbasa1352 3 года назад

    Thank you.💚

  • @daily_hee_5
    @daily_hee_5 3 года назад

    I will join this 30-mins challenge! Hope to film all the processes as well

    • @rowena
      @rowena  3 года назад

      see you in Vibely hehe

  • @mbuivids
    @mbuivids 3 года назад

    I like how she slows down her speech for every

  • @CrystleSky
    @CrystleSky 3 года назад +1

    Your amazing ✨🐎✨✨

  • @LaDashhh
    @LaDashhh 3 года назад

    BEAST playing in the background hyped me up so much. ahhhh.

    • @rowena
      @rowena  3 года назад +1

      the OGs 😉

    • @LaDashhh
      @LaDashhh 3 года назад

      classic kpop 🤌🏾

  • @OdalmyRuiz
    @OdalmyRuiz 3 года назад

    Another amazing video, thank you for reminding us to stay grounded💕

    • @rowena
      @rowena  3 года назад +1

      always 💕 hope you're doing SWIMMINGLY Odalmy!

  • @amanda_bliss
    @amanda_bliss 3 года назад +1

    This was a great video❤️❤️I love ur personality and ur editing is on point

    • @rowena
      @rowena  3 года назад

      😜 thanks so much Amanda!!

  • @tarikzaki5442
    @tarikzaki5442 3 года назад +1

    i really like the chrome theme that you're using, what's it's name

  • @manasisingh6463
    @manasisingh6463 3 года назад +1

    I love fel ❤️

  • @awrad8078
    @awrad8078 3 года назад +1

    Can someone please tell me why did they face away when they started drinking? Is it a tradition or a cultural thing?

  • @joymae
    @joymae 3 года назад

    Can we please talk about how hard it is when there is a creative block!!!!

  • @violetnympth7083
    @violetnympth7083 2 года назад

    I’m about to turn 27 and i feel like i don’t even know where to begin and feeling like its too late to get where I wanna go

  • @notrlystudying
    @notrlystudying 3 года назад +1

    ok row we need to know where you got that linen top 😭

  • @joshshortt9599
    @joshshortt9599 3 года назад

    "I dun trust you."
    Her Peter tingle knew something was wrong.

  • @janeyy2300
    @janeyy2300 3 года назад

    may i know what chrome theme you use? the notebook layout on your computer😊

  • @fireflieswishes
    @fireflieswishes 3 года назад

    How did you read my mind your videos have helped me so much

    • @rowena
      @rowena  3 года назад

      🤭🧠⚡️💡 brain sync hehe

  • @LoreanneFeliz
    @LoreanneFeliz 3 года назад +1

    6:55 When you recognize the song in the background :')

    • @rowena
      @rowena  3 года назад

      hehe Fel's choice!

  • @Соня-ж7й3ф
    @Соня-ж7й3ф 3 года назад

    I really like your videos keep going!❤❤

    • @rowena
      @rowena  3 года назад +1

      thanks Sara :') will do!! 💕

  • @bonithechubbypotato5100
    @bonithechubbypotato5100 3 года назад +1

    Eeeee thank you :DDD

    • @rowena
      @rowena  3 года назад +1

      thank YOU!! 💕

  • @janinekaidecastro5493
    @janinekaidecastro5493 3 года назад

    Thank you ro!

    • @rowena
      @rowena  3 года назад +1

      thanks for being here Janine 🥰

  • @eeeee4515
    @eeeee4515 3 года назад

    wait a minute……. b2st-beautiful night 💕💕💕

  • @darkacademia9667
    @darkacademia9667 2 года назад

    This video is so cute.

  • @flyhyland
    @flyhyland 3 года назад +1

    I'm 23 and been isolated for years. There's no hope for me lmao.

    • @lenula1
      @lenula1 3 года назад +1

      Your life is just starting, no worries :) you have plenty of time to figure things out.

    • @flyhyland
      @flyhyland 3 года назад +1

      @@lenula1 Everyone always says that but eventually it's too late.

    • @rowena
      @rowena  3 года назад +1

      @@flyhyland it's never too late friend 🙏 I know it's going to sound cliche but the very fact that we're still living and breathing.. that alone is precious and reason enough for us to at least try to do what we want to do and be the person we want to be. :')

    • @flyhyland
      @flyhyland 3 года назад +1

      @@rowena Perhaps, but I think it's possible to get too screwed up that something always stops you when you try. Thank you replying though! I liked the video.

  • @anianguyen
    @anianguyen 3 года назад

    What is this matcha drink?? :)

  • @zebakhan3376
    @zebakhan3376 3 года назад

    Hi ro, I missed you so much....

    • @rowena
      @rowena  3 года назад

      hehe I'm here I'm here! 💘 sending you love Zeba!

  • @misamin1494
    @misamin1494 3 года назад

    I just wanna be In nature

  • @paulinesaludo7388
    @paulinesaludo7388 3 года назад

    Heeeey mama tsaaai

    • @rowena
      @rowena  3 года назад

      halloooos Pauline 🙃

  • @Michelleissoaawesome
    @Michelleissoaawesome 3 года назад

    early potato here 😍

    • @rowena
      @rowena  3 года назад +1

      the earliest potato 🥲💕

  • @wen1803
    @wen1803 3 года назад

    is that
    coffeeteaandjane JANE?

  • @annikamariyabiju3292
    @annikamariyabiju3292 3 года назад

    I am Early Gurl 💜

    • @rowena
      @rowena  3 года назад

      GRATEFUL 💘

  • @Artistminded
    @Artistminded 3 года назад

    It’s like corona is only for us …. You can go on a trip and have fun with friends and we can die…..

  • @rachelsan94
    @rachelsan94 3 года назад

    I feel like these tips are nice but only for people in privileged positions. They’re not applicable to all of human kind. Happiness should be more than that. It should be something deeper and more meaningful

    • @naomirayo3870
      @naomirayo3870 3 года назад

      Getting fresh air applies to most people in my opinion.