HOW TO ACTUALLY HAVE FUN ALONE IN YOUR 20s 💌 dating in nyc, self love & making friends

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  • @mayabeatriz
    @mayabeatriz  9 месяцев назад +39

    Happy 2024 besties! 💌 What are some of your favorite things to do alone?

    • @es_Akosua
      @es_Akosua 9 месяцев назад +5

      Going to the bookstore

    • @mayabeatriz
      @mayabeatriz  9 месяцев назад +1

      sameee@@es_Akosua

    • @OliviaLorraine
      @OliviaLorraine 9 месяцев назад +4

      I just started doing solo dates and watching you is definitely helping , although I do still get anxiety a little, i started going to sit down to eat in little places like cava or chipotle, haven’t done big restaurants yet!

    • @iamtoniiman
      @iamtoniiman 9 месяцев назад +3

      I like going shopping alone or trying new food spots by myself. The options can be so overwhelming sometimes and I find it much more enjoyable when I can take my time and figure out what I like without worrying about how that might affect someone who’s with me🙃

    • @honeyb3734
      @honeyb3734 9 месяцев назад +1

      definitely hiking & movies!

  • @nameless2485
    @nameless2485 9 месяцев назад +34

    Being socially awkward and having social anxiety is so real. That is me on a daily basis. I can't function when I'm around a lot of people it's bad.

  • @aidaa_g
    @aidaa_g 9 месяцев назад +82

    currently sitting in a airport ready to go abroad to study for a WHOLE semester in a new country and Maya uploads this???! OH THIS IS A SIGN

    • @mayabeatriz
      @mayabeatriz  9 месяцев назад +11

      omgggg thats so exciting! What country are you going to?

    • @aidaa_g
      @aidaa_g 9 месяцев назад +10

      @@mayabeatriz i’m going to the UAE 🇦🇪 !

    • @terri-lynnowens3760
      @terri-lynnowens3760 9 месяцев назад

      @@aidaa_ghave fun sweet and be safe ❤️ learn a lot and make tons of memories

  • @clover.4lol
    @clover.4lol 9 месяцев назад +55

    the segment where you explained your anxiety is literally me😭. I am always anxious about EVERYTHING 🧍🏾‍♀️.

  • @dana.c201
    @dana.c201 9 месяцев назад +51

    I just wanna say that I totally relate 😌 I also live in nyc and I think the pandemic left me with this isolated mindset, so now I’m trying to unlearn that and get out of my comfort zone😓but this was everything I needed to hear and I’m glad I’m not alone❤ love your videos and hope to meet you one day

  • @serena_bee
    @serena_bee 9 месяцев назад +22

    Hey Maya, good to see you!
    It’s a new Roman year and a new day ☺️❤️
    Maya: how to spend time alone
    Me: how to spend time with Maya and fed a bit of joy

  • @iamtoniiman
    @iamtoniiman 9 месяцев назад +6

    the texting thing is soooo relatable 😂

  • @elisenicole3713
    @elisenicole3713 8 месяцев назад +4

    Literally you and me are the same when it comes to doing stuff alone. Like I can do it but it takes some time to do it 🥲. I’m planning to actually take a solo birthday trip to New York in July and this video is definitely a sign that I’m not alone in the feeling of doing stuff alone. Ugh I appreciate you posting this so much, so relatable 😭💗

  • @KayGee_yt
    @KayGee_yt 9 месяцев назад +18

    You and marvel movies alone is me and art galleries alone. I CAN go to galleries with others but it hits completely different by myself. Get dressed up and be beautiful while looking at some beautiful work and romanticizing my existence 😌😌😌

    • @mayabeatriz
      @mayabeatriz  9 месяцев назад

      omg yess that sounds like a vibe!

  • @abs-olutely
    @abs-olutely 9 месяцев назад +1

    Btw chunky loafers are a good option if you’re going for a less casual look and don’t want to wear heels❤️

  • @BriMechell
    @BriMechell 9 месяцев назад +17

    Also! When going to parties or like networking events by yourself, it is definitely daunting. I would recommend of course knowing as much as you can going in, and IMMEDIATELY just going up to someone that looks kind and safe and start talking. Be honest with them like “hey, this is my first time here. Mind if I hang with you?” It’s awkward and scary, yes, but it really takes some of the edge off.

  • @BriMechell
    @BriMechell 9 месяцев назад +21

    This is such great advice!!! I do the same thing! If I’m going to the movies, a basketball game, a cafe, etc. by myself, I look up parking, what I am going to order, but my tickets in advance, everything. The key to successfully going out alone is to remove any factor that will cause disruption and/or anxiety!! And live your best life!

  • @B_Lovely21
    @B_Lovely21 9 месяцев назад +2

    Wakanda Forever!! ✨️

  • @JimiSunsets
    @JimiSunsets 9 месяцев назад +9

    gurlllll the momment you said the text back rant i literally screamed cuz this is MEEE! my brain isnt wired for txts so as i gre older i realised i require phone calls/facetime as it wont be something i can avoid, i struggle to date also cuz i'm not a texter and guys loose interest quick BUTTTTT you will find men who also hate it and also prefer different modes of communication. its not something i could changeover night but i've gotten better like setting reminders to reply to text a couple times a day etc...

  • @eltonarthur1233
    @eltonarthur1233 9 месяцев назад +5

    Learn yourself:
    Your hobbies
    What you love
    What you hate
    What you want to do
    What you will never do
    What would bring you joy
    Know your hobbies.
    Find things you always wanted to do/accomplish.

  • @yuhhha9206
    @yuhhha9206 9 месяцев назад +8

    maya i feel you need a new concealer that actually suites your undertone because the one you use is giving a bit too yellow(just a tip, i feel ur undertone is a neutral one)

    • @sosexymagazinerobinwatkins8467
      @sosexymagazinerobinwatkins8467 9 месяцев назад +1

      Hmmmm, I feel that her color correction shade helps to bring in the red. They marry well imo😊

    • @ifrahdb
      @ifrahdb 9 месяцев назад

      yes agreed, not in a rude way but just think a neutral tone would suit better 😊

  • @graciefelichio4508
    @graciefelichio4508 8 месяцев назад

    WAKANDA FOREVER!!!❤

  • @itsinininii
    @itsinininii 9 месяцев назад +2

    OMG another content from you

  • @zakiyasmith757
    @zakiyasmith757 9 месяцев назад +3

    Yay!!! Love to see it🤗
    Thanks Maya❤

  • @natasha7406
    @natasha7406 9 месяцев назад +10

    Yayyyyyy!! I’m always excited when you post. 💗💗💗This video was definitely needed because I just turned 20 last year, and it has been hard to find friends and learning how to do stuff alone in nyc. I be feeling so lost.🤣

    • @mayabeatriz
      @mayabeatriz  9 месяцев назад +6

      I'm here to help bestie 😂 we're gonna get through these 20's together lol!

  • @Xio227
    @Xio227 6 месяцев назад

    Wakanda Forever🖤

  • @MoyosoreOgunsola
    @MoyosoreOgunsola 9 месяцев назад

    Happy new year everyone ❤

  • @mayashantal4634
    @mayashantal4634 9 месяцев назад +7

    OMG OMG, I thought we werent getting another vlog until sunday, this is perfect timing!!!

  • @VibrantPeace
    @VibrantPeace 9 месяцев назад +2

    This video sounds like you are telling my life story 😂😂😂 I go out places alone but not places where I need to talk to other people unless they are serving me 😂😂!! Going to a club or party alone yeah I don’t know about that either !

  • @PhebeAmpofo
    @PhebeAmpofo 9 месяцев назад +4

    I loved that vlog so much, I’m actually going to movies tomorrow by myself, I’m really excited !!🥰

  • @KaylaDianaaaa
    @KaylaDianaaaa 9 месяцев назад +1

    What were your original thoughts on Thanos and now that your perspective has changed for killmonger has it also changed for thanos as well?

  • @beawco4383
    @beawco4383 9 месяцев назад +3

    Thank you for posting this vlog. I am old enough to be your grandmother but I always enjoy your content. The period after the holidays is devoid of new YT content from most of the creators I follow. You solidified my intention to spend more time enjoying the cultural offerings of my city. Covid almost turned me into a hermit.

  • @dasialyday
    @dasialyday 9 месяцев назад +1

    Heavy on getting party available friends. Like I can do a lot of other stuff alone. But parties alone is a whole other beast. Imma try one tho. I gotta test it out at a bushwick party.

  • @genevafrancois4245
    @genevafrancois4245 9 месяцев назад +2

    Listen!! I can relate doing something on my own to avoid Human Error. I was not playin about Wakanda Forever, Avatar, Little Mermaid or Across the Universe. I had my seat locked and plans set. We go can together another friend lol

  • @gabriellaalabre5636
    @gabriellaalabre5636 9 месяцев назад +1

    i’ve never resonated with a person/ video so much 🥺♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @jaimeroyalty
    @jaimeroyalty 9 месяцев назад +2

    lol wakanda foreva

  • @jhonnidixon
    @jhonnidixon 9 месяцев назад +1

    Omg I also went to see NY Philharmonic Black Panther on the 20th!! I absolutely loved it, it was so sick. Totally with you on the marvel fan b4 Endgame.

  • @kyvtana
    @kyvtana 9 месяцев назад +1

    hey maya HAPPY NEW YEARRRR🥳 also where did you get your trench from?

  • @kabeisha7664
    @kabeisha7664 4 месяца назад

    The Hinge segment was so real. That was literally me tryna convince myself that Tinder would be a good idea. But hey, at least we tried it and can say i did in fact put myself out there😭

  • @reesefrancis9796
    @reesefrancis9796 9 месяцев назад +2

    Wakanda forever friend❤

  • @dajuannak
    @dajuannak 9 месяцев назад +3

    hey maya! wasn’t expecting another video so soon but thank you🤎

  • @latricerebec
    @latricerebec 8 месяцев назад

    😂😂 This is exactly why I loved NYC and felt safe when I visited… no one cares about you in the best way!!

  • @Kayyllaa_
    @Kayyllaa_ 9 месяцев назад +2

    Wakanda Forever😌✊🏾

  • @Shaye208
    @Shaye208 8 месяцев назад

    Loved this vlog so much! I related to every word about doing solo adventures!

  • @_VZA_
    @_VZA_ 9 месяцев назад +1

    The responding thing is so real like the amount of unread messages i have like is so bad

  • @mylifeasedith4101
    @mylifeasedith4101 9 месяцев назад +1

    this gurl literallyyyy explained how i feeeel rn.

  • @sonotvie
    @sonotvie 9 месяцев назад +1

    The length of your videos amaze me, I just started vlogging and I’m here spending hours editing videos that are barely touching 10 minutes 😭

    • @mayabeatriz
      @mayabeatriz  9 месяцев назад

      I just talk way too much 😂😂 its a bad habit

  • @journeysflava
    @journeysflava 8 месяцев назад

    oooo girl u look so good in red 😮‍💨👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @dinolondyn3962
    @dinolondyn3962 9 месяцев назад +1

    I’ve never related to a video this much!!!! Omg thank you

  • @mackenziegoodluck828
    @mackenziegoodluck828 9 месяцев назад

    Nah I felt the skin part fr lmfaoo

  • @ShashaDivine
    @ShashaDivine 8 месяцев назад

    it's so valid to see someone with the same mindset as me 😭 literally with being alone,, i have the SAME sentiments as you AND IVE BEEN LIVING THAT LIFE LAST YEAR :"D and i felt isolated at first because it's not very normal to do that stuff in my "culture" (?) lol

  • @user22222m
    @user22222m 9 месяцев назад +1

    I LOVE LISTENING TO YOU 💕💕💕💕

  • @sketchleaf7698
    @sketchleaf7698 8 месяцев назад

    I live in the city too and LOVE going for long walks alone. Most of the time I just pick a neighborhood and explore it on my own.

  • @meshiekamaliyah
    @meshiekamaliyah 9 месяцев назад +1

    I cannottttt love you anymoreeeee lol I alsoooooo get boy crazy and I need to prioritize myself. I tend to over invest and it ends up badly 😅

    • @mayabeatriz
      @mayabeatriz  9 месяцев назад

      gurrllll like as soon as I get a crush my brain just wont think about anything else

  • @ashlisarang5381
    @ashlisarang5381 9 месяцев назад +1

    STEP 1: Have Money

  • @latricerebec
    @latricerebec 8 месяцев назад

    Seriously… all of this…

  • @sonotvie
    @sonotvie 9 месяцев назад

    “I’m just a socially anxious WEIRDO” mhm twin

  • @Luvemma07
    @Luvemma07 9 месяцев назад +1

    wakanda forever 🤭

  • @tamaijay
    @tamaijay 9 месяцев назад +1

    Wakanda Forever 🖤

  • @Celina-wt3us
    @Celina-wt3us 4 месяца назад

    Wakanda Forever!🌺

  • @destinij8
    @destinij8 8 месяцев назад

    Wakanda Forever ♾️

  • @divinembaya208
    @divinembaya208 9 месяцев назад +1

    Enjoyed this sm❤

  • @biaocoelho
    @biaocoelho 9 месяцев назад +1

    Love this video!

  • @eltonarthur1233
    @eltonarthur1233 9 месяцев назад

    Wakanda Forever

  • @chi2om
    @chi2om 9 месяцев назад +1

    Happy new year sis

  • @jawahirmohamed5247
    @jawahirmohamed5247 9 месяцев назад +1

    MAYA PLEASEEE TELL US WHERE YOU GOT YOUR FIT FROM I WANNA RECREATE IT

    • @mayabeatriz
      @mayabeatriz  9 месяцев назад

      I'll put the links in my bio now!

    • @jawahirmohamed5247
      @jawahirmohamed5247 9 месяцев назад

      @@mayabeatriz omg thank you so much!! Also I love the fact that you are so open about talking about Palestine! 🇵🇸

  • @awanjie5761
    @awanjie5761 9 месяцев назад +1

    0:30 me too 😪

  • @graceesia4114
    @graceesia4114 9 месяцев назад

    Wakanda Forever frfr

  • @narose
    @narose 9 месяцев назад +1

    a double uploaddddddd ahhhhhhh 💕💕

  • @manassefolly4116
    @manassefolly4116 9 месяцев назад

    You and texting back is meeeee😅

  • @haileygg6
    @haileygg6 9 месяцев назад

    Mayaaaaaaaaa

  • @rjsmiley89
    @rjsmiley89 9 месяцев назад

    Loved this video

  • @OliviaLorraine
    @OliviaLorraine 9 месяцев назад +4

    a vlog I definitely needed since im about to enter my 20's ❤🩷

    • @mayabeatriz
      @mayabeatriz  9 месяцев назад +2

      the 20's journey literally feels so daunting 😂

    • @OliviaLorraine
      @OliviaLorraine 9 месяцев назад +1

      @@mayabeatriz Literally so scared like I need to build credit! wheres my apartment?! 😂😭

  • @thunderdeeznuts
    @thunderdeeznuts 9 месяцев назад

    black panther came out on my bday and i saw it during the premiere it was so much fun and the audience was all so nice

  • @rachelalalala
    @rachelalalala 9 месяцев назад

    maya gets me on a whole different level it’s so crazy, i’ve never felt so seen until now 🥹