As a 37 year old man who wasn't married until 32, a can tell you that everything happens at it's own pace. I went to school for Electrical Engineering but i'm now in IT. It's not because i failed, it's because i didn't know myself as i do now, and the pivot due to a job loss turned into the best thing that's ever happened to me. Again, personally or professionally, everything happens at its own pace Give yourself the grace you give others. Sometimes that internal voice can be cruel, but you're not cruel, so don't listen to it. It lies even when you think it's telling the truth. Be kind to yourself
Guys. Listen up. I'm 32. I'm getting a divorce. I'm in a place where I could absolutely claim I've lost too much to keep going. I refuse. I will only become stronger from this by taking every step that gets me closer to growth and personal pride. Don't trick yourself into thinking you can't do it. Believe in the me that believes in you!!!
Thank you so much for making this video. I really needed it. I'm 22 years old I feel like I haven't accomplished as much as other people my age have. I'm struggling so much just to make my parents proud, but I'm just so damn lonely & games are the only thing comforting me. God bless you man.
Thank you so much for the reminder. I’ve felt like I’m struggling to catch up. Being 33 and not having anything to “show for myself” has just made me panic and has been worsening my depression. So yeah, once again, to learn that 33 isn’t too old. That some people didn’t hit their stride until their 40s. That my life experiences are side quests to help me grind my way to my next level? That helps. A lot. Thank you ❤
2:20 I do that all the time actually, as I work through my own problems that seemingly have no fix I try to note down important parts that might help people in a similar position as myself, but the problem with wanting to help people who might be like me is that I can’t reach out to them when I don’t even know how to find them and more importantly convey to them what I have learned that might help them. I feel behind everyone not only because I am figuring out what’s holding me back mentally and physically but because I feel like I have to get better sooner to help other people but that in itself is making me feel I am further behind everyone.
I needed this. Thank you. This is going in a a very small playlist for myself in case I ever feel like my life is in a no hope scenario. Thank you for trying to impact peoples lives in such a positive way
Your channel has proven to me that you have such an amazingly positive attitude, and maybe you had to work to get there but it was worth it I can tell. I’m learning myself that even though I don’t like where I am right now, I don’t have to just hide in dopamine, I can start the work to make it better even if it is small steps. I strive to be able to talk to myself one day like the way you do in this video.
I've seen a couple of you're videos, and your story resonates with me a lot. Thanks for putting yourself out there. I wish you good luck with your journey. Much love.
For me it's comparing myself to people younger than me that own a home while I feel trapped in an apartment with a kid on the way. Thanks for a reminder that life isn't a race❤
Stop copying niko's content blud. Your tone in the first 27 seconds is enough to dissuade me away from this. 00:14 "...to tell you that because I know I'm right. And I know I'm right because..." soulless. I don't need to confirm this is indeed niko's content because his enthusiasm and ability to level his communication with his audience is so natural I remembered the source as soon as I clocked that string of words.
yea, my style early on leaned heavy on niko's style and i never tried to hide that. i later realized i'm not as good as he is, so i pivoted. respect to you for loyalty to the creators you like, but i hope you come to realize everyone has something to contribute. peace 🤝
Really needed this pep talk this morning!! Thanks doozy!!!
As a 37 year old man who wasn't married until 32, a can tell you that everything happens at it's own pace. I went to school for Electrical Engineering but i'm now in IT. It's not because i failed, it's because i didn't know myself as i do now, and the pivot due to a job loss turned into the best thing that's ever happened to me. Again, personally or professionally, everything happens at its own pace
Give yourself the grace you give others. Sometimes that internal voice can be cruel, but you're not cruel, so don't listen to it. It lies even when you think it's telling the truth.
Be kind to yourself
early 30s is like completely average for marriage especially in urban areas tho. And doesn't EE pay like 10x better than IT?
@@bigfin20 It pays more yes.
Guys. Listen up.
I'm 32. I'm getting a divorce. I'm in a place where I could absolutely claim I've lost too much to keep going. I refuse. I will only become stronger from this by taking every step that gets me closer to growth and personal pride. Don't trick yourself into thinking you can't do it.
Believe in the me that believes in you!!!
THIS IS ART.
You are only falling behind in life when you stop trying
Thank you so much for making this video. I really needed it. I'm 22 years old I feel like I haven't accomplished as much as other people my age have. I'm struggling so much just to make my parents proud, but I'm just so damn lonely & games are the only thing comforting me. God bless you man.
I'm about to be 22 this year and I'm right there with you.
24 here and in the same boat ❤
I'm 25 Nd in the Same fucking sinking boat.
Hello kids, I'm 32
@@bamrainey we're glad to read your comment man. Hope you always enjoy video games.
Thank you so much for the reminder. I’ve felt like I’m struggling to catch up. Being 33 and not having anything to “show for myself” has just made me panic and has been worsening my depression. So yeah, once again, to learn that 33 isn’t too old. That some people didn’t hit their stride until their 40s. That my life experiences are side quests to help me grind my way to my next level? That helps. A lot. Thank you ❤
kind and wise words. I love your videos because they make me feel like I‘m talking to a good friend. Thank you for making content
3:07 "Life is roblox" DJ Khaled
This reminds me of "meditations" , idk why i guess just the realness of it. I appreciate your abillity to think out loud. Inspirational.
Damn. Thank you.
I randomly stumbled onto your channel, after watching two videos. Wow, your message hit hard and it resonates so much just wow. Thank you.
2:20 I do that all the time actually, as I work through my own problems that seemingly have no fix I try to note down important parts that might help people in a similar position as myself, but the problem with wanting to help people who might be like me is that I can’t reach out to them when I don’t even know how to find them and more importantly convey to them what I have learned that might help them.
I feel behind everyone not only because I am figuring out what’s holding me back mentally and physically but because I feel like I have to get better sooner to help other people but that in itself is making me feel I am further behind everyone.
I needed this. Thank you. This is going in a a very small playlist for myself in case I ever feel like my life is in a no hope scenario. Thank you for trying to impact peoples lives in such a positive way
Your channel has proven to me that you have such an amazingly positive attitude, and maybe you had to work to get there but it was worth it I can tell. I’m learning myself that even though I don’t like where I am right now, I don’t have to just hide in dopamine, I can start the work to make it better even if it is small steps. I strive to be able to talk to myself one day like the way you do in this video.
Your message is so beautiful and more of what we need in life. Thank you!
I've seen a couple of you're videos, and your story resonates with me a lot. Thanks for putting yourself out there. I wish you good luck with your journey. Much love.
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Always forward, never ever backward!!
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For me it's comparing myself to people younger than me that own a home while I feel trapped in an apartment with a kid on the way. Thanks for a reminder that life isn't a race❤
thank you man it was heartwarming, have a nice day !
Very unique content and RUclips algorithm is getting smarter suggesting this to me
Man, I Love your thinking. ❤
Here's your comment for the algo boost brother! WE ARE GONNA FUCKIN MAKE IT 💪🏿
i appreciate you bro, sending good vibes your way 🤝
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this is a super nice video ty
Your content is so good.
This video may have healed a part of me that was hurting from losing a long time friend. Thanks man~ 🥹💖✨
3rd one hit
Thanks.
Hey that game needs to come out on Xbox. It looks relaxing.
Thanks bro luv u
One of your videos have wemt viral ide the algorithm
Stop copying niko's content blud. Your tone in the first 27 seconds is enough to dissuade me away from this. 00:14 "...to tell you that because I know I'm right. And I know I'm right because..." soulless. I don't need to confirm this is indeed niko's content because his enthusiasm and ability to level his communication with his audience is so natural I remembered the source as soon as I clocked that string of words.
yea, my style early on leaned heavy on niko's style and i never tried to hide that. i later realized i'm not as good as he is, so i pivoted. respect to you for loyalty to the creators you like, but i hope you come to realize everyone has something to contribute. peace 🤝
nice cope man