Inside 1 Couple’s New Life After Partner Came Out As Transgender | Megyn Kelly TODAY

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  • Jennifer and Lawren, a couple from the TLC series “Lost in Transition,” joins Megyn Kelly TODAY to open up about their journey since Lawren revealed she is transgender. The two talk about sharing Lawren’s transition with their children, and making the decision to share their experience on TV.
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    Inside 1 Couple’s New Life After Partner Came Out As Transgender | Megyn Kelly TODAY

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  • @vidananovazelandia
    @vidananovazelandia 4 года назад +130

    For me it would be a deal breaker. Divorce papers would be on the way.

    • @oliviawutam
      @oliviawutam 3 года назад +5

      that's ok but don't make it hard for the trans person

    • @sadebailey420
      @sadebailey420 3 года назад +1

      EXACTLY

    • @agricolaregs
      @agricolaregs 3 года назад +16

      @@oliviawutam they’re not special. A spouse has a right to be angry.

    • @oliviawutam
      @oliviawutam 3 года назад

      That's ok.

    • @oliviawutam
      @oliviawutam 3 года назад

      @@agricolaregs agreed, no woman can tell me she didn't different sense anything

  • @jaynekarinova256
    @jaynekarinova256 6 лет назад +1055

    I understand that she loves her husband unconditionally but that doesn’t mean she should have to stay with him romantically after he turns into a “her”. As a straight woman, this could be very damaging to her. It’s denying who you really are just to let someone else be who they are, and while it’s incredibly selfless, I hope she realizes that her happiness is important too.

    • @IWantToMature85
      @IWantToMature85 6 лет назад +85

      Jayne Karinova that’s what I’m saying they want the husband to be his or herself, but not the woman to be herself.

    • @christopherwelch5995
      @christopherwelch5995 6 лет назад +19

      I totally agree!!

    • @MG-ui8jk
      @MG-ui8jk 6 лет назад +10

      I had same experience b4 in last 5 years whre I was got engage with my bf who were transgender, I loved him very much and I felt like I can't live without him but I had to let him go and do her own thing which was I think so weird, I mourned during 5 years 😢😢

    • @annaboulderco
      @annaboulderco 6 лет назад +11

      @@signumcrucis71 so loving someone of the same gender is as bad as alcoholism? Nope. Love is Love

    • @yesucansell2
      @yesucansell2 6 лет назад +7

      She, the wife knows. Why don't you trust her judgement?

  • @julievanderleest
    @julievanderleest 2 года назад +38

    I can’t imagine staying with someone who you have known to be your husband and is now your wife. Jennifer is straight. That’s gotta be unimaginably hard and painful. I couldn’t do it.

    • @NickyM_0
      @NickyM_0 Год назад +1

      Nor should you.

    • @johnblack4686
      @johnblack4686 10 месяцев назад

      Have thought about becoming a shemale myself

  • @fallondavis747
    @fallondavis747 6 лет назад +200

    I wouldve gotten a divorce immediately

    • @Rapunzel1122
      @Rapunzel1122 5 лет назад +7

      Be careful of what u r saying because u might be put to a test . I don’t mean anything bad, it’s just every time when I have said something in a firm way I was tested ... only my 2 cents of course...

    • @ariellalima7229
      @ariellalima7229 5 лет назад +4

      She would be lucky to have a divorce from you.

    • @bethp3320
      @bethp3320 4 года назад +7

      Respect her opinion people

    • @PepsiMagt
      @PepsiMagt 2 года назад +7

      Good for you. Its not bigotry to have boundaries and self-respect. The husband here is very selfish.

    • @jessa9877
      @jessa9877 2 года назад +1

      @@Rapunzel1122 yup, definitely a divorce for me too

  • @Sistagirltay
    @Sistagirltay 3 года назад +20

    Okay so she’s with him pretty much for the “imagine” still tryna be the “perfect family” so everyone can admire them. Girl choose ur happiness stop tryna prove a point to others.

  • @jloboomboom
    @jloboomboom 6 лет назад +70

    This is a joke. My heart goes out to those kids and his wife.... He said there was never a time he didn't feel this way. He's been this way ALL his life yet he still chose to get married and have kids and live a lie. This is hiding a secret but in the worst way possible

    • @oliviawutam
      @oliviawutam 3 года назад +2

      you are not qualified to comment

    • @coolcat6341
      @coolcat6341 3 года назад +4

      @@oliviawutam neither you,,,,

    • @oliviawutam
      @oliviawutam 3 года назад

      @@coolcat6341 , actually I am, I'm a trans woman ! and not screwed up,

    • @oliviawutam
      @oliviawutam 3 года назад

      poor baby, the wife knew all along,women just know

    • @iseeyou2810
      @iseeyou2810 3 года назад +3

      @@oliviawutam you are an abuser who think you can use woman and come out with lies and wearing her clothes because you are a weak man, you will never be a woman.

  • @cathyt144
    @cathyt144 6 лет назад +504

    Its selfish of this "man" to have married and had children when he "knew" all his life that he was transgender . Its sad to put this lady(his wife) and those beautiful children through this . Life is difficult enough with a parent adding to it .

    • @beckyanderson4644
      @beckyanderson4644 6 лет назад +19

      Cathy T While I agree and it is heartbreaking for the family, I do think that a lot of trans people who are of a similar age to Lauren could not have possibly come out when they were teenagers or in their 20’s. It was unheard of to try to explain something like that at that time. So they went on and attempted to live a normal life and have children because simply put, they were afraid of the family or societal reaction. Now that it is recognized and people feel safe to have the discussion, they are coming out.

    • @terianapride3881
      @terianapride3881 6 лет назад +43

      Chik Lit you ain’t gotta come out until you ready, but that don’t mean you should trick people

    • @fquint6468
      @fquint6468 6 лет назад +16

      PocketfulofPosie I feel like maybe they thought they could change, which is why they go ahead and try to have a traditional life but at a point it just gets to be too much.

    • @Arlene_436
      @Arlene_436 6 лет назад

      I agree!

    • @evandoherty9679
      @evandoherty9679 6 лет назад +8

      Cathy T you don’t know the circumstances in situations like these so shut your mouth and stop spreading hate. And btw for your information SHE is a WOMAN now stfu

  • @evelynfrench804
    @evelynfrench804 6 лет назад +328

    It's too painful for her. I would not stay with him, but I would leave and have my children and be happy. She may find love in the future. There is no need for her to suffer daily.

    • @ceegabe1555
      @ceegabe1555 6 лет назад +5

      Evelyn French She will NOT be able to feel TRUST again...

    • @unlisted4253
      @unlisted4253 6 лет назад +1

      She knew it all along

    • @_joeyyy_5121
      @_joeyyy_5121 5 лет назад +11

      Not him . U mean her

    • @meghantheeggdispenser4931
      @meghantheeggdispenser4931 5 лет назад +7

      @@unlisted4253 How could she have? Women don't expect their husbands to be trans.

    • @oliviawutam
      @oliviawutam 3 года назад

      She forgets that he is the same person the same soul whom she never knew only his genitalia? yuk

  • @TheJaiJai81
    @TheJaiJai81 6 лет назад +55

    This is literally the story of my life and marriage. My partner came out as transgender last year. Mourning the death of a husband that's standing right next to me.

    • @oliviawutam
      @oliviawutam 3 года назад +7

      you never knew your husband. next to you is the same person. you don't have to be sexual with him/her but he is still the same same memories and so on

    • @Hannah-hg
      @Hannah-hg 2 года назад +5

      @@oliviawutam it’s extremely confusing

    • @english3082
      @english3082 2 года назад

      he's most certainly an autogynephile

    • @mimachan2557
      @mimachan2557 Год назад

      when your government legalize freak thoughts ^^

    • @julesdj913
      @julesdj913 Год назад +2

      Sad

  • @aliciatorres2794
    @aliciatorres2794 6 лет назад +100

    Im sorry but i would leave him!! It's not fair, he lied to her this whole time and then 25 years later. Guess what honey , I want to be a women,that is not fair!! You can see the poor women that she is heart broken!!

    • @ToastyCoClothing
      @ToastyCoClothing 4 года назад +10

      the fact that he waited until she had his children is especially sinister

    • @MsValeriaHeart
      @MsValeriaHeart 3 года назад +2

      Sad you can only see in black and white.

    • @vanillabee2790
      @vanillabee2790 2 года назад

      It feels like a betrayal. I wld be disappointed too

    • @Usaisaboveall
      @Usaisaboveall 2 года назад

      He’s a very confused soul

  • @Brath0011
    @Brath0011 6 лет назад +6

    People need the Lord.

    • @lynnszen
      @lynnszen 6 лет назад

      Are you saying that transitioning is a religious issue?

  • @karenh1808
    @karenh1808 6 лет назад +11

    Selfish man married to a selfless woman. He knew all along that he was a woman so why build a life with someone and then destroy it? Because its all about him that's why. He mentioned that their kids thought there was a problem in the marriage but he says there wasn't. WTF there is and was a BIG problem! He has lied to this woman for 25 years and then drops a bomb that she had no clue would ever come. This poor woman is struggling I feel so bad for her and the kids.

  • @jasminepina9058
    @jasminepina9058 6 лет назад +110

    why are they matching?

  • @mariatapanes8763
    @mariatapanes8763 6 лет назад +119

    I feel bad for her...a life based on lies

  • @whereiswaldo5872
    @whereiswaldo5872 6 лет назад +17

    They need to separate in the name of love you can tell the wife isnt happy.

  • @Riko-Lopez
    @Riko-Lopez 6 лет назад +187

    I think what's messed up is that He knew ever since he was young that he was transgendered but decided to ignore it and involve innocent people in his mess of a life. Poor kids and I feel horrible for his wife... He's being selfish. FU Larry!

    • @freshlove7926
      @freshlove7926 6 лет назад +10

      Riko Lopez - he wanted to have kids .. so he was a fcking liar.

    • @missbubblez12luvseh
      @missbubblez12luvseh 6 лет назад +9

      You also have to take in consideration that people who are transgender they deny it to to themselves because they don't want it to be true they are scared of it being true. So they try to ignore it and continue to try and live life. They don't purpose purposely lead someone on or lie to anyone. It's a battle inside their mind. They try to ignore it and they are in denial. That's where the depression comes in. My best friend is transgender. Before he transitioned to male. She was suicidal, self harming, just in a very very dark place. She went inpatient for mental health issues for 4 months and they worked through it. They came home and that's when they transitioned because they knew they were transgender deep down since he was little. But he tried to push those thoughts away because they are terrifying thoughts. Nobody wants to be transgender. That's why people like Lucy keep it a secret for so long. They aren't even knowingly keeping a secret for very long. And they usually don't connect the dots until the depression and anxiety was so bad they can't take it anymore. Than they admit it to themselves.

    • @signumcrucis71
      @signumcrucis71 6 лет назад +1

      Sarah Hurt
      NAIVE
      Homosexuals have to recruit new homosexuals to keep up their lifestyle.

    • @Riko-Lopez
      @Riko-Lopez 6 лет назад +1

      @@signumcrucis71 LMAO! Troooooooooll 😂😂😂

    • @missbubblez12luvseh
      @missbubblez12luvseh 6 лет назад +4

      Donald J. Trump we aren't even talking about homesexuality 😂 we are talking about being transgender. They are two very very different things. Nice name 😂

  • @cal3403
    @cal3403 6 лет назад +68

    Does anyone else think this is twisted?!

  • @inthezonenews
    @inthezonenews 6 лет назад +17

    WTF... WHAT KIND OF NONSENSE IS THIS....Lauren says he wants to be a woman, so is Lauren a lesbian as well, and Lauren is frustrated with learning about makeup and hair. Lauren sounds confused. And their both sitting there with blue dresses on. This is some bull, how is a man going to be a woman without suffering every month from a period. I would have backed my bags and left.

  • @sonshine8283
    @sonshine8283 6 лет назад +120

    So funny how she compares her marriage with the WORST of her friend's marriages, ie, the alcoholics, drug addicted, distant husbands. We only tend to do that (look for the worst) when we need to feel good about our own situation. She knows this is a terrible situation. Her heart is so broken. No situation or person is too broken for God to repair. But one must ask, believe and use common sense.

    • @kellypierce7447
      @kellypierce7447 6 лет назад +15

      Yeh, she's grasping at straws to be a "normal" family again! And insane when she says it'll only look different. It'll be different as F***!

    • @PepsiMagt
      @PepsiMagt 2 года назад

      @@oliviawutam and you're a man

  • @anlu3365
    @anlu3365 6 лет назад +44

    If I was in her position I would hit the gym, look great and start dating again...

    • @Copics1
      @Copics1 6 лет назад +9

      It sucks when your man wears the dress better than you.

    • @anlu3365
      @anlu3365 6 лет назад +3

      +COco Yo yo it sounds like you are talking from experience! Lol but yes agreed! I would change that pretty fast!

    • @eduardom7865
      @eduardom7865 5 лет назад

      Yas

  • @RM-nz9ny
    @RM-nz9ny 5 лет назад +12

    Her being trans is okay.
    Her wife not really being comfortable with it is okay.
    But whoever dressed these poor women in the exact same dress needs to be SUED

  • @GummyBearRecords
    @GummyBearRecords 4 года назад +4

    He looks ridiculous he's not even fooling him self he's a woman🤦

  • @Ishmiester
    @Ishmiester 6 лет назад +149

    Can someone tell me why "feeling" like something actually makes you that something

    • @abcw114
      @abcw114 6 лет назад +8

      Maybe you should ask yourself why it matters if Larry wears a dress and adopts a new name. Is this the crisis of your life, that a biological man wants to be called a girl's name and wear some girl clothes?

    • @Ishmiester
      @Ishmiester 6 лет назад +14

      @@abcw114 it doesnt matter. My comment doesnt matter either. And yours either.

    • @airlinelush6483
      @airlinelush6483 6 лет назад +19

      It doesnt. I feel like a airplane. Well... that didnt work.

    • @abcw114
      @abcw114 6 лет назад +4

      @@Ishmiester That seems like a sad little cop-out. It does matter to you, which is why you bothered to make that point. You know it and I know it.

    • @SnakeButtz
      @SnakeButtz 5 лет назад +7

      i can tell you, it is because 'feelings' come from your brain and just like any other 'feelings' you have they are valid and they are telling you what you are, who you are and WHAT YOU ARE PERSONALLY FEELING. if your 'feelings' are telling you you're hungry, are you ACTUALLY hungry? if your 'feelings' are telling you you're tired, are you ACTUALLY tired? according to you, no huh because feelings dont actually tell you anything about how and who you are.

  • @addiomondo4493
    @addiomondo4493 4 года назад +9

    I could neve be with a woman... I love my husband but if he became a woman well if would be over. I like men... I can’t change that

  • @zoesmybaby
    @zoesmybaby 6 лет назад +65

    Poor Jennifer. It’s like her spirit is broken.

    • @siobhanmcleod9146
      @siobhanmcleod9146 5 лет назад +4

      It is, at the hands of her husband.

    • @helenal.7881
      @helenal.7881 3 года назад

      @K Maxx lol lol lol

    • @iseeyou2810
      @iseeyou2810 3 года назад +2

      @@oliviawutam you are the man who did this. God how can you live with lie? You are manipulative Narcissist. I hope she leaves you for better future.

  • @thedrugstoreplayground3769
    @thedrugstoreplayground3769 6 лет назад +26

    This is stupid! She shouldn't have to stay in this situation after all those years! And I'm confused. Does he still like women or now men? 🤔

    • @rockbacourt9761
      @rockbacourt9761 6 лет назад +1

      Taquis Edwards well I think the wife is discouraged in she had no choice also she.start to getting old second she will leave him anyhow

    • @caffymatthews6595
      @caffymatthews6595 4 года назад +3

      What's it to you? You might at least show a little humanity and kindness instead of foregrounding ignorance.

    • @coolcat6341
      @coolcat6341 3 года назад

      I 5h8nk she lives the Illusion 9f perfect family mixed with she is not self confident or aware of her needs as women...

  • @veronicasanchez8806
    @veronicasanchez8806 6 лет назад +64

    I used to know this couple... our daughters danced ballet together about 10 years ago. I always saw the dad with the daughter, dropping her off at class, picking her up, putting her coat or ballet slippers on... he seemed to take more of the role as "mom". I figured he was just a very involved dad. Now I'm watching this and I'm blown away. I wish the wife the best of luck in her relationship and raising their children together. I personally wouldn't be able to handle that. I give her credit.

    • @nattyrey7976
      @nattyrey7976 6 лет назад +24

      I feel sad that Jennifer is trying to rationalize, saying at least she's not in an abusive relationship, so she'll stay. Lauren may be a kind, lovely person, but Jennifer doesn't seem to acknowledge her own self-worth or right to happiness. She seems to be battling her own deep depression now. I do wish them the best, but their whole situation seems so tragic.

  • @queen_of_domination
    @queen_of_domination Год назад +3

    I’m sick of this world! People have gone crazy and they get angry with you for not going crazy with them. Other than that statement, I’m just here for the comments.

  • @calico4381
    @calico4381 6 лет назад +56

    All the women in this documentary end up putting their husbands before themselves and even readily refer to them by female pronouns. I think they love their husbands but are also afraid to be alone. The men all seem selfish to me, and no one believes they're really women anyway so why even bother?

    • @kevin49ification
      @kevin49ification 6 лет назад +5

      well transitioning is something that they have to do for themselves and no one else, and she communicated with her wife before she started transitioning. Its not about passing as a woman and its just respectful that her wife uses her prefered pronouns. Im sure its not easy on either of them.

    • @daniellerodriguez429
      @daniellerodriguez429 5 лет назад +1

      Georgia Russo what a sad world it would be if we all put ourselves before our family.

    • @oliviawutam
      @oliviawutam 3 года назад

      @@kevin49ification thank you

  • @Opalbird1
    @Opalbird1 5 лет назад +18

    He wasn’t “assigned” at birth. Genetically he was a male and still is.

  • @jayv7006
    @jayv7006 6 лет назад +5

    She's clearly still with him because she doesn't believe she can do any better.

  • @jnwoodard8764
    @jnwoodard8764 6 лет назад +13

    In the words of Austin Powers, “... That’s a MAN baby!”

    • @PongYang281
      @PongYang281 5 лет назад +1

      That's not a woman, it's a manly man...

    • @caffymatthews6595
      @caffymatthews6595 4 года назад

      In the words of Saint Althelreda, 'Woodard is a champion numbskull'.

  • @ComeliaO7
    @ComeliaO7 4 года назад +4

    For any other woman who is with a man who comes out is transgender. You’re not wrong if you leave that marriage. You’re not wrong from walking away from that relationship. You are not transphobic.
    I mean goodness these women are married to these men for years. With kids. Everybody’s hurt and confused. But you’re the bad guy for wanting to leave. No it’s simply just not what you signed up for.

  • @mariatapanes8763
    @mariatapanes8763 6 лет назад +33

    I just wanna know why most of these "transgender" male to female look like linebackers!!!??

    • @caffymatthews6595
      @caffymatthews6595 4 года назад +10

      The answer is - that these particular 'transgenders' (as 'you' put it), transitioned later in life, after they had acquired well-developed male characteristics. But you know that already. You're simply asking a rhetorical question because your are a combination of cruel, stupid and hateful.

    • @caffymatthews6595
      @caffymatthews6595 4 года назад +6

      @Nas Silahen You deserve to be delivered to a sewer, signed, sealed and wrapped in your nappy.

    • @Maranatha7557
      @Maranatha7557 4 года назад +2

      Why? Because they are biologically male with all the muscle and height that goes with it. Men can’t become women.

    • @caffymatthews6595
      @caffymatthews6595 4 года назад +5

      @@Maranatha7557 It's rather silly to generalise in this way. It demonstrates blind prejudice rather than any medical or scientific understanding of the subject. Not all people born male are to be found pumping iron on muscle beach just as there are plenty of powerful women who could lay a shrimp like you flat with one flick of their little finger.

    • @javajava8856
      @javajava8856 4 года назад

      Because they are autogynophiles (AGP). Contrast them with the very feminine appearance of Janet Mock who is classified as homosexual transexual (HSTS). AGPs are heterosexual men who have very masculine backgrounds and careers and continue being sexually attracted women after transition. AGP is a paraphilia which can, but doesn't typically, culminate in SRS.

  • @morganhenry5845
    @morganhenry5845 5 лет назад +9

    Ok why is everyone wanting to be females it’s not great lol

  • @chipomutibvu3674
    @chipomutibvu3674 4 года назад +10

    I'm all for people living their authentic lives or whatever but marrying someone who wants to be with a man and grow old with that man knowing you are NOT it is just deceitful. I see a lot of these stories, everybody happy for the person who finally comes out and sympathising with their previous struggles and what not but dammit what about the woman who now has to use toys for the rest of her life because he took his thing to the butcher? My husband better make sure his true self stays the self he was when we married otherwise I don't want to be on any show forcing myself to be supportive. The way that wife is crying I think she is devastated.

  • @jesseturay1421
    @jesseturay1421 5 лет назад +8

    He didn’t think these things. He just randomly decided it, cause he’s unhappy. So selfish.

    • @dorisf7368
      @dorisf7368 5 лет назад +2

      And he still looks very unhappy.

    • @caffymatthews6595
      @caffymatthews6595 4 года назад

      I'm amazed you can remain so dumb and so ignorant with all the information about gender identity out there. As always, bigotry has no need of facts. It exists to glaze the inside of it's own little warped bubble with a patina of reflexive hatred.

  • @crizzyzay7854
    @crizzyzay7854 4 года назад +4

    Real wife looks miserable

  • @janebute2541
    @janebute2541 6 лет назад +88

    Is there a level of selfish in all this? I need to fix myself, please stay the same while I do it? I feel the wife needs to protect her health also and not only be supportive to him. Only God can judge, however this wife needs to not lose her identity to the transgendering person.

    • @coolcat6341
      @coolcat6341 3 года назад

      Yap

    • @tonimidnite1611
      @tonimidnite1611 3 года назад

      No darling there no selfish on your part you did not sighn up for this .i see so many lady's stuck in there life's of submisive and co dependency prison because they signed up to be a wife not anything else you made a sacrifice. A mother a house wife a companion a lover and a tolerant understanding and calming voice I'm sure that was asked if you .so if you are one of those wife's that are manipulated. By your husband and have to put up with a narcastic husband that more than like looks like a ugly large and poor dressed librarian. Give him a little reminder you didn't sighn up for this

    • @robertriordan1823
      @robertriordan1823 Год назад

      @@tonimidnite1611Given your poor spelling and punctuation you really need one of those 'ugly, large and poorly dressed' librarians to help you to become minimally literate.

  • @janicemalone8619
    @janicemalone8619 6 лет назад +71

    So what happens if Lauren wants to be with a man in order to feel like a real woman!

    • @maribelquirosart
      @maribelquirosart 6 лет назад +1

      janice malone I thought the same thing

    • @lindsayarmstrong4160
      @lindsayarmstrong4160 5 лет назад +10

      So you have to be straight to be a woman?

    • @cindylee9019
      @cindylee9019 3 года назад

      I’m transgender and stayed in the marriage as a male deep down I have resented doing so, desire to be a woman full-time until enjoy the feeling everything are you in the world in my early 30s part time as a woman

  • @1Kaileegirl
    @1Kaileegirl 6 лет назад +162

    It can't be easy,
    I cannot imagine growing up feeling you're in the wrong body.
    They seem like beautiful people
    I wish them all the very best

    • @ceegabe1555
      @ceegabe1555 6 лет назад +11

      cathyannkailee. What if you FEEL you are a dog? 🐕

    • @unlisted4253
      @unlisted4253 6 лет назад +10

      mcstacia it's called mental illness.

    • @kellypierce7447
      @kellypierce7447 6 лет назад +10

      You can't imagine it, because it's all made up! They're f***ed in the head and know it too! You wouldn't tell a serial killer that you wish them the very best, so why mess with people's heads here!

    • @rempotter3375
      @rempotter3375 6 лет назад +16

      as someone who is not cisgender, seeing such a sweet comment amongst an ocean of hate brightens my day. thank you 🙏

    • @smiller4606
      @smiller4606 6 лет назад +1

      I'd imagine it's as uncomfortable and stressful as having suicidal thoughts that feel _right._ But we try to help people not go there.

  • @kimmykimko
    @kimmykimko 5 лет назад +27

    This whole trans thing has gone too far. Insanity.

  • @tfh-rw9vb
    @tfh-rw9vb 6 лет назад +183

    This is a mental health issue

    • @tfh-rw9vb
      @tfh-rw9vb 6 лет назад +18

      mcstacia yes it very much is. This man needs help.

    • @unlisted4253
      @unlisted4253 6 лет назад +1

      mcstacia it's.

    • @ck9265
      @ck9265 6 лет назад +10

      mcstacia it is a mental illness

    • @mamafi70
      @mamafi70 6 лет назад +4

      Yes, Must be a curse for white people.

    • @freshlove7926
      @freshlove7926 6 лет назад

      Timothy Hahn - hello baby boy :) you are a cutie

  • @1justice2012
    @1justice2012 5 лет назад +6

    I feel that once he is finish transitioning, he will leave, sorry for the wife she seems in great pain.

  • @sjlang7812
    @sjlang7812 6 лет назад +21

    Thus is like my aunt Alana and her wife laura... theyre a beautiful couple now and happy as ever. To anyone going through this it gets better❤

  • @janicemalone8619
    @janicemalone8619 6 лет назад +24

    Just so you know I alot of women don't wear make up

    • @ian12346
      @ian12346 6 лет назад +2

      janice malone I know right? Why is the lady conforming to gender norms? 🤣🤣

    • @TheSnyderWeb
      @TheSnyderWeb 6 лет назад

      Because how can you pretend to be a girl if you don't know how to play with makeup?

    • @sarahlouisestafford2448
      @sarahlouisestafford2448 6 лет назад

      janice malone what rock have you being hiding under? a lot of women were makeup when going out clubbing at nightime and going too work during the day. some women were makeup during the day evening if they don't work.

    • @iseeyou2810
      @iseeyou2810 3 года назад

      @@sarahlouisestafford2448 lots of women don't.

  • @TheLadylorraine
    @TheLadylorraine 6 лет назад +70

    Ridiculous Ridiculous Ridiculous.

  • @truthteller3181
    @truthteller3181 6 лет назад +265

    This is so Sick! And ppl will say that I'M sick for recognizing that this is Sick! And that's just Sick! SMH

    • @Noah4evaa
      @Noah4evaa 6 лет назад +8

      Dess D he isn't a girl, say what he will!

    • @ellagiselle
      @ellagiselle 6 лет назад +8

      Dess D there’s literally nothing wrong with this. The human mind is very fascinating and there are existing inherent miswirings at birth that happen across all races and cultures , for hundreds and hundreds of centuries before our own minute little existence. This is science and history and a fact. It’s fascinating and I feel bad that you fail to see that

    • @ellagiselle
      @ellagiselle 6 лет назад +5

      *not really hundreds and hundreds obviously. But hyperbolically. It’s been around since the beginning of recorded human existence

    • @mariast.hilaire2599
      @mariast.hilaire2599 6 лет назад +3

      Well at least he’s getting healing! What about you? Are you working on healing yourself?

    • @Dangerops69
      @Dangerops69 6 лет назад +3

      Dess D WWJD?

  • @herewegokids7
    @herewegokids7 6 лет назад +166

    Your gender had been misassigned????

  • @54jeanmarie
    @54jeanmarie 6 лет назад +16

    Sorry....too freaky!! Not only is she losing a husband, the children are losing their father!!

  • @leslieburgess6985
    @leslieburgess6985 6 лет назад +35

    As soon as he transitions he is going to find a man

    • @kaylaspencer7526
      @kaylaspencer7526 3 года назад +4

      they’re actually still together! i know they family personally and they’re both doing so much better

    • @aviolet3981
      @aviolet3981 3 года назад

      Is their life fair now or is it all still her giving and him having an egocentric temper tantrum where she and the kids basically don’t matter?

    • @kaylaspencer7526
      @kaylaspencer7526 3 года назад +1

      @@aviolet3981 hi! I’m friends with their daughters and she has never not put the kids first this transition i’m assuming was the first thing she has done for herself. all of her children are very successful in their current paths and all with they help of their parents

  • @ChristianWoman2013
    @ChristianWoman2013 6 лет назад +8

    Larry is completely selfish, I know from experience that the person transiting isn’t thinking about the feelings of their spouse only about themselves, and what they want they don’t care that we are hurting it feels like someone died. My husband told me he wanted to be a woman later on, he told me why he wanted to transition it wasn’t because he was born that way it was because he couldn’t live with the memories of his bad childhood and transitioning would make him a new person who didn’t have to deal with his past I tried to get him therapy all they would tell me to do, is go along with it that he was a woman, he wouldn’t tell the therapist why he wanted to transition instead he would just tell them what he thought they needed to hear to get hormones. Science hasn’t proven that a man can become a woman it’s impossible people should accept the gender they were born because after surgery you are still a man DNA and chromosomes don’t change. This is so wrong her feelings matter he needs to realize that and stop being so selfish.

    • @iseeyou2810
      @iseeyou2810 3 года назад +1

      She just need to leave him and take her childern.

    • @PepsiMagt
      @PepsiMagt 2 года назад

      A man can never be a woman, nor can a woman be a man.

  • @elainesmith7512
    @elainesmith7512 6 лет назад +197

    This is so sad. The devil is REAL and he is BUSY destroying the lives of poor naïve/blind people like these. I feel so sorry for them, especially their CHILDREN!

    • @kellypierce7447
      @kellypierce7447 6 лет назад +8

      Agreed. You see and learned this as well. Too bad these people aren't willing to realize that they're wrong!

    • @Blaisefiyah
      @Blaisefiyah 6 лет назад +1

      elaine smith it’s mental illness not Satan you weirdo

    • @vera7508
      @vera7508 6 лет назад +4

      awe looks like the devil got a hold of you boo. They’re doing no harm to themselves or to anyone else so God loves them. Your soul goes to heaven honey not any of this stuff they’re doing now. When you go to heaven all the problems in the world are gone including gender so it won’t matter in heaven. Therefore be you.

    • @JimmiAlli
      @JimmiAlli 6 лет назад +1

      elaine smith lf the devil is real where is Jesus?

    • @elainesmith7512
      @elainesmith7512 6 лет назад

      @Jimmi Alli: As far as I know, He is still in Heaven.

  • @janhomes50
    @janhomes50 5 лет назад +15

    He will always ALWAYS be a 'Man' in Gods creation ~

  • @karenk3458
    @karenk3458 4 года назад +5

    Let him go and be who he wants to be you're not his future.

    • @oliviawutam
      @oliviawutam 3 года назад

      poor baby, the wife knew all along,women just know

  • @RodFleming-World
    @RodFleming-World 6 лет назад +7

    Clinically morbid autogynephilia is an awful thing. I sympathise with the wife, her life is ruined by her husband's inability to keep his sexual fetish under control

  • @mordechairothschild3042
    @mordechairothschild3042 6 лет назад +38

    So he's depressed for a long time to the extent of being suicidal, and then he says one day "I'm a girl!" Yet nobody says that we need to help him get better, we say "yeah, let's go with it!"

    • @caffymatthews6595
      @caffymatthews6595 4 года назад +6

      You are quite disgusting. No wonder the cats have marked out your bed as their favourite tray.

  • @tricepugh5739
    @tricepugh5739 4 года назад +3

    Man I'm an understanding person and no love doesn't just turn off but why sacrifice my happiness so you can be a woman. Im leaving you and we can definitely co parent cause I would never deprive you of seeing your kids but I'm not going to be with you. You weren't honest with me from day one so........ that's where I am with this

    • @oliviawutam
      @oliviawutam 3 года назад +1

      Trice dear, you contradict yourself a transgender has no happiness until change.

    • @ajat3202
      @ajat3202 3 года назад

      @@oliviawutam your the problem.The women was even nice enough to co parents.Every time I hear something from lgtbq y’all just contradict yourself so much as well.They are never truly happy because they realize everything is fake.That push real women & men specifically women to wear makeup& get surgery to be a real women.So when people say are pushing agendas think about what your doing

  • @carolyntownsend6288
    @carolyntownsend6288 3 года назад +4

    Any update on this couple? I hope the wife was strong enough to leave. No person deserves this.

    • @Danielle2Cats
      @Danielle2Cats 3 года назад +2

      Apparently, the woman is still being victimized by the selfish man.

    • @pandorakinkxxx
      @pandorakinkxxx 3 года назад

      @@Danielle2Cats :(

  • @Prlvrboi1
    @Prlvrboi1 6 лет назад +4

    Jennifer is medicating with food to ease her pain.

  • @edge4265
    @edge4265 3 года назад +5

    What this person has is autogynephilia. So that is when a straight male sexualizes and internalizes feminine stereotypes to the point that he becomes obsessed with the idea of being a woman because it is arousing. There is a constant urge to become what is arousing. Now this has been rebranded as a woman trapped in a man’s body but that is not correct. This person is male. It is not right for him to put his wife through that. I believe it is best to just be friends. While it is perfectly fine for a man to be stereotypically feminine, that does not make him a woman. The same is true for a woman who likes to be masculine, she’s still a woman. I am sorry but nothing can change that and I think we’d get further in this discussion if autogynephiles, who make up the MAJORITY of trans women would be honest. The problem is, if they are honest about their fetish, it diminishes the arousal.

  • @daciabridges909
    @daciabridges909 6 лет назад +21

    This is a hard one but he is also very selfish. Very sad.

  • @journeybiggs767
    @journeybiggs767 6 лет назад +34

    This is the ultimate betrayal! These men say they all knew from young ages and instead of sharing that with their wives they lie for YEARS I’m sorry but that is the biggest lie and you kept it from the person you love and trust the most?!

    • @JA-nc9ym
      @JA-nc9ym 6 лет назад +1

      Journey Biggs hmm, maybe because they are called freaks and "works of the devil"?

    • @ian12346
      @ian12346 6 лет назад

      Totally Strange Well, what IS a freak then? Did Webster just decide to eradicate the word for feeling purposes?

    • @JA-nc9ym
      @JA-nc9ym 6 лет назад

      Ian as a reasonable person, I am willing to face defeat there! You are 100% correct in every definition... We are freaks. :")
      Thank you for giving me reason to re-educate myself in the English language, LMAO.
      Though, my statement still stands. While I disagree with this trans woman marrying her in the first place, I think it's justified that we are afraid to come out sometimes and often want to "out grow" it and ignore the problem. My coming out went very badly (to the point of inappropriate conduct from my parents), and I know others fear the same for themselves.

    • @ian12346
      @ian12346 6 лет назад

      Totally Strange Fair enough. 👍

  • @3477dan
    @3477dan 3 года назад +2

    They both look miserable.

  • @lobelasata838
    @lobelasata838 4 года назад +3

    This is selfish; many of them pretend to be someone that they are not. Then when they have kids from biological women they show who they are. I don't think they care less if the woman stay or not in the relationship. The wife has more to lose she invested in the business, plus all the year in that deceitful marriage.

  • @evandoherty9679
    @evandoherty9679 6 лет назад +41

    Her wife is just amazing and so supportive

    • @Карова-ц8ц
      @Карова-ц8ц 4 года назад +2

      Evan Doherty his*

    • @Danielle2Cats
      @Danielle2Cats 3 года назад +2

      His wife.

    • @coolcat6341
      @coolcat6341 3 года назад +1

      She lacks self esteem,,, she compare her situation to the worst case scenario...

    • @NickyM_0
      @NickyM_0 Год назад

      HIS wife.... has been emotionally bullied and groomed into this position by gender activist 'family counsellors'.

  • @XxxX-ln9js
    @XxxX-ln9js 6 лет назад +7

    out of all the husbands, Lawren is my fav. She was the only to acknowledge the feelings of her wife. I hope they can make it work, I am sure it will be hard.

  • @tink268
    @tink268 6 лет назад +6

    This is beyond madness. I feel so bad for this woman. Just leave him!!!

  • @jennykurtz5918
    @jennykurtz5918 6 лет назад +147

    This world desperately needs Jesus, He is the answer to all of this. This is just a result of the sin and emptiness of this world. And it is tragic that it is being encouraged and seen as a solution.

  • @siervoyesclavodecristoreve7420
    @siervoyesclavodecristoreve7420 Год назад +1

    2 Timothy 3:13
    While evil people and impostors will go on from bad to worse, deceiving and being deceived.
    1 Timothy 4:1
    Now the Spirit expressly says that in later times some will depart from the faith by devoting themselves to deceitful spirits and teachings of demons, ...
    John 8:44
    44 Ye are of your father the devil, and the lusts of your father ye will do. He was a murderer from the beginning, and abode not in the truth, because there is no truth in him. When he speaketh a lie, he speaketh of his own: for he is a liar, and the father of it.

  • @inthezonenews
    @inthezonenews 6 лет назад +15

    I'm so sick of people saying they don't want to throw away 25 years....girl byeeeeeee life is about moving on.

  • @Payton20ADZ
    @Payton20ADZ 6 лет назад +9

    pretty cool wife, so hard for both and I hope they preserve

  • @cheryledelman4457
    @cheryledelman4457 6 лет назад +9

    p.s. the poor kids, who thinks of them, just selfish freakish parents!

    • @VintageRose75
      @VintageRose75 6 лет назад

      Cheryl Edelman The mom here is not. It had nothing to to with her...she is so devastated and shocked...and trying to do the best she can to save her marriage and keep her family together.

    • @cheryledelman4457
      @cheryledelman4457 6 лет назад +1

      yes but a waste of time, she's very ugly and unappealing also, and I bet she feels she can't do any better.

  • @Dagger_323
    @Dagger_323 6 лет назад +4

    It is so incredibly selfish to transition like this after you’ve already been married and had children with a straight woman...

    • @littlecasino60
      @littlecasino60 6 лет назад +1

      I know. These men are usually autogynephiles. They will claim they didn't realize they were a woman inside until they were about 40 or 50. Up until then they were fetishistic, heterosexual crossdressers.

  • @jloboomboom
    @jloboomboom 6 лет назад +11

    BECAUSE HE ISNT AN ALCOHOLIC OR ABUSIVE DOESNT MAKE THE RELATIONSHIP GOOD LOL. What is wrong with this woman

    • @caffymatthews6595
      @caffymatthews6595 4 года назад +2

      Someone as cruel and ignorant as you would never understand.

  • @yessi6802
    @yessi6802 5 месяцев назад +1

    I just feel bad for the wives in these situations

  • @katiemarie7750
    @katiemarie7750 6 лет назад +23

    So sad... it's all I can say. smh 😕

    • @oliviawutam
      @oliviawutam 3 года назад +2

      Blame God who made us this way if you can't understand ,you're not fit to be a couple, sorry.

  • @BearPapa1990
    @BearPapa1990 5 лет назад +1

    1.4 million transgenders in the United States that’s a lot of crazies

  • @Selahsmum
    @Selahsmum 6 лет назад +12

    How absolutely tragic on every level.

  • @singers1990
    @singers1990 5 лет назад +2

    What crap

  • @cheryledelman4457
    @cheryledelman4457 6 лет назад +85

    I don't know who's sicker, Jennifer for "accepting" she has a wife now instead of a husband, or Larry (aka)Lauren who decided he's no longer a man, but a woman!

    • @IWantToMature85
      @IWantToMature85 6 лет назад +2

      Catherine Johnson not to sound rude, but gender stereotypes are why people say that they’re a different gender. For example, he had breasts at the hair salon. That gives off the belief that “If I’m a woman, then I must have breasts.”

    • @nkwari
      @nkwari 6 лет назад +3

      Maybe she doesn't want to raise 4 kids alone. She has to consider everything.

    • @kellypierce7447
      @kellypierce7447 6 лет назад +4

      Both need help. Hard lesson for Jennifer, but it was like she avoided God's heeds when her friends warned her, and even when it rhymes - don't marry scary larry! LMAO!

    • @blackmar07
      @blackmar07 6 лет назад

      @Catherine Johnson lol society. Yeah bud. It's society

  • @albertothompson1237
    @albertothompson1237 3 года назад +1

    i like to know WTF THEA e crowd lapping for this woman life donn went dowm the drain

  • @MissTotos
    @MissTotos 6 лет назад +3

    Besides the point but they should have worn different coloured dresses. I hope they can get through this and come out of the other side stronger and happier.

  • @biancahotca3244
    @biancahotca3244 6 лет назад +1

    what a crock!! such stupidity going on in this country.

  • @diankreczmer6595
    @diankreczmer6595 4 года назад +6

    Men have different knees
    The bone structure is larger. So they can trans all they want, anatomy dictates

  • @SAGELOWE
    @SAGELOWE 6 лет назад +60

    So if he feels like a girl....why stay with the wife wouldn't you wanna date guys now?
    Or is he/she a lesbian now??
    I'm confused

    • @wsscsoccerskillz2681
      @wsscsoccerskillz2681 6 лет назад +9

      SAGELOWE are you stupid this guy is a clown but gender identity has nothing to do with sexuality

    • @rosamariamendoza1466
      @rosamariamendoza1466 6 лет назад +1

      SAGELOWE I'm confused too!

    • @cartwing4660
      @cartwing4660 6 лет назад

      Sexuality is the same as it was but it is labeled differently if your gender is labeled differently. They're lesbians now.

    • @ThePattibeth
      @ThePattibeth 6 лет назад +2

      I'm confused too.

    • @mimmiw9510
      @mimmiw9510 6 лет назад +17

      Gender identity and sexuality are two different things. The simplest way to explain it is that sexuality is who you go to bed with and gender identity is who you go to bed as. Just because you're going through a transition doesn't mean that your sexuality will automatically change. It's up to the individual what they identify as, it's really just their business.

  • @missjudacia7230
    @missjudacia7230 6 лет назад +6

    They could’ve been given a decent wardrobe as those dresses where not suitable

    • @caffymatthews6595
      @caffymatthews6595 4 года назад

      Still, you must admit they look a darn sight better than you, dressed in your usual get up. A deflated truck tyre round your waist, shabby second hand walmart blouse and a saggy pair of bottoms held up by a strand of polyester.

  • @RAMBO-bl8sg
    @RAMBO-bl8sg 3 года назад +1

    He or she will go crazy later on in life sad

  • @KatEyze1015
    @KatEyze1015 6 лет назад +103

    So what's gonna happen if he wants to be with a man?

    • @kellypierce7447
      @kellypierce7447 6 лет назад +10

      Guess!

    • @cherrydarling909
      @cherrydarling909 6 лет назад +1

      Then they will all have a huge fckfest!!! 😂😂

    • @ctaylor9274
      @ctaylor9274 6 лет назад +11

      Just because he is a female now, doesn't mean his sexuality has changed. I know someone who was straight who transitioned to a woman, but they were still attracted to women...

    • @cobrakai6209
      @cobrakai6209 6 лет назад +1

      Some trans women do like women. They are attracted to feminine things for themselves and in what they seek out in a lover. There are also trans guys that use to be women, they don’t like feminine things they are attracted to masculine things for themselves and in what they seek out in a lover.

    • @KatEyze1015
      @KatEyze1015 6 лет назад +1

      Too much for me to comprehend...

  • @t7602
    @t7602 3 года назад +1

    these comments are disgusting .transphobia is not okay.Get some sympathy.Its hard for the both of them.Dont just put the blame on lauren.She lived with this hard thought in the back of her mind for what 20 years of their relationship.

    • @ajat3202
      @ajat3202 3 года назад

      So called Lauren chose to do marry this person & even have kids.Even tho this story is scripted & their getting payed from this.

  • @cjpv1972
    @cjpv1972 5 лет назад +24

    This is overwhelming and hard to imagine. It is a lot of love here ...hope the family continues strong 💗

    • @PepsiMagt
      @PepsiMagt 2 года назад +5

      I hope the wife finds the strength to leave her ridiculous and deluded husband

    • @munnabhao588
      @munnabhao588 2 года назад

      Hi Im Pakistani , looking for a wife

  • @albertothompson1237
    @albertothompson1237 3 года назад +1

    thats a whole mqn mot female

  • @sointeresting2794
    @sointeresting2794 6 лет назад +36

    The world has gone mad!

  • @jocelynpoesnecker5526
    @jocelynpoesnecker5526 6 лет назад +2

    God does not make mistakes. This man has so many blessings from God. He should work to obey God first and be a good husband and father to his children.

    • @JA-nc9ym
      @JA-nc9ym 6 лет назад

      Jocelyn Poesnecker who said God doesn't put this in this woman's life so she can transition and grow into a beautiful woman for Him? God doesn't make mistakes; he made her the way she needed to be to grow closer to Him.

  • @MimosaH15
    @MimosaH15 6 лет назад +28

    the wife is so lovely with her perspective. i can really respect that. i really hope they can work together and stay united for the children as well.

    • @oliviawutam
      @oliviawutam 3 года назад

      Unless the children have been influenced against the dad, the love is still there

  • @english3082
    @english3082 2 года назад +1

    Autogynephilia

  • @stellabella5269
    @stellabella5269 6 лет назад +3

    That lady needs keto and intermittent fasting then she needs to leave this guy and find a hot new husband asap! ☺

  • @vitobaleinadogo8973
    @vitobaleinadogo8973 3 года назад +1

    Confused and still a man

  • @debonywesley
    @debonywesley 6 лет назад +3

    Bullshht, I’m not sacrificing my happiness. Would he stain it was the other way around. You know men wouldn’t

  • @gendermapper5995
    @gendermapper5995 3 года назад +1

    autogynephille