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I’ve been in this cycle for a long time….trying to “help” him out of bondage. Today, I turn him over to the wrath of the Living God. I get my hands off of him! I surrender. Lord help me to truly, and completely let him go. I will not get involved any longer. God do not let both of us (and our children) die in that dark place of lies and evil. Pray my strength in the Lord
This is occurring with me right now. My husband abandoned our children and myself to chase his happiness. He has me blocked and is causing extreme financial hardships for me including legal debt. The last few months I confess I have given into the enemy’s lies. I have felt rage for my husband and wanted him to die and pay for what he’s done. I can see why he’s so far gone. Satan is a master of his craft. Please someone pray for me. I’ve been unable to pray other than to beg The Father to just fix it. I’m so exhausted, my health is failing and my husband doesn’t appear to care at all.
Sorry you're dealing with this. Keep your eye on God. I know it's so hard. Trust God & believe he will work things out for your good. Find peace in knowing you are doing God's will. Thoughts of death on someone else are witchcraft. It's ok, just repent & ask God to come into your heart. You have experienced trauma & thats a playground for Satan. He wants you to sin, he wants you to act out your anger against your husband. Pray, repent & let the holy spirit guide you & lead you. You can get through this. I'm dealing with the same thing. You can't lose as long as you Follow God's instruction. Your husband will have to answer to God one day .
Praying for you my dear, you are not alone, praying for others hs helped me to know that I'm not alone. Hang in there woman of God we can do all things threw Christ who gives us strength. Don't let the enemy steel your joy or your peace. The devil is a lie.
Ok, it seems as if some of you all are confused by the message being given. He's not saying your spouse was your enemy. He's saying that he's in the camp of the enemy. That some of us are not where we need to be in God and we're out here trying to save our spouse when our souls are in jeopardy. There is nothing wrong with you praying to God for the salvation and deliverance of your spouse. Make sure you're goal is building an intimate relationship with God, rather than only wanting to be restored to your spouse.
You speak so much truth, I have tried to help my own husband and found out no matter what I can’t do it. I need god more then anything to take over and be my shield, I have been so blinded myself that I thought I could fix him but the more I listen to you and your sermons I believe even more that I no longer can help my husband but only our Heavenly Father can bring him out the darkness and his double mind. Please pray for me that I won’t get sucked into his lies, cause I want to follow Jesus and trust him more.
This was mind blowing. I have been praying and fasting the past two days, asking the Lord to grant me wisdom and understanding. This is just one of His many answered prayers! Thank you!
He quite amazing. Very astute. I married a man who initially pretended to be saved. Even got baptized. The Lord warned me not to marry him. He was actually a witch and I'm not kidding. The marriage was hell. A nightmare. A daymare. Torture. I became mentally ill and confused. Starting sinning against God. Then my ex nearly killed me! He eventually divorced me. Thank the Lord. Chile.....
What a powerful message indeed? I firmly believe God has the power to change any situation. Whoever is reading this message, please don’t give up. Love and blessings 🙏❤️
Hallelujah! I turn my husband over to the wrath of living God. I turn my daughter over to the wrath of the living God! In Jesus name! Bring the discipline of God upon this double mindness. I repent of my sins. Abba forgive me of my sins. I ask for your grace. Thank you Abba. Holy Spirit thank you for discernment and guiding my steps. The battle belongs to the Lord. Thank you for your protection. Beloved brother thank you for this word. May the grace and peace of the Lord be with you.
This is BULLS EYE!!! This is MY HUSBAND down to a tee when we had fights every few years and now Satan has really controlled my husband in a full blown way. Satan has been so strategic in his stronghold on my husband. I have two kids. Please pray for me for strength. This is the TRUTH 🙏
My spouse walked out of our 4 years marriage almost 2 months now, I have had faith, and lost faith due to the hurt and rejection, nothing is getting better, i have interrupted God, by trying to win in the flesh rather than walk in the spirit. I believe the Holy spirit led me to this video therefore I repent of my disobedience and start afresh to submit to the Spirit, to leave everything in God's hands by continuous intercession for my marriage. I love my husband and i receive Strength to overcome the pain and trust God for restoration. God bless you sir.
This was so helpful. I immediately gave myself over to Christ and prayed that he release from my prodigal husband. I am exauhasted from trying to fix this. As of now Jesus is my husband.
I am completely disengaging from this moment forward. I’m tired of the constant change in personality and the rejection, emotional abandonment, and overall disregard for me. I’m done.
My wife has left our marriage after 24 years and 20 years of full time ministry. This stuff “doesn’t happen to me.” Recently the Lord woke me up and spoke to me to leave her alone as she was prodigal and it was a battle between Him and her. I was prodigal as well after I left ministry. God showed me all He had to do to get my attention was take away my idol, my wife. She’s now in rebellion and sin and she knows what she is doing is wrong; however, now her business is going well she thinks God is blessing her decision to leave our covenant of marriage. You hit the nail on the head with people sacrificing the marriage for what they want because they have embraced another world and it doesn’t matter who gets hurt. I know I played my part, but we have no biblical grounds for divorce so this is tearing me apart. Of course, she has a whole new friendship group who is encouraging this decision for her and letting her know that “she has to do what makes her happy.” I know it can be restored but I’ve decided to just trust God and allow Him to work on her heart. I decided it’s best to work on myself and get back to who God says I am.
WOW!!!!! Wow. Wow. Thank you God for this man presenting how you will win the battle against our double minded spouse if we step aside so you can work on us so that you can beat the enemy in the person we love. God please keep me on track to not interfere with your work. Thank you for using Dominique to share your truth when we are hurting. What a powerful message and the tears I had at the beginning of the video are now replaced with hope and excitement that you will do your work in ways I can't. I give it all to you, God! I put my full trust in you. It's a relief because this darkness in my loved one is not a war for me to fight. I give it to you. ❤❤❤
Incredible! On point! I’m going thru this but committed to the Lord, and praying, and steering clear of my prodigal husband. bind all evil, Jezebel and leviathan back to the abyss!!! Lord bring the discipline for your Glory. Hallelujah!
This is true. I'm now in the second part of following after The Spirit. In the early stages I was tormented and troubled so much by what my husband was doing. It was terrible for me. I did all I could to fight it in my flesh and it did not work. My husband ended up leaving and we've been separated for a while. From that, I've chosen to change through many tears of repentance and then re-strengthening. My husband still did things, but my stand in the Spirit finally caused him to say things differently so now he hides and blocks the majority of Christ I give. All of this and he's serving in a church. This battle, especially under the deception of religion is sad, but I will continue to walk after The Spirit.
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I left a church 6 months ago. There is no contact with the enemy now, I had some witchcraft influence from people in former church. I left that church 6 months ago! Praise God for delivering me from that church🙏 I am set free from the church. I present the church to you Lord for Salvation and purging evil spirit.I belong to A Holy Spirit filled church now. I separate myself from any Unholiness in that church.
My husband divorced me in 2016, and we have been talking again since 10 months later, the Spirit led me to watch this, and oh my goodness... this is exactly what I have been going through, and have gotten myself so lost, I have fasted for 2 days now trying to hear from God and am freaking out because of what I have been doing in my fixation on what he is doing, he has become a yo-yo and is drinking like never before... I thank you and ask for prayers to keep me strong during this time to keep me strong and in the Lord... I do not want to fail my Lord and find myself sinking into the pits that have been dug for me by the enemy... I love this man so much, and cannot loose myself anymore than I have... I repent of doing this in my own flesh... Father help me, show me what to do next, in the precious and Holy name of Jesus.
This is an awesome word! I will not walk after the flesh. I will walk after the Spirit! I will let God handle my relationship! In Jesus Name! I surrender them to God!
When you allow their sin to cause you to sin then you are ruining yourself and ruining your identity in God. That was me. I’m repenting. It hurts when your spouse is ungodly and not loving you the way you know is right but you finally realize you can at least heal yourself by seeking God and giving your heart to Him. Us women want a husband to love us and be true but our salvation and identity as God’s child is what is first and even more important. I’m done living on the merry go round of whether or not my husband is rejecting me or not. I am building a new person who is looking to God and praying for my husband to be saved. I have to become what God has made me to be and not the destruction of me that the enemy has done to me when I got involved in that dark rejection cycle. Our Father God is faithful.
The Bible says, "It is a snare to put your trust in man." It also states in Psalms,"It is better to take refuge in Yahuah than to put your trust in man." A lot of you have put your trust in your husband, so now that they have left, you are falling apart. Yahuah allowed this, not so you can get divorced and get another spouse, but so that you will draw closer to him. Time is short, we don't have time to get distracted by the enemy. Trust God with your marriage, your family, and your salvation. He cannot or will not fail us.
I needed to hear this. Not for my wife, but for myself. God whispered my way here. And now I see that this is part of my restoration. Learning about all of the things that he wants me to see that is in my heart that he sees. As I walk in the spirit and put to death the deeds of the flesh, God is working on me as we speak, to restore me the way he always wanted to. He showed me the blueprint to my own temple. Now hes at work repairing the damages and more, while simultaneously getting ready to move upon my wife by scanning her heart the same way he searched mine. I cannot afford to fail now. Pray for our marriage to be restored. In God, All things are possible. I have so much faith in him now in Christ Jesus.
this is 100% true... My heart hurts Thinking Of my wife and what she is doing but I thank God for this video that through the love of Jesus, He never stops showing me signs to pick Him first and all these will be addes unto me...
This is sooooo good. This is me currently and I’m grateful God wants to call me out. Thank you Lord 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 let me get back into alignment swiftly. Hallelujah glory to God. You are truly an anointed teacher. I delight in learning from you and your revelations of the word
Oh my this is what the holy spirit wanted me to hear thank you!!!. God let your will be done and I will not get in the way! Amen. All the glory belongs to you oh God!
Thank you Dominic for being so clear. You explained exactly what happened to me with my husband ! You hit every point exactly. God bless you for your spiritual revelatory knowledge.
This all makes so much sense. My husband has completely changed since I gave my life to the LORD. The Holy Spirit keeps telling me to keep praying for him, so I do. This podcast is solidifying what the Holy Spirit has been telling me. I also know, the LORD will not let the enemy win this battle. The Lord says he will fight for me and I shall hold my peace. My job is to keep praying. That's it.
I was blessed to have been lead by the Holyspirit to have listen to an awesome message. Praise be to God, as always in His perfect timing this great message was for me… 😊 Thankyou and bless you for your channel.🙏🏾
This man is amazing. His teachings is amazing. I have listened to this probably a 100 times and will continue listening to it. This is a very wise spiritual teaching. Glory to God🙌
I couldn't let my double minded man go for years! The Lord shined the light and told me it was my rejection and abandonment issues. Once He revealed & healed me , walking away got easier. These people are wildin'. They will try to destroy you. You must let the Lord handle them. They are demonized.
Amen. Please pray for restoration, transformation and healing on my husband, myself our children and grandchildren which he abandoned 3 years ago.. Thank you for the teaching of discipline. Thank you Jesus.
I have done the same thing asked God to bless her my heart is broken and love my wife so dearly but I can't worship her I have resolved to letting God work in me and have left her in his hands , the last 10 months have been nothing but accusations and fighting, I just can't do it anymore I always ended up feeling like I was the cause, but it was my flesh that was trying to fix everything problem was i was only causing more damage, so I have surrendered all to God . God holds every tear that has fallen from my eyes in his hands .
This is exactly what I needed to hear. The so called brother I was supposed to marry..God kept reiterating 'double minded'. Yes, God said this. After a great deal of confusion, pain and heartache..I've released him to the Lord. God is dealing with him, not me!
I am so incredibly grateful for your videos. After an agonizing divorce 15 years ago, I almost married a double minded man. He nearly drove me insane! I hung on because I thought God wanted me to. Plus, I kept dreaming we'd be together serving Christ. Is that crazy. Did these dreams come from the enemy? Anyway we ended it. He was nutty. Kukuu for cocoa puffs.
Sir,thank you for this message! I now realized that Ive been operating under the influence of double minded spirit which does not come from the Lord. I felt contaminated of the enemy's spirit because my husband comes home once in while, to lay next to me. Now, Im going to ask the Lord to cleanse my mind, body and soul have my husband not to touch me, nor comes home not unless he REPENT and SURRENDER his soul back to JESUS! GODBLESS YOU SIR!
Praying for your marriage, please keep mine in your prayers as well, the devil is attacking our husband's and our marriages,but God. The enemy is attacking so many families right now we have to stand firm on God's word. Amen!
I cried as I heard your message. You explain it so well what I am going thru right now in my marriage. I will listen to this everyday to remind myself. And know the enemie is going to stop from today with this torment. I am a child of God and will look towards God. I really look towards him from this day forward. My only question is what if you still live in the same household with your spouse? Thank you!!🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼
Thank you, I needed this my fiancé (6 years in) moved away supposedly for job, we are engaged and he never calls or replies, I absolutely agree I got in God’s way as well as my own …. It does not matter if it don’t work out or if it does I want to place it in God’s hands I usually make it worse in my own thinking and trying to make him feel bad. Dark places do not receive it. And I’m tired of crying when maybe I just need to move forward in faith on my own.
You are blessed that he is not your husband, have you asked God if this is who he has for you? Someone who can disregard your feelings in this way seems like a red flag.
I needed this so much! It was very much confirmation! And I will be using this in my walk. I blocked my husband because there’s no way I can take my hands off without doing so. This gave me the confirmation I needed that I’m making the right decision. Thank you for this TRUTH!! God bless you!
UPDATE! Things are turning around for us!! This WORKS! NOTHING is too hard for God. 🙌🏽 He is no longer blocked. I unblocked him but still applied boundaries. Now I’m able to let the boundaries down some. God has been speaking to him and reminding him of now only HIS purpose, but OURS as a couple. 🙌🏽 Trust God.
Thanks for confirming this. I had to block my husband as well four days ago because every-time we have an encounter it never ends well and I ended up interrupting Gods process.
I blocked my husband too..coz he can't make time for our child even if he's online and has wifi ..instead he's posting his tours and tagged it as #life. The arrogance itself is messing up with my healing
God bless you! I really needed this teaching, I’m so guilty of interfering etc. but I’ve definitely learned the hard way. I’ve officially surrendered EVERYTHING. Thank you so much for this teaching, To God be the Glory
This is by far the best one because I have been doing everything you said, and the Holy Spirit has been speaking but I wasn't listening. I started to listen and this message came up to help me recognize areas where I need to let go of and not be caught up in the web of double minded deception. Thank you Lord for revealing to me my error to stop contributing to the madness and allow you to do your will. Amen
Wow what an amazing teacher and mentor you are,I have the utmost respect for your teachings everything is so true and makes so much sense...love it...thank you
I SO needed a counsel like this 20 years ago when my (now ex) spouse was going through all his dark world of po*n and se*ual escapades during our 14 years of marriage. I had enough and divorced him...he is still in his own world of insanity. If you just used this counsel on the topic of po*n alone, you will cover 80-90% of marriages.
I just want to confess that I am the one that is being double minded . By my disobedience to God and my husband by taking this medication and not coming off of it yet. I actually want to be free In my spirit but my flesh is in bondage to it. And it effects my emotions and mindset. I desire to be in the presence of the Lord and I desire to be fully set free and repentant I need prayer because while I want and believe this I'm doing something different that is why I say I am seeing with a double mind. I need help and prayer I have a great job a 2 children and o lovely life but I have these things that need to be faced and dealt with and I need a heart change
Your heart is repentant you can seek deliverance from the Lord. Listen to your heart and follow it through to seek deliverance from the Lord. Joel chptr 2 and Romans chptr 10 says All those who call upon the name of the Lord will be saved.
This is so true about how a double minded spouse who is blinded can pull us in!!! It’s clearly wrong yet I see me dismissing it as oh we are only friends. She’s my friend!!! NO!!! The truth is no one cuts asunder a man and his wife!!! No one comes before or takes a wife/ husband’s place! Please pray THE FATHER open my husband’s hearts, ears, and eyes and convict him and the strange woman
@17:30 you described what my husband does soo well it’s like you are in my house when it happens. The last time this happened I heard a small voice say, “He’s losing his mind.” A day or so after that my husband told me that he feels like he is losing his mind. I have decided to listen to what you are saying in your videos and take the necessary steps to follow Christ by focusing on myself and my young children.
Ohh thank you, i wish I have heard this years ago.... My husband is this state for at least 6 years, he is living home, I have been guilty to response to his dubble minded, it has been so much distruction from his part, ohhh Lord heal me, heal my husband from his captivity, our childrens from the destruction caused
I am living this!!!! My husband gives to others what he has always held back from me!!! Please pray THE FATHER will CONTEND with Dan to give him eyes to see, ears that hear, and a heart that perceives. He has his spread his to our children😩😱😭
Thank you for being godly and seeking God and being an example. Thank you God for this wisdom coming through. I release my husband to the Lord. No more chasing after my husband. I can release him to God and pray for God to work. I want my husband to be saved. It’s my conclusion that men turn to fleshiness because they don’t seek God, they don’t believe and it’s the Spirit’s work to pursue them and bring them to repent and be saved. I am not saying everyone should stay with their husband, I’m just saying we have to pray for them with our heart and repent of rage or hatred or unforgiveness so that we can have peace. It doesn’t mean we have to trust our husband or give him open access to our heart it just means love and forgive them with a love you don’t have and that’s God’s love for them. They really do have to truly repent of their sin and seek God to get right with their wife and most importantly God who is first and worthy of our full heart.
This message just made things so clear to me about what's going on with my husband. I did make the decision to leave his house when he rejected me and told me he did not want me or love me. Thus is after 20 years of marriage. Unfortunately, he has used the separation to file for automatic divorce because we've been separated for more than 1 year now. But God keeps telling me that the battle belongs to the Him. So I trust Him to fight it for me.
My dear this sounds like my story. The battle is not ours pray for me, God is doing great things and restoring marriages. Amen we are next for a miracle.
Our loved ones need to learn the lessons we're learning now. We must accept and understand that may take lifetimes. That they may never learn. We need to remember that everyone involved is learning, and that while we learn together, each one is also separately learning only what they choose to let in. That it's only God's Plan that matters. We need to cast down our own plan. We can never forget that the blind can't lead the blind. And that our loved ones belong first and foremost to Christ. Not to us. I am living with a partner who gave in to addiction years ago. I am in full acceptance that his battle belongs only to The Lord. The enemy has them convinced that they're hiding it from me. Addiction is obvious. And, the echoes of the enemy are loud and persistent in the addicted. I have constantly asked the Holy Spirit for revelation. I have asked, "If I want to stay with him, how am I to walk beside him without hating them for the daily deceit, abuse and betrayal?" He finally answered, "In order to walk beside him, you must forgive him with all your heart, again, each and every night. And after, you must give your pain unto Me. For I shall heal your wounds, and comfort you." This seems also Holy Wisdom for all people and situations we encounter. I pray this Holy Wisdom will help you on your journey too.
You sir, have a blessed gift! This is my 3rd time watching this video and you perfectly describe my situation with my prodigal spouse. “When I am afraid, I will trust in You. In God, whose word I praise, In God I trust; I shall not be afraid. What can mere man do to me?” Psalms 56:3-4 LSB
This is good and encouraging GODLY true word GOD knows I needed this word I'm going thru this with my spouse I felt like screaming wondering why he dONT 😢stop his sins and he know he knows GOD
Dominic, I woke up with the thought, what carrying the secret of someone else’s sin does to you? This answered a lot of that. I was just diagnosed with cancer Mets to my bones, I feel the weight of his sin on my back, which I was never meant to carry.
I did not see my rejection of where he is at instead of accepting it and turning him over to God, as rebellion and disobedience. Lord, help me to be patient and stop defending, complaining, or explaining myself. I need to delight in the Lord, and find my peace there.
I pray that God will move Mads' heart & transform him to have a better faith in God so he will be able to discern & have wisdom. I pray that God would still restore & heal our relationship. Amen.
That happened to me and I felt into the trap, spending more time looking more to her than to the Lord partaking in her double mind. My marriage was over and I got divorced. I have a 6 year old son and he was the most hurt, because she moved a thousand miles away from me with him. I messed up failing into the trap, walking after the flesh and not the spirit. I ask God to forgive me for the divorce.
Hello Dominic. Can you please make a video talking about how to know when it is the right time that should you engage with your loved once again, after you have allowed God to work on the relationship in the spirit as opposed to you making the relationship work in the flesh? I'm very interested in this particular topic and hope that many, including myself, to get a total understanding of it.
With much prayer from yourself & others, and with counsel on knowing what steps to take next, ABBA Father will give you that knowing. Ask him for HIS SET-APART Spirit to guide you into all understanding with this, and be guided by HIM alone in your ultimate decisions.
Im going through this right now....this is soooo painful my wife has stepped out on me again.One day im praying for restoration one day I don't want because the hurt that comes with waiting....Lord please strengthen me and guide me
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What do I do?
I'm the double minded spouse.
@@jomatthewson9550I hope you committed to the Program...if not...I would like to encourage you to try the Fathers way once more.
"You spend more time fixated on the spouse under darkness than be submitted to the living God" Powerfull
Super powerful
I’ve been in this cycle for a long time….trying to “help” him out of bondage.
Today, I turn him over to the wrath of the Living God. I get my hands off of him! I surrender. Lord help me to truly, and completely let him go. I will not get involved any longer.
God do not let both of us (and our children) die in that dark place of lies and evil.
Pray my strength in the Lord
This is occurring with me right now. My husband abandoned our children and myself to chase his happiness. He has me blocked and is causing extreme financial hardships for me including legal debt. The last few months I confess I have given into the enemy’s lies. I have felt rage for my husband and wanted him to die and pay for what he’s done. I can see why he’s so far gone. Satan is a master of his craft. Please someone pray for me. I’ve been unable to pray other than to beg The Father to just fix it. I’m so exhausted, my health is failing and my husband doesn’t appear to care at all.
Praying ❤️🙏🏽✝️
Praying sis. 🙏🏾💕
Sorry you're dealing with this. Keep your eye on God. I know it's so hard. Trust God & believe he will work things out for your good. Find peace in knowing you are doing God's will. Thoughts of death on someone else are witchcraft. It's ok, just repent & ask God to come into your heart. You have experienced trauma & thats a playground for Satan. He wants you to sin, he wants you to act out your anger against your husband. Pray, repent & let the holy spirit guide you & lead you. You can get through this. I'm dealing with the same thing. You can't lose as long as you Follow God's instruction. Your husband will have to answer to God one day .
praying total healing and restoration 🙏🏽
Praying for you my dear, you are not alone, praying for others hs helped me to know that I'm not alone. Hang in there woman of God we can do all things threw Christ who gives us strength. Don't let the enemy steel your joy or your peace. The devil is a lie.
Ok, it seems as if some of you all are confused by the message being given. He's not saying your spouse was your enemy. He's saying that he's in the camp of the enemy. That some of us are not where we need to be in God and we're out here trying to save our spouse when our souls are in jeopardy.
There is nothing wrong with you praying to God for the salvation and deliverance of your spouse. Make sure you're goal is building an intimate relationship with God, rather than only wanting to be restored to your spouse.
Thank you so much for this clarification. I was also confused by some of the other comments (in that they didn't understand the msg).
You speak so much truth, I have tried to help my own husband and found out no matter what I can’t do it. I need god more then anything to take over and be my shield, I have been so blinded myself that I thought I could fix him but the more I listen to you and your sermons I believe even more that I no longer can help my husband but only our Heavenly Father can bring him out the darkness and his double mind.
Please pray for me that I won’t get sucked into his lies, cause I want to follow Jesus and trust him more.
This was mind blowing. I have been praying and fasting the past two days, asking the Lord to grant me wisdom and understanding. This is just one of His many answered prayers! Thank you!
He quite amazing. Very astute. I married a man who initially pretended to be saved. Even got baptized. The Lord warned me not to marry him. He was actually a witch and I'm not kidding. The marriage was hell. A nightmare. A daymare. Torture. I became mentally ill and confused. Starting sinning against God. Then my ex nearly killed me! He eventually divorced me. Thank the Lord. Chile.....
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Respectfully this isn't about divorce. 😮
@@danilaroche1156 God loves you so much.
What a powerful message indeed? I firmly believe God has the power to change any situation. Whoever is reading this message, please don’t give up. Love and blessings 🙏❤️
Hallelujah! I turn my husband over to the wrath of living God.
I turn my daughter over to the wrath of the living God!
In Jesus name!
Bring the discipline of God upon this double mindness.
I repent of my sins. Abba forgive me of my sins. I ask for your grace.
Thank you Abba.
Holy Spirit thank you for discernment and guiding my steps.
The battle belongs to the Lord.
Thank you for your protection.
Beloved brother thank you for this word.
May the grace and peace of the Lord be with you.
Thanks you for the encouraging words - deeply appreciated 🙏
This is BULLS EYE!!! This is MY HUSBAND down to a tee when we had fights every few years and now Satan has really controlled my husband in a full blown way. Satan has been so strategic in his stronghold on my husband. I have two kids. Please pray for me for strength. This is the TRUTH 🙏
I believe you. Let’s all pray for one another.
My spouse walked out of our 4 years marriage almost 2 months now, I have had faith, and lost faith due to the hurt and rejection, nothing is getting better, i have interrupted God, by trying to win in the flesh rather than walk in the spirit. I believe the Holy spirit led me to this video therefore I repent of my disobedience and start afresh to submit to the Spirit, to leave everything in God's hands by continuous intercession for my marriage. I love my husband and i receive Strength to overcome the pain and trust God for restoration. God bless you sir.
Hi,how is your standing,have you seen changes
Don't give up keep pressing on and asked God to heal you and for his will to be done in you.
I love your comment. May God restore your marriage❤
Love God more and disengage. If God wants it work out, it will. If He doesn’t, turn to God and leave it alone.
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This was so helpful. I immediately gave myself over to Christ and prayed that he release from my prodigal husband. I am exauhasted from trying to fix this. As of now Jesus is my husband.
I am completely disengaging from this moment forward. I’m tired of the constant change in personality and the rejection, emotional abandonment, and overall disregard for me. I’m done.
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My wife has left our marriage after 24 years and 20 years of full time ministry. This stuff “doesn’t happen to me.” Recently the Lord woke me up and spoke to me to leave her alone as she was prodigal and it was a battle between Him and her. I was prodigal as well after I left ministry. God showed me all He had to do to get my attention was take away my idol, my wife.
She’s now in rebellion and sin and she knows what she is doing is wrong; however, now her business is going well she thinks God is blessing her decision to leave our covenant of marriage. You hit the nail on the head with people sacrificing the marriage for what they want because they have embraced another world and it doesn’t matter who gets hurt. I know I played my part, but we have no biblical grounds for divorce so this is tearing me apart. Of course, she has a whole new friendship group who is encouraging this decision for her and letting her know that “she has to do what makes her happy.”
I know it can be restored but I’ve decided to just trust God and allow Him to work on her heart. I decided it’s best to work on myself and get back to who God says I am.
Thank you for this. My exact story.
WOW!!!!! Wow. Wow. Thank you God for this man presenting how you will win the battle against our double minded spouse if we step aside so you can work on us so that you can beat the enemy in the person we love. God please keep me on track to not interfere with your work. Thank you for using Dominique to share your truth when we are hurting. What a powerful message and the tears I had at the beginning of the video are now replaced with hope and excitement that you will do your work in ways I can't. I give it all to you, God! I put my full trust in you. It's a relief because this darkness in my loved one is not a war for me to fight. I give it to you. ❤❤❤
Incredible! On point! I’m going thru this but committed to the Lord, and praying, and steering clear of my prodigal husband. bind all evil, Jezebel and leviathan back to the abyss!!! Lord bring the discipline for your Glory. Hallelujah!
What if the husband has came home but because I put my hands in it? Do I leave still?
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God is love….Listen to His love commandment…Jesus will work out the rest! Keep walking in grace for you and for him.
😮 I wish I had heard this about 46 years ago 😢. It's too late now, but
I pray many other's benefit 🙏
This is true. I'm now in the second part of following after The Spirit. In the early stages I was tormented and troubled so much by what my husband was doing. It was terrible for me. I did all I could to fight it in my flesh and it did not work. My husband ended up leaving and we've been separated for a while. From that, I've chosen to change through many tears of repentance and then re-strengthening. My husband still did things, but my stand in the Spirit finally caused him to say things differently so now he hides and blocks the majority of Christ I give. All of this and he's serving in a church. This battle, especially under the deception of religion is sad, but I will continue to walk after The Spirit.
I left a church 6 months ago. There is no contact with the enemy now, I had some witchcraft influence from people in former church. I left that church 6 months ago! Praise God for delivering me from that church🙏 I am set free from the church. I present the church to you Lord for Salvation and purging evil spirit.I belong to A Holy Spirit filled church now. I separate myself from any Unholiness in that church.
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My husband divorced me in 2016, and we have been talking again since 10 months later, the Spirit led me to watch this, and oh my goodness... this is exactly what I have been going through, and have gotten myself so lost, I have fasted for 2 days now trying to hear from God and am freaking out because of what I have been doing in my fixation on what he is doing, he has become a yo-yo and is drinking like never before... I thank you and ask for prayers to keep me strong during this time to keep me strong and in the Lord... I do not want to fail my Lord and find myself sinking into the pits that have been dug for me by the enemy... I love this man so much, and cannot loose myself anymore than I have... I repent of doing this in my own flesh... Father help me, show me what to do next, in the precious and Holy name of Jesus.
How is it going now, Heather?
This is an awesome word! I will not walk after the flesh. I will walk after the Spirit! I will let God handle my relationship! In Jesus Name! I surrender them to God!
When you allow their sin to cause you to sin then you are ruining yourself and ruining your identity in God. That was me. I’m repenting. It hurts when your spouse is ungodly and not loving you the way you know is right but you finally realize you can at least heal yourself by seeking God and giving your heart to Him. Us women want a husband to love us and be true but our salvation and identity as God’s child is what is first and even more important. I’m done living on the merry go round of whether or not my husband is rejecting me or not. I am building a new person who is looking to God and praying for my husband to be saved. I have to become what God has made me to be and not the destruction of me that the enemy has done to me when I got involved in that dark rejection cycle. Our Father God is faithful.
I really needed this!!! No more being in it! God has me and will deal with him and the counterfeit. Amen!
The Bible says, "It is a snare to put your trust in man." It also states in Psalms,"It is better to take refuge in Yahuah than to put your trust in man."
A lot of you have put your trust in your husband, so now that they have left, you are falling apart. Yahuah allowed this, not so you can get divorced and get another spouse, but so that you will draw closer to him. Time is short, we don't have time to get distracted by the enemy. Trust God with your marriage, your family, and your salvation. He cannot or will not fail us.
I am guilty and I repent
I needed to hear this. Not for my wife, but for myself. God whispered my way here. And now I see that this is part of my restoration. Learning about all of the things that he wants me to see that is in my heart that he sees.
As I walk in the spirit and put to death the deeds of the flesh, God is working on me as we speak, to restore me the way he always wanted to.
He showed me the blueprint to my own temple. Now hes at work repairing the damages and more, while simultaneously getting ready to move upon my wife by scanning her heart the same way he searched mine.
I cannot afford to fail now. Pray for our marriage to be restored. In God, All things are possible. I have so much faith in him now in Christ Jesus.
Excellent Biblical advice!!!!👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
FATHER strengthen our hearts to stand for righteousness!!!!
Oh I have wasted so much time....I am now surrendered and have no contact. I pray I didn't do too much damage
Don't obsess about damage. God is Sovereign. All things work together for the good ...Romans 8:28.
this is 100% true... My heart hurts Thinking Of my wife and what she is doing but I thank God for this video that through the love of Jesus, He never stops showing me signs to pick Him first and all these will be addes unto me...
This is sooooo good. This is me currently and I’m grateful God wants to call me out. Thank you Lord 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 let me get back into alignment swiftly. Hallelujah glory to God. You are truly an anointed teacher. I delight in learning from you and your revelations of the word
Oh my this is what the holy spirit wanted me to hear thank you!!!. God let your will be done and I will not get in the way! Amen. All the glory belongs to you oh God!
Thank you Dominic for being so clear. You explained exactly what happened to me with my husband ! You hit every point exactly. God bless you for your spiritual revelatory knowledge.
My story ans reply too.
Wow! Praise God! This spoke so much life upon my walk. Thank you!
This all makes so much sense. My husband has completely changed since I gave my life to the LORD. The Holy Spirit keeps telling me to keep praying for him, so I do. This podcast is solidifying what the Holy Spirit has been telling me. I also know, the LORD will not let the enemy win this battle. The Lord says he will fight for me and I shall hold my peace. My job is to keep praying. That's it.
I need to watch this everyday more than once 🙏
I was blessed to have been lead by the Holyspirit to have listen to an awesome message. Praise be to God, as always in His perfect timing this great message was for me…
😊 Thankyou and bless you for your channel.🙏🏾
This man is amazing. His teachings is amazing. I have listened to this probably a 100 times and will continue listening to it. This is a very wise spiritual teaching. Glory to God🙌
So eye opening! Lord forgive me! I can't do it, I give him to you, I step aside. In Jesus mighty name. Amen
I couldn't let my double minded man go for years! The Lord shined the light and told me it was my rejection and abandonment issues. Once He revealed & healed me , walking away got easier. These people are wildin'. They will try to destroy you. You must let the Lord handle them. They are demonized.
Amen and amen 🙏🏽
Amen. Please pray for restoration, transformation and healing on my husband, myself our children and grandchildren which he abandoned 3 years ago.. Thank you for the teaching of discipline. Thank you Jesus.
I am going through the same problems wife left me 7 months ago, i have surrendered to GOD and have asked him to bless her .
I have done the same thing asked God to bless her my heart is broken and love my wife so dearly but I can't worship her I have resolved to letting God work in me and have left her in his hands , the last 10 months have been nothing but accusations and fighting, I just can't do it anymore I always ended up feeling like I was the cause, but it was my flesh that was trying to fix everything problem was i was only causing more damage, so I have surrendered all to God . God holds every tear that has fallen from my eyes in his hands .
This is exactly what I needed to hear. The so called brother I was supposed to marry..God kept reiterating 'double minded'. Yes, God said this. After a great deal of confusion, pain and heartache..I've released him to the Lord. God is dealing with him, not me!
I am so incredibly grateful for your videos. After an agonizing divorce 15 years ago, I almost married a double minded man. He nearly drove me insane! I hung on because I thought God wanted me to. Plus, I kept dreaming we'd be together serving Christ. Is that crazy. Did these dreams come from the enemy? Anyway we ended it. He was nutty. Kukuu for cocoa puffs.
I'm so glad you received God's message and got yourself free.
Lord every part of this is the truth. I was the double minded spouse and thank GOD he called my name.
Sir,thank you for this message! I now realized that Ive been operating under the influence of double minded spirit which does not come from the Lord. I felt contaminated of the enemy's spirit because my husband comes home once in while, to lay next to me. Now, Im going to ask the Lord to cleanse my mind, body and soul have my husband not to touch me, nor comes home not unless he REPENT and SURRENDER his soul back to JESUS! GODBLESS YOU SIR!
Mind blowing 🤯 eye opening God's will above mine 🤲🏻 guide me Holy Spirit 🙏🏻
Really helpful information in this video..it describes my double-minded spouse perfectly. 😥
Praying for your marriage, please keep mine in your prayers as well, the devil is attacking our husband's and our marriages,but God. The enemy is attacking so many families right now we have to stand firm on God's word. Amen!
I cried as I heard your message. You explain it so well what I am going thru right now in my marriage. I will listen to this everyday to remind myself. And know the enemie is going to stop from today with this torment. I am a child of God and will look towards God. I really look towards him from this day forward. My only question is what if you still live in the same household with your spouse? Thank you!!🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼
Thank you, I needed this my fiancé (6 years in) moved away supposedly for job, we are engaged and he never calls or replies, I absolutely agree I got in God’s way as well as my own …. It does not matter if it don’t work out or if it does I want to place it in God’s hands I usually make it worse in my own thinking and trying to make him feel bad. Dark places do not receive it. And I’m tired of crying when maybe I just need to move forward in faith on my own.
Doesn't appear that he loves the Lord. He doesn't reply and moved away? 6 years engaged? Girl......let him go! It won't be easy but God will help.
You are blessed that he is not your husband, have you asked God if this is who he has for you? Someone who can disregard your feelings in this way seems like a red flag.
Move on.
I soooo needed this!!! God bless you brother 🙏🏾
I needed this so much! It was very much confirmation! And I will be using this in my walk. I blocked my husband because there’s no way I can take my hands off without doing so. This gave me the confirmation I needed that I’m making the right decision. Thank you for this TRUTH!! God bless you!
UPDATE! Things are turning around for us!! This WORKS! NOTHING is too hard for God. 🙌🏽 He is no longer blocked. I unblocked him but still applied boundaries. Now I’m able to let the boundaries down some. God has been speaking to him and reminding him of now only HIS purpose, but OURS as a couple. 🙌🏽 Trust God.
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Thanks for confirming this. I had to block my husband as well four days ago because every-time we have an encounter it never ends well and I ended up interrupting Gods process.
I blocked my husband too..coz he can't make time for our child even if he's online and has wifi ..instead he's posting his tours and tagged it as #life.
The arrogance itself is messing up with my healing
This is exactly what I’m experiencing in my marriage
God bless you! I really needed this teaching, I’m so guilty of interfering etc. but I’ve definitely learned the hard way. I’ve officially surrendered EVERYTHING. Thank you so much for this teaching, To God be the Glory
This is by far the best one because I have been doing everything you said, and the Holy Spirit has been speaking but I wasn't listening. I started to listen and this message came up to help me recognize areas where I need to let go of and not be caught up in the web of double minded deception. Thank you Lord for revealing to me my error to stop contributing to the madness and allow you to do your will. Amen
When he said separate does he mean to like leave in the marriage and live alone? Or just separate from entertaining his folly?
Wow what an amazing teacher and mentor you are,I have the utmost respect for your teachings everything is so true and makes so much sense...love it...thank you
I SO needed a counsel like this 20 years ago when my (now ex) spouse was going through all his dark world of po*n and se*ual escapades during our 14 years of marriage. I had enough and divorced him...he is still in his own world of insanity.
If you just used this counsel on the topic of po*n alone, you will cover 80-90% of marriages.
I just want to confess that I am the one that is being double minded . By my disobedience to God and my husband by taking this medication and not coming off of it yet. I actually want to be free In my spirit but my flesh is in bondage to it. And it effects my emotions and mindset. I desire to be in the presence of the Lord and I desire to be fully set free and repentant I need prayer because while I want and believe this I'm doing something different that is why I say I am seeing with a double mind. I need help and prayer I have a great job a 2 children and o lovely life but I have these things that need to be faced and dealt with and I need a heart change
Your heart is repentant you can seek deliverance from the Lord. Listen to your heart and follow it through to seek deliverance from the Lord. Joel chptr 2 and Romans chptr 10 says All those who call upon the name of the Lord will be saved.
Thank you 🙏🏾 This word was a blessing to me and my husband… Glory to God!🙌🏽🙌🏽
This is so true about how a double minded spouse who is blinded can pull us in!!!
It’s clearly wrong yet I see me dismissing it as oh we are only friends. She’s my friend!!! NO!!! The truth is no one cuts asunder a man and his wife!!! No one comes before or takes a wife/ husband’s place!
Please pray THE FATHER open my husband’s hearts, ears, and eyes and convict him and the strange woman
@17:30 you described what my husband does soo well it’s like you are in my house when it happens. The last time this happened I heard a small voice say, “He’s losing his mind.” A day or so after that my husband told me that he feels like he is losing his mind. I have decided to listen to what you are saying in your videos and take the necessary steps to follow Christ by focusing on myself and my young children.
Pray for my husband to come back to Christ Jesus 😢❤🙏
Ohh thank you, i wish I have heard this years ago.... My husband is this state for at least 6 years, he is living home, I have been guilty to response to his dubble minded, it has been so much distruction from his part, ohhh Lord heal me, heal my husband from his captivity, our childrens from the destruction caused
Amen. Thank you so much.Your teachings have really changed my life.
I am living this!!!! My husband gives to others what he has always held back from me!!! Please pray THE FATHER will CONTEND with Dan to give him eyes to see, ears that hear, and a heart that perceives. He has his spread his to our children😩😱😭
I’m so grateful to have come across this video. Huge blessing!!!
Thank you for being godly and seeking God and being an example. Thank you God for this wisdom coming through. I release my husband to the Lord. No more chasing after my husband. I can release him to God and pray for God to work. I want my husband to be saved. It’s my conclusion that men turn to fleshiness because they don’t seek God, they don’t believe and it’s the Spirit’s work to pursue them and bring them to repent and be saved. I am not saying everyone should stay with their husband, I’m just saying we have to pray for them with our heart and repent of rage or hatred or unforgiveness so that we can have peace. It doesn’t mean we have to trust our husband or give him open access to our heart it just means love and forgive them with a love you don’t have and that’s God’s love for them. They really do have to truly repent of their sin and seek God to get right with their wife and most importantly God who is first and worthy of our full heart.
This message just made things so clear to me about what's going on with my husband. I did make the decision to leave his house when he rejected me and told me he did not want me or love me. Thus is after 20 years of marriage. Unfortunately, he has used the separation to file for automatic divorce because we've been separated for more than 1 year now. But God keeps telling me that the battle belongs to the Him. So I trust Him to fight it for me.
My dear this sounds like my story. The battle is not ours pray for me, God is doing great things and restoring marriages. Amen we are next for a miracle.
Our loved ones need to learn the lessons we're learning now. We must accept and understand that may take lifetimes. That they may never learn. We need to remember that everyone involved is learning, and that while we learn together, each one is also separately learning only what they choose to let in. That it's only God's Plan that matters. We need to cast down our own plan. We can never forget that the blind can't lead the blind. And that our loved ones belong first and foremost to Christ. Not to us.
I am living with a partner who gave in to addiction years ago. I am in full acceptance that his battle belongs only to The Lord. The enemy has them convinced that they're hiding it from me. Addiction is obvious. And, the echoes of the enemy are loud and persistent in the addicted. I have constantly asked the Holy Spirit for revelation. I have asked, "If I want to stay with him, how am I to walk beside him without hating them for the daily deceit, abuse and betrayal?" He finally answered, "In order to walk beside him, you must forgive him with all your heart, again, each and every night. And after, you must give your pain unto Me. For I shall heal your wounds, and comfort you."
This seems also Holy Wisdom for all people and situations we encounter. I pray this Holy Wisdom will help you on your journey too.
Thank you , yes discipline is because of the love of God …
You sir, have a blessed gift! This is my 3rd time watching this video and you perfectly describe my situation with my prodigal spouse.
“When I am afraid, I will trust in You. In God, whose word I praise, In God I trust; I shall not be afraid. What can mere man do to me?”
Psalms 56:3-4 LSB
Thank you Lord for providing a clear confirmation and explanation... Thank you Dominic
😮😮😮😮 OH MY GOSH! THAT'S IT! Please pray for my husband.
This was sooooo helpful. Thank you Jesus!
Wow...This message was God sent...it brought me so much peace
Soooo good
This is good and encouraging GODLY true word GOD knows I needed this word I'm going thru this with my spouse I felt like screaming wondering why he dONT 😢stop his sins and he know he knows GOD
I'M SO FRIGGING DONE! 😡 DONE! I'M WALKING OF THIS DANCE FLOOR! BUH BYE SATAN!
Y’all helped me very much going through a divorce. Thank you.
Amen! Praise God for designing to flesh to fail. This means, I MUST rely on God...ONLY!
Dominic, I woke up with the thought, what carrying the secret of someone else’s sin does to you? This answered a lot of that. I was just diagnosed with cancer Mets to my bones, I feel the weight of his sin on my back, which I was never meant to carry.
Jesus doesn’t want you to carry it. It’s not God’s will. Seek your freedom and healing that Jesus payed for. You have to seek.
This is a clear understanding and confirmation of what I am doing. Gods anointing is upon you, thank you for doing his will 🫶🏼🙏🏼
I did not see my rejection of where he is at instead of accepting it and turning him over to God, as rebellion and disobedience. Lord, help me to be patient and stop defending, complaining, or explaining myself. I need to delight in the Lord, and find my peace there.
This was Awesome, very informative and insightful, thank you for being a vessel God uses. Thank you
I pray that God will move Mads' heart & transform him to have a better faith in God so he will be able to discern & have wisdom. I pray that God would still restore & heal our relationship. Amen.
That happened to me and I felt into the trap, spending more time looking more to her than to the Lord partaking in her double mind. My marriage was over and I got divorced. I have a 6 year old son and he was the most hurt, because she moved a thousand miles away from me with him. I messed up failing into the trap, walking after the flesh and not the spirit. I ask God to forgive me for the divorce.
WOW!!! I needed this so much! Thank you!!!
This is so insightful. Thanks for disecting it!!
Im going through this right now
Your ministry has been a huge blessing to me! God bless you abundantly :)
Hello Dominic. Can you please make a video talking about how to know when it is the right time that should you engage with your loved once again, after you have allowed God to work on the relationship in the spirit as opposed to you making the relationship work in the flesh? I'm very interested in this particular topic and hope that many, including myself, to get a total understanding of it.
With much prayer from yourself & others, and with counsel on knowing what steps to take next, ABBA Father will give you that knowing. Ask him for HIS SET-APART Spirit to guide you into all understanding with this, and be guided by HIM alone in your ultimate decisions.
God bless you.
Okay... Im commited to the Walking through clavary way. Hallaluyah 🙏💗
Thank you for doing this. I've been through this and have never heard this information in this way. Very helpful
Always listen to this again and again ❤
Very informative
Oh dear LORD-
Thank you for leading me to this ministry
Oh how I need to know your truth
And for hope
My my my God!!! This has happen to me. God put me away to different apartment. This is so true.
Nooo!!! I pray humble their hearts.
Thank you so much! Praise God! 🙌🏻😭❤️
Im going through this right now....this is soooo painful my wife has stepped out on me again.One day im praying for restoration one day I don't want because the hurt that comes with waiting....Lord please strengthen me and guide me
This was good. Thank you
Amen. Thank you 🙏
Thank you for the knowledge
I receive in the Holy name of Yeshua HaMachiach, Amen Maranatha... ❤
Amen I have to let go of my wife