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True Change In Your Spouse Comes From Your Obedience To God Alone

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  • Опубликовано: 20 сен 2023
  • This video will tell you why you need this for YOUR marriage restoration!
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    From the most tender young age we all experience hurt, betrayal, or offense through relationship with someone we loved or someone we expected more from. Our response to these offenses at the time they occur will determine whether or not these wounds heal or become infected. Restoring Relationships is a ministry dedicated to helping you find freedom of heart and soul by taking you on your own personal journey through Calvary. Isn’t it time that everything changed? You don’t have to keep "waiting on God." Just take this step and you’ll find that He’s actually waiting on you! "No matter how DEEPLY you have been Wounded by someone that you trusted, it never has to DESTROY your life. God will never allow another person to RUIN your life. But God will allow YOU to ruin your life because He gave you a free will."

Комментарии • 103

  • @dilligaff1979
    @dilligaff1979 10 месяцев назад +31

    "Please Lord show me how to be more patient,
    please show me how to love you more and how to love my wife as Jesus loves the church.
    Please strengthen my faith and grant me restoration in my marriage.
    Please bind our hearts back together in your glory.
    Lord I ask that you bless our reunion and fill our hearts with love for you and each other.
    I stand by my wife, our marriage and the vows I made to her before you.
    I ask you to make me a better husband to my wife and a better father to our children.
    I Thank you, Lord, for hearing my prayer. I trust in Your love, mercy, and faithfulness,
    and I believe that You will work in our hearts and lives to bring about a miraculous restoration.
    In Jesus’ mighty name, I pray. Amen.

  • @dondion5034
    @dondion5034 10 месяцев назад +18

    This Happened To Me, I thank My Lord My God, He Has Restored My Marriage.

  • @annettelozano5232
    @annettelozano5232 10 месяцев назад +31

    So beautiful message. Thank you! I’m not married yet but I’m learning so much. This applies whether you’re married or not - full obedience to God FIRST and let God do his thing on other matters of your life.

  • @liramotsohi7282
    @liramotsohi7282 10 месяцев назад +15

    So good to see men ministering on these spouses, restoration nd marriage. There are not alot of men speaking on Godly relationships

  • @HealThyLivingQueen
    @HealThyLivingQueen 10 месяцев назад +11

    This is so important! When we focus on God and His kingdom then all things shall be added unto us. We must focus on Him so He receives His glory, honor, and praises! We must stay in prayer time, listening, and reading His words. It stands ❤

    • @chassity-becoming1672
      @chassity-becoming1672 10 месяцев назад

      Matthew 6:33 #confirmation

    • @maricar3502
      @maricar3502 10 месяцев назад

      How to fully surrender to God? I am facing a biggest challenge in my life right now, my husband and I are separated recently. I am praying to God that he will restore our marriage.

    • @thismustbeajoke13
      @thismustbeajoke13 8 месяцев назад

      @@maricar3502give it to God. Completely give it to God. It feels almost like giving up, to us in our worldliness. But it’s not, it’s surrender. Stop making plans, having ideas, inclinations, stop trying to “help.” Give it to God. Give him your marriage, your heartbreak, your desperation. Instead of seeking restoration with your spouse, spend that time seeking God and His Word and His Glory. You cannot, but God can. Give it all to Him. Lean not on your own understanding.
      This is something I’ve struggled with so I hope this helps. We cannot do anything. But with and through God, anything is possible.

  • @BreakingFreewithShaiMarii
    @BreakingFreewithShaiMarii 11 месяцев назад +8

    Its crazy how your video appeared after realizing this won’t work unless I’m changed. He left again a few days ago. I found your videos 6 months ago when my spouse left the first time. I asked him to come back home during a no contact order, due to circumstances and things are worse. I got angry and violent, operating out of flesh and he left! Probably the most upset I’ve ever seen him. I know God told me to leave 6 months ago so he could work on the both of us but I disobeyed by coming back. I’ve been suffering since we have been together. I believe both of us have. Everything you said is so true. I see that I have a lot of things to give to God that came from my childhood and until I am restored and healed individually and so is he the union won’t work. Thank you for your wisdom and encouragement. This was the cherry on top from all the signs and confirmation I’ve received. Not sure if he will divorce me but I also know that isn’t what I should fear or focus on. God bless you brother.

  • @lmoody2825
    @lmoody2825 10 месяцев назад +9

    Thank You Lord give me a heart to depend and trust You only in the restoration of my marriage and my husband returning to You in Jesus mighty name amen

  • @GreatExpectations12
    @GreatExpectations12 10 месяцев назад +4

    Please Lord - Help me love and respect my husband unconditionally. Lord, please fight my battle for me and restoring our love for each other in our marriage. Help my husband have fresh love for me and bring restoration in our marriage. Lord - please guide me to get my heart right with you and my husband. Please forgive me and my husband for our sins. Without you Lord, my life is nothing. You are my priority relationship Lord. I surrender my heart and mind to you Lord. Thank you for healing my marriage and restoring loyalty and love in our marriage. In your name Lord, AMEN! Hallelujah! 💕❤️

    • @maricar3502
      @maricar3502 10 месяцев назад +4

      I am also praying for my marriage restoration. My husband and I are recently separated because of a third party. But I dont to lose my husband, i will fight for him and for our marriage, with that being said I am battling through prayers coz that’s all i can do. Pls help me pray for my marriage restoration!

    • @maricar3502
      @maricar3502 10 месяцев назад

      want**

    • @lalam.9521
      @lalam.9521 4 месяца назад +1

      I am also here for the same reason. Please pray for us; Edwin and Laura. Thank you😢

  • @user-ew1fl3bh1i
    @user-ew1fl3bh1i 23 дня назад

    Wow, I concer. Divorced 15 years already and in hind sight it's not a parth I would have chosen, but the place and season I am in, I would not exchange it for anything despite God having pruned me to a suite case, He has given me so much more in the spiritual. Lately God showed me a vision that our marriage has been redeemed from the put of hell. Your videos are really helping me to prepare well and shedding new light on what I over looked. Thank you and God bless you

  • @RogelioGomez-rz3kh
    @RogelioGomez-rz3kh 9 дней назад +1

    My marriage is restored ii declare in the name of JESUS 🙏

  • @1980shameka
    @1980shameka 14 дней назад

    I know this information is 1 Million percent true. Please pray for my strength in the Lord to do all that He requires of me to do whether my husband finds Jesus or not. I do have bitterness in me from childhood trauma so I know that has reared its ugly head in our marriage.

  • @EmancipateisFree-qt4yq
    @EmancipateisFree-qt4yq 10 месяцев назад +1

    Amen, anyone who doesn't believe this is cheating themselves of the True God's blessing. As Hebrews 12:15 says, I am thankful for the Heavenly Father blessing after 15 years of separation then restored miraculously. With no effort on my part.

  • @lke4907
    @lke4907 10 месяцев назад +6

    I love your teachings! You're such a blessing to us! Thank you for staying true to God's word and helping us walk by FAITH and not by sight! ❤

  • @Natasha-YAHsFlowerGirl
    @Natasha-YAHsFlowerGirl 10 месяцев назад +2

    I went to to get into my secret place aka shower but this was at the top never seen page in my life I had a quickening in my spirit press play…. It is exactly the answer I was talking to GOD abt on my way to bathroom. I’m blown away by HIS Acceleration! His Grace &Mercy & Love & Perfect Timing 🙌🏾❤️🙏🏾

  • @christopherberlanga
    @christopherberlanga 10 месяцев назад +2

    My brother! This word and message is by far one of your Best videos I’ve ever seen. Holy Spirit was on this entirely. It wasn’t finger pointing it was Christ Centered in Focus. God bless!

  • @focuszx
    @focuszx 18 дней назад

    May God richly bless you and your family and ministry! Thank you brother!

  • @Heavenlyhealing7
    @Heavenlyhealing7 10 месяцев назад +2

    Such a beautiful and timely message. God literally led to me to this, through someone else. God is so good and wants the best for me. I surrender it all to him. Thank you for allowing god to use you in the way that he does. God bless you! Thank you Heavenly Father.💛🙏

  • @Lindah787
    @Lindah787 5 месяцев назад +1

    Thanks alot I have watched 3 of your videos in a day, glory belongs to Jesus Christ.

  • @magnoliasouthard0603
    @magnoliasouthard0603 10 месяцев назад +2

    When I get those thoughts I rebuke them. and I ask God to forgive me and seek his Word.

  • @kathzambas6827
    @kathzambas6827 4 месяца назад

    I pray that God would still heal & restore my relationship with Mads. I pray that God will reveal Himself to him again & grow his faith that will not wither & not be field with doubts again. I pray God will soften his heart & give him clarity, wisdom, & discernment in everything that's his doing & his plans. May God show Mads that we can succeed with closing the distance between us. In Jesus' name I ask. Amen.

  • @Fervent21
    @Fervent21 10 месяцев назад +1

    🙌🏼Amen!!! 🙌🏼 I receive this message and am praying for all those who are going through are times in their marriage. You are not alone. 🙏🏼

  • @annagrace1159
    @annagrace1159 10 месяцев назад +2

    Hello Mr. Herbst I am currently still enjoying the deep healing and recovery which your Session 1 from January offerred me. Thank God for your team ❤

  • @andrewps84
    @andrewps84 10 месяцев назад +2

    I saw this message in the middle of the night. Thank the Lord for using you and your ministry in such a powerful way.

  • @ADORABEL25
    @ADORABEL25 10 месяцев назад +1

    I pray for him everyday.. for restoration for our friendship

  • @johnrambot
    @johnrambot 5 месяцев назад +1

    Just when I want to send a text to reconcile my relationship after failing to in my own limited and imperfect knowledge I come back to this video to leave it in God’s hands and pray instead. Thanks you for this video.

  • @gomezusmc0331
    @gomezusmc0331 3 месяца назад

    Amen! Lord, please bring my family back together so I can raise my boys in a Godly home. As for me & my house, we will serve the Lord.

  • @bamboobutterfly7566
    @bamboobutterfly7566 10 месяцев назад +1

    I never heard and felt the Lord like this before regrading restoration post divorce. I needed to hear this today. 🙏🏼

  • @dark5cythe545
    @dark5cythe545 10 месяцев назад +1

    This message by no coincidence, has found me at a time when I draw closer to the Lord, as I pray for my prodigal Wife to choose her husband, her children and her God, before another man the enemy has sent into her life. It has been difficult, but I trust in the Lord.

  • @lisabrandon9705
    @lisabrandon9705 10 месяцев назад +2

    This A VERY SPOT ON MESSAGE , THIS IS TRUTH! THANK YOU SO MUCH!

  • @igsand2020
    @igsand2020 10 месяцев назад +3

    This was an excellent teaching and therapy session

  • @mrocka2k2
    @mrocka2k2 3 месяца назад

    Whew these messages have been such a blessing to me. So thankful they appeared on my timeline. I know it was God! Lord change me first!

  • @shirleybellefleurmathurin572
    @shirleybellefleurmathurin572 10 месяцев назад +4

    All glory to Jesus 🙏🙏🙏

  • @TheJbingle
    @TheJbingle 10 месяцев назад +1

    I asked my husband to leave yesterday. I am heartbroken and hopeful God will restore us both.

    • @LJK69187
      @LJK69187 7 месяцев назад

      God Bless You!!

  • @Mayo...
    @Mayo... 10 месяцев назад +1

    I thank you so much for this it is me who’s been holding this up the whole time wow I’ve learned so much in 31:18, new subscriber here thank you sir.

  • @fmehari
    @fmehari 4 месяца назад

    God bless you brother. This helped me tremendously.

  • @erinsavedbygrace
    @erinsavedbygrace 10 месяцев назад +1

    This is so good. God bless you!

  • @andrewps84
    @andrewps84 7 месяцев назад

    I’ve watched a couple of your messages and I feel the Holy Spirit speaking to me through them.

  • @EastCoastFishnHunt
    @EastCoastFishnHunt 10 месяцев назад +1

    Brother you are full of Godly wisdom! Thank you.. I needed this so much. Thx

  • @ChrisD-lz6py
    @ChrisD-lz6py 10 месяцев назад +1

    God is the only one who changes hearts. Prov 21:1. God wants to change both spouses hearts. And God does that with each spouse, individually, and in His timing. My spouse won't change because of me. She changes because of God working in her heart, nothing I do or don't do.
    Over the past six years of standing, I've seen standers walk away, and their prodigals return and then those former prodigals become the standers.

    • @TransformingGraceMinistry23
      @TransformingGraceMinistry23 9 месяцев назад

      I think there definitely a balance to this teaching. God gets all the glory for His work in them, but we need to allow the Lord to have His way within us, or we may not be ready or healthy and healed enough to be of any good if and when they do turn back.
      Ultimately I agree with you. It's all God's grace

  • @amysc37
    @amysc37 10 месяцев назад

    Thank you brother for this wonderful message,I'm so glad that the Lord leads me to your channel,I'm a girl from a remote part of India,you are such a blessings in my life❤🙏

  • @akmaesther
    @akmaesther 10 месяцев назад

    Thank you!!!!

  • @sheenamaddaluno
    @sheenamaddaluno 10 месяцев назад +1

    Amen! Thank you Jesus!

  • @unscriptedlifewithmichelle7323
    @unscriptedlifewithmichelle7323 10 месяцев назад

    Thank you for this divine message! I know God uses you to be a blessing for the broken!

  • @SweetHeart-cx1lx
    @SweetHeart-cx1lx 9 месяцев назад

    Wow I am so blessed with this teaching..🙏 speak to me so clearly thank you GOD FOR YOUR GUIDANCE TO SCROLL THIS VIDEO...🙏

  • @sandraid3195
    @sandraid3195 10 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you for this message much-needed !!!

  • @mubangamusenga4032
    @mubangamusenga4032 10 месяцев назад

    I have been blest by your words

  • @TB-gx6vn
    @TB-gx6vn 10 месяцев назад

    Replay, Blessings. Thanks for sharing, very powerful message.

  • @cleokirk497
    @cleokirk497 10 месяцев назад

    Thank you so much brother good teaching From the word ❤ many blessings from Tennessee

  • @Eye2Sky4U
    @Eye2Sky4U 10 месяцев назад

    Thank you ❤ absolutely beautifully said.

  • @LJK69187
    @LJK69187 7 месяцев назад

    Thank You Lord Jesus!!!!!

  • @bassman6692
    @bassman6692 6 месяцев назад +2

    I feel like the abused dog that keeps coming back. However now my wife has separated and seeking a divorce from me. I’m so confused. I’m a Christian and do not believe in divorce. Why would I want her back after all the emotional abuse? Yet she says I’m the cause. I feel like I’m going crazy. I believe God has the power to do miracles and I only want to be a man of faith. Today has been one month since she left. I have had VERY limited contact. I have been in nearly constant prayer that God will draw her closer to Him. I can’t make that happen. That’s all I can do. I don’t think He will reconcile our marriage but I will stay out of His way and draw closer to Him. Prayers please.

    • @elizabethbelcher494
      @elizabethbelcher494 5 месяцев назад

      Praying for you!

    • @bassman6692
      @bassman6692 4 месяца назад

      @@elizabethbelcher494 thank you 🙏

    • @rshunter9155
      @rshunter9155 2 месяца назад

      Jesus said, If you believe then anything is possible.

    • @pattisanders4723
      @pattisanders4723 Месяц назад

      And you said you don’t believe in divorce well either does God so give it to God and rest

    • @winnieowens1688
      @winnieowens1688 День назад

      God is the final say. Trust in him no matter what it looks like or feels like

  • @TheRealestIdealist
    @TheRealestIdealist 10 месяцев назад

    26:36 & 26:42 🙏🏾😊

  • @Joanne-wl8sg
    @Joanne-wl8sg 10 месяцев назад

    Praying for marriage

  • @PreciousdaughterofChrist
    @PreciousdaughterofChrist 10 месяцев назад

    This is sooo good ❤❤ I love this.

  • @Daisy.A.
    @Daisy.A. 10 месяцев назад

    Amazing teaching!

  • @princeosaro25
    @princeosaro25 10 месяцев назад

    Thank you so much sir 🙏🏿

  • @jomatthewson9550
    @jomatthewson9550 10 месяцев назад

    I know I need restoration- so badly.

  • @Domilat2022
    @Domilat2022 10 месяцев назад

    Thank you Jesus❤ amén

  • @nunyabb
    @nunyabb 10 месяцев назад

    Thank you ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @heartlightstarsofjesus9913
    @heartlightstarsofjesus9913 10 месяцев назад

    I needed this😓😓😓

  • @DwightHerreira
    @DwightHerreira 10 месяцев назад +1

    Thanks for your advice I been trying to fix my relationship for myself about 4 months ago an made things worst I decided to put it God hands and stop reaching out and now she calls or messages once in a while what should I do when she calls I love her we was so happy together and I don't know what made this change so sudden in our relationship

  • @marakbs
    @marakbs 9 месяцев назад

    Prayer for my girlfriend to come back to me

  • @marievandenberg127
    @marievandenberg127 10 месяцев назад

    My husband and I married almost 40 years, been separated almost 2 years after an altercation and his family and a friend telling him our relationship is toxic, unfair he had a disfunctional upbringing and he feels he is afraid another altercation would get him in trouble. I need to remain silent so he trust we are healthy together again. Only God can heal, forgive and restore our hearts and restoration of our marriage . Dominic my husband is not willing to give another chance or any counseling, how can i restore our marriage because when its good its beautiful

    • @dominicherbst872
      @dominicherbst872 10 месяцев назад

      You can’t restore your marriage only the Lord can restore your marriage. The best way to change your husband is to let God change you. When the glow and glory of God comes through you, he will be drawn to the Spirit of Christ in you. Surrender to God, obey His Will and trust Him with all your heart…

  • @ShoshanaN5232
    @ShoshanaN5232 10 месяцев назад

    Yes & Amen

  • @Pyrrhic537
    @Pyrrhic537 4 месяца назад

    My ex wife ( I filed divorce a few weeks ago but it hasn't gone through yet) is supposed to be the Christian. She lives and breathes it but she dumped me and blocked me for year's after I had to move out to help with my 90 plus year old grandparent, now deceased. She has spoken to me a few times since filing regarding a tragedy involving a son's friend and the divorce.
    Im certain she had some kind of affair.

  • @FelipeSilva-vu5nk
    @FelipeSilva-vu5nk Месяц назад

    Why is it so hard for me to know when is my own sprit and soul speaking and when is the Holy Spirit. I’m always in a battle to know that.

  • @patking9919
    @patking9919 10 месяцев назад

    Amen Amen 🙏🙏🙏

  • @channel_---
    @channel_--- 10 месяцев назад

    Thankyou father
    Satan pulls strings God makes all the Strings 🙏

  • @robing9431
    @robing9431 10 месяцев назад +2

    Amen.

  • @christinestewart9734
    @christinestewart9734 10 месяцев назад +1

    I respect your podcast. But I can pray and do what is that you are saying but that doesn't change a spouse. If this spouse is not willing to surrender himself in all honesty. When the unhealthy behaviour is unwilling to, for many attempts of Gods words he reads and he twist and turns it to suit their agenda you are dealing with the devil in sheep's clothing. I understand your trying but if you were the fly on my wall. I have been treated with silent treatment,stone walling, and manipulation. That is Gods confirmation that these types of people have a reprobate mind. So abuse in secret is the devil's advocate. I have another attempt and it is the word of God. Endurance here on earth for mistreatment from another especially your spouse is my only way after praying and fasting, I believe the narcissism in human is only healed if they choose to be healed and I'm a survivor of all godly attempts at restoration in trying to help my spouse. God is in control with a persons life. The victim has only to pray that the Lord will take away the pain of endurance once he raptures us away from hurt and abuse.

  • @christinagarcia8166
    @christinagarcia8166 10 месяцев назад +2

    What if they are a narcissistic spouse who only likes you when you do what they want?

    • @ADORABEL25
      @ADORABEL25 10 месяцев назад +1

      You go live somewhere else. And pray from a distant. God does not want you in a abusive environment

    • @amyteurlife9408
      @amyteurlife9408 10 месяцев назад

      This man is not taking narcissistic abuse into consideration. If they have cheated, we have reason for divorce. If they have not cheated we have right to stay in emotional abuse or separate to never remarry. It may be to our benefit not to remarry. Living under narc abuse means not living up to God's purpose for us and could mean our salvation. There's also the aspect that the marriage was a covenant with the state and not God and sex prior to marriage. One person later comes to Christ. The other does not, or many narcs pretend to be religious, often creating all kinds of jealousies and triangulations in church. Remember many narcs just happen to be in pastoral positions. Be wise. Narcs don't repent. They get trickier and feel good when they find new way to fool you. God doesn't call us to be fools. We don't chose this evil idol over God.

  • @deborahtorrijos6161
    @deborahtorrijos6161 2 месяца назад

    once we sign up for your restoration course will we CONTINUE to have access to review and resee your video and resources? indefinitely? or for how long?

    • @RestoringRelationships
      @RestoringRelationships  2 месяца назад

      Hello, Once you register for any of our courses the materials are yours to keep. The videos do not expire and you have lifetime access.

  • @theresareynolds3834
    @theresareynolds3834 Месяц назад

    How do I stay in a marriage with an alcoholic

  • @megan.221
    @megan.221 10 месяцев назад

    If we have already missed an opportunity from God provided to us to repent of a few sins we already did to God within a situation and therefore which has caused us to come under God's wrath and judgement then how would we be able to get out of God's wrath and judgement season while we are already in it ? And also: does blessings from God stop and get prevented once a judgement season is over ?

  • @kacythomas1327
    @kacythomas1327 9 месяцев назад

    Your not my husband

  • @Aldipfleger
    @Aldipfleger Месяц назад

    I am not alone with that.🥲

  • @FelipeSilva-vu5nk
    @FelipeSilva-vu5nk Месяц назад

    Why is it so hard for me to know when is my own sprit and soul speaking and when is the Holy Spirit. I’m always in a battle to know that.