Im single but not because i want to but because its not easy to find a man that is kind and honest with his heart in the right place. Also when i hear on the news about all violence in relations i really get scared of meeting someone.
It really isn't easy. I can understand your worries and concerns..but I wish you happiness and if that means being single so be it! Whatever makes you happy ❤️
A very good video ❤ It's kinda intresting hearing your thoughts and opinions , i also do believe that this generation is really diffrent (as a young person ) and it's so hard to find the right one and have a healthy relationship at the same time .
Another interesting blog from you and Noah my dad n mum always used to say to us getting married etc is easy the hardest part is staying together and working through everything together ,iam a British lady but I have a cousin who is married and Muslim and her and her family live in Saudi ..it’s been so lovely for me to learn alot from you and Noah to help me understand their life too xx it takes all kinds to make a world xx
That's so lovely 🤗 sounds like my mum in a way - her and her sister became Muslim rest of the family aren't. Did your cousin marry an Arab? Thank you for enjoying!
Children are expensive. My Mom always said - If you wait till you have the money to have children, you will never have them!! I have three sons. Could not afford even one. We always lived paycheck to paycheck but we managed. I stayed home and my husband worked. They had everything they needed. They got most of what they wanted for Christmas. I shopped at thrift stores. Looked for sales. We raised three great sons. It can be done!! ❤️ I hate when people say they can’t afford a child!! We have been married 35 years. Long happy marriages can be done as well!!
My suggestion to anyone feeling lonely is to get out and do activities you enjoy. You will find like minded people who enjoy at least one thing you do. You don’t have to be in a romantic relationship to make friends and share time. People can always volunteer their time and benefit from knowing they’ve contributed to a cause and helped someone in need. That brings a level of contentment as well as meeting people. I’m not a relationship person. It took many years and plenty of heartbreak to realize that, but I honestly couldn’t be happier. I have children and grandchildren who keep me very busy and company. (I can barely get a moment to myself 😂). I also work more than 40 hours a week. I’m too tired for anyone else 😅! Young people need to know themselves and have emotional maturity before getting into relationships. Otherwise it’s a recipe for disaster and you end up repeating cycles. I’m old now, I can say that from experience. And I absolutely do not want my daughter or granddaughters to put up with even half of what I did in my younger years. (The boys either). Some people are really just not that nice, you have to watch out for the jerks and selfish ones. xoxo ♥️ I still believe in love, just prefer family and friends at this stage of life
Very very well said. Spot on. Thank you so much for stating all that you did. Couldn't agree more regarding people knowing themselves and having emotional maturity before getting into relationships..and that wrecking havoc otherwise 💯!
Glad to see y’all back! The tricky thing is beliefs that are being monetized cannot be trusted. If someone is on a platform making content based on a belief system-they cannot have a real opinion bc their mind isn’t opened for anything that might evolve or expand them outside the boundaries of the income generating belief systems of their audience. And this short form monetized content is being pumped into our brains through the phones in our hands. It’s tricky…I try not to watch content such as that and I always encourage myself to activate my critical thinking skill-those that I learned in journalism school. I was trained in the ethics of communications and there was a high focus on the sanctity of the media being a watchdog for the people. That meant a journalist was trained to only report facts and never infuse one’s own personal opinions and beliefs. But with the spark of 24 hour news networks, that changed everything bc these networks had to compete with love island and real housewives, etc. Enter in commentary-journalist speaking to specific belief systems in order to garner attention and make their money. Now it’s evolved to social media channels where an immoral capitalism has run amuck and fueled the obsession for commentary over ethics. We were supposed to decide for ourselves, now the monetization of fanatic thinking and believing has become the standard. I think it speaks to a lot of what you all are talking about on this podcast. I am still hopeful. I believe there is a reason God put us all here right now in these very interesting times. The journey continues….
Myke! How are youuu?? I hope you've been well! Thank you for joining us 😄 I always love hearing your thoughts and opinions and I enjoyed reading your comment. Yes the journey continues 🥺 so much around us is changing 🙁
You two belong to each other , it is plain to see. After my marriage fell apart i vowed to not settle with anyone unless i could find someone like my dad, hard working , kind , good morals , kind to animals etc ,,,,,,,,,,,, still on my own and still content. I realise they just dont make them like my dad anymore 😢🙏🏼.
Aww thank you for your kind words. Honestly it's hard hard work. We have our struggles trust me 🤗 but we're trying and that's what it's all about. You are right..finding decent people like your dad is getting harder and harder. It's great you're content on your own so if you do find someone worthy of you..it's just a bonus 😉 x
@@liyanalife Thank you for your kind words ❤ yes i know you must have your struggles , healthy relationships do. A lady i worked with once always boasted about how her and her husband never argued etc , no because they were both unfaithful to each other! They never argued because they never had b****y time too 🤨. As i said you two were meant for each other , i can see how you must have so many laughs at home because you both have the same sense of humour, and for me that is the biggest thing. I dont think there is love at first sight , but if you can be friends first then the love can come . My dad was my mums best friend and visa versa. Part of her died when my dad did. Oh they had there disagreements but there was always love and respect. ( Dad always let mum think she was right anyway even when she wasn,t i think he thought happy wife happy life 😊) well must go , going to listen to one of your videos now , the meditation one i think bye for now xx 😘
Your dad sounded amazing ❤️ I don't blame your mum for having found it difficult. Those loves are like 1 in a million. Rare and such a loss when one leaves this world before you. I'm glad he gave her joy, love, care and respect. I think being best friends makes the happies couples xox
Ive been with my husband 22 years married for 6. People always ask how have you survived so long and made it work. As you pointed out People give up too easily, social media where people post the "perfect picture" expectations are set too high. Comparing your relationships with others, accept both your flaws and work at your issues before giving up on eachother. Water your own grass as my gran used to say 😂 stop looking at the neighbours. You two though are a match made in heaven its lovely to see.❤
Aww thank you! 🥰🤗 exactly couldn't have said it better myself. It alllll requires work. So much of it. But what people fail to understand is every new relationship will be dopamine and rush of hormones, its always fun before the real stuff starts. But people get bored and don't realise even a "new " relationship will soon become "boring " and the cycle will never end. I think not everyone wants the simple things in life, nor cherishes the deeper things in life
I've been single since I was 23years old I'm 34 now and tbh I'm kinda happy with that! I'm happy with me and my furbabies 💜 I can't have kids anyway so I'm happy with that and I don't wanna get married 🙂 I love my own space 😌 xx
Haha I like my own space too. Thankfully I get a lot of it even when married. Yeh what matters is you do what's best for you and what makes you happy and content 🥰🤗
@liyanalife plus I get annoyed really easily (with my anxiety and depression) so if a guy annoys me that's it....bye bye 👋...I'm happy plodding along 💜 you and hubby suit each other and its so lovely to see xx
My parents celebrated their 65th anniversary before my father passed. He told me Mary just like a job you have to work at it every day and it's not like a disposable lighter that if you're not happy right now because you didn't get your way or whatever you don't just toss it and get a new lighter. I'm 62 me and my husband have been dating since we were 16. It all comes down to choosing the right person for what your life goals are and there's if that's not compatible then obviously you don't get married hello LOL. I think it's sad because a lot of people will have children with other people and not being their life or whatever, and it's the children who suffer. It's statistically proven that children better in a two-parent home do better compared to single parents home. I have to tell you this part because it's so funny. My nephew Twista do the cooking in their family it's gotten better now but his wife didn't even know how to cook LMAO there's so many that don't know how to do anything other than a microwave or a box dinner and that's sad to me. Both my boys know how to cook😂 sister and brother man you know I love you like you were my own. Big hugs and much love
Aww I agree Rhonda! Exactly that. It's become quick to dispose of these days. Things have lost their value sadly. Hehe yes there's a lot more men that know how to cook nowadays. People rely on takeouts but that costs a lot when it's almost every day!
Im single but not because i want to but because its not easy to find a man that is kind and honest with his heart in the right place. Also when i hear on the news about all violence in relations i really get scared of meeting someone.
It really isn't easy. I can understand your worries and concerns..but I wish you happiness and if that means being single so be it! Whatever makes you happy ❤️
A very good video ❤
It's kinda intresting hearing your thoughts and opinions , i also do believe that this generation is really diffrent (as a young person ) and it's so hard to find the right one and have a healthy relationship at the same time .
Another interesting blog from you and Noah my dad n mum always used to say to us getting married etc is easy the hardest part is staying together and working through everything together ,iam a British lady but I have a cousin who is married and Muslim and her and her family live in Saudi ..it’s been so lovely for me to learn alot from you and Noah to help me understand their life too xx it takes all kinds to make a world xx
That's so lovely 🤗 sounds like my mum in a way - her and her sister became Muslim rest of the family aren't. Did your cousin marry an Arab? Thank you for enjoying!
@@liyanalife yes Lisa a
Children are expensive.
My Mom always said -
If you wait till you have the money to have children, you will never have them!!
I have three sons. Could not afford even one. We always lived paycheck to paycheck but we managed. I stayed home and my husband worked. They had everything they needed. They got most of what they wanted for Christmas. I shopped at thrift stores. Looked for sales. We raised three great sons. It can be done!! ❤️ I hate when people say they can’t afford a child!!
We have been married 35 years. Long happy marriages can be done as well!!
I agree with you both.
My partner is my soulmate, we have been through so much together. Now we have a new struggle, he has stage 4cancer.
Oh my goodness my heart brakes for you both 💔 I'm so sorry and pray things get easier somehow 😔
My suggestion to anyone feeling lonely is to get out and do activities you enjoy. You will find like minded people who enjoy at least one thing you do. You don’t have to be in a romantic relationship to make friends and share time.
People can always volunteer their time and benefit from knowing they’ve contributed to a cause and helped someone in need. That brings a level of contentment as well as meeting people.
I’m not a relationship person. It took many years and plenty of heartbreak to realize that, but I honestly couldn’t be happier. I have children and grandchildren who keep me very busy and company. (I can barely get a moment to myself 😂). I also work more than 40 hours a week. I’m too tired for anyone else 😅!
Young people need to know themselves and have emotional maturity before getting into relationships. Otherwise it’s a recipe for disaster and you end up repeating cycles. I’m old now, I can say that from experience.
And I absolutely do not want my daughter or granddaughters to put up with even half of what I did in my younger years. (The boys either). Some people are really just not that nice, you have to watch out for the jerks and selfish ones.
xoxo ♥️ I still believe in love, just prefer family and friends at this stage of life
Very very well said. Spot on. Thank you so much for stating all that you did. Couldn't agree more regarding people knowing themselves and having emotional maturity before getting into relationships..and that wrecking havoc otherwise 💯!
Glad to see y’all back!
The tricky thing is beliefs that are being monetized cannot be trusted. If someone is on a platform making content based on a belief system-they cannot have a real opinion bc their mind isn’t opened for anything that might evolve or expand them outside the boundaries of the income generating belief systems of their audience. And this short form monetized content is being pumped into our brains through the phones in our hands. It’s tricky…I try not to watch content such as that and I always encourage myself to activate my critical thinking skill-those that I learned in journalism school. I was trained in the ethics of communications and there was a high focus on the sanctity of the media being a watchdog for the people. That meant a journalist was trained to only report facts and never infuse one’s own personal opinions and beliefs. But with the spark of 24 hour news networks, that changed everything bc these networks had to compete with love island and real housewives, etc. Enter in commentary-journalist speaking to specific belief systems in order to garner attention and make their money. Now it’s evolved to social media channels where an immoral capitalism has run amuck and fueled the obsession for commentary over ethics. We were supposed to decide for ourselves, now the monetization of fanatic thinking and believing has become the standard. I think it speaks to a lot of what you all are talking about on this podcast. I am still hopeful. I believe there is a reason God put us all here right now in these very interesting times. The journey continues….
Myke! How are youuu?? I hope you've been well! Thank you for joining us 😄 I always love hearing your thoughts and opinions and I enjoyed reading your comment. Yes the journey continues 🥺 so much around us is changing 🙁
😊 good chat!!
Thank you for watching 🤗😘
Spot on .xx
You two belong to each other , it is plain to see. After my marriage fell apart i vowed to not settle with anyone unless i could find someone like my dad, hard working , kind , good morals , kind to animals etc ,,,,,,,,,,,, still on my own and still content. I realise they just dont make them like my dad anymore 😢🙏🏼.
Aww thank you for your kind words. Honestly it's hard hard work. We have our struggles trust me 🤗 but we're trying and that's what it's all about. You are right..finding decent people like your dad is getting harder and harder. It's great you're content on your own so if you do find someone worthy of you..it's just a bonus 😉 x
@@liyanalife Thank you for your kind words ❤ yes i know you must have your struggles , healthy relationships do.
A lady i worked with once always boasted about how her and her husband never argued etc , no because they were both unfaithful to each other! They never argued because they never had b****y time too 🤨.
As i said you two were meant for each other , i can see how you must have so many laughs at home because you both have the same sense of humour, and for me that is the biggest thing. I dont think there is love at first sight , but if you can be friends first then the love can come .
My dad was my mums best friend and visa versa. Part of her died when my dad did. Oh they had there disagreements but there was always love and respect. ( Dad always let mum think she was right anyway even when she wasn,t i think he thought happy wife happy life 😊) well must go , going to listen to one of your videos now , the meditation one i think bye for now xx 😘
Your dad sounded amazing ❤️ I don't blame your mum for having found it difficult. Those loves are like 1 in a million. Rare and such a loss when one leaves this world before you. I'm glad he gave her joy, love, care and respect.
I think being best friends makes the happies couples xox
Ive been with my husband 22 years married for 6. People always ask how have you survived so long and made it work.
As you pointed out People give up too easily, social media where people post the "perfect picture" expectations are set too high.
Comparing your relationships with others, accept both your flaws and work at your issues before giving up on eachother.
Water your own grass as my gran used to say 😂 stop looking at the neighbours.
You two though are a match made in heaven its lovely to see.❤
Aww thank you! 🥰🤗 exactly couldn't have said it better myself. It alllll requires work. So much of it. But what people fail to understand is every new relationship will be dopamine and rush of hormones, its always fun before the real stuff starts. But people get bored and don't realise even a "new " relationship will soon become "boring " and the cycle will never end. I think not everyone wants the simple things in life, nor cherishes the deeper things in life
I've been single since I was 23years old I'm 34 now and tbh I'm kinda happy with that! I'm happy with me and my furbabies 💜 I can't have kids anyway so I'm happy with that and I don't wanna get married 🙂 I love my own space 😌 xx
Haha I like my own space too. Thankfully I get a lot of it even when married. Yeh what matters is you do what's best for you and what makes you happy and content 🥰🤗
@liyanalife plus I get annoyed really easily (with my anxiety and depression) so if a guy annoys me that's it....bye bye 👋...I'm happy plodding along 💜 you and hubby suit each other and its so lovely to see xx
Older than you. But I'm happy as I am. Relationships have bought me nothing but unhappiness.
Love your videos always enjoyable and inspirational the world as gone mad in a lot of waysx
56% of marriages end in divorce. I'm happy single. Relationships bought me nothing but unhappiness.
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Yay ❤ Will watch and comment later.
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My parents celebrated their 65th anniversary before my father passed. He told me Mary just like a job you have to work at it every day and it's not like a disposable lighter that if you're not happy right now because you didn't get your way or whatever you don't just toss it and get a new lighter. I'm 62 me and my husband have been dating since we were 16. It all comes down to choosing the right person for what your life goals are and there's if that's not compatible then obviously you don't get married hello LOL. I think it's sad because a lot of people will have children with other people and not being their life or whatever, and it's the children who suffer. It's statistically proven that children better in a two-parent home do better compared to single parents home. I have to tell you this part because it's so funny. My nephew Twista do the cooking in their family it's gotten better now but his wife didn't even know how to cook LMAO there's so many that don't know how to do anything other than a microwave or a box dinner and that's sad to me. Both my boys know how to cook😂 sister and brother man you know I love you like you were my own. Big hugs and much love
Aww I agree Rhonda! Exactly that. It's become quick to dispose of these days. Things have lost their value sadly. Hehe yes there's a lot more men that know how to cook nowadays. People rely on takeouts but that costs a lot when it's almost every day!
I know you don't want kids but you would make great parents
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