Alexa Nikolas on QUIET ON SET Fallout, T-Shirt Controversy & Dan Schneider | Just Trish Ep. 67
HTML-код
- Опубликовано: 3 апр 2024
- 🚨 CW: This interview contains discussions about SA and child exploitation
Former 'Zoey 101' star Alexa Nikolas (@eatpredators) continues to speak out about her trauma as a child actor following the immense fallout from 'Quiet On Set'. After the Nickelodeon exposé shed light on the abusive and predatory world of Dan Schneider, Alexa further details his explosive behavior on set... and how he asked his young stars for feet pics. Plus, the activist reacts to backlash she received after releasing her "Sickelodeon" shirts.
Join this channel to get access to perks:
/ @justtrishpodcast
Follow Just Trish on Social Media
/ justtrishpod
Subscribe to ‘Just Trish’ on RUclips: / @justtrishpodcast
Follow Oscar: / oscargracey
/ @oscargracey
-----
One thing about Trisha Paytas, she’s going to speak her mind. The viral megastar has made a career out of unabashedly spilling her heart out to millions of viewers. While she’s been both praised and canceled for it, Trisha has never been afraid of stirring the pot.
Now, the meme queen is taking back the mic and truly telling it how she sees it-from the latest Internet drama to the hottest celebrity gossip. In this weekly podcast, Trisha gives her hilariously unfiltered take on the biggest headlines and trends currently taking social media by storm. Alongside her friend and co-host-Emmy-award winning entertainment news journalist Oscar Gracey-she provides her brutally honest, and sometimes highly controversial commentary on pop culture. It’s not personal, it’s ‘Just Trish’.
Amazon affiliate links. I get a small commission
Not Alexa casually dropping she started Victoria justice’s career lowkey 😮
She did and now I understand why her career never took off. She’s has the look and voice but deserves the karma.
🙄
No hate to VJ! They were kids! Only hate to Jamie Lynn 😂
@@elleohelle930i think they ALL deserve their karma.
@@elleohelle930 Victoria should at least apologize. Alexa has made it clear she is very open to accepting an apology from any cast members but had gotten NONE.
Britney Spears actually wrote about her screaming at Alexa in her memoir and apologized. I can’t even imagine how traumatizing that would be as a child.
no way, does alexa know this lol
@@jsunshinejyes she does
@@jsunshinejdid yall even watch the podcast? She literally talks about all of this
😂
@@jsunshinejAlexa has been talking about Britney Spears’ apology since it happened years ago. She’s actually apologized to her multiple times and Alexa has talked about how meaningful it’s been for her.
This just made me realize how much Colleen/ Miranda is Dan Schneider humor. Taking things that are vastly inappropriate and disgusting to adults and catering to kids as ‘edgy humor’
Oh yeah. I’ve had this thought before.
omg ur so right this is all so wild and imagine with all the stuff that happened with collen and the minors
I was thinking about that a week ago, lol
same with shane dawson
!!!!!!! 🔨
Alexa still has a lot of the same mannerisms that she had when she was younger, it's so cute. She has such a brightness to her.
she's a grifter
Funny how Alexa was probably one of the youngest workers on set (at 12) but one of the most MATURE. Because the “adults” on set definitely were NOT acting like adults. And the kids who bullied her acted like immature 2-year-olds with no home training.
@@amylee8969agreed, and she’s grown to be a truly wonderful and strong woman with a huge purpose with this movement. i’m truly glad that they were not able to break her spirit and instead made her stronger. she’s a great role model. ❤
It really is amazing that they couldn't manage to squash her light. She is an incredibly strong person.
@joaokowalski9736 like how? How is she a grifter? That's silly.
Trish this is a freaking great interview. You are letting her tell her story but chime in at just the right time and ask great questions. My girl! This is your craft sis ❤
Thank you so much!
as a fellow taurus and bpd girl you give me so much hope.@@justtrishpodcast
trish is built to be a podcast host!
@@justtrishpodcastin another life I think you were a therapist
@@justtrishpodcast It's a testament to your warm and inviting persona and nature that guests like Alexa are able to drop their guard and be vulnerable around you and share stories like this. This podcast is legit my favourite thing you've ever done!
It’s so obvious how comfortable Trisha makes her guests feel. They always open up as if talking to a best friend. She’s SO talented
The irony that Alexa went on the Vulnerable podcast (which was deleted by CCR) and yet was so much more vulnerable in this pod. Trish is a natural interviewer, we have not even reached her peak
Fully agree, she has such a natural talent for connecting with people. I noticed how well she validates others, remains curious, & ties in her own experiences at the right moments.
when Alexa started crying and Trisha went into mom mode and started comforting her with a softer voice 🥺🥺
@@canopylions Fr. Also Chrissy is very dishonest
trish is friends with mr handy btw
i’m an infrequent watcher so i’ve never seen trisha cover a more serious topic like this, and just wow… she is a truly great interviewer. she asks thoughtful and appropriate questions, she relates her own experience without making it about herself, just so much empathy and understanding
i’ve always enjoyed trish as a performer and the entertainment value she brings to her content, but this interview really made me see her in an all new light with a newfound respect
brava, trish
Wow, thank you!
Reminder: just last week Trish tried to make a podcast about redeeming David dobrik who created a very unsafe work environment in multiple ways. His pal Dom harassed women had some intense allegations against him and David tried to cover for it.
@@dominickjvlogsI don’t think Trisha views David as someone redeemable. I’d love the context
Yes super nicely done!! ❤️
@@dominickjvlogs you thought you ate with that lie didn't you
Trisha, you did great! You showed a more serious side. Alexa seemed comfortable. Thank you for bringing her on! ❤
Literally i dont think alexa gets enough flowers for actually creating a safe platform for survivors and unearthing, compiling information to hold people accountable for their actions! POWER TO SURVIVORS 📣
She has victims herself
Wrong 😅 @@noemimendoza3143
@@noemimendoza3143care to elaborate?
@kyliecairo2976 Do you know what what, "getting enough flowers" means? I don't understand either.
@@lauracarr9854I think that part means getting recognition for her work toward the cause and her progress
Kids who act like Jamie Lynn is honestly a reflection of terrible parenting. Any parent who doesn’t teach their child empathy and inclusion is trash.
Britney sort of explained it as by that point her dad was deep into his alcoholism and her mom would just give in to Jamie to shut her up because she was an annoying brat
It's a reflection of a broken home. Misery loves company
trish is friends with mr handy btw
She was a spoiled brat. Britney talked about how spoiled she was in her book and how her and Bryan were never treated like that smh
Ya the little brat turned on her own sister. She still seems like a miserable person to this day.
i love that trisha lets her tell her story without interrupting her and showing genuine empathy. ive seen a lot of interviewers constantly interrupting alexa and not seeming sincere or interested. loved this interview💗
She’s the best listener
The fact that Alexa started this all by herself and never decided to give up is insane. You’re doing such great work
I think the Zoey 101 cast were jealous of Alexa because she was the fan favorite.
Yeah she was so sweet
I think also bc she was happy and had a good support system that looked out for her and showed her love and we all know jamie lynn spears parents are..... well quite the opposite.
She is a gentle soul many run from that
she was the most relatable one tbh she was actually a girl that age
she was the only character that I actually wanted to be friends with
Let’s not forget that people hated her for always speaking up about it before quiet on set came out…honestly such a strong woman wow
By “people” you mean those who got called out by her….who KNOW that they’re guilty but are still full of it and can’t take accountability. Lol.
The rest of the world is applauding and and empathizing with her. I personally didn’t watch Zoey 101 back then so I didn’t know who Alexa was until 2019 when she shared her story.
Also people are STILL hating on her, even on the comments of this video. She's advocating for so much but only bc she isn't exploiting Drake Bell's victim case then she's a bully and bad, that's literally what they are saying and it's crazy... People love to take 1 wrong thing that victims did or said and pick on it to hate them.
Facts .... I salute her for this.... She was ..... Angelique Bates was talking about this before it was popular
Alexas's story about her ex-husband is heartbreaking. And the fact that a lawyer drafted and allowed her to sign that document without a lawyer is beyond me. especially with that language in the documents. For that alone, the lawyer should be disbarred.
fr that’s so disgusting that they knew what she went through and took advantage of it, i almost cried with her😭
trish is friends with mr handy btw
@@ville__ you just made that up
Can someone explain what was in the document? I'm not understanding
Trish is bad and I have proof
They were jealous of Alexa's light! You should never have to apologize for or explain why you're a bubbly, positive person. That's a gift to be able to find things to smile about in this world.
I agree 100%!!!❤
They were jealous of her because she was our favorite character!
She needs to apologize to Jamie for bullying her first she was jealous that Jamie became friends with Victoria
I mean if the rumors are true then Jamie was getting graped by Dan schnieder, and probably her friend too by someone. Alexa wasn't directly involved in that. Sometimes the worst girl bullies are getting bullied by grown ass men, at least it was true for my friends in elementary school. Sad as hell.
@marissar.359
She played one of the most popular characters that everyone liked. I think deep down Jamie KNEW that Zoey was a dull character and that her acting skills were on the weak side (I wasn’t a fan of the show, I just saw a few clips here and there.). I think she felt threatened that Alexa could steal her cloud.
I totally see them bullying her, I believe Alexa was an innocent 12 year old who acted her age. Jamielyn was definitely trying to act older and acting older. That’s why she was pregnant at 16. Nothing was wrong with Alexa she was bullied because she got to grow up with grace.
This is honestly such a good take and needs to be talked about more. Alexa was a bright starry eyes 12 year old who was probably a bubbly excited 12 YEAR OLD. Whereas Jamie Lynn was acting 21 at 12. Alexa did not deserve that environment. I never thought of it like this .
I think Jamie had a relationship with somebody on the show that she was impregnated by during that time. I'm not sure who it was but people say it was Dan. I think she was jealous of Alexa getting His attention, etc.
@@FafiLPDollWhat kind of nonsense is this. She had a kid with her boyfriend at the time, not Dan.
teen pregnancy isn't the result of "acting older" it's often a result of a lack of education and/or trouble at home
I literally cried imagining her innocent, child-self having to go through all that when she just wanted friends😭 it’s so disheartening
Childhood bullying is no joke. I still remember my experiences plain as day. Ugh
This!!!!
My eyes were tearing up on that part… I would’ve loved to be friends with her as a kid 😭
Same.
Same
Just think the bully are bullying bc of their own self problems… you’re amazing plus stunning! Hopefully that hate leaves their heart ❤️
Erin had some nerve being a bully when she was the literal freak of the show 😂
probably jealousy about the popularity of Nicole as a character
LITERALLY
IKR the irony😂😂😂
😂💀🤣
Right?? And seeing the scene of her hitting Alexa in the head (absolutely disgusting Nick kept that in the edit) I remember seeing that as a kid too!! It was so weird at the time I remember being like - what?? - but then no one acknowledged it 😞 ugh those girls suck. I truly hope they changed…
Nicole was my favorite character. They were definitely jealous of how gorgeous and charismatic she was from day 1🙇🏼♀️🙇🏼♀️
Samee and I think it’s so obvious they were all jealous of her too
Glad you had her on..... protect children not predators
This
trisha is a predator and married to one
@@dominickjvlogsit’s almost like every men at this point. Is there anyone good left…
@@d.2542 this is why I demand more young lgbt talent and representation in all spaces because the weird patriarchy thing is wayyyyy too toxic
Protect Children!! Prosecute Predators!!
Alexa’s bullying experience especially with the “why are you smiling all the time” “are you an alien” got to me. I remember kids saying the same thing to me. You know what it’s because she was vibrant and pretty and it intimidated them and made them feel as if she was more likeable so they tried dragging her down. ❤
same, I gasped when she said that because I'd been told the same thing as a kid!
I resonated with that so much as well
!!
I also got asked that question all the time at 14, and ‘are you on drugs’ and I’d be mocked because of being bubbly and excitable. I actively try not to smile too much to this day since people take advantage of that personality type.
@@shania9528 it’s a shame isn’t it, it’s like your not allowed to be happy because people think your life must be better. If they see you smile they want to knock you down a peg.
I hope Alexa is able to properly sue her assaulter one day. The legal system is so unfair and impossible to navigate without money. I understand the helpless feeling all too well.
First time I see Trisha so quiet, she is definitely invested in the convo. What a great interview
When I saw the guest, I gasped lmao
I cried😂
literally!! love this!!
Same !!! Just started the episode so excited ! Happy to see other feel the same 😭😭😭😭❤
SAME
SAME 😂I clicked on the video so fast
"too sensitive"= you wont tolerate the abuse like everyone else and they're trying to punish you.
Wow this sums it up fr
So true
That's exactly it. It always comes from bullies. Instant friendship ender and immediate red flag worthy of ghosting the person. They want to make you the butt of the joke and insult you as the guise of a joke or literally abuse you and get away with it. I hate this phrase and just how common it is for people to use it on others. People got to realize everyone has different boundaries and you can't choose whether someone is hurt by something or not.
How dare u smile.
Gaslighting* a child
Imagine being that age and being bullied that way & still having to act with these people 😭 she’s strong!!
“why do you smile so much??” i’ve heard that all throughout life but specifically in middle school and it’s awful to think someone would say that to someone else like i don’t know i’m just happy! love you alexa!
I’m glad I’m not the only one. I was bullied really badly by my peers in JHS for that
I don’t see why that’s a turn off. What do they expect?? People to walk around grumpy? 😂😂.
Alexa is the kind of person I would’ve loved to befriend when I was 12.
I’m 34 and still got grown adults asking me why I smile so much. Coworkers hated me! Because I am grateful and God is good! That’s freaking why. Why don’t you’d find something to smile about?
@@amylee8969 Yeah, unfortunately a lot of the time it ends up working and the person ends up walking around with a frown. Seen plenty of people that rarely smile even in their adulthood because of that kind of bullying. Then the audacity of those same people to ask them why they're sad all the time or quiet after it changes them? People are honestly so cruel and stupid.
When she started crying, my heart broke… she kept it together the entire interview. The amount of stuff this girl has seen. My heart calls out to ascension & change. 5D come.
I know, i wanted to cry with her.
It's just bad acting
Trisha was so comforting and so sweet to her, you need to get Jennette mcCurdy on next.
Yes!!! This
And Daniella Monet.
jennette mucurdy doesn’t need to explain her story over again when she already has multiple times.
Yes! Totally agree with this.
That's a nice idea but I honestly doubt Jennette would want to, she's had to repeat herself so many times and she's probably tired at this point, I know I would be. I think people should purchase her book.
I can’t believe this podcast actually happened!! Thank you for letting Alexa tell her story. I never thought as an avid Zoey 101 watcher and HUGE fan of the show that I’d be watching this years later and learning about what actually happened behind the scenes. It breaks my heart because I related so much to Nicole on the show as a preteen as well and when Alexa left I was devastated. I really hope justice is served properly to all the sick, evil individuals who put these kids through all this trauma.
I AUDIBLY GASPED!!!!!!
Saaaammmmmeeeee
I SAID “NO WAY 😮”
SAME
Me too! Trisha gets the hard hitting stuff done. Love her!
ME TOO
Teenage girl bullying is soooo traumatic most emotional time of my life and im sure many others
Yess! I’m 34 now but I’m still on a journey to healing because of that trauma.
Sadly yes
Now they've transitioned to bullying in comments on the internet instead.
It’s not just girls. My bullying literally turned me from the extroverted happy child I was into a incredibly shy anxious introvert
Honestly teenage girls are the worst. I hated them when I was one now I’m like move little girl I already hate you 😂😂😂😂😂
The one thing in this video that made my heart warm was the fact that Alexa never lost her adorable laugh 🥺she’s so damn strong.
Trish really seemed triggered so much during this ep yet maintained a welcoming space for Alexa to be unfiltered in her experiences. I am so in awe of both Trish and Alexa 🩷🩷
I'm really glad Trish allowed Alexa to tell her story. I felt like Alexa wasn't aware of things Trisha has gone through too. I wonder if we can get another episode with them both where they can talk together about shared trauma. I think it would be helpful for Trisha to talk about her experiences as well without judgement ♥♥
Having a 9 months preggo BRITNEY SPEARS yelling at me on set as a teen would have me throwing up too. And I'm a 30 year old woman. Sending all the love to you Alexa.
The fact that she manipulated her pregnant sister to even do that is absolutely disgusting
Alexa is so relatable. Her expressing the bullying as a child was textbook for many of us, and we all thought we were alone.
Agreed
no fr, a bubbly brunette girly i can relate to🫶🏼
Alexa, you were only on two seasons but your character stuck with so many of us as a part of our childhood. I’m so sorry you went through everything you did. I personally know how hard it is to be a survivor and to have that trauma always apart of you- but you have really taken control of your own story and have helped so many others in return. I think that’s beautiful❤️
Trisha handled this SO WELL! This pod was such a different space and she really allowed Alexa to feel comfortable and Trish matched her energy seamlessly ♥️
Trisha is def getting the Nobel Peace prize for Investigative Journalism next year 👸✨💖💖💖
BOOTS ON THE GROUND
Lmao for real though queen Elizabeth who
She better!!!
Diane Sawyer has NOTHING on Trisha Paytas
I looked up her age and today is actually her birthday! Happy birthday Alexa!! 🎉🥳
She also shares a birthday with Jamie Lynn. I wonder if that ever pissed Jamie off.
@taralucent1219
If that was the case, then Jamie is even more bratty and dumb than I thought. Who gets upset over sharing birthdays with others?
I remember as a kid being very upset when Nicole didn’t return in the third season and I always thought it was strange so when Alexa came forward all those years after, it in a weird way validated my inner child‘s feelings?? I hated how they closed her character out. I loved her because I was that bubbly girl. Now knowing that she was bullied and made fun of for being that smiley girl (and I was too) makes me really proud of her for standing her ground and leaving the show.
Britney has said how mean her sister was , sounds like she really was a Regina George. Britney wrote about how her sister tricked her into bullying Alexa in her book.
brittany spears yelling at her is so mf crazy !!!!!! i feel so much for her and wish her the best
She must’ve bribed that guy to get to do it too smh
So glad she apologized!!
@@laflaf125Yes, publicly and also privately.
oh really??? thats a relief. where can you find the apology?
@@Binstabih
@@gravedied7304it’s in britneys book
trisha is such a beautiful listener, the way she let alexa speak for so long is so sweet.
Seems like Trisha did more for Alexa in this ONE interview segment than Nickelodeon did in 2 years.
Trish, I am SO impressed by your recent podcasts. You really let the guests speak their truth while adding stuff in when necessary and staying engaged the whole time. I have so much respect for you, one of the best podcast hosts right now.
trisha, this is literally your best interview yet.
Nicole was literally my favorite character on zoey 101. After nicole left i subconsciously didn’t like zoey 101 anymore. Now i realize that that was the reason, she was the best character on the show
She was my first crush😭🫶🏻
I had no idea Jaime was Britney’s sister at the time but I always felt like they just casted her as the lead because she was pretty, blond and blue eyed. I guess I was right in a way.
i completely agree. she was the most interesting to me, i was over the show after she left
trish is friends with mr handy btw
@@ville__ proof?
I truly feel for Alexa, she's so incredible for putting all this energy into exposing criminals when she didn't get the justice she deserved
A “friend” once asked me why I smiled all the time as well. Such a gross bully tactic.
It's how Jamie Lynn Spears has nothing to say but everything to hide seemingly and that rubs me the wrong way. Sounds like Alexa didn't even get a chance to be friends with her despite just doing her job.
Considering what we know about Britney, are we really surprised at how Jamie turned out though? They do share parents, after all.
@@cynthiamorfin2137pretty sure that she was spoiled and got all the attention
JL is a copy of the creatures she was named after. She is irredeemable.
lmao her book being called “things i should’ve said” was telling 👀🙈
@@theriveroftruth I mean it really was like Britney wasted no time putting her on blast. like why does she have no integrity to the point of putting that out..
Awww her sweater matching the set is so adorable!! SO HAPPY FOR THIS PODCAST
I SCREAMED i have been watching Alexa’s story for years and am so happy she is finally being recognized
Props to Trisha for giving Alexa this platform and safe space. She has been through so much. This conversation was really wonderful.
It’s nice for Alexa to be able to just talk and not have to run and host a whole show- good on Trish for having her on and giving her the floor !!
THIS. I am subscribed to her channel but sometimes her videos feel quite intense and I know they’re so much emotional labour for her to host (but of course she loves it and is doing it for the cause). This felt really healing for her and was nice to see her be able to confide in someone like a friend, even if they did just meet. It’s likely that my preferred style of content leans more towards two friends having a chat vs talking head reporting/commentary, but the girls really made an amazing episode here!
thank you so much for giving alexa this space to feel safe!!! my two favorite people!!💞💞
Your @ is so good ♎️ 💨
Trish is friends with Mr handy btw
@@ville__ boy you literally replied to my comment on alexa's livestream a couple days ago trying to accuse her of being friends w COLLEEN BALLINGER spamming it on every comment😂😂 i think it's safe to say you're bat sht crazy!!!
.....and LIE. of course yall are gonna believe EVERY SINGLE WORD SHE SAYS. Yall don't see it but she sees the attention she's getting and is adding to the narrative EVERY SINGLE INTERVIEW. A moment that stood out to me was when She explained when she first met Jamie and explained the way a kid thinks when another doesn't accept them....WHAT KID THINKS THAT WAY?? Are yall even LISTENING or just trying to "react" to something?🤦♂️😂
This episode SAVED ME! As a 23 year old female. I've had this happen to me for years and couldnt understand why. I'm a bubbly person as well, and struggle to make friwnds with women. Always seen as the outsider and would blame myself all the time while everyone else cliques so easily. Still going through this till this day and am struggling.
Thought i was the only one 😢
😢same. Just be yourself and you'll be the one to come out on top like Alexa ❤❤❤
@@stephseth9872 thank u so much!!
@peteron141 ur not
People trying to dim your light! Keep shining.
@itsLindsayJean This is so true. I hope the young girls understand this. And I especially see this with individuals who obviously are truly strong and have something to offer the world on the inside. I used to be told that as a kid, but not bullied instead joke made. But out of all of my peers now in my 40s, I'm the most vocal and unafraid of standing up for things. Alexa is the absolute strongest and most mentally sound out of all of them.
When I was a kid I clearly remember how hard Nickelodeon pushed Jamie Lynn Spears. When they added her to All That, they ran commercials and promos non stop. Then when they made Zoey101 they pushed that even harder. And Jamie Lynn wasn’t what Nickelodeon promised in my opinion. Looking back now it’s so clear what a huge brat she was then, and how awful she still is now. It’s even more clear to me that Jamie Lynn is a terrible person after Britneys book came out. This girl was a victim of both Schneider and Jamie Lynn and I’m glad she is standing up for herself and telling her story
Alexa Nikolas deserves so much more RESPECT, let alone recognition, for how much she’s been speaking out against p*dos and literal child abuse. I love how she is promoting POWER to the victim. Such a strong, well spoken, smart, and brave woman. If anyone hasn’t said it yet, THANK YOU ALEXA! You are not defined by your experiences, and it’s truly commendable how you’ve chosen to use them to bring awareness and change for future child actors.
i was literally just watching her podcast and thought “trish needs to interview her” this is heaven sentttttt good job trisha
I think Jamie was jealous/envious about Alexa having a loving mother who was there for her.
oop
Yeah or thought she was big shit because she had a big sister who was a pop star
I’ve never watched a guest episode from beginning to end except for this one. Amazing conversation and I learned so much!! Claps all around!!❤️
I never knew you could add “dismiss S.A.” On divorce papers. Like what the actual f***!?!? That’s insane to me. Alexa Nikolas thank you for what you do and to Trisha for having her on to tell her story.
Honestly that is the most insane part of her story/this podcast, and I can’t believe more people aren’t focusing on that
It wasn’t in those words. It basically only said she couldn’t sue him. For anything during the time of their marriage, there was no specific crime listed or he would’ve been admitting guilt & really dumb. There’s articles on it.
@@samnicole9803 Oh, Alexa said that it specified "battery" in the stipulated judgement so I'm a bit confused here.
@@Kasia3127 I’m really not sure why she said that. I don’t wanna say she’s lying but….. it’s not the truth lol
@@samnicole9803 Is the document publicly available?? I'm just curious how you know bc there's so much info on this whole thing that idk where to start lol 😅
I feel like autistic girls really understand Alexa’s pain with Jamie and the others because I also had “friends” in high school who would do the same thing. I had “friends” who would throw parties, purposely not invite me, and then call me from the party to let me know they were having fun. Looking back on it now, it was so obvious that they hated me but as a child who just wants friends I simply wanted to be involved. I hope they live the lives they deserve (and so far they are hehe).
Same you're like a pet to them
Same. Once you have the strength to disconnect you become so much better a person I feel like
@@blessedbe2222 exactly, I felt like a toy that they played with when they felt like it and tossed away whenever they were bored of me
THIS. I remember this feeling too. I remember one of my best friends in middle school had a birthday party, told me all the people she was inviting (didn’t include me) and said “if I could invite one more person, it would be you”. And then told me aaalllll about the party on Monday. 😭
@@awndraya people like that will bring out the worst qualities in you so they can bring you down to their level and only after you leave are you able to see and let shine the qualities that make you the best version of you
I feel so so bad for Alexa, she is truly a fantastic example of someone who grows through what they go through. She has not wavered, she has not cracked, she has not wavered. Truly an inspiration for her sharing her story and truly realizing what happened. The trailer with Brittany is truly horrible. I can't believe Jamie had her do this. Truly awful.
Trish you’re the best interviewer. You don’t push too much. You let them get all their thoughts out. So genuine and professional but best friend vibes
I remember being told “You smile too much.” It still sticks with me 10 years later. So refreshing to hear someone have the same feeling
A girl said that to me one time and she was disgusted by my because of it… I’ll never forget it.
The abusive people in my life would do horrid things to me and then openly talk about how I mope around and never smile :/ thank God I grew up.
@kyliehughes6700
Sounds like jealousy to me. That bubbly personally makes people more likable and approachable. Any girl in real life would’ve loved to be Alexa’s friend. I think the others were threatened that she had the potential of stealing their cloud.
Best interview by far. Btw. the realisation that they have therapists on call on reality shows and none on kids tv shows is MIND BLOWING. Trisha and Alexa, thank you for this, this is a crossover that WILL change things 🌅
❤
As a shy person I would really appreciate Nicole because when I was young I was afraid to talk to people. There aren’t enough bubbly personas
She was my absolute favorite character on Zoey 101, it’s so crazy that at such a young age she was able to hold herself together when the cameras came on:(
As a neurodivergent woman, as I grew up I learned no one that I thought was my friend actually liked me. They never told me that but everyone else around us knew. It really hit me and caused me to not bother making friends outside of other parent friends for play dates. It hurts how people can be so passive aggressive and bully you and pretend they’re your friend instead of being straightforward. I didn’t understand that these people used me as the butt of every joke and actively tried to hurt me, as I laughed along and smiled with them.
i felt that sis! being an adult you will find your tribe. stay strong sis. you are not the problem! Keep shinning.
I relate to this so hard. Growing up I had a few “best friends”, but every one of them eventually started treating me as if I was beneath them or an inconvenience to them. It’s like there was some invisible force that would deter every single one of my friends away from me, which was gut wrenching to experience. I’ll never forget my last day of middle school, I was so heartbroken that me and my best friend were gonna be split up to two different high schools. I had absolutely no friends going to the high school I was going to, and I told my friend that maybe me and HER best friend could possibly hang out together at the new school. She told me “Um no, Jessica isn’t gonna hang out with you. She’s gonna have her own friends, you’ll have to go and make your own for once.”
It still kills me to this day to even think about that, I obviously fell out with that friend soon after that. I basically went through high school completely friendless and would eat lunch alone while seeing that my old mutuals from middle school already had their cliques and ignored my existence entirely.
I don’t know what it is about being neurodivergent that deters people so strongly, I don’t think I’ll ever truly understand. I think we’re the coolest people ever but nobody else seems to recognize that 🥺
@thugga.thugga girl I'm so sorry, I've gone through similar experiences before and it's the worst thing 😢
Ugh this is unfortunately so relatable
trish is friends with mr handy btw
as the literal demographic-I actively watched this show and now i’m a grown adult. I was so confused as to why Nicole was “written off”. Alexa was such a great actress and so bubbly despite the mental torment she endured. Makes me feel better about quitting my toxic job. She stood up for herself at a young age.
I’ve seen people complain or get annoyed that Alexa is constantly talking about her trauma and speaking up, saying that she should be over that at this point or saying she was a child then, so it shouldn’t matter anymore. But what people don’t understand is, it does matter. If you have never been abused by someone to the point you felt like nothing it’s hard to understand. Yes she was a child but as a child she expierenced so much hurt from Dan, the cast, and producers around her. I absolutely would believe that would be traumatic. Especially a grown ass man taking his anger out onto a little girl just rages me to the core. I’m glad she’s speaking up and continues to, because she wants to let the world know what went on. One can heal, but one will never forget what they were put through. It grosses me out that men like that are out there in a powerful status. He’s a predator and he should absolutely be called out for what he has done. No amount of money in the world could be given to me to keep me silent if I was in any of these ladies shoes. So I applaud her and Jeanette and others who are speaking out. Dan should be behind bars but unfortunately because of his power and wealth he will never be. So the best option for now is to tell everyone who he really is.
Also being bullied by other kids who you thought could have been your friend is also a terrible thing to go through. Jamie knew what she was doing and she went after Alexa because of her youthfulness and kindness. So she preyed on her because at the time she saw her as a weak link or competition. Jamie was a brat and knew she could get her way and she did. So I’m also glad that Alexa is speaking up about her because that was so F’ed up on how Jamie treated her.
Well stated!!!
Not Victoria justice being a product of nepotism 😭
If your little sister is getting bullied, you do not assault a child. You contact the other child’s parents and have a civil conversation. What Britney did was WRONG.
and that's why she apologized ♡
this makes it no better, but it might be nice to know that brittney has since apologised. Again, this makes it no better but is nice 2 know
yes she went at it in the complete wrong way but she did not “assault” a child. Britney was defending her little sister who she thought was getting bullied relentlessly by her co-star and big sister would do what Britney did. Britney has apologized more than once to Alexia about his things went down
Assault? You mean shame and humiliate? Assault would mean she would have had to lay hands on Alexa which she didn't.
It was Jamie Lynn’s fault for gaslighting her into yelling at her and threatening her career.
Always assumed Erin was a kind girl.. to see her nudge Alexas head like that while hugging Victoria, to then see her put her knuckles behind Alexa again to push her away is so sad.
Mean girls smh
YES!! She literally hit her TWICE in that clip! So messed up😣
@@darbydaze6611 All because of the influence Jamie had!
Horrible people 😪
@@lastdays8500bruh I wanted to know more tea about Jamie Lynn like dead ass guys please watch the voodoo child she went on deep dive one Britney’s book but I always love hearing people perspective on her I loved watch this episode she didn’t deserve that mistreatment Alexa hasn’t gotten an apology by many of Nick co stars it’s sad she was the favorite and it’s like she didn’t exist it’s hard to fathom 😀
I never assumed that at all. Karma's real because she was the central plot point of Zoey 102, and it was a flop
So we’re calling grown women mean girls because of speculation and accusations about their behavior as tweens that have yet to be proven other than that it’s Alexa’s word & no real evidence? Can’t get more parasocial than that.
my heart breaks for Alexa. i’ve watched her youtube channel off and on for a while, but this gives a fully comprehensive look at *why* she does the important work she does. she is so strong (but she never should have needed to be), Trisha did a wonderful job interviewing her and just really let her speak. one of my favorite episodes i’ve seen of this podcast!! love to you both
The idea that emancipation is so normal in these situations is terrifying.
I will never forget being bullied in elementary school and really feel for Alexa. My bully tried to convince everyone not to be my friend and when I asked her why, she said “you’re fat, ugly, and bite your nails”. It sticks with you forever.
You didn't deserve that. I hope you've found ways to help heal❤
You are right it does stick with you I too was bullied in elementary and middle school to the point I dropped out of school
Sorry that happened. I know you’re likely a better, kinder more well rounded person because of it though. I know I am- but I randomly cringe when memories of being talked about in that way by bullies/ “friends” The best payback I got was losing 100+ pounds- coming back for junior year, and many years beyond getting hit on/ DM’d by these men- and politely reminding them that they’re garbage- and it’s never gonna f**king happen! I hope you are well- you’re worth it!!
I had bullies all the way till Highschool, every mean word they told me has stuck with me since then
trish is friends with mr handy btw
I am SO impressed with this interview. Trish, you’re so good at keeping the tempo and keeping the guest on track whilst still allowing them the space to talk openly. You don’t overtake them or speak over them, and you add where needed but don’t overdo it. Really, really good to watch!
i love how trish interviews, she's so warm, genuine, asking for details but still letting her tell her story. so sweet! the part about victoria justice and alexa shook me esp with their family connection!
This is really nice seeing Trish and Alexa together. Trish feels very comforting
Literally said “good job Trisha!!!” out loud after I finished listening. So proud of you for helping shine a light on these issues that have affected us more than most realize. I was so similar to you growing up and have done my best to heal but it’s on going and I’m so glad this stuff is being talked about now!!
Trisha genuinely cares about her guests and listens to them sincerely. Her interest in what they have to say is really authentic
this
It's truly refreshing
Wow I cant believe all this was happening. I appreciate you doing this interview to spread the word. I know you have always advocated for victims and continue to do so! Great interview and letting Alexa speak her truth and give us some things on how we can help as well!
I really hope that Victoria Justice sees this and finds it in her heart to apologize.
Unfortunately that's never gonna happen just because doing that would make her admit some sort of wrong doing and people like her don't usually accept when they do something wrong.
(When I say people like her I mean, a bully with jealousy tendencies) just like she did to Ariana Grande on Victorious and the reason she apologized to her and now they're "friends" is because Ariana Grande is a superstar. If she weren't as famous as she is now, she would have never apologized. 🤷🏼♂️
for something happened more than 15 years ago and was a child💀? yeah no
@@kreiliciouswhy would it matter if it were years ago and a child? You can’t apologize for your wrong doing because you were a young child? Make that make sense? As an adult you would know better and you would know to apologize and feel guilt for those things. It makes MOST sense to yes, apologize now.
I know I've said this in a ton of episodes, but I can't say enough that this was definitely Trish's calling. She does SUCH an amazing job interviewing her guests and LISTENING to them and just letting them tell their stories. My biggest pet peeve with podcasts is when the host constantly cuts off their guests and talks over them and talks MORE than them. You can tell that Trish is GENUINELY interested in what her guests have to say. And I've seen Alexa on quite a few podcasts now, the first one I ever seen with her was Let's Get Into It with Sloan. It was the first time I heard her full story. I feel so bad for the things that she (and many others) endured as a child. And even as an adult with her ex-husband. I can relate to her on so many levels, when it comes to that. What she's doing now is truly amazing and I just KNOW that she'll help with the change this world needs!!
#eatpredators
Yeah I’m impressed with her interviewing skills. That’s not a skill you just wake up good at… but Trish did.
Trisha is such a great interviewer she asks such good questions, while also making the guests feel safe and heard. Love this era of Trish ❤
trisha thank you so much for using your platform to have alexa on. this means so much to so many of us. thank you
holy cow trisha, this is amazing. you are amazing. you have truly blossomed and i am so proud of you. this is probably the best interview ive seen ever. Great job trisha❤️
YESSSS ALEXA AND TRISH TOGETHER?! Clicked so fast this topic is so important to talk about thank you❤️
i just want to hug her! i’m so so sorry you went through everything with zoey 101, and also with the grooming. thank you so much for fighting to get justice! 💗
I feel so bad for her, the trauma and hurt in her eyes you can physically feel. She looks so exhausted, she deserves all the best in this world I feel so bad fr 🤍 I’m praying for justice and peace she deserves that at the least!! Eat predators
That’s the worst when kids bully by being passive aggressive and isolating one kid. Psychological bullying is worser than physical abuse because it has longer lasting effects.
Alexa was my FAVORITE on Zoey 101, I hate hearing how much abuse these kids suffered 😞 but I am glad they feel safe now as adults to speak out.
All time favorite episode!! Thank you Alexa for creating a safe space for survivors, you are so deserving of your platform and the sensitivity in your heart shows the strength of your intuition and how much you care about others spreading this message and allowing others to know they can use their voices as well. You are making such a difference in the life’s of so many🌸💕
What is the Oscar equivalent for RUclips interviews? Because Trisha deserves one. She’s gonna pop off with this one.
wow trish i am SO GLAD you had alexal Nikolas on! this is such an incredible interview!! It is so wild how much we've grown up since those zoey101 days!
Trish, you interviewed so damn well in this. You asked all the questions that popped into my mind. ❤️
SHOUT OUT TRISH! You can tell Alexa’s story was triggering her. Look at her face. But she kept the interview going when this topic must be so painful to talk about or listen to. Also, I love how Trish let Alexa speak; she never cut her off! 👏🏼 👏🏼 👏🏼