Brooke Schofield On Her Toxic Ex, Feuding With Tana & the Future of CANCELLED | Just Trish Ep. 28

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  • Опубликовано: 1 ноя 2023
  • Trisha sits down with 'CANCELLED' host Brooke Schofield to discuss her meteoric rise to social media fame. Brooke tells all: From new details about her toxic ex, to feud rumors between her and Tana Mongeau. What is the future like for the 'CANCELLED" podcast and tour? Plus, Brooke and Trish bond over the hardships of living with BPD, and how they continue to live with their mental illness.
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    One thing about Trisha Paytas, she’s going to speak her mind. The viral megastar has made a career out of unabashedly spilling her heart out to millions of viewers. While she’s been both praised and canceled for it, Trisha has never been afraid of stirring the pot.
    Now, the meme queen is taking back the mic and truly telling it how she sees it-from the latest Internet drama to the hottest celebrity gossip. In this weekly podcast, Trisha gives her hilariously unfiltered take on the biggest headlines and trends currently taking social media by storm. Alongside her friend and co-host-Emmy-award winning entertainment news journalist Oscar Gracey-she provides her brutally honest, and sometimes highly controversial commentary on pop culture. It’s not personal, it’s ‘Just Trish’.

Комментарии • 2 тыс.

  • @emmablackburn8386
    @emmablackburn8386 6 месяцев назад +3596

    the fact that trisha accidntally bought the REAL bottega earrings instead of the amazon dupes is beyond iconic

    • @Latoyas_got_your_soul
      @Latoyas_got_your_soul 5 месяцев назад +12

      Literally

    • @Joveeeeee
      @Joveeeeee 5 месяцев назад +10

      Literally first thing i thought

    • @flerrrrrrrrrrrp2997
      @flerrrrrrrrrrrp2997 5 месяцев назад +3

      I love those earrings i've been looking for the dupes since the beginning of this episode (well since i sas this comment, so like maybe three minutes in)

    • @abbyjojohnson
      @abbyjojohnson 4 месяца назад +1

      lol she didn't even think about dupes

    • @nvrlou
      @nvrlou 9 дней назад +1

      what’s the time stamp for this convo ?

  • @getthememo
    @getthememo 6 месяцев назад +6178

    I love how Trisha’s energy is around girls, she loves to elevate them and genuinely cares to make them feel good, she’s a Girls Girl 🫶🏼

    • @MarissaMezari
      @MarissaMezari 6 месяцев назад +27

      This comment!!! ❤

    • @hairiseverything
      @hairiseverything 6 месяцев назад +18

      Well said! It makes me feel warm inside! The world needs more of that!

    • @littlepoodle7443
      @littlepoodle7443 6 месяцев назад +1

      Trisha is a Barbie FORREAL

    • @abbyz13
      @abbyz13 6 месяцев назад +64

      being wifed up has been so positive for her i’m glad she has stability in her life and loving friends finally

    • @Lulu-pi2qp
      @Lulu-pi2qp 6 месяцев назад +30

      It’s fake, u need to learn to tell the difference
      I mean she has gotten better but she’s still a hater

  • @ricardodelucca5221
    @ricardodelucca5221 6 месяцев назад +1210

    Brooke is very real and transparent. More influencers needs to be like her.

    • @Deeeeezzz
      @Deeeeezzz 4 месяца назад +4

      she's so relatable omg

  • @emmaaaa2839
    @emmaaaa2839 6 месяцев назад +815

    Brooke talking about how people calling her annoying validates her own thoughts about herself, is what makes her so relatable. Some people who grew up in messy family situation’s don’t know proper bonding skills, she interjects and to some, it seems like she’s making it all about herself, but that is how she shows she relates to someone, and that’s her way of bonding with people. I wish she would open up more and not try to people please so much, she’s truly a good person and deserves the world 💟

    • @heyyitsjude
      @heyyitsjude 6 месяцев назад +15

      Yeah I think the people saying that aren’t really as social as they think they are. It’s very normal to relate to yourself. The only time I don’t do that is when I literally can’t relate so I just ask questions (like Trisha did during this interview).
      As long as both people are validating one another’s experiences, it’s not really an issue.

    • @allysonleigh3521
      @allysonleigh3521 6 месяцев назад +3

      this! I think the lot of us that feel this way and have been through it can see it in one another. she is truly so beautiful inside and out

    • @brookecardoza8036
      @brookecardoza8036 5 месяцев назад +2

      Amazing comment! So spot on

    • @abbyz13
      @abbyz13 5 месяцев назад +4

      @@heyyitsjudeyesss, especially in big ethnic families we can’t help talking over each other 😂 but it’s not because we’re not listening! it’s nice when people understand & just make a point to recenter the convo if needed. i do wish brooke got to finish her stories more often ❤

    • @Ambuhsofly
      @Ambuhsofly 3 месяца назад +1

      It's a common issue with neurodivergent people. It's how we relate to people and empathize. We're saying "you're not alone in this, and this is how and why I can relate" a lot of people just don't understand the intent behind it and think you're being selfish. It's so unfortunate.

  • @dizzyandbusy
    @dizzyandbusy 6 месяцев назад +5744

    i can confidently say this is the episode we were ALL waiting for!

  • @juliacoves5873
    @juliacoves5873 6 месяцев назад +3778

    Brooke don’t sell yourself short!! Tana is your friend and may have given your opportunities but your personality is what people love, regardless of Tana ❤

    • @brittanybeauvais
      @brittanybeauvais 6 месяцев назад +117

      100% I adore Brooke. I love Tana as well, but Brooke is a whole different vibe

    • @juliacoves5873
      @juliacoves5873 6 месяцев назад +68

      Also Brooke if you read this you are NOT a pick me

    • @toughtimes6353
      @toughtimes6353 6 месяцев назад

      @@juliacoves5873u probably haven't seen her older stuff there is definitely pick me energy before

    • @abbyz13
      @abbyz13 6 месяцев назад +32

      @@juliacoves5873i think we all have “pick-me” moments, it just means someone wants to feel accepted and will code switch to do it, right? we’re so harsh on each other for it and does is matter 😂 no

    • @gemmaviol3t
      @gemmaviol3t 6 месяцев назад +20

      @@abbyz13no literally like at at the end of the day we all just wanna be loved and cared for so does that not make us ALL pick me's to some degree? like 😭😭

  • @JaseFX
    @JaseFX 6 месяцев назад +951

    Brooke is such a lovely girl. She genuinely deserve all the success she gets. I hope she understands people watch the podcast for her and tana. She really stands out as she's so genuine, which is rare in the influencer landscape now, its the same with Trisha.

  • @Petunia1738
    @Petunia1738 5 месяцев назад +403

    Trisha sharing she has never experienced anxiety really explains how she can post the most outrageous and crazy videos embarrassing herself and literally not care about the backlash.

    • @keepItKeen
      @keepItKeen 3 месяца назад

      Love Trish. She got her own thing goin on.

  • @brandyharbin4949
    @brandyharbin4949 6 месяцев назад +1412

    Hearing Trisha and Brooke talk about mental illness and relating to each other and normalizing it was so refreshing for me 😭

    • @oliviaclemons2506
      @oliviaclemons2506 5 месяцев назад +4

      THIS

    • @Starbuxlvr1313
      @Starbuxlvr1313 5 месяцев назад +4

      I needed it ❤

    • @taylorhunsaker6294
      @taylorhunsaker6294 5 месяцев назад +3

      Yes oh my god it’s amazing. Breaking down that wall of all these influencers being perfect

    • @jazzyjazz12
      @jazzyjazz12 5 месяцев назад +2

      THIS!^^ they genuinely both heard every word eachother said to the other during the pod, which made me feel heard and like a bff🥰

    • @serenagilbert1483
      @serenagilbert1483 5 месяцев назад

      1000%

  • @bitchlasagna1
    @bitchlasagna1 6 месяцев назад +1897

    As someone with BPD, even just having these two women openly talk about their emotions and mental health is more representation than my community is used to. BPD is so stigmatized and so silenced. Thank you ladies ❤ this means a lot to me to even just see two people functioning and prospering whilst struggling with this disorder

    • @Rodviet
      @Rodviet 6 месяцев назад +30

      I'm so happy for you 🥹 I don't have it but I've researched it a ton since Trisha mentioned her diagnosis, it's such a complicated illness to live with and it's so painful to see when people don't understand it and think the wrong things about you guys.
      Just know that some of us have done the research and support you, understand how hard it is to manage and respect you so much for being strong AF

    • @lilithinferno
      @lilithinferno 6 месяцев назад +5

      ​@@Rodvietyou're an angel 🩷🩷🩷

    • @Bats_
      @Bats_ 6 месяцев назад +8

      I feel seen.

    • @adzblue5969
      @adzblue5969 6 месяцев назад +7

      I fully understand how you feel. I wish there was more easy to listen too bPd themed chats.

    • @pwetty4r4
      @pwetty4r4 6 месяцев назад +7

      Ya'll remember when trisha first came out with this and everyone tried to cancel her?

  • @lilstoph
    @lilstoph 5 месяцев назад +359

    Dear Moses, convince Trish to do this again. Usually a quiet Stan but this has been the most genuine episode I’ve seen. I love you and Brooke together, I watched the whole thing. You two are a dream team. ❤

  • @alexandriacarino568
    @alexandriacarino568 6 месяцев назад +462

    As someone who is a HUGE fan of cancelled and Just Trish, I think this might of been my favorite podcast episode i have seen! it was so deep and fun on so many levels. I connected with much of the conversation and have had crazy realizations about my own thoughts. Thank you both so much! Seriously could not love yall and Tana so much!

  • @ajilliantimes
    @ajilliantimes 6 месяцев назад +1118

    I love the fact that brooke and Tana openly discuss when they fight. It paints a good relationship of friends that can still fight and get their frustrations out and still remain bffs

  • @sinamae96
    @sinamae96 6 месяцев назад +1121

    Hearing Brooke talk so lovingly about her grandmother makes me love her 10xs more. As a CNA in a memory care unit- dementia is hard. It’s the most unforgiving disease there is. It’s so important to not forget the person they ARE not what symptoms they are experiencing.

    • @user-nt1dq3cf7n
      @user-nt1dq3cf7n 6 месяцев назад +17

      No because this is 100% correct. I’m a CNA as well in the long term/ memory care unit, and a nursing student this was my exact thoughts when they were talking about this. Before I ever knew anything or had any knowledge regarding the medical field my grandpa had dementia and it was so heart breaking and something I never really understood until I became a CNA. My heart breaks for Brooke, it really is a horrible disease but like I tell my patients families they are struggling so much and feel so lost in there own mind and body that it’s so important to make sure you treat them like you always have and don’t forget them as the person they once were because they may not understand or know but they have you too remember for them and try to make them feel like themselves, and not as the disease and symptoms that have taken over. I’ll never forget my first year being a CNA I lost a dementia patient that I felt so close too, and her family stopped coming to see her completely and when she was getting ready to pass it was almost like she was holding on and waiting for someone that never was coming. I sat with her my whole shift and even after I got off until she finally passed. It was the one patient that I lost that completely sent me in too a spiral and broke my heart.

    • @Larissa-up7lu
      @Larissa-up7lu 6 месяцев назад +2

      My mom died from Early Onset Alzheimer’s and it really is the absolute worst.

    • @meowJACK
      @meowJACK 5 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@user-nt1dq3cf7nthat's so heartbreaking 🥺💔 it's terrible that her family would just stop coming to see her because she's not acting like herself anymore... And leave her to die alone. Ffs people, she's still the person you love, even if she is very ill and no longer acting like the person you know 😭 Somewhere in her heart and mind she longed for the people she loved, and they weren't there. It never stops shocking me how humans find so many different ways to be terrible, in every situation...

    • @slhulla
      @slhulla 4 месяца назад

      This is an interesting perspective, cos I’ve been peripherally experiencing a situation where someone is still going to see their parent with dementia even though she’s become physically volatile and very very mean and all the visitor will say is ‘it’s not her’ - which I get, it isn’t, but at this point if the goal is to remember who this person was to you and still love them wouldn’t it make sense to stop seeing them at that point, if your physical safety is compromised?

  • @LifeofManders
    @LifeofManders 6 месяцев назад +228

    I could literally watch Brooke and Trish talk for hours! It was so refreshing to listen to you guys open up about your struggles and making SO many people feel seen. This was a much needed podcast for the BPD community and definitely worth the wait!!

  • @Raphtacular
    @Raphtacular 6 месяцев назад +181

    Trisha, you have no idea of the positive impact you're having by speaking about your experience with DBT. Honestly, as a therapist, it makes me so happy. People see you, they see your hard work, and then you give them information that might help them make positive changes themselves. Also, as a long term viewer, I just continue to be so incredibly proud of you and how far you've come. Well done 👏

    • @dilciaenid57
      @dilciaenid57 4 месяца назад +1

      What’s DTB - I’ll google lol

    • @Raphtacular
      @Raphtacular 4 месяца назад +3

      @@dilciaenid57 A type of therapy that can be effective with borderline personality disorder

  • @Silverroseflorals
    @Silverroseflorals 6 месяцев назад +802

    I love Trish wearing her Bottega earring for this after saying on her last show with Tana that she got them because of their conversations. It’s such a small touch but shows a true friendship bond and a true desire to relate to these girls. Trish problematic or no deserves the world and I just love her.

    • @averyfletcher
      @averyfletcher 6 месяцев назад +91

      And the way she slicked her hair back just like Brooke usually does…. There is truly no one like Trish ❤️

    • @anniehubbard5159
      @anniehubbard5159 6 месяцев назад +8

      awwww i didn’t notice until i read this comment 🥹🤍

    • @mattyoung2603
      @mattyoung2603 6 месяцев назад +2

      Yes❤

    • @allietracy3590
      @allietracy3590 6 месяцев назад +6

      Yes! Look at her whole fit! She’s literally dressed up as Brooke ! ❤ so cute

    • @steph352
      @steph352 6 месяцев назад

      trish is so cute love her 😌

  • @nfvy8111
    @nfvy8111 6 месяцев назад +1029

    It’s SO validating to hear Brooke and Trisha talk about breakups while having BPD. I relate 100% to Brooke’s experience - I couldn’t eat, couldn’t sleep, woke up every day for weeks just filled with DREAD. Everything she said was spot on. It really does feel like somebody died.

    • @Lyney220
      @Lyney220 6 месяцев назад +31

      This exactly. It’s like your soul is sucked out of you, or you’re missing a piece of yourself. It’s a very horrible feeling, like the world is ending.

    • @user-np8yf8fj2w
      @user-np8yf8fj2w 5 месяцев назад +13

      I don't have BPD, isn't it normal to feel this way at least from one break up?

    • @Petunia1738
      @Petunia1738 5 месяцев назад +7

      @@user-np8yf8fj2wno it’s not. It’s normal to grieve and feel sad but not to that degree.

    • @Schmuckfoo
      @Schmuckfoo 5 месяцев назад +2

      @@user-np8yf8fj2wi was gonna say the same thing. So what? Does this mean I have bpd.

    • @maddiegrace9787
      @maddiegrace9787 5 месяцев назад +1

      feltttttt

  • @sophiewilliamss
    @sophiewilliamss 6 месяцев назад +107

    First time I’ve seen/heard BPD talked about to openly and honestly and I feel like I can take a breath out and say I RELATE! BPD is so hard to live with and makes me feel so comforted that Brooke and Trisha were so honest with eachother in their mental illness and I’m so glad I have them to watch 🖤 thank you!

  • @gabbiesantana
    @gabbiesantana 2 месяца назад +7

    i am genuinely sobbing throughout this entire podcast. i was recently diagnosed with BPD and hearing you guys talk so openly about it and describing every single thing i’ve felt my entire life is everything to me. for real, thank you so much for this episode

  • @luizal4784
    @luizal4784 6 месяцев назад +649

    I love how Trish is SUCH an amazing interviewer! You can tell Brooke is a lot more soft spoken than most of her guests and how much Trish changed the pace of her interviewing style to match Brooke's and make her comfortable, all the while still managing to make it as engaging as ever. Ps. Brooke is amazing as well, obviously, love her

    • @cross2venus
      @cross2venus 6 месяцев назад +9

      So true 🥲😭 We love Trish for that!

  • @alexalex2639
    @alexalex2639 6 месяцев назад +743

    Oh my god, I’m so happy Brooke is on a podcast by herself, shows how amazing she is on her own❤️❤️

    • @phcenix777
      @phcenix777 6 месяцев назад +5

      For real!! I love her honestly

    • @exhaustedeloise
      @exhaustedeloise 6 месяцев назад +3

      yesss! when they were talking about brooke being on this podcast on cancelled i was so excited to hear that it sounded like she did it alone! so glad to see this, i love brooke x

  • @emergencyasmr
    @emergencyasmr 6 месяцев назад +54

    Another awful thing about having BPD is that we’re magnets for people with NPD or high narc traits so it’s common that we end up with people that mistreat and lie to us.
    I had a very similar experience with a guy that lied about absolutely everything. Including his age and when you finally see behind the curtain you definitely spiral because it’s so much to take in and I heavily relate to feeling like that person died
    I’m glad that Brooke is doing better now though. Nobody deserves to be lied to like that

  • @Lyney220
    @Lyney220 6 месяцев назад +115

    LOVE them for normalizing bpd and anxiety as someone who has both. I’ve felt crazy, unseen, and like an outcast because I didn’t think successful people had issues like that. Thank you!! Brooke is the best. I wish you two had a podcast like Cancelled.❤

  • @Idontknow-lm6bc
    @Idontknow-lm6bc 6 месяцев назад +870

    This was the best episode of someone with borderline personality disorder Thank you guys so much for making me feel so seen I got diagnosed at 14 and now I’m 20 and I still struggle every day and everything you said about it I could relate to so much my best friend was bipolar, and she passed away and that was one of the hardest things I’ve ever had to go through. This episode is everything❤️

    • @sativalibra
      @sativalibra 6 месяцев назад +8

      i'm so sorry for your loss love❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹 grieving the loss of a close friend is the absolute hardest thing to deal with when having bpd, i lost my best friend/ex love in april 2022 and i still can't wrap my head around it. my heart is absolutely with you💖💖💖

    • @bitchlasagna1
      @bitchlasagna1 6 месяцев назад +10

      Felt. This community is so stifled and silenced and scrutinized. This is more representation than I’ve ever had which is sad because it’s just two peope

    • @wonderchild1465
      @wonderchild1465 6 месяцев назад +2

      @@sativalibra 2

    • @cajuniky
      @cajuniky 6 месяцев назад +1

      ❤️‍🩹💜🧡🩷❤️

    • @capsnerd
      @capsnerd 6 месяцев назад +1

      ❤❤❤

  • @tanesha2347
    @tanesha2347 6 месяцев назад +335

    Trish is naturally such a good interviewer

    • @Lyney220
      @Lyney220 6 месяцев назад +8

      She really is though! She doesn’t speak over the guest, she asks great questions, tells great stories, etc. She is iconic!

  • @angiepennington5725
    @angiepennington5725 6 месяцев назад +64

    Seeing how much Brooke and Trish relate is so heartwarming! They are both so kind and supportive, yet transparent in a way that few people will ever allow themselves to be.

  • @coralysbatista
    @coralysbatista 6 месяцев назад +72

    Bring Brooke back! Honestly one of the sweetest and honest episodes ever! 💕

  • @sam.batman27
    @sam.batman27 6 месяцев назад +307

    I love that y’all talk so openly about mental health and y’all’s experiences in “feeling crazy” it makes me feel less alone

  • @Cgblu201
    @Cgblu201 6 месяцев назад +234

    Your interviews don’t ever feel like interviews. They’re more like me hanging out with my friends and talking about anything and everything. The time always just flies by …Love Brooke ❤

  • @brookebixler1040
    @brookebixler1040 6 месяцев назад +84

    *It’s super refreshing seeing you two ladies encourage, support, praise, and validate each other!!* *REAL women truly like seeing other women succeed!!* *#trishapaytas* *#brookeschofield*

  • @izzysadventures9105
    @izzysadventures9105 6 месяцев назад +47

    32:47 hearing Brooke talk about her grandparents and the love she has for grandpa and how much she looks up to him, really tugged at my heart. I relate to her so much on this and the love she has for her grandparents. Sending you and grandparents love❤️

  • @MadiLikesToMove
    @MadiLikesToMove 6 месяцев назад +138

    I love that Trish wore her Bottega earrings for an interview with Brooke. What a solid friend, you can tell she's really strategic and intentional with little details!

  • @stink..
    @stink.. 6 месяцев назад +339

    Brooke has such a likeable personality and she’s funny. I hope all the success for her

  • @maxgaloozis9026
    @maxgaloozis9026 5 месяцев назад +20

    The way these two have a genuine relationship makes me cry tears of joy. Love love love both of you

  • @azalenadowlearn5215
    @azalenadowlearn5215 6 месяцев назад +17

    "Never meet your idols," I met tana years and years ago, and my friend and I got so flustered because she vlogged us (we made her geo filters on snapchat) but anyways maybe 30 minutes after her met and greet we asked her body gaurds if we could go back up and take pictures bc we forget to and she let us up alone with all her friends to take pictures. Such a great person, brooke and trish seem so genuine and kind as well.

    • @Coloradogranola
      @Coloradogranola 6 месяцев назад

      I think she means this by don’t take the chance of ruining the “magic” of your idol cause most celebs won’t be as kind in every single fan interaction. Catch a celeb on a bad day and your view would be ruined and feeling would be hurt. It’s like the same concept of don’t work for your favorite restaurant cause then you’ll hate it

  • @GlitterkatL
    @GlitterkatL 6 месяцев назад +101

    Trish channeling Brooke with the earrings and slicked back pony tail is everythingggg ✨

  • @peterh7278
    @peterh7278 6 месяцев назад +206

    As a therapist this was such a heartwarming episode to watch. Please keep doing what you’re doing Trish!! ❤️

  • @emilymarie2548
    @emilymarie2548 5 месяцев назад +21

    I love how pure this is! They’re genuinely interested in one another, with little judgement, and girls supporting girl vibes ❤

  • @Dybwmlt
    @Dybwmlt 4 месяца назад +12

    Brooke is the definition of “she’s just like us” she’s a girl who’s maybe not made for LA but is strong enough to take it on and be real about it. Stan card!

  • @SabrinaHawk
    @SabrinaHawk 6 месяцев назад +184

    wow,, i got so emotional when they were discussing her loving grandparents. i lost my grandmother last summer, and she had dementia during her last 18 months. im glad brooke was able to muster the strength to speak on it, as it is something so many of us have had to go through. i hope she finds the time to be able to visit with her parents. gentle hugs to anyone who has lost their grandparents

  • @omgitsbellababe
    @omgitsbellababe 6 месяцев назад +289

    Brooke describing the feeling of panic is so real for me. I have BPD and when I’m in one of those mindsets it’s like you cant control the emotions rushing in. Sometimes I get old triggers that come randomly. Or sometimes I’m trigger by things that happened in my old relationship. Like if my husband doesn’t answer my phone calls, I feel SO panicked. Bc one of my exes would ignore me for days and I would call him like 40 times. So my past relationship effect my current. And back then I didn’t know I had bpd so I was so irrational but I didn’t know how to control it. Now I’ve gotten better at recognizing when my emotions are taking over and I can stop, think, & take time to respond. BUT it’s not easy and some days I really can’t stop myself from outbursts of anger/irritation or feelings of anxiety. Just know it’s a long journey to heal but with bpd I don’t think we ever will. 😢

    • @trailertrish
      @trailertrish 6 месяцев назад +7

      this video made me realize i have it. ❤ i feel less alone hearing other peope say things ive experienced. ❤❤❤

    • @alexgross29
      @alexgross29 6 месяцев назад +3

      I can totally relate to that panic anxiety feeling. I’m struggling with it right now and it’s unbearable. Thank you for sharing ❤

    • @kobekjl13
      @kobekjl13 6 месяцев назад +4

      @@alexgross29I went through this several years ago and nobody understood. I felt like I lost everything and my life was over. I couldn’t sleep and the anxiety/feeling was unexplainable. I’m so happy she talked about it because I immediately knew the feeling and felt validated and not alone. Just know you’re not alone and it does get better, I never thought I would feel better but over time I did. It breaks my heart that you’re going through this and I’m sending you love ❤️. It takes time and healing but i promise it does get better.

    • @juliaanise9108
      @juliaanise9108 6 месяцев назад +6

      If I see one of my exs or if I ever got a notification from them it’s like an immediate panic attack

    • @capsnerd
      @capsnerd 6 месяцев назад

      @@kobekjl13❤❤❤

  • @annalisexo8501
    @annalisexo8501 5 месяцев назад +25

    trish is so fantastic at getting people to talk, i loved being able to hear so much from brooke in this episode

  • @Zo-weee
    @Zo-weee 6 месяцев назад +7

    I’ve been watching Trisha since I was in high school and she’s always helped to get me through whatever I was going through. Her videos made me feel less alone when I felt like no one else would understand me. Hearing Brooke’s story has been so special. Our childhoods were very similar, and i’ve been having trouble processing my feelings, and hearing her speak on her parents addiction with such grace and empathy is so beautiful and helpful. Thank you for your vulnerability🫶

  • @allisonnn1998
    @allisonnn1998 6 месяцев назад +156

    As a fellow BPD girlie with crippling anxiety and panic disorder, I knew exactly what Brooke was talking about when describing her anxiety. In that moment it literally feels like we’re dying, but then afterwards I feel ridiculous for being that anxious. It’s such a real and visceral experience.

  • @addieschwartz7095
    @addieschwartz7095 6 месяцев назад +235

    My ex lied about having cancer and 6 months left to live AND having a daughter when he didnt... I feel you brookie

    • @kaitlyns9972
      @kaitlyns9972 6 месяцев назад +51

      What is WRONG with these people my lord

    • @addieschwartz7095
      @addieschwartz7095 6 месяцев назад

      @@kaitlyns9972 names jon keir since I'm getting so many likes everyone watch out lmao

    • @Mkay999
      @Mkay999 6 месяцев назад +26

      The most unhinged part of that for me was lying about a kid you don’t have. Lol who lies about being a single parent

    • @BlBBLE
      @BlBBLE 6 месяцев назад +7

      that’s insane

    • @ykook7000
      @ykook7000 6 месяцев назад +12

      Men will LIE about everything from the smallest thing to the biggest most complicated soap opera storyline thing

  • @kaitlyncooke4788
    @kaitlyncooke4788 6 месяцев назад +14

    As a person with both bpd and bi polar II it's really nice to hear them talk about this without a bad undertone like it's just genuine and sharing experiences and it makes me feel so much better and more normal to understand other people experience this

  • @nickjonaslover396
    @nickjonaslover396 6 месяцев назад +8

    The whole convo about them wishing they were injured and being like “everyone did this” is so BPD coded omfg

  • @serenabruyns3008
    @serenabruyns3008 6 месяцев назад +179

    as someone w BPD whose been in an extremely toxic relationship listening to you both talk about it so openly was so beautiful to me. so happy Brooke was able to open up about this with Trish because I know how hard it was on her but you can see how much Trisha genuinely cares and understands Brooke and where shes coming from. this podcast has such healing energy :')

  • @lizzybarretto1997
    @lizzybarretto1997 6 месяцев назад +111

    I love that Trish always tries to be matchy with the guests as an ode to them ❤️🖤 it’s so sweet and fun!! Love Brooke so much this is a great episode 🫶🏻

    • @capsnerd
      @capsnerd 6 месяцев назад +4

      yessss its so cute

    • @rileymosiniak3073
      @rileymosiniak3073 6 месяцев назад +4

      Brooke even said in her past vlog that she bought something pink to match with Trish!! So obsessed with these two and Tana’s friendship ❤

  • @Camillassofia
    @Camillassofia 6 месяцев назад +38

    I love seeing BPD presented like this. We need more adults over 25+ talking about these disorders.
    Also girl what? Brooke looks so freaking good and young. I thought she was like 23 before this but we are the same age. Gorgeous 😱😍👌

    • @poortraits
      @poortraits 4 месяца назад +8

      Bruh the way that people in their early 20s talk about people in their late 20s is like we r approaching our death bed

    • @jjjiiddppeew1810
      @jjjiiddppeew1810 Месяц назад

      She’s literally only 27….wth are you talking about?

  • @fional8752
    @fional8752 6 месяцев назад +4

    I love how open and vulnerable this whole conversation casually is. You are both amazing

  • @Savannahh__love
    @Savannahh__love 6 месяцев назад +35

    I feel like with the nursing degree Brooke could do celebrity IV’s and still be an influencer. Kind of like Dr. Miami

  • @CC-tc1yi
    @CC-tc1yi 6 месяцев назад +94

    As someone with a life long panic disorder (so far, and now medicated), I really appreciate your sensitivity around using anxiety as a label. There’s definitely a difference between worrying and anxiety. Panic is a whole other level! I feel that people overuse the term ‘anxiety’ which dilutes it and adds stigma to it (I.e. “just get over it”). ❤

  • @MB-px7en
    @MB-px7en 6 месяцев назад +6

    Trish is SO good at this. I really saw how conversational she is with Brooke and all the topics she's bringing up. She really knew this guest well, and it showed with how much they spoke and how it just felt like a real conversation and not an interview.

  • @gothdollll
    @gothdollll 4 месяца назад +4

    until recently i hadn’t met anyone else who was diagnosed with bpd like me. watching trish always helped me feel not alone and it’s refreshing to see brooke being vulnerable about it also 🖤

  • @celinasellers2366
    @celinasellers2366 6 месяцев назад +103

    brooke is so well spoken. you two together is a breath of fresh air. i love you guys! thank you trish for the consistent uploading and amazing guests

  • @user-sm1ut5pt1d
    @user-sm1ut5pt1d 6 месяцев назад +276

    You are both so amazing for being so vulnerable to tell your stories that are what we can battle everyday.

  • @prettyskies8674
    @prettyskies8674 6 месяцев назад +7

    This is my first time seeing Brooke and I love herr. She seems really down to earth. It’s so refreshing to see someone talk about mental health issues so openly.

  • @lindsaydeisher7110
    @lindsaydeisher7110 2 месяца назад +1

    this is so hard to talk about thank you for sharing brooke. my grandma also passed away from dementia and im juggling with a bipolar disorder diagnosis and possibly BPD. really really meaningful to hear vulnerability from people in the social media world. sending love and prayers to you and others dealing with this too

  • @kykyann17
    @kykyann17 6 месяцев назад +36

    I lost my father from dementia in 2017. Seeing him go from a 250 pound man to 120 pound man, watching him, search my face for my name. Things I will never forget. Be kind and patient with yourself during this time and cherish those days together with your grandma. ❤️ I am so sorry for your heavy pain you’re feeling you’re strong and I look up to you!

  • @Jacquelynnn955
    @Jacquelynnn955 6 месяцев назад +43

    I admire Brooke SO much. She’s been through so much, I’m really glad she got her moment with Trish to share in this way. I dated a guy who was legit a psychopath & he lied about w everything as well. He was cheating on me with multiple girls while also being on the phone with me constantly somehow, it ruined me. I lost so much weight and spiraled as well. Luckily that was years ago, but I sooo relate to that experience. I’m so glad she’s speaking on it. I love seeing Trish so happy, I’m wishing the same for Brooke 💗💗💗

  • @serenagilbert1483
    @serenagilbert1483 5 месяцев назад +14

    This ep was SO SO good, Trish asked the best questions and just had the best topics! Literally love her she's just the coolest and her and Trisha's chemistry is so good. It was super cool to get to know this deep personal side of Brooke! Especially when it comes to her mental health struggles/anxiety; its so relatable and Brooke's someone who just like the super pretty cool girl and looks like she just has it all together all the time and its really comforting to see everyone has their shit behind the scenes and everything's not just so surface level. Id loveee for you to have her back on

  • @cuixinshi
    @cuixinshi 5 месяцев назад +7

    Brooke was the only person Tana collaborated with or best friends with that I feel she’s a genuinely down to earth and hard working person.

  • @SafeSpacewithSierra
    @SafeSpacewithSierra 6 месяцев назад +48

    Loved this conversation. First time I’ve heard more about Brooke’s background and mental health. Trish is a good interviewer

  • @kateh2078
    @kateh2078 6 месяцев назад +165

    When I say I NEEDED this episode with Brooke, it's severely an understatement! I've been so upset this morning and this is the only thing that's helped me stop crying. I love you both so much! 🥰

    • @StephanieJamesKeenan
      @StephanieJamesKeenan 6 месяцев назад

      You are too gorgeous to be crying. Better not be crying over a boy!!

    • @capsnerd
      @capsnerd 6 месяцев назад +5

      hope u feel better ❤

    • @ciarachris
      @ciarachris 6 месяцев назад +3

      Definitely been there- love that we can tune into just Trish for a few hrs a week 🩷 hope you feel a bit better

    • @Lyney220
      @Lyney220 6 месяцев назад +1

      Hope you’re feeling better❤

    • @oliviac422
      @oliviac422 6 месяцев назад +2

      I hope you’re having a better day today ❤

  • @maddieyoung9138
    @maddieyoung9138 5 месяцев назад +2

    I loved this interview so much. It was so nice to see Brooke get asked all the questions and get so much love from Trisha! Trisha you are so kind to Tana and Brooke and I’m so glad that you three have connected and formed a friendship. I’m excited to see you on the cancelled podcast hopefully again soon! This made my day at work much better (listening to it on and off while I work) 🩷 you guys are awesome!

  • @cyber_sarahtonin
    @cyber_sarahtonin 6 месяцев назад +3

    Easily my favourite episode that Brooke featured as a guest on. Surprisingly Trish and her click on such a genuine level and it’s sooo nice to see for both of them! Trish had a way of really getting Brooke to open up and I was fully engaged start to end

  • @Bloody.Kisses
    @Bloody.Kisses 6 месяцев назад +147

    I really needed this video today I have been struggling managing my bpd lately. I just feel so disconnected from everyone and hearing both of you relate is really helping me not feel so odd about myself. Thank you for this episode sending much love to you Brook & Trish 💕

    • @kbotelho8976
      @kbotelho8976 6 месяцев назад +1

      Sending you hugs!! ❤️

    • @rippkai
      @rippkai 6 месяцев назад +2

      this is exactly how i’m feeling, i’m so grateful for them!!!

    • @kaitlyns9972
      @kaitlyns9972 6 месяцев назад +1

      There are more of us than you think! You aren’t odd, I promise ❤

    • @Inthemorningisay
      @Inthemorningisay 6 месяцев назад +1

      BPD here. ❤️ We’re not alone. Sending you sooo much love.

  • @itsjessicakamelamela3657
    @itsjessicakamelamela3657 6 месяцев назад +87

    I’ve been waitin for this one!! Truly Trish, you have become such an icon and to see you rise all over again. Is so heartwarming

  • @jsimpson518
    @jsimpson518 6 месяцев назад +3

    Watching this has made me realize I have so much in common with Brooke! I’ve always seen clips of her and Tana’s podcast on TikTok but never really pursed her content but I’m def following her on everything now. I loooooove her vibe and energy so much! And I love how open she is with everything she experiences in life. Love love love her

  • @ryelleoconnor117
    @ryelleoconnor117 6 месяцев назад +4

    this conversation made me feel so seen and understood. thank you brooke and trisha for creating a safe space for the fellow crazy girls

  • @staceyleenagavard7051
    @staceyleenagavard7051 6 месяцев назад +14

    Brooke is my actual favourite. I’m 37 and I love watching Trish and Brooke together this is perfect.

  • @anguswhite3425
    @anguswhite3425 6 месяцев назад +46

    As someone with BPD, this was so validating. I feel so seen and comforted by your vulnerability and discussions. Thank you both!❤

  • @christiandeniz
    @christiandeniz 5 месяцев назад +2

    One of the best podcast episodes! I didn’t know who she was before but she made a great interview guest and Trisha new all the right questions to ask back to back to back regarding mental health, BPD, and obsessive compulsive behavior. Gave me lots to think about and loved the transparency and the light shed on disorders that are so common but people understand so little about 🏆🥇 Great episode

  • @camrynghall
    @camrynghall 6 месяцев назад +31

    I LOVE BROOKE SO MUCHHHH, I love how vulnerable she is this episode. You can tell how genuine she truly is, I loved this episode🧡

  • @neonclawsavie
    @neonclawsavie 6 месяцев назад +69

    LOVED. This episode, two sweethearts talking for 2 hours, thank you for the realness, thank you for the energy and thank you for being you! I’m glad this podcast was so enjoyable for the both of you 😽

  • @sadiesmom10
    @sadiesmom10 6 месяцев назад +20

    I love how Brooke’s calm demeanor made Trisha seem calm and zen. This was a great duo ❤

  • @kimskrackin
    @kimskrackin 6 месяцев назад +3

    when brooke said "i feel like everybody's mentally ill" that blew my mind bc i was just thinking that today. as ive learned more ab mental illness in recent years and kind of obsess over how i act ive been paying more attention to people too & i swear everyone got something but i also realize alot of ppl just dont know how to communicate in effective ways/ deal with emotions positively

  • @crockitty2069
    @crockitty2069 5 месяцев назад +3

    I have so much respect for you two for being vulnerable about dealing with mental health. We love you two so much

  • @EmilyTianaCampy
    @EmilyTianaCampy 6 месяцев назад +81

    Genuinely, Trish is a phenomenal interviewer !

  • @BIGTIMERUSHFAN28227
    @BIGTIMERUSHFAN28227 6 месяцев назад +33

    I haven’t been officially diagnosed with BPD but hearing both of your perspectives makes me feel so validated in my own journey and possible diagnosis, without even speaking I feel so heard and seen. Thank you ❤

  • @Natalie_B98
    @Natalie_B98 6 месяцев назад +11

    I could listen to this podcast on repeat again, and again their chemistry was so good and I got to learn so much more about BPD through this, and how nuanced it can be. Please have Brooke on again!!!

  • @katbutnohat
    @katbutnohat 5 месяцев назад +1

    as someone with bpd it is so severe sometimes, im so glad to have a bf that understands and helps me navigate :(! my grandma raised me too and passed this year from dementia, it was impending.. the grief began so long before but she remembered me until the end i was around so much. i had the same rescued feeling with my gma. resonate with brooke so much

  • @sienaaa11
    @sienaaa11 6 месяцев назад +29

    this episode is about to make me cry talking about bpd is so refreshing to hear and relate to🥹i love you guys

  • @rilphia
    @rilphia 6 месяцев назад +14

    First episode of anyone I’ve seen in a long time that was so real and so honest about every topic that came up. True open conversation is so beautiful 😭

  • @nicolejaneeabold
    @nicolejaneeabold 6 месяцев назад +17

    This episode was everything that we have wanted!!!!!! We are seriously loving the friendships blossoming!!!!!!! I think this is gonna be such an amazing girl group!!! ❤

  • @angelsacred
    @angelsacred 6 месяцев назад +3

    this is my favorite just trish episode.. i feel like i'm listening to my friends converse i feel so comforted ❤

  • @paula92111
    @paula92111 6 месяцев назад +34

    So excited to have Brooke on!! She seems so sweet

  • @LL-qq3vm
    @LL-qq3vm 6 месяцев назад +21

    I didn't know Brooke is a fellow BPD girlie 🥺 I love her sm. Borderline is really hard to live with I wouldn't wish it on anyone

  • @smvoges
    @smvoges 4 месяца назад +1

    i wish i could listen to you two talk forever. this conversation feels so safe. i’m 30 w bpd and this is just so real

  • @deftonehoe
    @deftonehoe 5 месяцев назад +4

    It’s so nice to see two people with BPD relate to each other, it gives me hope that I’ll meet someone who relates to me ❤ I LOVE BROOKE AND THIS EPISODE

  • @Inthemorningisay
    @Inthemorningisay 6 месяцев назад +26

    Brooke, thank you for speaking up about BPD. It’s so stigmatized and it’s great to see someone with your exposure to be open about it. I highly suggest therapy. ❤️ I waited years to do so because I didn’t think I needed it and it’s one thing I regret in my life. You’re right, symptoms are amplified during relationships. But, there are other things - like spending that are connected to BPD. Thank you again ❤

  • @BekaWrekaT90
    @BekaWrekaT90 6 месяцев назад +20

    Thank you both for being so honest and open. I've never felt more understood than when you both started talking about wanting to relate to someone in conversation so you can connect with them. And tell them you get it cause you went through something similar. And people think you're making it about you.
    It's like another level of trying to connect with someone other than normal mundane conversation.
    This is by far my favorite episode yet!

  • @charlierefa7483
    @charlierefa7483 6 месяцев назад +14

    I am so genuinely happy for Brooke, she deserves all of this, she genuinely seems like such a good person

  • @waterbase7
    @waterbase7 6 месяцев назад +4

    It's so amazing to hear Brooke be this vulnerable

  • @Mooonbabie
    @Mooonbabie 6 месяцев назад +14

    I love how Trisha is channeling Brooke’s style for this episode! Trisha is so sweet and beautiful 😻🥹🫶🏼

  • @ashg2895
    @ashg2895 6 месяцев назад +12

    Brooke, I'm so sorry to hear that your Grandma has Dementia😔. It sounds like she went into a delirium after her surgery and never fully recovered from it. Dementia is such a heartbreaking disease. I work as a nurse, and I see the toll it takes on the family. Your Grandpa is an absolute sweet heart for looking after her. Just make sure he gets breaks so he can have sometime for himself, and so he doesn't get caregiver burnout. Loved your openness on the podcast today ❤

  • @payton.elizabeth
    @payton.elizabeth 6 месяцев назад +3

    Brooke- I also have struggled with a lot of the same stuff you are speaking about and for me I had bpd issues and anxiety. For me, a lot of that was rooted in OCD that I didn’t realize I had. The symptoms often overlap and I found that trying to manage the OCD helps with obsessive thoughts and anxiety.

  • @JM-kq8cm
    @JM-kq8cm 6 месяцев назад +1

    my grandparents were key in my upbringing as well, they both passed between '20-'21. my grandma had dementia and literally it was the hardest thing to watch her decline. my grandpa literally had a stroke at 91 and declined his DNR to take a feeding tube because he thought he could still come home and take care of her. he literally lived for her omg i cried so much when brooke was talking about this