He tried to isolate me, a sociable naturally happy individual. I was miserable. After a year of separation I came out of my shell and rebounded to being happy again.
Yes mine did the same. He hated that I wanted to be with others. Now that I’m free from him, I find I’m no longer a social butterfly. I try to be with people but I’m not mentally there. I just see everyone happy and laughing while I’m just observing. I want to be back in the land of the living. This is excruciating.
@@rhondamyers8795 Ma'am I hope after 8 months since your comment you are doing better & feel more secure in yourself to be able to achieve your own aims.
Proof of health issues from Narcissistic abuse.. while in the abuse my blood count was so high I had several tests for cancer as my bloods were showing my body was under attack over 2 years. Abuse gone and I healed by understanding who he was and why he acted that way from videos like this, my blood count dropped to normal. Consultant said they'd never seen such a dramatic change! The mental abuse destroys you and they will constantly blame you for it. Thanks for the video x
Hi from California U.S.A Blessings how are you doing today ? I have alote of health issues. Due to this and now i have swelling and pain in left leg ankles and feet swithches to right leg too Drs say all my labs is normal kidneys fine by labs etc ..that its anxiety ..im not employed yet but am a nail tech from home so its something but not enough to support my self and kids and with these issues i need to know nothings wrong with me first before moving out in order to sustain a full time job .
Amen! Thank you for sharing such a deeply significant phenomenon that's personal as well I'm having quite a bit of complex PTSD that I feel that I had gone through a kind of a accelerated detox on my own as in the process that you described you used it and but I keep getting people in my life that are like a doctor or housing agent for elderly disabled people that are just not bringing it they're actually being deleterious too they're going to get either going against medical advice all of a sudden now that I have to be in a homeless shelter for 10 months and so my body is showing a lot of sign s of exasperate exacerbated disabling conditions and aging and anything that could have gone wrong is going wrong and it's it's very difficult to say perform back surgery on yourself because no matter who I talk to you I can present so well or whatever that it's almost like I'm talking about somebody else and I'm getting exhausted or they simply don't want to hear it cuz they're scared to step out of their bubble and it is just so insane and I will find my way but I want to thank you for stating your your situation that really I understand and in resonate so so much so so significantly I feel it to be a healing story and it's not a story it's your truth and it's a fact as well I respect it and I want to thank you for your ability to be succincted to me today because I can't and people just my own loved ones will ask me the most inning questions like fault finding they're not really interested they're not thinking these are intelligent people I don't want somebody to help me or is it it's between me and me it's not that I don't like to get support here and there and be spotted and seek meaning and understanding it's just that that's the last thing anybody seems to be bringing and I'm not angry just don't bother me if that's what you're going to bring don't guess what I need and leave it at the door.... Just thank you so much for your healing story and that you healed I'm very happy you did or you're on your way is significantly thank you for believing in yourself! 🙋💕
@Obi-Wan Kenobi "You would be stupid to not realize there's something wrong when you're experiencing narcissistic abuse". Stupid is the adjective I picked up on. Stupid not to realize - OMG!!! One thing a narcissist / psychopath or Sociopath does is slowly & steadily, they do not introduced themselves, take you out for a date & insult or hit or ridicule. Also there is nothing positive commenting in the negative when people are expressing their anxieties. I suggest you get yourself to a college & do a degree in psychology.
Thank you!! I couldn’t figure out what was going on with me! I’ve had a pattern of narcissistic relationships since my teens! It appears my brain has a lot of healing to do!!
I didn't realize I was a narcissisticly abused by my dad until I was 30. Doctors thought I had ADD, depression and "working memory disorder". In reality I dissociated from the repeated abuse. I felt like I lost my identity, I was in constant confusion because of the gaslighting and manipulation, projection and normalizing.
i am going through something so similar. dissociation has been so hard. i was in a relationship with a narcissist, as sometimes i feel like im even lying by saying this. terrible. i am so sorry you had to go through that.i hope you are well! keep going. you are not alone. wish u the best
I am very interested in your private group. I am divorced, and at this time do not have a fear of leaving this comment. I very much relate to this video. You have given me so much hope. I have been through Mindfulness counseling, but I didn't get much out of it. ... after a full blown meltdown, I know now why No Contact is so important.
It took me probably 4 to 6 weeks after I moved over a 1,000 miles away to change my phone number and block him on my email . I blocked him and then left facebook the main social media he pictured himself even during our livin relationship , he kept tons of pictures up with other women . I left on the 3rd and I blocked him and deleted face book on the 15th
Same here with visualization, have no ability to produce mental images and all memories and information is stored like text code. I have had terrible life, narcissist father, bad community and on top of all war. Everything i saw and experienced , no wonder i cant produce images in my head, its like protection.
OMG! 21 minutes in, and my emotions are flooding me with cortisol, and I feel so unsafe! Still walking on eggshells 13 years after not living with the guy. Hope that fear can become anger and then heal!
Wow! This has been THE most helpful video I have seen to date- and I’ve watched ALOT! I would like to be part of the group- and also do you do coaching sessions?? I need help!!
A narc who abused me and assaulted me, knew I had a court hearing for custody of my son, and to cover up, he had his wife and someone else, a relative, who is a lot like him (my step grandmother), go to the hearing and they both lied about me. I lost my son as a result. My situation was so bad, an attorney helped me for free at one point. I now owe child support, and because of this it's hard to break away because of how high it is. I have a little girl, who is in my custody, and I don't want her to grow up with that. But her father had issues with it, npd I think, and I left. That's actually when I first heard about what npd is. And how it works. However, I didn't have money for an apartment yet, and moved in with my grandmother. Because we (me and my daughter) had to have somewhere to live. But the people who did that to me live here also, and they were really good for a while, as though they regretted what they did. And encouraged me to leave the relationship. But now, I am getting gaslighted, threatened etc. My health is suffering. Hair falling out, and fatigue. Social anxiety. I tried to save money to move out but the child support is so high, it's eating away my savings. So I am having a hard time getting any relief. I know what I need to do, but I am in a bind, and don't know yet how to get around it. I can't go to school because of the child support obligation, due to arrears. I really appreciate this video, so I can better understand how my body is reacting. Thank you so much : )
What can I do, my daughter who is the narcissist? I find all the information is for spouse or partner. I have tried to set boundaries and even have had periods of no contact. She is 32 so not a young child, however if I look back the signs were there a long time ago.
@@milena11570 I agree my covert narcissist mom says I'm the narcissist it's a never ending debate lol but I do have genuine shame when I do something wrong unlike narcissist.
I didn't have that problem. I only allowed email or text because that would make it harder for him to continue to abuse me. I only allowed that throughout the divorce process. I blocked him afterwards 😂 if he sent something ugly I absolutely would not be sucked in, I ignored him, business only.
Thank you for this scientific explanation. I am very scientifically minded myself, and it set off all sorts of connections for me. I always wondered why I would ever want to relive or replay (in my mind) a situation when in periods of good times. (sorry, my comment is over 2 years late.)
Hi Cheryl- that’s so good that you’re identifying with the change from the meditation to the rumination and sensing, feeling and seeing the difference. I would love to offer my suggestion on what to do and how we can conquer that. The first step is to successfully identify that it is happening which you have successfully done; you have identified the difference . Upon identifying this what we can then next do is- STOP, 🛑 at that very moment. And then you BREATHE- at the very moment that a negative thoughts comes into the forefront of your thoughts, say to yourself, “that is a negative thought and you do not belong in this space.”, and you take a good and solid deep breath; breathe.. do your deep breaths and let that get you back to your meditative space, let it ground you and then again get back into your meditative space. The breathing goes hand in hand with the meditation.💜🌿 This is how we engage in “brain surgery” on ourself and change our brain and heal ourself like Caroline is teaching. God bless you and your process and I know that you are self healing and growing and being restored unto health and wholeness.
Hi Caroline! I'm so lucky to have found you. Thank you so much for all your wonderful videos. If you do see this comment, please let me know how I can join your private group if that's still possible. I tried messaging you on FB, but I'm sure you are a very busy girl. Hugs, Lee
I would like the link to join please. U r brilliant at explaining on all ur vids. It took me 17 yrs to find out he's a narc but it all adds up now the abuse i got an intimidation over the years. Plus trauma from childhood that i thought didn't effect me as i pushed it all to 1 side but i get triggers alot.
Hi Caroline, I have had four years of trauma, divorce,lost my father, last year lost my beloved brother my ex has Alienated two of my three adult son’s, I am in agony due to multiple trauma.
I was so afraid after leaving my ex . I cut all contact although he tried to get to me through different social media . I cut them all out I still have ptsd I'm not doing well I'm depressed and don't leave my house .
Prayers to help and pray I renounce all soul ties with my x husband name in Jesus name. Pray i renounce all covenants with my x husband person name in Jesus name. ruclips.net/p/PLPNQdAefzkSOKe3VpFzWkFHZSLwrgb4RM
#replay 1st time watching.Great information. I'm trying to figure out my way out. I'm physically unable to work after being a stylist for 27yrs. And he knows I have no where to go without financial means.
Thank you for being so clear and allowing us to understand the process, Love your videos. would like to belong to the community and get to know more about yor services
Rebecca Lee here is the link to join my group and pop me a message either on Facebook or email hello@carolinestrawson and I’ll send you my one to one work facebook.com/groups/thriveafternarcissisticabuse/?ref=share
#teplay I needed this video so much I’m in a very recent break up kinda we still are going back and forth it’s abusive and I need help so bad! I can’t tell anyone we are going to court next month I have to testify against him! One minute I think I still love him the next I hate him I m a complete mess 🥲🥲
Prayers to help. Pray i renounce all covenants with x husband person name in Jesus name. Pray i renounce all soul ties with x husband person name in Jesus. ruclips.net/p/PLPNQdAefzkSOKe3VpFzWkFHZSLwrgb4RM
And how does one fully recover if it is your parent and now they are targeting your child? Where is the justice department on this type of ongoing mental emotional psychological financial physical abuse-
I’ve just found your videos and a lot of what you are talking about is hitting home. I’d love to be a part of your private group if it’s possible? Thank you
God! I hate this! Trying to find a job so that I can leave. I go to the interview and make an absolute fool of myself. My brain went blank and I looked insane. I got to my car and broke down. Yelling at myself exactly what the narcissist does. All the names he called me and told myself that I’m broken. I’m still with this person and feel trapped. It’s sick what these people put others through they’re a parasite that eroded every part of your body
I can’t remember most of anything. I’ll forget how to talk. Like mush mouth and forget what I’m talking about almost every time I talk. It’s scary and I have everything and more that your talking about
Can you PLEASE do more education videos explaining this? More w the brain model? There's so much distraction w ur live stream, I'm wondering if you can simplify this? CPTSD n PTSD will have a hard time remembering your important information. Thank you for your consideration.
Narcissistic Personality Disorder develops within a child in their first five years of life, like all personality disorders...not later in adolescence.
#replay I’m doing emdr and healing. But when you talk about no contact, I have that bc I have a restraining order against my ex but how can I do this with my kids to protect them and help them heal?
Would you say that narcissist abuse would be intensified if the person receiving the abuse has autisim... particularly an undiagnosed aspie in a woman?
I believe that I am an undiagnosed aspie and I have a non verbal 3 yr old with Autism to a narcissist there is a no contact order in effect &... I am starting counseling tmw
I appreciated this video so much and I think you did an amazing job at explaining something so complex. One question that I have is... cortisol is something that's released when exercising, is exercising something I should avoid during the healing process?
Great video , thank you. Marissa Peer’s rapid transformational therapy is fantastic. Her videos are amazing too and have helped me a lot . I recommend them.
Hi Caroline I have tried to send a message privately but it does not send. it goes back to a sum you must give a total for and the when I press send it goes back to making another sum!!
Scott Neal I’m afraid the group on Facebook is women only but I do coach men on a one to one basis, please fill in my consult form and we can arrange a call bit.ly/CSdivorcepospsychcoach
Don’t listen to thinking God will save you, you need to save yourself by doing spiritual practices and growing in your chakras. Heal through seeing patterns and confronting those patterns
Lee Walters by nature if cute, it needs a narcissist to recognise they have a mental health disorder and therein lies the problem. They will never admit that the problem is theirs
I would work on your own healing and truths, setting boundaries, loving and respecting your self, self care and trying to not react or respond to his abusive behavior. Upstanding it's not you, but him Projecting his pain onto you. Peace and rest to you as well. 🦋🌈🙏
BSc (Hons) Podiatry, PGCert Applied Positive Psychology & Coaching Psychology, (last term of my Masters), ICF Accredited Trauma Informed Coach, Brainspotting therapist level 3, Internal Family Systems therapist level 2, licensed rapid transformational therapist, clinical hypnotherapist, advanced certificate on domestic abuse, accredited divorce and break up coach, certified high performance coach, EMDR practitioner. Plus more but I’d say that’s enough 🙏 I don’t like reeling off all my qualifications because my videos are about helping people not blowing my own trumpet
He tried to isolate me, a sociable naturally happy individual. I was miserable. After a year of separation I came out of my shell and rebounded to being happy again.
This has been the hardest part of healing. Is coming out of the isolation. I to was happy and joyful.. I feel like a turtle at times.
Yes mine did the same. He hated that I wanted to be with others. Now that I’m free from him, I find I’m no longer a social butterfly. I try to be with people but I’m not mentally there. I just see everyone happy and laughing while I’m just observing. I want to be back in the land of the living. This is excruciating.
@@rhondamyers8795 Ma'am I hope after 8 months since your comment you are doing better & feel more secure in yourself to be able to achieve your own aims.
@@kristawinters5944 I hope you are feeling better & no longer a turtle.
It's all about breaking down your spirit, narcissism is witchcraft.
Prayers to help and that is so true narcs are full of demons.
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Proof of health issues from Narcissistic abuse.. while in the abuse my blood count was so high I had several tests for cancer as my bloods were showing my body was under attack over 2 years. Abuse gone and I healed by understanding who he was and why he acted that way from videos like this, my blood count dropped to normal. Consultant said they'd never seen such a dramatic change! The mental abuse destroys you and they will constantly blame you for it. Thanks for the video x
Hi from California U.S.A
Blessings how are you doing today ? I have alote of health issues. Due to this and now i have swelling and pain in left leg ankles and feet swithches to right leg too Drs say all my labs is normal kidneys fine by labs etc ..that its anxiety ..im not employed yet but am a nail tech from home so its something but not enough to support my self and kids and with these issues i need to know nothings wrong with me first before moving out in order to sustain a full time job .
Amen! Thank you for sharing such a deeply significant phenomenon that's personal as well I'm having quite a bit of complex PTSD that I feel that I had gone through a kind of a accelerated detox on my own as in the process that you described you used it and but I keep getting people in my life that are like a doctor or housing agent for elderly disabled people that are just not bringing it they're actually being deleterious too they're going to get either going against medical advice all of a sudden now that I have to be in a homeless shelter for 10 months and so my body is showing a lot of sign s of exasperate exacerbated disabling conditions and aging and anything that could have gone wrong is going wrong and it's it's very difficult to say perform back surgery on yourself because no matter who I talk to you I can present so well or whatever that it's almost like I'm talking about somebody else and I'm getting exhausted or they simply don't want to hear it cuz they're scared to step out of their bubble and it is just so insane and I will find my way but I want to thank you for stating your your situation that really I understand and in resonate so so much so so significantly I feel it to be a healing story and it's not a story it's your truth and it's a fact as well I respect it and I want to thank you for your ability to be succincted to me today because I can't and people just my own loved ones will ask me the most inning questions like fault finding they're not really interested they're not thinking these are intelligent people I don't want somebody to help me or is it it's between me and me it's not that I don't like to get support here and there and be spotted and seek meaning and understanding it's just that that's the last thing anybody seems to be bringing and I'm not angry just don't bother me if that's what you're going to bring don't guess what I need and leave it at the door.... Just thank you so much for your healing story and that you healed I'm very happy you did or you're on your way is significantly thank you for believing in yourself! 🙋💕
Prayers to help and do not give up.
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@@barbaradavaz1010 prayer to help and do not give up.
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@@JessicaMartinez-rz2qh Prayers to help
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I'm so lonely is so good to see your videos this is for the hardest thing I've ever been through thank I hate narcissism
never thought the man I loved so much could ever treat me so badly
I was with a woman
Prayers to help and do not give up.
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I did not know what a narcissist was until nearly 20 years after we split up. Upon hearing their characteristics everything fell into place.
From so. Calif. Divorcing an abusive relationship.
@Obi-Wan Kenobi "You would be stupid to not realize there's something wrong when you're experiencing narcissistic abuse". Stupid is the adjective I picked up on. Stupid not to realize - OMG!!! One thing a narcissist / psychopath or Sociopath does is slowly & steadily, they do not introduced themselves, take you out for a date & insult or hit or ridicule. Also there is nothing positive commenting in the negative when people are expressing their anxieties. I suggest you get yourself to a college & do a degree in psychology.
Bizarre all the love they say they have for you while they damage your brain.
Thank you!! I couldn’t figure out what was going on with me! I’ve had a pattern of narcissistic relationships since my teens! It appears my brain has a lot
of healing to do!!
I didn't realize I was a narcissisticly abused by my dad until I was 30. Doctors thought I had ADD, depression and "working memory disorder". In reality I dissociated from the repeated abuse. I felt like I lost my identity, I was in constant confusion because of the gaslighting and manipulation, projection and normalizing.
Prayers to help and do not give up.
ruclips.net/p/PLPNQdAefzkSOKe3VpFzWkFHZSLwrgb4RM
i am going through something so similar. dissociation has been so hard. i was in a relationship with a narcissist, as sometimes i feel like im even lying by saying this. terrible. i am so sorry you had to go through that.i hope you are well! keep going. you are not alone. wish u the best
I am very interested in your private group. I am divorced, and at this time do not have a fear of leaving this comment. I very much relate to this video. You have given me so much hope. I have been through Mindfulness counseling, but I didn't get much out of it. ... after a full blown meltdown, I know now why No Contact is so important.
Prayers to help and do not give up.
ruclips.net/p/PLPNQdAefzkSOKe3VpFzWkFHZSLwrgb4RM
It took me probably 4 to 6 weeks after I moved over a 1,000 miles away to change my phone number and block him on my email . I blocked him and then left facebook the main social media he pictured himself even during our livin relationship , he kept tons of pictures up with other women . I left on the 3rd and I blocked him and deleted face book on the 15th
Great to find these videos! Very informative. Thank for addressing this very sensitive subject matter
Perfect. Great video to show loved ones that don’t understand.
Same here with visualization, have no ability to produce mental images and all memories and information is stored like text code. I have had terrible life, narcissist father, bad community and on top of all war. Everything i saw and experienced , no wonder i cant produce images in my head, its like protection.
Prayers to help you heal
ruclips.net/p/PLPNQdAefzkSOKe3VpFzWkFHZSLwrgb4RM
OMG! 21 minutes in, and my emotions are flooding me with cortisol, and I feel so unsafe! Still walking on eggshells 13 years after not living with the guy. Hope that fear can become anger and then heal!
Erin M. Towne,You are beautiful 🌹🌹🌷,You don't need a narc 😈 in your life!!
Prayers to help and do not give up.
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Wow! This has been THE most helpful video I have seen to date- and I’ve watched ALOT! I would like to be part of the group- and also do you do coaching sessions?? I need help!!
Glad it has helped ❤️
Prayers to help and do not give up.
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A narc who abused me and assaulted me, knew I had a court hearing for custody of my son, and to cover up, he had his wife and someone else, a relative, who is a lot like him (my step grandmother), go to the hearing and they both lied about me. I lost my son as a result. My situation was so bad, an attorney helped me for free at one point. I now owe child support, and because of this it's hard to break away because of how high it is. I have a little girl, who is in my custody, and I don't want her to grow up with that. But her father had issues with it, npd I think, and I left. That's actually when I first heard about what npd is. And how it works. However, I didn't have money for an apartment yet, and moved in with my grandmother. Because we (me and my daughter) had to have somewhere to live. But the people who did that to me live here also, and they were really good for a while, as though they regretted what they did. And encouraged me to leave the relationship. But now, I am getting gaslighted, threatened etc. My health is suffering. Hair falling out, and fatigue. Social anxiety. I tried to save money to move out but the child support is so high, it's eating away my savings. So I am having a hard time getting any relief. I know what I need to do, but I am in a bind, and don't know yet how to get around it. I can't go to school because of the child support obligation, due to arrears. I really appreciate this video, so I can better understand how my body is reacting. Thank you so much : )
What can I do, my daughter who is the narcissist? I find all the information is for spouse or partner. I have tried to set boundaries and even have had periods of no contact. She is 32 so not a young child, however if I look back the signs were there a long time ago.
Only narcissistic mothers breed narcissist daughters. You can help her by stop deflecting and work on yourself.
I have the same problem with my Daughter 35 Narcissist. Most of the time she is Miserable, Cruel, and harsh, Mean! It's very unsettling.😔😣
@@milena11570 @Caroline Strawson, could you answer this please?
@@milena11570 I agree my covert narcissist mom says I'm the narcissist it's a never ending debate lol but I do have genuine shame when I do something wrong unlike narcissist.
#reply Bedfordshire England. Really in the thick of it right now your channel is Godsend to me. I am just so lost and alone you are really helping xxx
Same here
I didn't have that problem. I only allowed email or text because that would make it harder for him to continue to abuse me. I only allowed that throughout the divorce process. I blocked him afterwards 😂 if he sent something ugly I absolutely would not be sucked in, I ignored him, business only.
You know how to deal with it the right way! 👍
Thank you for this scientific explanation. I am very scientifically minded myself, and it set off all sorts of connections for me. I always wondered why I would ever want to relive or replay (in my mind) a situation when in periods of good times. (sorry, my comment is over 2 years late.)
Thank you for giving us survivors
Hope and validation
That makes absolute sense in why I have forgotten most of my childhood!! Not exciting for me. It’s very much sad. I’ve blocked out most of my life.
What do you do when meditation turns into rumination. I find it hard to focus on the meditation when thoughts creep in about the abuse
Cheryl marshall,hope you are not with a narcissist 😈!
@@lioydwilliams1850 not anymore 😉
@@cheryl3898 oh ok my dear.I am Lioyd from the States.You?
You have to realise all of your thoughts are based on trauma and just stay present, focus on the moment while you meditate.
Hi Cheryl- that’s so good that you’re identifying with the change from the meditation to the rumination and sensing, feeling and seeing the difference. I would love to offer my suggestion on what to do and how we can conquer that. The first step is to successfully identify that it is happening which you have successfully done; you have identified the difference . Upon identifying this what we can then next do is- STOP, 🛑 at that very moment. And then you BREATHE- at the very moment that a negative thoughts comes into the forefront of your thoughts, say to yourself, “that is a negative thought and you do not belong in this space.”, and you take a good and solid deep breath; breathe.. do your deep breaths and let that get you back to your meditative space, let it ground you and then again get back into your meditative space. The breathing goes hand in hand with the meditation.💜🌿 This is how we engage in “brain surgery” on ourself and change our brain and heal ourself like Caroline is teaching. God bless you and your process and I know that you are self healing and growing and being restored unto health and wholeness.
Hi Caroline! I'm so lucky to have found you. Thank you so much for all your wonderful videos. If you do see this comment, please let me know how I can join your private group if that's still possible. I tried messaging you on FB, but I'm sure you are a very busy girl. Hugs, Lee
Lee Zee,You are beautiful 🌹🌹🌷,hope you are not with a narc 😈!!
I would like the link to join please. U r brilliant at explaining on all ur vids. It took me 17 yrs to find out he's a narc but it all adds up now the abuse i got an intimidation over the years. Plus trauma from childhood that i thought didn't effect me as i pushed it all to 1 side but i get triggers alot.
That is such valuable information. Thank you so much!
Hi Caroline,
I have had four years of trauma, divorce,lost my father, last year lost my beloved brother my ex has Alienated two of my three adult son’s, I am in agony due to multiple trauma.
Prayers to help you
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Great information. Thank you! #replay
Laura Stockton,Your lovely smile 😊 can make the news!!
I was so afraid after leaving my ex . I cut all contact although he tried to get to me through different social media . I cut them all out I still have ptsd I'm not doing well I'm depressed and don't leave my house .
Prayers to help and pray I renounce all soul ties with my x husband name in Jesus name. Pray i renounce all covenants with my x husband person name in Jesus name.
ruclips.net/p/PLPNQdAefzkSOKe3VpFzWkFHZSLwrgb4RM
So well explained, thank you Caroline, my recent mri scan shows damage to my hypothalamus :( xx
#replay 1st time watching.Great information. I'm trying to figure out my way out. I'm physically unable to work after being a stylist for 27yrs. And he knows I have no where to go without financial means.
Thank you for being so clear and allowing us to understand the process, Love your videos. would like to belong to the community and get to know more about yor services
Rebecca Lee here is the link to join my group and pop me a message either on Facebook or email hello@carolinestrawson and I’ll send you my one to one work
facebook.com/groups/thriveafternarcissisticabuse/?ref=share
#teplay I needed this video so much I’m in a very recent break up kinda we still are going back and forth it’s abusive and I need help so bad! I can’t tell anyone we are going to court next month I have to testify against him! One minute I think I still love him the next I hate him I m a complete mess 🥲🥲
Jill Calihan,You are beautiful 🌹🌹,you don't need a narc 😈 in your life!!
Prayers to help. Pray i renounce all covenants with x husband person name in Jesus name. Pray i renounce all soul ties with x husband person name in Jesus.
ruclips.net/p/PLPNQdAefzkSOKe3VpFzWkFHZSLwrgb4RM
I would like to join the group and have access to the link to please. Thank you.
And how does one fully recover if it is your parent and now they are targeting your child? Where is the justice department on this type of ongoing mental emotional psychological financial physical abuse-
Teaching to help and narcs are like a kid full of demons.
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I’ve just found your videos and a lot of what you are talking about is hitting home. I’d love to be a part of your private group if it’s possible? Thank you
Prayers to help and do not give up.
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God! I hate this! Trying to find a job so that I can leave. I go to the interview and make an absolute fool of myself. My brain went blank and I looked insane. I got to my car and broke down. Yelling at myself exactly what the narcissist does. All the names he called me and told myself that I’m broken. I’m still with this person and feel trapped. It’s sick what these people put others through they’re a parasite that eroded every part of your body
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Narc teaching to help know the the enemy.
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I can’t remember most of anything. I’ll forget how to talk. Like mush mouth and forget what I’m talking about almost every time I talk. It’s scary and I have everything and more that your talking about
Prayers to help you heal
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Can you PLEASE do more education videos explaining this?
More w the brain model?
There's so much distraction w ur live stream, I'm wondering if you can simplify this?
CPTSD n PTSD will have a hard time remembering your important information.
Thank you for your consideration.
Prayers to help you heal.
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Narcissistic Personality Disorder develops within a child in their first five years of life, like all personality disorders...not later in adolescence.
How Though
Plz send me a link to your support group~~ADORE your programs! Thank you for sharing so much with us!🥰
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Excellent. Have not taken antidepressants. Does the medical community think that antidepressants are necessary even if you have a lot of pain?
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I’m doing emdr and healing. But when you talk about no contact, I have that bc I have a restraining order against my ex but how can I do this with my kids to protect them and help them heal?
Is there a way to message her? I’m looking for a particular video. Adults growing up with a narcissistic parent. Thanks.
Would you say that narcissist abuse would be intensified if the person receiving the abuse has autisim... particularly an undiagnosed aspie in a woman?
Angelina Tesla yes I would.
I believe that I am an undiagnosed aspie and I have a non verbal 3 yr old with Autism to a narcissist there is a no contact order in effect &... I am starting counseling tmw
Thank you that was amazing please may I join your private group I absolutely love the scientific approach
Hi I would love to join your group, can I have the link. Thank you
Support group?
I appreciated this video so much and I think you did an amazing job at explaining something so complex. One question that I have is... cortisol is something that's released when exercising, is exercising something I should avoid during the healing process?
I literally just did a reel in this over in Instagram so check it out as will help explain x
No exercise..it will release endorphins and will lower cortisol
Great video , thank you. Marissa Peer’s rapid transformational therapy is fantastic. Her videos are amazing too and have helped me a lot . I recommend them.
Hi Caroline. (South Africa)
Hi , TERRI HERE FROM U.S. VIRGINIA....
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Would like to have access to the group you mentioned. Thank you.
Can you experience this even if you haven't had an actual relationship with someone?
Can I have the link to the group please and thank you x
Hi Caroline I have tried to send a message privately but it does not send. it goes back to a sum you must give a total for and the when I press send it goes back to making another sum!!
I’m not sure what link you are talking about as my private messages don’t take any sum. Have you tried emailing support@carolinestrawson.com 🙏
Can I get the link
Jessica Luke, hope you are not with a narcissist 😈!
I would like to join
Scott Neal I’m afraid the group on Facebook is women only but I do coach men on a one to one basis, please fill in my consult form and we can arrange a call bit.ly/CSdivorcepospsychcoach
So it’s all connected
Hi from California
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My brain is damaged by bpd/npd. I don’t think I will recover. Is it possible?
You can heal. Knowing what your up against is half the battle. Remember that with God all things are possible. 🧡
Please dont say that I pray you recover and reverse...going through my healing process now we ith the Lords help
Don’t listen to thinking God will save you, you need to save yourself by doing spiritual practices and growing in your chakras. Heal through seeing patterns and confronting those patterns
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How is RTT different from EMDR?
I have a question. How do you deal with the regret? Wasting time?
I would forgive myself. When we know better, we do better. Try and let it go, as it was a learning process.
I am not sure if you are still sending over the link. I am interested
There are a couple of her replies to the same question from 2 years ago in the comments where she gives the link.
Please can you send me the link Caroline.
Can the narcissist ever get cured?
Lee Walters by nature if cute, it needs a narcissist to recognise they have a mental health disorder and therein lies the problem. They will never admit that the problem is theirs
Only with the Love of CHRIST JESUS, check out, Without spot or blemish ministry, today post, March 24th, A former JEZABEL/NARCISSIST repentance
There is as much chance of a narc getting cured as me becoming Pope.
#replay can I have the link. To your divorce narcissist
Would love To be added to your private group
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What can I do while still in the situation to heal now ; I can’t leave yet.
20 years 3 kids later and the toxicity is getting worse everyday.
I would work on your own healing and truths, setting boundaries, loving and respecting your self, self care and trying to not react or respond to his abusive behavior. Upstanding it's not you, but him Projecting his pain onto you. Peace and rest to you as well. 🦋🌈🙏
Prayers to help you heal
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Teaching to help
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Can I please have the link
sam simpson here you go facebook.com/groups/divorcebecamemysuperpower/
Once you have "flipped your lid" can u get a sundowner effect??
Prayers to help you heal
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What if you can't receive RTT treatment? What are some replacements? Can we do it on our own?
Could you also get an instagram account? That would be amazing for me
Prayers to help you heal
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You are very condescending about your 'medical terms'. What exactly is your prior medical and current training?
BSc (Hons) Podiatry, PGCert Applied Positive Psychology & Coaching Psychology, (last term of my Masters), ICF Accredited Trauma Informed Coach, Brainspotting therapist level 3, Internal Family Systems therapist level 2, licensed rapid transformational therapist, clinical hypnotherapist, advanced certificate on domestic abuse, accredited divorce and break up coach, certified high performance coach, EMDR practitioner. Plus more but I’d say that’s enough 🙏 I don’t like reeling off all my qualifications because my videos are about helping people not blowing my own trumpet
Can I have the link for the group please?
Prayers to help you heal
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I need the link
Can l have the link please.
Will you please add me to the private link?
You always say “for women”. Are you saying men cannot suffer the same abuse or they don’t have the same physiological response?
I’d like to be in the group please
Link please!😍🤗
Please send me the link to your private FB group.
#Australia 🤗🤗🤗
Michelle Rose,I admire your lovely smile
Great video but you are talking way too fast. New to your channel and I’m loving your videos.
Haha!!! I’m often told the complete opposite!! 😂😂
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Bethany Gallagher,You are absolutely gorgeous 🌷🌹🌺,hope you are not with a narc 😈!
Can it cause multiple sclerosis??
No. Do research.
Abuse can yes.
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U should have a picture of the brain
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Please send me your link on Facebook.
I’m also losing all my hair is this related
Me too! I think it is related.
Yes it can be. Truama response. Me2
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Prayers to help you heal
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Hi could I have the link for your Pvt group.
Ta
@@tashsims4535 Look for her replies to others in the comments from 2 years ago.