She’s honestly right, mindset literally has everything to do with it! Story time to prove it: I used HATE how I looked, I was chubby and I had no confidence and I thought everyone else knew it too. But one day I went to the mall with my mom and I saw this outfit on one of those faceless statues (idk what they’re called lol english ain’t my first language) and I thought to myself “damn I’m never gonna look good in that” and low behold, I saw a woman TWICE MY SIZE come out of the changing room in that same outfit and D A M N I thought that she looked fine as hell and bruh the look on her face said that she knows she’s hot too. That’s when I came to the conclusion that it’s all about mindset, had the woman came out of that changing room feeling insecure or bad, I might not’ve felt that way about her. So accept your beauty for what it is, if you don’t like what you wear: CHANGE IT! Finding what clothes you love yourself in is one of the most important things, it’s not about dressing good, it’s about dressing YOU, make sure YOU love what you’re wearing! Even if you gotta start with window shopping to even figure out that, a first step is still a step! If you don’t like how you look weight wise (you think you’re too big or too skinny): go talk to a dietitian and explain your situation to them, I’m more than sure they can help you find a way to help you reach your most confident you, and talking to a professional will help make sure you do it in a healthy empowering way! Showering: I’m not lying, not being a stinky mess helps a lot lol! HAIR(my fav): a persons hair is their pride, whether it’s styling it or just taking good care of it, it’s always important! Mindset: 👏LITERALLY EVERYTHING THIS QUEEN SAID👏! None of this stuff is easy either, it’s good to have a healthy support system, whether it be friends or family it doesn’t matter! You have to want these changes, really look at yourself and don’t think of what you hate, but think what what you can do to improve it, your body is a temple, it’s your canvas, it’s you! Take care of your body, your mind, and your heart no matter who you are you deserve to be happy, you deserve to be your best you.
I am so impressed with this young woman. She is a shining beacon of light in a sea of darkness. I’m probably more than twice her age and I wish I would’ve learned all of the things she seems to have already grasped when I was that young.
I respect her with all of my heart here is why: She is speaking facts She knows how to make people feel better She understands how to love herself Thank you for your time :)
I am a guy and we are expected to not show any emotion and be tough all the time but all we really want is to be loved by someone other then our parents but since we are expected to be like this it kinda hardens us on the outside and makes it a little harder to open up to other people and show out true colors.
@@josh18230 naw, the "don't show your emotions" thing was invented by men, it was always men who told each other to man up, competed with each other to see who's better, why are there words like simp, beta male, alpha male etc this is because males did all this so that they could feel superior to other males, even on social media it's boys who call each other simps or beta males because of literally anything, I never saw a woman tell a man to 'man up', I've mostly seen women with soft corners for men who show their emotions. I don't know what you talking about.
This girl is so amazing she is part of the little part of society that still has self respect for theirselves and knowing that they are enough and she understands what society is doing to everyone
This is such a true message that every girl needs to hear at one point of their life. Also her eyes are so pretty they just pop and are so beautiful you can't resist but stare at her because she is so pretty!!
"your looks are the least interesting thing about you. Society will convince you that being beautiful is a big flex, but the biggest flex is knowing yourself, being kind to yourself. The biggest flex is learing to How to be your own home, how to heal the parts of Yourself no one else claps for" - Bianca sparacino This is the quote that help me most☺️
Beauty is very important actually, it derives from our desire to produce offspring it's not society its Biology and has been a thing since the dawn of age whatever the beauty standards
"But still me, so I can't hate on her" got me crying girl!!! It went straight through my heart! YOU ARE JUST SO FRKN POSITIVE!!! THANK YOU!!! I AM JUST IN LOVE WITH YOUR ENERGY!!! MY HEART INVOLUNTARILY HAS STARTED SEEING YOU AS AN ELDER SISTER!!
Yes yes yes yes. The media and society can give us a skewed look at what a glow up is. Honestly it's just being more confident and loving yourself and not 'being humble' by hating yourself. ❤️
FR. glowing up according to the media means to fit into beauty standards and try to look like “that girl” when we should be accepting ourselves for who we are and working inside out, not just dressing up all pretty to cover up our bottled up emotions.
You are the only person and channel I have ever seen that only tells us to love ourselves and I love it, it usually gives a bunch of steps and requirements then says love yourself if it says it at all
It is totally ok to love yourself and be confident. It’s the best thing ever! But be careful not to become narcissistic along the way. There is a fine line.
@@puglover6113 I dont think thinking highly of yourself, in terms of looks, is narcissistic. Only if you put others down and feel superior to them. If we talking in terms of personality then I agree with you
She’s right! Everyone needs whole new mindset to be able to be more confident about themselves like for an example think about 3 good qualities about you in a minute really hard right? But if I told you to think about 3 bad qualities about yourself you would probably have them in mind in less than a minute
Everytime I see your videos, I feel very confident... I like that you explain what has happened to you so we know that you know what you are talking about
Hey! Just wanted to say that your journey really inspires me and I think you're an extremely talented, ambitious person. Please keep on inspiring us and always be yourself cause literally you're one of the very best out there. I know I'm just a random stranger but believe me when I say that I hope you become the best version of yourself and keep inspiring us all the way. Sending much love and wishes from India 🤗
As a guy it's so refreshing to see a girl who is confident in herself enough to say "screw looking like the trendiest celebs and screw dressing like them..I love me! I love who I am!" Ugh so attractive! I literally watch her video just because I love her vibe lol
I think I had that mindset for a while, after improving little things in my life and surrounding myself with helpful positive things that encourage me I began to see myself in a more positive way or in other words I was gaining confidence in myself and I kinda felt bad like “is this narcissistic??” “Am I becoming too self obsessed??” but you’ve helped me realize that I’ve simply just learn to love myself and I’m so thankful🙏🥰 your such an inspiration to me. Thank you❤️❤️
bruh i’ve been watching her vids now (i’m still insecure abt my body, but i’m learning to like it better), and i was just obsessing over my outfit SO much yesterday, like i looked so cute and normally i’d be like “eh it looks ok” but i was full on like “IM IN LOVE WITH THIS IT LOOKS AMAZING ON ME”, thank you spencer :)
How do you do it though pls. Like really I’m doing it almost one year I tell myself into the mirror I love my body and outfit and I deserve the best but it just doesn’t change anything :/
@@andromeda5126 Ik it's sounds basic and "obvious" but it's all about your mindset. There's no recipe to love yourself, you get this through time. I honestly can't tell you what and how I did to start loving myself, I just got an "upgrade" on my mind. Also I wanna state don't compare yourself to anyone in this situation, like Spencer had her glow up in 1 year, but some people takes 5,10,20 years... Just keep going, learning everyday, and doing what makes you happy. I Hope this helped somehow and sorry about anything
"you are not being humble by hating yourself". wow. this quote literally describes the way i beat myself up out of fear of being arrogant or whatever. much needed💘
Yupp exactly, "as a girl, we r taught to feel guilty abt ourselves." Huhhh rlly. Or maybe she js like to play the victim card lmao. Noone made her feel guilty abt loving herself. She's just a delusional narcissist.
I love all of your content and what you strive to be, it really makes me feel better about myself so I know you will like never see this, but I just wanted to say thank you!
I applaud you for making this video. It is one of the best videos explaining the importance of loving yourself rather than merely saying “you have to love yourself”, you said directly the reason why society are struggling to love and respect.
Thats you a year ago, as yourself. Who you actually are. Beyond social media and beyond care. Thats your authentic self. No make up, glasses on, you identify yourself now more with the 'glow up'. "This me" "I feel much happier" really? You don't look much happier? You don't sound much happier? Your self help books will not help you. Knowledge CAN be power. Knowledge without discipline is worthless. I know this myself. Why is the girl in the glasses worth any less than the girl in makeup with beautiful smile? She's not
She is. The girl in makeup without glasses is confident with her appearance, she's happy. Confidence is the most attractive trait anyone can ever have.
Literally the teen romcom “makeover” of the “ugly girl” - hair pulled back and glasses= crusty, ugly, etc., hair down without the glasses=glow up, new woman, beautiful, perfection.
She never said glasses, and pulled back hair was ugly, she is taking about mentality, and changing our perspectives on ourselves. Also, that was a year ago, people change and look different regardless. Someone can have no glasses, and always wear their hair down, and the next year have glasses and wear their hair up. It really doesn’t matter.
I have literally never been so confident and ok mentally in my entire life. And I have Spencer to thank for that. Now when ever I feel like crude I don’t cry into my pillow or give up, I get up and learn from my mistakes and do my best not to repeat them. Thank you Spencer ❤
Me: *showing my friends how I looked four years ago* Them:…that’s not you.. how were your cheeks that puffy- And you were a natural blonde???! Tf you’re eyes were like green brown
Having issues.... Going from anxiety filled depression that takes control of everything....to something thats beautiful and super relaxed. I just want to be happy with myself no matter wat situation I'm in.
Tbh this is really a good message drive through the video for those who are kind of depressed and have social anxiety because of their looks, but it's always better to look better, don't forget that
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Spencer: “so what did I do to have this glow up?” * *points at head* *
Me: thinking it’s something to do with her hair
Same tho
Same...
same,,
OMGG SAME😭😂😆
Same 💀
She’s honestly right, mindset literally has everything to do with it! Story time to prove it:
I used HATE how I looked, I was chubby and I had no confidence and I thought everyone else knew it too. But one day I went to the mall with my mom and I saw this outfit on one of those faceless statues (idk what they’re called lol english ain’t my first language) and I thought to myself “damn I’m never gonna look good in that” and low behold, I saw a woman TWICE MY SIZE come out of the changing room in that same outfit and D A M N I thought that she looked fine as hell and bruh the look on her face said that she knows she’s hot too.
That’s when I came to the conclusion that it’s all about mindset, had the woman came out of that changing room feeling insecure or bad, I might not’ve felt that way about her.
So accept your beauty for what it is, if you don’t like what you wear: CHANGE IT! Finding what clothes you love yourself in is one of the most important things, it’s not about dressing good, it’s about dressing YOU, make sure YOU love what you’re wearing! Even if you gotta start with window shopping to even figure out that, a first step is still a step!
If you don’t like how you look weight wise (you think you’re too big or too skinny): go talk to a dietitian and explain your situation to them, I’m more than sure they can help you find a way to help you reach your most confident you, and talking to a professional will help make sure you do it in a healthy empowering way!
Showering: I’m not lying, not being a stinky mess helps a lot lol!
HAIR(my fav): a persons hair is their pride, whether it’s styling it or just taking good care of it, it’s always important!
Mindset: 👏LITERALLY EVERYTHING THIS QUEEN SAID👏!
None of this stuff is easy either, it’s good to have a healthy support system, whether it be friends or family it doesn’t matter!
You have to want these changes, really look at yourself and don’t think of what you hate, but think what what you can do to improve it, your body is a temple, it’s your canvas, it’s you! Take care of your body, your mind, and your heart no matter who you are you deserve to be happy, you deserve to be your best you.
This actually helps a lot, thank you
Thank you a lot for saying this. Btw those faceless statues are called manakins 😂lol :)
Mannequins***
Mannequin
YESSSSSS SLAAAAAYY QUEEN😈❤️
I am so impressed with this young woman. She is a shining beacon of light in a sea of darkness. I’m probably more than twice her age and I wish I would’ve learned all of the things she seems to have already grasped when I was that young.
i read beacon as bacon🧍
i had to read that like five more times to finally make my mind read beacon as beacon😎
@@isla.0119 I read it as beacon. I had to read it five times so I could finally read it like bacon. Worth it.
@@fiavalenti6247 amazing 😎
@@isla.0119 Samee😂
So you think advice of be obsessed with yourself is good advice? There is something wrong with this generation
I respect her with all of my heart here is why:
She is speaking facts
She knows how to make people feel better
She understands how to love herself
Thank you for your time :)
you can't like/respect someone with all your heart, all your heart is for God not random people
@@Legendary_Starlight Let them be bro 💀
@@Legendary_Starlight not everyone believes in god stop forcing people 💀💀💀
@@luwvrs right like not everyone is obsessed with your jesus
@@luwvrs was I forcing them? I was just telling them what is right
I am a guy and we are expected to not show any emotion and be tough all the time but all we really want is to be loved by someone other then our parents but since we are expected to be like this it kinda hardens us on the outside and makes it a little harder to open up to other people and show out true colors.
@@josh18230 this may be some women but not all.
True. Society has screwed up men _and_ women, just in different ways. I'm sorry you have to deal with that.
@@josh18230 naw, the "don't show your emotions" thing was invented by men, it was always men who told each other to man up, competed with each other to see who's better, why are there words like simp, beta male, alpha male etc this is because males did all this so that they could feel superior to other males, even on social media it's boys who call each other simps or beta males because of literally anything, I never saw a woman tell a man to 'man up', I've mostly seen women with soft corners for men who show their emotions. I don't know what you talking about.
Some men suck. I'm glad people like you exist
I'm a girl and I can tell u some girls like the guy showing emotions and some don't . I would love of my bf to open up
“Girl you’re being kinda dumb”
I DONT WHY BUT THAT MADE THE MOOD CHANGE 😭😭😭😭 for me
Girl you've helped me become so much more confident in myself and thank you for all of the amazing tips!! you're amazing have a great day!!
You know she is a known liar that said she would do anything for money
This girl is so amazing she is part of the little part of society that still has self respect for theirselves and knowing that they are enough and she understands what society is doing to everyone
This is such a true message that every girl needs to hear at one point of their life. Also her eyes are so pretty they just pop and are so beautiful you can't resist but stare at her because she is so pretty!!
I needed this 🥲
"your looks are the least interesting thing about you. Society will convince you that being beautiful is a big flex, but the biggest flex is knowing yourself, being kind to yourself. The biggest flex is learing to How to be your own home, how to heal the parts of Yourself no one else claps for"
- Bianca sparacino
This is the quote that help me most☺️
wow this is a great quote
Beauty is very important actually, it derives from our desire to produce offspring it's not society its Biology and has been a thing since the dawn of age whatever the beauty standards
"But still me, so I can't hate on her" got me crying girl!!! It went straight through my heart! YOU ARE JUST SO FRKN POSITIVE!!! THANK YOU!!! I AM JUST IN LOVE WITH YOUR ENERGY!!! MY HEART INVOLUNTARILY HAS STARTED SEEING YOU AS AN ELDER SISTER!!
Sounds like she has her own version of a corrupted half that she barely interacts with. Can't say I blame her.
God bless you all🙏❤️
PLEASE share tips on what you do to stay happy especially how to be yourself with strict parents
I love watching your videos 😍😂
Literally love this woman ❤️
That actually helped a lot :( :) tyyyyyy
Loving yourself ... now that's a real glow up ❤
Thats. Y I love. U. I love u and ur mindset girl ☄️🤌🎀
Ur eyes are so beautiful!!
Yes yes yes yes. The media and society can give us a skewed look at what a glow up is. Honestly it's just being more confident and loving yourself and not 'being humble' by hating yourself. ❤️
FR. glowing up according to the media means to fit into beauty standards and try to look like “that girl” when we should be accepting ourselves for who we are and working inside out, not just dressing up all pretty to cover up our bottled up emotions.
My Doggy's glow up transformation
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Yeah! YOU GO GIRL!
She's speaking right into my soul 🥺
Literally love this energy
Your nails though 💙😍
This speech almost made me cry, this is such a bueatiful speach hands down. 🙌
This is so amazing❤
“gurl your being kinda dum”
got me rolling on the floor😭
Yeaa😂
Spencer is amazing I love her so much and she is so comforting and I hope she never gives up on what she does
You are the only person and channel I have ever seen that only tells us to love ourselves and I love it, it usually gives a bunch of steps and requirements then says love yourself if it says it at all
I swear I freaking love Spencer. She really knows how to make someone feel beautiful 💛
This girl is literally a clump of happy energy and fierce love that lights up my day 😂❤
It is totally ok to love yourself and be confident. It’s the best thing ever! But be careful not to become narcissistic along the way. There is a fine line.
What do you mean?
@@stellalegolasnevolous4666 being to full of yourself, thinking highly of yourself, or showing too much self admiration is narcissistic
@@puglover6113 I dont think thinking highly of yourself, in terms of looks, is narcissistic. Only if you put others down and feel superior to them. If we talking in terms of personality then I agree with you
I LOVE HER NAILS!
She’s right! Everyone needs whole new mindset to be able to be more confident about themselves like for an example think about 3 good qualities about you in a minute really hard right? But if I told you to think about 3 bad qualities about yourself you would probably have them in mind in less than a minute
Everytime I see your videos, I feel very confident... I like that you explain what has happened to you so we know that you know what you are talking about
Hey! Just wanted to say that your journey really inspires me and I think you're an extremely talented, ambitious person. Please keep on inspiring us and always be yourself cause literally you're one of the very best out there. I know I'm just a random stranger but believe me when I say that I hope you become the best version of yourself and keep inspiring us all the way. Sending much love and wishes from India 🤗
I 100% agree. Beauty is a state of mind, and if you know you’re beautiful, you are. Simple as that.
As a guy it's so refreshing to see a girl who is confident in herself enough to say "screw looking like the trendiest celebs and screw dressing like them..I love me! I love who I am!" Ugh so attractive! I literally watch her video just because I love her vibe lol
you can compliment one woman without bringing others down
@@molly4792 anyone who is insecure deserves to be shitted on.
@@elihollingsworth6852 what kind of sense does that make?? and did you even watch the video?
@@elihollingsworth6852 Damn bro chill , my insecurities fuckin with u too ? Mb
@@elihollingsworth6852 tf is this. What kinda mentality is that my god- lmao
PERIOD I LOVE YOU!! You popped up in these shorts riddled with food!!! Love it!!!
I think I had that mindset for a while, after improving little things in my life and surrounding myself with helpful positive things that encourage me I began to see myself in a more positive way or in other words I was gaining confidence in myself and I kinda felt bad like “is this narcissistic??” “Am I becoming too self obsessed??” but you’ve helped me realize that I’ve simply just learn to love myself and I’m so thankful🙏🥰 your such an inspiration to me. Thank you❤️❤️
loving yourself is not the same to being narcissistic. What I mean about that is You have to love yourself without stepping in other people's life
Love this 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
girl who said i hate myself i’m literally in love 😍
I love her energy so much!
bruh i’ve been watching her vids now (i’m still insecure abt my body, but i’m learning to like it better), and i was just obsessing over my outfit SO much yesterday, like i looked so cute and normally i’d be like “eh it looks ok” but i was full on like “IM IN LOVE WITH THIS IT LOOKS AMAZING ON ME”, thank you spencer :)
How do you do it though pls. Like really I’m doing it almost one year I tell myself into the mirror I love my body and outfit and I deserve the best but it just doesn’t change anything :/
@@andromeda5126 Ik it's sounds basic and "obvious" but it's all about your mindset. There's no recipe to love yourself, you get this through time. I honestly can't tell you what and how I did to start loving myself, I just got an "upgrade" on my mind.
Also I wanna state don't compare yourself to anyone in this situation, like Spencer had her glow up in 1 year, but some people takes 5,10,20 years... Just keep going, learning everyday, and doing what makes you happy.
I Hope this helped somehow and sorry about anything
Yessssss✨ We love to see itttttt!!!!!! Reminds me of when I first started to view myself in a positive light🥺🥰 It's something truly magical
This is great advice for humanity in general
"you are not being humble by hating yourself". wow. this quote literally describes the way i beat myself up out of fear of being arrogant or whatever. much needed💘
You are now my roll model
I literally try to feel self confident but it never works. I look in the mirror and say I look good today but it just doesn’t change anything
Fr same I’m doing it almost one year but honestly it got even worse
Thank you this helped so much😊
I was never once taught to feel guilty for loving myself
Yupp exactly, "as a girl, we r taught to feel guilty abt ourselves." Huhhh rlly. Or maybe she js like to play the victim card lmao. Noone made her feel guilty abt loving herself. She's just a delusional narcissist.
Spencer, I love you!!❤️
Spencer is so positive and encouraging! I literally love her
Love the attitude and energy!!!
Her : * points at her hair *
Me: how tf can I have a glow up after I change my hair tf ? ? 😃
Her : that's you're mind
Me : oh.......
Broooo Spencer is the absolute BEST she makes everyones day better!!
I love all of your content and what you strive to be, it really makes me feel better about myself so I know you will like never see this, but I just wanted to say thank you!
You were beautiful last year, it's just the style, and that's why you are beautiful now
“I only changed one thing, my mind”
Me: Your makeu- mind yeah your mind
😂
Your nails ❤
Everybody saying they’re gonna change their thoughts:
*Meanwhile me not even being able to wake up 5 minutes earlier than the day before 😐*
I applaud you for making this video. It is one of the best videos explaining the importance of loving yourself rather than merely saying “you have to love yourself”, you said directly the reason why society are struggling to love and respect.
Can u make for a Tom boy
Girl ur beautiful all of u
Thats you a year ago, as yourself. Who you actually are. Beyond social media and beyond care. Thats your authentic self. No make up, glasses on, you identify yourself now more with the 'glow up'. "This me" "I feel much happier" really? You don't look much happier? You don't sound much happier? Your self help books will not help you. Knowledge CAN be power. Knowledge without discipline is worthless. I know this myself. Why is the girl in the glasses worth any less than the girl in makeup with beautiful smile? She's not
She is. The girl in makeup without glasses is confident with her appearance, she's happy. Confidence is the most attractive trait anyone can ever have.
She is the best!!! I was feeling so increase and blaming on myself! Now my mind feel so better! Tysm for this video! I am so grateful
You are gorgeous
Literally the teen romcom “makeover” of the “ugly girl” - hair pulled back and glasses= crusty, ugly, etc., hair down without the glasses=glow up, new woman, beautiful, perfection.
She never said glasses, and pulled back hair was ugly, she is taking about mentality, and changing our perspectives on ourselves. Also, that was a year ago, people change and look different regardless. Someone can have no glasses, and always wear their hair down, and the next year have glasses and wear their hair up. It really doesn’t matter.
I love your content keep it up
You should seriously be a Counselor!LOVE your advice so much, your like a big sister😊
I really look up to you thank you idk what I would do with out you
“there’s only one thing that I changed”
*points to mind*
Me: “HAIR!”
"There's only one thing I changed... My clickbait skills"
I have literally never been so confident and ok mentally in my entire life. And I have Spencer to thank for that. Now when ever I feel like crude I don’t cry into my pillow or give up, I get up and learn from my mistakes and do my best not to repeat them. Thank you Spencer ❤
Spencer: “Miss gurl!! We’re gonna rewire your mind today!!”
Me: YES QUEEN!!!! 👑 ✨ 💜
Literally love spencer, such a positive influencer. She’s really helped me gain confidence and learn to love my self
Me: *showing my friends how I looked four years ago*
Them:…that’s not you.. how were your cheeks that puffy- And you were a natural blonde???! Tf you’re eyes were like green brown
Having issues.... Going from anxiety filled depression that takes control of everything....to something thats beautiful and super relaxed. I just want to be happy with myself no matter wat situation I'm in.
Why is @Billionaires team posting her videos but getting more views likeee-?
yeah and literally everyone thinks thats her real acc
I was just thinking that like on there her videos get like 2k likes she deserves that kind of love on her actual account
I wish it was that easy
Her: "MiSs GiRl, Us GuRlS"
Me, non-binary who was literally just scrolling and came across this: 👁️👄👁️
Spencer is literally queen 👑 idc what u say
She's capping all she did is put make up on
she means like her mind had a glow up
Thank you so much this changed my life
MISS GURL......YOU ARE A *QUEEN,* SPENCER!
Her smile is so real 😭💕💗❤️
Love this message!
I love those girls attitude towards this!!
Tbh this is really a good message drive through the video for those who are kind of depressed and have social anxiety because of their looks, but it's always better to look better, don't forget that
So true! Being humble isn’t thinking less of yourself, it’s thinking of yourself less
Keep doing what you are doing. You are helping some many others
Beautiful.
Inside & out.
Stunning in every way. Facts. x
Gurll you're the best with girl tips 😌
I LOVE HOW SPENCER JUST MOTIVATES ME IN 60 SECS
Your channel literally gives me so much confidence!!
Queen behaviour periodt🦋
Girl ur glow up was amazzzing
Love her energy
Your so pretty!!
True the mind is powerful and when my mind is good I feel most beautiful..
I love that she is always smiling helps me so much on bad days
I LOVE YOUR ENERGY 🤟💜