Parents Locked Me in the Cellar for 13 years, the Heart-breaking Story of Stephen smith

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  • Опубликовано: 20 фев 2020
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    Stephen Smith is the boy who did not exist.
    Born out of wedlock in the early 1960s, Steve's parents hid him away from the world by locking him in the cellar...for thirteen years.
    Starved and beaten, the little boy's world was a darkened room that measured just eight feet by ten with a single makeshift bed, bare light bulb, and a solitary table. Steve would spend his days conjuring up an imaginary world full of monsters he would draw to try and block out the physical and mental torture inflicted on him by his brutal father. Apart from a few admissions to hospital as a result of his 'imprisonment', Steve remained in the coal cellar of the family home where he was deprived of daylight, his childhood, school, and human contact until he'd reached his teenage years.
    Eventually, he escaped only to fall prey to the instigators of two of the worst cases of institutional abuse in the UK at Aston Hall hospital and St. William's Catholic School where kids where being drugged, raped and some even killed.
    Stephens true story of torture and cruelty, that reveals a human's full capacity to fight for survival and search out happiness and hope.
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  • @stephensmitb608
    @stephensmitb608 4 года назад +1961

    Thanks James for putting me on your show and thanks to every body that watched it .and thanks for all the messages and friend requests on fb ... Cheers Steve

    • @kkrwazie
      @kkrwazie 4 года назад +47

      Stephen Smitb I read your book last night. What an inspiration, I hope many other guys can find the strength to come forward. Wishing you all the best for the future x

    • @christopherhumphries896
      @christopherhumphries896 4 года назад +23

      Fantastic Steven stay safe x

    • @amandaroberts6627
      @amandaroberts6627 4 года назад +42

      Thank you so very much for sharing your story Mr Smith, you really are the meaning of strength and such a inspirational person to have come through all that absolute horror and still be the amazing person you are. Much love and respect ❤

    • @Rock_Girl_Daze
      @Rock_Girl_Daze 4 года назад +21

      Thank you!

    • @moonbeambeth6704
      @moonbeambeth6704 4 года назад +27

      Thank you Mr Smith truly amazing listening to you, helping me on my own life time recovery today. Words aren't really enough to express my gratitude and admiration 💓

  • @liverbirdxoxo1984
    @liverbirdxoxo1984 2 года назад +211

    As a woman who would have loved to have had a baby, I can’t wrap my mind around evil bastards who are given the gift of a baby to cherish but torture n abuse them!! That level of evilness is insane to me! I’m so sorry this happened to you Stephen, you didn’t deserve any of it! 😭😭

    • @wendyhannan2454
      @wendyhannan2454 8 месяцев назад +15

      I totally understand what your saying, I don’t understand it either. Sometimes the wrong people have children 😢

    • @OasisWullie1872
      @OasisWullie1872 8 месяцев назад +6

      So many brave Souls out there, End Of.

    • @talex1625
      @talex1625 8 месяцев назад +9

      This world just isn't fair ❤

    • @Gfhfgfhfbgvcvfgccvcbv74
      @Gfhfgfhfbgvcvfgccvcbv74 8 месяцев назад +3

    • @xxmazxx1989
      @xxmazxx1989 7 месяцев назад +5

      When I hear stories like this I to think about all the incredible people who would have made amazing parents who sadly don’t get the chance. Some people truly don’t deserve the blessing of a baby x

  • @NH-bz9jv
    @NH-bz9jv 2 года назад +244

    That man is more grounded, humble and level headed than most who had a ‘normal’ upbringing. What a fantastic attitude. He deserves nothing but the best. Peace Stephen🙏🏻

    • @leahflower9924
      @leahflower9924 7 месяцев назад +4

      Sometimes abuse turns you into a more insightful self actualized person who can't take anything for granted well sometimes that happens and sometimes the abused turn into the abusers

  • @tennysoneffie6943
    @tennysoneffie6943 8 месяцев назад +22

    I feel so sad listening to this man. His young life was one of abusive horror and yet he has told his story. My heart breaks listening to what he endured. I hope the remainder of his life is filled with compassion and kindness.

  • @TheYandyman
    @TheYandyman 4 года назад +72

    I was abused at about 7. Like he said ,I never realised it was wrong till I was about 18. Unfortunately the Bastard was dead by then!
    Great man, great interview 👍

    • @Tazz-Media
      @Tazz-Media 4 года назад +9

      Hugs ;-) And I feel for you, hope yr in a better place today. P.s you're validated & your anger is righteous.

    • @TheYandyman
      @TheYandyman 4 года назад +5

      Tazzym1. Thank you, especially for the #Hugs,,,,not had I of them for a long time,lol. Stay safe x

    • @Tazz-Media
      @Tazz-Media 4 года назад +3

      @@TheYandyman you too x ;-)

    • @moonbeambeth6704
      @moonbeambeth6704 4 года назад +4

      Sending some thoughts of strength and survival to you yandyman 💖

    • @rosem6862
      @rosem6862 4 года назад +7

      The one who hurt you is having his punishment in the grave, which can be a place of misery for some or happiness for others. I hope you learned to love and accept yourself and moved on with your life because you have inner strength and the Almighty is not unmindful of your struggles.🙂

  • @bonesofthedead9911
    @bonesofthedead9911 8 месяцев назад +36

    What an amazing human being, the fact that he laughs while speaking of the cruel things that happen to him just show his resilience and strength!
    You should be very proud of where you’re at my man!

    • @oakmaiden2133
      @oakmaiden2133 7 месяцев назад +3

      Laughing at horrible things is a coping mechanism and has nothing to do with actual feelings or thoughts of humor. I’ve been there, you laugh instead of crying. Usually to ease somebody else’s discomfort.

  • @thecarpfather5757
    @thecarpfather5757 4 года назад +111

    Child abuse be it physical mental or sexual should be dealt with accordingly if you steal a childs innocent and destroy there spirit then you too should loose your freedom and in some cases death penalty like if you agree

    • @morgan1985uk
      @morgan1985uk 4 года назад +12

      The death penalty is far to lenient. They need to be dosed up with acid and get terrorised for weeks and weeks at a time. Water boarding, stress positions, light deprivation, oxygen deprivation. All of that kind of stuff. Abuse of children in any form is the worst. If I ever get diagnosed with a terminal illness I will definitely hunt down and torture child abusers.

    • @moonbeambeth6704
      @moonbeambeth6704 4 года назад

      Hey guys the sentiment is beautiful to me as it represents protecting: but facts are facts if we killed all of them many would lose half a family, most sexual molestation is by someone known to the family or the family themselves, if you all really want to protect us, take a child out of the care system, bring a homeless teenager into your own home, join the PTA, the youth teams cubs scouts cadets whatever just put yourselves where the children are ❤

    • @moonbeambeth6704
      @moonbeambeth6704 4 года назад

      @@morgan1985uk are you an Army cadet instructer?

    • @thecarpfather5757
      @thecarpfather5757 4 года назад +1

      most Cubs army cadets and scouts places are full of predators and as for taking someone into there home from the street most victims that are homeless or troubled are duped into being invited into a loving home only to be worse off 75 percent of child abuse cases is recorded in the care system look at Jimmy savile the royals and so

    • @moonbeambeth6704
      @moonbeambeth6704 4 года назад +1

      @@thecarpfather5757 exactly some men like yourselves could have stopped what happened to me and many that's my point👍

  • @MR-bq1cy
    @MR-bq1cy 10 месяцев назад +88

    James English must be one of the best interviewers I’ve ever seen. How is his stuff not viral. He deserves a lot more credit has such a natural understanding and open way with people who have had such tough times. Give the man an MBE and a show now

    • @jeanpierre5131
      @jeanpierre5131 8 месяцев назад +3

      hes got a show you just watched it

    • @jeanpierre5131
      @jeanpierre5131 8 месяцев назад +4

      dont want him censored on TV

    • @declanmccormick9778
      @declanmccormick9778 8 месяцев назад +1

      I think that he is one of the worst - he didn’t do his research properly nor remember what the interviewée had told him - also I found him incredibly sycophantic

    • @kristinebailey6554
      @kristinebailey6554 7 месяцев назад +2

      I had never heard of him until youtube recommended this video. I have to agree, he asks a question with genuine sincerity and allows the guest to answer, no interruptions. Very nice. Colorado, USA

  • @laraoneal7284
    @laraoneal7284 4 года назад +109

    What a sweet man. The abuse of children in this world is horrific. I’m a survivor of this also.

    • @themac9766
      @themac9766 4 года назад +7

      @lara my heart goes out to you

    • @DavidSmith-qf3sm
      @DavidSmith-qf3sm 4 года назад +7

      Lara O'neal, I hope that life is treating you a lot better?

    • @fluffybunny7840
      @fluffybunny7840 4 года назад +6

      Lara O'neal
      God bless you!

    • @SP-xh2of
      @SP-xh2of 4 года назад +4

      Thanks for sharing. Speaking about it seems to help the survivor and the others who have survived. On top of that it helps people outside of it to understand and those who deny have a harder time.

    • @Tazz-Media
      @Tazz-Media 4 года назад +4

      Hugs Lara, you know why. Wishing you continued healing today.

  • @maureenkidd6629
    @maureenkidd6629 3 года назад +72

    A strong-minded man, and must have helped him get through such an horrific childhood. I'm buying his book.

  • @emmyheartsyouall
    @emmyheartsyouall 8 месяцев назад +19

    Listening to Steve talking about how to overcome victimhood is really inspirational. As a person going through some big self worth issues... its so good to hear that we can rebuild ourselves after the worst of the worst occouring.
    Thanks Steve for being such a strong and ambitious survivor.

  • @mariacurtis3476
    @mariacurtis3476 3 года назад +23

    I feel privelaged to have met stephen and heard his story first hand. He is an amazing hero of a man who I really do admire so much. He's a wonderful, gentle soul and deserves all the best that could come to him ❤ hugs 🤗

  • @saturn1returns
    @saturn1returns 3 года назад +24

    I wish people like Stephen were the new role models for young men - not the weaklings you see in movies. Total strength in this real man.

  • @emmafenn7034
    @emmafenn7034 4 года назад +13

    My husband was one of these children. Last week the cps came back and said that his main abuser is suffering dementia and after 5 years of police investigation they cannot Persue the case. He needs some help. Where does he go ?

    • @elviragomez5703
      @elviragomez5703 3 года назад

      He should contact people that are coming out with these similar stories like Anneka ,this guy or Fiona Barnnet maybe

    • @factorylad5071
      @factorylad5071 3 года назад

      First you write a letter to your MP. Then Your MP will write a letter to the health authority. The health authority will write back a two paragraph letter saying para1
      They are looking into it
      Para 2
      They don't know anything about it
      You will complain to your MP
      They will tell you to contact the citizens advice bureau for them to find a solicitor
      They then will pull Leigh Day Solicitors out of a hat. But I would advise caution there because they do not fight for ALL ethnicities and nowadays you have a better prospect by starting up a VW emissions claim anyway.

  • @anaiscatton4574
    @anaiscatton4574 4 года назад +52

    Thanks james for giving this man a voice. 💔💔💔

    • @JamesEnglish
      @JamesEnglish  4 года назад +3

      Anais Catton ❤️❤️

    • @stephensmitb608
      @stephensmitb608 3 года назад +1

      @@logangreen3616 its a good old Notts accent x

  • @julialucas1482
    @julialucas1482 4 года назад +105

    This story reminds me of the fact that there were and are, many doctors, nurses, social workers, police and others who hid the crimes for decades. Why? So they could keep earning a paycheque. Why? So that they could forget the oath they had made to serve, protect and do no harm. Those who keep these crimes secret are as bad as the perpetrators of child sexual abuse and torture. How horrific!

    • @sheb181
      @sheb181 3 года назад +2

      many involved unfortunately a place to abuse are supposedly safe..vetting must be so astringent..but fails..everytime..decades.....🕵️‍♀️

    • @nikkibaxter5550
      @nikkibaxter5550 3 года назад +1

      I absolutely 100% agree with you!

    • @adolflenin4973
      @adolflenin4973 2 года назад

      @@sheb181 🎭⏳💝

    • @lindabond7964
      @lindabond7964 8 месяцев назад +2

      Heart breaking. I hope his tormentors are suffering where ever they are

    • @kjp1232
      @kjp1232 8 месяцев назад

      ​@@lindabond7964in britain child abusers get treated like royalty because the country is ran by paedophiles

  • @mereduthgrubb3648
    @mereduthgrubb3648 3 года назад +38

    This mans strength is mind blowing. He has taken some of the worst shit someone can go thru that was meant to just permanently maime and kill him and his spirit and has turned ut into his reason for life. He is so inspiring.

  • @Rosieblue111
    @Rosieblue111 7 месяцев назад +6

    What an incredible man. Not only has he survived the most horrific childhood I’ve ever heard, but against all odds he’s come out the other side an intelligent, strong, charismatic and seriously funny man.
    There’s some POS sick evil bastards in this world, but this guy shows how strong the human spirit can be. So glad you made it through all of that Stephen, and you’re the man you are today. Thanks for coming forward, you’ll have helped so many people by telling your story and being the man you are.

  • @leannewilliams1660
    @leannewilliams1660 Год назад +77

    What an absolutely incredible story of strength. Mental strength. U don't play a victim even though u were. So inspiring ❤

  • @nicolavickers9559
    @nicolavickers9559 4 года назад +72

    I’m astounded at what I’m hearing. What a beautiful man, thank you so much for sharing your story. I thought I’d suffered abuse, but it was nothing compared to what you all have suffered. Your eyes lit up when you talked about your record player, you had me right there. God bless you.

  • @butterflylady8875
    @butterflylady8875 4 года назад +22

    Wishing Steven an abundance of health, wealth and blessings for his future🤍🤍🤍😃🇨🇦

  • @lisawrobel5221
    @lisawrobel5221 4 года назад +81

    What a brilliant brave man, I love how he has such a bond with his lovely wife, I bet his kids are super proud of him.💙

    • @henrikstomsjo5613
      @henrikstomsjo5613 6 месяцев назад +1

      Please avoid the word "kid", it literally means goatoffspring, satanists worship the goat, it's a satanic psyop referring to GOAT of Mendes or BAPHOMET. Humans have CHILDREN.
      It's all about (mockery of) Scripture.
      Matthew 25:31-46:
      "But when the Son of Man comes in his glory, and all the holy angels with him, then he will sit on the throne of his glory. Before him all the nations will be gathered, and he will separate them one from another, as a shepherd separates the sheep from the GOATS.
      -----------
      Wouldn' t it be more logic if followers of Jesus Christ called their children LAMBS!?
      Updated with additional info!:
      The first use in the English language for “kid” as an identifier of a child is -
      “It was considered informal English by the mid-19th century and is now in common use. The kids' referred to when the word first referred to children were sold by criminals to sea captains who took them to British colonies as labourers or slaves. They were also youngsters enlisted by British sailors or soldiers.”

  • @tkirajones8903
    @tkirajones8903 3 года назад +95

    I have read this book and it is absolutely heartbreaking, I cried for days. He is so brave, I’m happy to see that he is well and happy xx

    • @JoseRivera-un2td
      @JoseRivera-un2td 3 года назад +1

      Wow.

    • @sally1453
      @sally1453 2 года назад +2

      Very inspirational, been a victim from several people over my life time so i can relate , stay strong 😎

    • @Dj69bly
      @Dj69bly Год назад +3

      Thinking of that little boy though 😢

    • @cheeky6397
      @cheeky6397 8 месяцев назад +2

      ​@@sally1453im sorry what happened to you. I can relate to, we are survivors & no longer anyones victim. I hope life is kind to you now.

  • @hart-hubspiritualpersonald9932
    @hart-hubspiritualpersonald9932 4 года назад +22

    What an amazing Gentleman. Huge respect to you James, for having the balls to give these survivors a voice after so long being unheard, and my God, the human race can be horrific!

  • @carolynlewis1306
    @carolynlewis1306 4 года назад +31

    Total respect to Stephen! James is a brilliant interviewer. Really enjoyed this!

  • @donnablackman3954
    @donnablackman3954 2 года назад +27

    This was sadly the norm back in the 60s being born out of wedlock was a big sin❤️ The abuse was rife in childrens homes, and all that goes very deep into the belly of these VIPs, whole can of worms with that lot ♥️ big love to him hope he finds some peace ❤️

    • @joycefolkett5688
      @joycefolkett5688 Год назад +3

      Actually his parents had been married two years when Stephen was born

    • @AKE-rw2ly
      @AKE-rw2ly 8 месяцев назад +3

      Sins of adults has nothing to do with innocent children

    • @leahflower9924
      @leahflower9924 7 месяцев назад

      Yeah it's interesting how our world seems so messed up now but if you compare it to the 60s it's better a lot of things now are considered abuse and wrong and back then it was all "discipline"

  • @Nick-ms4sb
    @Nick-ms4sb 2 года назад +17

    What a harrowing story, I grew up in Market Weighton and heard stories about the bad lads at St Williams, never could I imagine the dark secrets within the place and them poor residents. My Dad used to take me fishing to the St Williams ponds in the 80's and often the lads would come and av a chat always polite well mannered lads. Our school used to do youth club visits there to do swimming and use the gym hall, madness that these vile things were going on behind closed doors. Thankyou for telling your story Stephen and thankyou James for the podcast,very thought provoking.

  • @bernadettemclaughlin5411
    @bernadettemclaughlin5411 3 года назад +12

    Thank you james for giving all your victims a voice.
    🙏🙏🙏

  • @vnine542
    @vnine542 4 года назад +27

    I’ve had abuse similar nowhere near to the same extent. Always struggled to talk about it or make much sense of it I think he nails it on the head at the start as children we think it’s normal and never really question it until we get older god bless you mate.

  • @andreawalsh4307
    @andreawalsh4307 8 месяцев назад +14

    What an incredible human being. Love and healing to you and your family ❤

  • @superbad3591
    @superbad3591 4 года назад +34

    Just finished his book, one of the most heartbreaking and inspirational stories I've ever read

  • @patacorn
    @patacorn 4 года назад +30

    One of your best James. Stephen sounds a lovely man and has powerful resilience. This will help many.

    • @brianclark1469
      @brianclark1469 4 года назад +2

      he is a lovely mam , very talented . He's an artist and musician

    • @patacorn
      @patacorn 4 года назад +1

      @@brianclark1469 Thanks Brian :)

  • @michellerichardson91
    @michellerichardson91 4 года назад +31

    What an absolute darling of a man

  • @luckyspiderboots2530
    @luckyspiderboots2530 2 года назад +12

    Stephen my heart aches at the horrors you faced but I am so movedto see what a beautiful person you have become. You didn’t let these horrors control or define you and that is amazing testimony to others. You are so special and lovely thank you so much for sharing your story and for overcoming the evil done to you. It’s sickening but I am just so glad to see that you are okay. Keep on keeping on, lots of love and respect ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @user-qs6ft5gy6n
    @user-qs6ft5gy6n 8 месяцев назад +10

    What a grounded man considering everything he's been through and to think he's still wanting to help others he's an amazingly strong guy.

  • @mamasmurf7830
    @mamasmurf7830 7 месяцев назад +3

    My god, Stephen…. I’m of the age that I could be your daughter, yet I just want to give you the deepest, most loving, comforting mama hug that has ever been given to anyone 💜 What you went through is horrendous beyond belief 😫…. I’m nearly at a loss for words…. It’s absolutely heart wrenching to even imagine that monsters put children through such hell…. I’m so glad that you’ve built a loving family!!! I hope you have only love and joy for the rest of your days! 💕

  • @simonyip5978
    @simonyip5978 4 года назад +53

    I watched Vinnie Braddishs interview earlier on today and he already has 12,000 views in 12 hours.
    This man's interview was 2 months ago and he only has 26, 000 views.
    I'm not trying to say that watching bank robbers and big time criminals isn't interesting (because they are to me and millions of other people), but this guy deserves many more views than he has in my opinion.

  • @kslucki
    @kslucki 4 года назад +19

    My deepest respect for Mr. Stephen Smith.

  • @sharia.king-trahan28
    @sharia.king-trahan28 7 месяцев назад +2

    As a mother this broke my heart to hear. As an abuse survivor, my heart aches for you. I’m so glad you’re still with us and sharing. I’m so sorry you went through this. You can treat gold like trash but you’re still gold. ❤

  • @sarahcartier3393
    @sarahcartier3393 2 года назад +19

    I have read this book and as I read the raiding of the pantry I read the words with as much speed as Stephen probably ate the food and my heart pounded so much with fear and trepidation that I thought it was going to burst out of my body. Let down by every adult who should have been protecting him. Absolutely harrowing and disgusting how people abuse their position and authority. God bless you Stephen in all you endeavour now and forever. All the best for 2022. I would love to see your art.

  • @catrivett1964
    @catrivett1964 7 месяцев назад +9

    Been there with the abusive family, especially my father. Then I continued to alliw men and doctors to mess me up on sex, drugs until last year. I am 59 now finally threw all their drugs away, and I am taking my life back. I think seeing your story will help so many. Thank you. Time for all the victims to say victim NO MORE!!!!

    • @Ida_Dunne_Moore
      @Ida_Dunne_Moore 6 месяцев назад +1

      Wow, that's genuinely inspiring. Hope you encounter only the best things from now x

    • @catrivett1964
      @catrivett1964 6 месяцев назад +3

      @@Ida_Dunne_Moore it is getting better every day.

  • @hartybob9859
    @hartybob9859 4 года назад +40

    the way this guy comes across is amazing

    • @JamesEnglish
      @JamesEnglish  4 года назад +8

      An amazing man Stephen

    • @hartybob9859
      @hartybob9859 4 года назад +6

      @@JamesEnglish without a doubt mate its crazy, the guy deserves a lot of credit. an you deserve a bit aswell mate keep up the good work

  • @adjohns1975
    @adjohns1975 3 года назад +16

    I really admire you sir. You have overcome unbelievable horrors. You are such a pleasant man. Thank you for sharing your story. I'm sure that you are an inspiration to many people. I just ordered your book. James you are a remarkable interviewer.

  • @lesleyrhind2931
    @lesleyrhind2931 4 года назад +36

    I feel honoured to have seen and heard Stephen . Thankyou James for a truly great Podcast .

  • @eve5226
    @eve5226 7 месяцев назад +3

    This is the first time I've heard Stephen's story, and it's incredibly difficult to not feel rage towards those that hurt him. I've experienced childhood abuse, sexual abuse, etc., and I've always wanted to make them pay for what they've done. Thank you, Stephen, for reminding me that by now, they're just pathetic people who are probably living horrible lives. It's so hard to not fixate on revenge instead of healing. Thank you for reminding me that putting myself first is what matters. For what it's worth, I'm glad you're here.

    • @Gypsygal23
      @Gypsygal23 6 месяцев назад +1

      Me too. Big hugs x

  • @kathleenbyrne4108
    @kathleenbyrne4108 3 года назад +16

    You do great interviews love how you just let them tell their stories without constantly interrupting

  • @BoBoMuse
    @BoBoMuse 7 месяцев назад +4

    What an inspiring and incredible survivor of such horror and abuse!!! You prove definitively that you don’t have to become an abuser because you were abused….
    You sound like such a loving, fun and giving father and husband! It’s been a real privilege to listen to this interview….will most certainly have to read the book now! Bless you and yours!

  • @thecarpfather5757
    @thecarpfather5757 4 года назад +11

    When a grown man says as a child he was an expert at identifying Mark'son his body due to his father how sad

  • @Devils-advocate78
    @Devils-advocate78 8 месяцев назад +3

    I knew as soon as I heard him speak that he was from either Nottingham, derby or Leicester so I went onto the internet to find out. You could of picked me up off the floor when I saw he was from sherwood. Even tho I already knew this happened fairly local to me the fact that the cellar he was kept in is literally a couple of mile from where I’m sat now n where I grew up just makes me feel so sick. I’ve lived in sherwood. My mum lived in sherwood in the 70’s. He’s 15 years older than me but it just goes to show you never know what’s happening down the road or even next door. If stevens reading this, I’m sorry this happened to you 🩷

  • @paul1982100
    @paul1982100 4 года назад +30

    Bloody hell what a level headed lovely guy Steven is especially after what he has had to endure

  • @vegan.yasmin
    @vegan.yasmin 11 месяцев назад +13

    Reading the book at the moment. So heartbreaking yet I cannot put it down. Thank you for sharing your story Stephen it can't have been easy you are incredibly resillient and strong.

  • @bomb_plushies5935
    @bomb_plushies5935 8 месяцев назад +6

    Just stumbled across this video and I have to say I love this man's energy one would never think he ever struggled a day in his life with his amazing vibe you sir are an inspiration to all keep up the great work

  • @daveshongkongchinachannel
    @daveshongkongchinachannel 3 года назад +9

    Truly a living miracle. More normal and down to earth than most of the people that had a good upbringing.

  • @DizzKola3
    @DizzKola3 7 месяцев назад +2

    Stephen seems like such a kind, intelligent, fun man. Not to mention sane! It’s amazing that he endured this and lived to tell the story. He seems like the kind of guy who would be super fun to hang out with. I hope all is well with him! ❤️

  • @kellsgreen9333
    @kellsgreen9333 9 месяцев назад +10

    Wow what an amazing man Stephen is, love how hes turned his life around for the better, best wishes to him, his family and the band.
    Another great podcast James 😊

  • @curtismorrissey4916
    @curtismorrissey4916 3 года назад +8

    what a man to ensure he views life through a positive lens after many horrifying negatives. Maximum respect

  • @eiramlayka19997
    @eiramlayka19997 Год назад +33

    Slowly making my way through these podcasts and I have to say james you are a true inspiration not only for letting people tell their stories but for not letting what has happened in your life define you instead you are using it for the good! When you can take trauma and your own demons to help others that shows real strength! Total respect 👏👏

  • @kkrwazie
    @kkrwazie 4 года назад +7

    What a lovely guy. I read his book last night. A true inspiration to come through such a horrendous childhood.

  • @smurphy6767
    @smurphy6767 Год назад +12

    What an incredibly brave and inspiring man.. thank you Steven for telling your heartbreaking story. You are an inspiration for so many victims of abuse to come forward and get the help they need to heal.. ❤️

  • @MB-AFC
    @MB-AFC 4 года назад +27

    Another great interview James. What an incredible guy and I think for sure it's his ability to switch off when required that's helped him survive - I do the self same thing, except mine has nothing to do with being abused like this poor guy was, it's just in my nature. I wish this guy all the best and please to hear him doing so well. Thank you James, please keep them coming.

  • @johnbarron1343
    @johnbarron1343 4 года назад +5

    Me too sadly...I was battered and beaten by both my parents for years...And the same as this poor man , I thought it was normal...Im now 64 , but still scarred...

    • @beaullahbelle9910
      @beaullahbelle9910 3 года назад

      Aww I feel for you ..so sorry...You know there is A God and he DOES care for you...God does not do these evil things but the bible explains why things are so bad and what God is going to do ...very soon ...JW.ORG

    • @johnbarron1343
      @johnbarron1343 3 года назад

      @@beaullahbelle9910 Hello Dior...Thank you...who are you?

  • @Caseything
    @Caseything Год назад +10

    What an incredibly strong person 👏 thank you to the host for doing these podcasts and giving these people a platform to heal and help

  • @gibbz824
    @gibbz824 3 года назад +8

    This is a truly heartbreaking and inspiring story just shows how many are suffering in silence thank you very much for giving this man a voice James ❤️

  • @sylviabriggs4087
    @sylviabriggs4087 4 года назад +8

    Post for words but James you are a great interviewer tactful and compassionate, bless this man, thankfully he's doing well, xx

  • @Rasputinslair
    @Rasputinslair 4 года назад +10

    Many thanks Steve for being so brave and courageous, many thanks James and the crew for another jaw-dropping pod cast...Much Love Peace and Respect always Brother's..)*( X

  • @chantellesmith9432
    @chantellesmith9432 2 года назад +8

    Stephens book is absolutely heartbreaking and also about how resilient he his to get through this. I’m now reading barbras book The Hospital. I’m hoping more people come out and tell their story’s xx

  • @kimsule5169
    @kimsule5169 7 месяцев назад +1

    Where to start... James, thank you for opening this platform to allow Stephen to tell his story. Gail, thank you for standing by Stephen; to know his experiencs are real and allow him the space to tell his story. To stand by him and love him unconditionally.. But most of all thank you Stephen for coming forward and sharing your horrific abuse. You are truly an AMAZING man and I wish you nothing but the best !! Sending you love & hugs !!

  • @karenhaupt4321
    @karenhaupt4321 3 года назад +8

    So wonderful to hear you both laugh! His wife is a saint!

  • @itwasalladream.3264
    @itwasalladream.3264 4 года назад +25

    Love your podcast james always variety of different people on with great stories about there life, inspirational what you do mate, I'd watch your podcast over any mainstream T.V shit they put out there. True stories and conversations that you can relate to, the stories always grip you keep up the good work its appreciated, much better than fucking love island bullshit the wife watches cheers man.

  • @mikeyoung1051
    @mikeyoung1051 4 года назад +27

    Good luck and respect to Stephen, i hope the rest of your life gives you peace and happiness. James your podcasts are absolutely wonderful, never seen a one I have thought mediocre. Within 5 minutes of each I feel I am sat in the same room listening intensely, you have a gift for finding the perfect subjects and capturing with honesty and passion their Story. Stephen I have ordered your book. All the best to you and Gail

    • @JamesEnglish
      @JamesEnglish  4 года назад +2

      Mike Young thank you mike

    • @whoopwhoop1207
      @whoopwhoop1207 4 года назад +2

      James English brilliant podcasts your doing I’ve watched them all and there’s not one that I haven’t enjoyed. Going slightly of course my wife just pointed out that you used to see Kerry Katona? I didn’t know who she was 🤣 but anyway, my wife’s just done Kerry’s whole life story for one of her university projects. She said she can have it if she wants it? It must be good she got a distinction for it. Anyway I’ll leave it with ya. Keep up the good work 👍

  • @_DivineTruth_is_Home_
    @_DivineTruth_is_Home_ 3 года назад +1

    really great thank you, what i realized is that alot of people may not want to listen and become aware because we often put our selves in their shoes for understanding and we dont want to do that in these types of challenges...who you are and how you went about it is so gently expressed that we as outsiders can become aware and also see how you are now, a guy who smiles and is doing what he loves and is active with his progress as an individual, that way when we imagine this happening to us as understanding and protection we dont need to choose to be dumb n blind, we can experience your story this is greatly inspiring, thank you for all you do and thank you for this channel and all that your doing, really great, thank you~and may all go well, and us all do our parts in creating a loving experience for us all together to experience*

  • @c.nicolebennett8374
    @c.nicolebennett8374 6 месяцев назад

    What a warrior! Thank you for sharing! I just bought your book and followed your band on Facebook. Many blessings to you!

  • @WeeScary-nb4ls
    @WeeScary-nb4ls 4 года назад +6

    Fantastic.
    Thank you Steven for allowing James to share your story 💪💚
    All my love xx

  • @ETphoneYourHome
    @ETphoneYourHome 3 года назад +4

    James your using your platform in such a great way, without people like you, these people wouldn't have a voice to share their stories and drop knowledge that the mainstream media are not reporting on. Fair play mate, keep up the good work. Aston hall sounded like real life hell, there needs to be more justice.

  • @jessicamacmillan5693
    @jessicamacmillan5693 7 месяцев назад +2

    It is hard to believe people can be so evil and the fact he went from being abused by his own father to being abused in the system and in the Catholic church is horrific. Stephen is an inspirational human being and I am so pleased he is speaking out about what happened to him so others can take courage in coming forward too and hopefully justice can be served 🙏

  • @mariathatcher5880
    @mariathatcher5880 Год назад

    Amazing, and emotive interview, brave and interesting chap. Also a well presented and respectfully, interviewed with compassion too x

  • @chrisefc13
    @chrisefc13 4 года назад +21

    God Bless you Stephen Smith, true hero

  • @tombond6256
    @tombond6256 4 года назад +9

    Much love from the Nottinghamshire Derbyshire border, i live close to what was one of these horrific care homes,

  • @OGMizSassy
    @OGMizSassy 7 месяцев назад +2

    Mr Steven Smith you are proof that hope is possible in a world full evil . 😢 May God continue to work through you 🙏🏻

  • @stevenrichardson1843
    @stevenrichardson1843 8 месяцев назад

    This was a special interview with a fascinating guy. Thanks to both of you, especially Steven.

  • @hettybl
    @hettybl 3 года назад +7

    My heart breaks listening to this story .....what a brave wonderful man xxx

  • @taraeldred8814
    @taraeldred8814 Год назад +8

    I’m so so glad he found true love in his life and was blessed with a beautiful family x

  • @carolbraun727
    @carolbraun727 8 месяцев назад +1

    Thankyou. This helps me understand my husband and the trauma he went through as a child.
    And how he relates to people today. Thankyou again

  • @spice8831
    @spice8831 7 месяцев назад

    Bless you your such a beautiful man. I’ve never heard a person endure this level of evil and be able to remain emotionally in one piece and willing to share so openly without shaming themselves..
    So saddened but equally impressed and touched by your story .xx

  • @alh6702
    @alh6702 3 года назад +4

    Heartbreaking! Thankyou for bringing this subject to light, for giving this man a platform and for giving these victims a voice❤ #love

  • @jeancopeland9541
    @jeancopeland9541 4 года назад +17

    Omg! What a hard life this guys had , so glad he’s found happiness now, great podcast James , 👌🏻💕

  • @sofatalkmediawitha.j2124
    @sofatalkmediawitha.j2124 4 года назад +23

    Absolutely heartbreaking. 💔 Much respect to Stephen for telling his story, I’ve just ordered the book. All the very best for the future Stephen.

  • @MrSteve3772
    @MrSteve3772 4 года назад +6

    Thanks James and Stephen. Another great podcast. Stephen is a real survivor.

  • @scottandrea10
    @scottandrea10 4 года назад +7

    Stephen..All the best for the future! strong,amazing guy!! thanks for the podcast! Lets hope your an inspiration for many others. Another great one James,keep them coming! Hawkwind....iv'e had many a wild night watching them live...great memories (from what i can remember)lol. Good luck for the future Stephen and all the best from me!!!!!!!

  • @charlesfurie7439
    @charlesfurie7439 8 месяцев назад +1

    Such a down to earth guy, so interesting. Thanks for a brilliant upload James!

  • @darlenegibson57
    @darlenegibson57 7 месяцев назад

    Dear Mr. Smith,
    I watched your video, and I am astonished by your resilience , your acceptance of yourself, and your common sense. Most people do not have those qualities. May you continue to astonish us all. Thank you for your book too!

  • @gibbz824
    @gibbz824 3 года назад +3

    This is a truly inspiring story and heartbreaking it just shows how many are suffering in silence thank you very much for giving this man a voice ❤️

  • @waynebucknall4428
    @waynebucknall4428 3 года назад +5

    what a genuinely nice guy, after being through all that and turning out like this now proves that we can all achieve what we want to

  • @Isthis_england
    @Isthis_england 8 месяцев назад +1

    Better than anything I’ve seen on main stream tele in my a long long time , this is the way forward and James I’ve been a big fan for a while now , I was watching in the early days and you’ve just got better and better what a guest , an absolute gent.

  • @joangroulx8312
    @joangroulx8312 7 месяцев назад +1

    Bless your soul…may you live the rest of your life in complete happiness and peace….very compelling ❤️

  • @JudgeMeUnforgiven
    @JudgeMeUnforgiven 3 года назад +3

    Aston Hall is not far from me, never knew about what happened in this place till i started watching these vids, im working backwards after recently finding this channel, so i watched the other ladies interview about Aston Hall. Vile stuff that happened to these poor kids.
    This guys treatment by his parents is heart-breaking, and then to be put in a place with more abuse :-(

  • @brianmaxwell1967
    @brianmaxwell1967 4 года назад +13

    My god I can't believe what Stephen went threw. That's horrible.

  • @Wtfrula
    @Wtfrula 2 месяца назад

    My heart breaks for what you all suffered. Your amazing Steve , Thankyou for sharing with us Xx

  • @user-ci8of4du7m
    @user-ci8of4du7m 8 месяцев назад

    Thank you for sharing your story ❤️ 🙏 I hope you find some peace ✌️ hawkwind are ace 😊 and you've helped so many with your story and music 🎶 x

  • @mrjag4089
    @mrjag4089 4 года назад +7

    You truly are a Remarkable person!! I’m sorry this injustice happened to you. I plan to read your book Mr. Smith
    I wish good fortune and virtues for you and your family. Also, I admire your artwork.. especially your principles regarding art galleries!! That’s very honorable!!