Well, that was amazing. I really appreciate her sharing and felt encouraged. My husband left 9 years ago and also involved lots of manipulation with our 3 boys, so my story yet basically similar seems different because I have the element of child/parent estrangement, which has been the hardest.
I love these stories and I listen to them on repeat. They give me so much hope! The only issue im seeing is that all of these women have children that forces them to stay in contact. I unfortunately despite years of trying do not have that and have no real reason to stay in contact. I’m just holding tightly to whatever will be will be
This woman didn't have kids and her husband came home. ruclips.net/video/S20F2JISyqU/видео.htmlsi=EXheg7Oy0qINke9V My husband left three months ago. We don't have kids. I am hoping he will return. I'm so devastated and miss him so much. We've been married 25 years.
This is the 2nd time I'm listening to this. I'm a mom of 3- we have a 9, 6 and a baby that just turned 1 a couple weeks ago. My husband and I just bought a new build home 5 months ago.. together 19 years and now he wants a sudden divorce. My heart is broken and I'm so angry. I'm like WTH is wrong with him?! He can't give me a reason. This brings me hope. I'm tired of his hot and cold behavior he's too old for that and it's so scary not knowing what way is up or down. I'm a stay at home mom and I'm so lost. The nerve he has...
Oh no!!!! Uuuuggghhhhh!!!! What is wrong with these men? OK go to my website today ASAP. Thewifeexpert.com- read everything you can. If you can pull it off sign up for My Videos. They are absolutely amazing and will start telling you exactly what to do. What I teach works. And if you want to talk to me today. Email me. At thewifeexpert@ gmail.com. That goes straight to me. I put a space in there in case Spam gets a hold of that email. Ok???? don’t worry. We will get him home. ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Sorry for the long response it's just that I have nobody to talk to who won't tell me "leave him!" I'm not at that point. I need someone who understands and can see things from a dual perspective. I love both of you in this video, if I could travel to you both just to give you a hug I would.
They only get one chance… after that, you’re just tolerating their behavior and you’re also dependent on them for comfort and your own happiness. You need to be able to stand alone and not go through that.
Disagree 100%. When you get married, unless you are perfect, there is no such thing as "chances." Marriage CAN end when there is Affairs, Abuse or Addiction. And then it's up to each spouse to decided. If someone is a mess in their own soul - that has 0 to do with you. 0. TheWifeExpert.com. ❤️❤️
This is crazy and wonderful all at once. I’m facing the same issues right now and not sure what to do. Husband is in the military and we live in separate countries😢
My husband cheated on me with his co-worker last august & i found out end of October. I was 3 months pregnant with our 2nd child. We are seperated (not offically yet) we went to therapy for abit but then he stopped going. Im going to go to a new therapist this week that uses the Gottman therapy (he probably won't go) He has left me with our 2 month old & our 2 year old. He hardly has anything to do with them. He has started talking about divorce... i woukd rather seperate for awhile instead of just jump into divorce. But im so sad as he says he cares for me but is not in love with me. He says its the "family I wanted" 😞 we had planned to have children. Now hes living like a selfish bachelor & sees our children on and off and does not want to come home. Im sure he is still carrying on with the affair as he acts very cold & mean towards me. I tell him i dont want a legal seperation ... i tell him i love him and dont want to divorce as we have been together 11 years... but nothing gets through to him... hes infatuated & i now mean nothing to him... its as if all we had he views as horrible. He says he was misriable for all of the 11 years we were together??? i have no idea anymore what goes on i his day to day life.. he hardly communicates with you and when they do they seem angry - sad, bitter & depressed? My h literally won't do anything to help himself. When I have asked him what do you want of me? He responds with saying - nothing. It's a me problem I just have to deal alone like I always do. - he wont talk to me & there is nothing i can do to get him to open up.... I'm helpless here. Either he gets help or he doesn't... Everything is going to hell around him... his living situation- I think his job- his family - everyone's time with the girls- his health... and he still puts all the anger and blame on me. Limerence is making him crazy. He has villanized me so bad I feel like even after Limerence ends he just wants me completely out of his life... as if I should just disappear. I feel like there is something mentality wrong going on with him. Limerence- mid life crisis makes him so irrational & rage filled at me. He is so conflicted... i wish he would just make a decision. Limbo is hell for everyone- us- our girls- and our extended families. I've been standing almost 16 months... I want to keep fighting.
That’s the position that is hardest. When he gets her pregnant. And you don’t have any kids? I have several stories from women who’ve dealt with that same situation. Maybe that’s how you get your child. It’s a tough road to follow, but that child is innocent. Remember that. Reach out to me. Go to thewifeexpert.com and join my videos so you can know exactly how to act with him. And I don’t want you to reach out to me for a phone call. Your situation is unusual, but it requires some deep love. And I believe everyone can do it. Truly. It’s an all of us. And I teach that. ❤️. Come see me. Let’s talk. Let me help you get this solved. TheWifeExpert.com ok? Then email me at TheWifeExpert@gmail.com ❤️❤️
@thewifeexpert 😂 aw thank you! This is my favorite video on this channel Which is why I'm here listening again. Would you both be willing to do a follow-up with her? I love her spirit, Mrs. SP, you ladies are on fire here!!!
I hope her husband knows he's one of the luckiest men on the planet to have a wife as loyal and loving as her.
He will! 😉
Well, that was amazing. I really appreciate her sharing and felt encouraged. My husband left 9 years ago and also involved lots of manipulation with our 3 boys, so my story yet basically similar seems different because I have the element of child/parent estrangement, which has been the hardest.
I'm sad to hear this. If you ever need me, reach out. THEWIFEEXPERT@GMAIL.COM
Hats off to these ladies 😅 that’s definitely s hard work 😢
Im Christian myself and i believe in spiritual warfare too.
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Damn right!! And guess what??? So are YOU!!
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I love these stories and I listen to them on repeat. They give me so much hope! The only issue im seeing is that all of these women have children that forces them to stay in contact. I unfortunately despite years of trying do not have that and have no real reason to stay in contact. I’m just holding tightly to whatever will be will be
Hmmm...are you doing all the right things? Maybe we can have a quick chat? Feel free to email me? TheWifeExpert@gmail.com
This woman didn't have kids and her husband came home.
ruclips.net/video/S20F2JISyqU/видео.htmlsi=EXheg7Oy0qINke9V
My husband left three months ago. We don't have kids. I am hoping he will return. I'm so devastated and miss him so much. We've been married 25 years.
Such a strong and powerful woman she's truly best. You answered alot of questions that I had during my husbands long term affairs.
AffairS??? Ugh... That sucks. Stay strong. Let me know if you need help.TheWifeExpert.com
Such a great talk. She's got great energy ❤
Mrs SP? She's amazing! Me? YES! xo
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This is the 2nd time I'm listening to this. I'm a mom of 3- we have a 9, 6 and a baby that just turned 1 a couple weeks ago. My husband and I just bought a new build home 5 months ago.. together 19 years and now he wants a sudden divorce. My heart is broken and I'm so angry. I'm like WTH is wrong with him?! He can't give me a reason. This brings me hope. I'm tired of his hot and cold behavior he's too old for that and it's so scary not knowing what way is up or down. I'm a stay at home mom and I'm so lost. The nerve he has...
Oh no!!!! Uuuuggghhhhh!!!! What is wrong with these men? OK go to my website today ASAP. Thewifeexpert.com- read everything you can. If you can pull it off sign up for My Videos. They are absolutely amazing and will start telling you exactly what to do. What I teach works. And if you want to talk to me today. Email me. At thewifeexpert@ gmail.com. That goes straight to me. I put a space in there in case Spam gets a hold of that email. Ok???? don’t worry. We will get him home. ❤️❤️❤️❤️
@TheWifeExpert thank you so much. I will email you and I have a few questions I'm devastated.
Sorry for the long response it's just that I have nobody to talk to who won't tell me "leave him!" I'm not at that point. I need someone who understands and can see things from a dual perspective. I love both of you in this video, if I could travel to you both just to give you a hug I would.
@TheWifeExpert I emailed you earlier this week and I need help. Husband handed me papers today 😢😢😢😢
Give up the right to BE RIGHT 🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷
YES!
They only get one chance… after that, you’re just tolerating their behavior and you’re also dependent on them for comfort and your own happiness. You need to be able to stand alone and not go through that.
Disagree 100%. When you get married, unless you are perfect, there is no such thing as "chances." Marriage CAN end when there is Affairs, Abuse or Addiction. And then it's up to each spouse to decided. If someone is a mess in their own soul - that has 0 to do with you. 0. TheWifeExpert.com. ❤️❤️
This is crazy and wonderful all at once. I’m facing the same issues right now and not sure what to do. Husband is in the military and we live in separate countries😢
Ugh....
@ingridalex25 reach out to me at TheWifeExpert@gmail.com
Wow this really helped me.
YEAH!! That's why I do this! xoxo
How do we get in touch with this wonderful example to maybe attend her group?
TheWifeExpert@gmail.com email me and I will share with you this information.
How do I contact you and the lady on the video?
see my last note.
My husband cheated on me with his co-worker last august & i found out end of October. I was 3 months pregnant with our 2nd child. We are seperated (not offically yet) we went to therapy for abit but then he stopped going. Im going to go to a new therapist this week that uses the Gottman therapy (he probably won't go) He has left me with our 2 month old & our 2 year old. He hardly has anything to do with them. He has started talking about divorce... i woukd rather seperate for awhile instead of just jump into divorce. But im so sad as he says he cares for me but is not in love with me. He says its the "family I wanted" 😞 we had planned to have children. Now hes living like a selfish bachelor & sees our children on and off and does not want to come home. Im sure he is still carrying on with the affair as he acts very cold & mean towards me. I tell him i dont want a legal seperation ... i tell him i love him and dont want to divorce as we have been together 11 years... but nothing gets through to him... hes infatuated & i now mean nothing to him... its as if all we had he views as horrible. He says he was misriable for all of the 11 years we were together??? i have no idea anymore what goes on i his day to day life.. he hardly communicates with you and when they do they seem angry - sad, bitter & depressed? My h literally won't do anything to help himself. When I have asked him what do you want of me? He responds with saying - nothing. It's a me problem I just have to deal alone like I always do. - he wont talk to me & there is nothing i can do to get him to open up.... I'm helpless here. Either he gets help or he doesn't... Everything is going to hell around him... his living situation- I think his job- his family - everyone's time with the girls- his health... and he still puts all the anger and blame on me. Limerence is making him crazy. He has villanized me so bad I feel like even after Limerence ends he just wants me completely out of his life... as if I should just disappear. I feel like there is something mentality wrong going on with him. Limerence- mid life crisis makes him so irrational & rage filled at me. He is so conflicted... i wish he would just make a decision. Limbo is hell for everyone- us- our girls- and our extended families. I've been standing almost 16 months... I want to keep fighting.
GOOD!!!! Join my videos at TheWifeExpert.com and you will learn everything I teach!! Don't give up!!!!! xoxo
Thank you for this video !
My pleasure!
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12:44 12:59 16:06 17:55 23:37 YES!!!!
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We don't have children but he got horse face pregnant. She has 3 other kids. Says he's coming home. It's hard
That’s the position that is hardest. When he gets her pregnant. And you don’t have any kids? I have several stories from women who’ve dealt with that same situation. Maybe that’s how you get your child. It’s a tough road to follow, but that child is innocent. Remember that. Reach out to me. Go to thewifeexpert.com and join my videos so you can know exactly how to act with him. And I don’t want you to reach out to me for a phone call. Your situation is unusual, but it requires some deep love. And I believe everyone can do it. Truly. It’s an all of us. And I teach that. ❤️. Come see me. Let’s talk. Let me help you get this solved. TheWifeExpert.com ok? Then email me at TheWifeExpert@gmail.com ❤️❤️
LOVE ❤❤❤❤❤Always WIN❤❤❤❤❤2024
Amen!
36:03 🎉❤🎉
You are a cutie. Don't give up my dear. xo
@thewifeexpert 😂 aw thank you! This is my favorite video on this channel Which is why I'm here listening again. Would you both be willing to do a follow-up with her? I love her spirit, Mrs. SP, you ladies are on fire here!!!
Amazing woman!!!
yes!!! AGREE!