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He left and you feel sick. Empty, lost, feeling crazy and like someone ripped out your heart. You are looking for signs of hope that this is a nightmare, you will wake up and he will return! TheWifeExpert.com (ME!) is where you find that hope. I have been where you are and I know what it feels like and I KNOW what to do to get him home. Put me in your pocket! Let's go!
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Marriage Coach, Marriage Expert, Marriage Advice, MidLife Crisis Advice, MLC Help, Save Marriage, Cheating Husband, Cheating Wife, Survive Marriage, Surviving Marriage. I am at Thewifeexpert.com. The only place where you can find help, solutions and advice on how to bring your husband home after an affair and during midlife crisis.
He Left, Sad Wife Almost Chose an Unchangeable End; This Is Michelle's Story.
When her husband left, Michelle was so distraught she attempted to take her own life. Thank goodness for her family, she failed. Here is her honest rare true story that ends in positive.
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Sad Depressed Midlife Crisis Wife Divorces Husband Then Got Back Together & Wrote "UnStuck" Book
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They Divorced and then they got back together. She Writes "UnStuck" about her story and is helping thousands! Listen to her story and get her book! Buy Maria's Book "Unstuck": amzn.to/3Y7mBik Order "My Grateful Book" 📖: amzn.to/4a9CJUf The “LIST” 📚 to Survive his MLC: thewifeexpert.com/the-midlife-crisis-help-resource-survive-marriage-affair-betrayal Book a Call 📞 with me: calendly.com/thewifee...
Understanding Midlife Crisis through the eyes of a young adult.
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Wow! Her Dad is In a Midlife Crisis and she explains what his brain is doing!! She's the daughter of a Man in MLC! 🥰 Order "My Grateful Book" 📖: amzn.to/4a9CJUf The List! The MASTER BEST “LIST” 📚 of what you need to Survive his MLC: thewifeexpert.com/the-midlife-crisis-help-resource-survive-marriage-affair-betrayal Book a Call 📞 with me: calendly.com/thewifeexpert/ Invite me on your Show/Podcas...
Midlife Crisis Husband Came Back Returned Home Pam's Success Story
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Pam is not unique. I talk to thousands of women every year with the same marriage challenges. Nothing is perfect, yet dealing with MLC is a "mind" mess. Order "My Grateful Book": amzn.to/4a9CJUf Read Stories: thewifeexpert.com/category/stories/ Book a Call with me: calendly.com/thewifeexpert/ Invite me on your Show/Podcast! thewifeexpert.com/contact-us/ Share With Me Your Story: thewifeexpert.c...
Honest Moment About Midlife Crisis - Cheating, Affairs & Betrayal
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Helping Wives At With Pain of Midlife Crisis, Cheating, Affairs & Betrayal I do it ONCE a year. If he left you - Why would you not come and LEARN how to bring him home! TheWifeExpert.com Award winning columnist, Author, Anti-Bully Educator, and Love4Life Teacher, Laurie McDermott has appeared on dozens of television shows, podcasts and popular radio programs sharing how happiness is a choice. S...
When He Cheats. Helping Wife though Pain of Midlife Crisis, Cheating, Affairs & Betrayal
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When He Cheats. Helping Wife though Pain of Midlife Crisis, Cheating, Affairs & Betrayal Want to Join on Retreat!? EMAIL ME: TheWifeExpert@gmail.com. Learn more on "Limbo" Retreat: thewifeexpert.com/trip-to-orlando/ 2021: ruclips.net/video/h2wNPXtpe6c/видео.html 2022: ruclips.net/video/FIQnJ3dI7MA/видео.html 2023: THIS is that video! Why Go? ruclips.net/video/WfipYNWQzoI/видео.html Feeling Grat...
He Wants a Divorce Because of Midlife Crisis, Cheating, Affair or Betrayal?
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He Wants a Divorce Because of Midlife Crisis, Cheating, Affair or Betrayal? Do not follow the script!! Follow me and learn what others do not know! Feeling Grateful? Buy Me A Coffee! 🥰 www.buymeacoffee.com/thewifeexpert.com Join My “Bring Him Back” Videos: thewifeexpert.uscreen.io/ Buy My Grateful Book! amzn.to/4a9CJUfRead Stories: thewifeexpert.com/category/stories/ Book a Call with me: calend...
"I Love You But I'm Not In Love With You" Midlife Crisis Expert & Author Andrew Marshal Interview
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Helping One Married Spouse though Pain of Midlife Crisis, Cheating, Affairs & Betrayal
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Helping One Married Spouse though Pain of Midlife Crisis, Cheating, Affairs & Betrayal. Feeling Grateful? Buy Me A Coffee! 🥰 www.buymeacoffee.com/thewifeexpert.com Join My “Bring Him Back” Videos: thewifeexpert.uscreen.io/ Buy My Grateful Book! amzn.to/4a9CJUfRead Stories: thewifeexpert.com/category/stories/ Book a Call with me: calendly.com/thewifeexpert/ Invite me on your Show/Podcast! thewif...
Quick MLC Advice: Men Learn Faster on How To Get Wife Home
Просмотров 3143 месяца назад
Quick MLC Advice: Men Learn Faster on How To Get Wife Home I Help One Married Spouse though Pain of Midlife Crisis, Cheating, Affairs & Betrayal Feeling Grateful? Buy Me A Coffee! 🥰 www.buymeacoffee.com/thewifeexpert.com Join My “Bring Him Back” Videos: thewifeexpert.uscreen.io/ Buy My Grateful Book! amzn.to/4a9CJUfRead Stories: thewifeexpert.com/category/stories/ Book a Call with me: calendly....
Wife of Alcoholic Shares How She Moved Past Pain & Anger to Joy & Love & that Suffering is a Choice.
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Wife of Alcoholic Shares How She Moved Past Pain & Anger to Joy & Love & that Suffering is a Choice. He was 48 and had a heart-attack. She talks about suffering and how she chose to move forward with meditation and filling her soul. Get Monica's Wipes: amzn.to/3STxAIu Buy Me A Coffee! 🥰: www.buymeacoffee.com/thewifeexpert.com Join My “Bring Him Back” Videos: thewifeexpert.uscreen.io/ Buy My Gra...
Left Behind Wife Shares "Bring Him Home" Strategy And What To Do
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Subscribe 🙏 ❤️ I Help One Married Spouse though Pain of Midlife Crisis, Cheating, Affairs & Betrayal. I can help you...or anyone else you know that BELIEVES in their family! Hire Laurie to speak at your next event, church group, women's gathering: TheWifeExpert@gmail.com Feeling Grateful? Buy Me A Coffee! 🥰 www.buymeacoffee.com/thewifeexpert.com Join My “Bring Him Back” Videos: thewifeexpert.us...
Laurie Reads Wife's Letters: Betrayal, Husband Cheating, Lies, Separation and Divorce
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If your husband cheated or left your, you are not alone, Laurie Reads letters from women all over the world who are dealing with what you are going through right now! Get clear on what to do when they leave or cheat. Join My “Bring Him Back” Videos: thewifeexpert.uscreen.io/ Buy My Grateful Book! amzn.to/4a9CJUf Read Stories: thewifeexpert.com/category/stories/ Book a Call with me: calendly.com...
Husband Reveals Wife Left Him Struggles He Faces to Get Her Home.
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Husband Reveals Wife Left Him Struggles He Faces to Get Her Home. Feeling Grateful? Buy Me A Coffee! 🥰 www.buymeacoffee.com/thewifeexpert.com Join My “Bring Him Back” Videos: thewifeexpert.uscreen.io/ Buy My Grateful Book! amzn.to/4a9CJUfRead Stories: thewifeexpert.com/category/stories/ Book a Call with me: calendly.com/thewifeexpert/ Invite me on your Show/Podcast! thewifeexpert.com/contact-us...
Wife Texts Husband Wants To Work on Marriage!
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Wife Texts Husband Wants To Work on Marriage!
Wife Faces Husbands Midlife Crisis with a Smile
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Wife Faces Husbands Midlife Crisis with a Smile
Laurie Reads Letter Marriage Success Husband Return Home Midlife Crisis Reconciliation
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Laurie Reads Letter Marriage Success Husband Return Home Midlife Crisis Reconciliation
After 17 Years, He Cheated. Only She Did Not Have a Ring.
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After 17 Years, He Cheated. Only She Did Not Have a Ring.
Help Advice to Surviving Midlife Crisis Wife or Husband, Due to Cheating & Affairs
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Help Advice to Surviving Midlife Crisis Wife or Husband, Due to Cheating & Affairs
Manipulation, Cheating, Affairs and Betrayal. Hear Emails from Wives
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Manipulation, Cheating, Affairs and Betrayal. Hear Emails from Wives
Left Behind Husband's Wife Comes Home - Vinny's Success Story
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Left Behind Husband's Wife Comes Home - Vinny's Success Story
Cheating Husband Horseface Does Not Like Wife
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Cheating Husband Horseface Does Not Like Wife
Left Behind Wife Divorces Her Cheating Husband & Marries Another Man, Is There Regret?
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Left Behind Wife Divorces Her Cheating Husband & Marries Another Man, Is There Regret?
Cheated on Wives Left Behind Have Hope That Their Husband Will Come Home!
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Cheated on Wives Left Behind Have Hope That Their Husband Will Come Home!
See a "Peek" into my Support Help Group Class for Midlife Crisis, Affair or Cheating.
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See a "Peek" into my Support Help Group Class for Midlife Crisis, Affair or Cheating.
Advice on Throwing out His Stuff: Left Behind Spouse Pain, Confusion, Cheating, Affairs & Betrayal.
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Advice on Throwing out His Stuff: Left Behind Spouse Pain, Confusion, Cheating, Affairs & Betrayal.
Control Your Mind During His MLC Midlife Crisis mess Means YOU
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Control Your Mind During His MLC Midlife Crisis mess Means YOU
Midlife Crisis Tali Episode #2, Husband Left 2nd Wife who Cheated on Him
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Midlife Crisis Tali Episode #2, Husband Left 2nd Wife who Cheated on Him
Midlife Crisis Tali Story Episode #1, Husband Left 2nd Wife who Cheated on Him
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Midlife Crisis Tali Story Episode #1, Husband Left 2nd Wife who Cheated on Him
Woman Shares Pain of Life Struggles...Beautiful Angelic Magic...Lovely
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Woman Shares Pain of Life Struggles...Beautiful Angelic Magic...Lovely
I love when her daughter says, Dad’s eating fruit 😂
Love this interview Laurie! Tysm.
@anicca09 YES! RIGHT??? xo
The only solution is to fall in love with Jesus Christ. ...surrender your life and he will put everything back together in HIS perfect will and timing!
@tealpatt Yes, that's right! AMEN!
Good for the wife to marry another man!
@MarkSummers-g2n Yes. Life has curves and roads, all are choices.
I’ll be praying for her. Someone I love attempted suicide twice and it is very difficult to go through for everyone. I pray for God’s strength and protection over her head and heart. 💛
@laceygomez. Yes, that's right. Thank you for your comments.
These married men should be single and remain single because they will never fully commit to anyone. Any femalle that tells him hello he is going to want to have sex with them!
Do people cheat 1st because they think they will be cheated on ?
@MarkSummers-g2n. Great question...sometimes. Yes.
Yes church will help to stay busy
@msdee2905 Agree! Church is hope and love!
Chapters. They're not bad.
@michaelallen1154 Chapters?
@@TheWifeExpertyes... When you do a video/interview/etc longer than 10 minutes or so, break it up into chapters on here. I'm sure you've seen videos on here with chapters... you just didn't realize it was called that. People don't necessarily want to sit and listen to an entire 30 minute video. For instance, I thought the title was interesting, but I wasn't interested in hanging around for 34 minutes. I thought maybe there would be chapters and I could "warp" forward to anything that stood out among chapter titles... alas, no chapters. Anyway, it will help with your algorithm and viewership to supply chapters because you will get less people navigating away from your videos if they aren't hooked from the get-go.
Why would a good man want to deal with a woman with many issues? Life is too short.
@joeramirez7879. ALL humans are not perfect. This is more than that. Once you have a Kingdom, you see the world differently. Love is a choice.
My partner completely follows the script of a MLC but we weren’t married and don’t have kids(these were all being planned) . I have to see him in passing at work but we don’t have any reason to communicate. He walks past me looking angry and like I don’t exist. How on earth can I navigate this??
@Rb79_85 I can help. You have to reach out to me: Thewifeexpert@gmail.com
Excellent story. Engaging guest. Thoughtful interview questions. Inspiring & helpful. Thank you!
Thanks for listening. That was kind of you! xo
i'm living this at this very moment, feels like we drifted apart because everything seemed to be more important than us, then our last child moved off to college and my wife walked out two or three months later. I'm currently working like mad to save my marriage, this video gives me hope.
Please pray 🙏🏼, read Bible-God will help you & your wife save your marriage.
@@coleenkulaw1447 Thank You, I've stated a daily prayer regimin and started working on all my flaws.
@richardsb3606 -come see me: thewifeexpert@gmail.com - I can help!
I help more men (FASTER) then women.
Her story is so common. We adopted kids, they gained a Mother and I essentially lost a Wife.
Interesting response of how to look at it. Why do I now know you yet??? email me: Thewifeexpert@gmail.com
SSRI's also kill you libido and THAT really destroys your connection
that came later...
How do I contact you and the lady on the video?
see my last note.
How do I contact you?
see my notes under my videos - TheWifeExpert.com
thewifeexpert@gmail.com
My husband left me after 23 years and is now with his mistress.
Girl? You need to come to TheWifeExpert.com and join my videos - let's go! Unless you don't want him home?
Yeah a young women thinks she knows more than her older father, but she wouldn’t last a week in the world that He as man, has to live in… “Self-made Man” is a book written by a woman who pretended to be a man for two years. She was in shock after about the reality that Men live in, diferent from the easy fairy tale world women live
@prafrentebrasil3299 Yes. She is a child - a young adult missing her dad and trying to figure out and explain how he treats her and their family. He's lost and having an affair and instead of calling him a dick or an asshole, she is finding a way to giggle and see MLC for what is it. He's NOT a man right now. He's NOT doing his job as a dad or a husband. So if you don't show up to your job, others, speically your kids - who are ignored and dad disappears - get to come up with their own reasons why dad is F*ed up.
Not gonna lie i think this isn’t entirely exclusive to mid life crisis. Not that i would know, im 25.
hahaha....well, it's real and you are way too young to have the experience. It's coming tho. Stay young!
Why are they saying he has smooth brain? Probably just needs some compassion as he finds his way 🙏
I admit that I didn't see an explanation for midlife crisis. Just a young woman making fun of her father. Pretty sad really.
She's a child. She has free will to talk about what her dad is going through. See that's the thing - when you cheat - your kids get to decide how to react to it.
maybe...point it...THIS IS WHAT KIDS DO WHEN DAD GOES crazy. Instead - be a dad who stays HOME. Don't disconnect from your kids...so that are left wondering WTF? I was just posting what was sent. AMEN! xo
He still is not fully facing the damage he caused. They did not "grow apart" and he conveys that at times, but still embelishes that narrative that they grew apart. His kids are surprised it didnt happen sooner because of his behavior, not because they "hrew apart". His youngest recognizes he abandoned them, yet his attitude is that its fine because he sees her twice a month. MLCers also recognize them yelling requirements at their spouse, as conversations and agreemants. The level of disconnect from their actions is insane. You will recognize him eluding to being at fault, then downplaying his behavior and blaming those around him in the next paragraph. They speak as though they have it all figured out and that they are through the MLC, throughout the entire MLC. This guy is still in the thick of it
YES!! That's right!! And an update will come soon! Thanks!
The basis of MLC is the inability to cope with trauma. It is the difference between transition and crisis. He blames his wife for her getting sick, while he admits that he didnt know how to address it. He makes excuses by stating she was depressed, while the truth is his subconcious doesnt know how it would cope with the loss of her (Grief of loss of a loved one). His attachment to her is what made it traumatic, not a poor relationship. It was a change in his life he didnt want to face. The change in his career (grief of loss of identity), is what caused him to completely disconnect emotionally from reality, just to chase feeling anything again (escape and avoid). He will continue to do that until he faces the reality of the damage he caused and copes with those traumas (the shadow). Some people never do, and spend the rest of their lives running. Lets also not forget the trauma he caused his wife and kids by his discard behaviour which MLCers never want to face or admit to. Every MLCer emotionally abandons the spouse and rewrites history. They gas light, lie, stonewall, and scream at those closest to them to justify their teenage behavior. They cause more trauma than they ever had to face themselves
My husband says he is in a midlife crisis, says he wants to experience other women and another child. He says he lives me, doesn't really want me to leave and says he doesn't even want to be single. But, hecwants ne to move out. We are looking at houses for Mr to purchase, I'm so confused! He says he will help me fix up the house, help move me in and I can keep my horses at his place for a year. He said there is no reason to cut tied fast. I'm so confused and hurt. 14 years this Christmas.
Ugh....okay....yes....what are you going to do about it...? Time to reach out to me? thewifeexpert@gmail.com xoxo
This encourages me and I can relate. We are coming out of my husband's MLC after 5 years. We had a baby right before this happened, too. I remember when our baby was a few months old, putting him to bed around 10:00 or 11:00 pm and waiting up for my husband to come home from work to spend time together. He wouldn't show up. Months or maybe a year later, still very much in the beginning/throes of his MLC, him telling me it was because after work, he would go to a restaurant, sit there and order whatever he wanted, and just feel sorry for himself. He gained maybe 30 lbs around that time and then lost it through more stress. An on and on for years. A living nightmare. I didn't begin to piece things together and understand what to call what he was going through until last year. Plus, we already had a young teen daughter. So, a long, hard row to hoe. We've been married 24 years. I was 17, he was 20 when we married.
Very well explained!!
Glad it was helpful! xo
I did help, a number of times. It was the right thing to do and some of the people needed help real bad, but I only felt worse afterwards and wanted to die. Imagine somebody stuck in a wheel helping other people stuck in wheelchairs and unable to get up and walk to get out of THEIR wheelchairs but his situation can't be helped. Does he do the right thing and help those people even though he feels worse when he does. That would still be pretty selfish and self centered if he could do get someone in a wheelchair who otherwise could never walk out of it but was too hurt to do it.
The greatest way to feel better is to be with others and help them. Today I walked by a homeless woman and her son, and asked if they were hungry, the child said "yes." and I bought them 2 chicken sandwiches. 4 hours late I passed another homeless, a man, and said to him, "Hey, how's it going?" He said, "Not good." We spoke and I asked him if he was hungry and he said yes. There was a burger place across the street and I said, "Want a burger?" He said, "Really? yeah..." I said, "Let's go!" We walked across the street and HE asked ME "what's your name..." He told me all about how he has been sick with cancer and lost everything because of all the bills. He has chemo and is not on drugs or drinks and was just a good guy. Bad luck, good man. We got him a burger and fries and a coke. He almost cried. I left him to eat and headed back to my home and cried the whole way. Why? Grateful. Soooo grateful that I could help. That I was not homeless. I help and I help some more. This is my weekend. Small, one at a time. Just help.
Stay With A Narcissist??!
Oh....that is WAY more of a conversation than just a text here! thewifeexpert@gmail.com
Thank you so much Pam for sharing your story. I’am not crazy after all ahahahah! Thank you too Laurie. We’re learning a lot about this MLC issue. God bless us all.
YES!!! LEARN!!! LEARN!!!! What a gift right??? You sound like you are doing well!!! I'm here if you need me!
My husband left me for another woman. But I am stuck in the same home with home with him. 😢
Then he did not leave!!! he's home! Lots to do!! REACH out to me thewifeexpert@gmail.com
So many similar things to my story. My Husband left 2 weeks ago. I am shattered.
@Eklectic_Afro - Oh no! UUUGGGH!! Come see me at: TheWifeExpert.com!!! ASAP!!! Or set up a call with me: thewifeexpert@gmail.com
Thanks so much Pam for sharing your story. You are the backbone of your family. I've learned so much from how you gave your h good grace. You're a good person and I believe he's back for good 🙏 ❤
That is SOOO kind!! She will hear!
Can’t wait for the follow up interview..I’m rooting for him💪🏼💪🏼 Great interview and I can see Laurie probing for the mid life crisis trigger..
Right? Me too!!! xoxo TheWifeExpert.com Subscribe here and click the bell icon so you get notified when I post more!
I am so happy to find you through the grace of God!!
Yah! me too! thewifeexpert@gmail.com
If you are such an expert . Why did he cheat . I am 58 . I can tell you this if you got divorced look in the mirror cause 50 percent of that divorce is your fault.
@timothywinters7304 Hmmm....I'm so sorry I don't understand that last part? YES!!!! Marriage is a team. All that goes wrong is and goes right is 50% - Yet Divorce can be a choice of one and not the other. That's where I help the one that is NOT wanting to split the family or the kingdom. And yes, no need to defend or share here....yet, I am an expert. Period.
@@TheWifeExpert Lol Your not an expert. Only God is perfect! You may have some information that others don’t. That doesn’t make you expert.
@@timothywinters7304 Thank you. And I agree! God is PERFECT! I talk to him all day every day. He is perfect. God bless you! ❤
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You're not hot lady Your a mess.
You are great. I don’t want to be negative but as a man it makes me sad to know there aren’t as many resources for men with this type of positive message. So many therapist/coaches on RUclips for men struggling with divorce always seem to justify or excuse the woman’s choice to leave in one way or another. They basically say let her go and don’t fight for the relationship. And those are the good ones.
@russellheyns1846 You sound very wise. And I agree with you. There is not much help for men because the "mainstream" woman - just leaves. Yet I have studied this - Women Even without a reason or another man (that's opposite to when a man leaves) they just bail. I have unlocked the way to get a woman home, yet haven't done a series or put it out there yet as It's a whole new market. You obviously have thought about this. I'd love to hear your thoughts. FYI - most therapists think - and guide people - to live selfishly. NO ONE FIGHTS FOR THE FAMILY. That's why our world is so F****ed up. TheWifeExpert@gmail.com - put in the subject - Russel from RUclips.
This is brilliant stuff. I’d heard of the drama triangle before but he put it perfectly in context to a divorce (for me). Thank you
@russellheyns1846 okay - hi again! Let's go! thewifeexpert@gmail.com ❤️
I love your stuff so far but your intro declaration makes no sense. Men have an easier time getting their wives back because she has friends advising her and he doesn’t? And “they (men) don’t know what to do”? Plus women can leverage sex. My cousin is doing it with her ex-husband. It seems to be working.
Yes, Women have friends - women listen to friends. Men don't have girlfriends - so Men listen to me. ❤️
Great stuff. Wish you gave examples where the wife went through a midlife crisis.
@russellheyns1846 - I see a lot of your comments here! Welcome. You are in the right spot. I have a video series for women and hundreds of men have gone through to learn what to do. You just turn the male/female around. thewifeexpert.uscreen.io - that's my precious videos - join there like NOW - my group class is every two weeks and that's included with the videos (211 of them!!) and if you join there in the next 17 hours (before 3am West coast time) you will get a link to join the group class at 7am West coast tomorrow!!! It's only for my members - and it's sooo good. You need to work with me. thewifeexpert@gmail.com
my ex wife kept cheating on me
Time for a chat? TheWifeExpert@gmail.com
My dead husband had affair , cheated on me , kept lies and secrets , lead a double life Found out from his phone after his death Imagine the grief and pain at first then the hurt , anger , bitterness , betrayal etc… My heart was broken into millions of pieces Better off without a liar and he die tragically carrying a burden of lies and secrets to his grave
Oh no....that's horrid. How long were you married? Do you want to talk? TheWifeExpert@gmail.com - put in the subject "Story" and a phone number and I will reach out to you. Ugh. Hugs to you. Talk soon. xo
@@TheWifeExpert Thank you Yes what he did was cruel , wicked and evil We were married for 30 years Attending support group and seeing therapist Am Doing much better meeting new friends but not dating although it’s nice to find someone to love Can’t trust Men anymore
Maybe he's just sick of your BS. Ever think of that?
@caribman10 hahahah. I was going to delete this....cause it's not polite, kind or helpful to anyone, and then I thought, "wait...no...let's leave it...." We all wake up every day with choices of how we feel and what we say to ourselves and others. This comment shows anger and frustration that....well...have nothing to do with me. I will pray you find joy and love and calmness inside of you. And if your spouse left you....well...I'm here to help you. Even if you are unkind in your comments. On my group though, we don't ever talk unkindly to each other. We support and appreciate and cheerlead. Life is tough. We all want to be around those who are teammates. xo God bless you.
My wife won't move - she is perpetually stuck in frozen mode. Does not want to address or confront the elephant in the room - she has abandoned physical affection and sex for about 16 years and hasn't even kissed me for over 8. Still says I love you, occasional hug, holds hands - but nothing sexual - it's simply killing our relationship 1,000 tiny cuts at a time. I am at a loss. we are in marriage counseling, but no amount of talk and communication will make desire or even responsive desire happen. She refuses hormone checks, therapy or professional one on one counseling. It's like being trapped on a sinking ship, If I bail the kids pay the price. Kids are adopted BTW, so post partum is not an issue.
@melkerner - Wait? What???? 16 years?? And you are still with the same counselor? Hmmm....it's not working. But the truth is - you can't change her. You CAN change YOU. That's doesn't mean leaving. That means changing. Reach out to me and reference this chat: thewifeexpert@gmail.com - in the subject: 16 years - wife is stuck.
@@TheWifeExpert No 10 months with the same therapist. She refuses to seek individual therapy, even though that's the area she works in - so she understands the need for it - but simply won't address it.
would like to see one about Wives who withdraw physical and sexual intimacy for years or decades - What do you expect? After experiencing my own sexless marriage without as much as a kiss for over 8 years and essentially sexless for the last 16 - how do you think this will work?
Oh no! I'd love to know more.... TheWifeExpert@gmail.com - let's set up a call!
Exactly
Men are just as much a victim of a cheating spouse. I'm going through it now. Our last kid just left home. It's greatly affected me as I swore I'd stay with her till that happened. Now I'm torn between forgiving her or leave. I love her greatly.
The curse of the late forties woman. Been there done that. Was on the receiving end of a wife of twenty two years who wanted a divorce before it's too late so she could find herself and so on. Complete crap of course, she didn't love me and probably never did and a scumbag from her office decided to interfere in our marriage and destabilize her brain, which was in turmoil anyway due to the menopause. So she collapsed our marriage, wrecked my life and damaged our three children. Odd really because she had been on the receiving end of same when her dad walked out 40 years before. She then set about turning my three boys against me and was surprisingly successful at it, so much so my eldest son got married without me even knowing he was engaged! Then she engineered him into the idea that not telling me about grandchildren was a good idea. Bizarrely she wanted to attend my mother's funeral. I sent her a message that said 'fuck off'. I now look back and wish I'd never met the woman. Oh and by the way I wasn't having an affair, she was.
Sounds horrific. Lots of pain and anger. I'm here if you want to talk and figure out what you want from that mess? Your kids need you - I don't care what she said. YOU CAN SOLVE THIS. Let me know if you want my help. I can help you But you have to be ready - willing and do as I ask. TheWifeExpert@gmail.com
Late 40s and 50s marriages are interesting to watch and in some cases fall apart. In my experience, women love opportunistically, men love idealistically. Guys are pretty loyal. Show then any little bit of unsolicited affection, respect them, focus on the family not just yourself and give them some occasional time in the bedroom....happy husband. He'll work 50 hours a week to provide and go to war to protect your family in most cases. Women are more complicated, especially once the kids get older, menopause and midlife crises set in. Its now about them and what they still want to achieve, which to some extent I understand....but you can't ignore what/who got you there. The house, kids education, family vacations, weekly food, clothing cars, spending money etc. didn't magically appear without the help of a significant other. Most recently, I know a couple getting divorced after almost 30 years because he cheated.....well if you never tell him you love him, don't give him the slightest bit of recognition and sleep with him once a year, a good looking successful businessman will get a side piece. Its going to happen.
Yes. agree. Lots to talk about here. xoxo Thanks for following me! xo
Doing my best to not grow weary in doing good working in the waiting but so desire more help even trusting God.
@Luvabundantly22 I'm here. Reach out to me. Doing a retreat in orlando in 3 weeks. COME. thewifeexpert@gmail.com
I agree if more mothers & fathers up i believe more families would be reconciled
YES!!! DEAD ON!! Can I get an "AMEN!"