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New intro is so fun and cute! 😊 I liked the Paul and Morgan show song as intro too of course but I support your decision for the new intro - its something fresh and new! I love how unfiltered you guys are in sharing your responses to such personal questions! I appreciate how you both are brave and vulnerable enough explore the topics others are too embarassed or scared to discuss. I value your guys' insights and I believe it will help guide me in a future relationship. Thanks Paul and Morgan! Also I have some questions for you: -What do guys think about age difference with a girl (ie if the girl is like 5 years younger or older) or in a different phase of life (ie if he is graduating college and she is just entering) -also do guys look for someone of an equal intellectual capacity as them? In other words, how important is intellegence of the girl when a guy is considering a girl?
i would just like to point out that females also struggle with p**n!! it is so very real and scary to talk about because it is something so personal! love y’all so so much, thank you for being so vulnerable!
Paul’s insight on men being called to lead really changed my perspective. It’s stressful feeling like you have to find a man who’s naturally extremely “alpha” and worrying that a mans personality isn’t enough to lead you and this made me give some more grace to the whole idea. Rather than it being a personality trait, it’s a calling from God that men choose to step into the same as a woman can step into a more feminine submissive role. Although people can be naturally more one way or another, it’s not so flippant as merely being personality. I don’t know why I didn’t see it like that before but this was really valuable for me to hear! And it makes sense because God’s truth always surpasses human inconsistency
I would just like to put this out there. Though it seems like only men struggle with porn, women do too. So if any woman is out there feeling shameful for being the only one, know that you are not the only one. Reach out to trusted friends and build communities of honesty. Join together and follow the Lord.
As a woman who has recently been freed from this struggle, I think it may have helped me to be freed sooner had I known other woman that struggled with it, especially because of how many different ways it tears you down.
i dated a guy who was OBSESSED with his family..when we were dating, we would go out to eat, and he would always look for things to buy or bring home to his sisters or parents..always texting his momma, and I constantly felt like the second choice...this is not only a turnoff, but a red flag for the future!
On the topic of corn, I love that you mentioned the physical boundaries. Someone can be addicted to corn, but truly be seeking help and truly struggling with it. Or, they can be fully given over to it and not really trying to do much about it. The best way to tell in my opinion is if they set very serious physical boundaries. A person who is struggling with it (i.e. wants to stop and is actively taking steps in that direction) will likely know that they have a weakened will when it comes to s*x before marriage and will take heavy precautions to make sure that doesn’t happen.
Okay that is soooo not fair about not having phone conversations with you parents after you are married. My mom talks to her family on the phone everyday. That's really dependent on how often you see each other every year which in my mom's case is only once every 2 years. And they don't always take long. 30 minutes max and 10 minutes min. Personally, I probably won't do that but they live on different continents so that is entirely different and was not addressed. In addition, I don't believe only men struggle with corn. Women do as well and I wish you could address the differences in why they do so. It seems that men are more prone to lustful behavior while women get hooked too quickly because they feel lonely and want to feel connected. That was my issue. I was jealous of my friends being in relationships that I wanted to feel that too so I resorted to things like fanfic, corn, pov stories which enhanced my craving for feelings when I didn't need to do that at all. It was creating a problem that shouldn't be there. I know it might not be entirely relevant but I think it's important to address both sides, not just one. Best regards.
@Artemis Hannah good point. Empirical studies on corn would show that men are definitely more visually stimulated, while women are more stimulated by words and stories (a la 50 shades of grey, and other harlequin romance-corn like stories.) The subset (or majority) of men looking at corn scenes is quite higher although women do look at it too. Like you said, for different reasons since they are stimulated differently... another layer to it at least.
I don't think they meant to keep the issue guy centered. They were just answering a question that a girl asked about guys(something that most guys do deal with) they may mention it on another video because that is a good point women do stuggle with both visual and written porn . But today they were just answering a girl's question.
The mom thing wasn't about someone that just answers their mom's calls because they hardly see them because they live too far or too busy. It's about those guys that are so attached to their mom they treat their wives/girlfriends less than. There should be some healthy distance between mom and husband .Also, a wife shouldn't be always compared to the mom . She's not the mom she's the wife. These answers aren't for all the exceptions. Just common things. Maybe they'll dedicate a video for that but today they were just answering a question a girl asked.
When it comes to the "red flags" about someone struggling/watching porn, physical boundaries are not at all the only red flag, there are plenty more, particularly when it comes to their computers and cell phones. Are they very secretive on their phones and computers? How do they react when you pick up and hold their cell phone? Does he need to always look in the phone/computer first before he hands it to you? Is he always hovering over your shoulder when you do use his phone or computer? Especially if you want to open and use the browser? Have you ever walked into the room and he quickly closes a tab on his browser or quickly locks his phone and puts it down face first or in his pocket? If you've ever opened the browser on his phone or computer has it ever been on "private browsing? Is his behavior possessive and or seemingly "protective" over his technology? Always takes it with him everywhere he goes, rarely ever leaves it alone, Etc. Certainly, something to look out for, though he may have "excuses" for some or even most of the behavior, it's definitely a red flag. You need to watch his reactions to you asking unexpectedly to use his phone or computer or his reaction to you picking it up without asking first, you will see if he is very open and comfortable or if he gets very uncomfortable anytime you get near or handle his technology. If you ask to use his phone or computer, does he always or often question you before handing it to you? Does he seem to always look through it before handing it to you? Even if just a quick look at it first? Red flags.
Ok. I am not responding to replies because I feel odd just saying this but my gynecologist said women are not suppose to put soap in the actual “female orifice”. It will upset the PH balance. Seminal fluid can allegedly do the same, affecting the smell of said orifice.
WATER is the ONLY thing you should use!! Your body has its own cleaning mechanism built in. If you have odor that you're worried about, you should go to the gyno. Do not use "hypoallergenic" washes... They should not go inside your body, regardless what the packages say....
Why are you afraid to say vagina? I mean I'm a devout Christian, but c'mon, its a body part. Vagina, clitoris, vulva, labia, you can say it. I'm tired of this shame about body parts. It's what causes children to shy away from telling their parents what happened to them after they were sexually abused, or teens and adults when they are sexually assaulted.
Definitively water only, because it's self-cleaning. And not just the inside but the outer parts are self-cleaning as well - and it's important to keep the ph in balance in order to protect yourself from infections. But don't worry, semen does not affect the balance at all. It just temporarily slightly changes the way you smell. I think about it as being a romantic thing - also your smell shows your union
THE INTRO IS CUUUUTTEEEE! Here’s my question if y’all haven’t answered it yet lolll: “Are guys as excited for marriage as girls are?” Also dying bc I’m the same way always laughing at the wrong time bahaha
I know I "dream" of marriage and a beautiful wedding, and stuff like that :) Day dream more than have dreams about it. Marriage and a deep, loving relationship almost feels hard wired into me, but I know not every guy is like that
Woah just saw that new intro! That was dope 😂‼️ You two look so cool in that intro video! Once again, Paul, taking one for the team and speaking on behalf of us guys! That ain’t easy, but you hold down the fort brother ✊🏾 keep it up you two! Keep serving God with that passion and turning that God given passion into action ‼️
1st question: Yes, when I was in love, I thought about this girl nonstop. It's a wonderful feeling. I still think about her and pray for her, but she's moved away. 2nd question: I've developed into a smooth young man, and when the opportunity arises, I can flirt alright. Not desperate to find such an opportunity though. 3rd question: (In my young and limited understanding) I won't deny it may be embarrassing at first for people to know my wife brings home more money. But I've gotten bolder in many ways and not as many things faze me, including what people think about me when they're wrong (note I didn't say "when it's none of their business"; I don't like reverting to that argument). Besides, if my wife had a profession that paid more than mine, I think I would know that before going into marriage, and could weigh it. Honestly, my biggest concern would be that she'd be out, and I'd prefer a house-wife. 4th question: (I forget now how this question was phrased and to go back and check would mean discarding the comment 😁, but I know it pertained to pornography) I'd say to talk about this within a month of steady dating, and decide where you both stand on this. And not just porn, but other important topics of a sexual nature. And imo, you shouldn't do it at a restaurant; wait 'till you're at one of your homes (w/chaperone of course) in a calm and fitting atmosphere, and have a bible handy when you pop this question. Will prove helpful if he's in the "struggling" camp. 5th question: I'm still not sure what this means. Whatever the case, it bothers me none. You might think that's easy for some unmarried kid to say, but on this subject I'm surprisingly well-read (Reddit tales). You see, I know I'd never be turned off by a woman's micturation for one reason: it does the opposite. I have what's known as urolagnia. As to #2, that wouldn't dissuade me from my marital desire either because I also have mild coprophilia (I say "mild" as it's important to note the matter itself doesn't stimulate me, but something inexplicable in the mere act would make her more attractive to me; maybe it's a special level of intimacy). But besides various paraphilia, it's also just life, you have to get over it. Same w/menstruation and even flatulence. I don't hold to silly myths regarding girls in their aspects, which'll make me "sexually tough" 😄. If a toot is all it takes to sheath your sword married men, it was never that sharp in the first place.
I think the best way to bring up the P*rn subject is to start off with yourself or say like you read that it's a common problem and thought it was a good idea to talk about it or you know some couples who've been affect by it rather than just flat out asking somebody. It could come across accusational or catch them off guard.
These aren’t questions to ask guys, they are just ones I had in general: what kinds of dates do you recommend when dating? should you always be somewhere public? how long is a good amount of time to be alone? Or do you recommend never being alone?
Also about the last question, every single human has its own unique scent and the only reason a person smells "bad" just in general is if you haven't bathed/kept up with basic hygiene particularly if you are European or African American and the only reason a females genital area will have an unpleasant smell is if they have an infection and or they don't keep up with basic hygiene(wiping properly after using the bathroom, bathing the area normally, etc) and if you are of or mostly of European or African American descent because they have much more apocrine glands, man or woman, (though men sweat heavier and have stronger body odor naturally) when you sweat heavily and do not cleanse or bathe, your armpits and pubic areas can start to have an unpleasant odor because of the protein and sugar present in the apocrine glands that bacteria eat. Otherwise, you shouldn't smell "bad" and as far as the genital area, the inner and outer vulva should only smell like your unique scent, but the vagina itself has no actual odor unless an infection is present.
In response to Morgan's question about bodily "aroma's".. i think the bigger issue is whether or not personal hygiene is on point. If you are sporting some nappy breath, not showering or washing your clothes regularly etc, it can be a HUGE turnoff more than anything intimate-related. If somebody is physically attractive, that might be a big surprise to find out they don't handle those things, but i have come across it personally. Also when Squishy popped up during the "Corn" conversation, perfect comedic timing.
You guys are killing it! If you keep it up at this rate, you guys are going to have millions of subscribers. It’s just a matter of time. You guys are stars.
Love the new into, but I'm still going to be singing the Paul and Morgan theme song 😂 I just can't help it everytime I see the notification of a new video the songs pops into my head lol
I was dating a guy and he brought up *corn talking about his friends and I asked him if it was a struggle for him and he just shut down. Maybe a week after, he ended up telling me he just wanted to be friends. I feel like that was probably a difficult topic for him and that he probably did struggle with it.
Cute new intro! Even knowing that you weren't singing the intro anymore I was thinking to myself when are they going to sing the intro?! Lol. Love you two ❤️
Beloved Friend That’s an interesting question, and one I’m glad you asked. There are a good number of women who use “corn” as well. Women are affected in different ways by it, but it causes a lot of damage for them too.
This needs discernment and prayer. I would say if the relationship turns a bit more serious. Not as late as engagement but not as early as the first or second date. For females this is a much more sensitive issue because it's not as recognised in women as it is in guys. So guard your heart but also share this with someone you want to open your heart to. And don't turn that guy into your accountability partner, that should be reserved for someone of the same sex who you can be vulnerable with! Ask yourself, at what stage would you want the guy to tell you? And let the Holy Spirit lead the way
As a guy.. should I make it a point to bring up my girlfriends past for discussion or do I wait to let her take that initiative? Really been struggling with this one for a while and how to bring that topic up best..
The interesting family struggle for me is that I don't see my family or talk to them near as often as my fiancée does with hers. I come from a fairly large family (one of 5 kids). I've seen my parents maybe three times in the last year for a total of maybe 10 days but talk to them maybe once a week. I don't keep very regular contact with my siblings other than a family group chat and seeing everyone once or twice a year at holidays. Extended family often times just at holidays, if that. On the other hand, my fiancée is actually living at home with her mother. So I've been around her mom far more than she's been around my parents. Smaller family with only one aunt and two uncles, so she has fairly close relationships. She's told me that she feels like she doesn't have a good enough relationship with my family, and has asked me why I don't want her to see them. That's never been the case I've tried to tell her, and it's just how my family is. Tonight she said it feels like my mom likes my brother's wife more than her. As I explained, my brother's relationship goes back around 10 years off and on since they started dating, while my fiancée has been in the picture not even 18 months from first date to our wedding next month.
Love the intro! Great answers Paul, especially the one about what is most annoying. I agree that a huge attachment to family and other things can be a turn-off I was recently approached (before quarantine 😂) by a guy who started taking to me at church. I was really nervous because that has never happened before. Can guys tell if a girl is nervous or inexperience with dating?
This video was hilarious, but also super helpful! I loved that intro and knew that it was Hannah's work, she's the best! You guys are so honest, it's super duper refreshing! I have a question for Paul, when you are a teen and are friends with a guy that you might be interested for the future, how do you go about being friends and keeping your mind pure? Love you both! ❤️🙌🏻
Concerning the "corn" issue. Its best to tackle that early on in the relationship so that you know what you ladies are getting yourselves into. As a guy and can speak for most Christian guys in saying that there is a LOT of shame and regret when it comes to confessing that "corn" is an issue for us. As long as a guy knows that the question comes from a place of love and concern, they will open up.How to help your guy cope and overcome it.... lots of prayer, patience, understanding (cause overcoming this doesn't happen overnight), being stern (a clear line must be drawn). How to know if hes into "corn", he would be secretive, distant, mood/ attitude change, insecure.
Personally, I didn't wait for my woman to ask me if I had a corn problem. I knew it was a problem, I stopped it, but I still wanted to be honest and upfront by telling her it's something that I've dealt with. To this day, it's the only person in my life that I've told (it also was brought up in premarital counseling, so our pastor friend knows about it too). Trying to find someone else closer to me to open up to about it who can help keep me accountable, but I find that it's an awkward conversation to have. I don't have someone in my church I know well enough to open up to. I have pastors in my family (including my father), but still working up the courage to tell someone else.
I really like the new intro! It's super "you"! Very fitting for your personalities and style :) The look that Morgan gives when she bumps Paul aside is perfect 😂 As for some of the questions, the *orn" one in particular, I completely agree that it's something that a girl should bring up within the first month of getting to know the guy. I've personally deeply struggled with that temptation in my life, and am still actively beseeching The Lord to help me break the chains of this sin. I deeply want to remain pure for my future wife. As for annoyances, I think the main one for me is girls who play games and hard to get. I'm a very open, honest guy with my heart out on my sleeve. Kinda like "here I am, and here is all of me. If I fit your desires in a future husband? Fantastic! If not, please don't feign interest for a time, then pull away suddenly." Another annoyance I have is foul language. Now, I can understand struggling with using curse words when you're deeply upset or under immense pressure. I struggle with that too, from time to time. However, using profanity or talking about vulgar/vain things in regular day-to-day conversation is a huge turn off for me. Especially racial slurs, like the n-word. That's almost an immediate "goodbye Felicia" moment, as I can't stand that word. Other than that, though, I try to be as reasonable, open hearted, and graceful when meeting someone new :)
Ohh big time for me, speaking personally! :P I was in a relationship with a girl who half the time would talk about her celebrity crush, and it would hurt me so much. I just feel like if you want to be with the guy or girl you're in a relationship with, why have your eyes on someone else, even if you don't have an intention to pursue that person? o: I know not everyone is wired like I am, but when I love a girl, my eyes only see her. Almost as if every other girl becomes a grey blob. Metaphorically speaking of course lol I still saw women that weren't the girl I was in a relationship with as a lovely human being, but all crushes I may have had prior to meeting that girl completely faded once my heart became hers. I'm a total softie, though, and I know that my perspective is unpopular :P
@@melloncollieinfinitesadness Y'know, I've never asked guy friends their thoughts on this topic, and where they stood on it, but I'm sure I'm not the only one who feels this way :) When the bible talks about how God is a jealous God, and to worship Him alone, it just inspired me to see a girlfriend/future wife the same way. Not, to say, to worship her, but respect her and love her and treat her exclusive to any other girl out there. I know there must be other guys out there that feel the same. Even with how our society has molded very unhealthy views and behaviours within both genders in this age of hyper sexuality and "one night stands". Even we as children of God must be careful not to let the world influence us. Have faith, though :) I know that God has a person in mind that will create an amazingly Godly marriage to those who have a yearning in their heart to find a Godly husband/wife!
The pornography question was a good one. C.S. Lewis wrote, "...Now suppose you come to a country where you could fill a theatre by simply bringing a covered plate on to the stage and then slowly lifting the cover so as to let every one see, just before the lights vent out, that it contained a mutton chop or a bit of bacon, would you not think that in that country something had gone wrong with the appetite for food?" The truth women should know is that you should not date someone whose appetite is distorted. That person should first let Jesus restore him and he first need to conquer his own battles before he'll be able to fight for yours. And that's what a woman want; a man who has his heart set on God and conquers the battles that he fight, not someone who constantly surrenders to them... Love your channel btw. I used to hate your channel specifically, but when I came to Christ, you have helped me walk in purity for God, doing things I never thought I'd be doing...
Do you think it’s possible to be close friends with someone when you both had feelings for each other for a long time but agreed you will never date? Also to put it into perspective you can’t avoid them in day to day life?
Honestly, I had a close guy friend like that. We used to like each other but never pursued it and agreed to be friends, and now we're just close and have moved on.
man i miss the old intro already T.T but the new intro is super cute hehe, will always look forward to your videos no matter what! looks like i’ll have to sing the intro by myself hahaha
Yay!! Another Q & A!!!😆😆😆 And i think your new intro is SO CUTE!!❤❤❤ But please do your beautiful, original song every now and then to surprise us!!❤😭 Love you guysss!!!😃😃😃
I loved hearing your responses to these questions! You covered some tough ones very well... if you do another video like this, I'd be interested to hear your comments on whether or not a guy feels threatened if he and his girl don't fall under educational stereotypes? For example, the guy has a degree in theater or performing arts, but the girl got her degree in some STEM subject. Do they feel like their girl is smarter and does it upset them? P.S. The new intro is awesome, and you two are very cute!!
I can't speak for every guy. Many times my thoughts and feelings are abnormal for a guy in comparison to the majority. Speaking personally, I go into any interaction with someone, guy or girl, assuming they're more intelligent than I am. I definitely struggle with self esteem, so that plays a part in that assumption, but also because I like to try to see the best in others :) I could see some guys maybe feeling "threatened" by a girl they're interested in having a "higher educational degree" but I'm sure a lot of guys can view that there are many jobs and ways in life that can be a blessing to others, even if they don't require higher forms of education level 😊 I'd want to nurture her strengths and support her, and I pray that no insecurities or negative stigmas would get in the way of me supporting her
I am a shy person and I always felt uncomfortable approaching my crush when he was with his friends. What are some good ways to get to know your crush's friends better?
Aw!!! You two and Girl Defined remind me of this verse: “...Then Jesus said to the crowds and to his disciples, “The scribes and the Pharisees sit on Moses' seat, so practice and observe whatever they tell you-but not what they do. For they preach, but do not practice. They tie up heavy burdens, hard to bear, and lay them on people's shoulders, but they themselves are not willing to move them with their finger. They do all their deeds to be seen by others. For they make their phylacteries broad and their fringes long, ...” - Matthew 23 and that’s on God. Paul, Stay Young and Reckless (Y&R) unless you got rid of your hat.
Wow, unexpectedly this video actually gave clarity on a question I had about my mom and (married) sister's relationship. They talk on the phone every day for hours at a time, or sometimes multiple times a day. To me it seemed kind of odd, and it was definitely causing tension in my parent's relationship, but I couldn't tell if it was "normal" or if it was wrong of me to think that they talk too much.
Oh my goodness! I love your intro! And also, I just wanted to say how much of a help you have been to me! I really appreciate how you dig into the deep questions with sincerity. I have had a lot of random questions I have been too afraid to ask, but you have answered them. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.
Awwwn, I love the new intro and enjoy these series, keep them coming. On the issue of porn I really agree when Morgan said pray about it before asking... I do think if the guy admits to indulging in porn, but you can see that he is not happy with the whole experience and is desperate for help, you can in this regards help pray for him with this struggle, enjoin him to seek help through counseling and all. Its an addiction that by the power of the Holy Ghost can still be broken, He just needs to see your brokenness. And you also acknowledging its wrong and want to be done with it. But do ensure the issue is tackled before even thinking of progressing with the relationship. If he comfortable with it, then just move on. Prayers here and there for him is still welcomed.
Let's all move forward in 2020.& get over this crazy corona bug! Getting back to the subject, ladies just don't hesitate to ask the important questions before you get too heavily involved or marry the guy. Be open!
Good video guys! The new intro is going to take some getting used to, but I think it’s cute. 🙂👍🏻 I don’t really have the time to type out my personal answers to every question this time, but a few thoughts that cone to mind: 1.) The porn question. I think how you approach it is going to depend on what you already know/see, and who you are. But I would agree that you should ask sooner rather than later, and decide beforehand how big of a problem it would be to you if he is struggling with it. How he responds or discusses how he is working to improve are also important. Does he have outside accountability from another guy/mentor who wants to see him get out? How long has it been/was it a part of his life? The answers to these questions might not be appropriate or necessary in the first conversation about it, but they are important to know eventually, and the more he says about it voluntarily without being pushed for answers, the better in my opinion. 2.) Annoying things: overly sassy or putting on an act, kind of like what Paul said. There is a certain way that some girls talk that hurts a bit to listen to, but thankfully many girls don’t usually use it. On a more serious note, expecting guys to know/understand what you want/what we should do without telling us is really frustrating. 100% agree with Paul’s answer with the dog; I’ve had a similar experience, but worse. (She strongly implied her dogs’ desires would be more important to her than her husband’s in some things.) 3.) I did not particularly appreciate the last question too much, but maybe it was helpful to someone. 🤷🏻♂️
Insecure, desperate for control and for him to be able to have complete influence on her thoughts and everything she does, so god forbid her parents get in the way.
@@ronnelechavez I love that you only addressed the dog. I'm a very animal person, but I know the type he is talking about. No one was confused. Yes, sometimes they can come off annoying But of course Paul is going to have an issue with anyone else being his girlfriend's obsession. That was the joke, pauls massive ego, narcissism and control issues. Don't act like this was just about a dog hahaha u kno it's not homeboy
I have a few more questions as well if you’d like to do a video sometime!😊 Should Christians listen to music that doesn’t align with Godly beliefs? Should Christians have tattoos?(and I don’t mean anything judgmental to you Morgan at all since you have some, I am just wondering what y’alls thoughts are on the matter!)
Thank you for the question at 5:44-11:00 especially about HOW we respond to the answer... it's something that should be addressed openly but with empathy and prayer because something deep inside people fuels addiction, especially this kind. Being graceful and focused on LISTENING goes a long way, and might motivate your partner to stop, and it can be paired with honest expression of hurt feelings. It's serious, but it doesn't need to be communicated in rage.
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Paul and Morgan I think the new intro should be longer. It’s too short.
The intro! It's awesome. ❤️❤️
Loved it
New intro is so fun and cute! 😊 I liked the Paul and Morgan show song as intro too of course but I support your decision for the new intro - its something fresh and new! I love how unfiltered you guys are in sharing your responses to such personal questions! I appreciate how you both are brave and vulnerable enough explore the topics others are too embarassed or scared to discuss. I value your guys' insights and I believe it will help guide me in a future relationship. Thanks Paul and Morgan!
Also I have some questions for you:
-What do guys think about age difference with a girl (ie if the girl is like 5 years younger or older) or in a different phase of life (ie if he is graduating college and she is just entering)
-also do guys look for someone of an equal intellectual capacity as them? In other words, how important is intellegence of the girl when a guy is considering a girl?
i would just like to point out that females also struggle with p**n!! it is so very real and scary to talk about because it is something so personal! love y’all so so much, thank you for being so vulnerable!
Paul’s insight on men being called to lead really changed my perspective. It’s stressful feeling like you have to find a man who’s naturally extremely “alpha” and worrying that a mans personality isn’t enough to lead you and this made me give some more grace to the whole idea. Rather than it being a personality trait, it’s a calling from God that men choose to step into the same as a woman can step into a more feminine submissive role. Although people can be naturally more one way or another, it’s not so flippant as merely being personality. I don’t know why I didn’t see it like that before but this was really valuable for me to hear! And it makes sense because God’s truth always surpasses human inconsistency
I would just like to put this out there. Though it seems like only men struggle with porn, women do too. So if any woman is out there feeling shameful for being the only one, know that you are not the only one. Reach out to trusted friends and build communities of honesty. Join together and follow the Lord.
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As a woman who has recently been freed from this struggle, I think it may have helped me to be freed sooner had I known other woman that struggled with it, especially because of how many different ways it tears you down.
Make a dedicated video about serious questions that both the guy and girl should be asking their partner when dating
Yes!! Please do
Y'all should!
Lucas Sheridon thanks for the topic😊
@@PaulandMorgan yess i would even share it with my girl friends :)
This would be FANTASTIC!!
i dated a guy who was OBSESSED with his family..when we were dating, we would go out to eat, and he would always look for things to buy or bring home to his sisters or parents..always texting his momma, and I constantly felt like the second choice...this is not only a turnoff, but a red flag for the future!
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On the topic of corn, I love that you mentioned the physical boundaries. Someone can be addicted to corn, but truly be seeking help and truly struggling with it. Or, they can be fully given over to it and not really trying to do much about it. The best way to tell in my opinion is if they set very serious physical boundaries. A person who is struggling with it (i.e. wants to stop and is actively taking steps in that direction) will likely know that they have a weakened will when it comes to s*x before marriage and will take heavy precautions to make sure that doesn’t happen.
OH I LOVE THE NEW INTRO SO CUTE💜💜
Jasmine Grace yay! Thank you 😄
Very happy they dropped the 60 tv show vibes
Okay that is soooo not fair about not having phone conversations with you parents after you are married. My mom talks to her family on the phone everyday. That's really dependent on how often you see each other every year which in my mom's case is only once every 2 years. And they don't always take long. 30 minutes max and 10 minutes min.
Personally, I probably won't do that but they live on different continents so that is entirely different and was not addressed.
In addition, I don't believe only men struggle with corn. Women do as well and I wish you could address the differences in why they do so. It seems that men are more prone to lustful behavior while women get hooked too quickly because they feel lonely and want to feel connected. That was my issue. I was jealous of my friends being in relationships that I wanted to feel that too so I resorted to things like fanfic, corn, pov stories which enhanced my craving for feelings when I didn't need to do that at all. It was creating a problem that shouldn't be there.
I know it might not be entirely relevant but I think it's important to address both sides, not just one.
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@Artemis Hannah good point. Empirical studies on corn would show that men are definitely more visually stimulated, while women are more stimulated by words and stories (a la 50 shades of grey, and other harlequin romance-corn like stories.) The subset (or majority) of men looking at corn scenes is quite higher although women do look at it too. Like you said, for different reasons since they are stimulated differently... another layer to it at least.
I don't think they meant to keep the issue guy centered. They were just answering a question that a girl asked about guys(something that most guys do deal with) they may mention it on another video because that is a good point women do stuggle with both visual and written porn . But today they were just answering a girl's question.
The mom thing wasn't about someone that just answers their mom's calls because they hardly see them because they live too far or too busy. It's about those guys that are so attached to their mom they treat their wives/girlfriends less than. There should be some healthy distance between mom and husband .Also, a wife shouldn't be always compared to the mom . She's not the mom she's the wife. These answers aren't for all the exceptions. Just common things. Maybe they'll dedicate a video for that but today they were just answering a question a girl asked.
@@belovedfaithful1 Ahhh okay. This was a Q&A not really a topic video. Hopefully they can address some other things in depth.
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When it comes to the "red flags" about someone struggling/watching porn, physical boundaries are not at all the only red flag, there are plenty more, particularly when it comes to their computers and cell phones. Are they very secretive on their phones and computers? How do they react when you pick up and hold their cell phone? Does he need to always look in the phone/computer first before he hands it to you? Is he always hovering over your shoulder when you do use his phone or computer? Especially if you want to open and use the browser? Have you ever walked into the room and he quickly closes a tab on his browser or quickly locks his phone and puts it down face first or in his pocket? If you've ever opened the browser on his phone or computer has it ever been on "private browsing? Is his behavior possessive and or seemingly "protective" over his technology? Always takes it with him everywhere he goes, rarely ever leaves it alone, Etc. Certainly, something to look out for, though he may have "excuses" for some or even most of the behavior, it's definitely a red flag. You need to watch his reactions to you asking unexpectedly to use his phone or computer or his reaction to you picking it up without asking first, you will see if he is very open and comfortable or if he gets very uncomfortable anytime you get near or handle his technology. If you ask to use his phone or computer, does he always or often question you before handing it to you? Does he seem to always look through it before handing it to you? Even if just a quick look at it first? Red flags.
Ok. I am not responding to replies because I feel odd just saying this but my gynecologist said women are not suppose to put soap in the actual “female orifice”. It will upset the PH balance. Seminal fluid can allegedly do the same, affecting the smell of said orifice.
Mozzarella • yes you are not supposed to. Hypoallergenic feminine wash is the only thing you should use :)
WATER is the ONLY thing you should use!! Your body has its own cleaning mechanism built in. If you have odor that you're worried about, you should go to the gyno. Do not use "hypoallergenic" washes... They should not go inside your body, regardless what the packages say....
“Female orifice”... um, did you mean “vagina”?
Why are you afraid to say vagina? I mean I'm a devout Christian, but c'mon, its a body part. Vagina, clitoris, vulva, labia, you can say it. I'm tired of this shame about body parts. It's what causes children to shy away from telling their parents what happened to them after they were sexually abused, or teens and adults when they are sexually assaulted.
Definitively water only, because it's self-cleaning. And not just the inside but the outer parts are self-cleaning as well - and it's important to keep the ph in balance in order to protect yourself from infections. But don't worry, semen does not affect the balance at all. It just temporarily slightly changes the way you smell. I think about it as being a romantic thing - also your smell shows your union
THE INTRO IS CUUUUTTEEEE! Here’s my question if y’all haven’t answered it yet lolll: “Are guys as excited for marriage as girls are?” Also dying bc I’m the same way always laughing at the wrong time bahaha
Lily Hare awe yay! Thanks for the question😊
This!! I want to know the answer to that too
I know I "dream" of marriage and a beautiful wedding, and stuff like that :) Day dream more than have dreams about it. Marriage and a deep, loving relationship almost feels hard wired into me, but I know not every guy is like that
Woah just saw that new intro! That was dope 😂‼️ You two look so cool in that intro video! Once again, Paul, taking one for the team and speaking on behalf of us guys! That ain’t easy, but you hold down the fort brother ✊🏾 keep it up you two! Keep serving God with that passion and turning that God given passion into action ‼️
Sedric Granger awe thank you bro!
1st question: Yes, when I was in love, I thought about this girl nonstop. It's a wonderful feeling. I still think about her and pray for her, but she's moved away.
2nd question: I've developed into a smooth young man, and when the opportunity arises, I can flirt alright. Not desperate to find such an opportunity though.
3rd question: (In my young and limited understanding) I won't deny it may be embarrassing at first for people to know my wife brings home more money. But I've gotten bolder in many ways and not as many things faze me, including what people think about me when they're wrong (note I didn't say "when it's none of their business"; I don't like reverting to that argument). Besides, if my wife had a profession that paid more than mine, I think I would know that before going into marriage, and could weigh it. Honestly, my biggest concern would be that she'd be out, and I'd prefer a house-wife.
4th question: (I forget now how this question was phrased and to go back and check would mean discarding the comment 😁, but I know it pertained to pornography) I'd say to talk about this within a month of steady dating, and decide where you both stand on this. And not just porn, but other important topics of a sexual nature. And imo, you shouldn't do it at a restaurant; wait 'till you're at one of your homes (w/chaperone of course) in a calm and fitting atmosphere, and have a bible handy when you pop this question. Will prove helpful if he's in the "struggling" camp.
5th question: I'm still not sure what this means. Whatever the case, it bothers me none. You might think that's easy for some unmarried kid to say, but on this subject I'm surprisingly well-read (Reddit tales). You see, I know I'd never be turned off by a woman's micturation for one reason: it does the opposite. I have what's known as urolagnia. As to #2, that wouldn't dissuade me from my marital desire either because I also have mild coprophilia (I say "mild" as it's important to note the matter itself doesn't stimulate me, but something inexplicable in the mere act would make her more attractive to me; maybe it's a special level of intimacy). But besides various paraphilia, it's also just life, you have to get over it. Same w/menstruation and even flatulence. I don't hold to silly myths regarding girls in their aspects, which'll make me "sexually tough" 😄. If a toot is all it takes to sheath your sword married men, it was never that sharp in the first place.
Appreciate the insight :)
I think the best way to bring up the P*rn subject is to start off with yourself or say like you read that it's a common problem and thought it was a good idea to talk about it or you know some couples who've been affect by it rather than just flat out asking somebody. It could come across accusational or catch them off guard.
These aren’t questions to ask guys, they are just ones I had in general: what kinds of dates do you recommend when dating? should you always be somewhere public? how long is a good amount of time to be alone? Or do you recommend never being alone?
Hey, go watch our ‘Intentional Dating’ playlist :)
Also about the last question, every single human has its own unique scent and the only reason a person smells "bad" just in general is if you haven't bathed/kept up with basic hygiene particularly if you are European or African American and the only reason a females genital area will have an unpleasant smell is if they have an infection and or they don't keep up with basic hygiene(wiping properly after using the bathroom, bathing the area normally, etc) and if you are of or mostly of European or African American descent because they have much more apocrine glands, man or woman, (though men sweat heavier and have stronger body odor naturally) when you sweat heavily and do not cleanse or bathe, your armpits and pubic areas can start to have an unpleasant odor because of the protein and sugar present in the apocrine glands that bacteria eat. Otherwise, you shouldn't smell "bad" and as far as the genital area, the inner and outer vulva should only smell like your unique scent, but the vagina itself has no actual odor unless an infection is present.
In response to Morgan's question about bodily "aroma's".. i think the bigger issue is whether or not personal hygiene is on point. If you are sporting some nappy breath, not showering or washing your clothes regularly etc, it can be a HUGE turnoff more than anything intimate-related. If somebody is physically attractive, that might be a big surprise to find out they don't handle those things, but i have come across it personally.
Also when Squishy popped up during the "Corn" conversation, perfect comedic timing.
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Morgan- it’s so refreshing to see someone so unapologetically their self. You crack me up hahaha love your honesty and your fire for the Lord ❤️!
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Concerning "the corn" question. I was wondering how would a guy your dating react if he finds out the woman he likes struggles with corn.
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Did you have any doubts when getting married that Morgan was “the one”? Are doubts ok when thinking about marrying someone?
Amanda Miele thanks for the question😊
You guys are killing it! If you keep it up at this rate, you guys are going to have millions of subscribers. It’s just a matter of time. You guys are stars.
Awe thanks so much bro😄
"So do you struggle with corn?" 😂😂😂 I wish Porn didn't exist,it ruins so many lives.
Love the new into, but I'm still going to be singing the Paul and Morgan theme song 😂 I just can't help it everytime I see the notification of a new video the songs pops into my head lol
Maia Atkins haha yesss, that’s just fine! 😄
I was dating a guy and he brought up *corn talking about his friends and I asked him if it was a struggle for him and he just shut down. Maybe a week after, he ended up telling me he just wanted to be friends. I feel like that was probably a difficult topic for him and that he probably did struggle with it.
An important question for Paul: how do you make your teeth so white? Thanks for the video.
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Intro was amazing!!! Paul seems like he can be an actor as well LOL
Haha thanks bro😊
Cute new intro! Even knowing that you weren't singing the intro anymore I was thinking to myself when are they going to sing the intro?! Lol. Love you two ❤️
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Continuing with the "corn" question. When should girl's mention to the guy that they have struggled with or still struggling with it?
Beloved Friend That’s an interesting question, and one I’m glad you asked. There are a good number of women who use “corn” as well. Women are affected in different ways by it, but it causes a lot of damage for them too.
This needs discernment and prayer. I would say if the relationship turns a bit more serious. Not as late as engagement but not as early as the first or second date. For females this is a much more sensitive issue because it's not as recognised in women as it is in guys. So guard your heart but also share this with someone you want to open your heart to. And don't turn that guy into your accountability partner, that should be reserved for someone of the same sex who you can be vulnerable with! Ask yourself, at what stage would you want the guy to tell you? And let the Holy Spirit lead the way
Yes!! Definitely red flag if they are SUPER too attached to their family. So glad you mentioned that one! Love you guys 💗🤗
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As a guy.. should I make it a point to bring up my girlfriends past for discussion or do I wait to let her take that initiative? Really been struggling with this one for a while and how to bring that topic up best..
I love these videos. It makes me feel more prepared. Also Love the new into! Very Cute!!💕
Natalie Halling awe glad to hear it!
The interesting family struggle for me is that I don't see my family or talk to them near as often as my fiancée does with hers. I come from a fairly large family (one of 5 kids). I've seen my parents maybe three times in the last year for a total of maybe 10 days but talk to them maybe once a week. I don't keep very regular contact with my siblings other than a family group chat and seeing everyone once or twice a year at holidays. Extended family often times just at holidays, if that.
On the other hand, my fiancée is actually living at home with her mother. So I've been around her mom far more than she's been around my parents. Smaller family with only one aunt and two uncles, so she has fairly close relationships.
She's told me that she feels like she doesn't have a good enough relationship with my family, and has asked me why I don't want her to see them. That's never been the case I've tried to tell her, and it's just how my family is.
Tonight she said it feels like my mom likes my brother's wife more than her. As I explained, my brother's relationship goes back around 10 years off and on since they started dating, while my fiancée has been in the picture not even 18 months from first date to our wedding next month.
Oh man, that’s interesting
Love the intro! Great answers Paul, especially the one about what is most annoying. I agree that a huge attachment to family and other things can be a turn-off
I was recently approached (before quarantine 😂) by a guy who started taking to me at church. I was really nervous because that has never happened before. Can guys tell if a girl is nervous or inexperience with dating?
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THE INTRO IS BOMB!! And the questions were the best out of all 3 of the series 😍😂 💪🏼
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Also, I love the intro!!! You can definitely see both of your personalities in the intro ❤️👌🏻
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This video was hilarious, but also super helpful! I loved that intro and knew that it was Hannah's work, she's the best! You guys are so honest, it's super duper refreshing!
I have a question for Paul, when you are a teen and are friends with a guy that you might be interested for the future, how do you go about being friends and keeping your mind pure?
Love you both! ❤️🙌🏻
Christy N awe thanks so much!😄 And thanks for the question😊
Concerning the "corn" issue. Its best to tackle that early on in the relationship so that you know what you ladies are getting yourselves into. As a guy and can speak for most Christian guys in saying that there is a LOT of shame and regret when it comes to confessing that "corn" is an issue for us. As long as a guy knows that the question comes from a place of love and concern, they will open up.How to help your guy cope and overcome it.... lots of prayer, patience, understanding (cause overcoming this doesn't happen overnight), being stern (a clear line must be drawn). How to know if hes into "corn", he would be secretive, distant, mood/ attitude change, insecure.
Personally, I didn't wait for my woman to ask me if I had a corn problem. I knew it was a problem, I stopped it, but I still wanted to be honest and upfront by telling her it's something that I've dealt with. To this day, it's the only person in my life that I've told (it also was brought up in premarital counseling, so our pastor friend knows about it too). Trying to find someone else closer to me to open up to about it who can help keep me accountable, but I find that it's an awkward conversation to have. I don't have someone in my church I know well enough to open up to. I have pastors in my family (including my father), but still working up the courage to tell someone else.
Love the new intro and outtro!!!! Good stuff as always!!! Keep it up!! 😉😎💙
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Love the new intro y'all!!!
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I really like the new intro! It's super "you"! Very fitting for your personalities and style :) The look that Morgan gives when she bumps Paul aside is perfect 😂 As for some of the questions, the *orn" one in particular, I completely agree that it's something that a girl should bring up within the first month of getting to know the guy. I've personally deeply struggled with that temptation in my life, and am still actively beseeching The Lord to help me break the chains of this sin. I deeply want to remain pure for my future wife. As for annoyances, I think the main one for me is girls who play games and hard to get. I'm a very open, honest guy with my heart out on my sleeve. Kinda like "here I am, and here is all of me. If I fit your desires in a future husband? Fantastic! If not, please don't feign interest for a time, then pull away suddenly." Another annoyance I have is foul language. Now, I can understand struggling with using curse words when you're deeply upset or under immense pressure. I struggle with that too, from time to time. However, using profanity or talking about vulgar/vain things in regular day-to-day conversation is a huge turn off for me. Especially racial slurs, like the n-word. That's almost an immediate "goodbye Felicia" moment, as I can't stand that word. Other than that, though, I try to be as reasonable, open hearted, and graceful when meeting someone new :)
WHOA!! A new intro! 😆 I LOVE IT ⚡️
Angeleah Macklin thank youuu! 😄
Love this!!! Ok question do guys get turned off/jealous/upset when girls have/talk about celebrity crushes?
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Ohh big time for me, speaking personally! :P I was in a relationship with a girl who half the time would talk about her celebrity crush, and it would hurt me so much. I just feel like if you want to be with the guy or girl you're in a relationship with, why have your eyes on someone else, even if you don't have an intention to pursue that person? o: I know not everyone is wired like I am, but when I love a girl, my eyes only see her. Almost as if every other girl becomes a grey blob. Metaphorically speaking of course lol I still saw women that weren't the girl I was in a relationship with as a lovely human being, but all crushes I may have had prior to meeting that girl completely faded once my heart became hers. I'm a total softie, though, and I know that my perspective is unpopular :P
@@mikeysilbert461 i want to find a guy like you!! i totally am the exact same way!! 😔💕❤
@@melloncollieinfinitesadness Y'know, I've never asked guy friends their thoughts on this topic, and where they stood on it, but I'm sure I'm not the only one who feels this way :)
When the bible talks about how God is a jealous God, and to worship Him alone, it just inspired me to see a girlfriend/future wife the same way. Not, to say, to worship her, but respect her and love her and treat her exclusive to any other girl out there.
I know there must be other guys out there that feel the same. Even with how our society has molded very unhealthy views and behaviours within both genders in this age of hyper sexuality and "one night stands". Even we as children of God must be careful not to let the world influence us.
Have faith, though :) I know that God has a person in mind that will create an amazingly Godly marriage to those who have a yearning in their heart to find a Godly husband/wife!
The pornography question was a good one. C.S. Lewis wrote, "...Now suppose you come to a country where you could fill a theatre by simply bringing a covered plate on to the stage and then slowly lifting the cover so as to let every one see, just before the lights vent out, that it contained a mutton chop or a bit of bacon, would you not think that in that country something had gone wrong with the appetite for food?"
The truth women should know is that you should not date someone whose appetite is distorted. That person should first let Jesus restore him and he first need to conquer his own battles before he'll be able to fight for yours. And that's what a woman want; a man who has his heart set on God and conquers the battles that he fight, not someone who constantly surrenders to them...
Love your channel btw. I used to hate your channel specifically, but when I came to Christ, you have helped me walk in purity for God, doing things I never thought I'd be doing...
Praise God for your renewed mind! 🤗
Definitely not missing the old intro because the new one is 🔥🔥👌
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Do you think it’s possible to be close friends with someone when you both had feelings for each other for a long time but agreed you will never date? Also to put it into perspective you can’t avoid them in day to day life?
Storm Knock thanks for the topic :)
Honestly, I had a close guy friend like that. We used to like each other but never pursued it and agreed to be friends, and now we're just close and have moved on.
I haven’t even watched the video yet but.. I. LOVE. THE. NEW. INTRO!!!! It is so cute and so you guys!! ✨💗 love it!
Abby Gresham awe yayyy!❤️
Thank you for this video :’D
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man i miss the old intro already T.T but the new intro is super cute hehe, will always look forward to your videos no matter what! looks like i’ll have to sing the intro by myself hahaha
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Yay!! Another Q & A!!!😆😆😆 And i think your new intro is SO CUTE!!❤❤❤
But please do your beautiful, original song every now and then to surprise us!!❤😭 Love you guysss!!!😃😃😃
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Is it easy for guys to be attracted to other women other than the person they like/are dating or married to?
Great video! Love these types of videos!
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That intro was awesome! Love your videos! Yall keep it up! :D
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That new intro is FIRE 🔥 great job editing it!!! 👏🏼👏🏼
Hannah Williamson we’re so happy with how it turned out! You’re the best! ❤️
that last question gave me so much relief.
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I loved hearing your responses to these questions! You covered some tough ones very well... if you do another video like this, I'd be interested to hear your comments on whether or not a guy feels threatened if he and his girl don't fall under educational stereotypes? For example, the guy has a degree in theater or performing arts, but the girl got her degree in some STEM subject. Do they feel like their girl is smarter and does it upset them?
P.S. The new intro is awesome, and you two are very cute!!
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I can't speak for every guy. Many times my thoughts and feelings are abnormal for a guy in comparison to the majority. Speaking personally, I go into any interaction with someone, guy or girl, assuming they're more intelligent than I am. I definitely struggle with self esteem, so that plays a part in that assumption, but also because I like to try to see the best in others :) I could see some guys maybe feeling "threatened" by a girl they're interested in having a "higher educational degree" but I'm sure a lot of guys can view that there are many jobs and ways in life that can be a blessing to others, even if they don't require higher forms of education level 😊 I'd want to nurture her strengths and support her, and I pray that no insecurities or negative stigmas would get in the way of me supporting her
I ABSOLUTELY LOVE THE INTRO VIDEO! 👏🏻👏🏻💕💕
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Your new intro is so cute! I think it also shows how you guys have matured as a couple, and how your channel has matured as well.
Awe thank you😊❤️
Morgan's eyes are soooo pretty...
I am a shy person and I always felt uncomfortable approaching my crush when he was with his friends. What are some good ways to get to know your crush's friends better?
Bring some of your friends with you.
Really love the idea of the new intro...cant wait to see what you have coming up as the years go by...big fan❤
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Aw!!! You two and Girl Defined remind me of this verse:
“...Then Jesus said to the crowds and to his disciples, “The scribes and the Pharisees sit on Moses' seat, so practice and observe whatever they tell you-but not what they do. For they preach, but do not practice. They tie up heavy burdens, hard to bear, and lay them on people's shoulders, but they themselves are not willing to move them with their finger. They do all their deeds to be seen by others. For they make their phylacteries broad and their fringes long, ...” - Matthew 23
and that’s on God.
Paul, Stay Young and Reckless (Y&R) unless you got rid of your hat.
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The intro is sooooo cute 💙. Keep these videos coming. They’re so insightful. Thank you for doing these 😁
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Wow, unexpectedly this video actually gave clarity on a question I had about my mom and (married) sister's relationship. They talk on the phone every day for hours at a time, or sometimes multiple times a day. To me it seemed kind of odd, and it was definitely causing tension in my parent's relationship, but I couldn't tell if it was "normal" or if it was wrong of me to think that they talk too much.
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I love the new intro. It catches your personalities. 💛
Awe good! 😄
Ooh! I asked my boyfriend: what’s your opinion on porn? And it was a great way to ask about their relationship with it.
OH THIS INTRO YES !!! God bless you guys !!
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Ouuu, I'm early today, love your intro so much and love you too
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Ahhhh the new intro!! Love love love! Had to watch it twice.
Hey Molly! Bahaha good!❤️
Aww! The new intro is so cute!! I love it!
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Whoa! That intro! It's beautiful!! ❤️️
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Oh my goodness! I love your intro! And also, I just wanted to say how much of a help you have been to me! I really appreciate how you dig into the deep questions with sincerity. I have had a lot of random questions I have been too afraid to ask, but you have answered them. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.
The new intro is pretty good. The old into is still iconic tho
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LOVE THE NEW INTRO!!!
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The intro’s too cute ! Love these videos 😝praying for u guys !
Marion Browning awe thank you!😄
Awwwn, I love the new intro and enjoy these series, keep them coming.
On the issue of porn I really agree when Morgan said pray about it before asking... I do think if the guy admits to indulging in porn, but you can see that he is not happy with the whole experience and is desperate for help, you can in this regards help pray for him with this struggle, enjoin him to seek help through counseling and all.
Its an addiction that by the power of the Holy Ghost can still be broken, He just needs to see your brokenness. And you also acknowledging its wrong and want to be done with it.
But do ensure the issue is tackled before even thinking of progressing with the relationship.
If he comfortable with it, then just move on. Prayers here and there for him is still welcomed.
New intro is PRECIOUS
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I love the new intro 🙌
I miss 🐈 statue though 😅
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Love the new intro, it’s so cute!!! ❤️🥰
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How hard is it for a guy to stop himself from lusting when he sees provocative pictures of girls on social media for example?
Not that hard for me
Storm Knock thanks for the question😊
Not hard, I've seen so much porn I'm desensitized :l
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Love the new intro! Keep up the great work you two! Blessings
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Let's all move forward in 2020.& get over this crazy corona bug! Getting back to the subject, ladies just don't hesitate to ask the important questions before you get too heavily involved or marry the guy. Be open!
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Good video guys! The new intro is going to take some getting used to, but I think it’s cute. 🙂👍🏻 I don’t really have the time to type out my personal answers to every question this time, but a few thoughts that cone to mind: 1.) The porn question. I think how you approach it is going to depend on what you already know/see, and who you are. But I would agree that you should ask sooner rather than later, and decide beforehand how big of a problem it would be to you if he is struggling with it. How he responds or discusses how he is working to improve are also important. Does he have outside accountability from another guy/mentor who wants to see him get out? How long has it been/was it a part of his life? The answers to these questions might not be appropriate or necessary in the first conversation about it, but they are important to know eventually, and the more he says about it voluntarily without being pushed for answers, the better in my opinion. 2.) Annoying things: overly sassy or putting on an act, kind of like what Paul said. There is a certain way that some girls talk that hurts a bit to listen to, but thankfully many girls don’t usually use it. On a more serious note, expecting guys to know/understand what you want/what we should do without telling us is really frustrating. 100% agree with Paul’s answer with the dog; I’ve had a similar experience, but worse. (She strongly implied her dogs’ desires would be more important to her than her husband’s in some things.) 3.) I did not particularly appreciate the last question too much, but maybe it was helpful to someone. 🤷🏻♂️
Appreciate the honesty bro. Oh man, sorry about your dog experience! That’s crazy😛
My reaction to the intro
1st glance: too cheesy 😬
2nd glance: ok I can deal with🙂
3rd glance: I LOVE IT!!!!!!!!!❤😍😍😍😍😍️❤️❤️
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when you're so insecure that you get jealous of a girl's family and DOG.... major red flag
or hobbies or career... seriously, run
Melissa Bales ruuuuuuudee
Insecure, desperate for control and for him to be able to have complete influence on her thoughts and everything she does, so god forbid her parents get in the way.
@@ronnelechavez I love that you only addressed the dog. I'm a very animal person, but I know the type he is talking about. No one was confused. Yes, sometimes they can come off annoying But of course Paul is going to have an issue with anyone else being his girlfriend's obsession. That was the joke, pauls massive ego, narcissism and control issues. Don't act like this was just about a dog hahaha
u kno it's not homeboy
LOVE the new intro! I was actually hoping you would do that a long time ago!
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I loved the intro! 😍And I love you guys! You encourage me to look forward for someone who really loves God❤️
Awe praise God😊
Part 4, yes please!!
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The question about corn is real good question
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I have a few more questions as well if you’d like to do a video sometime!😊 Should Christians listen to music that doesn’t align with Godly beliefs? Should Christians have tattoos?(and I don’t mean anything judgmental to you Morgan at all since you have some, I am just wondering what y’alls thoughts are on the matter!)
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Love the new intro!!! ❤️🎉
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Loveee the New introooo!!!! I still miss the Paul and Morgan show sonnng annnwww ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Love you guyyys
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Thank you for the question at 5:44-11:00 especially about HOW we respond to the answer... it's something that should be addressed openly but with empathy and prayer because something deep inside people fuels addiction, especially this kind. Being graceful and focused on LISTENING goes a long way, and might motivate your partner to stop, and it can be paired with honest expression of hurt feelings. It's serious, but it doesn't need to be communicated in rage.
DO A SERIES PLEASE
im loving watching them
Atiya Boonyawuttipan 😄🙌
Can I just say that when Paul put up six fingers that I'm kind of hoping there will actually be a part six?
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I LOVE THE INTROOO
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The new intro looks amazing!
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Morgan’s face at 13:43 😂😂👏🏼👏🏼
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