Life Update - Everything's Changing
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- Опубликовано: 29 сен 2024
- This isn't my usual video - I have had major life changes over the past few months, and this is an update. Thanks for watching and following the journey xx ❤️
If you want to see a wonderful video on all of my dad's favorite things, you can watch this video created by my daughter, Hadley. PS. He knew she was making this video, discussed many of the items with her, and was very happy about this compilation: • ❤️
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Mourning is a painful and long process.My dad passed away 10 years ago and I found this saying that is conforting:
" When we lose someone we love,we must learn not to live without them but to live with the love they left behind"
THEY may have died, but not our love for them - this love has no longer a place to go to....😥.
I heard Valerie Bertinelli say something like “how beautiful to have loved someone so much that you grieve them.”
I lost my mom over 37 years ago and still have a hard time some days. But, I talk to hear, feel her presence and think about her everyday.
Regarding your room, I wonder if your clothes rack will fit in the elevator? Of course if it is not being used, and making sure it doesn’t shift around while moving up and down. It will give you that extra space it’s occupying now. You can fill the rack with what you will be showing on your video and then send it down. That is, if the rack isn’t already on the spot the elevator comes up on. No space is really saved then. Unless you put something there that can be easily moved when you need the elevator with the clothes rack in it. Just a thought.
Sometimes in your situation the caregiver needs care also. God bless you and your family.
Thanks for your kind words! 🥰
Your channel just popped up in my feed and I'm glad it did. I am so sorry about your father. I lost mine in January of 2020 very unexpectedly. He was my only parent since I was 8. I'm now 59. I'm so happy you have used your platform to discuss this. It is important. I'm still struggling 4 years later. I have no other family and my so called friends have fallen by the way side. It's been difficult to say the least. Thank you so much for this and, I look forward to your future videos on fashion and, whatever else you want to discuss! God bless you ❤
Sincere condolences, Nancy. You picked the best colour green for healing the heart... you'll feel good in your new creative place..
Thank you so much 😊
Nancy, I am so sorry for your loss. We do not talk about it enough. I lost my mom in 2019 and we got a break until 2021 when we lost 9 others through this year, the most recent being my husband a month ago. He was only 70 years old. Both of my parents were 92. We were just getting to the point of enjoying our later years and then cancer strikes. You are so right about being a caregiver. Hospice was helpful but I was doing everything 24/7. It was exhausting but I’d do it forever if only he were here. I wish you and your family a smooth transition to the Philadelphia area and may you blessed with many new memories in your family home while savoring your past memories. Cool elevator. Just so you’ll know, I still miss your knitting videos! They were awesome!😉😉
Sorry for your loss. 😢
I am really sorry for your loss. Take your time and do what you need to do. We (your viewers) won't be going anywhere
Hello beautiful ❤❤❤❤
May God bless you and comfort all your family and other viewers now.
So sorry to hear of your loss. I hope you find comfort in your memories.
No matter how long we've had our parents with us, losing them is a cosmic shift in life role/stage. Adjusting to their absence in your life is terribly hard. My sympathies. I lost my 90 year old parents, one with Alzheimers, within 10 days of each other. It took a long time (and some days, just like it was yesterday) to adjust to a world without them in it. My deepest sympathies. Thanks for bringing it forward and helping others.
So sorry on your Dads passing, happy you were able to spend time with him!!
Your new studio looks great !
Hello beautiful❤❤
I am so sorry, Dads are so special. The Irish say "I'm standing with you."
Your community here are standing with you and your family. Hugs
That's so beautiful - thanks for your thoughts 🥰
My deepest sympathies to you and your family. 4 years ago I was in similar circumstances and my father was sick and I left my comfort home in Atlanta to care for him. May God continue to comfort and keep you ❤️ ❤❤❤❤❤🌺🌺🌺
You’re right-we don’t talk about taking care of aging parents enough. I am so glad you are. I completely understand why you’re taking a breath for yourself. Sending you positive thoughts. ❤
My condolences on your loss. You are right we don’t talk about all that is entailed in caring for our aging parents.
My condolences, I’m so sorry for your loss. My dad passed away last year, and my mom is now in memory care, so I understand. There’s no roadmap for this part of the journey. Praying peace and comfort to you and your family 🙏🙏
Lost my husband after 37 yrs then the next year my Mom then my Dad. I took care of of my in-laws too
So sorry for your loss, Nancy. I went through this 19 years ago with my Dad and 26 years ago with my Mom. I totally understand what you are going through. Take the time you need. You are the only one that can determine that. We will always be here for you.
Thank you for sharing this personal, vulnerable side. You have the double whammy of going through your parents belongings AND making a family home into your own space. You’ve started with the easiest tool: a coat of paint. I hope you find joy in the process. I’m particularly looking forward to videos of how you change out your wardrobe seasonally. Now that you’ll also have more actual seasons 😊
Prayers! And caregiving is totally worth it! Difficult too! 🌹
Thank you so much, Yolanda! I couldn't agree more - those days were difficult yet so meaningful and rewarding. 🥰
I am so sorry, thank you for talking about this. I wish you peace.
Thanks for sharing your update. Looking forward to seeing more videos and take care of you even if it means a little more time away from us! Hugs.
Nancy, I am so sorry for your loss. Thank you for talking about this subject. Most of us aren’t prepared to become full time caretakers.
Sound quality is awesome, no echos, volume while adjustable is perfect.
Nancy, I have been where you are in life and you are so right, no one prepares you. I lost my parents 6 months apart. I am an only child so finding out that my dad's caregiver, after my mother was gone , was trying to get his house and bank accounts, I did so much scrambling, you can't imagine. I had my dad in my home for 3 months because there were no available places to handle his dementia. He finally got a place, and 3 days later he passed. God bless you and your family. It will get easier.
So sorry for you loss, Nancy how fortunate you were to be there on his last day. I was the caregiver for my sister with stage four lung cancer.it was very hard but it was also a privilege. Peace be with you.
So thankful you had that time with your dad before he passed. Praying for you as you walk this new path.
How sad for the family. Blessings.
Wow Nancy. You lost your father at the same time that I lost my mother. She was 88 and it was sudden. She had a cold, that's all she thought it was. Turns out it was RSV. She was gone within a week. She died on March 9. It's been horrible. I miss her so much. I hope you are doing much better. Newport Beach to PA?? What a transition. Not only dealing with the death of your father but the change of leaving CA too.
Thank you for sharing this, I’m so sorry for your loss ❤. I just lost my Dad last week under very similar circumstances. I was also grateful that he was able to pass at home. I echo your every sentiment about hospice. Although they are wonderful, I was not at all prepared to be the main caregiver and it is humbling and incredibly exhausting. Praying for you and your family and thank you for letting us know we aren’t alone. 🙏🏻❤️💕
Thank you for sharing. I’m praying for you and your family. I’ve missed you, but you take all the time you need. We will be here for you. Much love, Nancy.
I appreciate your kind words, Kathy. Thanks 💕
Dear Nancy, I'm deeply sorry to hear about your dad. Take the time you need to mourn and heal.
It's wonderful that you've found the strength to immerse yourself in this new project. Your new studio looks amazing, and I'm confident that your videos will reflect your newfound creativity. Please take care, and my warmest wishes are with you.
P.S. I've also lost both my parents, so I understand what you're going through.
Thanks for all of your kind words, and I'm so sorry for the loss of your parents.
I’m so sorry to hear about your dad. And you’re right, we don’t talk about this often enough.
I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my Dad in 2018 to pancreatic cancer. My mom passed in 2020. We were able to have them both home through their illnesses and when they passed. My husband and I bought their home. I have done the cleaning out and it is a process.
I’m so sorry for your loss … I think living in your parents home will bring you much comfort …. Thank you for sharing about hospice …my husband has just been diagnosed with terminal cancer so this is in my future … I’m very stressed with how this will all go . I’m glad I found your channel…I’m looking forward to your videos.
You are so right-being in my parents' home has brought me so much comfort, especially when I'm out in my mother's gardens, ripping out weeds and returning the garden to its former beauty. I'm so sorry to hear about your husband's diagnosis. Take one day at a time, don't forget to breathe, take some time for yourself, and remember that you are stronger than you think! Hugs 🥰
My heartfelt condolences to you and your family on the loss of your father. I'm so glad for you that you're with family and undertaking this happy move. xoxo
Thanks so much, Diane 😍
Dear Nancy - sorry for your loss. Take all the time you need. That's quite a move for you which can also be stressful. Be kind to yourself. xx
Thanks so much for thinking of me and taking the time to write a kind message. 💕
Sending love you during this time of profound loss. I lost my father and was his caretaker/ hospice assisting me. It is hard. You have taken on a huge lifestyle change as well. This is wonderful but it is alot. I have missed you. Prayers ❤ peace and blessings to you and yours.
Thanks so much, Donna. I'm so sorry you lost your father in a similar manner. ❤
So sorry for your loss, and thank you for speaking about this topic. Please remember to take time for yourself as you grieve.
Thanks so much, Lavonne. I did some gardening today in my mother's garden, and it was very healing. ❤🩹
Will your capsule wardrobe (or your wardrobe overall) change since you are no longer in CA but in PA?
Yes! A new capsule wardrobe video is coming VERY soon! 🤩
I’m so sorry for your loss . I just lost my dad too. It’s so hard. Take your time getting back to work. I look forward to future videos from you. The house looks amazing.
Thanks for taking the time to write the note, and I'm so sorry for your loss as well. 💕
Nancy I’m so sorry to hear of your dad’s passing. Condolences to you and family at this trying time.
Thank you, Lori
I’m so sorry ❤ for your loss, Nancy, may God bless you and your family. I’m sure that your family will find joy in being together again. 😢
I am so so sorry for your loss. Thank you for talking about it. I agree. I wish people would be more open and be able to talk about these phases of life and death. So difficult.
Thank you so much 😊
Thank you for sharing! Sorry for your loss. 😢 It helps me to connect with you and be more open to the ideas that you share. 😊💕
Thanks so much for your kind words, Jane 💕
When your videos didn't arrive, I thought something big must have happened. I am so sorry. Grief is a terrible thing... it washes over one and then you think you're ok, but then the next wave comes. Both my darling parents have gone and I miss them. No doubt your Mum and Dad would be so pleased that you're in the house. Very special. Hugs.
You're doing great!!!!
Thank you so much 😊
Do you have room in your family home for a puzzle room? I know you love puzzles! 🧩 Your parents raised an amazing daughter, Nancy, and I can tell how much you love them. What a beautiful story. ❤
I'm sorry for your loss; looking forward to seeing future videos in your new studio.
Thanks so much - more videos from the new studio are coming soon!
Thanks for sharing and showing us your courage and love!
I appreciate your kind words, Christine. 💕
My husband and I have lost all of our parents for several years now, so I can sympathize with what you are going through. It is a blessing to be able to spend time with your loved ones. Take care of yourself now.
I’m sorry for your loss. There are so many emotions. And then the work of sorting through memories and another person’s life. It’s a lot. Be easy on yourself. Take your time.
My deepest sympathy 🙏 take your time, we will be here for you when you are ready ❤😢
Thank you so much, Suzette ❤
Nancy so very sorry to hear about your dad.
Thinking about you
Thanks so much, Lisa 💕
Nancy, Thank you so much for sharing. I am so sorry for the loss of your Dad and all your wonderful choices. May God Bless you and your family.
Hugs to you Nancy
Condolences to you and your family, Nancy. 🙏🏽
Thank you so much, Kristi 💕
Sorry for your loss. This is tough and lots of big changes ahead. Hang in there.
So sorry for your loss. You absolutely did the right thing by being with your dad. Welcome back to the East Coast
Love, hugs and prayers to you Nancy. ❤
I really appreciate it! ❤
I am so very sorry for your loss. Best of luck with your move.
I appreciate your kind words; thank you! 🥰
I feel you. Father's are so important to their daughters. Sending you prayers and love.
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I lost my father almost 20 years ago at the age of 63. Way too young. You and your family are in my thoughts.
It really is difficult to lose a parent and I found a real sense of being orphaned when both parents passed. It’s real but what a gift to have been with your parents in their final hours. So sorry for your loss thanks for talking about the subject. It is necessary.
So sorry for your loss. Blessings for the future.
I really appreciate it. Thanks 🥰
Nancy, I am so sorry. And I agree. Hospice was wonderful, but I wish I had been better prepared for the reality.
Pancreatic cancer is brutal. I'm sorry - it's so hard losing a parent. ((()))
Condolences for the lost of your father❤️
Thanks so much, I really appreciate it!❤
Nancy, such heartfelt, beautiful words….. so many of us in our age group become caregivers…. and, yes, even in the hospital / assisted living and especially home care, WE are the caregivers. So much deeper I could go but your post is so relatable. How fortunate your dad was to have all of you and to be able to spend his last days at home.
So sorry for your loss. It’s so very hard losing our parents. It’s nice that you can move back to a home that’s filled with such wonderful memories.
Welcome back to Phillies/Eagles territory. I’m about 20 minutes outside of Philly on the Jersey side. We’re practically neighbors. 😂 ❤️
It’s so heartbreaking to lose our parents. I know some of what you’re going through because I was in very similar situations in 2010 and 2014. You’re NOT alone! Again, very sorry for your loss. However, the changes that are coming up for you and your husband are on such a positive note for the days and years ahead.
I'm very sorry for your loss; thank you for talking about this topic.
I am so sorry for your loss….What a wonderful video…. thank you for posting….I live in the Malibu area but am originally from the Philadelphia area (South Jersey) with many family members still there so I will be particularly interested in hearing more about your move back!
My condolences, I just got back from my aunt funeral, same exact story
Sending positive energy to you and your family
Oh, my, I’m so sorry. My father had the exact same thing happen. He died at age 60 five weeks after what was supposed to be routine gallbladder surgery. Now my mom is almost 89 and has Alzheimer’s. It’s a tough season of life
I am so sorry to hear that you lost your Dad and hope you know that all your viewers want the best for you and we know that there are things more pressing than style! I am currently cleaning out the house of my husband's cousin after caring for her and it is work to find the "right" disposition for everything. Fashion is fun, but we can wait while you deal with the true essentials of life. I live in Philadelphia; welcome back to the neighborhood. Our daughter went to grad school at UC Irvine and we loved going to Newport Beach, Balboa Island, etc., and while you are leaving a beautiful area, preservation of your family home is an opportunity many of us would like to have had. I saw the radiator behind you - you will need heat again! The elevator is cool - we have neighbors with one in their older home. The closets were very small in our house from the 1920s - interesting that even homes of well-to-do folks did not have very large closets, making me wonder if they did not have that much clothing because they bought fewer, better quality items, a "capsule wardrobe?" Thank you for trusting your viewers with your difficult news and I pray you will have peace, which is what your parents would want for you.
Hard times. One thing we can rely on in life is change even when it's a change we didn't want. I think it's great that you've decided to keep the childhood home and making it yours. And even though going through your parents' things deciding what to keep and what to donate is an ordeal, it is also a catharsis and part of the grieving process. In my experience you never get over the loss of people you truly loved. You just come to a place of acceptance. Best wishes to you and your family in this difficult time.
Hi Nancy...sorry to hear of your loss xxx...thinking of you and are here for you when you are ready❤
So sorry for your loss - I also experienced something very similar with my dad - now caring for mom with dementia. Appreciate your sharing this with us all! Blessings on going/being home!
Thank you for sharing a journey that many of us have travelled. Sending you love from down under. ❤
It's lovely to see you again Nancy...although so sorry to hear of your dad's passing. A very sad time for you and your family...its very good of you to share your story and feelings with others , because you're right -- we don't talk enough of these difficult periods of our lives..thank you. Xx
Nancy so very, very sorry for your loss. I’m glad that you were able to be with him. I lost my 65 year old sister last year and truly there is nothing that prepares you for that experience. Sending you hugs and support. I live in Doylestown, Bucks County if you ever find yourself up in this area ❤
What colour is the green of the walls please? It's lovely, and just what I need for my very hot laundry room. Also, why not build shelves in that tiny closet - it would look better than the old teak dresser.
My condolences to you and your family.
A lot of what you have shared resonates with me, similar experiences with my mother and my in-laws, it is very hard.
Wishing you much happiness as you return to PA.
I’m sorry for your loss. I’m glad you got to spend so much time with your dad towards the end. That’s important. I’m glad you shared this with everyone because you’re right, it’s not talked about very much and is important to talk about. I’m looking forward to more videos in your new space. By the way, I love your hair cut….who did it?
My deepest sympathy to you and your family! I know how hard it is to be a caregiver. We lost my dad and my father-in-law and now have my mom and MIL living with us. I work full time from home which thankfully allows me to look after them. It is exhausting though and we lose track of our own self care. Please take care of yourself as you go through the process of grieving and moving! P.S. - I think the desk area would make a lovely vanity area to store your makeup and display any perfumes, jewelry & accessories in one place.
Father peace love-comfort provision extended grace and mercy in the undefeated name of Jesus
Awe bless you
So happy that your family house brings more joy with the on going memories of your dad!
So happy you had time to be there for him.
And yay we are looking forward to 4 seasons wardrobe fresh ideas from you!
Looking to the future.
And God Bless your husband!
My heart goes out to you and your family, Nancy. Thank you so much for sharing your experiences with all of us, I went through the same things with my parents in the past few years and it's exhausting mentally, physically and emotionally. How wonderful that you decided to buy your parent's home, it broke me having to sell the home I grew up in. You feel so alone in this process but you've helped so many people today validating their own experience with this, letting them know they're not alone. Please take care and thank you for all of your amazing content.
I’m sorry for your loss. Praying for your new beginnings. 🙏❤️
Sending you lots of love and virtual hugs. You are quite right that nothing prepares you for this time of caring for ageing parents in the final stage of life, it's very hard. I lost both my parents just over a year ago, only 3 months apart. I was on my own as my brother lives overseas and my 30 year marriage had recently ended - I found it completely overwhelming. Take care and look after yourself
Sorry for your loss. We have missed your videos but are looking forward to seeing your fall and winter wardrobe tips now that you are joining those of us in PA. Especially need advice on winter hats for those of us over 60.
You are so right that we need to talk. It does ease the burden for everyone. My mum said 'I am going to die.' People couldn't believe, some appalled, my reply was 'I know mum.' I felt it was the way to be, open and truthful. We then talked and talked.
I feel for you as I lost both my parents in fourteen weeks. Look after yourself and 'do' RUclips whenever you feel ready.
I’m so sorry for your loss Nancy. I’m glad you shared this as I’m going through a very similar situation with my Dad. He needs sooo much care and my Mom is looking after him and is so burnt out. It’s so much and everything you said resonated with me. My mom has been looking after my dad for almost 3 years and exhausting is definitely the word! Ty again ❤
So sorry for your loss. Thanks for sharing your story. Although it has been 7 years since my Dad (second parent) passed, coincidentally I was going through some of his things a few hours ago and feeling sad. It’s wonderful that you have a large family for support and that you could move to your parents’ home with all of those memories. It looks like a really cool home. ❤
I'm praying for you and your family!
Thanks so much
So sorry for your loss. I truly believe that we need to be more open about life events! How do we learn if we don't talk! I lost my parents both in 1999! Wow can't believe it's been that long. I just found out this morning that a family friend/doctor has passed away. It is all part of life. That is why we must enjoy every step of the way. Looking forward to your new content when your ready.
I feel so sad for your loss but I feel you are so grateful that you spent valuable time with your Dad. It's such a tough time clearing out parents homes, we have done both parents homes & somehow it seems disrespectful 😢
Things settle in time
Absolutely love the lift in your new studio👏
Take time to grieve 🫂
so sorry for your loss, grieving is a rollercoaster of emotions, so exhausting. Take your time and look after your health.
I’m so very sorry for your loss and agree that caring for and then losing your parents is one of the greatest challenges that some people will face. Ironically, it’s bittersweet in that some people who end up losing their loved ones suddenly would want to being able to spend the time to say everything they needed to.
I cared for both of my parents for 3 years as they each fought terminal cancers- mom had lung cancer and my dad, like yours, had pancreatic cancer. No one asks if you will be the caregiver, nor are you asked if you are even qualified. You are swept into the role, uncompensated, unequipped and terrified. But I can assure you that, while that was almost 9 years ago now, there is no where else I’d rather have been and I am profoundly grateful for the opportunity to help them in their passing. As hard as it was, it was equally wonderful. The memories I have of that time are very precious.
I am so glad for you to be able to help your dad and your family through this.
The next part will be difficult also, as you navigate a new normal. Be sure to care for yourself, and to go at your own pace. May the time ahead provide you with the sweet memories of your dad, and provide you and your family strength and peace knowing he is sticking with you. ❤
Had to care for my parents in similar situations xxx much love❤