Our Interabled Love Life | TRULY
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- Опубликовано: 18 ноя 2024
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AFTER almost giving up on finding love, a quadriplegic has found his soul mate - at the rehabilitation centre that helped him with his paralysis. Cole Sydnor, from Richmond, Virginia had a life changing accident in August 2011, when diving in a local river and hitting a rock, that left him paralysed from the triceps down. The now 23-year-old has gone through rigorous rehabilitation to help accept his new body, but also found love in Charisma Jamison, who was a Rehabilitation Technician at the centre. The couple have been together for a year and now run a frank RUclips channel documenting their lives as a interabled couple and the discussions that come with it. See more of Cole and Charisma here: / @coleandcharisma
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I’m black and my boyfriend is white and also paraplegic. I never see my boyfriend’s disability, I just see him. It’s nice to know that I’m not alone.
While I'm not dating anyone with a disability, I do have two friends in wheelchairs, for different reasons and I myself never really 'noticed' the chair. Sure, I recognize that they're in one but it doesn't change anything for me, it's just how they get around. They're still funny and sarcastic, and sweet (sometimes annoying, but that's friends for ya) but I never once thought they were less than or different. It makes me sad that other people only see the chair and completely look over the person.
@@kwilson5724 i am myself in weelchair, my friends also see just me, not my weelchair. Thanks for your sweet words. We need more People who think this positive like you. 👏👏
selle well that’s how it should be! My friends are my friends and I don’t view them any differently. If they need help I help, but mostly they’re fine on their own and they just want to chill and have fun. My friend who’s in a chair due to a car accident, he gets bullied a lot for it and I still don’t understand it all. He’s so kind and hilarious and he’s a human so why bully him for being slightly different.
@@kwilson5724 I am so sad to hear that, that your friend got Bullied. He should just remeber that it dosent have anything to dö with him. People who Bully other People its cuz they are not happy with them selves. I never let anybody Bully me cuz of my chair and i dont care about what people say about me or my disabilty, cuz nobody is perfect. People who know me and mean something to me its them i care about. Tell your friend this 😎👏👏
@@amrah111ify I will! I tell him all the time that he's great company to be in and he's hilarious and always makes me smile. My friend and I tell him all the time he's an amazing person who deserves amazing friends. I feel bad that he gets bullied and it makes me so mad, but he's strong and if we stick together I know he'll be okay. He's an awesome guy!
I love how she adores him . Like when she talks to him it’s like her eyes light up . Their personality matches up so well
Ready clear app play accident occurred in August 2011 I was with some friends of the James river at a place called the pipeline and it's kind of like a rat Rapids I've done it all night wrap them I don't man and I aint a rock star just blow the surface of the water and I got a long star from here always like here and I'm like here and I'm just sitting on my neck and was the realized slice systems at the Verizon yeah no it's hard but the beef sticks
God sent him a angel she is beautiful and meant for you
Amen!!!!!
I believe in angels on earth n shes his angel. Bless ur union
@@soniasadventure7962 amen
Ty silents Amen to that
Amen
U can tell that she loves u, the way she looks at u and giggles
Beautiful bounding they have and they respect each other a lot ♥️
@@supriyamehra4281 😭
She’s fallen for him so deeply you can see it in her eyes as she smiles and looks at him.
I pray that they’ll love to blow a 120 candles in love and in joy. Such a splendid couple.
People thought the same thing about my ex and I until we had to divorce. No One Knows What Goes On Behind Closed Doors as the old song says.
@@ceegabe1555 aw thats sad, sorry to hear that.
don't see white men dating black women mostly lol
@@ceegabe1555 he could be verbally abusive
If cole wasnt disabled he would not be with black girls im addressing the elephant in the room nobody wants to be say it...he has no choice right now cause we know coming from slavery most white women dont want to be caregivers or maids...
Charisma is undeniably beautiful but her personality is everything. They are adorable and exude positivity.
Beautiful couple you guys are! Ms Lady, I love how you look at him... it's real what you have. I'm (interracial) married, it'll be 6 yrs this June 2019. When you talked about being asked where do you think you'll be in 5 yrs & your response was mine 5yrs previous. I had no idea what God was up to! Everyday is an expectation and excitement like I've never had before. Loved this video... I pray everything continues to go and grow for you both...your families (his mom) also. ❤️🙏🏽
Charisma is an awesome human being and the same is true of Cole. Please support their channel and subscribe!
Why support the channel to support charisma lifestyle yet she wont give a dime back to the black community. They hide behind the word positivity to get more subscribers.
He's a handsome dude and she's so cute . I wish them all the happiness in the world because they deserve it !
Sellout
dlovingly she’s gorgeous! They are def a lovely couple.
@@gabbye4986 we will see when the race war happens, sellout.
@@blacklightning1851 I feel bad for you
dlovingly Let's help them spread the message of happiness and positivity. Go check out their RUclips channel.
This made me shed more tears. I was in a LDR with one Canadian guy for 1 year 7month. His families were so fond of me even though, they had never met me in person. Everything was great between us. We set a date to meet in my country (Ghana). Exactly one week 4 days to his flight, he had a car crash. The family and I rescheduled the flight so I could rather be with him. His only wish was to see me in person. I started with the necessary procedures. Hopping to show him that,, no matter the circumstances, I still love and cherish him. But unfortunately, he passed away 5 days later. I would preferred him in a wheelchair, roam around the house with him. But God's ways are not ours.
PRECY & TOM I’m really sorry for your loss ❤️
I'm so sorry,your heart must've broke. He passed away knowing he had a beautiful woman who loved him.🥺 Keep the faith 🙏🏼💞 God-Bless U 🙏🏼❣️
My heartfelt condolences ❤️and yes God is Omniscient and we just surrender to Life. Blessed are those who mourn, they will be comforted.🙏 to you.
That broke your heart.
I'm sorry for your loss ❤
This gives me hope for my son. Thank you.
Jennifer Murrell I’m sure your son will find a wonderful woman meant for him. 😊
So true Jennifer , love is more important than anything in this world
Jennifer Murrell He sure will find some1 and he will find a woman who deserves him.a woman who will not see his disability but his kind heart and agood person he is.May GOD bless him .praying for his healing!
Awww ❤
What happened?
OMG! This couple is EXACTLY like my late husband and me! I'm black. I met and married a much younger white guy who was a quidriplegic already when I met him in a nursing home in June, 1998! He was my soulmate and LOVE OF MY LIFE! His name was Perry Jackson, Jr. So happy to see another mixed race couple just like Perry and me! God bless the two of them!
Wholesome and pure ♡ the world needs more people likr you. Bless your heart
Would love to see past pictures of you two together.
Right.
What happened to him? Why ' he was'?
@@whiterose6186 Because he died Jan. 23, 2006.
She is so beautiful. Soooooo, nobody's going to say it?
Yes, she is !!!
She is,they both are good looking
She is Stunning ! but what really matters is the inward beauty she oozes. Cole has the same qualities! Gorgeous couple!
cause it's obvious
I mean so is he! A very good looking couple and if they have children they will be very adorable
He has a super supportive family and naturally manifested a super supportive partner. Her eyes say it all.
Noticed
Wow.....my ex boyfriend was paraplegic and in a wheelchair. I'm a black girl and my guy was black as well but many would ask me, "girl, how can you be with someone in that condition".....they didn't understand. He was a lot of fun, very independent, we did a lot together. I met him at church at singles conference. He was very attractive, very attentive. He drove. Had his own truck and house. He opened doors for ME!We studied the bible together. He was very active and fit and participated in power lifting. ONLY problem was he suffered from PTSD and that part I could not work through. I was willing, but he didnt want the help. But I just want peop to know, that it is possible to love and have a relationship with someone who is different or have a disability.... Everyone deserves to be loved. God bless you both
So sorry it didn't work out. PTSD must be a terrible thing 😣. Jesus bless you.
I pray that he will get help and GOD bring you two together again. God willing. But....if not I pray GOD send you the ONE.
Thank you for sharing your story. I got choked up
Praise God !!
Huge appluase to you best wishes to you ..blessings
She looks at him with such love.
The camera is rolling...
You can really tell she loves him there's this look she gives him 😍
They ALL do when they get with the copy-Man. When's the last time you seen a "Black" chick look at a "Black" man like that? ...I'll wait.🤔
@@trillionbtamillion or vise versa lol. When did you see a black man look at a black woman like that?
@@chemybamford9919 I do with my woman.
She’s a for sure keeper man! You’re a lucky guy as she is a lucky girl. Wish you two the best
Is this the real Tom Cruise??!!!!!!!!
Smiles and the Twisted MD pretty shitty thing to call someone a gold digger that you don’t even know. You seem like the jealous type
Lola Oladapo duh
Tom Cruise exactly! Thank you for putting her in her place! Jealousy is truly ugly!
@Smiles and the Twisted MD you need Jesus!
From this video, I can tell that the girl is very kind, positive, and caring people. She is an angel. Very good for the boy!
They’re perfect for each other.
How?
Cee Gabe Love
🤗👋👋hello fellow PC Fam
Yes
Shes a servant ....this video is not a win for black women shes making us look bad
But he's handsome though...lol they are a beautiful couple...
So why no white girls wanted him?
He is handsome
He is handsome. And he has a great personality.
Becky didnt want to wipe his ayas, that speaks volumes people..
@@jesuswilljudge7296 how do you know no white girls wanted him. They met at his rehab, he might have had girls outside of that. When they met they clicked and he knew and she knew that they were ment for each other
They’re a really attractive couple
Don’t know why this randomly got recommended for me but he’s from my home area and went to school with my family. What happened is really sad but he’s truly making the best out of this situation and that positive outlook and motivation is amazing.
Wonderful
He is so handsome omg and she’s so pretty 😭😭😭
Precious OGIE i agree!!! So beauitful !!!
Facts 😫
They are a beautiful couple inside and out! That’s for sure!
sooooo handsome
Facts your the ones i find this comment
I feel so sorry for people who are prejudice, because when GOD sends your true sole mate, one can miss out on an amazing blessing. What a beautiful couple , God bless you Cole and Charisma!!
Amen👏👏👏👏👏i love your comment.
So sad so many disrespectful comments made about race. They are happy and in love.
Edit: so ty for pointing this out. It’s a blessing. Not a place for interracial relationship comments.
..exactly🙌🏾
Amen
Very true
She is just so beautiful it's unreal.
Plus, clearly her soul is just as beautiful.
Wonderful strong woman, great couple.
4:00 you find out the disabled white dude is loaded
4:00 you find out the disabled white dude is loaded
ツA 1 HahA lol
Shes a servant and u white women are happy about that...
@@jesuswilljudge7296 you need to stop
He’s attractive with an amazing personality and she is beautiful with an amazing personality ...Beautiful couple when it’s real it’s real and not even a disability can defer true love period 😍😍😍
True well said
you are blessed i was married for 20 years before i had my stroke losing half my body my wife divorced me saying, "I didn't sign up to be married to someone disabled!" Stories like yours gives me hope i won't be alone forever- thx for that
Wow isn't that an integral part of marriage vows for better or worse .shameful.
Sorry to hear that!
Thats what white women do thats why they didnt want cole . That speaks volumes
Sorry to hear that, my son in-law told my daughter that he was leaving her because she was ugly and fat.
Thats very sad to hear that..i dont think race plays a role on who will stay or who will leave..you have loving angels or heartless devils..so this not a white woman thing...god bless you ..you will find your angel..🙏🙏
Aww hes such a beautiful soul! God bless you both
No she’s dumb ! She needs to move on !
@@marcusmagice Your username checks out. Fuckface.
EvilEddy YOU BETTER BACK OFF OF THEM!! She is not dumb, either of them are dumb. They are both beautiful and have beautiful spirits and are in a better head spaces then you. GO SIT DOWN SOMEWHERE AND GET A GRIP ON YOU LIFE🤬🤬🤬
◇DeonggideoK-KungdeoreoreO◇ 👋🏾👋🏾
Lol god doesn't exist
My son has mild cerebral palsey, and is super handsome, bright, funny, intelligent, fun, adventurous...i pray God sends him a beautiful abled women in his life to balance it all and keep up with him LOL...he wants a family... this gives me hope!...
God bless and be with him.
What if she is not abled or beautiful?
Here iam you connect me as well
Oh i pray for you my sister, there are nathing impossible for God. Love from Ethiopia.
@@catherinelighton9697 beautiful is internal...if that light shines the brightest , by who's beauty standards do we follow
I am a woman with wheelchair. Your story is so encouraging to me.
I was born with muscular dystrophy but experienced a lot in my life so most people think I was in an accident. Ever since I left High School I haven't dated much due to being sick and just one thing happening after another. To be honest, I was starting to lose hope and feel like I may never live differently than I am now. I feel like I'm just doing what it takes to survive rather than actually living. But videos like this are what give me reassurance and faith that , if I just put myself out there a little more, I will find the right person for me and there will be someone that understands my situation and I won't have to be insecure or embarrassed. You guys are a lovely couple and many prayers to both of you!
Hey where are you at?first of all I need you to know that you don't have to be embarrassed about anything just as you are you are wonderfully created and you are beautiful you have a very warm personality the world wouldn't be the same without you❤xoxo from Kenya
Everyone has a special someone out there . You are right , stay positive! Much love!
Raven Uribes of course you will find someone, don’t ever lose hope! I believe there is someone for everyone. Everyone falls in love. You’ll find your special someone some day, and it’s going to be amazing. ♥️
I have muscular dystrophy too!
Godbless you, you will find someone❤
Interabled and interracial couple. His house is equipped with a elevator, and everything needed to live well, they are really well off, their house is stunning, and huge! God bless them! Beautiful couple!
No offense. But an elevator with a banner of women of his own race in bikinis plastered on the walls. Not respectful to his current relationship.😞
@@ceegabe1555 I don't make who a person is attracted to, so no offense is taken by me, but all races of women should be in the elevator banner, to show all the beauty there is in the world. Black beauty is not really promoted in America, like it should be, which may be the reasoning behind many people sticking to their own races, and not thinking outside of the box for relationships, friendships, and love.
@@prettylyricsmarie If it was a husband or boyfriend posting the pictures on the wall while in a relationship with any woman, I think she would feel it was Inappropriate.
If She posted pictures in their home of sexy, half-clothed, buffed black men standing around with flexed muscles in their home, I am certain he would feel offended and probably tear it down.
Unattached men and some women do that but adults in SERIOUS relationships usually think about the feelings of their significant others first- if they are serious about the relationship.
@@ceegabe1555Very true. Thank you for sharing your opinions and views, and maybe this couple might take your good advice on how to maintain serious relationships with love and respect.
They could you and electrical life to put him in and out of the chair
She’s GORGEOUS wow he’s a lucky guy man
Smiles and the Twisted MD
Youre Such a negative person and sad person! Jealousy is not a good emotion, go find your happiness! Stay positive ....not negative!
Take care☺
Asking the real questions my Gs
Smiles and the Twisted MD if you follow them you would know that Cole stated how Charisma made more money than him! The only conclusion to make from your negative statement is that you just can’t wrap your mind around her being with Cole and not having a physical disability. Could it be that they are both beautiful individuals that have a-lot more in common. The one thing that I love about them and as a whole their subscribers is that that they are positive. Out of all of their videos, and all of the comments you are the first rude, mean spirited, just plain nasty comment that I’ve read. I hope you stay off this channel if you just want to spread your evil, negative comments!
vinessa wess Amen! Thank you for boldly stating the truth.
Lala B he is handsome too!! Both are lucky for having each other
Amazes me how far Cole has come since his accident. I'll never forget the love and support our school mates showed him during his recovery. Most everyone stopped jumping from the bridge after his accident thankfully but there still some ppl that jump and if not from the bridge they jump from the train tracks... makes me rethink jumping when I was younger but best believe I'll never do it again. Love to see how he has overcome so much and found love ❤️😊
Don’t call the girl a “hero” for being in a relationship, please. Disabled people aren’t a liability for our friends and family, and no one is “heroic” for living with us and spending time with us.
Ellie exactly. My brothers disabled and it’s not like I’m a hero for being his sister. I understand the sentiment but it’s not like disabled people have a terminal illness.
Ellie shut up
She's a hero emotionally for him
Ellie there not saying she’s a hero for being in a relationship ship she’s a hero bc she stays with 24/7 and she’s nice and she loves bc his personality bc he’s not so down on himself bc he’s paralyzed he’s happy
Ellie I understand how you may feel with that term “hero” being used for someone who is in a relationship with a physically disabled person but it depends how you look at it. She can be a hero in so many ways. Let’s be realistic... it isn’t easy easy finding a person who can be committed like this young lady has shown us when you don’t have a disability let alone when you have one. And remember that anyone can be a hero. He might be her hero as well. He might be the best thing that’s ever happened to her.
Aww this gives me hope from missing a leg due to a drunk driver that i will find my special someone
Jesus bless you and give you a wonderful husband💙🤗
Barbara D Amen!🙌
@@Gold_woods 🤗
Your special someone will find you and they’ll be lucky.
Thanks everyone that really warmed my heart
I'm paralyzed..I had my x wife walk out on me..I've had ppl tell me to crawl..Im glad you 2 found each other. GOD BLESS YOU
Jesse Carson
SWEETIE...GOD BLESS YOU...
PERHAPS CAN YOU SHARE YOUR STORY WHAT HAPPENED? ?
God bless and happy holidays.
Wow. Bless you 💕
I pray God send you a great person who loves you for you. In Jesus Name. Amen
Jesse Carson that’s so sad ☹️ you’ll find love again
They are happily married 4 months now a dog an trying for a baby so happy for them 🥰🥰
My friend has a spinal cord injury. I'm going to show her this video cause I want her to find her soulmate too
AWESOME
You're a true definition of a real friend, God bless you
I have said a prayer for your friend. She is lucky to have you! Be blessed.
Me...
See, Us black women make gr8 companions/mates 4 a man we Love.... all of us aren't ratchet, loud and unsupportive as Many Men and Society so desperately paints us out 2 be.
We are not looking to be servants to other races because we are black either.
optimisticgirl07 She may not be ratchet, but are you? This woman is a rarity.
Facts
@@ShadaeMastersAstrology - huh? Did i say she was ratchet? No. My point was for those who claim us black ladies are only as i described. I was pointing out how she is NOT the stereotype we are often pegged by. You, however, came at me as The stereotype, ready 2 fight without gaining understanding first. Wow. No need to respond back. Carry on.
@@optimisticgirl07 alot of those stereotypes are made by black men themselves.
I agree with a comment below. Not all disabled people have to be with disabled people. I am disabled person myself (amputee) and I would not want to be with a disabled person. Why? Because I want my limitations to be filled by someone else. For example, I can't hold my babies(twins) when I put on my prosthetic legs. Imagine how disastrous it would be if I had an amputee as a husband. We would have to rely on other people. I am someone that likes to be independent unless only when I am helped by someone very close to me like my mom or husband. But that is just my opinion so don't chew me guys 😂😂 I love that Charisma can help Cole when Cole needs something like picking something for him. I am so happy to see their channel grow. I hope I grow big someday too here on youtube!
I loved your reply☺️. I just subscribed to your channel too!!!
I'm already a subbie on channel ❤
Neo KirchBaby I love the honesty of your comment. Thank you for sharing with sincerity.
Great comment!
I am gonna subscribe to your channel ♥️💕
This woman is everything I want to to be. So kind and full of life and love to give
I pray I find true love. I don't care what the condition, I just need a soulmate.
@noyb noyb don't jump to conclusions. How do I seem desperate to you? Coz I just prayed for a soulmate no matter what they look like, so are you suggesting that I should care about their physical appearance or something?
I can feel u on THAT..everyone needs love..nothing wrong with praying for a kind, gentle soul to walk this life with.❤
I don't see anything about her comment being desperate..she simply stated what she wanted. That's all.
Girl I feel you😂
Amen
They’re soooooo freaking CUTEEEE together. OMGGGGG!
Sellout
Now you know why us C&C subbies are so hooked. Go check out their channel!
Howtomve when your sick.
This is the most wholesome video I've seen in a while. Both seem like very nice people. Wish them the best going forward.
I love how they together say "Stay Positive"
I love that too. It is so well said when they say it at the End. Stay positive 🖐🖐
They are both blushing when together, can tell that the love is genuine. ❤😍
Go check out their channel.
Charisma could not have been more aptly named.
Jeff Duke STRIPPER!!!
@@pinksands5873 Aww, it's you again Chad. Must suck being so miserable. We both know why you don't like her...
@@pinksands5873 Showing her in the almost bare-body bathing suits while he cuddles her makes her seem to be other than the nice girl she initially appeared to be. Wonder who instigated these negative images. Makes her appear to be ????
Its a ebonics name smh
He slaps her butt and has her toungue on her neck in the thumbnail. He has no respect hes doing this at the expense of a bw.
She's no ordinary gal that Charisma.She's heaven send,just for you Cole !
In Vino Veritas , she was, that.
You’re so right!
the way charisma looks at him my 😢😢😢😢 goodness...this love is pure...
How in the heck did 152 people thumb this down? Geez. Negative Nancies or racists? Probably both. They're in love - thumb it up and be happy for them. Sheesh.
Hey I liked how u said thumb this down and thumb this up instead of like and dislike😂
Exactly
I cant belive it eather!!!! Why cant we happy for them
I respect you 👍
It’s most likely majority racists.
I sometimes wonder why amazing videos like this has dislikes, but then I realize the world we live in
Myb they dont wanna press like to this guys situation?
Sweetie people just dislike because they can
The way y’all look at each other 😩 I’m wheelchair bound, I have brittle bone disease and I’ve been in a lot of (unsuccessful) relationships and only one was in a wheelchair. Sometimes I get doubtful that I’ll ever find someone that will love me for me but this made me smile. I’m so happy for y’all❤️❤️ wish you nothing but the best.
You will♥️💕♥️💕
I'm sorry your relationships have been unsuccessful so far but don't give up! I know my situation is different but I'm 2016 I was diagnosed with a facial bone cancer. I'm still going with reconstruction now but I'm FINALLY begining to love myself and date again 💖💖 don't worry. U have a while life ahead of you. He/she will come 😁💖💖
Mya Ny’cole you got this love be strong the right one will come in due time
Thank y’all so much 💓💓 I wish you all the best
Sorry boo im so sorry
Imagine this world with No racism....
Man it would be the most beautiful thing
It will be so beautiful
We wouldn’t have half the problems we have now
The way to reduce it: teach your kids that everyone should be treated equally. The next generation is going to be the most open if we teach our kids to be friends with people no matter their colour
It will be very very very...very nice
well this video made me smile like an idiot 😂😂😍
Me too! Lol
Same! 😊
Same sis
Same here! One awesome couple, may God bless them!!!
Me too😍☺️
*This is beautiful every decent person deserves love*
Sellout
So non-decent persons are undeserving of love?
@@blacklightning1851 You don't know her story. She doesn't have to prove anything.
@@blacklightning1851 why is she a sell out. Ignorant much..
@@floatingchimney YES....
She's a keeper you look so happy together you compliment each other.
She's so so pretty, I can't
And he's also so good looking
But most importantly both of them seem to have a great personality and they're super hardworking from what I can see.
I went to school with Cole & I didn't know him during that time & I still don't know him now but this is very heartwarming to see. I'm glad he's found someone who genuinely cares for him & will treat him right.
So what happen to all the white girls he dated before the injury....
Why the bw have to save the massa and be the slave servant??? why u white girls couldnt wipe his ayas 24/7 as handsome you people say he is?????
Why bw have to save massa and always be the caring servant type
If you're new to Cole and Christmas Story, you really need to check their RUclips Vlogs out at, roll with Cole and Charisma. They are so positive and they also shows that even though you may have a disability, there is really no limit to what you can achieve in life. #staypositive
she has such a beautiful spirit. God bless this couple ;)
A jsm are you single baby
Yesss this happened to me as well so I love seeing this... ❤️ I’m Asian and my paraplegic bf is white. We have an amazing life together both in and out of the bedroom with tons of love. Life is beautiful for us and I’m grateful to have found such an amazing man.
So awesome. Thanks for sharing. I am in so in love with this couple so I am blessed to know there are other couples enjoying their lives to the fullest in love.
@@ingridhenryherbert330 I forgot I left this comment months ago! Very sweet of you. Sadly, I had to leave him due to his infidelity of talking to/meeting other women behind my back. Him being in a wheelchair didn’t phase his confidence lol I truly loved him wholeheartedly and wanted to get married but I found out he was selfish and not faithful so it wasn’t meant to be. No ill will against him and he’s still a good friend. The experience did teach me so much about myself, that I can love someone unconditionally and look past a disability. Everyone is deserving of love. Staying single until the right one comes along! ❤️ have an amazing day!
@@KittenKartell OH my God. I am so sorry to hear but nothing happens by accident You will one day find your true love because you gave your love unconditionally.
@@ingridhenryherbert330 thank you!!🥰🥰🥰 I’m still hopeful on it!!!
@@KittenKartell I like u really
👧👧❤❤😍😍🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷
Well u merry me ??
She's so pretty. I'm in a wheelchair now & my husband says I'm to much to care for. He's lucky.
Amber Osburn - I hope he treats you right.
@Africa Everything - Amen 🙏🏽
i hope you pray to god so he changes his heart, love should not be heavy. sooo, he should see you as heavy weight
@Anticrap oh shut up she can talk about it if she wants to have some compassion
@Anticrap wow your so wrong about me and that was really not advice you bashed her and i didnt insult anyone
They are such a beautiful couple!!! You can see the love they have for each other. I will definitely check out their RUclips channel.
Lena you should totally check out their RUclips channel!!
I agree 😱 so beautiful together they are .
You love someone for who they are.It isn't about "overlooking" a disability.Disability is only a small part of who we are.Im not the girl with cerebral palsy.Im the artist,poet,singer,the one to put a smile on everyone's faces.Dont limit yourself just because your not completely able bodied.We are Hani-capable of anything we set our mind to.Everyone is deserving of love,I have cerebral palsy and have an able-bodied boyfriend.We are also expecting our first child,love knows no bounds.So no it's not something you overlook,you love the person for who they are nomatter their limitations♥️
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This is so beautiful. Unconditional LOVE is the greatest of all.
Who ever gave it a thumbs down, your miserably lonely
Pray for those ppl they have serious problems
And jealous
People love to hate, key board warriors hate the most, internets
Is their best friend🤣they are living their best life are you🤔
Agreed
Please stop insulting the miserably lonely. Were not monsters. I gave this 👍
Cole and Charisma are my FAVORITE!!!!i love them so much and support them 100%!!! I love the positivity and awareness they put out into the world! We need more of that rather than negativity and judgement! I’m so happy for them and that they’re on Barcroft!!!
Beautiful as ever I enjoyed every moment so genuine and loving positively rolling on to great things love to you all
My darling
Beautiful couple I love your enthusiasm God Bless you both
Love the way he looks at her
After watching this video I’m definitely going to stop 🛑 complaining about my social disability (autism) and practice gratitude and stay positive
I'm autistic and I know it''s okay to complain sometimes. Even though you should try to be positive and optimistic you also need to watch out for toxic positivity.
Hey Roll W/Cole and Charisma!!! Love y’all!! Keep pushin’!!! ♥️♥️♥️
Sellout
I went to school with this guy! He’s awesome!
I BET HE NEVER DATED A BLACK GIRL NOW SHE IS HIS SERVANT....DUH
What happened to that catchy slogan posted in his mom's vlog about his school community being there for him forever?? Where are ALL the white male and female schoolmates who were supportive of him during his initial days after his accident? Show your faces, he needs you now...
@Max Culley
@A Pimp Named Slickback Percent it's true. He has white girl on his wall. This black thot doesn't even get the hint. He still like white girls.
Where are all the white girls he dated though? They took off after his injury smh...oh thats right white women arent maids or caregivers that comes from slavery
A movie would be so awesome!!♥️♥️
Ever seen ' Me Before You'? .
Me before you
Yup
Unique Investor Concepts me before you
Abdulfatah Yasin
Thank you found it😊
I have a disability called cerebralpalsy and it's caused because of a brain injury, I was dropped a few days after I was born, they thought I would never be able to walk, I started to walk at five years old and because of surgery, I have to walk with a walker and use a wheelchair (I just hope it isn't forever!) I also have one leg shorter than the other. Your story is so inspiring to me and I to have thought I would never found love but love should discriminate thank you for sharing 💞
My grandmother says about love - "every pot has its cover". Never give up hope for love.
I seriously dated a guy with one leg, in a chair sometimes, And I couldn’t believe how rude people were to come up and tell him how lucky he was to be with me. I would tell them the luck is all mine. And far from being less strong, his fake leg makes a great weapon when necessary! We ended up splitting due to various issues such as addiction and different core beliefs, but our different abilities had nothing to do with it. He did very well in & out of his chair 😉.
Stop lieing
@@LisaLisa-hn5sz 😂😂😂😂
@@LisaLisa-hn5sz 😭😭😭
The Life -Maybe people said that he was the lucky one was because you were able to look past his disability. Which most people can’t. 🤷🏽♀️
The Life because people are mean evil and nasty!
Man bro you are lucky to have her in your life. Treat her the same way she treats you. Not everyone gets the opportunity to come across their soulmate. This is how all couples should look out for each other and support one another and stack that mula together. Your best friend/lover+money= magic
This is amazing! Great job Cole and Charisma! Well done, Barcroft..😄💕
Nice to see you guys again!
@@starkiller23610 Thanks! Nice to see you, too! 😉😄💕
Aww, I love your channel!
Thank you! We love you too!
I absolutely love this couple! The way she gazes into his eyes says a lot.
Y’all. They cute and all but everyone seems to forget the mom. She the real MVP
That's true. His mom is awesome. She is the main one doing to hard slog work day-to-day. And with a very positive attitude, which influences Cole to stay positive himself.
@@ananse77 Good mothers love and care for their children, regardless. He is blessed to have her.
His mom is AWESOME. Because of HER mother's love and devotion, he has come a very long way. BLESS her for her love and many sacrifices for her wonderful son.
True charisma is not the real mvp she just took over what his mom did for years
I want them married now.
Kiley xoxo Right we demand a wedding!!
PERIODT Sis!
Lol. Me too.
Yeah! So true! It's just beautiful to see people falling deeply in love 💕
Lol IKR. So cute
Whenever I get super sad about life, I come here and everything is suddenly better. Not because of anything other than how beautiful I think you guys are. I hope you stay together forever ❤
You two are absolutely adorable! A great relationship is all about loving each other, being kind , communicating, being positive and having the right mindset. Physical aspects are really aren’t that important as long as you are attracted to each other.
I love Charisma motto saying that a disability does not define someone. This is so true. Although my husband's situation is a temporary paralysis, your channel has helped me through this debilitating disease. Crazy thing is that I have been watching you all before Guillian Barre Syndrome effected my husband. I guess that's why I really appreciate you, Charisma looking beyond Coles disability because it really does not define who he is it just adds character, strength, and who he is as a person.
Awesome couple😊 I’m also in a wheelchair and married to a healthy man. It’s so important to show the world that it’s normal to be a couple with different (dis) abilities. It happens so often to me that people see my wedding band and the next second they say: “and he is also in a wheelchair? Which kind of disability does he have?” And when I tell them that he is healthy, they tell me, what an awesome man he must be... why? Because he married a disabled woman? 🤔 of course he just did it because he wants to do something good🙈 yeah he is awesome and I love him so much❤️
Wishing you guys all the best for your future, I know you will rock it 😀👍🏻
Well said..
When he said help a brother out 😂😂😂
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I donno what that's mean. Somebody tell me
Video Fever commonly said by Black men referring to brother comaraderie among Black men. Brother now shortened to "bruh" i.e . " Help a bruh out." This is why it's comical used the term"Help a brother out." Clearly Charisam and Cole are rubbing off on each other. Personally, I don't think they will marry. He may end up with a White woman once the giddy phase is over.
Denise Dean they’re engaged now
@@denisedean2446 ummm interesting! How can you tell ?
If I had my way, everybody would be subscribed to Roll with Cole and Charisma. They're everything!
wow I noticed 68 people disliked this video please take your hate somewhere!
ProVersion Source like some people are sick .... there’s nothing to dislike
I would love to believe those were accidents...
The dislikes are probably from incel type people who are bitter and lonely tbh or maybe stupid racists
Exactly
ProVersion Source 👏
They are are a fabulous couple. Not cheesy, or cringmaking
Such a beautiful couple. She looks like Lauren London mixed with Regina Hall. She is beautiful💘💗🔥
and a Lil of Vanessa Hudgens too (＊￣︶￣＊)
Woah she does
Shes average people
He's lucky to have this sista by his side
Sorry I can’t help but smile the whole time watching this video like a creep. I’m so happy for the both of them and I hope this kind of love last forever. Wishing you two nothing but happiness! ❤️❤️❤️
I didn't even see the whole story yet and I'm already loving this couple!
Are we going ignore that the guy is very handsome and respectful lovely couple
This happens to too many people... Don't jump off bridges or into rivers... It's not worth the risk.
Lol what I was thinking
I love this couple! They're so positive, adventurous, funny, and beautiful! Thank you for featuring them on your channel.
The way you are raised as a child
Determines your personality and behavior as an
Adult!. You have
Free will and you
Can choose to
Be kind, loving
And humble!.
Years ago my ex which was my first was paralyzed also. I wanted to marry him but his mom said no because she stated my son cant please u sexually. I told her that didn't matter. His part didn't work but i sincerely loved him nd ward willing to take care of him. Sadly he passed about a year after because she placed him in a home and kept him confined to a bed.
I love how her eyes and smile shine so bright when she looks at him. I love them together. What a lovely couple. ❤😊
Interabled, interracial, beautiful couple.
I am so pleased to witness that they are happy together .
He is one lucky guy to have a beautiful spirit of a girlfriend
Super lucky....she's beautiful inside and out
@@ayana188 You're probably not aware of how exactly cheesy "beautiful inside and out" sounds. It's cringe worthy every time I see it.
@@floatingchimney THEY ARE A BEAUTIFUL COUPLE INSIDE AND OUT!!😚
Lucky to have a servant slave yes
You can tell she’s very in love with him and vice versa..I love it❤️❤️❤️