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  • Опубликовано: 10 авг 2021
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  • @coleandcharisma
    @coleandcharisma  2 года назад +2621

    Thank you for this, Charisma, and thank you to everyone who contributed. I love y’all ❤️

    • @Rae8Anne
      @Rae8Anne 2 года назад +38

      We love ya, Cole!

    • @tcmomcoffey4028
      @tcmomcoffey4028 2 года назад +41

      Thank u both for sharing 💓 love u all

    • @liltbennet
      @liltbennet 2 года назад +57

      We truly do love you Cole! We're rooting and praying for you, Charisma and Sophie. I feel blessed to be a longtime subscriber. Because of your story, I make sure I consider people with disabilities in conversations about revising my city's transit system with my local officials. Your impact is truly profound. 😀

    • @samanthablakeley9019
      @samanthablakeley9019 2 года назад +41

      Charisma’s Dad is wearing a shirt that says “Promoted to Grandpa 2022” …. Is this news???

    • @coleandcharisma
      @coleandcharisma  2 года назад +96

      @@samanthablakeley9019 no no haha. My brothers wife is expecting 🤗 - Charisma

  • @biolife3274
    @biolife3274 2 года назад +2459

    This is what being a damn good parent creates. These two. Put everything into your kids, and I mean everything. They all deserve it. To have a beautiful life.

    • @exceptionaltalentspc4954
      @exceptionaltalentspc4954 2 года назад +66

      Good parenting is key. The results of good and bad parenting is what makes the society we have today.

    • @biolife3274
      @biolife3274 2 года назад +19

      @@exceptionaltalentspc4954 100% agree

    • @chauna5413
      @chauna5413 2 года назад +27

      Yes I constantly look at other people's family and say wow they're parents are really invested in them. Wish my parents were like that , anyways still blessed to have them and life. God bless everyone

    • @heatherlorscheider7758
      @heatherlorscheider7758 2 года назад +21

      That what I always say I hope I'm a good parent and all I dream of is that my children are good people. These two are wonderful people.

    • @deemichelle
      @deemichelle 2 года назад +12

      Beautifully stated. Wish more did as you suggest. The world would be so much better. 💯 🙏🏽 ❤

  • @ace-vb7lw
    @ace-vb7lw 2 года назад +1021

    when a man finds a wife, he finds a good THING!!! Praise and love to you guys!

    • @linana2030
      @linana2030 2 года назад +12

      Literally

    • @daphnehenry8577
      @daphnehenry8577 2 года назад +7

      Amen!

    • @lynettejohnson8418
      @lynettejohnson8418 2 года назад +6

      You two are an Awesome couple!! Many Blessing from GOD to you both!!🙏🙏🙏💕

    • @janeal6510
      @janeal6510 2 года назад +6

      Exactly. That’s what this is. They are such a beauty to behold and watch. I’m bawling tears of joy. Cole is a champion!

    • @ejanielaji2332
      @ejanielaji2332 2 года назад +2

      Amen God is sure keeping them both.🙏👀🥀🥀🥀🇨🇦

  • @SidraAdele
    @SidraAdele Год назад +187

    I’m sitting here at least 10 minutes after the video ended trying to stop the tears and I can’t. I’m speechless. The love, the true essence of family, the spirit of perseverance… I see God in the two of you and the life you have built together. I wish you both nothing but the best for your future.

  • @hummingbird11
    @hummingbird11 Год назад +8

    It's a strange coincidence that this story popped up in my main feed.
    On April 19, 2023, the worst news was relayed to me.
    I met a lovely man in December 1991.
    I became a nanny for his three beautiful children back then.
    On March 6, 2023, he got out of bed that morning,
    entered the washroom, & unexpectedly blacked out.
    When falling, he hit his head on the edge of the bath tub.
    He is currently paralyzed from the neck down.
    He went from a healthy 63 year old man, to this.
    He was a soccer player, a coach, a mentor,
    a hiker, a cross country skier, a traveller.
    He lived in the country with clean air.
    He never used drugs,
    didn't smoke, & was a light drinker.
    In a split second, his whole world changed.
    It also changed for his wife, & his grown children.
    My heart aches.
    I hope that one day,
    he will become a Cole.
    Stay strong, & God speed. ❤

  • @jeanineberna8458
    @jeanineberna8458 2 года назад +445

    My husband got injured in HS football, 1976. I met him in 1980. We clicked immediately at a party. I knew he was the love of my life, we have been married for 39+ yrs! 4 daughters, 4 sons in law, 4 awesome grandkids! He’s been such an independent man for all of our time together, but 6 yrs ago, he sustained a wound on his butt, it went down to the bone. So, now he’s been mostly bedridden since then. He’s my life partner & best friend, so I take care of him! He’s such an inspiration for me, because he doesn’t complain about what happened to him. Our grandchildren surround him in his bed & just talk to him & watch movies with him! Never give up!! Life is precious as long as we breathe!❣️💖💙🥰

    • @yvonnehull8081
      @yvonnehull8081 2 года назад +18

      How beautiful your message is. It’s inspiring!!! Thank you and God bless you and your family.

    • @jeanineberna8458
      @jeanineberna8458 2 года назад +2

      @@yvonnehull8081 thank you 😊

    • @ruthrudnik1622
      @ruthrudnik1622 2 года назад +21

      My husband had a sacral wound acquired in the hospital which became stage 4 after the staff dropped him from a hoyer lift and destroyed his coccyx. The wound was as big and deep as a tennis ball. Hospital and nursing home didn't cure it but I brought him home and with the wound care center and learning to dress it myself, it has finally, healed, filled in and closed. It took six months. My husband is 76.

    • @LadyV7
      @LadyV7 2 года назад +8

      @@ruthrudnik1622 that is great news. I'm happy for him😊

    • @deborahfranklin9370
      @deborahfranklin9370 2 года назад +3

      Beautiful message ❤

  • @speaktruth9631
    @speaktruth9631 2 года назад +448

    Two great sets of parents and one Amazing wife. I'm crying.

    • @jessicaculver6198
      @jessicaculver6198 2 года назад +7

      And a wonderful man alot of woman need to learn to look at what theyre lookin for ot except past as reason to not hold his wife and family up

    • @liliankimani9524
      @liliankimani9524 11 месяцев назад

      Yes it's very emotional

  • @MsNotaBene
    @MsNotaBene 2 года назад +118

    Being depressed and seeing this, makes me question why i sulk in anxiety. 😭 God bless you

    • @newleft2254
      @newleft2254 Год назад +17

      Because your trauma, fears and experiences are valid. You don’t stop being a human being with feelings just cause someone else has suffered.

    • @cristinamartins1639
      @cristinamartins1639 Год назад +2

      Desejo que você fique bem e tente olhar para vida de uma forma melhor. São esses tipos de vídeos que nos faz parar pra pensar e refletir em que não existem barreiras na vida, que sejam capazes de nos parar e destruir, porque existe um Deus que estar sempre nos olhando e pronto para nos capacitar pra enfrentar tudo e ainda que não aconteça do jeito que queremos, ainda sim nós podemos aprender um pouco mais.

    • @folakemiogunseiju4157
      @folakemiogunseiju4157 9 месяцев назад +3

      Jesus loves you and he doesn’t want anxiety to have you or depression

  • @lindamullin8309
    @lindamullin8309 Год назад +69

    Wow. The love between both sets of parents. Is truly refreshing. Raised them kids so well

  • @heavenly-love6707
    @heavenly-love6707 2 года назад +325

    Charisma’s parents raised a good child in the person of Charisma. Charisma is the best thing that ever happened to Cole. God bless u al!

    • @pinkleather6725
      @pinkleather6725 2 месяца назад

      Her parent's gave her the right name charisma

  • @lizday7
    @lizday7 2 года назад +278

    charismas parents had me cryinggggg omg.

    • @queenbee2447
      @queenbee2447 2 года назад +10

      Cole mother had me crying 😢 Cruse made me smile,

    • @yessumyessum6624
      @yessumyessum6624 2 года назад +22

      I was good until near the end of the video when Cole could hardly speak due to crying.
      Nearly cried myself ...

    • @queenbee2447
      @queenbee2447 2 года назад +1

      @@yessumyessum6624 me too

    • @OneLove101.
      @OneLove101. 2 года назад +17

      To know you’re their son, not just son-in-law, is what my dearly missed Mum & Dad used to say about my husband. It’s the biggest compliment anyone can give. ❤️

    • @gillybean5672
      @gillybean5672 2 года назад +5

      Same here. 🥰

  • @nadiayoung1282
    @nadiayoung1282 Год назад +37

    Oh my God! What an awesome set of human beings. Cole, Charisma, the parents, the friends. This is so sweet. I am bawling ❤

    • @nKarje
      @nKarje 3 месяца назад

      Which G0d are you referring to? The one mommy and daddy indoctrinated you to believe in? There is evidence for none of them btw.

  • @neighborhoodfriendlyquadri343
    @neighborhoodfriendlyquadri343 Год назад +137

    Cole, I first came across you on RUclips about two years ago which was about three years after me getting paralyzed from the chest down just like you are. In 2018 between January and June, I attempted suicide five times… One of which killed me. God literally reached down from heaven with his mighty hands of healing and literally brought me back to life from the dead… You have inspired me so incredibly much over these last few years, you have shown me there a new “Normal” is still truly out there/attainable/available. Also like you, I had basketball taken away from me… I was six years old the first time my dad put a basketball in my hand, and I haven’t stopped playing since… I played basketball for 32 years… Practically my whole life. When we first got paralyzed, the first things and for me they were constant after I was finally out of the ICU after 3 1/2 weeks, My activity by chosen activity was staring at the ceiling in the hospital just thinking about the literally tens and thousands of different things that I couldn’t do anymore… When I finally realized… I’m sure that when we both realized that we couldn’t play basketball anymore, it literally felt like our hearts ripping out of our chest… I used to get super emotional about it.
    We have both had our dark days and dark moments after being paralyzed… I am so grateful and thankful that God led me to you on RUclips… You have inspired me and like I said before, you have shown me that there can be happiness after our injuries! I guess I just want to say thank you from the bottom of my heart for being you, and just like your brother said… You may be younger than me, but I look up to you! I feel the exact same way… And I need you to know that one of the reasons I am alive today, is You! You just being you… Happy go lucky, positive, able to do things even in a wheelchair… You are a huge part of my success and part of my recovery from being paralyzed! I know we have never met, but I love you like a brother! May God continue to bless you and everything you do, and may God keep you and protect you And your loved ones from Covid, with God’s perfect love, his amazing grace, and his gentle mercy. In Jesus name I pray, amen

  • @garybartley7667
    @garybartley7667 2 года назад +413

    Cole’s wife’s name matches her personality. They make a beautiful couple. They are full of life and positive energy.

  • @aerialjohnson3279
    @aerialjohnson3279 2 года назад +284

    “It’s been a long ten years. “ looks at Charisma thinks about his life and says, “it’s been a good ten years.”

    • @gorgeouslyjen
      @gorgeouslyjen 2 года назад +23

      That made me tear up even more!

    • @aerialjohnson3279
      @aerialjohnson3279 2 года назад +10

      @@gorgeouslyjen I know right it’s amazing to see. God is good

    • @ladiifuego4766
      @ladiifuego4766 2 года назад +3

      💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖

  • @Sweetie_PieLo
    @Sweetie_PieLo 2 года назад +220

    This is the most beautiful tear jerking video. Charisma- your mom and dad seem like beautiful people… what a wonderful support system!

  • @Kay_BeeKB
    @Kay_BeeKB Год назад +25

    Here I’am sick today (Lupus) feeling sorry for myself and I see this ❤️ Thank you for showing me life does go on! We just adjust 💪🏽

  • @karensimmons1572
    @karensimmons1572 2 года назад +677

    “It’s been a long ten years, it’s been a good ten years!” Tears over here! You all take I can do ALL THINGS THROUGH CHRIST TO A WHOLE ‘NOTHER LEVEL!!! Amen!

  • @homiesuncensored
    @homiesuncensored 2 года назад +652

    when Charisma´s dad said "thank you for surviving", i felt that. You guys are amazing. I admire you a lot

  • @Naaaxy
    @Naaaxy 2 года назад +11

    "and perhaps, most important thing: making me a grandma ✌✌" lol she is so cuteeee. Charisma's parents were also so sweet!!! this video is beautiful.

  • @ITI-xi5zx
    @ITI-xi5zx 2 года назад +16

    the parents talking to him was the sweetest thing! I hope to have in-laws that amazing one day

  • @MandaPanda
    @MandaPanda 2 года назад +836

    My heart broke when he said “its been a long 10 years” I know it must have been challenging and at times he felt really low, I’m so glad Charisma came into his life ❤️😢

    • @jocelynanthony-williams1704
      @jocelynanthony-williams1704 2 года назад +36

      I love yhat he followed it up with, It's been a good ten years. That gave me chills.

    • @lauren578
      @lauren578 2 года назад +5

      Same

    • @dorothyjanediaz3642
      @dorothyjanediaz3642 2 года назад +17

      Manda Panda, My heart did too and I cried with them! I Love both of them and like you I'm so glad they have each other, they're so good together ❤

    • @officiallylori.
      @officiallylori. 2 года назад +14

      Manda, I know. When he said that, I had to hold back my ugly cry. Then, he said, “it’s been a good 10 years”. What a man!

    • @lilley883
      @lilley883 2 года назад +8

      Mine too... We cannot even begin to imagine what he must feel inside. Over and above his constant positive attitude, he's still a human, who will from time to time experience a flood of overwhelming emotions from all angles. 💔 All credit to our grand creator, who empowers us each day, even more so Cole. 💐😘

  • @thelifeofmemeandneenie2673
    @thelifeofmemeandneenie2673 2 года назад +275

    This tribute to Cole is absolutely beautiful. I can't stop crying.

    • @glendareid2470
      @glendareid2470 2 года назад +4

      Me either 😭😭😭

    • @emmajohnson5042
      @emmajohnson5042 2 года назад +4

      wowwow

    • @tiffanypruitt5945
      @tiffanypruitt5945 2 года назад +4

      Same 😭😭😍

    • @michaelapoitevien9645
      @michaelapoitevien9645 2 года назад +4

      same😭

    • @josephine8295
      @josephine8295 2 года назад +2

      Soo heart warming... how you turned the ugly to beautifully...Charisma such a loving soul .Just found out your channel today...God bless you guys..Love from Kuala Lumpur

  • @nursinglicensetutorials293
    @nursinglicensetutorials293 2 года назад +38

    Shout out to Charisma’s parents, u guys raised a good child indeed! God bless u all! Cole, u are a strong guy, keep fighting man! Cried for entire video lenght...God bless you all :)

  • @lindabarnes7532
    @lindabarnes7532 9 месяцев назад +3

    My husband was paralyzed for twenty years after a car accident. We stayed together and raised our two sons and we loved each other to the end. I honestly miss my husband.

  • @ajh.4131
    @ajh.4131 2 года назад +100

    Oh, don’t mind me. Just over here crying my eyes out. Like, I legit ugly cried watching this video. Especially when Cole started crying.

  • @katilynn365
    @katilynn365 2 года назад +168

    The “thank you for surviving” got me good

    • @brownsugar3335
      @brownsugar3335 2 года назад +2

      Yeah..the tears starting rolling for me. I feel so blessed that this beautiful family has shared their lives with us. Good stuff

    • @CourtneyMichelle
      @CourtneyMichelle 2 года назад +1

      Gah dang it! Whose cutting onions

  • @donaldtram691
    @donaldtram691 2 года назад +30

    You don't even know how much impact you are making on people's lives worldwide, Cole, and Charisma. You are the light in the darkness, and your positive perspective of life is so powerful and contagious. If only people who have problems and feel so helpless would find time to watch you and listen to your story, I am sure they would find meaning in their own struggles. God bless you both, and thank you for being a great inspiration and for your enduring love and values.

  • @sallysampson628
    @sallysampson628 2 года назад +28

    “a good ten years” says everything about you Cole. As a Mum your story is so very hard in ways I can’t imagine, yet you’ve achieved so much in-spite of your injury 10 years ago. I also hope so fervently that better treatment and research can be funded towards one day being able to reverse spinal injuries/paralysis.
    😊🙅‍♀️🙅‍♀️

  • @psycroknit
    @psycroknit 2 года назад +243

    This is beautiful.. I’m sobbing. You didn’t survive these 10 years … You LIVED these 10 years .. you & your support team are amazing .

  • @shea6814
    @shea6814 2 года назад +155

    How miserable can you be to actually dislike this video??
    What a beautiful gift Charisma…truly inspiring!

  • @hannagg9365
    @hannagg9365 Год назад +16

    And here I am SULKING, having a bad day over the PETTIEST of things… that will have zero effect on tomorrow. I was so angry and agitated… literally over NOTHING. Thank you for making me realize that.. by just watching this video. Pure inspiration! ❤

  • @JLFamilySong
    @JLFamilySong 2 года назад +11

    I not only enjoyed the video but was inspired as well. I had a stroke in September 2020. I held it together until Chrisma spoke at the end then I cried like a baby for at least 15 minutes.

  • @jaysinger535
    @jaysinger535 2 года назад +381

    You’re still surviving and thriving!
    May God continue to bless you,Cole.

    • @marciadichiara5688
      @marciadichiara5688 2 года назад +8

      Amen

    • @missgulliver4621
      @missgulliver4621 2 года назад +5

      Hi Cole and Charisma, Do give God the Praises for keeping you these ten years, Live Your Motto'Stay Positive'&He will help you both in fulfilling your Aspirations.GBU 🇬🇾🙏🙏♥️💖

    • @suelineiland6743
      @suelineiland6743 2 года назад

      queria muito saber o eles falam falam tinham que traduzir em portugues

    • @celesicstyles
      @celesicstyles 2 года назад +1

      Amen

  • @ginaparker211
    @ginaparker211 2 года назад +276

    "It's been a good 10 years " Wow!! Such an inspiration. I love you guys.

    • @tinawilliams4883
      @tinawilliams4883 2 года назад +3

      That is when the tears dropped it’s been a good 10 years.. I love them

    • @chelliea42
      @chelliea42 2 года назад

      That statement alone is golden!!!

    • @ginaparker211
      @ginaparker211 2 года назад

      @@chelliea42 yes it is.

    • @The_Crafty_Counselor
      @The_Crafty_Counselor 2 года назад +1

      He didn't have to say anything else after that!

  • @babygurll7
    @babygurll7 Год назад +25

    I'm only 1 minute in and I can't stop the tears from flowing. Near the end of the video and still crying. Thank you Cole for sharing this video and this channel and your life. You are a miracle, a testimony and an inspiration for many more than you know! Your life has touched me so much, and I've never let you know before, but I am now. So on behalf of the silent watchers, thank you Cole for being you and sharing a part of your life with us.

  • @janeal6510
    @janeal6510 Год назад +29

    I cried an unhealthy amount of tears. More blessings to you Cole and Charisma. Love you both

  • @lorraineslife
    @lorraineslife 2 года назад +142

    He has some great people in his corner.... his support system is strong & his wife is super amazing..

  • @iamvak2375
    @iamvak2375 2 года назад +250

    This brought tears to my eyes. What a beautiful story and life lesson: when life hands you lemons, you don't give up, you make lemonade .

    • @deborahwelch4637
      @deborahwelch4637 2 года назад +1

      Well said

    • @kevinmansell8746
      @kevinmansell8746 2 года назад

      @@deborahwelch4637 me too

    • @erick.nippyfan1005
      @erick.nippyfan1005 2 года назад +3

      Omg that was one of the best comments I ever read on RUclips. Thanks for that I'm gonna stick with those wise words bless u

    • @iamvak2375
      @iamvak2375 2 года назад +2

      @@erick.nippyfan1005 As long as we live, life will offer us challenges. Some of us will crumble under the pressure, while others will rise up to the challenge, become stronger, and reap the sweet rewards of having not given up. Cole is a winner. And I know that you are too. We all have a winner inside of us. Thankyou for your kind words. May God make his face to shine upon you, always. 😊

  • @tiffinyanderson4403
    @tiffinyanderson4403 Год назад +9

    Wow what a inspiring video. Charisma’s parents really won the baby naming lottery. Her dimples and smile make her charismatic. You all are such a beautiful couple. 🫶🏼

  • @michelleruffin6903
    @michelleruffin6903 Год назад +11

    Sitting here with tears in my eyes just seeing how God beautifully orchestrated this union. 🙏🏾💞

  • @kilmongerjon643
    @kilmongerjon643 2 года назад +209

    10 years and you still have a smile through it all is very amazing.

  • @2acresevolving777
    @2acresevolving777 2 года назад +1478

    Just the fact that you said “It’s been a good 10 years” shows what kind of person you are. You could focus on the negative, but then you will never see all the positive things that have happened and how many people you have inspired. You both are so amazing. Thank you for sharing your journey with us! I can’t wait to see what you all do over the next 10 years!!

    • @dunigan4225
      @dunigan4225 2 года назад +52

      Cole you are am amazing person and that is why I'm rolling with C&C.
      I love you guys. Thank you for sharing your life.

    • @coleandcharisma
      @coleandcharisma  2 года назад +67

      Thank you so much!

    • @miraclelove991
      @miraclelove991 2 года назад +43

      I am so happy for you Cole. I’m happy for Charisma. I never told you why you all fascinated me so much. It’s the energy. It’s how Cole ask you were you going to the party and you didn’t have a date. That meant so much to me for you. One thing I have learned literally not just a saying - you can’t keep a good man down. He’ll raise every time. But this time God sent him a good woman to raise with him. Both of you just so happy and always got good vibes. I can watch your videos and just relax and go with the flow. That’s the real magic you to bring to us. Happy Happy Happy and many more Happy years.

    • @michelleguest1720
      @michelleguest1720 2 года назад +18

      You make your mama proud...
      Making new memories...
      I told my boys to grow up to be happy men! Hugs!!

    • @ajp2525
      @ajp2525 2 года назад +18

      What a uplifting story. Look at what love can do. May God continues keep you and your beautiful wife and family.
      You guys stay safe.. Always be yourselves. Beautiful!!!♥️♥️♦️♦️

  • @lisaguinto-vogel9001
    @lisaguinto-vogel9001 2 года назад +7

    This is what LOVE looks like, the couple, the parents, the brother and his friends. God Bless this family and God Bless America.

  • @user-wy7wt4jl7d
    @user-wy7wt4jl7d 7 месяцев назад +3

    What a wonderful family on both Charisma’s and Cole’s side 🥹

  • @globalconcern4995
    @globalconcern4995 2 года назад +42

    Amazing.
    'He gives beauty for ashes, strength for tears, gladness for mourning, peace through the years.'

  • @rhiannonbedford4039
    @rhiannonbedford4039 2 года назад +117

    My favorite part of the video is when coles dad said that as a parent your happiness is tied to your childs happiness... so true!!!! Love you guys! Xx

  • @kricketkitty
    @kricketkitty Год назад +6

    I'm in a flood of tears...I never really had the experience of true parents, being taken from my mother at age 6 and put into foster care, with people who don't qualify to have that title. My mother loved me and was tormented losing her child to the point she took her life after 5 years of unsuccessful efforts trying to get me back. Once your in "the system" and people start profiting from your misfortune, it's hard to reverse things. I found my father at age 16 and met him once about 10 years later. I'm in my 50's now and seeing both of your parents and the depth of love and support you have from and with them and for your relationship and life fill my heart in an unexpected way with gratitude that such beautiful human beings exist. And I have hope that in my next life, I'll have another chance to have what was taken away. Meanwhile, in this life, you and your families give me hope that maybe there is someone out there to share the rest of my life with. Blessings to you on your eternal journey. Thank you for your laughter, courage and determination, your sincerity, authenticity and bravery to weather this life in the shelter of such powerful love.

  • @nesemac
    @nesemac 2 года назад +129

    Cole, if my daughter’s could meet someone 1/4 of your character I’d be blessed. I love you both. God is amazing.

    • @Bohemian68
      @Bohemian68 2 года назад +2

      All the time he is amazing!

    • @florencesibanda7650
      @florencesibanda7650 2 года назад +1

      God well heal you if you keep knocking his door keep praying

  • @lavadabenimon1483
    @lavadabenimon1483 2 года назад +49

    THIS is my SON tenth years of being paralyzed from the waist down as well. You're the real MVP Cole he lost one leg as well.

  • @dorcasmuli3888
    @dorcasmuli3888 2 года назад +14

    It's been good ten years that hit differently. The positivity in it through all the struggles you've gone through. I'm in tears. One thing for sure is that God is faithful. Charisma and Cole, God bless you beyond your expectations.

  • @aribikolasiayomide2098
    @aribikolasiayomide2098 2 года назад +14

    I’m just watching this
    Tears won’t stop dropping from my face
    I just love the courage in you for been positive and your beautiful amazing wife

  • @stellaolejar9007
    @stellaolejar9007 2 года назад +96

    How beautiful and encouraging to see and hear the in-laws talk so lovingly about their son in law.

  • @heavenly-love6707
    @heavenly-love6707 2 года назад +292

    Shout out to Charisma’s parents, u guys raised a good child indeed! God bless u all! Cole, u are a strong guy, keep fighting man! God be with u all.

    • @Tes-mm5rp
      @Tes-mm5rp Год назад +4

      She is an amusing person. I love her beautiful smile and her caring soul.

  • @justicewillprevail1106
    @justicewillprevail1106 2 года назад +14

    You guys have accomplished more and gain more love in life than me in my entire 47 years of life. You guys should be so proud of yourselves. I love charismas parents, they are so beautiful inside and outside.

  • @thecollegeofsonshipinterna119
    @thecollegeofsonshipinterna119 2 года назад +13

    Cole & Charisma, your love, compassion, and dedication have changed planet Earth. Thank you for such a wonderful channel. Aloha & God Bless You!

  • @beautifulsunset4071
    @beautifulsunset4071 2 года назад +88

    When Charisma's parents started talking 😭😭

  • @ericakilbournebroodie
    @ericakilbournebroodie 2 года назад +86

    Man my eyes are sweating REALLY hard!!! Smh You guys are beautiful!!! Thank God for you being such a blessing Cole!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @LaRavenTwitty
    @LaRavenTwitty 2 года назад +8

    I don’t know where I would be without this video. It truly changes you

  • @Wisdomslight
    @Wisdomslight Год назад +19

    One of the most beautiful stories I’ve heard in 2023… truly the hope of the world is in your journey and as a couple two lights that make this a brighter place and your families are how to represent humanity in it’s turn essence! ❤️

  • @jburnes41
    @jburnes41 2 года назад +88

    this one brought me to tears. im a very positive person, but watching your videos reminds me that as long as i have breath life is not that bad at all. thank you both for allowing us the opportunity to just to live your life through video. as a 63 year old man i still find things in life that keep me going. and you 2 just add to my wonderful life. thank you.

  • @kattinabyse1957
    @kattinabyse1957 2 года назад +63

    I think it's safe to say that everybody loves Charisma! lol I love her, too.

  • @naturalscratcher9498
    @naturalscratcher9498 Год назад +6

    Her parents talking brought me to tears this is so awesome🥰🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾wow

  • @Gunnar2V
    @Gunnar2V 2 года назад +1

    I’m only 5 second into this but this woman is a real Angel

  • @sunnydaysatl
    @sunnydaysatl 2 года назад +91

    Tears of joy…this made my day.

    • @yetundeoyebola3704
      @yetundeoyebola3704 2 года назад

      And yes ...Charisma is true love personified...I admire ur strength...all the best 👍 🥰✌🏾😀

  • @Th3yluvkxri5533
    @Th3yluvkxri5533 2 года назад +129

    Cole you don’t even know me, yet you touched my life with your positivity and determination…thank you! ❤️

  • @dianasmith725
    @dianasmith725 2 года назад +3

    I’ve seen other videos with other couples with one partner who is paralyzed and the feeling I get from u two is that you r very authentic and truly blessed in your lives. Thank u for sharing

  • @simoneb4707
    @simoneb4707 2 года назад +2

    I can’t stop crying. Wow just wow!

  • @gkcollard2
    @gkcollard2 2 года назад +133

    What a beautiful tribute to a great guy! Thank you for putting yourself out there. Hopefully one day I can get my grandson who was injured at age 16 as well (18 yrs old now) and is a c4 quad, to watch and be inspired by you. All he wants to do is play video games! Y’all are a wonderful couple and I love watching your videos! Hugs and prayers for both of you!

  • @brendagriggs8395
    @brendagriggs8395 2 года назад +19

    That was so beautiful. Today would have been my 37th anniversary, but I lost my husband 9 years ago. I love watching your videos, they are uplifting, encouraging and joyful. May God continue to bless you and your loved ones.

    • @robynjames3505
      @robynjames3505 2 года назад +5

      Sorry for your loss, I hope you had a blessed day

    • @charissa6648
      @charissa6648 2 года назад

      I am so sorry for your suffering. I know, I wish I had words to uplift you and comfort you, but I am afraid only Jesus can do that.
      I will say, if I may be so bold, I once heard a quote that changed me forever; What is grief, if not love persevering?”
      I pray that the Lord will send people into your life to love you and care you in your time of affliction, because this is true religion undefiled.
      Thank you for sharing!

  • @Nicole215
    @Nicole215 2 года назад +41

    *Omgooooodness, I am balling my eyes out! This was beyond beautiful! The parents speaking about Cole, his friends and other family members was so heart felt. May God continue to bless you and your entire family! Thank you for inspiring us all to always be POSITIVE! Cheers to 10 more years and beyond!*

  • @ladyal9565
    @ladyal9565 Год назад +6

    It’s so beautiful seeing how many people love this young man, and the smile on his wife face when she talks about him is amazing ❤❤❤❤❤ best example of real love !!!!

  • @sarahwood5678
    @sarahwood5678 2 года назад +81

    God has a plan for all of us and boy did he have a plan for you. Thank you for all you do you're truly an inspiration in so many ways.

  • @patriciaperry-higgins6269
    @patriciaperry-higgins6269 2 года назад +164

    They found each other a perfect pair no one can do this but GOD…. Continued BLESSING C&C❤️

    • @BeeChance
      @BeeChance 2 года назад +6

      You got that right. It's ALL God.

    • @abullard8409
      @abullard8409 2 года назад +2

      @@BeeChance yes it is. This is so powerful and beautiful.

  • @NewsandShenanigans
    @NewsandShenanigans 2 года назад +10

    This is the most beautiful and inspiring story of unconditional love that I have ever seen. 💜

  • @karmadrukpa7650
    @karmadrukpa7650 2 года назад +25

    This is so inspiring. Cole-, I want to thank you so much for inspiring millions of people. I genuinely pray for your success, happiness, and well-being. God bless you, Buddy.

  • @OwamieEntertainment
    @OwamieEntertainment 2 года назад +120

    When Cole said it’s been a long 10 years 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 onions got chopped

  • @annelinevdberg
    @annelinevdberg 2 года назад +282

    Don't allow people and their unimportant negative opinions to ever pull you apart. You are so beautiful together. Your love and joy is magical 🙂

    • @texastwister6988
      @texastwister6988 2 года назад +1

      Why are you making up lies for comment "likes"Nobody's being negative on here and I'm sure not in public. Smh

    • @Nicole215
      @Nicole215 2 года назад +7

      @@texastwister6988 - *I think you misunderstood her comment. She just mean in general to never let any negative comment ruin anything for them, which is why Cole & Charisma "HEARTED" her comment.*

    • @Bella-xn6gm
      @Bella-xn6gm Год назад +2

      Negative comments can come outside RUclips in all kind of sorts of ways but they must not entertain them

    • @annelinevdberg
      @annelinevdberg Год назад +2

      @@Nicole215 You are correct, that is indeed what I meant :-)

  • @08fluff
    @08fluff 2 года назад +15

    I really shouldn't be bawling like this. Your story is so inspiring and to see the impact you've had on the people around you and the positivity you provoke is astonishing. Thank you for this. Thank you for sharing your lives with us. This is so beautiful.

  • @80bbygrl
    @80bbygrl 4 месяца назад +1

    Oh my god, hearing her parents call you a son got me right in the heart!

  • @CaroleStlouis
    @CaroleStlouis 2 года назад +10

    From the Science News i read an article published in September 23, 2015 that a man walked again after years of paralysis. I believe in God that Cole will walk again and regain the full use of his limbs. Unanimously let’s always remember him in our prayers.❤️

  • @All_Things_Erin
    @All_Things_Erin 2 года назад +16

    Today I randomly saw the Q&A sessions you did with each of your parents and it helped me to cry today. Today is the 11 year anniversary of my daughter passing. She was born on 8/9/10 with a rare form of dwarfism that didn’t allow for her lungs to fully grow and develop. She passed away in my arms on 8/11/10. Typically I lay in bed these days and seclude myself. Today I didn’t do that. I believe she visited me a few times this week to let me know she was with me and she was ok. I’ve made it a point not to let my emotions out. But I needed to and you helped me do that. Had she lived she would have had many physical difficulties with her legs alone with multiple surgeries. Seeing how your family, friends and community was/is there for you is absolutely amazing!!! Seeing your embrace your situation and use your experiences to help others is phenomenal and I admire you deeply for sharing your Life with us. I’ve been a subscribe for maybe 2 years now and I always enjoy your content and positivity. Especially the love between you ans Charisma. Although my daughter’s condition and yours are not similar in nature I still feel a connection to you, especially to Kelly Mama being the mama bear she is 💜 Thank you again for sharing, for helping me release some of my sadness and for showing your strength, love and positivity throughout it all.

    • @analogkid4957
      @analogkid4957 2 года назад

      Thanks for your thoughts. You are heard. Your daughters Spirit has visited you. Her energy is obviously still alive and well and I’m glad she visited you this week. We are all dying- everyone of us. Your daughters soul decided before birth to return Home to heaven if I can call it that.Her brief mission was fulfilled and now she is on the” other side” in peace and glory.🙏

    • @garlandfraley734
      @garlandfraley734 2 года назад

      Prayers for you too

  • @Sassyglbeauty
    @Sassyglbeauty Год назад +8

    I had no clue who Cole was an hour ago. But, man. I’m bawling ! What an incredible story and such an incredible love. Thank you for sharing your story with the world.

  • @lakasigaro4095
    @lakasigaro4095 2 года назад +2

    Am emotional 😢. Happy for you both. Thanks Charisma for loving him and being his wife. Please continue to take good care of him. God bless 🙏

  • @sonitaluvfamily5627
    @sonitaluvfamily5627 2 года назад +30

    The parents though 😭😭😭
    May God grant you many more years. All the best Cole and Charisma 🥰

  • @debbiewbd2359
    @debbiewbd2359 2 года назад +121

    On August 2, it was 33 years since my diving accident left me a quadriplegic. They say the summer is the worst time for people living in northern climates because we are out enjoying our few months of warmth and not as careful.
    You're doing a great thing in bringing attention to diving and paralysis.

    • @livenowliveright8509
      @livenowliveright8509 2 года назад +4

      Prayers for you as well

    • @angeec.3312
      @angeec.3312 2 года назад +6

      So sorry, Debbie. May God always be by your side and in your heart. I lost two friends in diving accidents.

    • @mpume131
      @mpume131 2 года назад

      @Debbie God still loves you and we also ❤ love you sweetypie

  • @translate910
    @translate910 2 месяца назад +1

    in-laws almost made me cry
    both of you have a great family

  • @patsyruth7860
    @patsyruth7860 2 года назад +15

    God Love you Cole, Charisma and absolutely everyone of your Dear Family, Friends, sharers in care and Everyone whom you inspire with your life, your being! This is beyond touching, this tribute is truly a Blessing! Love y'all! 1-27-22

  • @whoanacreatesnails
    @whoanacreatesnails 2 года назад +132

    Me throughout the video: I won’t cry, I won’t cry, I won’t cry…
    Me at the end when Cole speaks: 😭😭😭

    • @shayvidatv
      @shayvidatv 2 года назад +2

      Heck, I couldn't even stop the flow of tears throughout the video 😭..

    • @mimosasapp3817
      @mimosasapp3817 2 года назад +1

      Me too on the inside 😞😞😞 this is love !! We need this😢😢

    • @ChristinaLoveletting
      @ChristinaLoveletting 2 года назад

      Same

  • @lezup
    @lezup 2 года назад +167

    Cole, to see you thrive with all you went through, you have been such a positive influence in my life. Every day I see ways I could adapt to things in my life, and I see how to be positive. I’m so happy that you found Charisma to be with.

  • @nkemobim
    @nkemobim 2 года назад +4

    wow...I just subscribe! this is what LIVING in GRATEFULNESS look like....Charisma you were put in Cole's path long before either one of you knew it would be...

  • @mntryjoseph1961
    @mntryjoseph1961 2 года назад +16

    What a wonderful tribute! You two are amazing. May God continue to bless you both.

  • @acaraj
    @acaraj 2 года назад +39

    I was hanging tough with no tears until I saw Cole's mom. I'm a mom and I can't imagine the roller coaster she (and the fam) have been on these past 10 years! What a blessing this all turned out to be! Much love to you all! ❤

  • @benottenoel3556
    @benottenoel3556 2 года назад +99

    Omg! I can't stop the tears. This was so beautiful. Cole is living life with a purpose. What is our excuse for those that are fully capable? Such an inspiration.

  • @landonladontwinworld3623
    @landonladontwinworld3623 2 года назад +2

    You two are amazing together.

  • @jane3069
    @jane3069 Год назад +2

    What a beautiful couple you two are and your whole family and friends. What an inspiration you all are. I found you by looking up amtrak stuff. I really enjoy all your videos. God is using you to touch the world in a good way. I cried when I watched your video. You touched me. May you have many more years of happiness.

  • @joliestever3307
    @joliestever3307 2 года назад +114

    Cole, I am crying like a baby.... long after the video has ended. You've truly lived an exceptional and courageous life, and the best is yet to come. Thank you for touching my life in ways you will probably never know about. I am sure that is the sentiment of many. We love you and Charisma. We're proud of you guys and we are all excited to see the next adventure God has for you. 💝

    • @HappyBlueButterfly
      @HappyBlueButterfly 2 года назад +2

      Yes, yes! Thank you for your kind words, I too am continuing crying long after, lol, we are all going to be okay by the grace of God!

    • @karensimmons1572
      @karensimmons1572 2 года назад

      They had me snotty nosed!!!

  • @ilkasanchez6896
    @ilkasanchez6896 2 года назад +150

    It wasn't "good luck", this guy has a purpose in God. I pray he can find it. Jesus loves you and your wife!

  • @angryyank
    @angryyank 2 года назад +2

    I know I am thankful for being the man I am today... I have a good job as a Air Force Auxiliary Airman...... I became paralyzed in a bad car wreck back in 1994... That makes it 28 yrs in a wheelchair... I have spent more of my life in it then out of it..... I am grateful & thankful for what happened to me... I found a good woman to have by my side... A good job that lets me stay active & keep pluggin along each and everyday... I am a high function quad with a break of the C6 I also cracked badly the C5 & C7 as well.... I have had the good days & bad ones but I wouldn't change a thing......

  • @DeborahHall-ut2om
    @DeborahHall-ut2om 2 года назад +71

    I enjoyed Mama Kelly's tribute. You seem to have made her proud by how well your life turned out despite the odds that were against you. Cheers 🍻 to more years of good health and a sound mind. God bless you Charisma and give you more love, patience and endurance.