May is Mental Health Awareness Month. We hope that you had watched our previous videos as well and support our cause to bring more awareness about mental health to the world. Relationships are a big part of our happiness and learning the skills to navigate difficult relationships could save you or someone else in the long run.
Keep in mind that successful relationships aren’t just about rainbows and butterflies-a healthy partnership requires communication, respect, and plenty of good habits from both people.
Yes, true. I love rainbows and butterflies! It’s because I’m a rainbow soul with a rainbow aura and a butterfly sat on my thumb for 15 minutes yesterday! They are so adorable 🥰 What I’m saying is that in a relationship it’s possible to have all of those things!
Here's the list of habits: 1. The habit of "Ex-parison" 0:41 2. The habit of Complacency 2:03 3. The habit of Ego 3:14 4. The habit of being a jerk 3:59 5. The habit of infidelity 4:49
I just started a relationship after knowing my partner for almost a year, we both knew from the beginning that we were interested in each other so we're really happy to be engaged in this. I just hope that we do our best to maintain this healthy and mature communication forever.
all 5 points hit me hard so much because I'm in a relationship rn where my partner is neglecting me, she rarely talks to me anymore, she's going out with other people barely telling me anything, and she's never there for me. Then when I do speak to her, it's often short and she goes to hang out with another person that's apparently way more important than me in her eyes. It's been going on for months, and now, most of the time I wonder if I'm the problem, if I'm the reason that our relationship is like this. I want to talk it out and make things better, but I can never do that if she's never around.
My marriage was just like this man 🥺 my best advice is tell her you need to have a serious discussion about your relationship and if she doesn't want to or isn't involved in the discussion, just move on king/queen
Just stand up in front of her, slam your fist into the table and scream that you need to talk. If she doesn't, just leave. It's hard, but I don't think she loves you anymore if she does that. Well, that's what I would have done anyways. That has its trade off though, because it makes me look controlling towards her. I just want them to put as much effort as me.
Watch coach Craig Kenneth on RUclips it’s a lot of factors that plays a role. You trying to save the relationship and she’s treating you like nothing. Best advice is fix your trumas and leave her alone. Once she realizes you left her alone she will swing around too you especially if she is messing with someone else and sees the grass not greener with who ever she’s messing with.
I feel so much better now- I wanna make sure I'm doing the most I can to be a good partner, but also a good friend. These videos about relationship tips and making sure you're being a good person make me feel better and like I'm not as bad as I see myself. Thank you Psych2Go
I love that you guys keep coming back to this topic because like you mentioned we never stop needing helping with improving relationships (romantic or platonic). We can all be better 💛
I'm in a long distance relationship and sometimes I have these deep thoughts of what if she finds someone better than me. I feel like I've gotten boring overtime and I just want things to work out. This video does make me feel a bit better at least
I gotta say I love watching these as I'm quite anxious most of the time, overthinking everything and struggling with expressing myself I think so this helps me work through some things that I had perceived as problems, turned out to be overthought or easy to work through. I thoroughly enjoy these as it reminds me of how far I've come with maturity and lays some groundwork for me to work with!
In one of my videos i mentioned these 6 behaviors that destroy a relationship, What do you think guys? 1- Emotional blackmail 2- Criticizing everything 3- Confidence betrayals 4- Not Healing from your Past 5- Avoiding confrontation 6- Not giving your partner some space.
This video helped me understand why my first relationship failed: I was too complacent. I didn't put in nearly enough effort, even though I still loved her. This turned into her getting emotional about it, and I shut down. I couldn't handle it. I was too young and dumb to know how to get through those problems. I haven't had a committed relationship since, but now knowing this, I think I can make it work. Thanks!
This was helpful. Thank you! It's quite honestly unfair to compare any ex to your partner, or this idea of the perfect partner! And complacency kills every time!!
How about: 6. The habit of being disrespectful. Of not showing respect for your partner’s feelings, opinions or choices. 7. The habit of devaluation. Belittling, ignoring, not listening or minimizing your partner’s contributions. 8. The habit of withholding. THIS IS A BIG ONE: Starving your partner of attention, affection, sex, praise, touch, comfort, encouragement, affirmation, compassion, inclusiveness, respect, your time or any kind of emotional or physical support. 9. The habit of hiding your true self. Not being honest, truthful, transparent or vulnerable to your partner. 10. The habit of not really SEEING your partner as a person for who they are as an individual apart from you. Too many people only see their partner for what they do for them or how they make them feel but fail to enjoy or value them as an individual, unique being. 11. The habit of being dishonest, keeping secrets, lying to your partner. 12. The habit of not seeing the big picture. The big picture is you are a couple in a relationship, sharing your lives together. Everything you do, every choice you make effects your partner. If you’re in a relationship, your life is not your own. It includes your partner. Everything you do will have a positive or negative effect on your partner’s life. If you make good choices, they too will share the rewards. If you make bad choices, they too will suffer the consequences and pain. If you focus on what is best for your partner and you as a couple, you are beginning to see the big picture!
"The habit of being a jerk" I have had some issues with this one. Of course they deny being a jerk, don't 'mean anything' by picking on or constantly "pranking" for fun! And then made to feel like I'M the one who is wrong, because I "can't take a joke" and I'm "no fun"! When you're always the punchline, it starts to feel like getting emotionally punched! It hurts. I'm not having fun at that point. I feel pain. I feel like my feelings aren't as important as their need for amusement, even when they are completely aware that their laughter is at the expense of my feelings! My peace of mind, my feelings of adequacy! Something is wrong with ME for feeling hurt little "joking" insults, and "pranks" that feel just cruel at times. I'm not "the one" for them, if I feel upset. And I started to believe perhaps something was actually wrong with me for responding to "just having a little fun" with negativity? Maybe I just need to losen up more? Should I just try and learn to not take their behavior so seriously, when they're just joking? Right? Ok I'm sorry, I know you were just messing around..... And you find yourself apologizing for having hurt feelings, to the very person who purposely hurt your feelings for their own amusement, knowing full well how they make you feel, when they do and say such things 🤔
Run its a narcissist.. look up narcissist behavior lots of videos about them. These types of people will break u down and get a thrill our of it. It's sick twisted stuff. Been there took along time to get my head right... please look into that it can save you from. Alot of damage..😇🙏good luck God bless!!
thank you for this video, i just saw this on my recommendations and my hand just automatically clicked this video. i just started to let out my heart and give it in as to i am in love with him and him liking me too. we recently just got into a relationship and this video was a very helpful perspective for people who needs love advices and to people who are new into relationships as these.
How awesome this video is because of the girl who speak out for the people and situations like this I’ve been in bad relationships before I a never knew what was going on until now thank you…🙏🏻
Thank you psych2go! I’m talking to someone now, and I’m constantly afraid, and fearful that I’m ruining our relationship. I appreciate the videos, and the love you spread.
Another important fact is also actually listening what you're partner say, like "no i can't do this or that" and actualy taking in fact, i had 3 good friend were i had emotion for them and because that, because under the emotion i wasn't listening to them and i completely destroy the friendship, like before we were talking almost everyday, now, no more communication
It would be really great if you could add another point like - giving your partner enough space and understanding that sometimes they get to have their own life and do their own life. Idk if I was able to explain what I wanted to imply. I hope I was.
My ex(Gemini) literally was the worse love ever and I’m glad I’m out of that situation!! I’m currently possibly about to enter into a new relationship (maybe) and I’m just checking to made sure I’m not being the bad guy or hung up on the past. I want this new situation to be healthy from both parties involved if it gets to that level 😊
It's sad and hard being the one in the relationship who tries and tries and sees the relationship as a hight priority. My last (and so far only) relationship ended up in spending no time together anymore and if I was not the one starting chatting, there was no chat. It felt like I was left behind. I always said, I'll never be between him and his friends, but even long planned things were cut off a day before because of them. It still hurts thinking about that time, because we've been so happy.
Hi - I like your videos and this content is very helpful for so many people!! The more we can learn about 'what not to do in relationships' the better really!
I had problems with 2 3 and 4, and it really hurt her, they might have shown up in different ways than described here, but they were present. Now that I’m finally aware of these habits I am never going to just be complacent and let them happen anymore. Even though it’s too late to save the relationship.
Could you guys do a video on how to find out if someone is a conversational narcissist? I've heard that they aren't complete narcissists but they're somewhere on the spectrum?
Pay attention to this. I was trying to believe that there was good people out there. Not the case I'm going to save the energy of maintaining the executive functions regarding people. Everything is now Subjective or Objective only. I will abandon all previous connections and harshly reject all future connections. Good luck and enjoy your journey
It is so sad that about 99.99% of the men my age (or younger) where I live at think it is thier " privilage" to cheat if thier partner does something they like & then say " you made me do this." This is why I am still single after my divorce....11 years ago.
I *really* wish you'd clarify in the title &/or thumbnail what type of relationship you're talking about because I keep thinking these particular videos are about relationships in *general,* not just romantic ones. I mean, I could probably learn something if I'd just watch these, but as an aroace who's never even had a crush ever, I can't help but feel like it's not worth my time in any personal way. I'm not insulting; I'm critiquing. The clarification would be super helpful to me & maybe to others too. 🌠 Also, even though I couldn't finish this video, I like the artstyle in this one. It's nice. 🙂👍🌟
I agree with all this, but I’ve been told by child educators way before, and later realized by their words that you have to initially think about yourself. Not when you are in relationship but before you plan any love relationship. Ask yourself this kind of questions : Do I am ready to be in relationship ? Do I am psychologically ready to be or even try with someone ? And so on... I weight my words because I am not psychologically healthy to do this kind of thing, and when I did not know before, I hurt myself but not only, I hurt others by trying and being in relationship. In my case I tried to be the best person as possible. Sometime it was useful but the majority of the time it was harmful (for the other person and me) and I just got so many bad adjectives do describe this that I can not write them normally like, bringing so much bad memories. Think about yourself before doing some projects to be in relationship, globally protect yourself, and others because by avoiding this disaster, you also protect others. Sorry if it was not well written, bad turned or even offensive (Absolutely not what I wanted), I'm not a native English speaking person, I'm still learning, I tried my best to share my thoughts. Love yourself.
Sadly I fell in the habit of ego... My gf has an avoidant type of attachment and is a single daughter living with her mother. I really feel she loves me and so do I but it always felt like we were drowning in a glass of water, because of me, my lack of empathy drove us this way and I'm worried of losing her, I feel so f stupid now that I realized what was wrong with me.. Sunday we will meet to discuss if we continue or break up. Wish me luck ;_;
@@NtrtAst We broke up. I went with a mindset ready to expect it though so I'd say it was kind of mutual and agreed to see each other again after some time. Fast forward, almost a month later I feel ok, sometimes sadness comes and goes but I managed to steady but slowly accept it. I'm ok with the fact that we're no longer talking, and I was constantly afraid to be alone but thanks to this channel and my therapist I realized it's a dumb, weak fear that currently I'm overcoming, it's not so terrible once you realize those kind of thoughts are there and when you begin to question them, they lose power so it helps a lot on the breakup recovery I think. Thanks for asking though (: I wish you the best!
hey there, i had a load of pent up frustrations and emotions about my gf like kinda small things but they irritated me a lot, yesterday i woke up and she had called me something i really didnt like but she said it was a "joke" and "not that deep" well it wasnt a joke to me no matter how insignificant that little thing she said was it meant a lot to me and really hurt me. so instead of telling her that i have been feeling hurt by what she says over a long time when she says it i try ignoring it and not tell her how i feel to avoid hurting her. well it really didnt work cus it overboiled yesterday. i got really angry at her and let it all out on her and said things i knew she wouldnt like as a sort of "stings doesnt it" to let her know the pain i felt so that she could maybe understand, but it didnt go my way at all. after the argument she said she lost feelings for me after what i said to her and she broke up with me... i tried apologizing but she wont even bother reading my apology and just answered with the letter "e" thats all she said i havent texted her after that.. i still have strong feelings for her and i dont know how to let go of them, i still love her so much and i regret letting my anger take control. i asked my dad for advice but he just said "theres someone out there for you" and that just makes everything even more depressing... everything i found fun to do before like play video games and watch movies and all my other hobbies are just not fun anymore either and i really need some help.
The habit of infidelity lol....how do you choose to have a relationship with someone who will be like that? You need to take a long time to vet the person before getting into a relationship. Don't rush it
You think you can have some intimate friendship advices. Being AroAce it's hard to look for advice like that considering most advice I find is romantic relationships and I have to substitute certain aspects of the articles to make it appeal to me
I recently broke with someone that was studying at the same academy, I had a relationship prior this one at the same place and fell uncomfortable, years later I found myself in love with this girl that I knew had something to do with the professor of the class, she didn’t mind to be with me, I have my own insecurities so I hide this relationship from the professor knowing that he knew. I was complacent all the time with her, we had issues then we broke, I was pretty upset and sad, I feel that I needed her somehow, she never wanted me back, I tried a couple of times, she finally said no. Yesterday I saw her talkin with the professor, she saying out loud they were taliking to be friends again meaning they will be fuckbodies again…….I hope my story help others to focus on themselves and don’t screw at work or at the place to be focus. God bless
Sometimes RelationShips WIll be bad and sometimes will be good Someone will be have crush on you or You Have a crush on Someone thank you for the habits!
My ex cheated on me despite having been together for 3 years and we promised to never let anyone come between us. My whole world fell apart and I became more and more insecure of myself ever since he broke up with me and I have gotten deeply afraid that it could happen to me again if I do meet someone else. I don't intend on giving up on love as a way to work on getting stronger and do better in a relationship...
One really bad habit is taking out what your ex’s did on your current partner. Say they’ve been screwed over on bills or even moving in together and now you don’t give your current partner those chances because somebody ruined them.
You always compare your partner to others. There are several reasons why comparing your partner with your exes can harm your relationship. You don't feel confident.
What I’m wondering is “how much should one invest in a relationship before it’s time to cut your loses and leave?” Like I’ve said to my partner “I love you” and have done my best to show them that it’s the case. (And it’s been for months) She has yet to say it back but has made attempts to at least show me that she does. (But in my mind words are still important) FULL DISCLOSURE: I’m a classic anxious preoccupied attachment and she is probably a dismissive avoidant (probably. Ive never met a DA who’s ever acknowledged it or even interested in attachment theory) Our relationship had progressed very slowly and it’s stalled at a few moments but we’re chugging along at 15 miles an hour on the freeway. But at least there’s movement. So I don’t know. Please if anyone has insight I’ll gladly listen to your experiences. I hope you all have a great day ❤️
To me actions speak louder than words! I' ve had the opposite and the actions don' t match the words, maybe she' s not ready yet, some ppl throw out I Love You' s all the time like nothing which is sad, I only said it and only when I meant it
@@Nola5427 After 10 months I think that by then a person knows. But anyway we broke up last week because she just continued to drift further away so I ended things. Still really sucks because I meant it 😔
How much each of you give and how little each of you take for granted, will determine the success of a relationship. 💙RUclipsr That Helps People Overcome Toxic Relationships
No relationship can be worked out successfully if you only care about yourself and your needs. All successful relationships in the world are based on a sense of compromise and collaboration. Each individual should consider the needs of their partner and place them ahead of their own. People who tend to put their own needs first can never have a healthy relationship.
I disagree. I think a healthy relationship is to find balance between my needs and needs of my partner. And sometimes, it's way more healthy to put my needs first ! Obviously, that + a lot of communication (bc it's the key)
I don't know if this is good or not, but I demand commitment from day one, from the very getting to know each other. I know it's not good, but my reason is that I'm tired of investing time in relationships that don't work. It may sound cliché, but my time is running out. I'm becoming 29 later this year, which means if I don't marry soon, I may not live to see my granchildren or even become too old to have children. That's why I don't think I can start a relationship that wouldn't turn into a marriage in the next 3 years. And furthermore, that is too short of a time for my situation right now, because I don't think I can do enough to sustain a family at this moment, in the next three years. Maybe I should take the fact I'll remain an old childless bag, who will just turn into a laughimg stock. Yeah, laugh now, I know. My luck doesn't look like changing any time soon anyways.
+Psych2go *These five don't apply at present because I'm still seeking a relation.* As the autistic adult child of a dysfunctional house of origin, I didn't really have an opportunity to learn how one should be treated in the first place.
My gf lives in another country, i ofc love her a lot, but i can't get rid of a thought that i won't be able to protect her if smth happened to her...yet...but still. And i hope to live a happy and a long life with her as soon as possible...i am just scared that someone might snach her from me :/ (Edit) She's a gold digger...and don't know why, but it hurts like hell...she only used me and broke my heart to pieces...
number four basically perfectly describes how it was, she was beeing mean to me as a joke. after a while of ignoring my emotions about it i got really mad at her and said some bad things to her aswell, then she broke up with me and shit was shit. is there any hope to fix the relationship after nr4 ??
Yah my ex was the being a jerk one let’s just say after we broke up he started targeting me telling me to shut up and blaming me for stuff I didn’t do I mean he was being a jerk when we’re together but when we broke up it was more intense 😢
May is Mental Health Awareness Month. We hope that you had watched our previous videos as well and support our cause to bring more awareness about mental health to the world. Relationships are a big part of our happiness and learning the skills to navigate difficult relationships could save you or someone else in the long run.
Thanks for your videos
HOW DO YOU PRODUCE SO MUCH CONTENT EVERY DAYYYYYYYY
You’re helping just about everyone who watches these! I’m gonna try to be as aware as possible:)
@@vulc4618 We have a lot of dedicated team members! :)
@@thewolfed1687 Thank you so much!
Keep in mind that successful relationships aren’t just about rainbows and butterflies-a healthy partnership requires communication, respect, and plenty of good habits from both people.
Yes, true. I love rainbows and butterflies! It’s because I’m a rainbow soul with a rainbow aura and a butterfly sat on my thumb for 15 minutes yesterday! They are so adorable 🥰 What I’m saying is that in a relationship it’s possible to have all of those things!
Clear communication is so important!
Here's the list of habits:
1. The habit of "Ex-parison" 0:41
2. The habit of Complacency 2:03
3. The habit of Ego 3:14
4. The habit of being a jerk 3:59
5. The habit of infidelity 4:49
thank you
I came to the comments to find exactly this❤️❤️ thank you
Does 1 Destroyed The Relationship Or All/Half Of It Does?
@@SillySamWho 1/all can
@@moneytime1556 Damn 🧍🏻
I just started a relationship after knowing my partner for almost a year, we both knew from the beginning that we were interested in each other so we're really happy to be engaged in this. I just hope that we do our best to maintain this healthy and mature communication forever.
Maintaining a relationship is complicated and is harder than anything I learn at school
It is definitely a skill that gets better as we practice!
all 5 points hit me hard so much because I'm in a relationship rn where my partner is neglecting me, she rarely talks to me anymore, she's going out with other people barely telling me anything, and she's never there for me. Then when I do speak to her, it's often short and she goes to hang out with another person that's apparently way more important than me in her eyes. It's been going on for months, and now, most of the time I wonder if I'm the problem, if I'm the reason that our relationship is like this. I want to talk it out and make things better, but I can never do that if she's never around.
My marriage was just like this man 🥺 my best advice is tell her you need to have a serious discussion about your relationship and if she doesn't want to or isn't involved in the discussion, just move on king/queen
That's not a relationship. Respect yourself and stop perpetuating the pretense.
Just stand up in front of her, slam your fist into the table and scream that you need to talk. If she doesn't, just leave. It's hard, but I don't think she loves you anymore if she does that. Well, that's what I would have done anyways. That has its trade off though, because it makes me look controlling towards her. I just want them to put as much effort as me.
That’s very unfair to you, I hope she puts effort into you sometime soon
Watch coach Craig Kenneth on RUclips it’s a lot of factors that plays a role. You trying to save the relationship and she’s treating you like nothing. Best advice is fix your trumas and leave her alone. Once she realizes you left her alone she will swing around too you especially if she is messing with someone else and sees the grass not greener with who ever she’s messing with.
I feel so much better now-
I wanna make sure I'm doing the most I can to be a good partner, but also a good friend. These videos about relationship tips and making sure you're being a good person make me feel better and like I'm not as bad as I see myself. Thank you Psych2Go
You got this!
@@Psych2go Thank you!
I love that you guys keep coming back to this topic because like you mentioned we never stop needing helping with improving relationships (romantic or platonic). We can all be better 💛
Our pleasure!
I'm dating right now and I go through so much depression and anxiety so it does scare me that the way I act may ruin the relationship with my BF.
you have to see if there is any sign of toxic relationship or not.i make some video about this
Overthinking mindset is always the downfall off all relationships.
exactly!
Being on the other side of the relationship with no way to help my partner from overthinking hurts really bad :((
I'm in a long distance relationship and sometimes I have these deep thoughts of what if she finds someone better than me. I feel like I've gotten boring overtime and I just want things to work out. This video does make me feel a bit better at least
I gotta say I love watching these as I'm quite anxious most of the time, overthinking everything and struggling with expressing myself I think so this helps me work through some things that I had perceived as problems, turned out to be overthought or easy to work through. I thoroughly enjoy these as it reminds me of how far I've come with maturity and lays some groundwork for me to work with!
glad these videos help!
In one of my videos i mentioned these 6 behaviors that destroy a relationship, What do you think guys?
1- Emotional blackmail
2- Criticizing everything
3- Confidence betrayals
4- Not Healing from your Past
5- Avoiding confrontation
6- Not giving your partner some space.
Yes heck yes.
Great! I'm gonna watch it after this.
@@eystreemfan6910 I'd like to hear your opinion my friend, thank you
100% agree
I'm not in a relationship, but thanks for the early advice
Np! Keep us posted :)
This video helped me understand why my first relationship failed: I was too complacent.
I didn't put in nearly enough effort, even though I still loved her. This turned into her getting emotional about it, and I shut down. I couldn't handle it. I was too young and dumb to know how to get through those problems.
I haven't had a committed relationship since, but now knowing this, I think I can make it work.
Thanks!
You got this!
@@Psych2go thanks!
Hey psy2go... just wanted to say thankyou sm for raising awareness and educating people about mental health. I love your content alot❤
Yeah we know you want a like from them
@@DenitoX7 lol- dude im just giving an opinion
Thank you for the kind words! How do you feel about the more recent vids? Any requests?
@@DenitoX7 take your negativity somewhere else this channel is a safe place
This was helpful. Thank you! It's quite honestly unfair to compare any ex to your partner, or this idea of the perfect partner! And complacency kills every time!!
glad it helped!
How about:
6. The habit of being disrespectful. Of not showing respect for your partner’s feelings, opinions or choices.
7. The habit of devaluation. Belittling, ignoring, not listening or minimizing your partner’s contributions.
8. The habit of withholding. THIS IS A BIG ONE: Starving your partner of attention, affection, sex, praise, touch, comfort, encouragement, affirmation, compassion, inclusiveness, respect, your time or any kind of emotional or physical support.
9. The habit of hiding your true self. Not being honest, truthful, transparent or vulnerable to your partner.
10. The habit of not really SEEING your partner as a person for who they are as an individual apart from you. Too many people only see their partner for what they do for them or how they make them feel but fail to enjoy or value them as an individual, unique being.
11. The habit of being dishonest, keeping secrets, lying to your partner.
12. The habit of not seeing the big picture. The big picture is you are a couple in a relationship, sharing your lives together. Everything you do, every choice you make effects your partner. If you’re in a relationship, your life is not your own. It includes your partner. Everything you do will have a positive or negative effect on your partner’s life. If you make good choices, they too will share the rewards. If you make bad choices, they too will suffer the consequences and pain. If you focus on what is best for your partner and you as a couple, you are beginning to see the big picture!
Very great additions!
"The habit of being a jerk"
I have had some issues with this one.
Of course they deny being a jerk, don't 'mean anything' by picking on or constantly "pranking" for fun!
And then made to feel like I'M the one who is wrong, because I "can't take a joke" and I'm "no fun"!
When you're always the punchline, it starts to feel like getting emotionally punched!
It hurts.
I'm not having fun at that point.
I feel pain.
I feel like my feelings aren't as important as their need for amusement, even when they are completely aware that their laughter is at the expense of my feelings!
My peace of mind, my feelings of adequacy!
Something is wrong with ME for feeling hurt little "joking" insults, and "pranks" that feel just cruel at times.
I'm not "the one" for them, if I feel upset.
And I started to believe perhaps something was actually wrong with me for responding to "just having a little fun" with negativity?
Maybe I just need to losen up more?
Should I just try and learn to not take their behavior so seriously, when they're just joking?
Right?
Ok I'm sorry, I know you were just messing around.....
And you find yourself apologizing for having hurt feelings, to the very person who purposely hurt your feelings for their own amusement, knowing full well how they make you feel, when they do and say such things 🤔
Run its a narcissist.. look up narcissist behavior lots of videos about them. These types of people will break u down and get a thrill our of it. It's sick twisted stuff. Been there took along time to get my head right... please look into that it can save you from. Alot of damage..😇🙏good luck God bless!!
Thank you for sharing this.. you got this!
thank you for this video, i just saw this on my recommendations and my hand just automatically clicked this video. i just started to let out my heart and give it in as to i am in love with him and him liking me too. we recently just got into a relationship and this video was a very helpful perspective for people who needs love advices and to people who are new into relationships as these.
of course!
I’m only good at listening with people that hear me out. Thank you.
It's been over a year since I got cheated on by my ex. Watching this video really put it into words about the other stuff my ex did to me.
Sorry about this... better people ahead!
Nice help, I needed this!😁
Hopefully, it could truly help!
How awesome this video is because of the girl who speak out for the people and situations like this I’ve been in bad relationships before I a never knew what was going on until now thank you…🙏🏻
you got this!
Thank you psych2go! I’m talking to someone now, and I’m constantly afraid, and fearful that I’m ruining our relationship. I appreciate the videos, and the love you spread.
You got this!
Thank you for posting amazing videos every single day
Thank you for watching as always! Any requests for topics?
Yes actually like 5 signs your are born a special way
Another important fact is also actually listening what you're partner say, like "no i can't do this or that" and actualy taking in fact, i had 3 good friend were i had emotion for them and because that, because under the emotion i wasn't listening to them and i completely destroy the friendship, like before we were talking almost everyday, now, no more communication
My ex compared me to his exes and let me tell you it hurt so bad. I was so traumatized after him I’m slowly SLOWLY going back to dating.
It would be really great if you could add another point like - giving your partner enough space and understanding that sometimes they get to have their own life and do their own life. Idk if I was able to explain what I wanted to imply. I hope I was.
good point!
0:45 The habit of Ex-parison
2:05 The habit of complacency
3:15 The habit of EGO
4:00 The habit of being a jerk
4:50 The habit of infidelity
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@@Psych2go My first heart from psych2go.
Thank you so much❤❤
This made my day
i love seeing this type of videos and then realising "ha im alone"
I’m glad I found this now but sad I didn’t realize these destructive traits I had in the relationship 😕
I love that someone finally makes references to uglydolls love you psych2go
My ex(Gemini) literally was the worse love ever and I’m glad I’m out of that situation!! I’m currently possibly about to enter into a new relationship (maybe) and I’m just checking to made sure I’m not being the bad guy or hung up on the past. I want this new situation to be healthy from both parties involved if it gets to that level 😊
It's sad and hard being the one in the relationship who tries and tries and sees the relationship as a hight priority.
My last (and so far only) relationship ended up in spending no time together anymore and if I was not the one starting chatting, there was no chat. It felt like I was left behind.
I always said, I'll never be between him and his friends, but even long planned things were cut off a day before because of them.
It still hurts thinking about that time, because we've been so happy.
Hi - I like your videos and this content is very helpful for so many people!! The more we can learn about 'what not to do in relationships' the better really!
Really helpful, and if u guys noticed a red flag/s on your partner, I guess, its time to re-assess your relatioship
yeah it is true
The animation is so good!
I had problems with 2 3 and 4, and it really hurt her, they might have shown up in different ways than described here, but they were present. Now that I’m finally aware of these habits I am never going to just be complacent and let them happen anymore. Even though it’s too late to save the relationship.
Could you guys do a video on how to find out if someone is a conversational narcissist? I've heard that they aren't complete narcissists but they're somewhere on the spectrum?
Stay tuned!
Thank God !
I don't have any of 'em.
I prioritize relationship and its ethics.
this video really helped me understand that my past relationship's failure was not my fault after all
exactly!
Pay attention to this. I was trying to believe that there was good people out there. Not the case I'm going to save the energy of maintaining the executive functions regarding people. Everything is now Subjective or Objective only. I will abandon all previous connections and harshly reject all future connections. Good luck and enjoy your journey
It is so sad that about 99.99% of the men my age (or younger) where I live at think it is thier " privilage" to cheat if thier partner does something they like & then say " you made me do this." This is why I am still single after my divorce....11 years ago.
I wonder how this works with introverts that are good and well yet never seem to have anyone that matches them, or seem generally alone.
If you drew this then I will say I love this animation
This video is validating and healing. I’m so grateful for p2g.
At least I don't have to worry about any of these. Since I can never find a relationship, I just have to be with myself. That's life.
I *really* wish you'd clarify in the title &/or thumbnail what type of relationship you're talking about because I keep thinking these particular videos are about relationships in *general,* not just romantic ones. I mean, I could probably learn something if I'd just watch these, but as an aroace who's never even had a crush ever, I can't help but feel like it's not worth my time in any personal way.
I'm not insulting; I'm critiquing. The clarification would be super helpful to me & maybe to others too. 🌠
Also, even though I couldn't finish this video, I like the artstyle in this one. It's nice. 🙂👍🌟
Could you do a video about people's auras and how to sense them??
Freaking love this new art style it's beautifully expressive and simple and colorful ❤️
Who are the artists?
We have an artist team!! This was animated by Zamira Guevara
Does this work for friendships too?
Yup! Change it up to platonic terms, and it's still good advice
@@InternalChickens thank you
Yes, why would it not? :)
I 'm in a bad relationship but still keep, so shame on me
it is so bad to continue toxic relationship...if you try to change it ,maybe it will be good..i make some video about relationship
I agree with all this, but I’ve been told by child educators way before, and later realized by their words that you have to initially think about yourself. Not when you are in relationship but before you plan any love relationship. Ask yourself this kind of questions : Do I am ready to be in relationship ? Do I am psychologically ready to be or even try with someone ? And so on... I weight my words because I am not psychologically healthy to do this kind of thing, and when I did not know before, I hurt myself but not only, I hurt others by trying and being in relationship. In my case I tried to be the best person as possible. Sometime it was useful but the majority of the time it was harmful (for the other person and me) and I just got so many bad adjectives do describe this that I can not write them normally like, bringing so much bad memories.
Think about yourself before doing some projects to be in relationship, globally protect yourself, and others because by avoiding this disaster, you also protect others.
Sorry if it was not well written, bad turned or even offensive (Absolutely not what I wanted), I'm not a native English speaking person, I'm still learning, I tried my best to share my thoughts.
Love yourself.
@@Psych2go ❤️
Sadly I fell in the habit of ego... My gf has an avoidant type of attachment and is a single daughter living with her mother. I really feel she loves me and so do I but it always felt like we were drowning in a glass of water, because of me, my lack of empathy drove us this way and I'm worried of losing her, I feel so f stupid now that I realized what was wrong with me.. Sunday we will meet to discuss if we continue or break up. Wish me luck ;_;
So what happened?
@@NtrtAst We broke up. I went with a mindset ready to expect it though so I'd say it was kind of mutual and agreed to see each other again after some time. Fast forward, almost a month later I feel ok, sometimes sadness comes and goes but I managed to steady but slowly accept it. I'm ok with the fact that we're no longer talking, and I was constantly afraid to be alone but thanks to this channel and my therapist I realized it's a dumb, weak fear that currently I'm overcoming, it's not so terrible once you realize those kind of thoughts are there and when you begin to question them, they lose power so it helps a lot on the breakup recovery I think. Thanks for asking though (: I wish you the best!
@@arulykan8803 I'm glad to hear you are on your healing journey. It sounds like you are on the right path. Thanks for the update. Take care.
The last 3 hurt the most
Thanks for warning us!
Another helpful and great video
0:51 TOKO AND BYAKUYA!?
(They’re from a game called Danganronpa and that scene is basically their whole relationship)
I've been rejected by my crushes many times and feel mentally sad but I don't show it
hey there, i had a load of pent up frustrations and emotions about my gf like kinda small things but they irritated me a lot, yesterday i woke up and she had called me something i really didnt like but she said it was a "joke" and "not that deep" well it wasnt a joke to me no matter how insignificant that little thing she said was it meant a lot to me and really hurt me. so instead of telling her that i have been feeling hurt by what she says over a long time when she says it i try ignoring it and not tell her how i feel to avoid hurting her. well it really didnt work cus it overboiled yesterday. i got really angry at her and let it all out on her and said things i knew she wouldnt like as a sort of "stings doesnt it" to let her know the pain i felt so that she could maybe understand, but it didnt go my way at all. after the argument she said she lost feelings for me after what i said to her and she broke up with me... i tried apologizing but she wont even bother reading my apology and just answered with the letter "e" thats all she said i havent texted her after that.. i still have strong feelings for her and i dont know how to let go of them, i still love her so much and i regret letting my anger take control. i asked my dad for advice but he just said "theres someone out there for you" and that just makes everything even more depressing... everything i found fun to do before like play video games and watch movies and all my other hobbies are just not fun anymore either and i really need some help.
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Happy Birthday from the Psych2Go team!
Thanks so much for you videos
The habit of infidelity lol....how do you choose to have a relationship with someone who will be like that? You need to take a long time to vet the person before getting into a relationship. Don't rush it
You think you can have some intimate friendship advices. Being AroAce it's hard to look for advice like that considering most advice I find is romantic relationships and I have to substitute certain aspects of the articles to make it appeal to me
Ikr, Any vids or anything for stuff like this?
Cheaters deserve nothing. Those who use deserve nothing.
I recently broke with someone that was studying at the same academy, I had a relationship prior this one at the same place and fell uncomfortable, years later I found myself in love with this girl that I knew had something to do with the professor of the class, she didn’t mind to be with me, I have my own insecurities so I hide this relationship from the professor knowing that he knew.
I was complacent all the time with her, we had issues then we broke, I was pretty upset and sad, I feel that I needed her somehow, she never wanted me back, I tried a couple of times, she finally said no.
Yesterday I saw her talkin with the professor, she saying out loud they were taliking to be friends again meaning they will be fuckbodies again…….I hope my story help others to focus on themselves and don’t screw at work or at the place to be focus. God bless
Sorry about this! You got this!
Sometimes RelationShips WIll be bad and sometimes will be good Someone will be have crush on you or You Have a crush on Someone thank you for the habits!
i just wanna cry
These vedios are very helpful! Thank you!
I had the same problem they destroy me. They destroy me because I'm totally different
اللهم صل وسلم وزد وبارك على نبينا محمد وعلى اله الطيبين الطاهرين
My ex cheated on me despite having been together for 3 years and we promised to never let anyone come between us.
My whole world fell apart and I became more and more insecure of myself ever since he broke up with me and I have gotten deeply afraid that it could happen to me again if I do meet someone else.
I don't intend on giving up on love as a way to work on getting stronger and do better in a relationship...
Good tips!
One really bad habit is taking out what your ex’s did on your current partner. Say they’ve been screwed over on bills or even moving in together and now you don’t give your current partner those chances because somebody ruined them.
hi Psych2Go, love you’re videos! I was wondering if you can do a video about polyamory/polyamorous relationships?
oh this is complicated
You always compare your partner to others. There are several reasons why comparing your partner with your exes can harm your relationship.
You don't feel confident.
true!
What I’m wondering is “how much should one invest in a relationship before it’s time to cut your loses and leave?”
Like I’ve said to my partner “I love you” and have done my best to show them that it’s the case. (And it’s been for months)
She has yet to say it back but has made attempts to at least show me that she does. (But in my mind words are still important)
FULL DISCLOSURE: I’m a classic anxious preoccupied attachment and she is probably a dismissive avoidant (probably. Ive never met a DA who’s ever acknowledged it or even interested in attachment theory)
Our relationship had progressed very slowly and it’s stalled at a few moments but we’re chugging along at 15 miles an hour on the freeway. But at least there’s movement.
So I don’t know.
Please if anyone has insight I’ll gladly listen to your experiences.
I hope you all have a great day ❤️
To me actions speak louder than words! I' ve had the opposite and the actions don' t match the words, maybe she' s not ready yet, some ppl throw out I Love You' s all the time like nothing which is sad, I only said it and only when I meant it
@@Nola5427
After 10 months I think that by then a person knows. But anyway we broke up last week because she just continued to drift further away so I ended things. Still really sucks because I meant it 😔
In a relationsip i'm not sure on so i needed this advice
It's especially hard to avoid "ex-parison" when one's ex treated them in a way that changed all of their expectations of what they deserve.
Cheating is dishonest. Cheating is going past boundaries and making wrong decisions.
How much each of you give and how little each of you take for granted, will determine the success of a relationship.
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I loooveeee the art 😩‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️
Thank you
No relationship can be worked out successfully if you only care about yourself and your needs. All successful relationships in the world are based on a sense of compromise and collaboration. Each individual should consider the needs of their partner and place them ahead of their own. People who tend to put their own needs first can never have a healthy relationship.
I disagree. I think a healthy relationship is to find balance between my needs and needs of my partner. And sometimes, it's way more healthy to put my needs first ! Obviously, that + a lot of communication (bc it's the key)
Lol i read the third one as "the habbit of egg🥚"
The second one really concerned me
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lovin' the art style
Great Video! Thanks for the advice! Just a quick question, why did you guys change your animation style? Just curious!
I don't know if this is good or not, but I demand commitment from day one, from the very getting to know each other. I know it's not good, but my reason is that I'm tired of investing time in relationships that don't work. It may sound cliché, but my time is running out. I'm becoming 29 later this year, which means if I don't marry soon, I may not live to see my granchildren or even become too old to have children. That's why I don't think I can start a relationship that wouldn't turn into a marriage in the next 3 years. And furthermore, that is too short of a time for my situation right now, because I don't think I can do enough to sustain a family at this moment, in the next three years. Maybe I should take the fact I'll remain an old childless bag, who will just turn into a laughimg stock. Yeah, laugh now, I know. My luck doesn't look like changing any time soon anyways.
Read the lyrics at 0:00
+Psych2go *These five don't apply at present because I'm still seeking a relation.* As the autistic adult child of a dysfunctional house of origin, I didn't really have an opportunity to learn how one should be treated in the first place.
My gf lives in another country, i ofc love her a lot, but i can't get rid of a thought that i won't be able to protect her if smth happened to her...yet...but still.
And i hope to live a happy and a long life with her as soon as possible...i am just scared that someone might snach her from me :/
(Edit) She's a gold digger...and don't know why, but it hurts like hell...she only used me and broke my heart to pieces...
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Hello!
Me knowing damn well I’ll die alone: huh I better make sure not to ruin my relationship.
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number four basically perfectly describes how it was, she was beeing mean to me as a joke. after a while of ignoring my emotions about it i got really mad at her and said some bad things to her aswell, then she broke up with me and shit was shit. is there any hope to fix the relationship after nr4 ??
Yah my ex was the being a jerk one let’s just say after we broke up he started targeting me telling me to shut up and blaming me for stuff I didn’t do I mean he was being a jerk when we’re together but when we broke up it was more intense 😢