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Here are seven additional unmistakeable signs the guy is not interested: 1.) Any time you happen to be walking together, he will walk in front of you, and talks without looking at you. This doesn’t have to be an actual date - you two could be walking to your cars after a class, or after work, or leaving a party. 2.) If you and the guy are having an FWB, he will rarely, if ever, kiss you and he’ll want to go DTB (directly to bed) and leave immediately after. 3.) He rarely if ever says your name. 4.) He never asks you questions about your life, and your conversations are all about him and his life. 5.) And, of course, the sign you’ve already provided, but it bears repeating, he rarely makes prolonged eye contact. 6.) His texts are a dead-end. If you share an amusing story or a restaurant or movie review, if he responds at all, he will send a 1-3 word text that ends the conversation. 7.) Reread his texts. How many times do you see the word “you”?
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I was texting a guy rather consistently for two/three weeks because I was busy and he was flying out to visit family for a week. When we finally set a date, he texts me the day of with: “hey, I left some things at a friends house. She won’t be available until later tonight. Can we take a rain check?” I’m not a dummy. I played it calm and said “sure” and deleted everything I had of him. If someone can’t commit to a date after flirting for that long and it wasn’t due to a real emergency, he’s just not that into you and DROP HIM. immediate red flag here.
it's so SO annoying when guys choose to only communicate with me via instagram or other social media platforms. If the first thing someone asks me for is my social media handle instead of my number, that's an automatic red flag for me
Bc they likely want to see your pictures or an inside of your life and ppl you hang with. I don't think it's necessarily a red flag but I wouldn't hand my social media to just anyone unless I know them well. There are lots of clinical narcissists and insecure controlling ppl out there.
I never ask a woman for her social media until after ive gotten to know her a little bit. Even though I hate social media and I only on 1 social media site
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It's actually not important if you meet online or at a Party. Just Stop RUSHING. Have TWO conversations before meeting. Not a text. Not after one hour after chatting online. But have a conversation. AND... if there's no REAL feeling. Don't meet!
I had to ask him to not walk too far ahead of me, I had to ask him to hold my hand, I had to ask him to kiss me, I had to ask him to spend time with me. That's not even all. Is that too much to ask for in a relationship? NEXT!
Ryan You make me believe I am NOT too old fashioned, this guy I met always had an excuse of why he could NOT CALL ME, only TEXT, I called him on it, he told me i was paranoid, you made me Say , " SWIPE LEFT & DELETE " Thank you for saving my Dignity.
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this was my ex boyfriend..he was avoiding to kiss me😭it was painful...I decided to stop the dating game...what this man says on his video is true and it's damaging I'm damaged now😭
the men who are doing this crap need to be PUNISHED>.....it is horrible and disresptful to women....this I AM NOT GOING TO KISS YOU ...crap needs to STOP.......they can still be a jerk even if they do kiss you but you REALLY know up front if they are USING you if they won't kiss you ever......my guy claimed he just didn't like kissing.... YA RIGHT ...he was a liar and a PLAYER...and I fell for it hook line and sinker and got a broken heart to show for it
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Love your videos and your sense of humor in particular 😂 I am always laughing hard when you demonstrate the behavior of those guys we should avoid and what funny (not funny) excuses they use (in that changed voice) 😆 Thanks!! Very useful points today :)
I agree so much with the lady who said one of her main reasons for investing in your course is your natural ability to relate to and connect with women. It's a rare gift and we're the better for it! Thanks as always Ryan! (Also, silo'ing by guys has to be my most hated item on today's list lol)
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Awww I've had every single one of these men... Then I watched your Videos Ryan. That's when my life and dating life changed 😊 as you would say "I've got s*** to do" ❤️ xxx
I can definitely attest to #2, for sure!! This particular individual had been trying to get me to be intimate with him when I was just trying to get to know him. He used the lines to the effect of "Its just the way how I express my feelings for you" and "Why don't we explore how we feel for each other physically first?" He interspersed these statements with vague hints of wanting a relationship. He accepted a job offer out of state, and within that last week before he moved, his tone changed to, "I'm not attracted to you in 'that way'. Let's just be friends." I won't even touch on the standard-issue ghosting that followed. At best, I'm expecting him to pull a #8
Yep all true ladies know your worth because they will have you like a yo yo and it’s so exhausting don’t let anyone treat you like a option it’s such a sad situation to go through especially when tell you what u want to hear and not mean it stay strong and move on
Patrick made it so easy to forget someone you love. This is very difficult to stop a relationship with someone, you love even if he does not love you, it is very difficult to stop contacting him.. very difficult, this is feeling, you cannot helping to love this guy, you need years to start forgetting in thinking of him.. this is mentally very difficult.. very hard, even if you know he does not love you, still, you cannot help in loving him, to stop in contact with him,. it is even harder.
You are on the road of healing. It’s a bumpy road but it’s also a road filled with new places, characters and unimaginable sights. I speak to this from direct experience from over a decade ago. You’ve got this, I promise. Let your heart do as it needs 🙏
YES I AGREE it is SO HARD .....my guy has not loved me ever and he finally dumped me after 15 months of sleeping with me ...cuddling with me.....I MISS HIM SO MUCH.....even if he was just using me ......I just can't stand not having him in my life anymore.....I went to his house to beg for him to talk to me......he would not answer the door but sent me texts say GO AWAY DO NOT COME HERE AGAIN......broke my heart into a million pieces
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[*dies on "Funky Fresh"*] 😭👌 I don't know if there are new contents, but I appreciate realistic pov and it isn't just geared a woman's perspective. He also point out a person of his own specimen's potential pattern as well.
Yeah i know he doesnt like me back. He never initiate to text me first. He leaving me on read...but still i like him...I cant get him outta my mind even though I met a new guy😔. I feel like Chasing him...
If you don't find/get some advice from Ryan on this, look up some videos here on youtube about EFT tapping. Something about deserving happiness or chasing the unattainable plus EFT. It's free and easy, you may need to do it multiple times, but find a video which seems to fit your situation and keep doing the tapping. You need to break that program in your subconscious that's telling you to want that bad treatment (someone who doesn't want you).
Girl, the reality is always bitter at first but eventually sweet. Close your eyes and walk away. Keep yourself busy. Delete your previous conversations with him. Love yourself. You will be thankful months to come.
I dated a guy once and he would always come to my place but never invited me over. I felt like he was hiding something. We ended up not being compatible anyway since he only wanted to talk via text and not so much when we were in each other's company.
I was just talking to a guy for a little over a month. We went on a couple of dates, but last night he sent a text telling me he isn’t ready to date and we were moving too fast. A text! My reply...”ok”. Then I deleted the text thread and his number because I didn’t want to over think and say more. If he ever tries to hit me up again... that will be a hard NO. A red flag is definitely someone who doesn’t have the guts to talk to me face to face or at least over the phone. Plus, if he had been “paying attention” to me, he would have known first hand that my genuine kindness and appreciation does not mean I am falling for him. I am NOT the type to fall into a relationship quickly. It is definitely his stuff and not me.
Your so right..I'm in a long distance relationship..Have been for 2 year's.. Now it seems that I'm the one that is text first all the time... It time for him to start texting me first..Specially when he knows I'm not working..Sometimes he texting me first..But not every offten.. Thank you for the information... Love your videos...
About 7 months ago I reconnected with the love of my youth (me:16 him:18) after 29 years of losing contact. I thought based on him chasing me non-stop, that he wanted something meaningful with me but he pulled the old “I’m not ready” routine after I had several visits with him (we are long distance). He just got out of a 13 year relationship less than a year ago (he indicated it was on and off throughout that time). He never wanted to marry her even though they have a 4 year old daughter together. He wanted me to move to his town and even to move in with him and I put the brakes on that idea. What I don’t get is that after my ultimatum about me feeling like I was just a rebound chase, he tried to reassure me I was not. I have purposely faded away yet he keeps calling me constantly and seems to think we have more than we do. I feel like we can only be friends but sometimes I want to abandon that thought too because he seems to think I don’t have other “options”. I chose not to date anyone right now although I gave him serious consideration. Now I’m just flat out pissed off about the fact he has wasted my time. I got suckered because we had a history but clearly it really meant nothing to him, it just became a manipulation tool for him to get some sort of ego boost.
My hb actually deleted me on fb 😆🙄but honestly its all the same to me bc I stopped caring long ago. Just as long as he leaves me alone and not bully me, then we good
I'm sorry that's always one of my biggest fears is getting stuck in a relationship. Your happiness is worth so much more. Easier said than done. Maybe there is some complacency there which is totally possible. Call him out. The right man/real man would step up.
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i have a concerning question lets just say the guy I thought i liked turns out to be gay and he asked me to hangout i asked him if I could bring a friend . he said bring any friend to hang out but he also wants to meet my parents . one thing I have noticed was it feels like he is into me. he initiate a hang out with me and then meeting my parents i thought he was into me. I am confused at this point. i felt like he did like me .
Some relationships are about companionship, and that may not imply physical connection, if he is gay - I've seen this plenty of times, gay men getting married to women, lesbians getting married to men, and they have an ok marriage, as long as they respect each other's rules. But is this what YOU want? Don't you want to be with a man that will offer you a partnership AND physical affection? If you are ready to take on such a relationship, I say have a conversation with him and ask him what he wants, truly. No man is entitled to put you in a confused state, gay, straight or whatever. Draw boundaries, think about YOU first.
I’ve been able to avoid these long winded situations with guys by applying one ☝️ principle, avoiding having them as friends or forever love 🥰 interest. I’ve eliminated male friendships by making this unique distinction with boundaries
I’m dating an actual Luddite! He only has a home phone, no cell phone. As an older woman (57) this isn’t that hard for me because it’s basically just like it was for me when I was younger. So, obviously, he doesn’t text or message or insta me. He does travel as much as me to see each other but he doesn’t look me in the eyes much either. Still I think he just has lower self esteem because he looks me in the eyes more now than he did at the start.
I think the older men can act strangely sometimes and it's just because they're set in their ways, not really with it in a modern sense. My mom had different issues when she started dating again after divorce. The older men were surprisingly quite particular about things. I'm 49, and can't meet anyone, don't do social media (don't want the drama!).... so I kinda dread dating again. I've been treated so horribly in the past that I'm reluctant to try again. I think it's incredibly brave of you to put yourself out there in the quest for love. I believe the best love can come later in life. All the best to you!!
@@crystalanamericaninsicily hahaha! If ONLY! Cuz I’d be the first one to find it! He has two grown daughters who really wish he’d get with the times too! Anyway, ever since this post, I’ve noticed him relaxing more and more with me and he is definitely looking me straight in the eyes when it counts. In fact, I even caught him gazing lovingly at me when he thought I wasn’t paying attention and, when I turned to look at him, he held my gaze and told me was admiring my beautiful green eyes! So for now, I call his stubbornness not to own a cell phone “cute” and take the compliment. Forward Ho!
What do I do when the guy. Friends me through FB. And then I’m the one asking the ?. I’m old fashioned I don’t like this texting 💬 stuff. So what do I do?
Ask him to call you. Calling is actually a good indication that he really wants to get to know you anyway, and it's a much better way to do that. Followed by meeting in person sooner than later.
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I don't even bother playing the "How do I get him to call/text me," game. If he wants you, he WILL text or call you in a timely manner. Stop wasting time on these low effort guys. It only takes me about a week to spot a low effort male nowadays. If you don't learn to spot them early on, be prepared to get strung along.
I am online dating a guy and he says he loves me and loves me all the time but rarely makes conversations with me and he doesnt really show...he loves me? He just seems manipulative and sometimes when we're actually hanging out it only ends up with, you-know-what and kissing. I like him a lot but sometimes im just angry with him and dont think he loves me at all, no matter how much he says he does. He's wishy-washy (lol) and he once used "ill kill myself" against me and guilt trips me a lot even when he says he isnt. I know i should end things with him, but i want to see if he's changing. But ive already broken up with him 3 times and currently single. But im still talking to him as friend and he still wants me. Though he doesnt lean his life onto me as much. m choosing to probably not stay with him, your advice gas really helped me realize was is and isnt right. Ive been gaslighted by my entire family most of my life so knowing the red flags is hard. But when i see any i dont get offense but i asked about it and it always ends up with fighting. Thank you so much for your advice!!!! I subscribed ❤ i feel guilty for him but im hinstly done going in a loop, im not getting back with him. (Thank you for reading though you didnt need to! ❤) if anyone has any thoughts please tell! I dont mind if its criticism, but eh, pity, gross. Lol
U did the right thing have gone through this he's just immature n guys like this will never change u r just saving urself from. Multiple disappointments and heartaches stay strong
So why do they waste our time??? Men approach me??? They are so confusing. Why can't they just say what they mean and mean what they say????? Why all the head games????
@victoria it's so annoying when someone comes through and start playing mind games with you. It's like they want to push you into being vulnerable n then hit and run. Crazy bunch of cowards!!
@Victoria Vanshaw Because they like the hunt, the game, they only want sex or validation or that awful expression "unlimited access to an unlimited number of women", and oh so many times, they have no idea what they really want. Only time proves if a man's words and actions align.
Hi Ryan. I found your channel last night and must say I can't stop watching all your videos, you're awesome and very straight to the point! I'd like to suggest a subject for a video, how can I communicate with you? Thank you!! Mariana, Brazilian currently in Colombia :)
What if he addresses me with one of the "generic nicknames", but ALSO asks for a soon to be happening date? (side note: the nickname could potentially also have been used due to a sun emoji I sent prior to it. Or I am reading too much into it?)
Ryan! Thank you for this video, another one with amazing content. It’s really nice to see and hear other women who have used your boyfriend blueprint and their thoughts on it! You are amazing for helping us so much!
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am dating a man who is aways traveling he took on the date n he called me on and on again for one month but l couldn't make it then after the next the month he called and he invited me and a told him that am going out with my friends so a don't know if he was pissed or something cos now he has taken 4 weeks with out communication . what should l do?
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Im getting bord here bob if u cant meet me this week dont expect to hear from me .we should totally kick it soon girlly girl LIKE WEN FUNKY FRESH PMSL 😂😂😂👍
It’s crazy how I keep eye contact with any woman I talk to, my female friends pointed it out. Non of them know that am half deaf and I keep I contact to keep track of the lips
Try not to see them as "men". Just as human beings. If they get along with you, if they want the same things as you do, you both put in the work and it balances out. Trouble is we get confused about our intentions, or theirs, and we blame it on each other.
Great video! Can you make a video about long distance relationships and what to do if a guy says he’s not looking for a relationship but wants to keep in touch
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“Your happiness is 100% your responsibility”. YES!
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Thank U Captain obvious
Here are seven additional unmistakeable signs the guy is not interested:
1.) Any time you happen to be walking together, he will walk in front of you, and talks without looking at you. This doesn’t have to be an actual date - you two could be walking to your cars after a class, or after work, or leaving a party.
2.) If you and the guy are having an FWB, he will rarely, if ever, kiss you and he’ll want to go DTB (directly to bed) and leave immediately after.
3.) He rarely if ever says your name.
4.) He never asks you questions about your life, and your conversations are all about him and his life.
5.) And, of course, the sign you’ve already provided, but it bears repeating, he rarely makes prolonged eye contact.
6.) His texts are a dead-end. If you share an amusing story or a restaurant or movie review, if he responds at all, he will send a 1-3 word text that ends the conversation.
7.) Reread his texts. How many times do you see the word “you”?
Yes. This.
Dead on
Yes, all of this
Wow ☹️
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“Never place your happiness in a man’s hands.” YES!!! 🔥 Thank you for empowering women and helping them rise to their capabilities.
That is so true!!
I was texting a guy rather consistently for two/three weeks because I was busy and he was flying out to visit family for a week. When we finally set a date, he texts me the day of with: “hey, I left some things at a friends house. She won’t be available until later tonight. Can we take a rain check?” I’m not a dummy. I played it calm and said “sure” and deleted everything I had of him. If someone can’t commit to a date after flirting for that long and it wasn’t due to a real emergency, he’s just not that into you and DROP HIM. immediate red flag here.
Yes, he is not worth your time.
Absolutely!!! Well handled!
Are you sure you didn't react too quickly though? Shouldn't people get a chance? What if what he said was genuine?
No offense.
@@Valoelify ...No, she is not overreacting. Any plans canceled, should be with a personal call, not a text.
As you should queen
it's so SO annoying when guys choose to only communicate with me via instagram or other social media platforms. If the first thing someone asks me for is my social media handle instead of my number, that's an automatic red flag for me
Bc they likely want to see your pictures or an inside of your life and ppl you hang with. I don't think it's necessarily a red flag but I wouldn't hand my social media to just anyone unless I know them well. There are lots of clinical narcissists and insecure controlling ppl out there.
It is a red flag! They won’t even ask you out.
Losers. Stop organizing dates on social media. Have a conversation... Actually TWO.
I never ask a woman for her social media until after ive gotten to know her a little bit. Even though I hate social media and I only on 1 social media site
soooo true
"His way or the highway"... Nailed it! Thank you, Ryan. You're great
Ryan should do a video on serious guys versus the casual dating guys and what girls can expect from them
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Yes
Yup
"9" He will never match your efforts. This video really helped me, thank you.
We need to go back to the old fashion way of meeting someone 🤷♀️
It's actually not important if you meet online or at a Party. Just Stop RUSHING. Have TWO conversations before meeting. Not a text. Not after one hour after chatting online. But have a conversation. AND... if there's no REAL feeling. Don't meet!
Oh, yes, we had parties before, now we have corona
Which is....? Arranged marriage by our parents while we're still children perhaps?
That's what I want,so I'm letting life happen the way it will.
@@crystalanamericaninsicily ...I liked your comment 😊 But, yes, I think it matters. Seems to be, even more bullsh*t online.
I had to ask him to not walk too far ahead of me, I had to ask him to hold my hand, I had to ask him to kiss me, I had to ask him to spend time with me. That's not even all. Is that too much to ask for in a relationship? NEXT!
Effort for effort ! Lol that’s all there’s to it !! Keep your options open !
I am so thankful that i don't have to worry anymore . I wish everyone true love with no worries.
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The problem is women sometimes won’t listen even if the man is being direct.
Ive done that
Me, I’ve done that too
Is our fault sometimes
Ryan You make me believe I am NOT too old fashioned, this guy I met always had an excuse of why he could NOT CALL ME, only TEXT, I called him on it, he told me i was paranoid, you made me Say , " SWIPE LEFT & DELETE "
Thank you for saving my Dignity.
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Im so grateful for all the great advice and I will be using it in my current single life.
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Your insights are spot on and I appreciate you laying out everything so clearly. Thank you for all that you do.
Thank you for this & that you work with women of all ages. Single & divorced, all walks of life. I just stumbled across your channel & am glad I did.
this was my ex boyfriend..he was avoiding to kiss me😭it was painful...I decided to stop the dating game...what this man says on his video is true and it's damaging I'm damaged now😭
Avoiding to KISS you...and you were still in a Relationship??
@@crystalanamericaninsicily 😔love is blind Dating Coach
Wow I had this happened to me but I was in a situationship FWB type of thing
the men who are doing this crap need to be PUNISHED>.....it is horrible and disresptful to women....this I AM NOT GOING TO KISS YOU ...crap needs to STOP.......they can still be a jerk even if they do kiss you but you REALLY know up front if they are USING you if they won't kiss you ever......my guy claimed he just didn't like kissing.... YA RIGHT ...he was a liar and a PLAYER...and I fell for it hook line and sinker and got a broken heart to show for it
Re: "he will show you off in front of his friends."
He literally has NO friends.
A guy's excuses "I gotta feed my mom" hahahahaha
I actually got that excuse!! 🙄
Yes..or to feed an Adam he takes care of...only to realise he is taking care of a sick woman not a lad...and she s his partner...lol
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Love your videos and your sense of humor in particular 😂 I am always laughing hard when you demonstrate the behavior of those guys we should avoid and what funny (not funny) excuses they use (in that changed voice) 😆 Thanks!! Very useful points today :)
Wow all I could say is thank you and it's time to put me first, I'm done waiting around for nothing🌟
My pleasure! 😉
You're hilarious!!! At this point, I don't think I've ever met a guy who wasn't vague or lazy 😂
This guy you’re explaining sounds like a real winner
Question: Why do guys that are not interested get jealous if you hang with other guys?
She probably doesn’t want you giving attention to other guys because she enjoyed because the center of attention
whatzpp him I was like this be'fore I know who can he:lp you out text him now he can solve your problem:: don't waste your time here,.....
whatzpp him I was like this be'fore I know who can he:lp you out text him now he can solve your problem:: don't waste your time here,.....
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I agree so much with the lady who said one of her main reasons for investing in your course is your natural ability to relate to and connect with women. It's a rare gift and we're the better for it! Thanks as always Ryan! (Also, silo'ing by guys has to be my most hated item on today's list lol)
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This sounds like what I've let happen to me......I totally enabled this man to do a number on my head...I totally get it now!
True love never die don't give up anything in life all hope is not lost.
Text him on what'sApp
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Awww I've had every single one of these men... Then I watched your Videos Ryan. That's when my life and dating life changed 😊 as you would say "I've got s*** to do" ❤️ xxx
I’m sooo busy with work 😂😂😂
Oh my God, the submarine. Thats hilarious. 😆 so true though.
Love the EMPOWERMENT from this video. Thanks Ryan
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You're such a good guy Ryan.
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Thank you Ryan ! All of this is so true 😊
I can definitely attest to #2, for sure!! This particular individual had been trying to get me to be intimate with him when I was just trying to get to know him. He used the lines to the effect of "Its just the way how I express my feelings for you" and "Why don't we explore how we feel for each other physically first?" He interspersed these statements with vague hints of wanting a relationship. He accepted a job offer out of state, and within that last week before he moved, his tone changed to, "I'm not attracted to you in 'that way'. Let's just be friends." I won't even touch on the standard-issue ghosting that followed. At best, I'm expecting him to pull a #8
whatzpp him I was like this be'fore I know who can he:lp you out text him now he can solve your problem:: don't waste your time here,.....
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Yep all true ladies know your worth because they will have you like a yo yo and it’s so exhausting don’t let anyone treat you like a option it’s such a sad situation to go through especially when tell you what u want to hear and not mean it stay strong and move on
True love never die don't give up anything in life all hope is not lost.
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The patterns are loud and clear, mama man man I give up.
I would like to take your class, but I’m broke😭😭😭 great video, really useful tips. You have such a refreshing perspective on dating.
Patrick made it so easy to forget someone you love. This is very difficult to stop a relationship with someone, you love even if he does not love you, it is very difficult to stop contacting him.. very difficult, this is feeling, you cannot helping to love this guy, you need years to start forgetting in thinking of him.. this is mentally very difficult.. very hard, even if you know he does not love you, still, you cannot help in loving him, to stop in contact with him,. it is even harder.
You are on the road of healing. It’s a bumpy road but it’s also a road filled with new places, characters and unimaginable sights. I speak to this from direct experience from over a decade ago. You’ve got this, I promise. Let your heart do as it needs 🙏
YES I AGREE it is SO HARD .....my guy has not loved me ever and he finally dumped me after 15 months of sleeping with me ...cuddling with me.....I MISS HIM SO MUCH.....even if he was just using me ......I just can't stand not having him in my life anymore.....I went to his house to beg for him to talk to me......he would not answer the door but sent me texts say GO AWAY DO NOT COME HERE AGAIN......broke my heart into a million pieces
Ryan I feel like your channel would be made even MORE great with the addition of some applied attachment theory
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thanks for sharing ❤ its an Eye opener
[*dies on "Funky Fresh"*] 😭👌 I don't know if there are new contents, but I appreciate realistic pov and it isn't just geared a woman's perspective. He also point out a person of his own specimen's potential pattern as well.
Yeah i know he doesnt like me back. He never initiate to text me first. He leaving me on read...but still i like him...I cant get him outta my mind even though I met a new guy😔. I feel like Chasing him...
If you don't find/get some advice from Ryan on this, look up some videos here on youtube about EFT tapping. Something about deserving happiness or chasing the unattainable plus EFT. It's free and easy, you may need to do it multiple times, but find a video which seems to fit your situation and keep doing the tapping. You need to break that program in your subconscious that's telling you to want that bad treatment (someone who doesn't want you).
Girl, the reality is always bitter at first but eventually sweet. Close your eyes and walk away. Keep yourself busy. Delete your previous conversations with him. Love yourself. You will be thankful months to come.
@@ribbitopower851 I 'll try
Same situation me too I'm back of my bf but he ignores me so much
Do not chase no man
My ex blamed the distance between us for ending things. Everything was always on HIS terms. When he pulled back - He ended things.
What if he always just comes to me?! And never invites me to go to him!?
I dated a guy once and he would always come to my place but never invited me over. I felt like he was hiding something. We ended up not being compatible anyway since he only wanted to talk via text and not so much when we were in each other's company.
It's probably worth asking him about it at some point in your relationship?
Married? Girlfriend? Lives with his mom? Hoarder? I’d say you can mention your curiosity to him and ask why he does this. See how he responds.
He is married an not happy at home dnt be deceived.
@@maryjohnson4358 we talk alit in person..it's just the whole he always comes over and never invites me.
I was just talking to a guy for a little over a month. We went on a couple of dates, but last night he sent a text telling me he isn’t ready to date and we were moving too fast. A text! My reply...”ok”. Then I deleted the text thread and his number because I didn’t want to over think and say more. If he ever tries to hit me up again... that will be a hard NO. A red flag is definitely someone who doesn’t have the guts to talk to me face to face or at least over the phone. Plus, if he had been “paying attention” to me, he would have known first hand that my genuine kindness and appreciation does not mean I am falling for him. I am NOT the type to fall into a relationship quickly.
It is definitely his stuff and not me.
Your so right..I'm in a long distance relationship..Have been for 2 year's..
Now it seems that I'm the one that is text first all the time...
It time for him to start texting me first..Specially when he knows I'm not working..Sometimes he texting me first..But not every offten..
Thank you for the information...
Love your videos...
Such a good video! That is so true.
I started watching when you had maybe 25,000 subscribers!? Completely changed my online dating game in just 3 months 😊
Thank you Ryan. You taught me a new term ‘Submariner’ 😂 sad not so true!
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Every point matches with my husband... he was never interested.. I'm so stuck
Lose him. ASAP
@@tinasharinna1012 Thank you Tina, I hope I get courage 🙏🙏
@@SG-iv8iw you can do it. I did it 16 years ago, after 13 years marriage. Never felt better🙂
@@tinasharinna1012 thank you so much... this helped .. thank u once again 💖🙏
True love never die don't give up anything in life all hope is not lost.
Love all of these tips. Thanks Ryan!
It makes me not want to date anymore 💔😂
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About 7 months ago I reconnected with the love of my youth (me:16 him:18) after 29 years of losing contact. I thought based on him chasing me non-stop, that he wanted something meaningful with me but he pulled the old “I’m not ready” routine after I had several visits with him (we are long distance). He just got out of a 13 year relationship less than a year ago (he indicated it was on and off throughout that time). He never wanted to marry her even though they have a 4 year old daughter together. He wanted me to move to his town and even to move in with him and I put the brakes on that idea. What I don’t get is that after my ultimatum about me feeling like I was just a rebound chase, he tried to reassure me I was not. I have purposely faded away yet he keeps calling me constantly and seems to think we have more than we do. I feel like we can only be friends but sometimes I want to abandon that thought too because he seems to think I don’t have other “options”. I chose not to date anyone right now although I gave him serious consideration. Now I’m just flat out pissed off about the fact he has wasted my time. I got suckered because we had a history but clearly it really meant nothing to him, it just became a manipulation tool for him to get some sort of ego boost.
Thank you for such a great video! Now I am convinced he is really into me hahaha
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“Funky Fresh? That’s good.” 😂😂😂
True love never die don't give up anything in life all hope is not lost.
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Jeez. Another bang on vid🔥
And...what happens when it’s your Husband doing any combination of these 10 things?😭
Divorce, dettach or both. I say both.
DIVORCE him!!
My hb actually deleted me on fb 😆🙄but honestly its all the same to me bc I stopped caring long ago. Just as long as he leaves me alone and not bully me, then we good
I'm sorry that's always one of my biggest fears is getting stuck in a relationship. Your happiness is worth so much more. Easier said than done. Maybe there is some complacency there which is totally possible. Call him out. The right man/real man would step up.
@@YogawithAliBeale Know your VALUE. Don't be manipulated!
Thank you for the great advise! so helpful... love it!
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I had a guy tell me he likes me then his friend called me and told me he didn’t like me.
Wow, he matches most of these. Too bad I liked him but... NEXT!
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i have a concerning question lets just say the guy I thought i liked turns out to be gay and he asked me to hangout i asked him if I could bring a friend . he said bring any friend to hang out but he also wants to meet my parents . one thing I have noticed was it feels like he is into me. he initiate a hang out with me and then meeting my parents i thought he was into me. I am confused at this point. i felt like he did like me .
Some relationships are about companionship, and that may not imply physical connection, if he is gay - I've seen this plenty of times, gay men getting married to women, lesbians getting married to men, and they have an ok marriage, as long as they respect each other's rules. But is this what YOU want? Don't you want to be with a man that will offer you a partnership AND physical affection? If you are ready to take on such a relationship, I say have a conversation with him and ask him what he wants, truly. No man is entitled to put you in a confused state, gay, straight or whatever. Draw boundaries, think about YOU first.
HE'S GAY!! Hello... There will never be any ROMANTIC future.
It's the old lady driving for me
I’ve been able to avoid these long winded situations with guys by applying one ☝️ principle, avoiding having them as friends or forever love 🥰 interest. I’ve eliminated male friendships by making this unique distinction with boundaries
Thank you next!!!! Yesssss, love your videos
I needed this. Luckily it was a few months and not anymore time.
I’m dating an actual Luddite! He only has a home phone, no cell phone. As an older woman (57) this isn’t that hard for me because it’s basically just like it was for me when I was younger. So, obviously, he doesn’t text or message or insta me. He does travel as much as me to see each other but he doesn’t look me in the eyes much either. Still I think he just has lower self esteem because he looks me in the eyes more now than he did at the start.
I don't believe ANYONE doesn't have a cell phone. Not looking you in the eyes. Big RED Flag. Hiding something...probably his "cell phone"
I think the older men can act strangely sometimes and it's just because they're set in their ways, not really with it in a modern sense. My mom had different issues when she started dating again after divorce. The older men were surprisingly quite particular about things. I'm 49, and can't meet anyone, don't do social media (don't want the drama!).... so I kinda dread dating again. I've been treated so horribly in the past that I'm reluctant to try again. I think it's incredibly brave of you to put yourself out there in the quest for love. I believe the best love can come later in life. All the best to you!!
i know an older man who doesnt own a cell phone so it is a thing
@@paris1033x I find it hard to believe that someone doesn't own a cell phone in 2021. I would DOUBLE check!
@@crystalanamericaninsicily hahaha! If ONLY! Cuz I’d be the first one to find it! He has two grown daughters who really wish he’d get with the times too! Anyway, ever since this post, I’ve noticed him relaxing more and more with me and he is definitely looking me straight in the eyes when it counts. In fact, I even caught him gazing lovingly at me when he thought I wasn’t paying attention and, when I turned to look at him, he held my gaze and told me was admiring my beautiful green eyes! So for now, I call his stubbornness not to own a cell phone “cute” and take the compliment. Forward Ho!
Thank you so much Ryan for all the advise... I will not allow those A**holes to manipulate me. 👍
Im gonna block him tonight 👍😝
I'd love to see a video on this topic but how it relates if person is long distance
Ryan doesn’t really agree with long distance relationships - he has a video about that... I’ll try to find the link...
What do I do when the guy. Friends me through FB. And then I’m the one asking the ?. I’m old fashioned I don’t like this texting 💬 stuff. So what do I do?
Ask him to call you. Calling is actually a good indication that he really wants to get to know you anyway, and it's a much better way to do that. Followed by meeting in person sooner than later.
@@stormchylde3999 do it. I am 50 I truly don’t want to waist time. Thanks
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You’re hilarious 😂👌 tnx for the info too.
Thank you this helped me so much! I let go of a guy like this asap!
I don't even bother playing the "How do I get him to call/text me," game. If he wants you, he WILL text or call you in a timely manner. Stop wasting time on these low effort guys. It only takes me about a week to spot a low effort male nowadays. If you don't learn to spot them early on, be prepared to get strung along.
I have 3 boyfriend so I don’t care if I am into them I Just in Joy all of them
You're one of those toxic females
Why do you do this for us? I know money but why help women ???💙💙💙 we love you Ryan
I am online dating a guy and he says he loves me and loves me all the time but rarely makes conversations with me and he doesnt really show...he loves me? He just seems manipulative and sometimes when we're actually hanging out it only ends up with, you-know-what and kissing. I like him a lot but sometimes im just angry with him and dont think he loves me at all, no matter how much he says he does. He's wishy-washy (lol) and he once used "ill kill myself" against me and guilt trips me a lot even when he says he isnt. I know i should end things with him, but i want to see if he's changing. But ive already broken up with him 3 times and currently single. But im still talking to him as friend and he still wants me. Though he doesnt lean his life onto me as much. m choosing to probably not stay with him, your advice gas really helped me realize was is and isnt right. Ive been gaslighted by my entire family most of my life so knowing the red flags is hard. But when i see any i dont get offense but i asked about it and it always ends up with fighting.
Thank you so much for your advice!!!! I subscribed ❤ i feel guilty for him but im hinstly done going in a loop, im not getting back with him. (Thank you for reading though you didnt need to! ❤) if anyone has any thoughts please tell! I dont mind if its criticism, but eh, pity, gross. Lol
U did the right thing have gone through this he's just immature n guys like this will never change u r just saving urself from. Multiple disappointments and heartaches stay strong
@@Drching-hx9tn thank youu!! ❤
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@@jamesjoe2136 thank you but I think I got this on my own 😁
So why do they waste our time??? Men approach me??? They are so confusing. Why can't they just say what they mean and mean what they say????? Why all the head games????
@victoria it's so annoying when someone comes through and start playing mind games with you. It's like they want to push you into being vulnerable n then hit and run. Crazy bunch of cowards!!
literally
@Victoria Vanshaw Because they like the hunt, the game, they only want sex or validation or that awful expression "unlimited access to an unlimited number of women", and oh so many times, they have no idea what they really want. Only time proves if a man's words and actions align.
Thank you🙏This has helped me a lot
sign #9, I should've took that sign way earlier before I got more attached lol.
Ha! I was married to a submariner. Would never have guessed submarining would become a term used in dating.
Hi Ryan. I found your channel last night and must say I can't stop watching all your videos, you're awesome and very straight to the point! I'd like to suggest a subject for a video, how can I communicate with you? Thank you!! Mariana, Brazilian currently in Colombia :)
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I followed many of these things
And guys run away- 5 yrs running 🏃♀️ now
One of my neighbors! He’s not married. Every time we run into each other, he punches me! Like one of the guys. So what’s that about?
tell him "that hurts, so don't do it" and maybe say "if you like me, show me in another way" lol
Punch him back really really hard lol
What if he addresses me with one of the "generic nicknames", but ALSO asks for a soon to be happening date? (side note: the nickname could potentially also have been used due to a sun emoji I sent prior to it. Or I am reading too much into it?)
Ryan! Thank you for this video, another one with amazing content. It’s really nice to see and hear other women who have used your boyfriend blueprint and their thoughts on it! You are amazing for helping us so much!
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NEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEXT!!!! 😎💜😎
am dating a man who is aways traveling he took on the date n he called me on and on again for one month but l couldn't make it then after the next the month he called and he invited me and a told him that am going out with my friends so a don't know if he was pissed or something cos now he has taken 4 weeks with out communication . what should l do?
His disappointed and make mind games now. He wants u to initiate and do the act.
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Im getting bord here bob if u cant meet me this week dont expect to hear from me .we should totally kick it soon girlly girl LIKE WEN FUNKY FRESH PMSL 😂😂😂👍
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Great advice!
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It’s crazy how I keep eye contact with any woman I talk to, my female friends pointed it out. Non of them know that am half deaf and I keep I contact to keep track of the lips
I will never understand men. 🤔
*sigh*, I'm with you
Try not to see them as "men". Just as human beings. If they get along with you, if they want the same things as you do, you both put in the work and it balances out. Trouble is we get confused about our intentions, or theirs, and we blame it on each other.
They are all manipulators
Great video! Can you make a video about long distance relationships and what to do if a guy says he’s not looking for a relationship but wants to keep in touch
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Your making me cry. 18 years
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How can I subscribe to the Boyfriend Blueprint in 2023?
Lol you’re literally hilarious I’m watching and dyinggg
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You remind me of the dentist guy from the Hangover. You sound like him too
My crush seems like he doesn't hate me but doesn't seem like he is in "love" whats your opinion