Make her pay child support (backdoor alimony for women). That's why the judge will never do it. His client won't profit. The state won't profit (Title IV D reimbursement).
And if people learn their history they will know they need to update the laws about Child support Because child support was created while back because at the time women didn't have jobs now women do have jobs so they need to update the child support method.... By not updating the child support method is being sexist towards men..
Absolutely correct, and it sounds like she as a well paying job, if she is dealing with one crisis after another, probably hyperbole from her attorney!
This is BS..No above needs for children to be raised…Children should get the support from dad but to get so much she is out at a 5 star restaurant eating $30 salads with her girlfriends..this is what she wants this is not fair …she should manage the $6000better it’s not his fault she wants to live I. The one percentage of the American elites ..let her go to college and better her life and provide her own high class life 2 children $6000 a month she is over spending I know women who can provide for a house if 4 -5 on $6000 a month and live great …
I am blown away that so many people are saying this. She seems terrible, don’t get me wrong, but that’s about how much it costs to raise a kid at minimum. School tuition alone cuts at least $10k-$12k a year off of that amount (per child). Rent cuts another $3k a month if you’re able to find a really cheap 2-3 bedroom up to nearly $5k a month easy if you don’t want to be scared. Then there’s food and sports and basic necessities. My wife doesn’t work, so thankfully we don’t need childcare but that’s another huge expense if needed.
@jmox1776 Buddy, most working fathers only make $60k/year, and they support their child on $600/month on average. It does not cost $68k annually to support 2 children.
Since when does sitting on the phone for BCBS become so demanding that you need a nanny for a 10 and 12 year old… smh…The real issue is she’s mad that man bought a nice house and she can’t afford one
No she’s mad he’s educated and responsible and manages his life better and she can’t. Guaranteed that’s part of divorce reasons. She’s mad he can manage finances etc. she lost a house while he’s buying bigger ones is INFURIATING to lazy lame losers! Jealousy!!
The Dr. pays more than $5000.00 dollars a month to this woman for childcare and she wants him to pay for what he already pays for. Mom and lawyer should be investigated by the court.
Bitcc is lazy and can't function enough to have a job and be present for her children. The sheer insanity in showing that she can't cook food for her kids and get them off to school before 730 am even though she works at home says everything about her mental state. Those kids don't need to be with her.
A 3 and 4 YO is difficult. As 12 YO is semi self-sufficient and independent enough to not need an adult 24/7. She can work while these pre-teens do their own thing.
He's actually pays 5,392 a month! 70k a year, and you can't figure it out? That means she's living above her means! Which is why she had to sell the house! Give the children to the father, and you pay 5k a month! What did she spend the money on that she got from the house?
Remember, doctors like him who are dentists (especially if they are of high caliber) can pull $500K - $1M a year. So, his paying $70K a year in child support is very comfortable. For her, she's just being greedy. Clearly, she's living way above her means and just wants the California lifestyle in Traverse City, Michigan.
@@jirenthegray I’m 51, been in San Diego BEACHES , the beach! For 32 yrs. I’m a surfer. I did have a a I’d line job part time but I’ve been around the world 5x and own 3 -3/2 homes. ‘3’ of them! I have never earned over $60/75k a year! Now and many years I live on 35-45! Mortgage and all and I buy new surfboard and hotels etc! I have no kids and don’t wear Lou outings and saint laurent or Gucci and I’m very well financially minded and rational, but still I live in San Diego beach and own homes and live under $50k a year and I have a 800fico score and no debt. Heees the deal, I was a loan officer during the sub prime crash 2008-2010. I can’t tell you how many times I managed peoples loans and saw bank statements and told borrowers that if they downsize the Wife AND KIDS off of the Beamer’s and Benz and shopped at Walmart and target and did not go on vacation this year they could save the house or houses(s) plural! NAH!!! Never! They all said… ALL OF THEM… FUQ IT! LET THE HOUSE GO! I’ll keep the designer jeans and sunglasses and trips and let the house go. They all wanna. Compete with the jones instead of regionally down sizing the kids and wife to Hondas and Subarus and grocery shop and cook meals at home instead of sushi out all the time, but NAHHHHH . Let the house go everytime! I’m a dumb idiot surfer guy loan officer and these are lawyers other agents doctors physicians etc and they’re all more educated and more experienced than me and they all said fuq it, let the house go!
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They’re talking about a 10 and a 12 year old like they’re toddlers. Why would you need a nanny for someone in MIDDLE SCHOOL?
So she can get her hair done and sucker new guys to buy her things. Plus she needs a reason for the money. This is an example where you take the money and keep your mouth shut. Once they start opening this can of worms they'll probably end up cutting the child support down back to where it originally was. It's how people get caught when you get too greedy.
Nanny is housekeeper/cook. Dad is paying for mom's lifestyle. Mom is greedy and will end up with nothing if she keeps on this path. Dad is thinking of the children by paying extra already.
As I was listening to the female lawyer list off all of the things that the mother was asking for extra money to cover and my first thought was, "What does this woman think the child support is supposed to be used for"? These are all things she should be using that money for, after all, the purpose for the money is LITERALLY spelled out in the name "Child Support"
@@MakThaNife when you’re a head doctor you gotta save lives. He’s willing to take those days off. He’s not getting those days off. He’s taking him off for his kids.🤣🤣🤣🤣
I was self sufficient at the age of 8. Could dress myself, cook, clean do my hw, and keep myself entertained. What child care is needed WHEN THE CHILDREN ARE 10 AND 12?! Especially when you're home with them
My wife works from home in a high level corporate job. I have an 11 year old, no nanny needed. I bet this “nanny” is actually cleaning the house and cooking etc. Also, why do 10 and 12 year olds need cell phones?
Exactly. I was a latch-key kid at 7 yrs old in L.A. during the 80s. By 10-12 I was out skateboarding with friends all night and basically taking care of myself. This gal is just greedy.
Perfect opportunities for the 12yr old to test learn and practice growing up! Step up kid! Life’s not fair but the siblings will owe you later in life and at the least know who’s the older kid and who stepped up!
Not necessarily. I worked for UnitedHealthcare for years. They don't give employees any discounts' on coverage. Not that I agree with this greedy mother.
not true I work for bcbs in FL as a broker and the healthcare they provided for me in my child is a standard major medical plan for 300 a month with a 2k deductible and a 80/20 co ins. I certainly am not siding with this lady because 5k a month is what I make and im able to take care of my kid and save 2k a month living a normal life. This woman gets 5k a month in support and also gets her income. Gold diggers piss me off so much
If she is struggling so much and has to have to a nanny practically raise her children then why not send the kids with the father who can more then afford any child care and all their expenses?
The doctor bought a million dollar home because he can afford it. He is only responsible for child support. Not the extras the ex wants. I believe 80 % of support should be held in an account that is handled by a third party and only 20 % that the custodial parent can use. Because they are not using this money for their children. So if she can't support her children on 5K a month the children should go to the father. Apparently he seems financially sound and can do it. Sounds like the ex doesn't know how to handle her money. This ex's job is fluff.
It's anecdotal, but I've seen it plenty of times. Baby momma going after the father for more money and are quick to say what the child needs more money for but she got her nails done, hair done, new purse, etc. Giving them more money is no different than taking a lighter to your money. The child only gets what's left over half of the time.
In most, if not all, states both parents are equally responsible for medical necessaries of their minor children. However, the dad could argue, and likely win, that the upward amount he’s paying ($1600 more than what’s stipulated) should cover any medical expenses that the insurance doesn’t cover. Especially when considering that it’s an additional $1600 per month. The mom is on a money grab, plain and simple.
Uh hello?!? That’s women for you! His salary or income doesn’t matter. $1mil income doesn’t mean kid should get $200k. Celebrities are perfect example, I don’t care about used to lifestyles! People go broke and lose jobs and need to learn to downsize and adjust and be flexible and conform to a NEW LIFESTYLE WHEN losing a job or injury or death on family whatever. His ability to pay doesn’t require his requirement to pay. Just because he can pay more doesn’t mean he should, kids don’t deserve Gucci and prada. Sorry frivolous pretentious mothers, you need to wake up, it looks bad on you that you can’t afford lobster every night not the dad. Men are historically so RATIONAL money wise and financially. Women are notoriously poor lazy bad judgements of finances. I had a small claims case women judge that wasn’t a landlord rule against me and not allow me to speak in court literally. Then another time when I was younger and not a landlord I had a judge that was a landlord break law and literally ruled against the actual law for another fellow landlord I was suing for my deposit back. Law states simply 21days itemized list of deposit non refund, I got a lettter 23-25 days back. Sorry ! Not sorry! That’s the law 21 days! But judge said welll it’s close enough! Cuck fuq you! When do you let regular citizens off for being late? Never! But I found out later judge was. Landlord and that’s why he filed with the la doors I sued.
I read somewhere about 2 or 3 years ago that one of these states here in the U.S. was going to utilize a debit card for child support. This way they can audit or track the spending habits. And like an OTC benefit card, or EBT, only certain items from certain stores will be able to be purchased. I have no idea what happened to that plan. I think that would help A LOT against miss use of child support funds.
My daughter works from home and has 228 state employees under her that she manages. She also has an 8 & 12 year old children with no nanny. She needs to learn to manage her money.
$5,000 a month child support for a 12 year old & a 10 year old & she can’t manage ? She’s either a liar or not competent to look after children in the first place - those are the only two options…
Unfortunately the state allows for the parent recieving child support to use said support to pay bills and provide basic needs to the child(ren) in question....even pay rent....the f'd up part in all that is that it gives that parent room to abuse it by not going to work as that parent should....in those cases here in california a Gavron Warning is issued.....it means to go get a job...and of there's a continuance the parent ordered to look for work has to provide proof that he/SHE looked for work or managed to get one.
And she’s making 70k on top of the 70k he’s paying she can’t make it on over 100k a yr shiiiiiittt I would be fine with 2 kids just away from their teen yrs!
He just bought a.milliom dollar home?? Why? Of he is single and works all the time, a single bedroom apartment is all he needs and she needs a 4 bedroom home. One for each of.them and an office, minimally.
@@karenturner-wensel9536 Who are you to tell someone what do or don’t need? And 1350$ a week is plenty enough to support 2 children and I’m sure he guve the kids whatever they ask him for 1to1 or when he has his visits. She is wanting him to support her and the kids!? The woman is responsible for herself? It’s called “CHILD SUPPORT “ not child and ex-wife support.
@@karenturner-wensel9536 If they live in California, a million dollar home COULD BE a 2 bedroom house. We simply don't know. And SHE had the paid-for home, no mortgage, no rent, nothing, and she CHOSE to sell it. She did not have to, as 5k a month is more than sufficient to cover childcare expenses.
"I honestly dont think its his... choice... to dictate who provides childcare during her parenting time" Perfect... she chooses a nanny, she pays for it.
A law needs to be passed, where the father is entitled to know how every last cent of child support is spent, and he has the right to object to unreasonable expenses.
The idea that millions of women are sitting around eating bonbons while living off child support is bull-sht, most Mothers are working AND handling childcare, taking care of the house etc AND they end up paying FAR more outta their pocket than they receive in child support. You have an extreme case here and you're acting as if this is normal. No offense, but $100 says you've never been divorced and dealt with this situation but you have your "feelings", I'l wager another $100 you've never even married, you don't sound very bright. Fwiw you DO realize who makes the laws, don't you? It's not the judge.
If she doesn't want assistance with child care (The grandmother)during her parenting time, then she should be responsible for paying for her own childcare when she has them.
Struggle???? I have 5 kids and a wife to support on almost that exact same freaking income!!!! One child is special needs even. And she wants this for just her and two kids???? AND she has her own income to add to it? What a joke. 😂 she got used to that doctor money and wants to live a lavish lifestyle but without the doc. Too bad honey, the grass isn’t always greener on the other side. Should have stayed but for his sake you’re gone thank god. Give him full custody he seems willing.
They need to make child support cards like food stamps, where you could only buy kids things. I’ve seen way too many “mothers” using a child support card on booze and lottery.
I’m so tired of women thinking that they can divorce their husbands and then still live the exact same life style….. If I was the judge she would lose 1/2 of her support and then split the medical expenses and he shouldn’t be responsible for the nanny or give up 90%of the support.
This is the problem. The fact that family court makes it so that is the case is BS. They are no longer married. Why would she be living the same way when they are no longer together. Family law needs a full overhaul.
Also, she works as a high priority employee for Blue Cross Blue Sheild yet doesn't have insurance? That's laughable. I would be looking at perjury charges for the mother and the lawyer as I find that very hard, if not impossible, to believe.
I was just thinking the same thing. I understand lawyers have to represent their client to the best of their ability but their is just some clients I wouldn’t be able to take on and this is one of them. She is trying to fleece her ex and it’s disgusting
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You're right but the reason why is on full display those kids are a paycheck to her if the kids we're with him because he makes so much money he wouldn't get support but wouldn't have to pay either
This lady gets 5.4k a month and has to bring home at least 2k every other week which is 4k a month. That's 9.5k a month all while working from home sitting there with the kids after school and she crying poverty???
Some women are never satisfied I mean over $5.000.00 a month plus her wages and it’s still not enough,she should be investigated to see where all the child support is going.
Greedy!!! I'm raising 5 grand babies on $749.00 a month. I only get money for four of them. I do get help with food but only for 4 of them. It's never enough and I struggle so deeply. I couldn't even imagine having five grand.
I don’t know how you do it Michele. The state should be helping you, That’s a lot of work feeding & caring for 5 children. You my friend are an Angel from heaven.. we have one grandchild and he is my wife’s son’s boy. He is a useless piece of crap (her son). He has never paid one cent. And to tell you the truth, Both his parents have not seen him once since we got him out of CAS custody.
This is why you need an attorney every time. Yes, he’s not married to you anymore so he doesn’t have to pay for you anymore. It doesn’t matter how much he makes.
How is it that the courts insist that some kids need more than $5000 to live on, yet other kids need less than $500? If it’s possible for one child to live on that small of an amount, then all of them could.
Right? I raised my kids on $800 in child support and worked and we did just fine. They had everything they needed and could do activities when desired. I can't even imagine child support this high not being enough.
It's never about the child that's why we know this it's about sticking it to the man based on what he makes we all were children once and none of us could spend 1000 a month in extra activity per month if pops was paying 1700. Just a bugger house and better car for mom. Let's really be real 70 k a year a real mom would have 2 houses paid for off that support before they hit highschool. Easily but nope never happens that way.
If the courts were actually concerned about the children , then the high earning father should have full custody of the children , rather than paying the mother who can’t afford to maintain the home she was given in the divorce.
that's always something that has blown my mind... Like I understood the infants need mothers because of breastfeeding and the bond the child has but after 2 years that stuff is done... My daughter is 1000% a daddy's girl. she only wants me to sleep in her room with her or get her ready for bed, wants me to play with her all the time. She is attached to my hip 24/7. So the idea that women should be given default child care is baffling especially if they rely on CS. If mother cannot maintain lifestyle then child should stay with the parent that CAN.
@@holydarkness6007 exactly that, child support is single mother support. The government knows it and encourages it. Less money they have to spend to support them, and that money is going to get pumped back into the economy, as women spend much more than men on average. Congrats on the daughter by the way. I don’t have one, but I have noticed among friends and family, daughters with fathers in their life OVERWHELMINGLY become daddy’s girl. It’s beautiful to see a father and child together.
When her lawyer said why they're there for $400 and that it blows her mind made me laugh 😂😂 If it was for only that amount and she has an excellent job. Then why are they there 😂😂😂 She's already getting a huge amount 😂😂😂
If a marriage is an agreement where the man exchanges his resources for exclusive access to a woman,then why should a woman expect continued access to his funds while the man doesn't have exclusive access to her...
actually, if she doesn't want to give you access to her there's nothing you can do within the marriage, so at this point the only responsible person is the husband giving away his resources
When she said what she does for blue cross, I realized she's the guy that answers the phone when you dial 1800-ask-blue.. she's basically the first step when anybody with Blue Cross calls Blue Cross and verifies insurance or send their call to somebody who can actually help them.. I'm not trying to minimize, but she's Blue Cross operator
"Neither party shall seek a review of child support before April 30, 2025" - Why did this provision in the divorce agreement not bring this issue to an immediate close?
The lawyer for the wife is a good ass actress because she made it seem like her duties working from home was very demanding and physical in nature when in reality remote workers for insurance companies are just customer service jobs PERIOD! My homegirl works from home for another insurance company and she is literally bored at home because she just has to make sure she is active online whenever quality control monitor there calls etc. and by the way, if you remember those viral videos of people getting busted for being on vacation or on trips when their boss calls them or wants them to be on a video conference for remote workers......that's what this wife does
I remember 50 first baby mama got mad at him when he didn't tell her he bought Tyson's house. His response "You not living there, I am". Fifty also overpaid child support and the judge told him he was paying too much. These chicks only want a meal 🎫, it's never about care for the kids, it's just getting over and trying to ruin men.
My entire monthly income is less than what he is paying her for child support, in addition to her working full time job. If she is getting roughly twice what I make a month plus her own income, and still can't afford to take care of the children without more, then there are some serious issues with her handling of finances. I'm glad the judge ruled as he did, because all of her claims are suspect as hell.
it sounds like she does the same kind of work as my daughter. my daughter has three children the husband left with the girl next door and she is managing with out any support from the ex.
Don’t forget to add the her own income of whatever she makes a year…. Let’s say 50k a year might be more idk, that’s 110,000 a year… fucking crazy dude.
@@thelimey351Yep. He pays the tax on it and she gets it tax free. How TF is that not enough for 2 kids, especially when she's already got a full time job? Nuts.
Dude my dad took care of my son from home cuz he works from home just like that lady and my son was 2-3 years old that lady has no excuse her kids are 10-12🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
A million dollar home means nothing these days. I sold my crackerjack unremodeled 3 bed 1 bath home in north Hollywood in 2020 for $900k. It’s already worth over 1.5 now. So the dad basically just bought a house in today’s crazy market
I can't believe this woman would take this to court for an additional $300 per month when she's already receiving $5k per month. I can't imagine what the legal fees for she and her ex will be at the end of all this.
5500 is more than enough to pay all the expenses for those kids. Her share is $5500... she is basically saying the kids are costing $11,000 each month, which is ridiculous. The problem is that child support was never design to take care of of the the mother so that she doesn't have to be on welfare.
So she gets 5k a month, plus she just sold a million dollar home, profiting the money from a home she never purchased and STILL needs more money? Damn.
She is obviously not a capable mom ! The children are so helpless they need a nanny at age 10 and 12 ? It would be very beneficial for the children to be placed with someone who could teach them life skills.
If I'm understanding this right, she has a 9 to 5 job working at home. The kids are in school for the majority of the day and she still needs a nanny??? She probably has the nanny there in the evenings so that she can go out to the clubs.
Lawyers using such devoid logic should be disbarred, crazy irrational logic should be considered disciplinary! Disbar these people! She’s a crazy woman behind a license!
Many are living luxury lifestyle in Malaysia and easy access to surrounding places like Bangkok, Singapore and Bali for 2K a month. Last year alone 150K expats have received their application accepted
Wait, she wants reimbursement for child support expenses that she is paying for from the “child support” money…… is that not what it is for? She willfully left the marriage, she does not get to retain the lifestyle.
She works from home and only has a nanny to watch her kids to show that she needs more child support. That's an expense that's not needed. The judge did right by not increasing the child support.
When a woman like her gets a female lawyer you know that women will stick together no matter what. I'm not a judge and I can see the game that is being played. I would demand an itemized monthly report for every dollar given. If you are wondering why men are walking away, this is why.
WTF???!!!😮 For 3 kids I've only ever received $375 a month! Plus even at my highest paying job I've never made more than $18,000 in a year. $5K a month!!!! That's like winning the fucking lottery!!!
Crazy how they say she had to sell the house that she was awarded. Well if she had to sell the house that means she couldn't afford it which means she shouldn't have been awarded it to begin with.
My ex had me jumped and vehicle stolen and kicked out of house, and told police I was "handsy" with her. ( I was in custody of my so, as well as NEVER laid a finger on her). Lost home and, now don't know or have heard from son and I am now homeless. The only thing I was able to do with new Florida law was stop her from moving. Have NOT heard from son in over 6mnths when I'm use to being with him since birth (my twin and heart)!! I just wish I could get help from anyone!! I've gained depression weight, and can't focus because of what I've been thrown against... smgdh My apologies for saying soo much, this story is so heart breaking 💔
It's worse than that. The man pays the tax on it and she gets that $70K tax free, so it's more like a $90K salary... Which is like $10k higher than the average household income in the U.S.
Lol When I divorced my wife and took custody of out 2 children I got 400 a month 200 per kid lol . My income was about 60g a year . Kept the house kept the debt… yeah come on lady
Right??!! Her atty is whining about being in court over $300 /month while saying she's contacted him numerous times for $80 for his part of a medical bill.
Every woman? You have to be an incel or just bitter. I left the house with my ex husband giving up my rights to it, no child support, no nothing and he still bitched.
@@jessigirlrae1688 Typical, if a woman disagrees with a man he must be stupid, bitter, or an incel...yawn. As far as "bitter," I would respond - Pot, kettle, black. Your lack of judgement and having a jerk of a spouse does not exonerate women form my 65 years of up close and personal observations.
Why do these women think that a man is still required to take care of them and their lifestyle after divorce? Woman, you left him. You are not his problem anymore. Pay for it yourself.
Oh fucking well. Be more responsible with your child support and guess what, you have to maintain your OWN lifestyle now. Your lifestyle is downgraded because you aren't married to him anymore so it's nolonger his obligation to provide your lifestyle 😂
I used to see this every day when I worked in the Family Court business. Once the paying party starts to move on with their life or looks like they earn more money, they’re back in the court room trying to adjust the payment just to hinder the payments the paying party’s life. He can ask for itemization, but I’ve never seen reimbursement for frivolous spending or spending that has nothing to do with the child.
I believe that child support should be paid using a debit card. She can only use it in the children, so if she is really using that money, what does she have to worry about? That way an itemized summary comes out so the payee can see what she is spending that money on. If she uses that money for herself, or bogus things like extravagant vacations with the kids, she should have to pay her portion.
A 10 and 12 year old would make working from home pretty easy. The 12 year old wants to hangout with its friends and the 10 year old wants to go play video games. Leaving you the space you need to work in a home office. This woman is facing the world and wants the man to pay even if hes not in a relationship with her.
The mother does not want the grandmother taking care of the kids at the house b/c the mother does not want the grandmother to see exactly what is going on at the house. The mother does not want eyes on the situation.
Give the father 100% custody of the children.
Make her pay child support (backdoor alimony for women). That's why the judge will never do it. His client won't profit. The state won't profit (Title IV D reimbursement).
And if people learn their history they will know they need to update the laws about Child support Because child support was created while back because at the time women didn't have jobs now women do have jobs so they need to update the child support method.... By not updating the child support method is being sexist towards men..
Absolutely correct, and it sounds like she as a well paying job, if she is dealing with one crisis after another, probably hyperbole from her attorney!
The kids are her ATM.
Amen!!!
$5000/month isn't child support, that's lifestyle support.
This is BS..No above needs for children to be raised…Children should get the support from dad but to get so much she is out at a 5 star restaurant eating $30 salads with her girlfriends..this is what she wants this is not fair …she should manage the $6000better it’s not his fault she wants to live I. The one percentage of the American elites ..let her go to college and better her life and provide her own high class life 2 children $6000 a month she is over spending I know women who can provide for a house if 4 -5 on $6000 a month and live great …
try $5833
I bet he pays alimony too, on top of relinquishing the home.
I am blown away that so many people are saying this. She seems terrible, don’t get me wrong, but that’s about how much it costs to raise a kid at minimum. School tuition alone cuts at least $10k-$12k a year off of that amount (per child). Rent cuts another $3k a month if you’re able to find a really cheap 2-3 bedroom up to nearly $5k a month easy if you don’t want to be scared. Then there’s food and sports and basic necessities. My wife doesn’t work, so thankfully we don’t need childcare but that’s another huge expense if needed.
@jmox1776 Buddy, most working fathers only make $60k/year, and they support their child on $600/month on average. It does not cost $68k annually to support 2 children.
Since when does sitting on the phone for BCBS become so demanding that you need a nanny for a 10 and 12 year old… smh…The real issue is she’s mad that man bought a nice house and she can’t afford one
No it literally is because they never wanted to parent. Never had the back for it, and having to do that and work is too hard for too many of them.
Also, if her job was that demanding she would be paid more and wouldn’t need child support. She’s probably a customer service type of person
Actually she had one and lost it. How dumb can she be?
Bigger question why aren't they in school 😊
No she’s mad he’s educated and responsible and manages his life better and she can’t. Guaranteed that’s part of divorce reasons. She’s mad he can manage finances etc. she lost a house while he’s buying bigger ones is INFURIATING to lazy lame losers! Jealousy!!
I’d bet being a doctor is more “demanding” than a stay at home insurance broker/saleswomen 😂😂😂
The Dr. pays more than $5000.00 dollars a month to this woman for childcare and she wants him to pay for what he already pays for. Mom and lawyer should be investigated by the court.
Her lawyer is a piece of trash like she is.
She's just greedy, and probably living beyond her means.
Wants the rich person lifestyle without earning it
She making 70K a year on child support alone…. She is absolutely living beyond what’s reasonable much less her means…
Like most women.
Wow a women holding another accountable and saying the quiet part out loud! I’m astonished! 😂😂
Maybe paying for everything for her BF 😂
Why the hell does a 12 year old need a nanny?
Because the 12 year old is being groomed by the mother to be as worthless and wasteful as the mother is.
EXACTLY!!
Bitcc is lazy and can't function enough to have a job and be present for her children. The sheer insanity in showing that she can't cook food for her kids and get them off to school before 730 am even though she works at home says everything about her mental state. Those kids don't need to be with her.
A 3 and 4 YO is difficult. As 12 YO is semi self-sufficient and independent enough to not need an adult 24/7. She can work while these pre-teens do their own thing.
@@miguelbermudez5426 I work from home with an 8 year old with no problem. A 12 and 10 year old needing a nanny is a money grab.
He's actually pays 5,392 a month!
70k a year, and you can't figure it out? That means she's living above her means! Which is why she had to sell the house! Give the children to the father, and you pay 5k a month! What did she spend the money on that she got from the house?
And that is after taxes. In order to pay that much he has to earn close to double that amount.
Plus she has a job. That makes her at 40K a year at least. That's over 100K a year, and she can't work things out. She sounds greedy as hell.
Remember, doctors like him who are dentists (especially if they are of high caliber) can pull $500K - $1M a year. So, his paying $70K a year in child support is very comfortable. For her, she's just being greedy. Clearly, she's living way above her means and just wants the California lifestyle in Traverse City, Michigan.
Keep in mind the average income in the US is like $37,500. So she is getting almost 2x that and still wants more.
gtfoh!
@@jirenthegray I’m 51, been in San Diego BEACHES , the beach! For 32 yrs. I’m a surfer. I did have a a I’d line job part time but I’ve been around the world 5x and own 3 -3/2 homes. ‘3’ of them! I have never earned over $60/75k a year! Now and many years I live on 35-45! Mortgage and all and I buy new surfboard and hotels etc! I have no kids and don’t wear Lou outings and saint laurent or Gucci and I’m very well financially minded and rational, but still I live in San Diego beach and own homes and live under $50k a year and I have a 800fico score and no debt.
Heees the deal, I was a loan officer during the sub prime crash 2008-2010. I can’t tell you how many times I managed peoples loans and saw bank statements and told borrowers that if they downsize the Wife AND KIDS off of the Beamer’s and Benz and shopped at Walmart and target and did not go on vacation this year they could save the house or houses(s) plural!
NAH!!! Never! They all said… ALL OF THEM… FUQ IT! LET THE HOUSE GO! I’ll keep the designer jeans and sunglasses and trips and let the house go. They all wanna. Compete with the jones instead of regionally down sizing the kids and wife to Hondas and Subarus and grocery shop and cook meals at home instead of sushi out all the time, but NAHHHHH . Let the house go everytime!
I’m a dumb idiot surfer guy loan officer and these are lawyers other agents doctors physicians etc and they’re all more educated and more experienced than me and they all said fuq it, let the house go!
They’re talking about a 10 and a 12 year old like they’re toddlers. Why would you need a nanny for someone in MIDDLE SCHOOL?
Either there is no nanny, or nanny is moms friend, and they've written up a bill to milk dad for some more money 😂
Agreed, there definitely is a scam here. I would want receipts.
So she can get her hair done and sucker new guys to buy her things. Plus she needs a reason for the money.
This is an example where you take the money and keep your mouth shut.
Once they start opening this can of worms they'll probably end up cutting the child support down back to where it originally was. It's how people get caught when you get too greedy.
@@JordanEmede_376right
Nanny is housekeeper/cook. Dad is paying for mom's lifestyle. Mom is greedy and will end up with nothing if she keeps on this path. Dad is thinking of the children by paying extra already.
As I was listening to the female lawyer list off all of the things that the mother was asking for extra money to cover and my first thought was, "What does this woman think the child support is supposed to be used for"? These are all things she should be using that money for, after all, the purpose for the money is LITERALLY spelled out in the name "Child Support"
I was just going to post the same thoughts.
In their brains, the concept of “child support” doesn’t equate to “support FOR THE CHILD”. It’s free money for them to use however they want
Maybe they're eating wagyu beef every night??
Even if… IF those are the needs, it feels like mom feels dad should be the sole provider of these items…
This DOCTOR wants his kids on his only day off. Give that man his kids please
It's not his only day off. He has Friday along with the weekend off.
@@MakThaNife He has a week day off that he is choosing to spend with his children
@@MakThaNifebut most of the time when you are the main doctor at the hospital u have no days off bro
@@MakThaNife when you’re a head doctor you gotta save lives. He’s willing to take those days off. He’s not getting those days off. He’s taking him off for his kids.🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@Japan408-s3hhe is a dentist. Most dentists are self employed. Y dentist has never worked Fridays in the summer. He plays golf.
The lawyer said she had to sell the house to cover litigation expenses. Sounds like she need to fire you and everything will be ok
Some lawyers will fight for you as long as you pay
@@jonathanjones3126 fight for you to drown you and drain you! Later is frivolous and lame irrational also! Hey logic is financially devoid! My god!
@@jonathanjones3126thats damn near all of them tho as long as you pay they'll fight.
Dont forget about the refinancing she probably did.
From what I'm seeing she's getting sub-par representation.
I was self sufficient at the age of 8. Could dress myself, cook, clean do my hw, and keep myself entertained. What child care is needed WHEN THE CHILDREN ARE 10 AND 12?! Especially when you're home with them
My wife works from home in a high level corporate job. I have an 11 year old, no nanny needed. I bet this “nanny” is actually cleaning the house and cooking etc. Also, why do 10 and 12 year olds need cell phones?
That part right there!! She's HOME with the kids, and STILL needs a nanny?!?
I was watching my little sister and another child when I was 8. Please!
Exactly. I was a latch-key kid at 7 yrs old in L.A. during the 80s. By 10-12 I was out skateboarding with friends all night and basically taking care of myself. This gal is just greedy.
Perfect opportunities for the 12yr old to test learn and practice growing up! Step up kid! Life’s not fair but the siblings will owe you later in life and at the least know who’s the older kid and who stepped up!
Somebody should tell mom‘s attorney that if she wants to be convincing when she claims her client is indigent, she shouldn’t use words like “nanny”.
She toned it down from Au pair 😂😂😂😂
If that woman works for BCBS, her children's insurance costs should be minimal at best.
Not necessarily. I worked for UnitedHealthcare for years. They don't give employees any discounts' on coverage. Not that I agree with this greedy mother.
not true I work for bcbs in FL as a broker and the healthcare they provided for me in my child is a standard major medical plan for 300 a month with a 2k deductible and a 80/20 co ins. I certainly am not siding with this lady because 5k a month is what I make and im able to take care of my kid and save 2k a month living a normal life. This woman gets 5k a month in support and also gets her income. Gold diggers piss me off so much
@@mellee54 , in most cases dad pays medical so I'm sure his plan is pretty low!
Doesn’t work like that at all - I work for a major medical provider and it’s standard costs
If she is struggling so much and has to have to a nanny practically raise her children then why not send the kids with the father who can more then afford any child care and all their expenses?
Because she wouldn’t be paid for having his kids at that point?
Naw, bro. If she can AFFORD to pay a nanny, then she doesn't need a raise in child support. Don't you think?!?
child support would be cut off at that point. And she cant spend his money :/
@Blackhomeking12 and more importantly the courts wouldn't get their cut.
No money to be made in that
The doctor bought a million dollar home because he can afford it. He is only responsible for child support. Not the extras the ex wants. I believe 80 % of support should be held in an account that is handled by a third party and only 20 % that the custodial parent can use. Because they are not using this money for their children. So if she can't support her children on 5K a month the children should go to the father. Apparently he seems financially sound and can do it. Sounds like the ex doesn't know how to handle her money. This ex's job is fluff.
I guarantee she puts 100% of her own paycheck in savings for a luxurious, early retirement. $5400? I would love to see this itemized.
It's anecdotal, but I've seen it plenty of times. Baby momma going after the father for more money and are quick to say what the child needs more money for but she got her nails done, hair done, new purse, etc. Giving them more money is no different than taking a lighter to your money. The child only gets what's left over half of the time.
In most, if not all, states both parents are equally responsible for medical necessaries of their minor children. However, the dad could argue, and likely win, that the upward amount he’s paying ($1600 more than what’s stipulated) should cover any medical expenses that the insurance doesn’t cover. Especially when considering that it’s an additional $1600 per month. The mom is on a money grab, plain and simple.
Uh hello?!? That’s women for you! His salary or income doesn’t matter. $1mil income doesn’t mean kid should get $200k. Celebrities are perfect example, I don’t care about used to lifestyles! People go broke and lose jobs and need to learn to downsize and adjust and be flexible and conform to a NEW LIFESTYLE WHEN losing a job or injury or death on family whatever. His ability to pay doesn’t require his requirement to pay. Just because he can pay more doesn’t mean he should, kids don’t deserve Gucci and prada. Sorry frivolous pretentious mothers, you need to wake up, it looks bad on you that you can’t afford lobster every night not the dad.
Men are historically so RATIONAL money wise and financially. Women are notoriously poor lazy bad judgements of finances. I had a small claims case women judge that wasn’t a landlord rule against me and not allow me to speak in court literally. Then another time when I was younger and not a landlord I had a judge that was a landlord break law and literally ruled against the actual law for another fellow landlord I was suing for my deposit back. Law states simply 21days itemized list of deposit non refund, I got a lettter 23-25 days back. Sorry ! Not sorry! That’s the law 21 days! But judge said welll it’s close enough! Cuck fuq you! When do you let regular citizens off for being late? Never! But I found out later judge was. Landlord and that’s why he filed with the la doors I sued.
I read somewhere about 2 or 3 years ago that one of these states here in the U.S. was going to utilize a debit card for child support. This way they can audit or track the spending habits. And like an OTC benefit card, or EBT, only certain items from certain stores will be able to be purchased.
I have no idea what happened to that plan. I think that would help A LOT against miss use of child support funds.
I heard a tiny violin playing in my head when the ex-wife's attorney started speaking
now I hear it too
And her voice is annoying
Lol I hear it as well
Same here 🤣
Lmaoooooo
My daughter works from home and has 228 state employees under her that she manages. She also has an 8 & 12 year old children with no nanny. She needs to learn to manage her money.
The way her lawyer talks you'd think she was the only ones taking calls for the company.
Lol
$5,000 a month child support for a 12 year old & a 10 year old & she can’t manage ?
She’s either a liar or not competent to look after children in the first place - those are the only two options…
Unfortunately the state allows for the parent recieving child support to use said support to pay bills and provide basic needs to the child(ren) in question....even pay rent....the f'd up part in all that is that it gives that parent room to abuse it by not going to work as that parent should....in those cases here in california a Gavron Warning is issued.....it means to go get a job...and of there's a continuance the parent ordered to look for work has to provide proof that he/SHE looked for work or managed to get one.
And she’s making 70k on top of the 70k he’s paying she can’t make it on over 100k a yr shiiiiiittt I would be fine with 2 kids just away from their teen yrs!
He just bought a.milliom dollar home?? Why? Of he is single and works all the time, a single bedroom apartment is all he needs and she needs a 4 bedroom home. One for each of.them and an office, minimally.
@@karenturner-wensel9536
Who are you to tell someone what do or don’t need? And 1350$ a week is plenty enough to support 2 children and I’m sure he guve the kids whatever they ask him for 1to1 or when he has his visits.
She is wanting him to support her and the kids!? The woman is responsible for herself?
It’s called “CHILD SUPPORT “ not child and ex-wife support.
@@karenturner-wensel9536 If they live in California, a million dollar home COULD BE a 2 bedroom house. We simply don't know. And SHE had the paid-for home, no mortgage, no rent, nothing, and she CHOSE to sell it. She did not have to, as 5k a month is more than sufficient to cover childcare expenses.
Not to mention, the kids are at school most of the day while she’s working from home.
I was thinking the same thing, a 10 and 12 year olds are in school and probably comes home at 3pm..
She's probably getting more $$ in child support than what she earns a year at her job.
She is if you look at these cases and see how much the mother makes. You'll see why demstics is a million dollar company
100%!!!
Add her salary to the child support and she’s got a very nice lifestyle. What he earns after the divorce is not her concern. He pays support !
she probably dont have a real job
They said in the case that she works from home too.
"I honestly dont think its his... choice... to dictate who provides childcare during her parenting time"
Perfect... she chooses a nanny, she pays for it.
A law needs to be passed, where the father is entitled to know how every last cent of child support is spent, and he has the right to object to unreasonable expenses.
The idea that millions of women are sitting around eating bonbons while living off child support is bull-sht, most Mothers are working AND handling childcare, taking care of the house etc AND they end up paying FAR more outta their pocket than they receive in child support. You have an extreme case here and you're acting as if this is normal. No offense, but $100 says you've never been divorced and dealt with this situation but you have your "feelings", I'l wager another $100 you've never even married, you don't sound very bright.
Fwiw you DO realize who makes the laws, don't you? It's not the judge.
I’m glad the judge humble her 😂😂😂😂 this still cracks me up
The click bait titles are annoying.
@@SocietalNarcissismI agree.
The female attorney sounds like the teacher in the peanuts cartoon. waah, waah, waah, waah. 😆
Crorrupt attorney 100% got
feminist virus desease ...taht need to stop ..
That’s what somebody sounds like when they’re arguing a case that they know is crap.
She looks like she's high
😂😂😂
I thought 🤔 you were gonna say the teacher on Pornhub 😂
If she doesn't want assistance with child care (The grandmother)during her parenting time, then she should be responsible for paying for her own childcare when she has them.
Struggle???? I have 5 kids and a wife to support on almost that exact same freaking income!!!! One child is special needs even. And she wants this for just her and two kids???? AND she has her own income to add to it? What a joke. 😂 she got used to that doctor money and wants to live a lavish lifestyle but without the doc. Too bad honey, the grass isn’t always greener on the other side. Should have stayed but for his sake you’re gone thank god. Give him full custody he seems willing.
They need to make child support cards like food stamps, where you could only buy kids things. I’ve seen way too many “mothers” using a child support card on booze and lottery.
I’m so tired of women thinking that they can divorce their husbands and then still live the exact same life style…..
If I was the judge she would lose 1/2 of her support and then split the medical expenses and he shouldn’t be responsible for the nanny or give up 90%of the support.
This is the problem. The fact that family court makes it so that is the case is BS. They are no longer married. Why would she be living the same way when they are no longer together.
Family law needs a full overhaul.
Also, she works as a high priority employee for Blue Cross Blue Sheild yet doesn't have insurance? That's laughable. I would be looking at perjury charges for the mother and the lawyer as I find that very hard, if not impossible, to believe.
No more women see what they do .
Yup. She’s continuing to live like she has two incomes to rely on - which she gave up when she divorced.
"SUPPORT", it's supposed to be her responsibility if she has custody.
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And ut sounds like shes actively trying to keep him out of the kids lives whoch means she cant use the excuse shes forced to do it all alone.
I could never date a lawyer that would take a case like this, a 10 year old does not need 100k per year
Think of the competitive sports of horse riding or some other garbage
I was just thinking the same thing. I understand lawyers have to represent their client to the best of their ability but their is just some clients I wouldn’t be able to take on and this is one of them. She is trying to fleece her ex and it’s disgusting
10 and 12 year old? So only two kids?! For $5k per month? What the hell kind of lifestyle do these kids live? lol
Please keep us updated on this case if you can. Thank you for sharing.
Most single mothers refuse giving men custody but refuse to actually care for the children themselves…
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@@TheDCGuitar13 because for those mothers it’s hardly ever about the children.
You're right but the reason why is on full display those kids are a paycheck to her if the kids we're with him because he makes so much money he wouldn't get support but wouldn't have to pay either
It because they're spiteful.
The kids are pawns and colatteral damage in the game to destroy the father. It's a woman's nasty work.
This lady gets 5.4k a month and has to bring home at least 2k every other week which is 4k a month. That's 9.5k a month all while working from home sitting there with the kids after school and she crying poverty???
Don’t forget the home she got in the divorce!
she has to be making way more than 4k is the lawyer is claiming that MASSIVE list of expenses that only the mother is paying. This makes me sick.
Some women are never satisfied I mean over $5.000.00 a month plus her wages and it’s still not enough,she should be investigated to see where all the child support is going.
Greedy!!! I'm raising 5 grand babies on $749.00 a month. I only get money for four of them. I do get help with food but only for 4 of them. It's never enough and I struggle so deeply. I couldn't even imagine having five grand.
May God reward you richly. 🙏🏻
I don’t know how you do it Michele. The state should be helping you, That’s a lot of work feeding & caring for 5 children. You my friend are an Angel from heaven.. we have one grandchild and he is my wife’s son’s boy. He is a useless piece of crap (her son). He has never paid one cent. And to tell you the truth, Both his parents have not seen him once since we got him out of CAS custody.
@@Jbmc65 ❣️🙏🏻
This is why you need an attorney every time. Yes, he’s not married to you anymore so he doesn’t have to pay for you anymore. It doesn’t matter how much he makes.
How is it that the courts insist that some kids need more than $5000 to live on, yet other kids need less than $500? If it’s possible for one child to live on that small of an amount, then all of them could.
Right? I raised my kids on $800 in child support and worked and we did just fine. They had everything they needed and could do activities when desired. I can't even imagine child support this high not being enough.
@@Jesusluvmesounds to me like she married this guy just so she can f****** have kids and get divorced and
There's an algorithm based on how much a person makes. You should see how much movie stars get.
It's never about the child that's why we know this it's about sticking it to the man based on what he makes we all were children once and none of us could spend 1000 a month in extra activity per month if pops was paying 1700. Just a bugger house and better car for mom. Let's really be real 70 k a year a real mom would have 2 houses paid for off that support before they hit highschool. Easily but nope never happens that way.
I only get $32/twice a month. And I have my son 100% of the time.
If the courts were actually concerned about the children , then the high earning father should have full custody of the children , rather than paying the mother who can’t afford to maintain the home she was given in the divorce.
that's always something that has blown my mind... Like I understood the infants need mothers because of breastfeeding and the bond the child has but after 2 years that stuff is done... My daughter is 1000% a daddy's girl. she only wants me to sleep in her room with her or get her ready for bed, wants me to play with her all the time. She is attached to my hip 24/7. So the idea that women should be given default child care is baffling especially if they rely on CS. If mother cannot maintain lifestyle then child should stay with the parent that CAN.
@@holydarkness6007 exactly that, child support is single mother support. The government knows it and encourages it. Less money they have to spend to support them, and that money is going to get pumped back into the economy, as women spend much more than men on average.
Congrats on the daughter by the way. I don’t have one, but I have noticed among friends and family, daughters with fathers in their life OVERWHELMINGLY become daddy’s girl. It’s beautiful to see a father and child together.
When her lawyer said why they're there for $400 and that it blows her mind made me laugh 😂😂 If it was for only that amount and she has an excellent job. Then why are they there 😂😂😂 She's already getting a huge amount 😂😂😂
My ex did the same. Although we are at the poverty level. She expected me to pick up the expenses that were above and beyond.
If a marriage is an agreement where the man exchanges his resources for exclusive access to a woman,then why should a woman expect continued access to his funds while the man doesn't have exclusive access to her...
Americaaaaaaa😂😂😂
Because like taxes, men are too weak to actually decide for themselves what they will accept
actually, if she doesn't want to give you access to her there's nothing you can do within the marriage, so at this point the only responsible person is the husband giving away his resources
@@bluesirius1if she refuses to give the husband sex you can't get mad if he starts exploring
He doesn’t want access to this thing in this case, obviously
When those kids are grown and child support ends, she will be screwed.
By that time she would've latched on to another deep pocket man.
Good
That's if he has taken off any life insurance policies or any widow benefits.
They always are
If the kids go to college child supports goes further than 18 as long as they live with her.
Just another reason why marriage is the only contract where one side is incentived to break the contract to win cash and prizes.
Healthcare costs? The father is a doctor. I am pretty sure he could cover most of that part.
When she said what she does for blue cross, I realized she's the guy that answers the phone when you dial 1800-ask-blue.. she's basically the first step when anybody with Blue Cross calls Blue Cross and verifies insurance or send their call to somebody who can actually help them.. I'm not trying to minimize, but she's Blue Cross operator
"Neither party shall seek a review of child support before April 30, 2025" - Why did this provision in the divorce agreement not bring this issue to an immediate close?
We know why😂😂😂😂
The lawyer for the wife is a good ass actress because she made it seem like her duties working from home was very demanding and physical in nature when in reality remote workers for insurance companies are just customer service jobs PERIOD! My homegirl works from home for another insurance company and she is literally bored at home because she just has to make sure she is active online whenever quality control monitor there calls etc. and by the way, if you remember those viral videos of people getting busted for being on vacation or on trips when their boss calls them or wants them to be on a video conference for remote workers......that's what this wife does
I remember 50 first baby mama got mad at him when he didn't tell her he bought Tyson's house. His response "You not living there, I am". Fifty also overpaid child support and the judge told him he was paying too much. These chicks only want a meal 🎫, it's never about care for the kids, it's just getting over and trying to ruin men.
Thats crazy, you get 5k a month and the nerve to say he doesnt help with nothing is wild.
My entire monthly income is less than what he is paying her for child support, in addition to her working full time job. If she is getting roughly twice what I make a month plus her own income, and still can't afford to take care of the children without more, then there are some serious issues with her handling of finances. I'm glad the judge ruled as he did, because all of her claims are suspect as hell.
it sounds like she does the same kind of work as my daughter. my daughter has three children the husband left with the girl next door and she is managing with out any support from the ex.
5K a month is $60.000 a fucking year!🤷🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤬🤬
Don’t forget to add the her own income of whatever she makes a year…. Let’s say 50k a year might be more idk, that’s 110,000 a year… fucking crazy dude.
More than I make at the moment
Yup, & that’s after tax !
@@thelimey351Yep. He pays the tax on it and she gets it tax free. How TF is that not enough for 2 kids, especially when she's already got a full time job? Nuts.
Duh?!
10 & 12... That's 5th and 7th grade.
Yet, she's "worried" about them interrupting her while working from home when they're on summer vacation...
Dude my dad took care of my son from home cuz he works from home just like that lady and my son was 2-3 years old that lady has no excuse her kids are 10-12🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
A million dollar home means nothing these days. I sold my crackerjack unremodeled 3 bed 1 bath home in north Hollywood in 2020 for $900k. It’s already worth over 1.5 now. So the dad basically just bought a house in today’s crazy market
I can't believe this woman would take this to court for an additional $300 per month when she's already receiving $5k per month. I can't imagine what the legal fees for she and her ex will be at the end of all this.
This team-up is pure gold!
5500 is more than enough to pay all the expenses for those kids. Her share is $5500... she is basically saying the kids are costing $11,000 each month, which is ridiculous. The problem is that child support was never design to take care of of the the mother so that she doesn't have to be on welfare.
Making her job sound more important than it is
Her lawyer legit read her LinkedIn in court lol.
She has such an important job, but needs so much damn money from him? Sounds like her job is pointless.
So she gets 5k a month, plus she just sold a million dollar home, profiting the money from a home she never purchased and STILL needs more money? Damn.
Shea absolutely pathetic.
She is obviously not a capable mom ! The children are so helpless they need a nanny at age 10 and 12 ? It would be very beneficial for the children to be placed with someone who could teach them life skills.
If I'm understanding this right, she has a 9 to 5 job working at home. The kids are in school for the majority of the day and she still needs a nanny??? She probably has the nanny there in the evenings so that she can go out to the clubs.
A 10 and 12year old needing a full time nanny is wild
Lawyers using such devoid logic should be disbarred, crazy irrational logic should be considered disciplinary! Disbar these people! She’s a crazy woman behind a license!
Uh hello?!? $5,395 is $70k!!! Come on guy, women whatever you are?!? That’s another $10k almost!
When I was 12yrs old, I *was* the family nanny.
A plane ticket and a mansion in Asia or South America would've cost him less than 50% of what he spends a year on that leech in order to have a family
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All men should refuse and use their money on advertising
Many are living luxury lifestyle in Malaysia and easy access to surrounding places like Bangkok, Singapore and Bali for 2K a month. Last year alone 150K expats have received their application accepted
correct and maids with benefits.
Wait, she wants reimbursement for child support expenses that she is paying for from the “child support” money…… is that not what it is for? She willfully left the marriage, she does not get to retain the lifestyle.
With child support and her job that's 130,000.00 a year, she can't live on that, shame on her as a mother, it's about her life style only
5k a month is more than enough for 2 kids
That's an entire fucking salary 😂
I make just under that...
She works from home and only has a nanny to watch her kids to show that she needs more child support. That's an expense that's not needed. The judge did right by not increasing the child support.
Oh thank God. I was really worried that the judge would side with this gold digging leech.
When does the responsibility of the mom kicks in all the courts I've seen. Dad's are 💯% responsibility for kids we make together. 🤷🏾♂️
When it suits
@@thecultofjohnnydelr.soulsw7010 for real
Never. Women live on easy mode
When a woman like her gets a female lawyer you know that women will stick together no matter what. I'm not a judge and I can see the game that is being played. I would demand an itemized monthly report for every dollar given. If you are wondering why men are walking away, this is why.
WTF???!!!😮 For 3 kids I've only ever received $375 a month! Plus even at my highest paying job I've never made more than $18,000 in a year. $5K a month!!!! That's like winning the fucking lottery!!!
Really enjoying this new series of family court videos MTR is reviewing lately. Great work.
Excluding any medical conditions, if your 10 and 12 year old should be able to watch themselves while you're in another room working.
And remember, the kids are in school the whole day.
Crazy how they say she had to sell the house that she was awarded. Well if she had to sell the house that means she couldn't afford it which means she shouldn't have been awarded it to begin with.
Is it harder to fight for alimony than it is to get child support? Seems like they are asking for comfort money than child support money
If she has a very important job, then she obviously been payed for it!!!. So therefore she could pay for the nanny???.
My ex had me jumped and vehicle stolen and kicked out of house, and told police I was "handsy" with her. ( I was in custody of my so, as well as NEVER laid a finger on her). Lost home and, now don't know or have heard from son and I am now homeless. The only thing I was able to do with new Florida law was stop her from moving. Have NOT heard from son in over 6mnths when I'm use to being with him since birth (my twin and heart)!! I just wish I could get help from anyone!! I've gained depression weight, and can't focus because of what I've been thrown against... smgdh
My apologies for saying soo much, this story is so heart breaking 💔
Bottom line is men need to stop letting these monsters have or keep their children. Always go for full custody and make them pay you.
70k? Sheesh, that’s somebodies salary or a couple. wtf? That sister’s hustling that Dr out of his money. 😳
It's worse than that. The man pays the tax on it and she gets that $70K tax free, so it's more like a $90K salary... Which is like $10k higher than the average household income in the U.S.
the nanny is mother care not child care.
Lol
When I divorced my wife and took custody of out 2 children I got 400 a month 200 per kid lol . My income was about 60g a year . Kept the house kept the debt… yeah come on lady
SHE BELONGS TO THE STREETS!!!!!!!
100% hope she got serve ...
No matter what you give them, what does every woman want? She always wants more.
Right??!! Her atty is whining about being in court over $300 /month while saying she's contacted him numerous times for $80 for his part of a medical bill.
George Michael was right.
Every woman? You have to be an incel or just bitter. I left the house with my ex husband giving up my rights to it, no child support, no nothing and he still bitched.
@@jessigirlrae1688 Typical, if a woman disagrees with a man he must be stupid, bitter, or an incel...yawn. As far as "bitter," I would respond - Pot, kettle, black. Your lack of judgement and having a jerk of a spouse does not exonerate women form my 65 years of up close and personal observations.
@@jessigirlrae1688 You lack of judgement does not exonerate other women's actions.
Why do these women think that a man is still required to take care of them and their lifestyle after divorce? Woman, you left him. You are not his problem anymore. Pay for it yourself.
When will the attorneys who represent these women be sanctioned?
They keep saying “she bears the whole burden” like he’s not paying even $300 a month, much less $5,000!
I'm not surprised that men are giving up on marriage
Oh fucking well. Be more responsible with your child support and guess what, you have to maintain your OWN lifestyle now. Your lifestyle is downgraded because you aren't married to him anymore so it's nolonger his obligation to provide your lifestyle 😂
No be careful who you sleep with 😭😭
What _I’m_ deriving…is that she’s living out of her means (already thanks to him), and wants to continue her lifestyle at his expense.
I used to see this every day when I worked in the Family Court business. Once the paying party starts to move on with their life or looks like they earn more money, they’re back in the court room trying to adjust the payment just to hinder the payments the paying party’s life. He can ask for itemization, but I’ve never seen reimbursement for frivolous spending or spending that has nothing to do with the child.
Itemizations should be required by law.
I believe that child support should be paid using a debit card. She can only use it in the children, so if she is really using that money, what does she have to worry about? That way an itemized summary comes out so the payee can see what she is spending that money on. If she uses that money for herself, or bogus things like extravagant vacations with the kids, she should have to pay her portion.
A 10 and 12 year old would make working from home pretty easy. The 12 year old wants to hangout with its friends and the 10 year old wants to go play video games. Leaving you the space you need to work in a home office. This woman is facing the world and wants the man to pay even if hes not in a relationship with her.
You can't make this ish up
The mother does not want the grandmother taking care of the kids at the house b/c the mother does not want the grandmother to see exactly what is going on at the house. The mother does not want eyes on the situation.
60k/ yr + working a job, plus you got the house so no rent, what a clown to fumble and have to requst more $
I live in Australia and because of stuff like this, I don’t want to get married at all.
Why is it always about what the man is making as opposed to what is actually required for the children?