Do Women Go For Bad Boys? Yes, No, It's Complicated..

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  • Опубликовано: 17 ноя 2024

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  • @YourWingmam
    @YourWingmam 5 лет назад +21

    Even emotionally healthy women can be initially attracted to a so called bad boy.
    Solution: good men should take on the *heathy* attractive qualities of the bad boys women are attracted to.
    Alpha masculinity, ok on their own (independent), grounded, doesn’t follow the crowd, leads, has solid opinions but doesn’t always feel the need to convince every idiot who disagrees with him, has his own interests, brave, and most importantly *won’t put up away with her silly antics* (shit testing).
    A woman subconsciously knows that a man who can’t stand up *to* her won’t stand up *for* her. ~ Dr Robert Glover author of the book No More Mr Nice Guy.

    • @saysamnang9851
      @saysamnang9851 3 года назад

      I am a female myself and I am pretty sure that the intelligent one won’t often go for bad boy they’re too busy for loving someone the thing is nice guy and good guy are different

  • @robertmaxa6631
    @robertmaxa6631 5 лет назад +12

    What's funny is, one of the prettiest women I know, I mean a 10 out of 10, looks best, wearing no makeup.

    • @CarloRizzante
      @CarloRizzante 5 лет назад

      You are clearly madly in love. Wishing you the best of luck man. Go get her! ps. and for the record, I also prefer women without makeup, for the most.

    • @robertmaxa6631
      @robertmaxa6631 5 лет назад

      @@CarloRizzante I'm not her type, so it's pointless. I'm basically, one of the girls. I don't think she sees me as a guy even. She's told me her dating stories, and the type/class/status, of guys she's into. I'm not qualified. That's ok, I enjoy talking to and listening to her. That will have to be good enough. I've learned to live without, over the years. Ironically, I'm not motivated to "get qualified". I'm too old to care, anymore, a couple of years, shy of 50. Truthfully, I wish she could find mr.Right, she's the total package, any guy would be jackpot lucky.

  • @Fahim_Lalani
    @Fahim_Lalani Год назад +1

    You are so correct ✅ I’ve always been kind of a nice guy but trying to be a bad boy got me away from women greatly but now my mantra is don’t be a bad boy thx 🙏🏻 insanely useful information bro ❤

  • @jesusisjerryallahistom
    @jesusisjerryallahistom 3 года назад +2

    bad boy is emotionally shutdown which is very attractive to people who have low self-esteem and lack of confidence: psychology.

  • @applebutter4036
    @applebutter4036 5 лет назад +2

    SOA has such thought provoking videos. One of the things I've seen many a time are girls who appear like really good girls at first, but end up being assholes when you get to know them. They can have some fairly nasty traits that they keep well hidden and society as a whole kinda helps out by always trying to portray women as inherently "good" people. The truth is that most are good overall, but a pretty high percentage can be just as mean and nasty as any man and those women are not going to be a good fit with a kind and generous man. They may end up in relationships with nice guys once in a while, but it'll be unfulfilling for them. They really need a guy that can stab someone in the back and not feel bad about it.

    • @SchoolOfAttraction
      @SchoolOfAttraction  5 лет назад +2

      Well yeah there are definitely some damaged women out there too

    • @toreynelms5081
      @toreynelms5081 Год назад

      Its because were opposites (whole verse Hebrew translated) Genesis 2:18 - For the man to be by himself is not good I will make for him a EZER KENEGDO (HEBREW WORD FOR) helper as opposite to him. See why women love villains on my nel for what this looks like. The video isn't as long as it appears

  • @dhyan3753
    @dhyan3753 2 года назад +1

    SOA has such thought provoking videos. One of the things I've seen many a time are girls who appear like really good girls at first, but end up being assholes when you get to know them. They can have some fairly nasty traits that they keep well hidden and society as a whole kinda helps out by always trying to portray women as inherently "good" people. The truth is that most are good overall, but a pretty high percentage can be just as mean and nasty as any man and those women are not going to be a good fit with a kind and generous man. They may end up in relationships with nice guys once in a while, but it'll be unfulfilling for them. They really need a guy that can stab someone in the back and not feel bad about it.
    copyright
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    • @SchoolOfAttraction
      @SchoolOfAttraction  2 года назад

      I mean the way I look at it is this... nobody is good or bad... The happier within ourselves that we are - the more CARE we have left over for the wellbeing of others. Said in another way - happy, well adjusted people treat others well... unhappy, frustrated people who are struggling with life are far more likely to treat others badly. It's not a good or bad person - often how we're fairing in life has a huge component of luck involved. So when meeting women - I don't think 'is she good or bad as a person' becuase that will lead to pain, since even a perceived good woman can do horrible things if she feels badly enough about herself - intead I consider is she happy, does she have her life together - that woman will be far more consistent in treating me fairly.

  • @xuchilbara21392
    @xuchilbara21392 5 лет назад +2

    Use the Supreme "chameleon bond" tactic: 1.become a man like James bond (as close as your genetic potential allows you to) 2. As you develop yourself, pay for escorts to become satiated with having sex with attractive women and lose that smell of sexual desperation to be familiar with a 10/10 body so you don't have to act like you have confidence, but to actually Get it. 3. Hit on girls, cause now your mind is free and you already "won". You may never be a real James bond, but this method is the most effective way to feel close to it. The price? Well in the eyes of "society" you just "cheated" your way in and didn't achieve the goal "naturally" but then again: who the hell are you to satisfy what "society" thinks is morally correct behavior? And second: some people are Born naturally super attractive.... Did they not "cheat" with their genetics?? At least in the "chameleon bond" case, you took full responsibility and became master of your own fate against all odds. But this is just my opinion

  • @Supiragon1998
    @Supiragon1998 4 года назад +5

    So you're saying that we will never get women at their most attractive (20s) unless we're bad boys?

    • @SchoolOfAttraction
      @SchoolOfAttraction  4 года назад +3

      No, that's not what I'm saying at all - only that the badboy thing is more prevalent in younger women than older.

    • @saysamnang9851
      @saysamnang9851 3 года назад

      What he mean is girl that aren’t mature enough or intelligent enough usually most intelligent girl won’t even bother dating someone but smart girl usually mature more than average woman but the thing is unmature girl will go for the bad boy

  • @michaelenns8872
    @michaelenns8872 5 лет назад +1

    Yes, I found that video interesting. You got a like from me. Thanks for sharing the information.

  • @Straga_Severa
    @Straga_Severa 4 года назад +2

    So, let's translate what you are saying. "If you are not the bad-boy, you should wait until all bad boys will have their way with her, and then she will realise that she values herself more than that"? Is this what you mean?

    • @SchoolOfAttraction
      @SchoolOfAttraction  4 года назад

      Lol no, not at all. I think that's the message you wanted to take from it...

    • @Straga_Severa
      @Straga_Severa 4 года назад +2

      @@SchoolOfAttraction Well, you said that she must fail with the bad boys to start appreciating the normal person, didn't you?

    • @darienhubbard2207
      @darienhubbard2207 3 месяца назад

      I sort of got that from the video as well. I'm not trying to be negative but you did mention that most women will have to fail with the bag guys before they realize that they need a good guy. I feel like I'm a good guy but I honestly don't want a woman that's been ran through first by bad guys in order to get to me. ​@@SchoolOfAttraction

  • @babyboy8597
    @babyboy8597 4 года назад +1

    Women love men who are selfish and treat them like shit-if you start being gentle and considerate women will see you as a girl friend at best and you will become her emotional tampon,every time the bad boy treats her like crap she will call you for you to make her feel better,once she feels better she will go back to the bad boy-the only thing to do is to become a jerk,that's what women crave and respect.
    Your advice is very blue pilled.
    Waiting until women realize they deserve better means you have to wait until women are all used up and have a couple of kids from another dude? No,thanks. I will get them young.

    • @SchoolOfAttraction
      @SchoolOfAttraction  4 года назад

      Hey, so I understand why you feel the way you do - Honestly, human relationships are much more nuanced than this.. For example, yes if you are a pushover supplicating man, then women will just see you as a sexless friend. But if you are a man who asks for what he wants, has strong personal boundaries, wont' take shit from anyone - but at the same time treats women well - That man will do exceedling well..
      It's not a requirement to treat women like rubbish - but it is a requirement to stand up for yourself and your own needs. That can be done in a non-asshole way.

    • @babyboy8597
      @babyboy8597 4 года назад

      @@SchoolOfAttraction Do you live in North America? I went from nice,to the point where you are now and women still didn't want me,until I became a real asshole I mean a real asshole they started to respect me and going out with me. Feminism has taught women to act like men,dont have any conaiderations to women,they dont deserve it.

    • @SchoolOfAttraction
      @SchoolOfAttraction  4 года назад

      I don't live there, but I've spent a lot of time there, women really aren't that different to Australia. Harder to pick up in NYC, easier to pick up in Miami - so there's variation to be sure.
      I don't think you were where I am now, or you wouldn't have had to go asshole. I mean that respectfully - As a guy who has lived around the world and does this for a living.

    • @toreynelms5081
      @toreynelms5081 Год назад

      Its because were opposites (whole verse Hebrew translated) Genesis 2:18 - For the man to be by himself is not good I will make for him a EZER KENEGDO (HEBREW WORD FOR) helper as opposite to him. See why women love villains on my nel for what this looks like. The video isn't as long as it appears

  • @Mgear1217
    @Mgear1217 3 года назад

    Great informative video

  • @CarloRizzante
    @CarloRizzante 5 лет назад +1

    It would have been a better video if you showed an actual bad boy, those were puppies :-D Other then that, great video!

  • @vergyl9969
    @vergyl9969 5 лет назад +2

    Thank you sir

  • @flako3100
    @flako3100 2 года назад

    I mean man being a bad boy is not a thing foo
    I’m a felon been in and out and honesly what I less care about is what a bitch think about me
    Don’t care if they found me atractive or not
    if I like a female I let her know if she’s down she’s down if she’s not I don’t fucking beg or do double chances

  • @michaelenns8872
    @michaelenns8872 5 лет назад +1

    I just did the test. I definitely resonate with my test results.

  • @henpines
    @henpines 5 лет назад +6

    Yes, they prefer bad guys when they are young, but latter they realize life is about money

    • @MrEssedis
      @MrEssedis 4 года назад +1

      You are the smartest person here

    •  4 года назад

      Money is useless unless you wanna buy fancy stupid stuff

    • @henpines
      @henpines 4 года назад

      @ You can say that only when you have your needs covered

    • @henpines
      @henpines 4 года назад

      ​@ Health, friends, sex, culture, security, communication devices, a roof and entertainment.

    •  4 года назад

      @@henpines I understand you live in US. In civilized countries health is paid by taxes. Besides if you have to pay for sex you are a loser

  • @NewWorldHacker
    @NewWorldHacker 5 лет назад

    6:32 girls pointing at me

  • @MauriceLeviejr
    @MauriceLeviejr 5 лет назад +3

    Sir, to whom are you selling these lies, sorry I just had to laugh

    • @SchoolOfAttraction
      @SchoolOfAttraction  5 лет назад +7

      Good argument, I'm now convinced I was wrong, well debated sir :)

    • @Dave-In-Greece
      @Dave-In-Greece 5 лет назад +2

      @@SchoolOfAttraction Awesome comeback 💪😂😂😂💪

  • @richardjudedaratony
    @richardjudedaratony 4 года назад

    So far off point, but your opinion

  • @tonyfight9897
    @tonyfight9897 5 лет назад

    7:50