”Let your vibe attract your tribe…” 🧡 I’m also a vegan, live in a tiny home, minimalism, connect easier with animals than people, don’t drink alcohol, work half-time with less money but more time to be creative och free. Love your channel, my heart gets warm when thinking about how many there are of ”us” out there🧡
Veganism is the wave of the future. Minimalism is a wave of the future. Environmental concerns are a wave of the future. You are not odd. You are paying attention and progressive. Other folks are slow to learn and slow to take action. Carry on with intelligent choices!!
What I wonder is this - why do so many vegan environmentalists have dogs ? It makes me fear even more For the environment when I read about the damage dogs have and are doing to nature and parks and public places through their existence - not to mention the production of dog food . Can anyone see they ought to let their dogs die and not go adopt more ? Stop breeding em , folks!
I’m so pleased you have decided to be who you truly are at such a young age ❤ I didn’t find my odd self until is was 55. I was always afraid to be different. I’m happiest with strangers. I’m very happy at last and approaching 59 in the next couple of weeks. I tried to fit in and enjoy everything everyone else was enjoying. Because you want a different life, people find it hard to understand that you don’t want or need the things they want. Different is amazing,embrace life, it’s yours alone ❤
Hello fellow Suzie (I spell mine Suzi), I'm 55 now and began my "odd self" path in my 40s when I started to understand I was feeling overwhelmed by all the stuff I had so I began paring down then went vegan a few years later. Happy Early Birthday to you!
@@VeganSuz Thank you for my birthday wishes ❤ It’s so lovely to meet another Suzi who shares the same feelings. Thank you for replying. Love and blessings to you. May we both find peace in our……….oddness 🥰
So good to find a fellow vegan, aspiring minimalist, non-drinking "odd" person - love your vibe and life and home (and dog!). Please don't stop being true to you - you're an inspiring breath of fresh air and your videos are a real treat for me xx
I’m vegan (for the animals) and vegetarian before that. I feel that we have a moral duty to do what we can to help to stop animal exploitation and of course combat climate change.
I was really ostracized by most in my life for choosing to live tiny, eat plant based, stop drinking, and many other things. Even resenting me for shopping second hand. I’m so glad there are folks like you out there to make me feel less alone 🥰
I applaud you courage to be true to yourself.I grew up always feeling different .My father died when I was 7 Both my parents were older than my friend's parents.My mother never drove, nor did she remarry.It was hard growing up in the 60's when in tact families were mostly the norm.In spite of it all I grew up with a strength and maturity that has served me well in the last 59 years.Dare to be different! It us a strength, not a weakness
I think many of us who have gone vegan have experienced this. But those who ostracize are likely feeling the cognitive dissonance that we felt before we stopped eating animals, so it's possible they're projecting their guilt onto you. Let your conscience be your guide...
Molly, we are almost identical! Vegetarian all my life, home educated from age 13, was strict wholefood plant-based when I lived alone (am coeliac as well, unfortunately) and I virtually never drink (have never been into it) so you can imagine how I go down at parties!! I have often struggled to find my 'tribe'....instead I find I have a few close friendships, with people who have never met each other. Deep, meaningful conversation means everything rather than the superficial kind. Thank you for sharing this. There are more of us out there than we think!
@@jamorfati Definitely not :-) It is an autoimmune disease. At least 1% of the population have it and I can guarantee most of those are meat-eaters (certainly the ones I know!)
Great video!, I became vegan 2 years ago at 48 years of age, my life changed in 2016 when I had an awakening and realised that I was living my life from a script and it wasn't making me happy, I had a good think about what makes me happy and then decided to buy a tent and start wildcamping, it made me so happy, then turned my garden into a garden for pollenaters, my passion is the natural world, it's what I loved to do when I was a child, when I'm out camping it's so calm and soothing it's like therapy and costs next to nothing, I have many beautiful places to visit in the future, I know exactly what I want in life now!
Most people don't realize it but almost all of us live our entire lives following a script that was handed to us. We think we have free will and we do, however, we are certainly guided to go down a predetermined path. Consider yourself blessed that you woke up to choose your own path. That is the key to true happiness.
It’s the script I try to get away from. Yes my garden is important too. It’s my therapy to stay grounded. I started off with flowers and now I do veg too.
@@magicsupamoggie thanks for your comment, nice to know that other people see the beauty of the natural world and the mindset and health benefits it gives us
My husband and I became Vegan at 55, then gave up alcohol 3 years later. I think our family is quite disappointed that we no longer share their love of wine and the rich, meaty feasts they still enjoy. To some extent It does me feel that I’ve distanced myself from them in some way as food and booze is such a huge part of their lives, but sometimes you just have to follow a different path. It isn’t easy being different but I wouldn’t change a thing. Thanks for your insights. The main one I’ve taken from this video is “It’s a tragic thing to live your life to please others”.
I have the same situation. My family, sometimes, won’t send us an invite to functions. They think we are weird, because we don’t eat animals. I think we are forward thinking and way ahead of what is eventually going to happen anyway. I believe in the future, people will be shamed for eating animals, much in the same way cigarette smokers are shamed today.
@@DonnaTheDogGroomer You have it worse than us I think. My family still invite us (as far as I’m aware!) though we usually take our own food to make it easier for them. They did once say they thought we were ‘noble’ for not eating animals, which we thought rather odd. Personally I think that not killing an animal when you can eat beans instead just makes you a basically decent human being. And you’re right with the cigarette analogy; the line “We’re not mad, we’re just fro the future!” springs to mind. It makes me sad that my family will never change.
@@mangelwurzel476 I find out accidentally when they don’t invite us. I barely go on Facebook anymore, because inevitably at least one family member posts a pic on there and it hurts my feelings we weren’t invited. We bring our own food too. I think we remind them that what they are doing is cruel. They don’t want to feel guilty for eating them, even though we don’t say anything. Our actions speak to them. It’s usually thanksgiving when they feel they HAVE to include me. They used to do my sister that way too, but it was because they don’t like her husband. She passed in February. I don’t care for her husband either, btw.
@@DonnaTheDogGroomer It’s hurtful not to be included, makes you feel like an outcast. That’s when you have to remind yourself why you’re Vegan! I guess it’s the price we have to pay sometimes for doing what we think is right. I couldn’t go back to eating meat/dairy now unless I was quite literally starving to death!
I think your life sounds great!! As I am getting older, I have drastically changed my eating habits become more minimalistic, and gotten into nature much more. I just don’t need stuff and It is freeing and more relaxing!!
I've always felt like the odd one out for so many reasons throughout my life, but I often find joy in not being exactly like everyone else. Why would I want to be like everyone else? So many struggle with things like depression, anxiety, and deep debt. I don't want that. I like having time and the space to lose myself in my thoughts and imagination. I love traveling and will actually travel rather than vacation like most others. I live life a little differently, and I'm happy with that. It amazes me how people are so concerned with why others aren't drinking. Some people struggle with alcoholism and don't need to be badgered. I'll never understand that one. Who cares if you don't drink? I'm glad you're you, Molly! :)
I've been Vegan 30 years ,in the beginning I was a "square peg in a round hole " ..."a hippy" " it will never change anything " Now, folk are realising that our animal friends deserve to live peacefully and without fear ..and .we have to also be minimalist to help our beautiful planet to recover.... Be true to yourself ,always ...gentle thoughts to all compassionate, caring people x❤
Absolutely agree with you, I like people with the courage to be different. You don't have to explain yourself to anyone. True friends will support and respect your choices.
I can relate to this video so much. During covid I nearly lost my business and was terrified of losing my home /paying the bills. I think it changed me as a person, I decided I never wanted to be in that position again - so I’ve embraced living small and simply. It’s honestly been such a freeing experience that’s spread to other parts of my life- I’m much less materialistic and genuinely enjoy living with less. But I think some family/friends find my new choices strange or that I’m depriving myself. It’s nice to know there’s others out there with a similar mindset x
I think you are Grand! I'm 65 yrs old odd women - Retired RN who still aspires and have all my life be a real person. So lovely that you are living true to yourself at such a young age! Stay wild hippy child!
It wasn’t until I was in my 50’s that I learnt to say ‘no’ to things & just enjoy & accept how I am & being me and not feeling guilty in choosing to not join in social gatherings.
My 50th birthday is looming. I've been in my tiny house for 2 years now. Vegan for 12. I tried to landscape my little lot on the edge of a national forest but find it useless to cut back what wants to grow to try to force things that don't wish to. This year I have gathered various native wildflower seeds to see if I can't make a bit of a compromise with nature. I like that you have figured this out for yourself at such a young age. I grew up in a large family always knowing I was different but thinking it was me that was wrong. I don't think I am wrong anymore. I just think some people feel safer pursuing a typical life while to others that does not feel like their best self.
I’m glad that I found your channel. It is much easier to know that there are more “odds” who feel okay being themselves and follow the path they choose with no regrets. Continue to inspire ❤
One of the most power phrases I have learned when people don’t get my new life choices and being different to others and not hiding it any more is “ it’s your issue not mine” and as you say if you are not harming anyone and it feels right for you it does not matter what others think!
That’s an accurate thing to say however nowadays its very likely to be seen as a confrontation or attack on that other person. People are VERY defensive about their own choices and do NOT like any suggestion that their decision is one of several valid possibilities. Then, they get offended and lash back at you, either in the moment or sometime later. Might be in the form of malicious gossip about you, or damage to your property. You may want to avoid using the word’you’ and find a different way to say this same thing. Ideally, something a bit abstract which wont be understood by people of the judgemental mindset…
So refreshing to see this video! There are so many of us out there. We have so much in common! Im vegan, minimalist, straight edge and live in a tiny house. Cheers from Wisconsin 🌲❄️
You are not weird or odd your lifestyle is absolutely the best. Being a minimalist and living in a tiny home is so amazing...doesn't take much to make some of us feel happy & fulfilled. Good for you & your live style & personal choices ~
Hi Molly Another calming, mindful, genuine video, thank you. Vegan, minimal, isolated home, introvert, that’s me also. You have a tribe who all seem to appreciate your individualism. We’re not odd it’s the others 🤗. Take care. Jane.
So refreshing to find you on You Tube, being so true to yourself! I would have liked to have your description of life 30+ years ago, to have peace and satisfaction. All you have to do is to be you, to the heck with all the rest! So many are miserable, in lots of debt, stressed out, unhealthy and putting on a facade on their social media.
I’m also ‘odd’ like you, I feel that I’m different and don’t fit anymore to the world that I left behind. I want to fit to a world of compassion for animals and people, caring about the world, and bringing a better tomorrow to all. Individuals like us, eventually will shine bright together, by saving this world from its faith. Congrats on being ׳odd׳
Your not odd, you are just more in tune with life. Its far better to be yourself than be on that treadmill, following what may seem the norm. I'm in my 60,s and often felt the odd one out,it's taken me years to accept its ok to be different. I've been vegan for 5 years and feel so much more in tune with nature. I say do what brings you joy and let go of what does not bring you joy. 💚
It's really nice to find like-minded people. I'm also vegan, minimalist, alcohol-free and live in the Scottish highlands! It can be tough at times being so different from other people, but it's important to be true to yourself. Thank you for the sharing your wonderful life with us 😊
Hi Molly, I am teetotal, vegan and practicing minimalism. You are not odd at all you are wonderfully you. Who wants to follow the crowd anyway, life is much more interesting when people are brave enough to accept who they are. Keep up the good work, love your channel. Xx
That’s border collies for you they are constantly checking with you which is why I like them. I have a Lurcher who is half border collie and she also checks in with me But not as intensely as a border collie does
I am so happy to find you, someone speaking so much truth about my own "odd" situation! I have felt the same as you for my entire life. I've always been the outlier, I've always been out of sync with what seems the rest of the world! I am always interested in and do bizarre and "out there" things! I went vegan in 2006, back when veganism was so fringe and plainly unknown that no one even knew what I was saying when I explained I was vegan. It wasn't in the regular consciousness. I became super involved in the tiny house movement, being minimalist and in the Buy Nothing environment way back in 2007, also when no one seemed to have any idea what it was or what I meant, or especially WHY I might be doing any of those things, because they were all so "weird". I spend 99% of my time alone and away from society and civilization. It would be nice to meet other outliers and similar minded people. Thanks for being "weird", I appreciate it and totally understand and feel connected.
@@hippyhighlandliving at the time of doing the things I did it didn't feel brave or even like a choice, it was necessary. For veganism I read the book SKINNY BITCH and was shocked at what I didn't know and shocked at what we were doing to animals and I went vegan on the spot and have never looked back. When I gain information and see the truth I have no choice but to do the right and honest thing. To this day I don't understand how anyone can make some other "choice". No, they are going against truth, they are hurting themselves, hurting the animals and the planet. They are deluding themselves, they are telling themselves lies. Anyhow, with all the steps I've done, they didn't seem radical or weird or crazy or any of the other things people call them, they were just right or necessary or made sense or just plainly crazy NOT to change in the way I did. Now looking at the world, I am truly aghast and confused how 99% of people still aren't vegan, still buy massive vehicles, still have 5,000 sq ft houses, still make all these "choices" that go against what they know is right, against nature, against animals, against the world and are plainly not truthful. Maybe I'm just weird like everyone says. Maybe I just need to be more selfish and uncaring and should disregard everyone else & the only planet we have to live on. But I never could. It would be wrong and dishonest to the truths I now know.
Yes, I love your new mug! It is your “weird stuff” that makes you and your videos interesting. I completely understand the feeling of being the “odd” one. I secretly think we are the lucky ones 😀
The only way to be happy and comfortable with your life is to live according to your values. There are more people like you than you know, and we're cheering for you.
Love this video- I can relate even though I am much older than you! I’ve always felt like the odd person growing up. I am vegan, and although married, never wanted children- I prefer surrounding myself with pets. I don’t like having a big impact on the environment- and although I don’t live in a tiny house, I tend to be a minimalist- even more so now that I am a senior. A health scare in 2021 caused me to give up my morning mimosas. I love my life and am never influenced by what others do or think.
Better to be the “odd one out” than a conformist who follows what others say they should do and be. I’m the odd one too.. but it wasn’t until I turned 50 years old that I began embracing it and ENJOYING my life choices and not concerning myself with others options of me… they just don’t matter. You’re living your best life and are being KIND to the environment while you’re at it…. You are healthy, happy, kind,compassionate, aware… not odd. 🙌♥🙏
Interesting how we allow society to put labels to everything, Veganism , minimalism and tiny houses have been around a long time and quite a lot of an older generation have been and still live that way. I think it comes down to how we feel in ourselves as to weird or odd. A lot of humanity is weird/odd but not vegans , minimalists etc! Sometimes people do ask and make comments but I dont think so much now. A lot more are turning away from alcohol too so it has to be a good thing ultimately! You are in a big tribe of the same mind! Love the walk ( beautiful spot) , dog and mug! Cant beat a handmade product any day! Thanks for sharing!
Thank you for posting about this. I have felt like this most of my life - the odd one out. It used to bother me quite a bit when I was a teenager, but now I revel in it (I'm 54!). Am working through all your videos. Really appreciate your content. Thank you!
I'm also in the Highlands and equate to this so much. I am neurodivergent and it has acounted for so much of my ' differences'. And I love them. I found myself looking at photos on social media this morning of folk at s 50th and it almost brought me out in hives. Your mug is beautiful and heading to Perth in a fortnight so might go via speyside and Aberfeldy rather than down the A9
Be unique, live how you want, be free. I have always been a bit different, and I am finally embracing and enjoying me, as I am, different, and loving every minute of it. I live in a tiny dry cabin in Alaska and am a minimalist, most people say they could never live this way, but most don’t understand the freedom that this life brings. ❤
Thank you for this great video, I’ve just discovered you! I live in England and at 53 years old, I am desperately trying to live a simpler life 🌼 I am taking small steps as the changes will affect many loved ones and my social circle in my life, but listening to you Molly and reading the comments is really encouraging 💗
I just recently became vegetarian slowly incorporating vegan things in my life because of health problems and PCOS and I've never felt healthier. I'm also a hoarder turned minimalist because of my autism, ADHD and anxiety and depression. Never have I felt so free. I also love living off grid and reading my Bible daily. It's given me fresh air I've never felt before.
GOOD FOR YOU!! 👍 SMART LADY!! You are on the RIGHT...HEALTHIER ROAD...You are not ODD...YOU ARE AMAZING and are on a cleaner road! Staying away from drinking alcohol IS A very SMART MOVE! YOU will be the one who will know WHAT YOU DID "THE NIGHT BEFORE"...AND when things get HARD in the near future...you won't have to freak out when there isn't any BOOZE to buy...etc...Staying away from ADDICTING substances!! You are living a good life where you don't allow anyone to tell you what to do✨️ Shifting away from the stress in so many people's lives is a wonderful move!! 😊......... 💜 GOD BLESS YOU 💕
Thank you for sharing your Lovely video, such a Beautiful area you live in, your Dog is Beautiful, your home is Lovely, I am a soon to be a 12 years Vegan and I love this Loving Lifestyle, have a Wonderful night, love, Diana Lipski ❤️
You are not odd. You are a lovely soul. Just found your channel recently. I live in the Falkirk Area. I so admire you living your life your way. I want a slower way of life. I'm 53, but I want to take steps to a slower way of life. Even wee baby steps.
Thank you so much for this mindful content, if I could, I would unite all the "odd ones" so we feel just a little less alone as I'm sure there are many of us out there with similar values. I recently started thinking about how my "values" (veganism, non-drinkin, and I'm also big on zero waste too) how these values slowly morph into being "restrictions/rules" that give me a huge sense of guilt whenever I reassess them - not sure how you find that... Like I'd like to keep bees - for saving them, for my mental health, for spending more time in nature and least importantly for harvesting a minimal amount of honey - but in a vegan's eye that's animal exploitation... So anyway, I personally find that having a "why" as you've said is so important and reassessing that why so it comes from a compassionate, heartfelt place instead of a sense of guilt is very important. Thank you for the lovely, thought provoking content 🦋
Yes to living the slow simple life. It’s frustrating when people are close minded but as long as people follow what is in their hearts and live authentically that is all that matters. Great video!
I think I was always the odd one out, but I've adjusted, I don't care what people think and embrace my own oddness. Carry on and be Odd!! Excellent RUclips, thanks for your share.
When my daughter was born 21 years ago and I was a vegetarian, the doctors scolded me for not feeding her meat. I think times have really changed. I don’t think the minimalist, vegan,…lifestyle is odd anymore. I actually think it’s super trendy. But I still LOVE IT!!! ❤❤❤ I love watching your channel.
Lovely vid. Cool to find so many similar people replying on here. I'm 54, turned veggie at 16, mostly vegan. tee-total and enjoy the simple things in life. I'd also add being a punk into the equation, so I'm definitely on the high scale on weirdness. I learnt to embrace it from the get go as I had penpals around the world who were similar, nothing like this back in the 80's. Enjoy your life and being real.
You are describing attributes that I have had my whole life, chiefly among them: always being the odd one out. But it's never bothered me (not most of the time anyway). The only time it bothers me is when I'm at a large party and would rather be reading or doing anything other than making small-talk and watching people get pickled! LOL... So when I have to go to these things, I am usually exhausted from the effort of making small talk for however many hours. I'm much more partial to small gatherings with interesting conversation. Vegan: same; minimalist: almost, but not quite as amazing as you! Childfree (to be differentiated from 'childless'): check. I guess the universe has a way of bringing like-minded beings together. Love your new mug; oh yes: another passion of mine: handmade mugs! Perhaps there are other dimensions that we may come from in another life, who knows...? But it always fascinates me, finding humans in the smaller percentage of demographic like oneself. The takes in your videos of nature... could watch all day! We just got back from a roadtrip, the objective was to visit National Parks... it was amazing: wildlife and nature; and interestingly, the moment we entered the NP proper, the energy was entirely different to what was outside of these places. The animals were different (happy); it was palpable. Perhaps beings like us also have a deeper connection with the world? (I also don't drink.) 😊
I love being different and the odd one out. I dont want to be like everyone else that society expects. It shows individualism and character and surely that makes us more interesting to engage with. I dont care what society thinks. But I do care about what makes 'me' happy and that's all that matters.
Good on you, I feel the same as you and have lived a simple life for many years. We all have a right to live according to our own values. Main thing I guess is not to try and tell others how to live their lives. Bless you. Philippa Australia
I love it, since 2020 my husband and I have decided that things don't mean so much anymore and we are getting off the consumerism wheel, we are not going to buy any more stuff no more Christmas presents no more birthday presents no more stuff, we will try to purchase what we need secondhand through thrift stores or goodwills, we have started to compost and are trying to cut down our waist. We have drastically reduced our water usage and our electricity bill, we have become frugal and minimalist we are pushing back against the capitalist system which is not sustainable for anyone anywhere especially not our Earth or our relationships. We must let our egos go and get rid of greed.
Unbelievable photography and narration. And the doggie shots 💞🐶🐾 Thank you for opening up the world to special people like us.🍁🌠🍂 But the thing is, we're not "odd." We're the cool ones of the future. People who are not vegans or vegetarian, or who aren't animal lovers, or who aren't minimalist, and who are trapped with another person and in consumerism and materialism ... these people are dead inside and they're in a prison of their own making. And they know that they're trapped in h*ll ... that's why your channel and others similar to yours (van life; stealth camping; etc) do so well. We all know that we're trapped and so many of us are trying to break free and be like you. You're the future. 💞
Hi, so much of what you say resonates with how I feel now at 45. The problem I have is blending the me that I am now with the life I constructed when I was a very different person. I’m Vegan in a family of 4 where my husband and children are not vegan. I eat mainly WFPB food in a family that loves junk food. I don’t drink in a family and extended family where I’m frowned upon for being ‘uptight’ and not joining in. Im more and more minimalist in a house where my husband obsessively hunts ‘bargains’ and gets a buzz out of buying his finds. I feel drawn to a life based in nature and the spiritual side of life and yet I help run a family retail business. I’m very introverted and feel judged for not wanting to sit in pubs for hours every week, I would rather be reading a book! I feel conflicted every day as the life that I live suited me so well 10 years ago and yet now it feels like I’m trying to fit into someone else’s shoes. Maybe if I cared less what people thought of me I would be able to just be who I am now and let the rest move on around me without worrying so much about it x
I find it interesting that you say your life suited you 10 years ago but not now because I have always felt the way I do since childhood. I wonder what made you change? Thank you for your interesting comment
Hello Molly. I agree, I think we are all allowed to live our life as we want and makes us happy, as long as we don't hurt or disturb others. It's important to know that we are not here to live up to societies expectations. We all have one life and it's important that we feel comfortable with it. Thank you for sharing your video 😊 P.S. enjoy your new mug 👍
I'm not vegan but I'm not far off. I do live in a little house, garden, tee total all my life I had one beer in my 30's and decided that was enough, I only work 3 days a week. The biggest problem I have is how to to find someone to share my life with. So many people are all about money and alcohol it gets disheartening after a while. I've very much moving towards a slower life which is hard in a world that only seems to be speeding up. Good on you for stepping out of the mainstream.
I agree. We all live our lives differently. There is no need to justify or seek other people's approval because you live different from them. Or fear other people's opinions. People will always judge or make assumptions about you no matter what you do.
Love the mug... and your dog is awesome. I'm definitely weird as well... or away with the fairies, as my family describe me. That's okay with me. The fairies are great company. I've been an edge dweller all my life and for the last 10 years I've been shedding all that isn't authentically me. I agree with what you say about the people pleasing programme. It feels like an important space in time for all of us to be living more simply, deeply connected to ourselves, listening to the land and the rest of nature. My heart call and intention is to step out of the system and into a beautiful tiny home made of natural materials and become more self sufficient. I can see, smell and feel it!
Hi Molly, another fantastic vlog, thank you 😘. I adore the fact that you are being so true to yourself ❤️, I don't think you are "different" but a unique individual that inspires me so much. Love your new mug ❤️ and h your washing didn't get too wet 😉❤️xx
I really appreciate you sharing your story. Not subscribing to society's narrative does seem to take a bit of confidence, but ultimately when you know in your heart that you're living your own authentic journey you can always find a way to continue on your path, regardless of what's happening around you. Of course, not everyone will come from the perspective that we're all at varying stages of our own journey and that each path may look noticeably different from some of the more common narratives, and that's okay too. There is no good or bad, just what's right for the individual. My narrative of a primarily plant-based diet and no drugs, alcohol, coffee, social media, Netflix, cable TV, or materialism doesn't align very well with the culture around me, and I've never been happier...😊
💖🪶🦋🪴 I do find your videos very calming, informative and inspiring....and reassuring that, hey, I am not that different after all...thank you for sharing ! Cheers Molly !
Good morning from a fellow Scot. I just found your channel and have subscribed. I also became vegetarian at 13. I was left home with Sunday afternoon farming programmes on tv. Those animals didn't look like the happy animals shown in my many books! Im older than you and like you i always had my lifestyle questioned. I'd be so interested to hear more about your tiny home. It's something I would truly love. X
As a first generation American (my parents were from northern England) I realized as an adult that I don’t fit in. I walk to the beat of my own drum. Although I live in California and I’m vegan, minimalism and tiny homes are natural here. However the town I live in is not like this. Someday I’ll move and find my tribe. So all that said, I totally understand you! I’m glad I found your videos! ☺️
I feel very much the same as I have food intolerances so eating out is always a difficult time for me and being an Introvert and not enjoying socialising I always feel the odd one out...I don't drink either...odd definitely has it's challenges 🙂 but the comfort is we are not alone
My day has just improved - I have just discovered your channel while skimming through RUclips. Like others here Molly, I am much older than you but live similarly apart from the tiny house. I live in South Australia, have been vegan for many years, adore animals ( we have a beautiful golden retriever) and have never tasted alcohol.This alone has made me socially unacceptable many times early on in my life, but thankfully attitudes are much more accepting in these progressive days of healthy lifestyle choices. Unfortunately most of my extended family (including my children) are meat eaters. It can be a lonely path we tread so it is lovely that there are many likeminded people on forums such as yours. It can even be difficult finding a medical professional who doesn't think you are malnourished if you dare to be vegan! I now look forward to catching up with your other videos. Your fur baby is adorable by the way. Warm wishes. 🐾🦋
Welcome to your new mug ,and to your continued joy in your chosen way of living ,I have been living minimalistic for 9 years now ,not sure if to move into rented static
I feel for you and can totally relate to your feeling odd ,I feel it is our consciousness that is speaking and showing us the way accountability kindness joy realating to our surroundings and beyond in a creative and wonderous way ,will we meet your partner at some point the power of three with your beautifull animal also thank you for sharing ,I am 66 it's a work in progress 🕊️
It's actually pretty awesome Plus you have your little birder collie!!! I just drove to South Dakota with my border collie I love the freedom of not being a drinker :)
Just came upon your video by accident, so glad I did! Not weird, just think things through and connect up the dots maybe more than the majority. But there is a place for us. Hopefully by seeing how we are, how we act, others more mainstream will question and join up the dots themselves? We do no harm. X
I also live in the highlands and I would say there can be a big social drinking culture up here (weirdly as you have to drive everywhere lol) I also think it’s just the norm socially at a wedding. But I think it’s really the people you surround yourself with and the social activities you choose. I could say so much on this but I’ll leave it here haha. Love your content and videos 🧡
Besides living in a tiny home (though we are downsizing to an apartment) I'm also vegan, minimalist and don't drink (but never have). I've been vegetarian for almost 20 years and still have no other vegetarians or vegans in my family/friend circle and am way more way more eco conscious than anyone else I know, so I'm used to be known as the "hippy". But I'm proud to be and just think of myself as ahead of the curve :-). And as I always tell my kids - "who wants to be normal" 🙂
“Whenever you find yourself on the side of the majority, it is time to pause and reflect” - Mark Twain
Love this! 💚
”Let your vibe attract your tribe…” 🧡
I’m also a vegan, live in a tiny home, minimalism, connect easier with animals than people, don’t drink alcohol, work half-time with less money but more time to be creative och free.
Love your channel, my heart gets warm when thinking about how many there are of ”us” out there🧡
Thank you lovely! It warms my heart too 💚
Yea 🥰
Veganism is the wave of the future. Minimalism is a wave of the future. Environmental concerns are a wave of the future. You are not odd. You are paying attention and progressive. Other folks are slow to learn and slow to take action. Carry on with intelligent choices!!
Thank you for such a wonderful comment! ☺💚
That's ecactly what i am thinking about...very nice words.
This!! ❤
Absolutely agree . 7 year Vegan here 💚💚💚
What I wonder is this - why do so many vegan environmentalists have dogs ? It makes me fear even more
For the environment when I read about the damage dogs have and are doing to nature and parks and public places through their existence - not to mention the production of dog food . Can anyone see they ought to let their dogs die and not go adopt more ? Stop breeding em , folks!
I’m so pleased you have decided to be who you truly are at such a young age ❤ I didn’t find my odd self until is was 55. I was always afraid to be different. I’m happiest with strangers. I’m very happy at last and approaching 59 in the next couple of weeks. I tried to fit in and enjoy everything everyone else was enjoying. Because you want a different life, people find it hard to understand that you don’t want or need the things they want. Different is amazing,embrace life, it’s yours alone ❤
Thank you Suzie and good for you! ☺💚
Getting too close to 50 for my liking and feel exactly the same. 😁
Hello fellow Suzie (I spell mine Suzi), I'm 55 now and began my "odd self" path in my 40s when I started to understand I was feeling overwhelmed by all the stuff I had so I began paring down then went vegan a few years later. Happy Early Birthday to you!
@@VeganSuz Thank you for my birthday wishes ❤ It’s so lovely to meet another Suzi who shares the same feelings. Thank you for replying. Love and blessings to you. May we both find peace in our……….oddness 🥰
@@elizabethmarshall7408 Maybe you have to reach 50 to truly accept yourself ❤ Thank you for your message, it’s reassuring to know we are like minded x
So good to find a fellow vegan, aspiring minimalist, non-drinking "odd" person - love your vibe and life and home (and dog!). Please don't stop being true to you - you're an inspiring breath of fresh air and your videos are a real treat for me xx
Thank you lovely! ☺💚
I’m vegan (for the animals) and vegetarian before that. I feel that we have a moral duty to do what we can to help to stop animal exploitation and of course combat climate change.
I agree ☺💚
What about all the animals that are killed in the growing and harvesting of plants? Don’t you care about them?
@@DW14974 oh dear what about all the animals killed growing the food to feed the animals you pay someone to kill to eat? 🤦🏽♀️
Someone once told me I should be more mainstream! That person is no longer in my life. More power to the odd ones out.
Good for you! ☺
I was really ostracized by most in my life for choosing to live tiny, eat plant based, stop drinking, and many other things. Even resenting me for shopping second hand. I’m so glad there are folks like you out there to make me feel less alone 🥰
You are very much not alone 💚
I applaud you courage to be true to yourself.I grew up always feeling different .My father died when I was 7 Both my parents were older than my friend's parents.My mother never drove, nor did she remarry.It was hard growing up in the 60's when in tact families were mostly the norm.In spite of it all I grew up with a strength and maturity that has served me well in the last 59 years.Dare to be different! It us a strength, not a weakness
These narrow minded people who ostracised you get rid of them and just be who you are get a pet animals will love you always
I think many of us who have gone vegan have experienced this. But those who ostracize are likely feeling the cognitive dissonance that we felt before we stopped eating animals, so it's possible they're projecting their guilt onto you. Let your conscience be your guide...
Wow, why did it bother them?
Molly, we are almost identical! Vegetarian all my life, home educated from age 13, was strict wholefood plant-based when I lived alone (am coeliac as well, unfortunately) and I virtually never drink (have never been into it) so you can imagine how I go down at parties!! I have often struggled to find my 'tribe'....instead I find I have a few close friendships, with people who have never met each other. Deep, meaningful conversation means everything rather than the superficial kind. Thank you for sharing this. There are more of us out there than we think!
Thank you lovely! So wonderful to meet another kindred spirit ☺ 💚
I don’t go to parties.
@@jamorfati Definitely not :-) It is an autoimmune disease. At least 1% of the population have it and I can guarantee most of those are meat-eaters (certainly the ones I know!)
Great video!, I became vegan 2 years ago at 48 years of age, my life changed in 2016 when I had an awakening and realised that I was living my life from a script and it wasn't making me happy, I had a good think about what makes me happy and then decided to buy a tent and start wildcamping, it made me so happy, then turned my garden into a garden for pollenaters, my passion is the natural world, it's what I loved to do when I was a child, when I'm out camping it's so calm and soothing it's like therapy and costs next to nothing, I have many beautiful places to visit in the future, I know exactly what I want in life now!
Most people don't realize it but almost all of us live our entire lives following a script that was handed to us. We think we have free will and we do, however, we are certainly guided to go down a predetermined path. Consider yourself blessed that you woke up to choose your own path. That is the key to true happiness.
@@FG-yl3oj thank you !
It’s the script I try to get away from. Yes my garden is important too. It’s my therapy to stay grounded. I started off with flowers and now I do veg too.
@@magicsupamoggie thanks for your comment, nice to know that other people see the beauty of the natural world and the mindset and health benefits it gives us
My husband and I became Vegan at 55, then gave up alcohol 3 years later. I think our family is quite disappointed that we no longer share their love of wine and the rich, meaty feasts they still enjoy. To some extent It does me feel that I’ve distanced myself from them in some way as food and booze is such a huge part of their lives, but sometimes you just have to follow a different path. It isn’t easy being different but I wouldn’t change a thing. Thanks for your insights. The main one I’ve taken from this video is “It’s a tragic thing to live your life to please others”.
I have the same situation. My family, sometimes, won’t send us an invite to functions. They think we are weird, because we don’t eat animals. I think we are forward thinking and way ahead of what is eventually going to happen anyway. I believe in the future, people will be shamed for eating animals, much in the same way cigarette smokers are shamed today.
@@DonnaTheDogGroomer You have it worse than us I think. My family still invite us (as far as I’m aware!) though we usually take our own food to make it easier for them. They did once say they thought we were ‘noble’ for not eating animals, which we thought rather odd. Personally I think that not killing an animal when you can eat beans instead just makes you a basically decent human being. And you’re right with the cigarette analogy; the line “We’re not mad, we’re just fro the future!” springs to mind. It makes me sad that my family will never change.
@@mangelwurzel476 I find out accidentally when they don’t invite us. I barely go on Facebook anymore, because inevitably at least one family member posts a pic on there and it hurts my feelings we weren’t invited. We bring our own food too. I think we remind them that what they are doing is cruel. They don’t want to feel guilty for eating them, even though we don’t say anything. Our actions speak to them. It’s usually thanksgiving when they feel they HAVE to include me. They used to do my sister that way too, but it was because they don’t like her husband. She passed in February. I don’t care for her husband either, btw.
@@DonnaTheDogGroomer It’s hurtful not to be included, makes you feel like an outcast. That’s when you have to remind yourself why you’re Vegan! I guess it’s the price we have to pay sometimes for doing what we think is right. I couldn’t go back to eating meat/dairy now unless I was quite literally starving to death!
I think your life sounds great!! As I am getting older, I have drastically changed my eating habits become more minimalistic, and gotten into nature much more. I just don’t need stuff and It is freeing and more relaxing!!
Thank you Amy!
I've always felt like the odd one out for so many reasons throughout my life, but I often find joy in not being exactly like everyone else. Why would I want to be like everyone else? So many struggle with things like depression, anxiety, and deep debt. I don't want that. I like having time and the space to lose myself in my thoughts and imagination. I love traveling and will actually travel rather than vacation like most others. I live life a little differently, and I'm happy with that.
It amazes me how people are so concerned with why others aren't drinking. Some people struggle with alcoholism and don't need to be badgered. I'll never understand that one. Who cares if you don't drink?
I'm glad you're you, Molly! :)
I've been Vegan 30 years ,in the beginning I was a "square peg in a round hole " ..."a hippy" " it will never change anything " Now, folk are realising that our animal friends deserve to live peacefully and without fear ..and .we have to also be minimalist to help our beautiful planet to recover.... Be true to yourself ,always ...gentle thoughts to all compassionate, caring people x❤
Absolutely agree with you, I like people with the courage to be different. You don't have to explain yourself to anyone. True friends will support and respect your choices.
Thank you Lynne, I agree ☺
I can relate to this video so much. During covid I nearly lost my business and was terrified of losing my home /paying the bills. I think it changed me as a person, I decided I never wanted to be in that position again - so I’ve embraced living small and simply. It’s honestly been such a freeing experience that’s spread to other parts of my life- I’m much less materialistic and genuinely enjoy living with less. But I think some family/friends find my new choices strange or that I’m depriving myself. It’s nice to know there’s others out there with a similar mindset x
Thank you Hannah! I think Covid impacted us all, so good for you in making choices that make you happy ☺💚
What a beautiful border collie! I have two they are really the best dogs ❤
They really are! ☺💚
Right behind Labs😉
I think you are Grand! I'm 65 yrs old odd women - Retired RN who still aspires and have all my life be a real person. So lovely that you are living true to yourself at such a young age! Stay wild hippy child!
Thank you for your comment! :)
It wasn’t until I was in my 50’s that I learnt to say ‘no’ to things & just enjoy & accept how I am & being me and not feeling guilty in choosing to not join in social gatherings.
My 50th birthday is looming. I've been in my tiny house for 2 years now. Vegan for 12. I tried to landscape my little lot on the edge of a national forest but find it useless to cut back what wants to grow to try to force things that don't wish to. This year I have gathered various native wildflower seeds to see if I can't make a bit of a compromise with nature.
I like that you have figured this out for yourself at such a young age. I grew up in a large family always knowing I was different but thinking it was me that was wrong. I don't think I am wrong anymore. I just think some people feel safer pursuing a typical life while to others that does not feel like their best self.
Thank you for your comment. You're tiny home plot sounds lovely ☺
I’m glad that I found your channel. It is much easier to know that there are more “odds” who feel okay being themselves and follow the path they choose with no regrets. Continue to inspire ❤
One of the most power phrases I have learned when people don’t get my new life choices and being different to others and not hiding it any more is “ it’s your issue not mine” and as you say if you are not harming anyone and it feels right for you it does not matter what others think!
That’s an accurate thing to say however nowadays its very likely to be seen as a confrontation or attack on that other person. People are VERY defensive about their own choices and do NOT like any suggestion that their decision is one of several valid possibilities. Then, they get offended and lash back at you, either in the moment or sometime later. Might be in the form of malicious gossip about you, or damage to your property. You may want to avoid using the word’you’ and find a different way to say this same thing. Ideally, something a bit abstract which wont be understood by people of the judgemental mindset…
So refreshing to see this video! There are so many of us out there. We have so much in common! Im vegan, minimalist, straight edge and live in a tiny house. Cheers from Wisconsin 🌲❄️
You are not weird or odd your lifestyle is absolutely the best. Being a minimalist and living in a tiny home is so amazing...doesn't take much to make some of us feel happy & fulfilled. Good for you & your live style & personal choices ~
Hi Molly
Another calming, mindful, genuine video, thank you.
Vegan, minimal, isolated home, introvert, that’s me also.
You have a tribe who all seem to appreciate your individualism.
We’re not odd it’s the others 🤗.
Take care.
Jane.
Thank you Jane ☺💚
So refreshing to find you on You Tube, being so true to yourself! I would have liked to have your description of life 30+ years ago, to have peace and satisfaction. All you have to do is to be you, to the heck with all the rest! So many are miserable, in lots of debt, stressed out, unhealthy and putting on a facade on their social media.
Thank you! I'm really glad you find value in my content ☺
I’m also ‘odd’ like you, I feel that I’m different and don’t fit anymore to the world that I left behind.
I want to fit to a world of compassion for animals and people, caring about the world, and bringing a better tomorrow to all.
Individuals like us, eventually will shine bright together, by saving this world from its faith.
Congrats on being ׳odd׳
Thank you for your honest and thoughtful comment :)
Your not odd, you are just more in tune with life. Its far better to be yourself than be on that treadmill, following what may seem the norm. I'm in my 60,s and often felt the odd one out,it's taken me years to accept its ok to be different. I've been vegan for 5 years and feel so much more in tune with nature. I say do what brings you joy and let go of what does not bring you joy. 💚
Thank Sheila for your lovely words 💚
I live in a 424 square foot (39.4 sq. meter) home, am vegan and live a minimalist zero waste lifestyle. I am totally the odd ball out and love it.
It's really nice to find like-minded people. I'm also vegan, minimalist, alcohol-free and live in the Scottish highlands! It can be tough at times being so different from other people, but it's important to be true to yourself. Thank you for the sharing your wonderful life with us 😊
Aw I'm so glad you found me! 😊💚
Hi Molly, I am teetotal, vegan and practicing minimalism. You are not odd at all you are wonderfully you. Who wants to follow the crowd anyway, life is much more interesting when people are brave enough to accept who they are. Keep up the good work, love your channel. Xx
Your dog is adorable…I love how he keeps checking to see if you are following 😃
That’s border collies for you they are constantly checking with you which is why I like them. I have a Lurcher who is half border collie and she also checks in with me But not as intensely as a border collie does
I am so happy to find you, someone speaking so much truth about my own "odd" situation!
I have felt the same as you for my entire life.
I've always been the outlier, I've always been out of sync with what seems the rest of the world! I am always interested in and do bizarre and "out there" things!
I went vegan in 2006, back when veganism was so fringe and plainly unknown that no one even knew what I was saying when I explained I was vegan. It wasn't in the regular consciousness.
I became super involved in the tiny house movement, being minimalist and in the Buy Nothing environment way back in 2007, also when no one seemed to have any idea what it was or what I meant, or especially WHY I might be doing any of those things, because they were all so "weird".
I spend 99% of my time alone and away from society and civilization. It would be nice to meet other outliers and similar minded people.
Thanks for being "weird", I appreciate it and totally understand and feel connected.
Amazing that you were vegan so early! Sounds like you've always been brave enough to just do you 😊💚
I don’t have much human contact either but mainly animals.
@@hippyhighlandliving at the time of doing the things I did it didn't feel brave or even like a choice, it was necessary. For veganism I read the book SKINNY BITCH and was shocked at what I didn't know and shocked at what we were doing to animals and I went vegan on the spot and have never looked back. When I gain information and see the truth I have no choice but to do the right and honest thing.
To this day I don't understand how anyone can make some other "choice". No, they are going against truth, they are hurting themselves, hurting the animals and the planet. They are deluding themselves, they are telling themselves lies.
Anyhow, with all the steps I've done, they didn't seem radical or weird or crazy or any of the other things people call them, they were just right or necessary or made sense or just plainly crazy NOT to change in the way I did.
Now looking at the world, I am truly aghast and confused how 99% of people still aren't vegan, still buy massive vehicles, still have 5,000 sq ft houses, still make all these "choices" that go against what they know is right, against nature, against animals, against the world and are plainly not truthful.
Maybe I'm just weird like everyone says. Maybe I just need to be more selfish and uncaring and should disregard everyone else & the only planet we have to live on.
But I never could. It would be wrong and dishonest to the truths I now know.
Yes, I love your new mug! It is your “weird stuff” that makes you and your videos interesting. I completely understand the feeling of being the “odd” one. I secretly think we are the lucky ones 😀
I feel this! As a vegan, tee-totaler, eco-minimalist, I often feel like the odd one out as well. Thanks for sharing! 💖
Thank you Amber! So wonderful to meet a like minded soul ☺💚
The only way to be happy and comfortable with your life is to live according to your values. There are more people like you than you know, and we're cheering for you.
Thank you ☺☺
Love this video- I can relate even though I am much older than you! I’ve always felt like the odd person growing up. I am vegan, and although married, never wanted children- I prefer surrounding myself with pets. I don’t like having a big impact on the environment- and although I don’t live in a tiny house, I tend to be a minimalist- even more so now that I am a senior. A health scare in 2021 caused me to give up my morning mimosas. I love my life and am never influenced by what others do or think.
Sounds like you have a wonderful life ☺💚
Better to be the “odd one out” than a conformist who follows what others say they should do and be. I’m the odd one too.. but it wasn’t until I turned 50 years old that I began embracing it and ENJOYING my life choices and not concerning myself with others options of me… they just don’t matter. You’re living your best life and are being KIND to the environment while you’re at it…. You are healthy, happy, kind,compassionate, aware… not odd. 🙌♥🙏
Opinions not options 🤓
Thank you lovely! So glad you are enjoying your life choices ☺💚
The mug is beautiful and I do the exact same supporting local makers :) I swear it makes my tea taste better 😂
It’s a blessing to be different, love your videos , I find them so calming
Interesting how we allow society to put labels to everything, Veganism , minimalism and tiny houses have been around a long time and quite a lot of an older generation have been and still live that way. I think it comes down to how we feel in ourselves as to weird or odd. A lot of humanity is weird/odd but not vegans , minimalists etc! Sometimes people do ask and make comments but I dont think so much now. A lot more are turning away from alcohol too so it has to be a good thing ultimately! You are in a big tribe of the same mind! Love the walk ( beautiful spot) , dog and mug! Cant beat a handmade product any day! Thanks for sharing!
I feel like you are my twin on the other side of the world. ✌🏼🌱💚keep being amazing
Thank you lovely 💚
Thank you for posting about this. I have felt like this most of my life - the odd one out. It used to bother me quite a bit when I was a teenager, but now I revel in it (I'm 54!). Am working through all your videos. Really appreciate your content. Thank you!
I'm also in the Highlands and equate to this so much. I am neurodivergent and it has acounted for so much of my ' differences'. And I love them. I found myself looking at photos on social media this morning of folk at s 50th and it almost brought me out in hives. Your mug is beautiful and heading to Perth in a fortnight so might go via speyside and Aberfeldy rather than down the A9
Be unique, live how you want, be free. I have always been a bit different, and I am finally embracing and enjoying me, as I am, different, and loving every minute of it. I live in a tiny dry cabin in Alaska and am a minimalist, most people say they could never live this way, but most don’t understand the freedom that this life brings. ❤
Brava! In the end, it's our heart's values that keep us on our true path.
Thank you for this great video, I’ve just discovered you! I live in England and at 53 years old, I am desperately trying to live a simpler life 🌼 I am taking small steps as the changes will affect many loved ones and my social circle in my life, but listening to you Molly and reading the comments is really encouraging 💗
Best of luck with it 😊💚
I just recently became vegetarian slowly incorporating vegan things in my life because of health problems and PCOS and I've never felt healthier. I'm also a hoarder turned minimalist because of my autism, ADHD and anxiety and depression. Never have I felt so free. I also love living off grid and reading my Bible daily. It's given me fresh air I've never felt before.
GOOD FOR YOU!! 👍 SMART LADY!! You are on the RIGHT...HEALTHIER ROAD...You are not ODD...YOU ARE AMAZING and are on a cleaner road! Staying away from drinking alcohol IS A very SMART MOVE! YOU will be the one who will know WHAT YOU DID "THE NIGHT BEFORE"...AND when things get HARD in the near future...you won't have to freak out when there isn't any BOOZE to buy...etc...Staying away from ADDICTING substances!! You are living a good life where you don't allow anyone to tell you what to do✨️ Shifting away from the stress in so many people's lives is a wonderful move!! 😊......... 💜 GOD BLESS YOU 💕
Thank you for sharing your Lovely video, such a Beautiful area you live in, your Dog is Beautiful, your home is Lovely, I am a soon to be a 12 years Vegan and I love this Loving Lifestyle, have a Wonderful night, love, Diana Lipski ❤️
You are not odd. You are a lovely soul. Just found your channel recently. I live in the Falkirk Area. I so admire you living your life your way. I want a slower way of life. I'm 53, but I want to take steps to a slower way of life. Even wee baby steps.
Thank you lovely ☺
Hi sister! I’m a minimalist vegan atheist sober single introvert 🙋🏻♀️ I’m so much happier now than when I tried to fit in. ✌🏻💚
Thanks for your comment lovely ☺💚
Thank you so much for this mindful content, if I could, I would unite all the "odd ones" so we feel just a little less alone as I'm sure there are many of us out there with similar values.
I recently started thinking about how my "values" (veganism, non-drinkin, and I'm also big on zero waste too) how these values slowly morph into being "restrictions/rules" that give me a huge sense of guilt whenever I reassess them - not sure how you find that...
Like I'd like to keep bees - for saving them, for my mental health, for spending more time in nature and least importantly for harvesting a minimal amount of honey - but in a vegan's eye that's animal exploitation... So anyway, I personally find that having a "why" as you've said is so important and reassessing that why so it comes from a compassionate, heartfelt place instead of a sense of guilt is very important.
Thank you for the lovely, thought provoking content 🦋
Yes to living the slow simple life. It’s frustrating when people are close minded but as long as people follow what is in their hearts and live authentically that is all that matters. Great video!
Thank you Hayley! ☺
I think I was always the odd one out, but I've adjusted, I don't care what people think and embrace my own oddness. Carry on and be Odd!! Excellent RUclips, thanks for your share.
Thank you! ☺
You have some stunning pottery!! I especially love the darker green mug. There’s a lot of power in being willing to be different…
Please continue to make such lovely videos.
When my daughter was born 21 years ago and I was a vegetarian, the doctors scolded me for not feeding her meat. I think times have really changed. I don’t think the minimalist, vegan,…lifestyle is odd anymore. I actually think it’s super trendy. But I still LOVE IT!!! ❤❤❤ I love watching your channel.
Lovely vid. Cool to find so many similar people replying on here. I'm 54, turned veggie at 16, mostly vegan. tee-total and enjoy the simple things in life. I'd also add being a punk into the equation, so I'm definitely on the high scale on weirdness. I learnt to embrace it from the get go as I had penpals around the world who were similar, nothing like this back in the 80's. Enjoy your life and being real.
You are describing attributes that I have had my whole life, chiefly among them: always being the odd one out. But it's never bothered me (not most of the time anyway). The only time it bothers me is when I'm at a large party and would rather be reading or doing anything other than making small-talk and watching people get pickled! LOL... So when I have to go to these things, I am usually exhausted from the effort of making small talk for however many hours. I'm much more partial to small gatherings with interesting conversation. Vegan: same; minimalist: almost, but not quite as amazing as you! Childfree (to be differentiated from 'childless'): check. I guess the universe has a way of bringing like-minded beings together. Love your new mug; oh yes: another passion of mine: handmade mugs! Perhaps there are other dimensions that we may come from in another life, who knows...? But it always fascinates me, finding humans in the smaller percentage of demographic like oneself. The takes in your videos of nature... could watch all day! We just got back from a roadtrip, the objective was to visit National Parks... it was amazing: wildlife and nature; and interestingly, the moment we entered the NP proper, the energy was entirely different to what was outside of these places. The animals were different (happy); it was palpable. Perhaps beings like us also have a deeper connection with the world? (I also don't drink.) 😊
I love being different and the odd one out. I dont want to be like everyone else that society expects. It shows individualism and character and surely that makes us more interesting to engage with. I dont care what society thinks. But I do care about what makes 'me' happy and that's all that matters.
Wise words ☺💚
Good on you, I feel the same as you and have lived a simple life for many years. We all have a right to live according to our own values. Main thing I guess is not to try and tell others how to
live their lives. Bless you. Philippa Australia
I love it, since 2020 my husband and I have decided that things don't mean so much anymore and we are getting off the consumerism wheel, we are not going to buy any more stuff no more Christmas presents no more birthday presents no more stuff, we will try to purchase what we need secondhand through thrift stores or goodwills, we have started to compost and are trying to cut down our waist. We have drastically reduced our water usage and our electricity bill, we have become frugal and minimalist we are pushing back against the capitalist system which is not sustainable for anyone anywhere especially not our Earth or our relationships. We must let our egos go and get rid of greed.
Unbelievable photography and narration. And the doggie shots 💞🐶🐾 Thank you for opening up the world to special people like us.🍁🌠🍂
But the thing is, we're not "odd." We're the cool ones of the future. People who are not vegans or vegetarian, or who aren't animal lovers, or who aren't minimalist, and who are trapped with another person and in consumerism and materialism ... these people are dead inside and they're in a prison of their own making. And they know that they're trapped in h*ll ... that's why your channel and others similar to yours (van life; stealth camping; etc) do so well.
We all know that we're trapped and so many of us are trying to break free and be like you. You're the future. 💞
Hi, so much of what you say resonates with how I feel now at 45. The problem I have is blending the me that I am now with the life I constructed when I was a very different person.
I’m Vegan in a family of 4 where my husband and children are not vegan.
I eat mainly WFPB food in a family that loves junk food.
I don’t drink in a family and extended family where I’m frowned upon for being ‘uptight’ and not joining in.
Im more and more minimalist in a house where my husband obsessively hunts ‘bargains’ and gets a buzz out of buying his finds.
I feel drawn to a life based in nature and the spiritual side of life and yet I help run a family retail business.
I’m very introverted and feel judged for not wanting to sit in pubs for hours every week, I would rather be reading a book!
I feel conflicted every day as the life that I live suited me so well 10 years ago and yet now it feels like I’m trying to fit into someone else’s shoes.
Maybe if I cared less what people thought of me I would be able to just be who I am now and let the rest move on around me without worrying so much about it x
I find it interesting that you say your life suited you 10 years ago but not now because I have always felt the way I do since childhood. I wonder what made you change? Thank you for your interesting comment
Hello Molly. I agree, I think we are all allowed to live our life as we want and makes us happy, as long as we don't hurt or disturb others. It's important to know that we are not here to live up to societies expectations. We all have one life and it's important that we feel comfortable with it. Thank you for sharing your video 😊 P.S. enjoy your new mug 👍
Thank you lovely! Glad you enjoyed your mug 🤗
I'm not vegan but I'm not far off. I do live in a little house, garden, tee total all my life I had one beer in my 30's and decided that was enough, I only work 3 days a week. The biggest problem I have is how to to find someone to share my life with. So many people are all about money and alcohol it gets disheartening after a while. I've very much moving towards a slower life which is hard in a world that only seems to be speeding up. Good on you for stepping out of the mainstream.
Don't define yourself by what you eat or don't buy. But for what you are and do for other people.
I agree. We all live our lives differently. There is no need to justify or seek other people's approval because you live different from them. Or fear other people's opinions. People will always judge or make assumptions about you no matter what you do.
Smart and peaceful. Yes, what a grand way to be. 😇
Love it. Don't forget to catch my new uploads @calming vibrations for the mind body and soul
Love the mug... and your dog is awesome. I'm definitely weird as well... or away with the fairies, as my family describe me. That's okay with me. The fairies are great company. I've been an edge dweller all my life and for the last 10 years I've been shedding all that isn't authentically me. I agree with what you say about the people pleasing programme. It feels like an important space in time for all of us to be living more simply, deeply connected to ourselves, listening to the land and the rest of nature. My heart call and intention is to step out of the system and into a beautiful tiny home made of natural materials and become more self sufficient. I can see, smell and feel it!
What a wonderful vision. I wish you the best of luck with it ☺💚
Hi Molly, another fantastic vlog, thank you 😘. I adore the fact that you are being so true to yourself ❤️, I don't think you are "different" but a unique individual that inspires me so much. Love your new mug ❤️ and h your washing didn't get too wet 😉❤️xx
Thank you lovely! No I managed to save the washing! 😀☺
I really appreciate you sharing your story. Not subscribing to society's narrative does seem to take a bit of confidence, but ultimately when you know in your heart that you're living your own authentic journey you can always find a way to continue on your path, regardless of what's happening around you. Of course, not everyone will come from the perspective that we're all at varying stages of our own journey and that each path may look noticeably different from some of the more common narratives, and that's okay too. There is no good or bad, just what's right for the individual. My narrative of a primarily plant-based diet and no drugs, alcohol, coffee, social media, Netflix, cable TV, or materialism doesn't align very well with the culture around me, and I've never been happier...😊
This is so lovely to hear 😊💚
Off topic but your dog is so cute he just melts my heart 💜
I look forward to seeing your videos each week. Very inspiring. Love the scenery and your tiny home too 🙂.
Thank you Gill! :)
💖🪶🦋🪴 I do find your videos very calming, informative and inspiring....and reassuring that, hey, I am not that different after all...thank you for sharing ! Cheers Molly !
Thank you! So glad you enjoyed ☺💚
I love Sky such a peaceful being.
Your vlog just popped up out of nowhere and I'm glad! Hello from Tennessee.
I'm glad too! 👋☺
So glad I came across your channel
I'm working towards a freer life. I think you're on the right path. Thank you for a lovely video.
Thank you and good luck!
Good morning from a fellow Scot. I just found your channel and have subscribed. I also became vegetarian at 13. I was left home with Sunday afternoon farming programmes on tv. Those animals didn't look like the happy animals shown in my many books! Im older than you and like you i always had my lifestyle questioned. I'd be so interested to hear more about your tiny home. It's something I would truly love. X
As a first generation American (my parents were from northern England) I realized as an adult that I don’t fit in. I walk to the beat of my own drum. Although I live in California and I’m vegan, minimalism and tiny homes are natural here. However the town I live in is not like this. Someday I’ll move and find my tribe. So all that said, I totally understand you! I’m glad I found your videos! ☺️
Thank you for your comment! ☺☺
You are not weird. I think you know that. You’re thoughtful and enlightened. Thanks for the pretty video. Love your border collie
Thanks
I can relate to this video so much
I feel very much the same as I have food intolerances so eating out is always a difficult time for me and being an Introvert and not enjoying socialising I always feel the odd one out...I don't drink either...odd definitely has it's challenges 🙂 but the comfort is we are not alone
My day has just improved - I have just discovered your channel while skimming through RUclips. Like others here Molly, I am much older than you but live similarly apart from the tiny house. I live in South Australia, have been vegan for many years, adore animals ( we have a beautiful golden retriever) and have never tasted alcohol.This alone has made me socially unacceptable many times early on in my life, but thankfully attitudes are much more accepting in these progressive days of healthy lifestyle choices. Unfortunately most of my extended family (including my children) are meat eaters. It can be a lonely path we tread so it is lovely that there are many likeminded people on forums such as yours. It can even be difficult finding a medical professional who doesn't think you are malnourished if you dare to be vegan! I now look forward to catching up with your other videos. Your fur baby is adorable by the way. Warm wishes. 🐾🦋
I'm so glad you found me and thank you for your lovely comment! 💚
@@hippyhighlandliving Loving your videos Molly - and I have just purchased one of your boxy jumpers!
@@marionlacey1074 Aw thank you so much!
BEAUTIFUL LIFE.
Welcome to your new mug ,and to your continued joy in your chosen way of living ,I have been living minimalistic for 9 years now ,not sure if to move into rented static
I feel for you and can totally relate to your feeling odd ,I feel it is our consciousness that is speaking and showing us the way accountability kindness joy realating to our surroundings and beyond in a creative and wonderous way ,will we meet your partner at some point the power of three with your beautifull animal also thank you for sharing ,I am 66 it's a work in progress 🕊️
I have been to both towns you mention, love them both. Looking forward to returning!
It's actually pretty awesome
Plus you have your little birder collie!!!
I just drove to South Dakota with my border collie
I love the freedom of not being a drinker :)
Outdoors and cooking segments were lovely.
love your sense of self...its refreshing
Just came upon your video by accident, so glad I did! Not weird, just think things through and connect up the dots maybe more than the majority. But there is a place for us. Hopefully by seeing how we are, how we act, others more mainstream will question and join up the dots themselves? We do no harm. X
Love that your such a strong soul person. Your great! Love all you have said.☕️💙🦋
I also live in the highlands and I would say there can be a big social drinking culture up here (weirdly as you have to drive everywhere lol) I also think it’s just the norm socially at a wedding. But I think it’s really the people you surround yourself with and the social activities you choose. I could say so much on this but I’ll leave it here haha. Love your content and videos 🧡
Thank you lovely! Agree about the drinking culture 🤔😊💚
What a sweet wise young woman ! ❤
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Besides living in a tiny home (though we are downsizing to an apartment) I'm also vegan, minimalist and don't drink (but never have). I've been vegetarian for almost 20 years and still have no other vegetarians or vegans in my family/friend circle and am way more way more eco conscious than anyone else I know, so I'm used to be known as the "hippy". But I'm proud to be and just think of myself as ahead of the curve :-). And as I always tell my kids - "who wants to be normal" 🙂
Very true! 😁💚
You are living the perfect life. I wish I had done it at your age.