Why do Asian guys struggle so much with dating? (Yellow Fever explained.)

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  • Why do Asian males or guys struggle so much with dating? I have a theory... it might be a crazy one or maybe it's just me.
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  • @brokethehabit
    @brokethehabit  Год назад

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  • @benderchump
    @benderchump Год назад +87

    Media is to blame, Hollywood has a rule that Asian actors can't kiss women and portrayed always as asexual nerds or kungfu karate warriors.Wong in the MCU is good.

    • @davec5153
      @davec5153 Год назад +3

      Isn't it just as rare to see an asian man kiss in chinese television. It just isn't part of the culture to show too much physical contact between the sexes.

    • @CoolNumber1
      @CoolNumber1 Год назад

      I say it's both the media and Asian men. Media definitely destroy asian men confident, so they didn't bother to try.

    • @mengtimmy9947
      @mengtimmy9947 Год назад

      Also Asian on average is as tall as white, but in Hollywood they're magically become 8 inches shorter
      Anti asian propaganda at the finest

    • @theinternational397
      @theinternational397 Год назад +4

      Asian media don’t need the media to stereotype them when they do a great job of doing it to themselves.

    • @scholarssolutions6735
      @scholarssolutions6735 5 месяцев назад +1

      @@davec5153 not really, it’s just that you’re not going to find nearly as many explicit sex scenes in Korean / Chinese media and it may take more episodes to get to kissing. But that isn’t really the entire truth either because Asian women are constantly fetishized.

  • @missskinndeepunapologetically
    @missskinndeepunapologetically Год назад +39

    I'm a blk woman and I think you're gorgeous 😍 You're desirable, believe that!!!

  • @gerafinali4384
    @gerafinali4384 2 месяца назад +8

    Im a french woman that has always fancied asian men, but it is so hard to attract their attention as a none asian.

    • @davidpark2509
      @davidpark2509 Месяц назад +2

      @@gerafinali4384 approach them first.

  • @michellebelledejour
    @michellebelledejour 8 месяцев назад +36

    I’m a Latina who has a huge crush on a coworker who is Asian. His humor and chivalry is what really attracted me to him. The problem is he lacks confidence and it really breaks my heart because he’s such a fantastic guy. I wish he would see what I see in him😔❤️

    • @ragequitter
      @ragequitter 8 месяцев назад +2

      Does his lack of confidence make him undatable or is it more to do with him not making a move? Just curious

    • @michellebelledejour
      @michellebelledejour 6 месяцев назад +3

      @@ragequitter him not making a move and having a hard time speaking to me

    • @ITech2005
      @ITech2005 3 месяца назад +4

      ​@@michellebelledejourlol jeez just ask the dude out already. Wmn love to sit back and wait for the guy to do all the work. Im sure he can take it from there.

    • @CommandoMaster
      @CommandoMaster Месяц назад +2

      I don't think he's attracted to u tbh. Just because u like him, doesn't mean he likes u.

  • @DeadJustBack4TheDay
    @DeadJustBack4TheDay 6 месяцев назад +16

    You bring up good points man. As a Chinese-American man, I can say that it is indeed harder for Asian men in the dating scene. I've personally never attracted girls that were particularly good looking. They either had some issues that I won't delve into or were into anime. Historically, Hollywood hasn't been kind to Asians, particularly men. We were always the bad guys, portrayed by white men and they got to kiss our women. It wasn't until Bruce Lee came onto the scene were we viewed differently. Those stereotypes never went away, but as thankful I am to Bruce Lee, he added more stereotypes to the list. On top of having it tougher with dating, there's also the "you must know Karate" stereotypes and that cost me and some other Asian guys I know some... rough treatment to say the least. Maybe I have the wrong mindset, but Asian women can have preferences... it is also my preference to cut out the white boot licker types. I don't know how the rest of you guys can stand it, but I left the dating scene a long time ago and am doing just fine on my own. Its not for everyone, just like marriage.

    • @gambit_toys6554
      @gambit_toys6554 2 месяца назад +1

      @@DeadJustBack4TheDay in bible it says it's not good for man to be alone. Whoever finds a wife, finds favor from God. Keep looking and don't settle on being a Lone monk.

  • @aishac9301
    @aishac9301 7 месяцев назад +11

    This is very eye-opening, because me personally I’m attracted to all guys as long as you’re attractive but I find myself specially gravitating towards Asian guys, but not just because of K-pop or K-drama I found you guys attractive way before I was exposed to that. But never know if they are attracted to me just because they seem very standoffish and I also seem standoffish so I don’t think any of us would ever approach one another

    • @xandercrew6088
      @xandercrew6088 4 месяца назад

      Well sista sorry to tell you most Asian men will not even consider you as a viable woman because yours black

  • @AnimeArchaeologist
    @AnimeArchaeologist Год назад +15

    Being Filipino means that no woman would want to find such a man attractive. Heck, we have pick-me influencers like The Filipina Pea and Rubeauti simping for Western men non-stop.

    • @tanthaman
      @tanthaman Год назад

      Pinoy men smalll

    • @Marcus-gw4bb
      @Marcus-gw4bb Год назад +3

      That's rough buddy. I'm from Malaysia and currently in Europe furthering my studies. Before leaving my country, I have seen a lot of those rich families sending their daughters overseas to study and they all found western men as boyfriends/partners and never looked back.

    • @theinternational397
      @theinternational397 6 месяцев назад +2

      At least Filipinos can pass for Hispanic. Other Asians don’t have that benefit.

    • @FakeJake5843
      @FakeJake5843 2 месяца назад +1

      Filipinos tend to have the best luck in Asian dating

    • @AnimeArchaeologist
      @AnimeArchaeologist 2 месяца назад

      @@FakeJake5843 I highly doubt this.

  • @lovechineseforeverever2
    @lovechineseforeverever2 17 дней назад +2

    CHINESE NO 1

  • @theinternational397
    @theinternational397 Год назад +28

    Some Asian men keep saying Asian men should date out of their race. The truth is Asian men want to date out of their race and would be dating out of their race if they could. Asian men aren’t dating out of their race because most are unable to. They would already be doing so if they actually could,

    • @lollololololololololololo
      @lollololololololololololo Год назад +4

      EXACTLY !
      Saying that they don't date other races is not because they don't want to as they say..
      Its because they CANT!

    • @mengtimmy9947
      @mengtimmy9947 Год назад +1

      Younger gen east asian men date out of their race without issue
      They always have one night stand with white girls and marry Asian women, why because they want 100percent Asian bloodline
      Are you an Asian, lots of white guy losers didn't get out of their country but claim they know more Asian culture than native Asian, hypocrite.

    • @theinternational397
      @theinternational397 Год назад +4

      @@mengtimmy9947 The ratio of WMAF to AMWF is higher today than it was a generation or 2 generations ago. That is a statistical fact.

    • @mengtimmy9947
      @mengtimmy9947 Год назад

      @@theinternational397 thanks to the western media who only recruiting shortest ugliest Asian men with most handsome white men
      Right now Asians are waking up from those anti asian bullshits, and young asians are as tall as white, you will soon see beautiful AMAW and AMWW everywhere and lots of triggered anti asian racist losers.

    • @muaythaibachatero393
      @muaythaibachatero393 Год назад +1

      Why do people care so much about statistics? Just fucking date out. What the fuck do asian men gotta lose?

  • @rrtds9378
    @rrtds9378 Год назад +7

    Yes as far as social life and dating for Asian “men”, I agree it is difficult. Maybe it’s better nowadays, I’m older so I’m passed those days. Well, maybe Hollywood hurt Asian men’s dating reputation but I’m not so sure. Asian men would always have this drawback of attracting women of other race, especially caucasian women are not normally attracted to Asian men. Even Asian women in the western world are not drawn to their counterpart as far as dating. A lot of westernized Asian women likes caucasian men. I see a lot now ordinary looking white or black men with beautiful (asian and white) women in major cities. How would that change? I don’t know, it is part of nature for Asian guys. I think the problem is here in America and probably UK & Australia. We were stereotyped by most non-Asian race. I know it is difficult but not completely impossible. I had dates with caucasian women and even a long term one that lasted 8years and to this day we stayed friends. I actually had harder time getting dates with pretty Asian women, they definitely shunned Asian guys because they know white men will go for them. The best thing to do in my opinion is be conscious of ones looks, be neat, dress well, have good manners and have confidence. Most Asian guys in general are successful but to me, there’s no need to show off for example driving expensive car. They key is to better yourself how to become more attractive and confident. Hopefully the media would stop stereotyping us, and hopeful for the next generation.

  • @phuocnguyen7571
    @phuocnguyen7571 Год назад +16

    Yo i feel lucky, I am not grown-up in Western countries
    But like my nephews and nieces they are not having any identity crisis cause our family live closely and have connections with Asian communities around us
    I just went back to Asia pick and choose Asian girls that more make sense to me , as my family members did the same thing

  • @ragequitter
    @ragequitter 8 месяцев назад +5

    I’m light skinned Cambodian. I never had issues dating. In fact, I was pretty popular with women up until my mid 20s. Then I got fat. I didn’t get much love. Maybe like one woman a year would like me, and she’d be like a 5 or 6. Then I lost weight in my later 20s. I started getting a lot of attention again. It felt great to get some validation ngl. They were like 6-7s, and my best was an 8, but she was promiscuous. At my highest, I always had a bit of muscle, but not shredded. I was 5’9” and 180 lbs, maybe 25% body fat. They seemed to like that a lot. Now I’m mid 30s and fat. Don’t get any love lol. My point is, don’t let your race define you. Get out there and discover that EVERY WOMAN LIKES SOMETHING DIFFERENT. They aren’t like guys. They vary a lot. Trust me, there’s a girl that likes you out there, as long as you don’t have any mental/personality issues. The main thing that might hold Asian guys back (including me), is our lack of confidence. Try to believe in your abilities more every day (increase confidence), and trust me, girls will love that confident vibe. A man who is sure of himself, has goals, and can take charge is attractive to them. Don’t get confidence confused with being conceited though.
    P.S. I mentioned light skinned because I felt like it helped me, because the girls I dated would tell me “most Cambodian guys are dark.” In retrospect though, I knew masculine Cambodian guys who got way more girls than me. These guys were extremely confident though. I was always described by people as chill, laid back, and soft spoken unfortunately. But even with my lack of assertiveness, I still managed to get a lot women who were beautiful, and had extremely great personalities. I miss it 😅
    P.P.S. Don’t let the red or black pills ruin your dating life. There is some truth in red pill, but don’t let it make you hate women. Black pill is toxic because it makes you believe dating is hopeless, but like I said, there’s someone who likes you out there. Just get down to at most 30% body fat and you might get someone. 20% or lower is where many doors open. Gaining confidence is where looks start to matter less. Studies have been done that proved that women cared way less about looks than believed, and more about personality. Basically, a good personality will give you a halo effect and make you look hot to them, as long as you aren’t 300 lbs.

  • @monchichipower6334
    @monchichipower6334 Год назад +14

    I find the Asian girls who just follow Hollywood media will usually only date
    WM
    The AF I know who follow Asian media movies music will still be in AM
    They go with what's poppin and trending at moment

  • @aviladoom9424
    @aviladoom9424 7 месяцев назад +5

    Mmmm...i love Asian men...always have... i love their body build, their skin is so perfect and i love how the are not afraid to be themselves and their facial expressions really melt my heart. I think the biggest thing that keeps them from dating is that we were lead to believe that asian men are not allowed to marry outside their culture.

    • @xandercrew6088
      @xandercrew6088 4 месяца назад

      It’s not that they’re not allowed it’s that unless you’re white or Asian they don’t want you and that’s the truth

  • @503zzach
    @503zzach День назад

    I'm half Asian. I'm not into Asian dude either. I prefer white, Middle eastern, Latino, etc. I also like half white and half Asian though. Half Arab, half Asian. Half white, half black, mixed race and biracial. etc.

  • @thethirdeye8893
    @thethirdeye8893 8 месяцев назад +4

    I am asian, I don't struggle with dating at all I have dated all color girls and never felt discriminated or smth like that. I guess I am an exception ))

  • @monchichipower6334
    @monchichipower6334 Год назад +7

    Women are dime a dozen
    If she doesn't want date me as AM then don't waste my time
    Tons out there
    You can meet women anywhere
    Coffee shop , getting lunch on my break while at work

  • @SOConnor-oc8lc
    @SOConnor-oc8lc 2 месяца назад +1

    Can i ask are any white people portrayed in main roles in Asian movies/tv shows? So isnt it the same per each individual countries?

  • @theinnercircle5820
    @theinnercircle5820 13 дней назад

    Yeah and surprisingly even Asian Transgender women are more accepted than Asian guys, (Even though Transgenders in general are highly discriminated and hated by society) it’s just hard for me to stop thinking what a big middle finger god gave us for no reason because of how demonized we still are just for existing and trying to fit in with everyone else and it just makes me kind of mad that we’re believed to make the most money even though I’m literally on the verge of being homeless and no job, and not even the simple jobs like fast food or grocery stores would even accept me, it’s just a such a death sentence that god gave us to just throw us in the Fire just for fun

  • @gambit_toys6554
    @gambit_toys6554 4 месяца назад +1

    Step 1) stop looking at the world as "an Asian" and view people as individuals
    Step 2) tell someone you like them
    There ya go.

    • @jindays
      @jindays Месяц назад

      Well it won't work if others judge you by the ethnicity first lol. Besides that, if things are really the way you described, many of these videos, forum posts wouldn't exist.

  • @sheldonhollis5258
    @sheldonhollis5258 Год назад +2

    But explain this to me. Asian Men are economically successful so based on hypergamy, shouldn't it be easier for them to date? I'm confused.

    • @theinternational397
      @theinternational397 6 месяцев назад

      But their physical features offset their economical advantages. It has been proven by research that an Asian male needs to earn over $277,000/year to be considered comparable to a white male earning $30,000/year. That’s $247,000+/year minimum to compensate for their physical deficiencies.

  • @tyronewalker5764
    @tyronewalker5764 Год назад +12

    As a black man, you're preaching to the choir! I've fought against "type" and still can't a date!

    • @AyanAli-py7ci
      @AyanAli-py7ci Год назад +1

      Black men do good in real time
      Half the white women in Hollywood are with black men

    • @tyronewalker5764
      @tyronewalker5764 Год назад +1

      @@AyanAli-py7ci Ain't me!

    • @Curbcooler
      @Curbcooler 5 месяцев назад +1

      In all honesty thats probably why you cant get a date as a black man.

  • @SparkleLuna77
    @SparkleLuna77 Год назад +8

    I am white af. I’m British and live in the UK and I find East Asian men extremely attractive. I honestly struggle to find East Asian men my age to date (I’m 45) and I don’t exclusively find East Asian men attractive but if I had a choice then definitely I’d be there! I’m so sorry that that’s the experience you have and obviously I don’t presume to know how you feel. But there are plenty of people out there who do find East Asian people very attractive.

    • @npcsenpai1185
      @npcsenpai1185 Год назад

      Their(Asian men in the West) biggest problem is their insecurity. Even I as a native Asian can sense it.
      A lot of them just blame it on race when its mostly because of other factors.

    • @tungstenanderson5991
      @tungstenanderson5991 Год назад

      That's because whilst they whine, they want white "girls". Yeah, the 45 year old East Asian men want that, girls..not women. It's creepy AF.

    • @LuckBrown-re7yg
      @LuckBrown-re7yg 3 месяца назад

      Ew you like the small ones 😂

    • @lookWeird-ko3rq
      @lookWeird-ko3rq Месяц назад +1

      @@LuckBrown-re7yg stop stereotype

    • @LuckBrown-re7yg
      @LuckBrown-re7yg Месяц назад

      @@lookWeird-ko3rq it's the truth. That is why your women gor for BWCs.
      Plus white men are way better looking and taller than asian men.

  • @biggerbitcoin5126
    @biggerbitcoin5126 9 месяцев назад +3

    We need to look at Korea, Korean men are doing well because they are in the media.

    • @lookWeird-ko3rq
      @lookWeird-ko3rq Месяц назад

      they only do well in countries where majority population is asian.
      in western countries, they also struggle except someone has a good looking

    • @davidpark2509
      @davidpark2509 Месяц назад +1

      ​@lookWeird-ko3rq the negative stereotypes regarding asians is very strong in the west. Hollywood knows very well the power of media influence aka soft power. Kpop is a perfect example. There's a reason why they never casted a good looking asian male romantic lead across a white actress. Tgey did that experiment in 1910 and 1920 w/ sessue hayakawa a pioneer japanese american actor heart throb who had many white women swooning over him. They mateguarded their own women and shut that down real quick. Never casting asian male romantic leads since. And I wouldn't be surprised if they were the ones who wacked bruce lee bc they saw his massive influence on asian men in the world as a potential threat.

  • @rampar77
    @rampar77 Год назад +1

    There are social classes for Chinese from Asia:
    Chinese parents had these classes for their children when selecting a spouse, it is common all over Asia:
    Rank from preferred to acceptable - Chinese, other Asians of oriental race, Caucasian, Latino of white race or mixed race.
    Never acceptable and subject to breaking family ties in order - Middle Eastern, East Indian, African origin blacks.
    Most Asian women in the U.S. married with Caucasian men because they wanted to assimilate. There are also more Caucasian men available than Asian men in some areas of the U.S. It is also more acceptable and not discriminated against. Mixed race babies are discriminated against in Asia.
    I am Asian man and I have dated many Caucasian women in the U.S. but I wold never marry with one because they are too independent and not family oriented. I am happily married with a Latina from South America.

  • @um52
    @um52 8 месяцев назад +5

    I’m Asian. It’s hard. Work/accept with what you have. Improve on what you can change. Exit your comfort zone & socialize more. Your self confidence/esteem will increase.

    • @411932348
      @411932348 Месяц назад

      Take a break and watch this video! Your advice to "just work with what you have and socialize more" misses the mark. Asians in Western societies deal with racism, stereotypes, and other barriers that can't be fixed by confidence alone. Let's tackle these issues head-on instead of just saying "get out of your comfort zone."

  • @Orlanzepol123
    @Orlanzepol123 6 месяцев назад +6

    I don’t see how kpop is portraying Asian men in a good way. They are very talented and attractive but they aren’t alpha male figures which is what most women look for in a man.

    • @miliba
      @miliba 4 месяца назад

      The main problem with these Kpop sissy boys is that their looks are unrealistic and unrepresentative of the average Korean/Asian. Also the pressure these stars have is toxic and sometimes makes them commit suicide

    • @davidpark2509
      @davidpark2509 Месяц назад

      Asian men aren't a monolith. Not every asian guy is the same just as every black or white guy isn't the same.

  • @joy1ess
    @joy1ess Год назад +6

    dude, that's because you're in the wrong parts of the world. you shouldn't have this much problem in asia itself

    • @brokethehabit
      @brokethehabit  Год назад +3

      yep noticed that when I went.

    • @CoolNumber1
      @CoolNumber1 Год назад +9

      Nope in Asia, asian girl worship white men too. Dont give excuses, this is an unfair world, so someone has to suffer and in this case, asian men suffer, while asian women enjoy her life.

    • @joy1ess
      @joy1ess Год назад

      @@CoolNumber1 rubbish. billions of asian women are married to asian men and the overwhelming majority of babies born are.. asians 😂 you're hilarious

    • @CoolNumber1
      @CoolNumber1 Год назад

      @@joy1ess They dont have a choice cuz they live in Asia, their only option is asian men. Put a white men in Asia, he will win. Even if the asian girl prefer asian guys, the asian guys still have to try 10x harder than white men. This show that life is unfair and someone has to suffer, and in this case, is asian guys.

    • @mengtimmy9947
      @mengtimmy9947 Год назад

      @@CoolNumber1 young Asian men enjoy one night stand with hot gal left and right while self hating asian women crying about getting rejected by Asian and white men

  • @darthvadeth6290
    @darthvadeth6290 2 месяца назад +1

    1:15
    Are you blind?

  • @suongnguyen11
    @suongnguyen11 Месяц назад

    The Wolverine and Deadpool is back and girls are swooning again.

  • @jimihendrix7524
    @jimihendrix7524 Месяц назад

    Tbh it’s just based off looks😂and culture . I noticed a lot of lightskin black guys get a lot of girls where as dark skin black guys tend to get less when it comes to outside of the black race. At the same time if you live in a more lower economic class area a darker black guy who carry himself in a hood gangster attitude they will get more women then the lighter skin guys

  • @kevinl7173
    @kevinl7173 5 месяцев назад +1

    First the look is different, 2nd the western countries still don't consider them are equal

  • @jc1840
    @jc1840 3 месяца назад

    You’re not wrong brother in the sense that Hollywood didn’t portray asians in the best light. However, despite all that it’s a mindset thing. Like if you’re over/under weight and you want to change your physique nothing is gonna happen if you keep doing what you’ve been doing. The quote “the definition of insanity is doing the same thing and expecting a different result” applies here. So the media portrays asians as quiet, timid and “uncool”/not fun. Then guess what? Be the opposite of that. I’ve had meaningful relationships and encounters with women of all ethnic backgrounds. I’m an asian man and growing up I was quiet and timid, then I joined the military and when I was in I mixed with different ethnicities and went out in social situations with these peers. I learned to break out of my shell and while I’m not batting 100 I say I do decently well (This is not to brag just anecdotal evidence). It all comes down to the individual man. Yes social climate and media play a part but it’s not an end all, be all.

  • @damonlbs
    @damonlbs Год назад +6

    western Asian bros you guys need to date outside of the English speaking countries , go to Latin America , Eastern Europe and Asia
    chances for you get higher when you leave the English speaking world

    • @aussiedanny28au15
      @aussiedanny28au15 Год назад

      Lol, you don't understand how much it would cost them to leave their own country for some half civilised place. English speaking countries aren't as bad as you all love to demonise them, especially Australia, Canada and New Zealand are pretty welcoming towards people of colour

    • @bevs9995
      @bevs9995 Год назад +2

      you mean go to poorer countries; just say it.
      also, any of these women can divorce you after i believe 4 years and 3 months; once their american citizenship clears.

    • @Marcus-gw4bb
      @Marcus-gw4bb Год назад

      @@aussiedanny28au15 "just get some confidence" you said it like as if it's a software patch that one can just simply download and install. Confidence takes a tremendous amount of time and effort to build. You're fool if you think it's that easy and that people are just not trying hard enough. Why'd you think so many men are quitting the dating game? Look at the statistics.

    • @aussiedanny28au15
      @aussiedanny28au15 Год назад

      @@Marcus-gw4bb What statistics? I'm not messing with the stats. I also used to be a dang nerd who had 0 amount of confidence but at the end something pushed my mind and i was just like: "fuck it all, i don't give a crap about rejections i don't wanna be a lonely dog no more"

    • @tommyvercetti9322
      @tommyvercetti9322 Год назад

      If you're Asian American Man don't go to Asia to find a Asian women go date outside your race date a eastern European girls or Latinas if white Man date our women we just don't care

  • @amehayami934
    @amehayami934 5 месяцев назад

    Well for starters. You guys may need to make the first move.
    Second move to the west coast
    California or Hawaii.
    I'm Japanese/Chinese American from Hawaii I been out with asain guys before I love my Asians.
    My brother is married to a half Asain girl.
    Fact is we are out there.
    However threw out my entire life there was only 2 Asain guys who hit on me. My first boyfriend and my BFFWB.
    I'm an introvert and pretty shy until I get to know someone.
    If you are waiting for someone to hit on you? Yes that might take a while. But if you make the first move your chance ate better.
    I went out with other guys from other races even girls they all made a move on me.
    Depending on the type of girl you're looking for? You might have to make the first move.

  • @trieet9827
    @trieet9827 5 месяцев назад

    Ngl, while many asian guys out here bussing their ass to git gud, mad respect to them! MEANWHILE, me and buddies waiting to get isekai -Weeb life 😂

  • @tklmmft
    @tklmmft Год назад +4

    For me I would rather date a Chinese girl than a white girl im an Asian American guy and I would certainly dethrone all the negative stereotypes about Asian men only dating non-Asian women

  • @SheilaSharath
    @SheilaSharath 2 месяца назад

    Bro has never seen Kim Taechung before 💀💀💀

  • @hannahmcdonald9701
    @hannahmcdonald9701 4 месяца назад +1

    This is so insightful thankyou

  • @hueyang1403
    @hueyang1403 Год назад +6

    I think all of what you say is correct because it's stuff I've heard before over and over. A term that's always kinda bothered me is when people refer to some Asians as being "fresh off the boat". I know it's not a literal term. but people need to do their history because the white people's ancestors (the Pilgrims) & the black people's ancestors (the slaves) sailed here by boat. My parents came to America by plane. I can't think of one Asian group that came to America by boat. But good insight and video man! Yes, Asian guys have it harder to answer your question. There's so much that comes with it and much extra hurdles we have to jump through just to be equal to our white counterparts.

    • @mengtimmy9947
      @mengtimmy9947 Год назад

      "Fresh off boat"
      A term used by white supermacist to relate immigrants with proverty, in order to hate them

    • @lr8719
      @lr8719 Год назад +2

      I think the reference refers to the Chinese population in America. I'm from the West Coast in the US. We've had a Chinese presence here for over a century. Plus, there may have been Japanese people after the late 1800's? Not sure... but either way, they were most definitely traveling by boat.
      So were the Irish, Jews, Italians, Germans. There was a boat involved before commercial air was common in the States.

    • @tungstenanderson5991
      @tungstenanderson5991 Год назад

      Then if it's not literal, don't let it bother you. It's been said for decades. My father from Scotland had to deal with it himself. My new Irish friends at work get the same thing. They don't complain about it and guess what..they are white! We don't need to learn history, we already know it. It's not a term exclusive to you, but it's exclusive to how you whine about it. Stop it. Moreover, if you think that Asian people only came to the America's by plane, you're an idiot. That said, I think we have established that already.

    • @TenchiBushi
      @TenchiBushi Год назад

      @@lr8719 Ya! Everyone came to the USA by boat before the airliners. Don't forget the "boat people" in the 70s-90s.

  • @aime3737
    @aime3737 Год назад +4

    This is very interesting.

  • @dannylam8272
    @dannylam8272 6 месяцев назад

    ...But you don't seem to upset that in Asian media, Caucasians are type casted in a similar manner, or that there is a stereotypical depiction of them in native media of Asia.

    • @brokethehabit
      @brokethehabit  6 месяцев назад

      And what manner is that...?

    • @MadclintMusic
      @MadclintMusic 29 дней назад

      Asian media hire the hottest white people lol they actually portray them in a good light lol

  • @jonebricksstudio7827
    @jonebricksstudio7827 Год назад +2

    As a Malaysian, I am a lonely person and live with my mother. No girl like me because they love more handsome and sexy guy not like me, I have a girl once but now she with her handsome boyfriend. The true hurt me when I found out, now I hate to see many girl love and date the handsome, and sexy guy it may me angry so much when I see. Now my heart is broken I don't know why girl love powerful man... so much

  • @Iamthejuancuh
    @Iamthejuancuh Год назад +3

    Asian men are not ugly. I actually like how a lot of you people are fit. My girlfriend got me into that lifestyle.

  • @tyronewalker5764
    @tyronewalker5764 Год назад +2

    Chad wins by default, seems like!

  • @theinternational397
    @theinternational397 Год назад +3

    If asian males can’t get a date they always have the option of having their parents find them a wife back in the old country then have that wife shipped in.

    • @swoomh
      @swoomh Год назад +6

      Nonsense

    • @theinternational397
      @theinternational397 Год назад +1

      @calendarphotoscamera1 Canuck If Asian men want a wife they’ll have to go down that route eventually.

    • @CoolNumber1
      @CoolNumber1 Год назад

      NOt enough girls in Asia stupid. Gender imbalance

    • @CoolNumber1
      @CoolNumber1 Год назад

      @calendarphotoscamera1 Canuck That asian mother fault too, they prefer male child. But people only blame the asian guys, classic unfair.

    • @theinternational397
      @theinternational397 Год назад +1

      @calendarphotoscamera1 Canuck It is already happening but it’s not like Asian men really have a choice.

  • @biggerbitcoin5126
    @biggerbitcoin5126 9 месяцев назад

    Also part of the problem is most Chinese can't drink

  • @iart2838
    @iart2838 5 месяцев назад +3

    Because they are short and small

    • @JoannaZhang-e6n
      @JoannaZhang-e6n 4 месяца назад +2

      There are a lot of Asian men who are tall and have a nice body (example in China I have seen a lot) There are a lot of handsome Asian guys, western media don't want to show them.

    • @LuckBrown-re7yg
      @LuckBrown-re7yg 3 месяца назад +1

      ​@@JoannaZhang-e6nthe face is just nope

    • @pla_theatre_command
      @pla_theatre_command 3 месяца назад +1

      Stop projecting your insecurities to other people.

  • @stephentran3030
    @stephentran3030 2 месяца назад

    speaking of...new season of the bachelorette 2024 ....Vietnamese American girl is the Bachelorette.......and her choices given to her ........only one Asian dude...... wtf .. I'm rooting for the asian dude lol

  • @yellowjoe.2000
    @yellowjoe.2000 Год назад

    Good video young brotha. Agree with vast majority of what you are saying. Anglo-sphere Asians need to red pill up a bit about how women feel about Asian dudes, accept it and move accordingly. Focus on yourself 1st and foremost and women are 2nd priority.

  • @saintz2k7
    @saintz2k7 3 месяца назад

    Asian men don't struggle, they did 5+ years ago, now they thriving, no more excuses. If you were Indian, fair enough.

  • @tomsd8656
    @tomsd8656 Месяц назад

    I am Asian guy here. You've got it all wrong. Being Asian has nothing to do with it. Being interesting, charming, fearless has everything to do with it. Hollywood can have a million movies portraying Asian males as clowns, nerds, what have you, but when you are face to face with someone, she will not think of Hollywood when the one in front of her is a great movie himself. And ultimately, an interesting, good looking Asian guy is gonna beat an average white or black dude any day.
    I don't know why I keep seeing posts like this from you Asian guys.

  • @joesmith201212
    @joesmith201212 3 месяца назад

    Haha the guy missed the whole chapter of early Hollywood cinema and who was actually considered the very first heart throb and it was a Japanese actor, Sessue Hayakawa. There are stories of women passing out during his movies

  • @Kinai89
    @Kinai89 3 месяца назад

    Yes, you are right.

  • @richardk111
    @richardk111 Год назад

    The chart showing racial preferences on dating app clearly indicates that black guys are getting least amount of responses except from black women. How can you look at that and say Asian guys are getting least responses. It’s 2023. I don’t think this is an issue in our community.

  • @pnoypassion
    @pnoypassion 2 месяца назад

    I'm Asian and never knew Asian men "struggle" with dating. I never had a problem, you like someone you go after it, work your game and 9 out of 10x it's on. I'm Filipino btw. I just thought if you're not attractive in some sort of way whether its your appearance or confidence anyone would struggle regardless what race they are.

  • @tklmmft
    @tklmmft Год назад

    As an Asian guy I don’t like black and Latina trophy wives. It’s not to my liking

  • @what3899
    @what3899 Год назад +2

    I think those dating stats you showed is misleading as Asian is such a broad category and that would include grouping both Indian & East Asian men together. Which affects the statistics since south Asian men are a lot more undesired than East Asian men overall. Although, you do still have to be an attractive EA guy in order to have more female attention. If you’re average or below average which is a lot of asian guys, then it will still be a struggle

    • @theinternational397
      @theinternational397 Год назад

      South Asian men do far better with White women than East Asian men have.

    • @what3899
      @what3899 Год назад

      @@theinternational397 not even close, south asian men are even lower than black dudes

    • @theinternational397
      @theinternational397 Год назад

      @@what3899 Not from what I’ve seen. Brown dudes do much much better than yellow Asians.

    • @what3899
      @what3899 Год назад

      @@theinternational397 you must live under a rock cuz far more women would prefer attractive korean and japenese men over some Indian dudes

    • @theinternational397
      @theinternational397 Год назад

      @@what3899 Go anywhere where there are lots of Indians (Silicon Valley, Austin, etc) you will see at least 5 IMWF couples for every AMWF couple. They will mostly be younger couples but the disparity is obvious. Remember that Indians are basically caucasians with a tan while East Asians have physical features that women generally consider unattractive.

  • @dallastexas6341
    @dallastexas6341 Год назад +12

    I don’t believe it’s media to blame; it’s evolution. Men like feminine- Asian Women, women like masculine- White and Black

    • @ayusuatika3688
      @ayusuatika3688 Год назад

      I'll thinks as Azn Wmn perspective, Safety iz must Number one..
      I can't think people can easily date with Out*side rcez , like Bacx to 2020 who is culp*rit? Yes Wht and Blax..
      So wht point I'm datin* , when tht both rcez none like Azn At all ( Pointless))

    • @yankeedoodle2801
      @yankeedoodle2801 Год назад

      So asians are less evolved. Lol.

    • @Polytrout
      @Polytrout Год назад

      White men who like Asian women are connecting with their inner pedophile. I have otherwise known no man who picks a woman for being submissive over a woman with a hot body.
      Do Asian men have it difficult on the dating scene? Absolutely. Ironically it has been easier (make that "less difficult ")for me to date White women. Asian women want a White man or the same kind of Asian man as themselves. A White woman might give an Asian man a chance. At the age of 60 either 3 kids ans divorced I have yet to be in a relationship with an Asian woman.

    • @Flyhighman77
      @Flyhighman77 Год назад

      So, Asian are more masculine than black ,white or any other races on this earth, what is the point?

    • @Polytrout
      @Polytrout Год назад +1

      @Globe Earthers Here in North America, historically, ghe Asian immigrants came from more southerly regions of China and from Japan ("historically" meaning from the 1880s to sometime into the 1990s or 2000s. Most of these immigrants came to North America because they were under privileged in their homelands. Northern Japanese and Northern Chinese are as big as people in the state of Wisconsin. Korea, a northerly country has bigger people (ok, not the ones under Kim Jong Il rule) as are Mongolians. The North American experience with Asians was affected by the sample space. Not all Asian men from this sample space are effeminate (which in this case is a relative term) a d that is why you see the occasional Asian man with a Caucasian woman.
      Ghengis Khan was a Mongol - of the Asians whose men are as big and as masculine as any man in Wisconsin or Minnesota.

  • @echohunter4199
    @echohunter4199 Год назад +6

    Lol. As a white American man, I’m not the one with an average “banana” length of 3.9 inches as well as Asians being around 5 feet tall. Think about it men, how often do you see an Asian man with a white or black girlfriend? Chicks know the averages. There’s a big difference between stereotypes and statistical norms.

    • @SuperAnthonysantos
      @SuperAnthonysantos Год назад +13

      Please go outside & Mingle, this comment Is worry-some

    • @tanthaman
      @tanthaman Год назад

      @@SuperAnthonysantos Asian simp

    • @louielove7514
      @louielove7514 Год назад

      On top of that there not as attractive as western men like latinos,whites, blacks etc.....

    • @PurpleDoritos666
      @PurpleDoritos666 Год назад

      Asians compromise approx. 7.3% of the American population. I doubt most of y’all have seen an Asian person lol

    • @drtomato
      @drtomato Год назад +1

      White guys are always imagining other races’ dick sizes. Black, Asian dick lives in their head rent-free. To the point that they feel the need to talk online about the dick sizes they’ve been imagining.
      Very heterosexual behavior. Very.

  • @yankeedoodle2801
    @yankeedoodle2801 Год назад +12

    People are still making this kind of videos? This is really getting old. Women are not into Asian men. Period. Nothing you do or say will make them change their mind. Stay single and be happy.

    • @bela-sofia34
      @bela-sofia34 Год назад +13

      I would love to date an Asian man again.

    • @theinternational397
      @theinternational397 Год назад +2

      Asian men want to date out of their race and would already be doing so if they actually could. Asian men don’t date out of their race because most of them are unable to.

    • @bela-sofia34
      @bela-sofia34 Год назад +6

      @Mr Spooky Asian faces and men specifically are being represented in ways like never before. Keep the faith! I think you'll become more sought after, just do what makes you happy and enjoy life, work on yourself and your goals and it will likely happen for you.

    • @mitch20003
      @mitch20003 Год назад

      most women* ive seen some asian guys with pretty women

    • @iwhippedcreamcode4642
      @iwhippedcreamcode4642 Год назад +1

      @Mr Spooky BUILD YOUR LIFE....AND OPEN YOUR HEART!... TO QUALITY!... That WILLCHANGE EVERYTHING FOR YOU!...

  • @baddie21358
    @baddie21358 Год назад +1

    @W H A T
    Those statistics are definitely east asian men, not Indian men added unless they're talking about recent Indian men with accents who work in IT
    A thing I've noticed is that Indian men who are westernized have no issues with women whereas even westernized asian men have issues.
    Look at Hollywood
    Asian American male actors are all dating Asian women from back in Asia not even Asian American women.
    Indian American male actors are dating white actresses or black actresses.
    Sung Kang, Danial Kim, John Choe, godfrey gao, James Huang, Henry Golding are all well known asian American male actors and they're all dating Asian women from Asia
    Dev Patel with Tilda Cobham Hervey, Naveen Andrews with Barbara Hershey and also Geraldine Feakins, Sendhil Ramamurthy with Olga Sosnovska, Freddie Mercury with Mary Austin, Avan Jogia with Zoey Deutch and Cleopatra Coleman, Karan Brar with Sophie Reynolds, Raza Jaffrey with Miranda Riason and Lara Pulver, Jimi Mistry with Meg Leonard and Flavia Cacace.

    • @drtomato
      @drtomato Год назад

      You can cherry-pick till the cows come home. What say you about Will Yun Lee, Justin Chon, Jimmy O Yang, James Kyson, the late Bruce Lee, Anna Chlumsky’s husband, etc. etc.? Nothing. All are either dating or married to White or non-Asian women.

    • @baddie21358
      @baddie21358 Год назад

      @@drtomato well Bruce Lee isn't here anymore and these 2 or 3 are outliner The vast majority of the top 20 Asian American men are all with Asian women from Asia. Steven Yuen, Ken Jeong, you name it

    • @npcsenpai1185
      @npcsenpai1185 Год назад

      @@drtomato Because women in Asia are better. If I was American and wanted an Asian woman, I'd prefer to find one in Asia.

    • @LuckBrown-re7yg
      @LuckBrown-re7yg 3 месяца назад

      ​@@npcsenpai1185 nope they are ugly af. Latinas and white are better looking if they are fit and young not talking about the whales.

  • @louielove7514
    @louielove7514 Год назад +3

    I'm Mexican American and cannot tell you how much stares I get from Asian and black and white woman when I'm out commuting like looking at me with desire litteraly.... I think some men are just naturally attractive. I really don't gotta try hard. But I can definitely see why woman don't go for asian men hahaha....

    • @martinrutley-wk5ds
      @martinrutley-wk5ds Год назад +4

      I find this very hard to believe, especially from white women.

    • @louielove7514
      @louielove7514 Год назад +4

      @@martinrutley-wk5ds hard to believe lol? Especially white woman... Bro some dudes are just blessed with good looks and charm not my fault you don't get the same experience...

    • @louielove7514
      @louielove7514 Год назад +1

      @@martinrutley-wk5ds have you ever had good looking females ask you for your number randomly? Or send there freinds to ask they said whatsup?

    • @Marcus-gw4bb
      @Marcus-gw4bb Год назад +1

      "I can definitely see why woman don't go for asian men hahaha...." What's so funny about that?

    • @muaythaibachatero393
      @muaythaibachatero393 Год назад

      @@louielove7514 can’t say for him but for me as a Filipino in LA who’s into bachata, yeah. Met a lot shortys through that. Current girl is Latina.