strawberriesncandii my limit is 500$ because frankly its one day its not worth any more than that lol my limit for the whole wedding is 5000 to 6000 cant imagine spending that on just a dress
nah I'm getting married and having a party for £800 next year because only my closest friends and family will be there and i don't see the point of getting dressed up, I'm not even getting a dress, i cant afford a car I'm certainly not spending more than £50 on a dress. but we have been together 10 years and have a 5yr old and we never were bothered about marriage other than for legal reasons anyway so whatever floats your boat
160 pounds is not an amount to stress over.... then are you willing to pay it for her? They should have warned her about the price tag BEFORE they put her in it, very unprofessional of them.
I agree... If you want to show it, warn her before she's wearing it.... Then she had a choice before she could fell in love with it.... If 160 pounds is nothing for the shop, they had to pay it for her...
Totally agree I use to be a dress consultant and I never even showed a bride a dress over their budget 160 might not be a stretch for someone but it could make a dress totally unaffordable to another
Exactly! Even the consultants at ‘say yes to the dress US’ would go to the person in charge and ask if they can bring down the price at all, if a dress that the bride loves is over budget. But this shop is just unprofessional and not accomodating at all
I like how at Kleinfeld's they warn you beforehand if a dress is over budget. I feel like it's super shady that this shop doesn't tell the girl's that they're showing them a dream dress that's over her budget...
"$148 pounds isn't worth this much stress." You're right, David. So since you brought her a dress over budget, you should discount it that $148 pounds.
This has happened in EVERY SINGLE EPISODE OF THE UK. They ALWAYS offer the dress they know the client will love as the last dress and then drop the bomb that it's over budget. It's so shady and so scammy. DON'T WATCH UK WATCH THE OTHER ONE with Randy where they actually respect people's budget.
Sisilia S that's so true u always c on this show the give the bride a dress that is over her budget tho they know that they wanted a dress less cheaper n they also makes them fall in love with it that the end up taking it and going over their budget that's not right oh no!!!!!
As a former bridal consultant, I can actually tell you it’s not like that in the real world! They do it on tv for the drama, but I can guarantee 90% of real life salons would not show you anything over budget without asking permission from the bride first.
I feel like that's what she did because she didn't seem to me like the type who would compromise on the budget and she was an Accountant as Well so she knows the tricks
Are you thick? Tessa is pointing out that for some people that amount of money *is* a lot. When you grow up without, you have a much different perspective on budgeting and finances.
yes, but some people want the luxury but don't have the money to fork out the price of a small car for a dress they'll only wear once. Honestly, telling someone "don't worry about the money" is such a stupid thing. Ofc you'd say that if it wasn't your money you were spending, but the bride has to pay every cent of that money.
Evelina Russo not when it comes to financial situations.. she’s an accountant, I’d be worried as her future husband if she had no control when it comes to money
CalLadyQED She went over-budget in the end, but not before mulling it over for like half the vid. If the dress cost just a tiny bit more, she almost certainly would’ve refused.
"It's only £148"? oh is that so? Well since it's nothing you can pay the 148 and give her the dress for 1500 like she very well specified was her budget!
She got that but what she meant was the host said its only 148? (as in the difference) If its such a small amount to go over for him he should pay the difference is what Phayvee meant :)
It’s a small amount compared to the overall budget, it can easily be adjusted...cut on flowers for example or on any extra stuff you care less about. A good accountant does not just respect limits, finds ways to achieve goals by changing allotments within the overall limit
Omg her body she is amazing!!! How rude was it to give her a dress over her budget right after she just mentioned how strict she was with it, how annoying and typical for commission
Omg her gloomy reaction when her dream dress didn't make her feel butterflies in her stomach is so sad 🙁 But at least she found a dress,she looked really pretty in it 💟
She looked gorgeous in the dress, but my heart broke that she was pretty much peer-pressured into getting it. It wasn't her "dream dress", it took her awhile to talk herself into liking it, and then everyone started telling her she should get it. I hope she doesn't regret her decision...I think she should have kept looking at other options. There are millions of form-fitting dresses since it's so popular these days, I'm confident she could find one in her budget that she'd love.
Karma I don't think she acted like her wedding was ruined. She seemed more conflicted. She wants a good dress but doesn't want to go overboard because if she does that means other items in the wedding will have to be cut or even sacrificed. She was being realistic but at the same time she didn't want to say no and later regret it. If that makes sense.
Aamina L that would have been very nice but they probably also have their own dresses to pay for which if you go by the average of around that amount. They look young and probably can't afford it.
They may all have to buy their own dress, shoes, bags etc for this wedding. And I remember when my cousins got married. It was like a domino affect tbh. As soon as one of them got married it seemed like everyone and their mom was getting married also (since they're all around the same age and age marker in life) so you never know. They may have to save for their own weddings, their own house. their new born, etc
In reality it's very difficult to just come up with money, and it's the bride's responsibility to buy her dress since the bridesmaids have to pay for their own. It's rude to ask others to pitch in, and the friends probably couldnt have afforded it anyway.
Bride: The MAXIMUM is £1500, I gave myself an extra £300 to play with just in case but really I'm shooting for £1200 or less. Dress Shop: ok so you want to pay a minimum of £1500 not a penny under got it.
Brain Creepers That is a lie, US version has done it plenty and gone over by a thousand or more. And that doesn't even include the price of all their accessories.
Amrelle M can you link it? I've watched plenty and havent seen one unless a family member or the bride demands one thats over. this one i see them pull expensive ones without anyone prompting them too.
Amrelle M and to add to that I'm not the only one who's noticed this. without any permission asked or prompting they'll pull a dress over budget. the US one asks first if a consultant believes a brides dress needs some wiggle room. UK one doesn't and then tells them the price after the bride falls in love with the gown. it's rude.
Jade Beau seriously?? the bride in this one seemed seriously adamant on not going over her budget....the fact that they didn't respect that is painful. weddings are expensive already these people seem like they're trying to make a sell when they should be trying to help a bride find her perfect gown:/ what a bummer.
This is so unprofessional to put a bride into a dress that is over budget. And no, it's not just 150 it's just too much. I bought my dress this year and they asked for my budget INCLUDING alterations.
I must admit I thought that as well. I think this is play acting for the camera. When I went to get my wedding dress, I didn’t ask the price at all! I wasn’t rich, I was in the army. I got to the counter to pay for it........then I went into shock, my dress was in the sale then I got my sisters third of the price off, my dress ended up less than my veil did lol the bridesmaid dresses were more than mine!!
Really messed up how they gave her a dress that they knew she would love that is over her budget. I honestly think the salon should have knocked off the extra 150 it was their fault for going over the budget and 150 for a salon isn't that much
I compleatly agree, it is a horrible customer service to do such a thing. I dont care that he have dessigned for pompse freaking pecocks, it is a HORRIBLE thing to do, specially in such a exposed situation as on a tv-show.
This is what makes me upset. How dare they put her in a position like that. I hate when they give brides dresses that are hundreds over their budget. Even if it’s just 148$... that can really hurt someone
This show should've catered to her budget and only should've shown her dresses up to her price limit. This show ALWAYS does this, i actually do not understand lol how can the guy can say its only £148 more when he could see how upset she was ffs.
I know, and then he says something about how she shouldn't stress out over 150 pounds...then why do YOU care about the 150? You apparently sell dresses way more that 1500 pounds all the time! blah
MissmonalisaD it's required by the show to go over budget unfortunately. Going on this show you know beforehand that your budget doesn't matter anymore once they start filming.
I seriously would never go to this boutique, they always show dresses over budget instead of trying to find something in the budget!! It's awful. They have zero respect for the actual bride's situation. The other SYTTD shows do not do this.
I really don't like all the stress and pressure they've put on her. What if she really couldn't afford to go overbudget. Weddings are expensive enough with catering, venue, decoration and transportation costs, without factoring in the bride & groom's personal expenditure.
I think that.. if you look at a dress in a model, is easy to get a false expectation of how is it going to fit you. Even through you're skinny or fat, it will not fit you as it fits a model because everyone has a different body, right? (I'm not saying that shes fat or skinny or something else)
What a crappy thing for the store to do. If anyone did that to me I'd have just walked out on principle. Find a store that actually *listens* to their customers instead of pulling shady stuff just to create drama. Now I remember why I stopped watching these shows.
I'm an accountant and if I liked a dress that blew my budget I would have recalculated all my wedding costs to include it before I left the fitting room.
I would not accept not being allowed to browse and choose my own dresses to try on... this system of the consultant " doing the shopping" then coming in with 1 or 2 and saying " what do you think about this one"? Eeeeeeeee... no thanks.. l will choose my dress.
The bridal consultant fucked up big time by showing her a dress over the budget... shouldn't they have only given he dresses within her range? they did this on purpose for her to spend more... they should've given her a discount!! she said 1,500 stick to the budget!
OhheyitsSoumy I can't believe they wouldn't have just knocked the price down when it was very little compared to how much the dress total actually was, and they gave it to her knowing it was over her budget and put her under that stress.
Yeah exactly and they were acting like she was being prudent for a 140 something. Well they wouldn't discount it for 140 something so why the f should she be treated like she's cheap ??? fucks me off
OhheyitsSoumy it's required in the contract the brides sign that in order to be on the show they have to buy a dress over their budget. They're not surprised at all when it happens but act surprised for added "drama." Multiple brides who were on the show or were almost on the show admitted that it was a major requirement from the producers. You go on this show you don't have a choice and your budget doesn't matter anymore.
Tahmina Aktar Nope, they just get the fact that they were on the show. They even have to pay their own travel and hotel fees if the shop the show is filmed at is far away.
aaaannnnnddddd what have we learned from watching this??? Never, ever , shop here if you have a budget because they will never show you pretty dresses in your range ... many stores have a rule that you never show a customer a dress over budget cause is leads to lots of unhappy people and you get a very bad name... if you wanna go over shop there, if you never want to go over, stay away !!!
How do you know they purchase them bags themselves? What if they bought it a thrift shop? Or had the bag for many years? Don’t assume what’s in someone’s wallet. The poorest people be the best dressed.
They always go over budget and then use the "But for the dress of your dreams.." trope. It's so unprofessional and disrespectful. Glad this bride didn't fall for it right away.
All the women on these shows try on a couple of dresses and then immediately make a decision! Bitch, when, or a big if I should say, I ever have to get a wedding dress I'll be trying dozens of dresses! I don't get how anyone can try on two dresses and be like "Yep, this is the one!" The second dress did look gorgeous on her though.
Cocoa Girl. I only tried on 1 dress when I got married and I knew immediately that absolutely nothing could beat it. I had no desire to bother to try others. Just the reaction from literally every other person in the store alone confirmed how I already felt. The other clients came to a halt and a huge gasp went up in the store. Why waste the salespeople's time when they could be waiting on others instead of wasting more time with me?
I was literally just sitting here fantasizing about walking into Kleinfeld's and trying on a dozen dresses before I got down to actually getting my dress... Pink dresses, sparkly dresses, ball gowns and mermaids, I WANT TO TRY THEM ALL! 😂😂😂
Am I the only one that was uncomfortable with how much the salon worker (the lady with black hair) is touching the bride? I hate when people touch/hold me like that!
Erm.. it's not about being gross or diseases. It is clear she is not touching her to check the fit, she just keeps her hands on her ( 3:03, 4:05, 4:14), not even on her dress but her arms and shoulders. I am not disgusted by people touching me for no reason. I just absolutely hate it :D
Hello: I work in the emergency department, I'm not scared of germs. I just hate hate hate the feeling of people touching me. It makes me viscerally uncomfortable and like I need to run away. I'm also a rape survivor, if that gives any context to my discomfort.
I'm trying to figure out why they wouldn't just offer her a 10% discount (150 so it'd be exactly in her budget). It's a negligible amount for the business to 'lose' and it eliminates a drama and makes for a happy customer
I agree that it's really irritating when you're not told something you're looking at is over budget. I wish they would have shown her more dresses in her price range so she could have had more of an opportunity to make her decision. That being said, she is an accountant and they make good money and she's obviously very good with it or they wouldn't be having their wedding at such a stately home. £148 is not that much and you can take money from flowers and decorations to make up being over budget to have the dress you really want.
a hate the fact that they always do that! he's happy because she's spending more not because she's found her dress 😒 granted it's gorgeous on her but come on man! stick to the budget!
the bride can find another dress. It's not the only one in the world, it's just the second shown to her. Why would they spend their money on her wedding? I mean if there wasn't any other option, then it would be a good gift, but it clearly wasn't the case.
IrinNovy find another dress really??? U clearly never bought a wedding dress cause when u found " THE DRESS" you don't want any other one and it's just 45pounds extra per person, and it's a bit rude to say why they will spend money on her wedding I thought they are her good friends for the good and bad moments not just a word...
I hate how belittled the bride was treated when she didn't want to go over her budget. They really pushed her into believing that she'd have less of a wedding without an expensive dress.
I googled the price, it was about 198 dollars, if that would have been my friend I would have gave her the rest of the money. It's for her wedding and she shouldn't have to have second thoughts
It’s really difficult to choose a wedding dress. The second dress she fit, looks gorgeous and stunning on her. She had the right decision of saying YES to her dream wedding dress and her friends felt great about her decision.
They seem to be close, lovely friends. I'm sure they would have split the remaining difference but, in my humble opinion, she does not really "need" the money. You don't sacrifice a dream over 140 pounds. It's more about her being in her head, her principles and her methodical, meticulous "Virgo" attitude. I'm quoting her friends. She's a control freak
I'm sorry but the Say Yes To The Dress UK consultants are very cunning and unprofessional when it comes to picking brides' dresses. They often disregard the bride's budget and go ahead picking overbudget options then encouraging them to 'let go' and go overboard.
Bringing her a dress over budget on purpose is bad form inho. The US version does the same thing, and it offends me every single time it happens. Where did basic listening skills go?
She looked absolutely beautiful in that dress. Yes sticking to a budget is very smart, and honestly there wasn't a wrong choice, but I think this is one of those few times in life where emotions weigh in as much as practicality. I'm glad she chose this dress, it really made her shine :)
Just bc someone says there's a budget Most people jump past that to get what they really want That's a sales tactic wherever you go They are in the business of making money The sales people work on commission
I thought her three friends would pitch in 50 each. So surprised they didn't. I'm so glad she said yes. She's clever and will find ways to cut back a bit else where.
As a wedding planner/bridal consultant for any bridal boutique no matter where it is to show a gown to a bride that is over budget blows my mind and it is seriously irritating that bridal boutiques do this. They know the budget when it's given and that means do not go over budget. Going over budget is seriously frowned upon. Ladies you want a great dress and have a budget let the boutique know that the budget is strict and make sure they know to not go over. I'm available to plan your wedding!
Typical sales person. I ALWAYS ask the price first. This kind of thing is rampant. Doesn’t matter if it’s a wedding dress a car a house. All they care about is their commission. To hell with your budget
Damn if I was one of her friends I would have paid for the bit that went over budget because seeing my friend so happy in the dress of their dreams is worth more than that
This is one thing I don’t like about the UK version of this show. They seem to never respect the budget and act as though it’s impossible to find what they bride is looking for in her price range. No matter what that number is.
I hate how they build up the brides confidence all the time, and then just ruin it all by saying it’s over the price range. Just tell her the price BEFORE she puts it on, I honestly just think that this is pathetic and selfish of them to do this just for money.🙄🤦♀️
A lot of brides go into debt to buy dresses cost $5,000. She has the financial discipline to understand budgeting and she wants to remain sensible.
strawberriesncandii my limit is 500$ because frankly its one day its not worth any more than that lol my limit for the whole wedding is 5000 to 6000 cant imagine spending that on just a dress
Nug tg I can't even imagine spending 5 grand on a wedding tbh.. it's so much money 🙈
A somewhat decent wedding would cost more than £5000
nah I'm getting married and having a party for £800 next year because only my closest friends and family will be there and i don't see the point of getting dressed up, I'm not even getting a dress, i cant afford a car I'm certainly not spending more than £50 on a dress. but we have been together 10 years and have a 5yr old and we never were bothered about marriage other than for legal reasons anyway so whatever floats your boat
jasminejo2424 Isn't a five-year-old more expansive than a wedding dress?
160 pounds is not an amount to stress over.... then are you willing to pay it for her? They should have warned her about the price tag BEFORE they put her in it, very unprofessional of them.
Kidlike101 couldn’t have said it better
I agree... If you want to show it, warn her before she's wearing it.... Then she had a choice before she could fell in love with it.... If 160 pounds is nothing for the shop, they had to pay it for her...
They always do that. Very unprofessional 😪
Totally agree I use to be a dress consultant and I never even showed a bride a dress over their budget 160 might not be a stretch for someone but it could make a dress totally unaffordable to another
Exactly! Even the consultants at ‘say yes to the dress US’ would go to the person in charge and ask if they can bring down the price at all, if a dress that the bride loves is over budget. But this shop is just unprofessional and not accomodating at all
I like how at Kleinfeld's they warn you beforehand if a dress is over budget. I feel like it's super shady that this shop doesn't tell the girl's that they're showing them a dream dress that's over her budget...
this also seems to be a recurring theme with this shop, and it really bugs me. It's incredibly unprofessional and super sleazy.
It's slimy. They make the bride's love it before telling the price. It's emotional blackmail.
Unless you are consultant Dianne in Kleinfeld... she is ALWAYS going over budget in hoping that she gets a better sale out of it...
Business as usual! Business can be a shady business!
@@Roosdi which one is Dianne?
"$148 pounds isn't worth this much stress." You're right, David. So since you brought her a dress over budget, you should discount it that $148 pounds.
100%
The consultants are very inconsiderate
Exactly-- why is he saying that she needs to let it go when he could just as easily be the one to let it go?
Agreed
why give her a dress over budget without even asking her is she minded. its called a budget for a reason
Joslyn Marques especially since she's an accountant and more likely to take budget considerations into account!!
They want cash 💸
Joslyn Marques aaaa
This has happened in EVERY SINGLE EPISODE OF THE UK. They ALWAYS offer the dress they know the client will love as the last dress and then drop the bomb that it's over budget. It's so shady and so scammy. DON'T WATCH UK WATCH THE OTHER ONE with Randy where they actually respect people's budget.
Wolfcchi I agree. I prefer the US version. It's a 1000 times better. ☺️
that is why you always say a lower budget than the actual one. Consultants alwaya try to get each and every penny out of your pocket.
Sisilia S that's so true u always c on this show the give the bride a dress that is over her budget tho they know that they wanted a dress less cheaper n they also makes them fall in love with it that the end up taking it and going over their budget that's not right oh no!!!!!
As a former bridal consultant, I can actually tell you it’s not like that in the real world! They do it on tv for the drama, but I can guarantee 90% of real life salons would not show you anything over budget without asking permission from the bride first.
Knowing how the show is, you say £1000.00 and then add 20%. Your true budget is £1200.00, you just tell £1000.00
I feel like that's what she did because she didn't seem to me like the type who would compromise on the budget and she was an Accountant as Well so she knows the tricks
It's strange because I have seen others with higher budgets, and they get them £1200 dresses. Why would they do that to her?
They always go over budget. There's a reason why they have a budget, just stick to it!!
Buuuuut, if you're gonna splurge on one item only, the dress is probably the thing.
that's why when I went shopping for my own dress i told the shop assistant a fake budget that was 200€ lower. LOL
They probably do it To create some drama
@@motherspiders3913 or the vendors do it to sell...
"dont worry about the money" uh okay obviously you didn't grow up poor
Tessa Gray Like thats a bad thing?
Tessa Gray I'm sorry to ask, but is this a reference to the Infernal Devices by Cassandra Clare???
Are you thick? Tessa is pointing out that for some people that amount of money *is* a lot. When you grow up without, you have a much different perspective on budgeting and finances.
But it is kind of a 'luxury' bridal shop. There are weddings dresses for a lot less money, just not in a store like this
yes, but some people want the luxury but don't have the money to fork out the price of a small car for a dress they'll only wear once. Honestly, telling someone "don't worry about the money" is such a stupid thing. Ofc you'd say that if it wasn't your money you were spending, but the bride has to pay every cent of that money.
I admire how she sticks with the budget!! Such discipline and a marriage ready quality!!
Flexibility is much more helpful to a marriage than discipline
Evelina Russo not when it comes to financial situations.. she’s an accountant, I’d be worried as her future husband if she had no control when it comes to money
She doesn't stick to the budget, though. Or were you being sarcastic?
CalLadyQED She went over-budget in the end, but not before mulling it over for like half the vid. If the dress cost just a tiny bit more, she almost certainly would’ve refused.
but she didn't she went over budget
I think it's just wrong to put her in a dress she may not be able to afford.
Blue Whale Is she incapable of refusing?
alize0623 it’s more that she gave them a number and it’s their job to show her dresses Under that number
I'm damn sure she's accumulated her savings and just likes to be frugral. For something that you hope is a once-in-a-lifetime damn spoil yourself.
@May and you are the type of person to go into £40k debt for 1 day... 🤦♂️
"It's only £148"? oh is that so? Well since it's nothing you can pay the 148 and give her the dress for 1500 like she very well specified was her budget!
Phayvee- Right right!
I think he ment it'd be an extra 148
She got that but what she meant was the host said its only 148? (as in the difference) If its such a small amount to go over for him he should pay the difference is what Phayvee meant :)
Phayvee- Right I thought the same exact thing!
It’s a small amount compared to the overall budget, it can easily be adjusted...cut on flowers for example or on any extra stuff you care less about. A good accountant does not just respect limits, finds ways to achieve goals by changing allotments within the overall limit
Omg her body she is amazing!!!
How rude was it to give her a dress over her budget right after she just mentioned how strict she was with it, how annoying and typical for commission
Omg her gloomy reaction when her dream dress didn't make her feel butterflies in her stomach is so sad 🙁 But at least she found a dress,she looked really pretty in it 💟
Access Denied she looked likr a model in tht silhouette.
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She looked gorgeous in the dress, but my heart broke that she was pretty much peer-pressured into getting it. It wasn't her "dream dress", it took her awhile to talk herself into liking it, and then everyone started telling her she should get it. I hope she doesn't regret her decision...I think she should have kept looking at other options. There are millions of form-fitting dresses since it's so popular these days, I'm confident she could find one in her budget that she'd love.
Karma I don't think she acted like her wedding was ruined. She seemed more conflicted. She wants a good dress but doesn't want to go overboard because if she does that means other items in the wedding will have to be cut or even sacrificed. She was being realistic but at the same time she didn't want to say no and later regret it. If that makes sense.
Thalia Del Toro couldn't have said it better
the three friends should have split the £148 amongst themselves and given it to her tbh...
Aamina L that would have been very nice but they probably also have their own dresses to pay for which if you go by the average of around that amount. They look young and probably can't afford it.
They may all have to buy their own dress, shoes, bags etc for this wedding. And I remember when my cousins got married. It was like a domino affect tbh. As soon as one of them got married it seemed like everyone and their mom was getting married also (since they're all around the same age and age marker in life) so you never know. They may have to save for their own weddings, their own house. their new born, etc
Aamina L yeah would be a wedding gift and a friend helping out combined in one
In reality it's very difficult to just come up with money, and it's the bride's responsibility to buy her dress since the bridesmaids have to pay for their own. It's rude to ask others to pitch in, and the friends probably couldnt have afforded it anyway.
Agnes Amarfio in the UK the bride often pays for the bridesmaid's dresses
£148 is alot if you dont have it honey
Good point.
MissGemma 3 how much is it in dollars?
I think its around 170 American dollars.
250 aud
+Blaise Avey 170$ for a dress is not that much more once your already paying so much it's worth it.
Bride: The MAXIMUM is £1500, I gave myself an extra £300 to play with just in case but really I'm shooting for £1200 or less.
Dress Shop: ok so you want to pay a minimum of £1500 not a penny under got it.
it makes me so annoyed that the UK version of this show always pulls a dress thats over the budget. US doesnt do that.
Brain Creepers That is a lie, US version has done it plenty and gone over by a thousand or more. And that doesn't even include the price of all their accessories.
Amrelle M can you link it? I've watched plenty and havent seen one unless a family member or the bride demands one thats over. this one i see them pull expensive ones without anyone prompting them too.
Amrelle M and to add to that I'm not the only one who's noticed this. without any permission asked or prompting they'll pull a dress over budget. the US one asks first if a consultant believes a brides dress needs some wiggle room. UK one doesn't and then tells them the price after the bride falls in love with the gown. it's rude.
It's what you get told in uk retail I'm afraid.
Jade Beau seriously?? the bride in this one seemed seriously adamant on not going over her budget....the fact that they didn't respect that is painful. weddings are expensive already these people seem like they're trying to make a sell when they should be trying to help a bride find her perfect gown:/ what a bummer.
This is so unprofessional to put a bride into a dress that is over budget. And no, it's not just 150 it's just too much.
I bought my dress this year and they asked for my budget INCLUDING alterations.
I'm sorry but one of the bridesmaids has a Chanel bag and the other has a Louis Vuitton. I'm sure they could spot her the extra $150.
That’s not their job, and no good friend would expect that if anyone.
One of the bridesmaids commented and said they did offer, but they cut it out of the show.
Yup
Any good friend would offer to help. I would have.
OMG! IS THAT SUGA?
To be fair when he asked her budget she said 'around 1500'. That to me would indicate there's a bit of room for negotiation
I must admit I thought that as well. I think this is play acting for the camera. When I went to get my wedding dress, I didn’t ask the price at all! I wasn’t rich, I was in the army. I got to the counter to pay for it........then I went into shock, my dress was in the sale then I got my sisters third of the price off, my dress ended up less than my veil did lol the bridesmaid dresses were more than mine!!
She did specifically say she’s strict with the budget and doesn’t want to go over though.
Uzma M Then she shouldn’t have told him ‘around’ she should have said not over rather than around
That's exactly what I thought too!
Really messed up how they gave her a dress that they knew she would love that is over her budget. I honestly think the salon should have knocked off the extra 150 it was their fault for going over the budget and 150 for a salon isn't that much
Yehi umhir hai korlei galti se misteck
True!
I compleatly agree, it is a horrible customer service to do such a thing. I dont care that he have dessigned for pompse freaking pecocks, it is a HORRIBLE thing to do, specially in such a exposed situation as on a tv-show.
It's called running a business??
@@starlitebell915 So disrespecting customers is how you run a business?
They should’ve given her a discount!!!!
IKR and her friends could have helped pitch in. They all have designer bags too!!
why?
This is honestly the nicest entourage I've ever seen on Say Yes to The Dress.....
sxmvrl because they didn't say they disliked the dress?
Apparently its very common for the entourage to be judgemental even if the bride likes the dress.
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my DREss cost 700.00 $back 1983 n i have 55 guest 30 yrs later i threw it in the garbage WITH THE HEAD PIECE I COULD OF ZOLD IT TODAY FOR 100 PESOS
This is what makes me upset. How dare they put her in a position like that. I hate when they give brides dresses that are hundreds over their budget. Even if it’s just 148$... that can really hurt someone
This show should've catered to her budget and only should've shown her dresses up to her price limit. This show ALWAYS does this, i actually do not understand lol how can the guy can say its only £148 more when he could see how upset she was ffs.
If I was him i would mark off the difference myself
I know, and then he says something about how she shouldn't stress out over 150 pounds...then why do YOU care about the 150? You apparently sell dresses way more that 1500 pounds all the time! blah
MissmonalisaD it's required by the show to go over budget unfortunately. Going on this show you know beforehand that your budget doesn't matter anymore once they start filming.
Mandi P lol knowing that I would make my budget lowering than it really is
Well it is a business, the more the bride loves the dress, the more she's willing to pay for the price. At least reasonably when it's over the budget.
I woulda said NO TF!!! show me my dream dress IN my budget!!! You literally only wear it once 🙄🙄
The online dress that she wanted is over Budget as well!!
I seriously would never go to this boutique, they always show dresses over budget instead of trying to find something in the budget!! It's awful. They have zero respect for the actual bride's situation. The other SYTTD shows do not do this.
Gok and monte would never!
@@user-mj4or8sh3g neither would Randy Fenoli at Kleinfeld in NYC.
I've seen them find ones for less than £1,000, so I'd say a thousand less than had 😄
I really don't like all the stress and pressure they've put on her. What if she really couldn't afford to go overbudget. Weddings are expensive enough with catering, venue, decoration and transportation costs, without factoring in the bride & groom's personal expenditure.
I think that.. if you look at a dress in a model, is easy to get a false expectation of how is it going to fit you. Even through you're skinny or fat, it will not fit you as it fits a model because everyone has a different body, right?
(I'm not saying that shes fat or skinny or something else)
Reyna Rodriguez Yeah, happens with me all the time 😂😔 You never fully know until you try it on
Reyna Rodriguez Yeah, happens with me all the time 😂😔 You never fully know until you try it on
Reyna Rodriguez Yeah, happens with me all the time 😂😔 You never fully know until you try it on
Reyna Rodriguez Yeah, happens with me all the time 😂😔 You never fully know until you try it on
Reyna Rodriguez Yeah, happens with me all the time 😂😔 You never fully know until you try it on
Sticking to the budget should be done by everyone, not just accountants. Talking about you David!
no more A levels for me so celebrating by binge watching say yes to the dress clips 😂😂
Lucky! I've got two more to go 😭😭
you're nearly done though good luck with the final 2!! :)
Well done, sure you did brilliantly!
Congratz mate!!!
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David: "She just needs to breathe and let it go..." It referring to her money and go to him.
She looks so good in the second dress! I've never seen someone that good in a dress.
Mr.Worlwide Handsome I really like your name 😍
it is perfect
Really? I didn't love it. She has a figure that can pull off most anything but the mermaid bottom seemed dated.
It was too tight... if it needs alterations that will cost more..
What a crappy thing for the store to do. If anyone did that to me I'd have just walked out on principle. Find a store that actually *listens* to their customers instead of pulling shady stuff just to create drama. Now I remember why I stopped watching these shows.
The second dress was gorgeous
I'm an accountant and if I liked a dress that blew my budget I would have recalculated all my wedding costs to include it before I left the fitting room.
can we talk about her figure
It's stunning
FORREAL! I was like, " break the budget! Do you not see how fabulous your ass looks in that dress!?"
Yasmin I. Alamin It’s lovely she’s so feminine and nice small waist. This dress really was so perfect on her. The low back is so stunning on her .
Shes stunning !!!
Was watching this as she was trying on the first dress and was a little confused then I saw her butt and omgg
I hate how they pressure them to buy a specific dress , i mean she only tried 2 dresses? She couldve found a way better one without goin over budget
I would not accept not being allowed to browse and choose my own dresses to try on... this system of the consultant " doing the shopping" then coming in with 1 or 2 and saying " what do you think about this one"? Eeeeeeeee... no thanks.. l will choose my dress.
The bridal consultant fucked up big time by showing her a dress over the budget... shouldn't they have only given he dresses within her range? they did this on purpose for her to spend more... they should've given her a discount!! she said 1,500 stick to the budget!
OhheyitsSoumy I can't believe they wouldn't have just knocked the price down when it was very little compared to how much the dress total actually was, and they gave it to her knowing it was over her budget and put her under that stress.
Yeah exactly and they were acting like she was being prudent for a 140 something. Well they wouldn't discount it for 140 something so why the f should she be treated like she's cheap ??? fucks me off
OhheyitsSoumy it's required in the contract the brides sign that in order to be on the show they have to buy a dress over their budget. They're not surprised at all when it happens but act surprised for added "drama." Multiple brides who were on the show or were almost on the show admitted that it was a major requirement from the producers. You go on this show you don't have a choice and your budget doesn't matter anymore.
Tahmina Aktar Nope, they just get the fact that they were on the show. They even have to pay their own travel and hotel fees if the shop the show is filmed at is far away.
The bride actually said "around" 1500
aaaannnnnddddd what have we learned from watching this??? Never, ever , shop here if you have a budget because they will never show you pretty dresses in your range ... many stores have a rule that you never show a customer a dress over budget cause is leads to lots of unhappy people and you get a very bad name... if you wanna go over shop there, if you never want to go over, stay away !!!
Her friends have Louis Vuitton bags and Chanel bags and can't chip in £148! Lol
I know I'd help out!
Love Rose they offered! It was cut out in the clip
Love Rose it's not always nice to just offer ur friend money. It may offend and hurt their sentiments too
Love Rose. You don't think the bridesmaids are having to already spend enough to just be in the wedding?
How do you know they purchase them bags themselves? What if they bought it a thrift shop? Or had the bag for many years? Don’t assume what’s in someone’s wallet. The poorest people be the best dressed.
One of them replied to a different comment, they did offer to pay the difference but it was cut from the show.
They always go over budget and then use the "But for the dress of your dreams.." trope.
It's so unprofessional and disrespectful.
Glad this bride didn't fall for it right away.
All the women on these shows try on a couple of dresses and then immediately make a decision! Bitch, when, or a big if I should say, I ever have to get a wedding dress I'll be trying dozens of dresses! I don't get how anyone can try on two dresses and be like "Yep, this is the one!" The second dress did look gorgeous on her though.
Cocoa Girl they don't have time on the show to show every single dress they try on.
aleialaw That makes sense. The way the show is set up just makes it seem like she only tried on those two dresses.
Cocoa Girl. I only tried on 1 dress when I got married and I knew immediately that absolutely nothing could beat it. I had no desire to bother to try others. Just the reaction from literally every other person in the store alone confirmed how I already felt. The other clients came to a halt and a huge gasp went up in the store. Why waste the salespeople's time when they could be waiting on others instead of wasting more time with me?
I was literally just sitting here fantasizing about walking into Kleinfeld's and trying on a dozen dresses before I got down to actually getting my dress... Pink dresses, sparkly dresses, ball gowns and mermaids, I WANT TO TRY THEM ALL! 😂😂😂
Ikr like I will be going to many many different salons and trying on an assortment of different dresses at each before I make my final decision
“Oh Vicky you’re such an accountant”
How much of an accountant can one be?
I was waiting for one of the bridesmaids to say "I'll pay for the extra expenses"
Lilia Edwards We did offer..it was cut from the show.
Melissa Hannan what lovely friends you are 💛
Melissa Hannan that's really nice your such a nice freind
me to
+Melissa Hannan that's so nice. I was also waiting BC when you split it , it's not so much
This is one of my favorite final dresses in the entire show history, it looks so perfect on her
Am I the only one that was uncomfortable with how much the salon worker (the lady with black hair) is touching the bride? I hate when people touch/hold me like that!
Kamila
you are right, it's creepy!
I'm the same way. I don't care if they're checking the dress, please don't touch me.
Erm.. it's not about being gross or diseases. It is clear she is not touching her to check the fit, she just keeps her hands on her ( 3:03, 4:05, 4:14), not even on her dress but her arms and shoulders. I am not disgusted by people touching me for no reason. I just absolutely hate it :D
Hello: I work in the emergency department, I'm not scared of germs. I just hate hate hate the feeling of people touching me. It makes me viscerally uncomfortable and like I need to run away. I'm also a rape survivor, if that gives any context to my discomfort.
nunya
perfectly sensible response.
I admire her for sticking to a budget.
I'm trying to figure out why they wouldn't just offer her a 10% discount (150 so it'd be exactly in her budget). It's a negligible amount for the business to 'lose' and it eliminates a drama and makes for a happy customer
why should they? it's also negligible for her.
I guess they wanted the drama ...
I agree that it's really irritating when you're not told something you're looking at is over budget. I wish they would have shown her more dresses in her price range so she could have had more of an opportunity to make her decision.
That being said, she is an accountant and they make good money and she's obviously very good with it or they wouldn't be having their wedding at such a stately home. £148 is not that much and you can take money from flowers and decorations to make up being over budget to have the dress you really want.
a hate the fact that they always do that! he's happy because she's spending more not because she's found her dress 😒 granted it's gorgeous on her but come on man! stick to the budget!
Rose Ecilo. It's not even $1000 Over budget. Oh yes I'm sure he was ready to pee his pants, not!
I love how she is financially responsible
Everybody pushing her to go over budget, I didn't hear any of them volunteering to pay the extra money. (and that includes David)
It's barely over budget so you'd think her friends would split it and pay the rest. It's about 50 each.
Really! Her friends can't share 140p and make the Bride happy for this special day...
the bride can find another dress. It's not the only one in the world, it's just the second shown to her. Why would they spend their money on her wedding? I mean if there wasn't any other option, then it would be a good gift, but it clearly wasn't the case.
Koki Yet We did offer to pay the extra, they cut it out though. Its a show at the end of the day...
Melissa Hannan how nice of you you are lovely friends
Melissa Hannan i wasn't here to offend anyone, I feel her pain when it is over budget.
IrinNovy find another dress really??? U clearly never bought a wedding dress cause when u found " THE DRESS" you don't want any other one and it's just 45pounds extra per person, and it's a bit rude to say why they will spend money on her wedding I thought they are her good friends for the good and bad moments not just a word...
How could the consultants do that.. So unprofessional..
I really wanted her to say “I’m saying no to this dress”... she should’ve stuck to her budget, I hate how they didn’t tell her beforehand
I hate how belittled the bride was treated when she didn't want to go over her budget. They really pushed her into believing that she'd have less of a wedding without an expensive dress.
I googled the price, it was about 198 dollars, if that would have been my friend I would have gave her the rest of the money. It's for her wedding and she shouldn't have to have second thoughts
It irritates me when they bring dresses that are clearly over budget!
Do the consults take the budget as a starting point?!?
WOW! I think it is kinda better the "dream dress" did not look the way she thought.... that second dress was phenomenal!! She has a wonderful figure.
that dress was made for her...
I hate the feeling when your trying to convince yourself you love something but know its just not right
If I was her friend I would have offered her the difference as a wedding present
Dont show a dress above the budget, that will break bride heart
It’s really difficult to choose a wedding dress. The second dress she fit, looks gorgeous and stunning on her. She had the right decision of saying YES to her dream wedding dress and her friends felt great about her decision.
"Oh, vicky, you're such an accountant" uh....or just a person with an ACTUAL budget, lmfao
I always thought English accents were so charming... and then I started watching this show.
I would’ve been proud to give my friend the money to help buy her dream dress. What kind of friends are they?
They seem to be close, lovely friends. I'm sure they would have split the remaining difference but, in my humble opinion, she does not really "need" the money. You don't sacrifice a dream over 140 pounds. It's more about her being in her head, her principles and her methodical, meticulous "Virgo" attitude. I'm quoting her friends. She's a control freak
I'm sorry but the Say Yes To The Dress UK consultants are very cunning and unprofessional when it comes to picking brides' dresses. They often disregard the bride's budget and go ahead picking overbudget options then encouraging them to 'let go' and go overboard.
That dress was incredible on her. So beautiful!
Bringing her a dress over budget on purpose is bad form inho. The US version does the same thing, and it offends me every single time it happens.
Where did basic listening skills go?
She looked absolutely beautiful in that dress. Yes sticking to a budget is very smart, and honestly there wasn't a wrong choice, but I think this is one of those few times in life where emotions weigh in as much as practicality. I'm glad she chose this dress, it really made her shine :)
Should have never shown her that dress
Money aside can we just appreciate how stunning she looks in that dress and how obviously amazing it makes her feel?
Just bc someone says there's a budget Most people jump past that to get what they really want That's a sales tactic wherever you go They are in the business of making money The sales people work on commission
I loved how her friends looked sooo happy for her.
It bothers me so much when they have them try on over budget dresses, they have a budget for a reason
I really don't get why they put brides in dresses that are over budget? Why would you do this?
You can tell she’s an accountant being sensible with her money lmao
I thought her three friends would pitch in 50 each. So surprised they didn't.
I'm so glad she said yes. She's clever and will find ways to cut back a bit else where.
Why show brides a wedding dress over their budget?? That’s setting one up for disappointment. Terrible!
As a wedding planner/bridal consultant for any bridal boutique no matter where it is to show a gown to a bride that is over budget blows my mind and it is seriously irritating that bridal boutiques do this. They know the budget when it's given and that means do not go over budget. Going over budget is seriously frowned upon. Ladies you want a great dress and have a budget let the boutique know that the budget is strict and make sure they know to not go over. I'm available to plan your wedding!
I'd pay for my friends extra.. just to make her happy
Typical sales person. I ALWAYS ask the price first. This kind of thing is rampant. Doesn’t matter if it’s a wedding dress a car a house. All they care about is their commission. To hell with your budget
OMG, the blonde in the middle looks like Taylor Schilling (Piper) in Orange is the new Black.
There's definitely positives to setting goals, limits, budgets, but allowing those boundaries to control your life is beyond "self control".
I mean, honestly. She looks like a million dollars in that dress. Absolutely stunning. I love my budgets but I would have done the same lol!
Don’t convince her to go over budget unless you’re helping to pay for it.
Damn if I was one of her friends I would have paid for the bit that went over budget because seeing my friend so happy in the dress of their dreams is worth more than that
This is one thing I don’t like about the UK version of this show. They seem to never respect the budget and act as though it’s impossible to find what they bride is looking for in her price range. No matter what that number is.
My sister is the blonde one I didn't even know she was on this 😂😂
I get the biggest kick out of hearing them say call dresses frocks!!!
I'm never going to get married so idk y I'm watching this
Same girl.. same
The best decision ! You can probably still wear a gown .....it'll look beautiful :)
If they think 150 is not worth the stress then give that discount.
"We know you told us your budget when you came in, and this dress that you love is over your budget...BuT FoR tHe DrEsS oF yOuR dReAmS........."
I hate how they build up the brides confidence all the time, and then just ruin it all by saying it’s over the price range. Just tell her the price BEFORE she puts it on, I honestly just think that this is pathetic and selfish of them to do this just for money.🙄🤦♀️
Her body is bomb 🙌🏼🙌🏼
That dress was so perfect and really fits her gosh I love her hips