Despite people's feelings of Castillo this poor woman didn't want this video going out and should not have she didn't choose this to happen to her just more black people tearing each other down for a little fame and money
@@lilithrosa9309 men can love women, most men are just brought up to believe they can get away with stuff like cheating. Don’t use anyone I don’t agree with that. The problem is how we raise men and women right from childhood. Women are always told there virginity is precious, men aren’t told that. Women are told not to have sex with people because they can get pregnant, and they’re even told men can get away with it because they’re not the ones that’ll be pregnant. So most men think it’s okay to cheat. Personally I think it’s stupid to think it’s okay to do something you know will hurt your partner
@@savagejama6501 He didn't HAVE to say it. He is gaslighting her with what he is saying and the moment he mistook what she said his reaction wasnt pleasant, yet she has to sit there and be triggered!
@@CC-mms how is that gaslighting?? U idiots think because you use certain words your automatically intelligent and correct?? He knew she didn't cheat because he knows the type of woman she is.
Not condoning his actions. But how can he be ‘finished’ when he’s been telling everyone from day 1 what he’s like & that he’s a player… and girls still run after him full well knowing that cos they love their bad boys, Regardless. Sounds to me like its more the girls who are ‘finished’ for *knowingly* making poor choices in men. But hey. Dont shoot the messenger 🤷🏽♂️
I hope this lady heals emotionally and mentally, I hope she continues to glow as the beautiful woman she is. I hope after Castillo she raises her standards in terms of men
@@JAY-jk6dh bro. you cant move past shit like this unless you’re genuinely remorseful, it’s not in the past if you’re still making excuses for it instead of making up for it
This whole conversation was for him. She sounds like a wonderful girlfriend but he didn’t like himself. It sounds like he has done alot of growing or atleast reflecting from those times. This is actually a great conversation to have if she was healed from it, since she isn’t this was just further traumatizing her.
He continues to be selfish. He now wants to bear it all cause he now has began his healing process and is coming to himself (his true self) but isn't caring for the woman he claims to love Madddd
Then it ain’t no conversation he was the one who did her wrong a lot which he admitted it’s to “grow” his audience and explain his offenses away it’s good to know but then to act like that’s enough when he can’t even apologize just justify without truly understanding why she feels the way she feels isn’t good for either party she’s not a therapist
As a man, I think Castillo tried his best to explain himself. I don’t I have even heard a man ever admit that getting girls is an manhood accomplishment. Or a man brave enough to admit it was a coping mechanism for all his failures. But now when I look back. A lot of players use “getting women” to rub it in other men’s faces. This is why a lot of players will get tired of sleeping with single women and purposely go to sleep with other men’s girls and girlfriends, or even talk to the girlfriend’s guy behind his back. It’s a sick way of trying to feel you are “better” than other men and a coping mechanism of “if I am not good enough as a man, I can still screw your chick, and I will know and you won’t know, and that makes me feel good” it’s that sense of thinking that drives men to sleep with other men’s wives and girlfriends. I was never able to pick two and two together, but now, I am able to see it. Also, when Castillo was saying it’s not the same thing. I think what he meant is that, men can cheat and not be emotionally attached. Women usually, when they cheat, the relationship is over, since usually women tend to be emotionally involved. So the problem is he called it “love”, she is right, you can’t love a woman and cheat on her. Castillo is maturing but I don’t think he is still there yet to understand, having an emotional affection towards a woman does not mean you love her. He had feelings for her, but he did not love her. A man can have feelings for a woman and still screw around because we can seperate feelings and sex more easily than women. I think that’s what he was trying to say. That’s probably why he didn’t want to explain it because he did not even understand that it’s not love you have for her. It’s feelings. Kudos to being open and honesty, and kudos to giving her the cold harsh clarity that she needed. Hopefully she can heal and I actually hope she finds someone who will treat her better. Personally these two should not be together, he has put a really huge scar in her, she will heal but the scar will remain. And it’s never a good thing to be around someone who left you with permanent marks. The disgust in her face tells me, even the sideways looking and talking to him in such a condescending way like, “so you think now you can support a child”, that tells me she is completely done and absolutely has no respect for him ever. Fellas, if a woman reaches this point. Just apologize to her, make the things you have to make right, pay every thing you didn’t pay her, then leave. It’s over. Done!
I admire this woman so much. Throughout the whole thing she maintained her composure so well, got straight to the point and handled herself well despite all the hard things she was hearing. That main ain’t shit and she deserves so so so much more. Hope she gets what she truly deserves which is a faithful man that’ll take care of her and stop with these lies and excuses.
A man shows loyalty through taking care and supporting his women in every way possible not through his sexual exclusivity, but a women shows her loyalty through sexual exclusivity. get it through your head people, A high value man shouldn't have to exclude his sexuality for one women, but he have to take care and support his women.
Men rarely stay with women who were with them at their lowest. Why? Because when she look at him willnot be the same as a woman who met him at his peak. It is all ego for men.
In a weird kind of way Joseph actually comes across as a nice guy. If most of you can get pass your outrage at his historical behaviour with regards to cheating and his seemingly cold and unempathetic feelings towards his family and child. It actually becomes very very clear given the trauma he experienced throughout his formative years as to why he felt/feels this way. The situation is a tragic one, hopefully he'll continue to heal and gain some type of closure and liberation going forward.
Castillo should write a book called “How to Emotionally Manipulate Women.” Ladies never lose yourself loving a man. When a man is going through trauma, it’s not your job to heal him.
He’s speaking from GROWTH. She’s a beautiful woman! SHE was NEVER the problem. He’s finally giving her closure. He needed to get that off. She needed that to continue to heal as well. Blessings to both! 🙏🏽
@@savagejama6501 I hear that but when he talks he sounds like a child changing the subject. He went from talking about the hierarchy of the women he slept with to a 20p fight, making everything about himself without actually acknowledging his ex’s pain around the cheating. He needs a therapist.
"I couldn't let you go, cos I felt like you were keeping me alive," is a powerful statement. Im glad he is figuring out himself and trying to help her heal(all be it on a show) It would be better if she had some pre counselling work to get her ready to hear it, as it still seems raw for her. She has a lot of healing to do because of him, but he seems ready to take accountability, which can help on her journey. I hope they both get the help and closure they need and find happiness.
“Never wanted to let you go because you was keeping me ALIVE….”this man is so broken he used her as a power source. These men be attracted to strong women only to break them!!!
You got it twisted, he loved her but he’s a fucked up guy. He’s a player always has been, she knew that about him. If you look at his life story you’ll understand why he is the way he is
She hasn’t healed from the situation nor is she ready to talk about it! He didn’t love her, he saw a woman who genuine cared & loved for him. He wanted to keep her there for that, love is pure and genuine.. I hope she gets closure fr
Women usually do this too. Stringing on. It’s just that now guys are using the same tactic. This guy is obviously a bad boy as well. Women will be drawn to his nature
I know right, she hasn’t healed then he’s telling her he wanted to have kids then cheated on her with multiple women. I feel bad for her it’s actually sad to watch, you can see she’s such a caring woman and didn’t/doesn’t deserve this. She’s crying and he’s kicking back nah man it’s not it
I don't think she wasn't ready, I think she was over it because it was supposed to happen a long time ago. As she rightfully said his thinking is backwards, it may make sense but is it right? Plus it's on camera on his terms because he's able, was she able?
But she chooses to date a bad boy like so many and when they’re older and no longer youthful and know they don’t deserve a good man that’s when they want a good man. Beautiful girl like her probably rejects a lot of good men non the daily. It’s that simple. Unlike men being single for them is a choice.
@@checharles5224 she was young and had no idea. She was being lied to. You really underestimate the power of feelings, age, inexperience and low self esteem. You make it sound like a girl chooses to suffer and wants a heartbreaker. Obviously now if she made this mistake to find another man like this then we cannot feel bad for her but this was her first love and she was a teenager
@@AWKWARDCONFIDENCE okay I’m willing to concede given that you’ve provided a strong rationale. Yes maybe she was young. But we see a lot of girls going down the path I stated. Men and women live completely different lives. In the context of long term relationship Men want a woman who can bring her sexual exclusivity to the table. Her full pair bonding capacity, minimal emotional baggage and trauma, compliance. This type is ideal for long term goals such as marriage and children. When you put yourself through the grinder of hook ups and dating fkboys you come out the other end a different person. This woman was damaged by this man. You can see it in her face, hear it in her voice. She’s going to carry that in to the next relationship and the one after. Part of the reason this is happening is lack of guidance. Women are having children out of wedlock to unsuitable fathers and raising girls who have no understanding of their true worth and the constraints and limits of that worth. A lot of them have no understanding or concept that men have their standards too and that attraction and relationship value will diminish as you age and are nolonger young. You don’t want to be a 30 year old woman 👵 in a situation where you’re competing with 22 year olds for the same 30 year old man. Women are born rich and sue poor. Men are born poor and die rich.
Ladies, this is not love. Love is about respect, honesty, transparency, consistent with his actions, nurturing each other, communication, being supportive. He’s gaslighting her, he’s insecure, lacks self respect, community dick and misogynistic. Run for the hills, never ignore red flags and always listen to your gut instinct.
Actually they can feel in love, but love alone is not enough for a relationship hence why you listed those other attributes. And love definitely doesn’t come collectively with those other things you need to work for them, and for people who are broken and live a certain way it’s even more harder to do those things.
Nobody’s perfect he was obviously young and stupid at the time, he’s obviously matured and learned in life, and she obviously didn’t deserve the pain but you both need to get over yourselves.
We can’t keep playing victims with our past experiences. Using them as a excuse to be a not so nice person. Like I always say to friends who have experienced trauma, your past doesn’t define you! Neither should it scare you. You can choose to either hold on to the past or rebuild and create a better and stronger you. I.e self love/self worth. With the right help and support , I’m certain he will be able to identify his behaviours, patterns and own emotions pertaining relationships with women, friends and society.
Hes not playing victim, his younger life has shaped him in the man he is today, so it all plays a part, they say it takes a village, he needs a country. I can hear his cry for help...
@@iamqueencandace if you listen to his explanations on his behaviour then and now…. He refers to his past upbringing. I’m not bashing him or anything as such.. because I too have experienced a traumatic past, that I held onto for years and I can honestly say just by not seeking the right help, support and doing silly things at the time. Made me into someone I didn’t like, and affected my personal relationships and my mental well-being. Took a lot of work to change that but I tell you now! I’m comfortable with who I am today and things have been amazing than Before those Times.
@@tc644 kudos to you first of all for bettering yourself! I agree that I don’t think he’s using his past as an excuse but people need to realise that it’s okay to sit down now years later and explain WHY he was the way he was while taking accountability for why it was wrong. Through trauma a lot of peoples distorted views and behaviours become okay and very normal to them at the time until you get the help and unlearn the toxic behaviours
Ladies, it’s ok to be the one who got away. Learn to leave without closure. When you don’t they will dangle it in your face as a means to bring you back. A truly healed woman wouldn’t have even showed up. He’s still playing her.
@@inthahous87 I’m pretty sure it’s not. Even it is, it’s certainly not worth putting yourself through emotional and mental turmoil. Like I said a truly healed woman isn’t showing up to be gaslighted. Paid or not.
Why,he was actually nice and opened himself here ,he gave her compliments ,she on the other hand was uptight, ignorant and closed..she makes black women look bad.
Speaking as a man, I can see that he's ultimately a toxic person and a narcissist, regardless of how nicety and calmly he presents himself to people. He compartmentalises and justifies in quite a sociopathic, detached way. Do not get into a relationship with this charming, manipulative sociopath.
@@themarathoncontinues4211 No, but I think it's important for other men to acknowledge it. Anybody can be fooled by a manipulative, sociopathic person, man or woman.
@@dylanblue2271 100%. I agreed with most of what you’ve said, but the last sentence telling women not to get into a relationship with him was interesting - I don’t think any women are planning to/want to be in a relationship with this guy logically. Unfortunately, some will fall trap to his games due to a combo of factors
@@themarathoncontinues4211 Fair point. I agree. I think we all need to be better at understanding ourselves and other people, and avoiding negative patterns and behaviours.
This needed structure, they needed a therapist or somebody there to steer the conversation properly..felt like castillo was repeating himself about the same thing too much
@@pegobrown9204 if you follow Castillo, you'd know this is actually real. Plus he's talked about/is pretty open about the madness he used to get into. Idk if the other couples they'll show are real, but this one definitely is. This footage wasn't even meant to be used for this show, it was meant to be used for a different one that Castillo pitched.
“It was still an income people do worser things than you” she appreciated the little job you had and still cared for you. Damn bruh. 🤦🏾♂️ women don’t come like that often in these treacherous times!
It's her fault lol. Everyone knows how he is. There is so many men out there, if she wanted a nice guy she would get one. She know what she was getting herself into. No sympathy here
@@cutieluxs247 that response right there is why so many women get taken for idiots. You don’t just fall in love, she chose to spend extensive time with him, sleep with him and do all the other things that led to her developing feelings for him. And she chose to do all that knowing full well what kind of man he is. That’s a dumb choice that she’s entirely responsible for.
@@kemal3599 tell that to every woman who’s fallen in love with an idiot. She deffo should’ve left him, but it’s easy to say outside a relationship. All I’m saying is don’t judge people, you have no facts to have opinions lol
They both are heroic in sitting down to have this conversation one and second in front of a camera for others to see. My hope is for those who see to learn from it for future generations sake. The reality is both of them played a role in the destruction that transpired. Yes ol boy is wrong for lying. Yes ol girl is wrong for ignoring what she obviously felt was there if she had to leave him. The most beautiful part of this ugly truth is that WE ALL get a chance to see how the turmoil that we as individuals bring into relationships when we don’t take the time, don’t acknowledge, and or sometimes don’t even know we need to deal with and heal through before any building of romantic relationships. Great content 👌🏽
Nothing worst than being with someone this emotionally handicapped. They will do selfish, heartless , irresponsible things and still confuse it will love, still find a way to make it about them or still try to make you feel like you should be somehow grateful they “choose you” . RUN AS FAST AS YOU CAN! sorry for this lady, maybe scarred for a long time
I don’t know. I see a man who thinks with raw emotion. For him it’s not about who’s right and who’s wrong, but what’s right and what’s wrong. Life isn’t black and white and he’s giving his reasoning for his decisions. His decision were clearly dishonest but he’s allowing her to understand the layers of his decisions.
@@jayreidy5317 No i agree. Atleast he apologized and explained himself why he done it. I don’t necessarily think that hes a narcissist cause he actually felt bad for what he did but just cause he apologized and owned up to his mistakes doesnt mean its a good thing either cause people will apologize to you but you wont forget what they have done to you .
It's very hard to condone certain things but all I hear is he was a broken man and no amount it cushioning was going to make him feel complete. When a man is broke mentally, nothing is ever whole, it's always broken cos until he discovers himself. I hear this brother but, nothing exonarates his actions. A loyal woman is a rough diamond.
@@hayleynolan9378 Look, the key to perception is POV and seeing beyond the acts. A man or woman with such utterances is Broken. The mistake is going into a relationship with them hoping to change them or praying they change. Rage, scorn, and complexities manifest in different forms, but the ultimate victim is the loyal and loving partner, if not salvaged in good time. I will never refer to a woman a such. Experience makes people.
i hope riette is able to move on from this man. he has shown he ain’t shit when it comes to being in a relationship. she kept her cool the entire interview. attitude was much more composed then it could have been. she’s a strong woman who deserves way better than whatever he was offering. he needs help and hopefully he gets therapy so he can heal from his own childhood trauma
The point is to give her the honesty she always deserves even if it hurt her she’s bitter but you gotta forgive yourself an ppl look at her hate she has in her heart
A true definition of, "no matter how much you do for a man, it can never be enough". Even to this day and time he's still making excuses. Sir acknowledge your nonsense, apologies and keep it moving. Please and thanks
He’s a fuckboy, she’s a good girl. Sad to see trashy men take advantage and suck good people into relationships when they’re doing them so wrong like he was. Hope she finds someone who deserves all the effort she was putting in the relationship 🤍 strong woman x
And she's a eediat for staying wid w man that only had 20p to his name. Nuff of you girls like being with these bummy guys because you think it puts you in a position of power and control. You don't wanna be with a real man who's lead you will have to follow and dictate how the relationship is ran. Furthermore most man aint getting gyal like that to even have the opportunity to cheat
@@anubis8918 Lol this is why I say you men are confused breads when a women stays with a man that is financially well off they are gold diggers only with a man for money, they are opportunists never want to help build a man only want to take blah blah. Now we have a perfect example of a woman being with a man for who he is as a person, supporting a man financially, mentally and emotionally. Investing and building up a man and she is a dickhead for staying with him because he had 20p to his name?? There is no winning I swear
This conversation is premature. Nothing constructive can come of it because the girl is still very obviously in pain. Both parties need to be healed to have a conversation like this. The whole time Castillo was talking she was being triggered and aggravated. Sad to see tbh. And I do understand what he was saying when he said he’s received his karma. I know plenty of men who have cheated and lost the only person they’ve ever loved and that’s a deep regret they live with.
This is so close to home, literally everything he said ... was me and this is just me 3 months ago, and I would go back to her but I know she deserves better I would rather live with that regret than being the toxic one who stays... sometimes getting girls makes you feel like an accomplishment and it takes you away from the actual life achievements
This is not on her. He has not done any work to change and actually address his behaviour and issues and it is very evident in how he shows no accountability. She is still hurt , yes, and she gets to be because nothing has been resolved and he very callously recites his past behaviour with no regard for her pain.
I am honestly just wondering why he wants to have this type of conversation in this environment and situation if he is regretful. Bringing her here to once more emotionally dumb all of this on her because this “internet thing” has really blown up for him, it just seems like he is once more using her like he was in the past and nothing about that says he is regretful to me personally.
The problem with men is that the ones that are truly confident and not intimidated by women are usually players. It’s an ego/power thing but some also use sex and female attention to mend trauma. It’s sad
@@anubis8918 I've had the privilege of being raised by men with multiple wives/baby mothers and experiencing a player phase myself. Variety is the spice of life but there truly are always roots behind everything. You will come to understand once you decide to
Man said he had 2 main consistent links, then other 4 consistent links, but she was the main girl ! This is actually pure madness !!! We really need to raise our sons better ! This is just disgusting ! And raise our daughters to leave early ! One week without communication and you are still calling him your man ??? Sad all through !!
I admire this woman she’s beautiful and i love how she didn’t stutter once & held composure I do however from another pov understand Castillos frustrations as a youngster still figuring life out etc. yet no one deserves to go through stuff like this :( I just hope she gets everything she deserves in this life💕
It’s actually scary a man would go as far as meeting your family all the while knowing he don’t give a fuck. Streetz is COLD no wonder no one wants to be vulnerable anymore.
I feel for this chap, I can so relate to him as I was when younger. Needs to just focus on himself, in terms of self development, and loving and accepting yourself, for the good, bad and in between
I think he definitely needs to go to a serious therapy camp where they help him overcome all these issues that’s allowed him to become the person he is today. He is crying for help and he has the intentions to try change things around. Not justifying anything he has done. She did dodge a bullet there 100% but it doesn’t take away from the fact that this man needs help
You couldn’t say these things to her because you’d have to see the real ramifications of the hurt and pain you put her through. It’s cowardly. But you can tell her now that a check is attached to it to appear on this program lol
He actually didn't want this aired. It was his idea and took it to trend central but then after certain things were said, he wanted some of it cut, but they refused and said it was the best content. He then said he didn't want any of it aired at all and they went ahead and did it anyway.
You can’t be in love with someone and still cheat. That isn’t what love is. It’s about trust, loyalty, etc. He lusted for her, wanted her to stay loyal while he had anyone else
Shes obviously hurt and it's understandable. I agree with her, I hate it when men know their broken and incapable of being committed yet still get involved with women who are ready to commit. He is trying to say he has truly lost an amazing woman. Castillo please go to therapy. It's time to confront your childhood and the trauma that has truly affected you. At least he was willing to speak and be upfront and honest about his mistakes, but he needs to break the patterns.
it's crazy what woman let themselves go through all basic logic goes out the window in relationships. No matter who he is, how do you let yourself take this and not think should block him on everything and cut him off?? I've literally done that when I've met crazy yet Women fall into traps again and again. Wtf
@@generalblack5556 absolutely nobody is forcing them, but unfortunately it's the way society has programmed us to be. So we are constantly having to break free from that narrative of "fixing broken men". Many women try to do it but end up being taken down by these nutters. Sometimes these men blindsight women especially those who are naive, but we just have to be careful as women what men we allow into our lives.
@@vinesta I've made that mistake of excusing bad behaviour but never ever again. It makes you sick emotionally and physically and steals your peace. So horrible. It's the self work that helps women reach the point of never tolerating such foolishness and breaking free once and for all.
Honestly this whole conversation is making me feel sick… i just feel so sorry that she had to deal with this level of nonsense. She deserved so much better
He said "Only two ppl I love so much you and my grandmother aka my Mom!" But didn't he said he doesn't give AF about so many ppl. How can he love with that hatred. He cheated could of killed this young Lady with diseases
@@krystingrant6292 so true… and the lack of remorse is insane. He was ready to lose his sh*t when he thought she had cheated but is telling her she should be upset when he’d cheated multiple times for many years. The man has serious issues
We actually need to deep what Castillo is saying. This guy is A BROKEN MAN. I hope he’s healing. Its not an excuse for his bullshit behavior but this guy is bruised on the inside. His spirit is broken into pieces
I don't agree w/ the action but that's what he's paid for innit Same w/ papperazi capturing intimateoments. It ain't right but that's what gardeners clicks
This is a good example of one of the reasons why I never understood why society tries to justify men cheating because of his "needs" or when society tries to say that "when a woman cheats its worse " . Cheating is wrong vise versa
Yeah exactly, when men cheats it's "Natural and just men being men!" but when women cheat it's "evil".... How about they're both wrong? It's ok to be poly, just be honest about that instead of stringing people along while you cheat
She clearly wasn’t ready for this conversation. From looking at it’s at both perspectives I get what Castillo was saying but obviously it doesn’t justify what he done. However, she still too hurt about it because some of the points Castillo was making was him just explaining his thought process, but she was still too hurt to understand why he did the things he done. Ultimately, this just rubbed salt in the wound for her.
Exactly, I picked that up as well, that's why I was saying she needs to heal first because she couldn't even see that, he was explaining his thought process at that time which is something most people would love to hear from their exes, most people would love this type of closure from an ex that did them wrong, just to know how they ere thinking and why they did the things they did
He didn't love her. He loved the benefits he was getting out of her. He also knew he didn't have the tools to ensure she'd stick around so instead of being honest and freeing her from a bad situation, he just played along until she took the rose tinted glasses off. 😕 You wouldn't jeopardise a good situation just because you thought you could get away with it, if you truly cared for your situation.
This is why you heal before getting into relationships. Hurt people hurt people. This guys unbringing, and life in general was very difficult this left scars, no matter how nonchalant he is when talking about it. Broken people also go down the road of promiscuity.. Its a pity he hurt this lady . Hopefully she can heal also
@@ashfoyowa6689 both people in this scenario were in a relationship. Doesn’t matter the gender. One used the other’s trust and love to feel better about themselves, expecting them to fully commit to them whilst sleeping around within the relationship. If a man wants to cheat on his committed girlfriend, how is it any different for a girlfriend to cheat on her committed boyfriend? They’re both shit people, doesn’t matter the biology behind it. If a man can’t commit because “ooo my penis needs variety i have biological needs and i wanna spread my seed!!” then go date a cave woman who’s gonna be fine with it - don’t find someone willing to commit to just betray them behind their back. It’s 2022, women choose not to have children or care for a man their whole lives. Men can choose not to be cheating horn-dogs.
He has no feelings, so nothing stops him from being immoral . He will have an excuse for all things and take zero accountability. He will forever be in this infantile state clutching onto his traumatic upbringing as a get out of jail card if he fails to commit to therapy. The problem is as the money runs out and the looks fade, he will fade into obscurity and miss the attention he so desperately craves.
She is beautiful and I felt the rawness of his honesty.. I believe he has never fallen out of love with her and the guilt has ate him up because he's now fully aware of how his actions affected not just her but his connection with her and is now taking accountability for his actions which he failed on during a time in his life where he couldn't understand himself let alone understand how important it is to respect and acknowledge the one great thing in your life... I'm a believer in second chances, change is inevitable and in my opinion he sounds sincere in his delivery... He's learning and growing you can't knock him for that at least 💯
The worst thing she can do to herself is go back to this simp he's a narcissist .. A man who sleeps around has no respect for himself and that's the worst kind of man
@@Haileymum254 I'm definitely not suggesting she does in any shape or form but people can change, change is inevitable if you want to become a different person to who you once were especially going through trauma from a young age it tailors your mind way different to someone who was raised right with morals...
i feel so bad for her he clearly didn't care about her during the relationship or he wouldn't have 2 CONSISTENT LINKS AND ANOTHER 4 BENEATH THAT LIKE WTF
I feel for the girl so much. Imagine having to deal and heal from her breakup with questions unsolved and moving on with out any closure even though she tired to get answers from him. Then years later, him finally deciding to unravel that whole situation, but for what? like that’s so much for her and I couldn’t even last the fast few words he said. It’s like opening up old scars and having to heal all over again my goodness. This is pure torture.
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Despite people's feelings of Castillo this poor woman didn't want this video going out and should not have she didn't choose this to happen to her just more black people tearing each other down for a little fame and money
No wonder he’s special like me, his name is Joseph aswell.
@@dan98221 neither of them wanted it out trend central scammed them
@@k11_yic very feminine behavour from trend central and for views aswell
You got them consent signatures yeh? Lol
Bro he had me dying when he started to explain his link pyramid 😭😭😭
The sad thing is that is not supposed to be funny but so is😭😭😭
@@randomsl4yer540 🤣🤣 man on a serious note Castillo needs therapy, this mans moving mad
Man didn't even get to the inconsistent links and the one/two time ting💀
@@Emanuel-bm9vn yeah it’s funny and kinda sad since it’s not his fault it’s his childhood
He didn't have to go in details. She probably did taste pussy on his lips 🤣. He just cut her deeper.
trying to keep up with castillo’s logic is an extreme sports
Relaaaaaax! 😆😆😆🤡🤡🤡🤡🤣
The fuck bois are out and about in this thread today! Yes! These men are engaging in mental gymnastics
Looool for real
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Now you know how most men feel when dealing with women
All I know is, Castillo isn't a broken person, he's just been through a lot of pressure and pain now out on all digital platforms brev
Stop making out that castillo is the only person victim of a hard life. Life is hard for most people that are not rich!
@@12tribes61 🤣👌
Lmao
LMAO....brilliant!
@@12tribes61 Pressure And Pain out on all digital platforms brev 👌🏾
I know his heart jumped out of his chest when she called him Joseph 💀
She supported him through everything at his lowest and he still cheated. Lord.
Less be honest dis guys got to be living in a simulation
That’s pretty common though. I get it’s sad but I don’t get why people are acting surprised.
We can never heal anyone, that's why it's better to walk away. I've learnt that lesson.
@@oluwatobiogundele218 yes because almost all men are cheaters who are incapable of loving women which is why you use them for money
@@lilithrosa9309 men can love women, most men are just brought up to believe they can get away with stuff like cheating. Don’t use anyone I don’t agree with that. The problem is how we raise men and women right from childhood. Women are always told there virginity is precious, men aren’t told that.
Women are told not to have sex with people because they can get pregnant, and they’re even told men can get away with it because they’re not the ones that’ll be pregnant. So most men think it’s okay to cheat. Personally I think it’s stupid to think it’s okay to do something you know will hurt your partner
Castillo coming with the Maslow’s hierarchy of needs 🤣😂😂
omds bye😭🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Stop it I haven't even got that far yet but I hope he doesn't try it 🤣😆😂😕
Omg business studies 😂😂
Man said psychology a level
@@smsofficial4809 init😂😂😂😭
Look at double standards... He almost had a seizure when he thought she cheated on him, yet his behaviour should be tolerated?!!
He never said his behaviour should be tolerated this whole vid is about his confessing his mistakes
he didn’t say his behaviour should be tolerated though lol
Females be extra sometimes
@@savagejama6501 He didn't HAVE to say it. He is gaslighting her with what he is saying and the moment he mistook what she said his reaction wasnt pleasant, yet she has to sit there and be triggered!
@@CC-mms how is that gaslighting??
U idiots think because you use certain words your automatically intelligent and correct??
He knew she didn't cheat because he knows the type of woman she is.
Castillo :I never wanted kids
Ri: Is that why you abandoned yours?
Castillo:Sniper out on all digital platforms
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😂😂😂. The Sniper with the " P " on his breath 😂😂😂
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6 other links , how do these men find the time and energy, nasty unhygienic behaviour
When he said ‘i’m the one who should be sad’ and she said ‘Are you SICK’ i lost it😂😂😂😂this man is FINISHED.
Wait. I'm get to that.
I doubt he's finished lol
@@jordondeannon5501 definitely done for 😂☠️
@@onlyeish he’s been saying this since day can’t be finished
Not condoning his actions. But how can he be ‘finished’ when he’s been telling everyone from day 1 what he’s like & that he’s a player… and girls still run after him full well knowing that cos they love their bad boys, Regardless. Sounds to me like its more the girls who are ‘finished’ for *knowingly* making poor choices in men. But hey. Dont shoot the messenger 🤷🏽♂️
I hope this lady heals emotionally and mentally, I hope she continues to glow as the beautiful woman she is. I hope after Castillo she raises her standards in terms of men
Took words right out of my mouth! I hope she is okay because the disrespect smh
Sniper out on all digital platforms
@@DaggeC big man ting brev
Women say they will but they pick these dudes all the time.
@@Oakland510 then complain
I’m utterly terrified of running into a man like this. He’s soo detached from how his actions affect the women he’s dealing with, it’s scary.
This is his past give it a rest
@@JAY-jk6dh bro. you cant move past shit like this unless you’re genuinely remorseful, it’s not in the past if you’re still making excuses for it instead of making up for it
talking about the others like he is talking about objects. it's disgusting.
Let me translate Christina's comment for us guys.
''I'm utterly attracted to men like this.''
Thank me later.
@@downs9724 facts. Women say they hate these men , but in reality……
her: can i take a break
castillo’s brain: it’s not looking gd brev
“U just used my government name” bro she been saying it for the past 5 mins 😂😂😂
This whole conversation was for him. She sounds like a wonderful girlfriend but he didn’t like himself. It sounds like he has done alot of growing or atleast reflecting from those times. This is actually a great conversation to have if she was healed from it, since she isn’t this was just further traumatizing her.
He continues to be selfish. He now wants to bear it all cause he now has began his healing process and is coming to himself (his true self) but isn't caring for the woman he claims to love
Madddd
@@baybeetacoo8734 shut up
Castillo a king
Then it ain’t no conversation he was the one who did her wrong a lot which he admitted it’s to “grow” his audience and explain his offenses away it’s good to know but then to act like that’s enough when he can’t even apologize just justify without truly understanding why she feels the way she feels isn’t good for either party she’s not a therapist
@Self-First 2022 hello
This is a masterclass in gaslighting, this guy said “You shouldn’t be sad” 😩
She shouldn't be sad because she doesn't have to deal with him is what he meant,he has to live with things he has done day in and day out
@@sophiajasminex9024 p
Yeah, he meant she doesn't have to deal with him anymore and that it wasn't her fault, lmao
You don't even know what gaslighting means.
He isn't gaslighting.
He's actually being honest with her.
man said gaslighting 🤦🏾♂️ a man cant even say the truth anymore without it being labelled
As a man, I think Castillo tried his best to explain himself. I don’t I have even heard a man ever admit that getting girls is an manhood accomplishment. Or a man brave enough to admit it was a coping mechanism for all his failures. But now when I look back. A lot of players use “getting women” to rub it in other men’s faces. This is why a lot of players will get tired of sleeping with single women and purposely go to sleep with other men’s girls and girlfriends, or even talk to the girlfriend’s guy behind his back. It’s a sick way of trying to feel you are “better” than other men and a coping mechanism of “if I am not good enough as a man, I can still screw your chick, and I will know and you won’t know, and that makes me feel good” it’s that sense of thinking that drives men to sleep with other men’s wives and girlfriends.
I was never able to pick two and two together, but now, I am able to see it.
Also, when Castillo was saying it’s not the same thing. I think what he meant is that, men can cheat and not be emotionally attached. Women usually, when they cheat, the relationship is over, since usually women tend to be emotionally involved. So the problem is he called it “love”, she is right, you can’t love a woman and cheat on her. Castillo is maturing but I don’t think he is still there yet to understand, having an emotional affection towards a woman does not mean you love her. He had feelings for her, but he did not love her. A man can have feelings for a woman and still screw around because we can seperate feelings and sex more easily than women. I think that’s what he was trying to say. That’s probably why he didn’t want to explain it because he did not even understand that it’s not love you have for her. It’s feelings.
Kudos to being open and honesty, and kudos to giving her the cold harsh clarity that she needed. Hopefully she can heal and I actually hope she finds someone who will treat her better. Personally these two should not be together, he has put a really huge scar in her, she will heal but the scar will remain. And it’s never a good thing to be around someone who left you with permanent marks. The disgust in her face tells me, even the sideways looking and talking to him in such a condescending way like, “so you think now you can support a child”, that tells me she is completely done and absolutely has no respect for him ever.
Fellas, if a woman reaches this point. Just apologize to her, make the things you have to make right, pay every thing you didn’t pay her, then leave. It’s over. Done!
He’s a loser
I admire this woman so much. Throughout the whole thing she maintained her composure so well, got straight to the point and handled herself well despite all the hard things she was hearing. That main ain’t shit and she deserves so so so much more. Hope she gets what she truly deserves which is a faithful man that’ll take care of her and stop with these lies and excuses.
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A man shows loyalty through taking care and supporting his women in every way possible not through his sexual exclusivity, but a women shows her loyalty through sexual exclusivity.
get it through your head people, A high value man shouldn't have to exclude his sexuality for one women, but he have to take care and support his women.
@@almared8467 if you can’t be faithful then get with people who also don’t want to be faithful. Leave the good people alone. End of.
Eeeeeediat
But did she tho?
In conclusion, he lost a gem. She was with him at his lowest.
Men rarely stay with women who were with them at their lowest. Why? Because when she look at him willnot be the same as a woman who met him at his peak. It is all ego for men.
So busy judging not understanding bruh life started fucked up so he was living fucked up
*Sniper out now on all digital platforms bruv*
@@pro-non9887 lmao
@@charleeharris2976 sniper out of all digital platforms
It’s so obvious why Castillo didn’t want this to come out. I feel for the girl so much
he didnt want it come out? you mean this video or the child ting?
@@MsBabyKay this vid he made a tiktok about it I think
@@MsBabyKay the video, the people on this channel were black mailing him. He also didn’t sign a contract for them to release this
The concept of this show was his idea and Andy stole it.
This is staged you fool
In a weird kind of way Joseph actually comes across as a nice guy. If most of you can get pass your outrage at his historical behaviour with regards to cheating and his seemingly cold and unempathetic feelings towards his family and child. It actually becomes very very clear given the trauma he experienced throughout his formative years as to why he felt/feels this way. The situation is a tragic one, hopefully he'll continue to heal and gain some type of closure and liberation going forward.
He’s the worst kind of f boy. The nice, charming type.
@@fuckeries sniper out now on all digital platforms
Trauma is not an excuse to damage others.
Castillo should write a book called “How to Emotionally Manipulate Women.” Ladies never lose yourself loving a man. When a man is going through trauma, it’s not your job to heal him.
How did he emotionally manipulate her??
She knew he was no good and stayed with him.
@@anubis8918 facts
Bad advice
Yeah but women always believe they can change someone even if all the red flags are right in front of them.
@@anubis8918 male detected
He’s speaking from GROWTH. She’s a beautiful woman! SHE was NEVER the problem. He’s finally giving her closure. He needed to get that off. She needed that to continue to heal as well. Blessings to both! 🙏🏽
Thank u.. only thing I’d say her only problem was choosing him which is a big problem but u right all in all
He's not growing at all.
Yhyh give closure to the whole world shiiit I'm slow that's normal these days lool
Nah i like Castillo but bringing ya ex Infront the whole world is just straight disrespectful Duno y she even came on fk that
@@Dhgsfgdc15665 bro nobody brought her.. she agreed to come and signed release forms.
I think he needs to sit down with a therapist. He needs insight to his inner demons
What insight does he need if he knows what he did was messed up
@@savagejama6501 I hear that but when he talks he sounds like a child changing the subject. He went from talking about the hierarchy of the women he slept with to a 20p fight, making everything about himself without actually acknowledging his ex’s pain around the cheating. He needs a therapist.
Absolutely!!
It better be a male therapist 😶
@@Apizzaslice that therapist would be bias then. u need the opposite..n i can alr detect ur male
"I couldn't let you go, cos I felt like you were keeping me alive," is a powerful statement.
Im glad he is figuring out himself and trying to help her heal(all be it on a show) It would be better if she had some pre counselling work to get her ready to hear it, as it still seems raw for her. She has a lot of healing to do because of him, but he seems ready to take accountability, which can help on her journey. I hope they both get the help and closure they need and find happiness.
“Never wanted to let you go because you was keeping me ALIVE….”this man is so broken he used her as a power source. These men be attracted to strong women only to break them!!!
Real real real thank you for your comment
You got it twisted, he loved her but he’s a fucked up guy. He’s a player always has been, she knew that about him. If you look at his life story you’ll understand why he is the way he is
@@shoazdon7000 oh shut up
He is an energy vampire. Just sucking the soul and life from women.
Women do that all the time with good men on so many different levels
She hasn’t healed from the situation nor is she ready to talk about it! He didn’t love her, he saw a woman who genuine cared & loved for him. He wanted to keep her there for that, love is pure and genuine.. I hope she gets closure fr
That what I’m seeing, he needed her to be his safe place but love?? I don’t think he truly loved her.
@@rheadee33 right!! He didn’t value her as a person but only liked the energy she was feeding him.
It’s all about him
Women usually do this too. Stringing on. It’s just that now guys are using the same tactic. This guy is obviously a bad boy as well. Women will be drawn to his nature
She wasn’t ready for this convo, she hasn’t healed and putting that into perspective this convo shouldn’t have happened.. not online anyway..
This is who he ain’t wanna tell her
I know right, she hasn’t healed then he’s telling her he wanted to have kids then cheated on her with multiple women. I feel bad for her it’s actually sad to watch, you can see she’s such a caring woman and didn’t/doesn’t deserve this. She’s crying and he’s kicking back nah man it’s not it
I don't think she wasn't ready, I think she was over it because it was supposed to happen a long time ago. As she rightfully said his thinking is backwards, it may make sense but is it right? Plus it's on camera on his terms because he's able, was she able?
@@mightymorphinniqz9235 agreed
Views and money lol
1st time seeing Cas being so vulnerable 🤦🏽♂️no digital platform 🤣.
Reitte is so beautiful and patient. She deserves so much better!!!
Low it this is so staged, big up Castillo tho
But she chooses to date a bad boy like so many and when they’re older and no longer youthful and know they don’t deserve a good man that’s when they want a good man. Beautiful girl like her probably rejects a lot of good men non the daily. It’s that simple. Unlike men being single for them is a choice.
@@checharles5224 alot of assumptions there.
@@checharles5224 she was young and had no idea. She was being lied to. You really underestimate the power of feelings, age, inexperience and low self esteem. You make it sound like a girl chooses to suffer and wants a heartbreaker. Obviously now if she made this mistake to find another man like this then we cannot feel bad for her but this was her first love and she was a teenager
@@AWKWARDCONFIDENCE okay I’m willing to concede given that you’ve provided a strong rationale. Yes maybe she was young. But we see a lot of girls going down the path I stated. Men and women live completely different lives. In the context of long term relationship Men want a woman who can bring her sexual exclusivity to the table. Her full pair bonding capacity, minimal emotional baggage and trauma, compliance. This type is ideal for long term goals such as marriage and children. When you put yourself through the grinder of hook ups and dating fkboys you come out the other end a different person. This woman was damaged by this man. You can see it in her face, hear it in her voice. She’s going to carry that in to the next relationship and the one after. Part of the reason this is happening is lack of guidance. Women are having children out of wedlock to unsuitable fathers and raising girls who have no understanding of their true worth and the constraints and limits of that worth. A lot of them have no understanding or concept that men have their standards too and that attraction and relationship value will diminish as you age and are nolonger young. You don’t want to be a 30 year old woman 👵 in a situation where you’re competing with 22 year olds for the same 30 year old man. Women are born rich and sue poor. Men are born poor and die rich.
Ladies, this is not love. Love is about respect, honesty, transparency, consistent with his actions, nurturing each other, communication, being supportive. He’s gaslighting her, he’s insecure, lacks self respect, community dick and misogynistic. Run for the hills, never ignore red flags and always listen to your gut instinct.
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Nope he can love her and sleep with other women they have literally NOTHING to do with each other
Actually they can feel in love, but love alone is not enough for a relationship hence why you listed those other attributes. And love definitely doesn’t come collectively with those other things you need to work for them, and for people who are broken and live a certain way it’s even more harder to do those things.
Nobody’s perfect he was obviously young and stupid at the time, he’s obviously matured and learned in life, and she obviously didn’t deserve the pain but you both need to get over yourselves.
We can’t keep playing victims with our past experiences. Using them as a excuse to be a not so nice person. Like I always say to friends who have experienced trauma, your past doesn’t define you! Neither should it scare you. You can choose to either hold on to the past or rebuild and create a better and stronger you. I.e self love/self worth. With the right help and support , I’m certain he will be able to identify his behaviours, patterns and own emotions pertaining relationships with women, friends and society.
Hes trying to heal, but this is not the most productive for her.
Just pain on top of a wound, now dump his wounds on top of her.
It wasn’t his past tho, he was living a shit life while he was in the relationship, if ur talking about when they were together
Hes not playing victim, his younger life has shaped him in the man he is today, so it all plays a part, they say it takes a village, he needs a country. I can hear his cry for help...
@@iamqueencandace if you listen to his explanations on his behaviour then and now…. He refers to his past upbringing. I’m not bashing him or anything as such.. because I too have experienced a traumatic past, that I held onto for years and I can honestly say just by not seeking the right help, support and doing silly things at the time. Made me into someone I didn’t like, and affected my personal relationships and my mental well-being. Took a lot of work to change that but I tell you now! I’m comfortable with who I am today and things have been amazing than Before those Times.
@@tc644 kudos to you first of all for bettering yourself! I agree that I don’t think he’s using his past as an excuse but people need to realise that it’s okay to sit down now years later and explain WHY he was the way he was while taking accountability for why it was wrong. Through trauma a lot of peoples distorted views and behaviours become okay and very normal to them at the time until you get the help and unlearn the toxic behaviours
Ladies, it’s ok to be the one who got away. Learn to leave without closure. When you don’t they will dangle it in your face as a means to bring you back. A truly healed woman wouldn’t have even showed up. He’s still playing her.
FACTSSSSSSSSSS😩🙌🏾
There is a cheque on the table that is why calm down Michelle
@@inthahous87 I’m pretty sure it’s not. Even it is, it’s certainly not worth putting yourself through emotional and mental turmoil. Like I said a truly healed woman isn’t showing up to be gaslighted. Paid or not.
@@Lastdayone sure Michelle I understand.
Ladies please never settle for men like this
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that what most immature girls want unfortunately
@@rodneyking8030 most?
Most black guys from London
@@Kayanamae stop bringing race into everything
When she said “I don’t mean I went elsewhere” and he had the nerve to say “Thank God” while knowing what he was about to reveal.
Cut the crap. She used the word step out because she actually stepped out. She is a 304 hence why she attracted Castillo.
@@Gchild2k6 tf is 304
@@serokapo8429 Put it in your old style calculated and read it upside down. H * e
@@Gchild2k6 he a 304. She should get checked dealing with this man.
@@serokapo8429 it means a hoe
I felt my man when he said "he failed at everything and getting links was his only accomplishments"
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Regular man shit lol
That’s sad
It’s fucked but I kinda get it. Getting gyal was his only source of validation
This comment makes the most sense
The way she keeps repeating what he says to make sure he knows what his saying 😂😂😂
When she said she needed a break I totally understood. As much as I rate Castillo I still would have wanted to box him if I were her 😂
Why,he was actually nice and opened himself here ,he gave her compliments ,she on the other hand was uptight, ignorant and closed..she makes black women look bad.
@@optimisticrealismx5829 he makes black men look bad lol
I was like damn, my guy didn't have any emo while saying it...
@@AJOSUE you saw that too
@@optimisticrealismx5829 no doubt he did but I think she was processing all the disrespect and almost reliving it in front of us. That's ruff
This is like the worst environment to have this conversation 😩… she’s strong !!
I wouldn't come back until I had enough therapy and anxiety meds to deal with him lol
BOOM Shes Strong yh
Even after seeing this, women will still go for a man like Joseph
Man like joseph 😂😂😳
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Speaking as a man, I can see that he's ultimately a toxic person and a narcissist, regardless of how nicety and calmly he presents himself to people. He compartmentalises and justifies in quite a sociopathic, detached way. Do not get into a relationship with this charming, manipulative sociopath.
Everyone has trauma. Stop preaching like you're perfect dude. Who cares if you're a man. You're probably a weirdo in real life anyways
You aren’t saying anything women don’t already know. Freedom of choice bruv
@@themarathoncontinues4211 No, but I think it's important for other men to acknowledge it. Anybody can be fooled by a manipulative, sociopathic person, man or woman.
@@dylanblue2271 100%. I agreed with most of what you’ve said, but the last sentence telling women not to get into a relationship with him was interesting - I don’t think any women are planning to/want to be in a relationship with this guy logically. Unfortunately, some will fall trap to his games due to a combo of factors
@@themarathoncontinues4211 Fair point. I agree. I think we all need to be better at understanding ourselves and other people, and avoiding negative patterns and behaviours.
Castillo: “Are you alright?” Her: “FUCK YOU”. 11:56 💀😂😂😂
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I felt that sigh
savage
The way the camera was on her when she was taking a break like it was an episode of Maury 😭😭
This needed structure, they needed a therapist or somebody there to steer the conversation properly..felt like castillo was repeating himself about the same thing too much
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100%
I swear if any of my exes call me up to tell me some bs like this they better be prepared to get kicked in the chest
But if they defend themselves they are the bad ones right? Smh
Anyone else getting blue therapy vibes from this new series love it 😂
Yeah, except Blue therapy was fake lmao
@@ICavalcadeI uh huh an this is totally 100% real I bet it was one take, no cuts an edits for them to say the lines better
@@ICavalcadeI it was fake but styl cold tho
@@pegobrown9204 if you follow Castillo, you'd know this is actually real. Plus he's talked about/is pretty open about the madness he used to get into. Idk if the other couples they'll show are real, but this one definitely is. This footage wasn't even meant to be used for this show, it was meant to be used for a different one that Castillo pitched.
@@kareemdabo4716 ya it definitely was, I just found it weird how obviously it was fake but people still denied it with their chest
“It was still an income people do worser things than you” she appreciated the little job you had and still cared for you. Damn bruh. 🤦🏾♂️ women don’t come like that often in these treacherous times!
The women with such low standards are usually the targets for guys like this so...😞😞
Yes he will theyll be loads of women lined up for him....
She’s a beautiful woman, her beauty is shining from within. Castillo man I’m glad you know it’s bad karma for you cuz she’s a keeper!
It's her fault lol. Everyone knows how he is. There is so many men out there, if she wanted a nice guy she would get one. She know what she was getting herself into. No sympathy here
@@Willy_Jean you’ve never been in love looool
@@cutieluxs247 that response right there is why so many women get taken for idiots.
You don’t just fall in love, she chose to spend extensive time with him, sleep with him and do all the other things that led to her developing feelings for him.
And she chose to do all that knowing full well what kind of man he is. That’s a dumb choice that she’s entirely responsible for.
@@kemal3599 tell that to every woman who’s fallen in love with an idiot. She deffo should’ve left him, but it’s easy to say outside a relationship.
All I’m saying is don’t judge people, you have no facts to have opinions lol
@1204StrikesBack shut up let’s see how you look like
They both are heroic in sitting down to have this conversation one and second in front of a camera for others to see. My hope is for those who see to learn from it for future generations sake. The reality is both of them played a role in the destruction that transpired. Yes ol boy is wrong for lying. Yes ol girl is wrong for ignoring what she obviously felt was there if she had to leave him. The most beautiful part of this ugly truth is that WE ALL get a chance to see how the turmoil that we as individuals bring into relationships when we don’t take the time, don’t acknowledge, and or sometimes don’t even know we need to deal with and heal through before any building of romantic relationships. Great content 👌🏽
Nothing worst than being with someone this emotionally handicapped. They will do selfish, heartless , irresponsible things and still confuse it will love, still find a way to make it about them or still try to make you feel like you should be somehow grateful they “choose you” . RUN AS FAST AS YOU CAN! sorry for this lady, maybe scarred for a long time
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I don’t know. I see a man who thinks with raw emotion. For him it’s not about who’s right and who’s wrong, but what’s right and what’s wrong. Life isn’t black and white and he’s giving his reasoning for his decisions. His decision were clearly dishonest but he’s allowing her to understand the layers of his decisions.
@@MikailiStudios YES, what a refreshing comment
Lord please protect the women that feel that they can save these men, amen.
This men’s are poisonous ☠️
Ladies this is why you don’t date broken men. It ain’t worth it. Too many broken Black men wreaking havoc on young black women.
Broke soul, mind, heart, wallet.
And vice versa
The same can be said about black women...
BINGO.
@@jr5296 only demographic of people that compare themselves to the women in their community. sad.
he had me gone when he said" I put you up there like a queen" sometimes we really die for closure but this one's beyond
It doesn’t take a psychologist to see this guy is a narcissist and has severe deep rooted issues.
Of course it don't he says it himself
Narcissist ?
@@electriccommander5077 someone who doesnt care about his partners feelings. manipulative, and making your partner in general feel bad
@@onikapinkk You know what yeah I honestly don’t get narcissistic vibes from him, and I’ve experienced one, he just seems so stupidly clueless
@@jayreidy5317 No i agree. Atleast he apologized and explained himself why he done it. I don’t necessarily think that hes a narcissist cause he actually felt bad for what he did but just cause he apologized and owned up to his mistakes doesnt mean its a good thing either cause people will apologize to you but you wont forget what they have done to you .
It's very hard to condone certain things but all I hear is he was a broken man and no amount it cushioning was going to make him feel complete.
When a man is broke mentally, nothing is ever whole, it's always broken cos until he discovers himself. I hear this brother but, nothing exonarates his actions.
A loyal woman is a rough diamond.
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This is it
Naaah because if a woman did this you wouldn’t call her broken. She’d be called a whore
@@hayleynolan9378 Look, the key to perception is POV and seeing beyond the acts. A man or woman with such utterances is Broken. The mistake is going into a relationship with them hoping to change them or praying they change.
Rage, scorn, and complexities manifest in different forms, but the ultimate victim is the loyal and loving partner, if not salvaged in good time.
I will never refer to a woman a such. Experience makes people.
i hope riette is able to move on from this man. he has shown he ain’t shit when it comes to being in a relationship. she kept her cool the entire interview. attitude was much more composed then it could have been. she’s a strong woman who deserves way better than whatever he was offering. he needs help and hopefully he gets therapy so he can heal from his own childhood trauma
He’s very intelligent and honest , I do feel really bad for her tho but I do respect him for explaining everything truthfully
Well.. Not that honest when he hid the fact he cheated on her for how many years? 🤦🏼♂️
@@SuperMillwall he`s honest about the cheating
Whats the fcking point in explaining all this after they broke up other then to hurt her. I don't see the point
The point is to give her the honesty she always deserves even if it hurt her she’s bitter but you gotta forgive yourself an ppl look at her hate she has in her heart
It's not truthful. Truth is he didn't give a shit about anyone but himself. Standard tingz. Just admit it. Done deal
A true definition of, "no matter how much you do for a man, it can never be enough". Even to this day and time he's still making excuses. Sir acknowledge your nonsense, apologies and keep it moving. Please and thanks
That quote applies to women wayyyyyy more than it does to men
@@jayslater7017 lol
@@jayslater7017 lol you know that's not true and it's hilarious you think that lol
@@emanx222 No, it almost certainly is true. Not for all women of course.
You can give your all for a woman and she still won’t appreciate you.
@@jayslater7017 oh I agree with that but I don't agree that it applies more to women although to be fair, I could be wrong
He’s a fuckboy, she’s a good girl. Sad to see trashy men take advantage and suck good people into relationships when they’re doing them so wrong like he was. Hope she finds someone who deserves all the effort she was putting in the relationship 🤍 strong woman x
Everyone know he's a fuckboy n she still got with him that's on her.. these chicks think they can change a nigga
@@jaybossupsettinz1615 exactly….
And she's a eediat for staying wid w man that only had 20p to his name.
Nuff of you girls like being with these bummy guys because you think it puts you in a position of power and control.
You don't wanna be with a real man who's lead you will have to follow and dictate how the relationship is ran.
Furthermore most man aint getting gyal like that to even have the opportunity to cheat
@@anubis8918 please just shut uuuup🤣🤣
@@anubis8918 Lol this is why I say you men are confused breads when a women stays with a man that is financially well off they are gold diggers only with a man for money, they are opportunists never want to help build a man only want to take blah blah. Now we have a perfect example of a woman being with a man for who he is as a person, supporting a man financially, mentally and emotionally. Investing and building up a man and she is a dickhead for staying with him because he had 20p to his name?? There is no winning I swear
Drinking game. Every time he says “I’m gonna get to that” take a shot 😂😂
Drunk aff is the outcome 😂😂
@@coolinbythebay5326 😂
Shes a really good girl..Proper woman you can recognise class. Hes a cool cat too and can really relate to his honesty and struggle
This conversation is premature. Nothing constructive can come of it because the girl is still very obviously in pain. Both parties need to be healed to have a conversation like this. The whole time Castillo was talking she was being triggered and aggravated. Sad to see tbh. And I do understand what he was saying when he said he’s received his karma. I know plenty of men who have cheated and lost the only person they’ve ever loved and that’s a deep regret they live with.
Just a footnote that some people struggle to heal without receiving clarity and transparency on the issue in hand.
@@khalilyousfi367 is why communication is so important
This is so close to home, literally everything he said ... was me and this is just me 3 months ago, and I would go back to her but I know she deserves better I would rather live with that regret than being the toxic one who stays... sometimes getting girls makes you feel like an accomplishment and it takes you away from the actual life achievements
This is not on her. He has not done any work to change and actually address his behaviour and issues and it is very evident in how he shows no accountability. She is still hurt , yes, and she gets to be because nothing has been resolved and he very callously recites his past behaviour with no regard for her pain.
I am honestly just wondering why he wants to have this type of conversation in this environment and situation if he is regretful. Bringing her here to once more emotionally dumb all of this on her because this “internet thing” has really blown up for him, it just seems like he is once more using her like he was in the past and nothing about that says he is regretful to me personally.
It’s sad but I’ve seen a lot of men having this hierarchy of women the way he’s explaining, it’s definitely an ego thing with them.
The problem with men is that the ones that are truly confident and not intimidated by women are usually players. It’s an ego/power thing but some also use sex and female attention to mend trauma. It’s sad
@@tontonbonnet7397 or maybe variety is the spice of life and we just like the feeling of different girls.
Stop with the psychoanalysis man.🙄
@@anubis8918 I've had the privilege of being raised by men with multiple wives/baby mothers and experiencing a player phase myself. Variety is the spice of life but there truly are always roots behind everything. You will come to understand once you decide to
Man said he had 2 main consistent links, then other 4 consistent links, but she was the main girl ! This is actually pure madness !!! We really need to raise our sons better ! This is just disgusting ! And raise our daughters to leave early ! One week without communication and you are still calling him your man ??? Sad all through !!
He was the product of two crackheads who had a one night stand.
You know he didn't finish explaining the pyramid...
He didn't get to the inconsistent links then the one offs
He was raised fucked up. Not his fault but he should mature.
@@SuperJutah 🤣😂🤣😅
women can't raise a man how to be a man. He sound like he was raised by his homeboys.
This brother is BROKEN! He needs healing. This queen dodged a bullet
I admire this woman she’s beautiful and i love how she didn’t stutter once & held composure
I do however from another pov understand Castillos frustrations as a youngster still figuring life out etc. yet no one deserves to go through stuff like this :(
I just hope she gets everything she deserves in this life💕
Imagine being one of the links he didnt give a fuck about watching this
😁it iiis what it iiis😁
they’re just a link for a reason, they shouldn’t get in their feelings
It’s actually scary a man would go as far as meeting your family all the while knowing he don’t give a fuck. Streetz is COLD no wonder no one wants to be vulnerable anymore.
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they probably didnt give a fuck about him either.. a link is a link
“I’m gonna get to that…” “I’m gonna get to that…” 😂😂😂
Everytime😂😂
6:06 “U just used my government”
This guy is too funny😂
10:00
Castillo explaining his staffing network hierarchy 😂😂
The man explained it like a pyramid scheme 🤣🤣
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She had me glued when she said “is that why you abandoned yours”
Ahahahahaha what a plot twist
he doesn’t have kids you fucking nob😭
Castillo is the UK Future 100%
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Future is the American Castillo fr 😂😂 Castillo just a diff breed
“Yea I ride for my ni*gas* I lie to my bitch woo”
Don’t compare future to this guy🤣
I feel for this chap, I can so relate to him as I was when younger. Needs to just focus on himself, in terms of self development, and loving and accepting yourself, for the good, bad and in between
I think he definitely needs to go to a serious therapy camp where they help him overcome all these issues that’s allowed him to become the person he is today. He is crying for help and he has the intentions to try change things around. Not justifying anything he has done. She did dodge a bullet there 100% but it doesn’t take away from the fact that this man needs help
facts
You couldn’t say these things to her because you’d have to see the real ramifications of the hurt and pain you put her through. It’s cowardly. But you can tell her now that a check is attached to it to appear on this program lol
It was his own idea, he asked trend ctrl to record it, he wanted certain parts removed, they refused and stole his idea/content.
So now cause her more pain... good job buddy
He actually didn't want this aired. It was his idea and took it to trend central but then after certain things were said, he wanted some of it cut, but they refused and said it was the best content. He then said he didn't want any of it aired at all and they went ahead and did it anyway.
Wild smh
You can’t be in love with someone and still cheat. That isn’t what love is. It’s about trust, loyalty, etc. He lusted for her, wanted her to stay loyal while he had anyone else
You can you just have to live yourself more
Exactly.nigga started to stutter when she said if she can have side things too
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@@renartduromanderenart5894 It’s just a lack of respect for the other person
spot on!
“You just said my government name bruv”😭😭😭😭😭
My God, this guy is evil. He doesn't even know how bad he is
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He’s a funny guy but feeek he is acc heartless
He even wore the black forces 😭
Wouldn't say evil, that's a bit harsh
Hes not evil.
Hes got 2 schizophrenic parents.what do you expect
Shes obviously hurt and it's understandable. I agree with her, I hate it when men know their broken and incapable of being committed yet still get involved with women who are ready to commit. He is trying to say he has truly lost an amazing woman. Castillo please go to therapy. It's time to confront your childhood and the trauma that has truly affected you. At least he was willing to speak and be upfront and honest about his mistakes, but he needs to break the patterns.
Calm down Oprah
No one is forcing these women to go for those guys
it's crazy what woman let themselves go through all basic logic goes out the window in relationships. No matter who he is, how do you let yourself take this and not think should block him on everything and cut him off?? I've literally done that when I've met crazy yet Women fall into traps again and again. Wtf
@@generalblack5556 absolutely nobody is forcing them, but unfortunately it's the way society has programmed us to be. So we are constantly having to break free from that narrative of "fixing broken men". Many women try to do it but end up being taken down by these nutters. Sometimes these men blindsight women especially those who are naive, but we just have to be careful as women what men we allow into our lives.
@@vinesta I've made that mistake of excusing bad behaviour but never ever again. It makes you sick emotionally and physically and steals your peace. So horrible. It's the self work that helps women reach the point of never tolerating such foolishness and breaking free once and for all.
Honestly this whole conversation is making me feel sick… i just feel so sorry that she had to deal with this level of nonsense. She deserved so much better
He said "Only two ppl I love so much you and my grandmother aka my Mom!" But didn't he said he doesn't give AF about so many ppl. How can he love with that hatred. He cheated could of killed this young Lady with diseases
@@krystingrant6292 so true… and the lack of remorse is insane. He was ready to lose his sh*t when he thought she had cheated but is telling her she should be upset when he’d cheated multiple times for many years. The man has serious issues
We actually need to deep what Castillo is saying. This guy is A BROKEN MAN. I hope he’s healing. Its not an excuse for his bullshit behavior but this guy is bruised on the inside. His spirit is broken into pieces
What are you a therapist. Stop projecting
@@AB15151 are you dumb
@@AB15151 I am a therapist, and he’s not far off.
@@ohgeazy I'm also a therapist, and yes he is
Yeah I understand that tbh. His little clips that he makes is like he's experienced all that before and it's happened to him
cameraman was mad wierd trying to get angles of her crying in the back, like cmon let her breath a sec!!
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Want them to put the words “she cried” on the screen grow up…….
He did his job, whoever edited it kept it in.
So, the camera man isn't suppose to film? lol are you stupid?
I don't agree w/ the action but that's what he's paid for innit
Same w/ papperazi capturing intimateoments. It ain't right but that's what gardeners clicks
This is a good example of one of the reasons why I never understood why society tries to justify men cheating because of his "needs" or when society tries to say that "when a woman cheats its worse " .
Cheating is wrong vise versa
Yeah exactly, when men cheats it's "Natural and just men being men!" but when women cheat it's "evil".... How about they're both wrong? It's ok to be poly, just be honest about that instead of stringing people along while you cheat
She clearly wasn’t ready for this conversation. From looking at it’s at both perspectives I get what Castillo was saying but obviously it doesn’t justify what he done. However, she still too hurt about it because some of the points Castillo was making was him just explaining his thought process, but she was still too hurt to understand why he did the things he done. Ultimately, this just rubbed salt in the wound for her.
Exactly, I picked that up as well, that's why I was saying she needs to heal first because she couldn't even see that, he was explaining his thought process at that time which is something most people would love to hear from their exes, most people would love this type of closure from an ex that did them wrong, just to know how they ere thinking and why they did the things they did
Right she was too in her feelings to think with proper logic.
He didn't love her. He loved the benefits he was getting out of her. He also knew he didn't have the tools to ensure she'd stick around so instead of being honest and freeing her from a bad situation, he just played along until she took the rose tinted glasses off. 😕 You wouldn't jeopardise a good situation just because you thought you could get away with it, if you truly cared for your situation.
You know everything. Not everyone is the same.
This is why you heal before getting into relationships. Hurt people hurt people. This guys unbringing, and life in general was very difficult this left scars, no matter how nonchalant he is when talking about it. Broken people also go down the road of promiscuity.. Its a pity he hurt this lady . Hopefully she can heal also
Am I missing something? Why does this man think getting to know the real him is a prize? 😂 She dodged a bullet not having kids with him.
When did he say that
🎯 right he hovers that over her head to justify his nonsense and keep her hooked
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@@ernykwame4285 😂😂😂😂
@@ernykwame4285😂😂😂😂😂
this guy made a pyramid scheme of the gyal he cheated on her with 🤣
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I appreciate his willingness to open up. I wish she could understand him better. Yet I’m empathetic to her hurt.
Can you IMAGINE this was a woman saying that shit to a man?? He’s sick
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He's a man not a woman. We are not the same so stop comparing us
@@ashfoyowa6689 both people in this scenario were in a relationship. Doesn’t matter the gender. One used the other’s trust and love to feel better about themselves, expecting them to fully commit to them whilst sleeping around within the relationship. If a man wants to cheat on his committed girlfriend, how is it any different for a girlfriend to cheat on her committed boyfriend? They’re both shit people, doesn’t matter the biology behind it. If a man can’t commit because “ooo my penis needs variety i have biological needs and i wanna spread my seed!!” then go date a cave woman who’s gonna be fine with it - don’t find someone willing to commit to just betray them behind their back. It’s 2022, women choose not to have children or care for a man their whole lives. Men can choose not to be cheating horn-dogs.
@Dr Flu there isn’t
@@ashfoyowa6689and if he was you guys would be calling her the devils incarnate... But in this case.. aww he's so strong for being a coward
I don't know how this woman survived with this man for +-4 years.
I have so much respect for her
He has no feelings, so nothing stops him from being immoral . He will have an excuse for all things and take zero accountability. He will forever be in this infantile state clutching onto his traumatic upbringing as a get out of jail card if he fails to commit to therapy. The problem is as the money runs out and the looks fade, he will fade into obscurity and miss the attention he so desperately craves.
this comment is so real. You see it happen to so many of these types of men as they grow old
hes a sociopath
He’s so Brutally honest I love it
She’s a certified bad ass , such a beautiful human being
This can’t be reall😂😂the way he sat the staring at the poor girl when she went on a break😂😂😂😂😂😂
She is beautiful and I felt the rawness of his honesty..
I believe he has never fallen out of love with her and the guilt has ate him up because he's now fully aware of how his actions affected not just her but his connection with her and is now taking accountability for his actions which he failed on during a time in his life where he couldn't understand himself let alone understand how important it is to respect and acknowledge the one great thing in your life...
I'm a believer in second chances, change is inevitable and in my opinion he sounds sincere in his delivery...
He's learning and growing you can't knock him for that at least 💯
The worst thing she can do to herself is go back to this simp he's a narcissist .. A man who sleeps around has no respect for himself and that's the worst kind of man
@@Haileymum254 I'm definitely not suggesting she does in any shape or form but people can change, change is inevitable if you want to become a different person to who you once were especially going through trauma from a young age it tailors your mind way different to someone who was raised right with morals...
This might be one of the realest conversations I've ever listened to.
This man is sick. Trying to wiggle his way out of a trap. He became a scientist, pyramid schemer, philosopher all at once 🤣🤣🤣
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Haha full of shit and a master manipulator it's actually quite amazing to see
i feel so bad for her he clearly didn't care about her during the relationship or he wouldn't have 2 CONSISTENT LINKS AND ANOTHER 4 BENEATH THAT LIKE WTF
A man is capable of doing it doesn’t mean it’s right or wrong but it is biology
@@Phoenix-gu5lm bro they know this but they don’t respond to logic, emotion first
Why would he think to care about her if kno one cared about him his whole life
@@rathergetpaiid5426 he claims he does
@@Phoenix-gu5lm it’s always wrong tho just break up with the person it’s simple
I feel for the girl so much. Imagine having to deal and heal from her breakup with questions unsolved and moving on with out any closure even though she tired to get answers from him. Then years later, him finally deciding to unravel that whole situation, but for what? like that’s so much for her and I couldn’t even last the fast few words he said. It’s like opening up old scars and having to heal all over again my goodness. This is pure torture.
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