This comment is absurd. I dont think he necessarily doesnt respect women, but it takes a clear lack of emotion to be able to lie to 9 people all at the same time, have sex with them, and leave them its called using people. is it wrong if consensual?? no, but when he is lying to them he is hurting them and as he seems in this video that doesnt affect him very much at all. when you go around using people instead of creating connections with them there is something emotionally lacking its common sense. but to directly rebuttal what you just commented it’s easy to except how your life is and move on when you’re not the one getting hurt. AND THATS ON GOD
@@Ellebelle2565 i was only commenting on his lack of emotions when speaking on his life. As I too have a lack of an emotional connection to my up bringing. As it’s easier to deal with when I speak on it in a matter of a fact type of way. My opinion on how he treats women I kept to myself. As I can’t understand how/why he treats and speaks to women as if they’re just objects
This guy is the definition of dealing with the cards he's been dealt. He just accepts it and doesn't blame anything on his circumstances. Actually rate it tbf.
The irony is that she accuses him to not have emotion and be "cold' but when he tells her about all the terrible things that happened in his past she doesn't seem bothered at all or show ANY compassion.
@@YoungGrizzly ye but he is like an open book, he says it how he goes and when women decide to have anything to do with him they know what he’s about so why do they need defending?
"Hosts" are the most vacuous people on the planet. The majority think its about them instead of their guests. I swear everyone that wants to be on the podium don't have fuck all to say.
This is the second time im seeing him talk to a girl on camera, the first time was chian on grilling. And what i notice is that he is really being real, and acceoting, but women cant accept that he is o.k. with who he is, and how honest he is. Honestly, wished more people was like him.
@@itsyaaveragegirl get a life do u think that a man should bang bare women at the same time without protection and be so deluded that the women aren't cheating
@@denisehomestlno5470 what your saying has nothing to do with how she is trying to be a therapist. You can interview someone without trying to psychoanalyze them. Women have the tendency to do that. And to answer the question if the sex is good most women won't cheat or sleep with someone else
Some women are a walking paradox. Here you have a man saying he likes big women(cankles and all), but Zeze thinks it's weird and yet I bet she is one of those girls that would say," women are beautiful in all shapes and sizes". The devil is in the details!
@@TK-cs1qc being disconnected doesnt mean you've moved on - just means you found a way to cope so you can take care of the daily upkeep of life. It's a legitimate and common response to trauma that works for some types of lives but doesn't work if you're trying to do something like building a strong family of your own lol. He said if he thinks about it, it has the capability to fuck him up. He's not "wrong" in that response.
He’s an example of going through trauma but not letting that trauma consume his life, just accepting the card and playing with it to get the best outcome, on deep man to man level, got mad respect
Considering all he went through and the genetic he holds, he is a well-adjusted individual. He is calm while talking about the worse, he laughs when attacked and provoked by her.
Provoked? She caught herself when she was being judgemental, and admitted it. She didn't get caught up in debates. His attitudes on relationships are pretty sad and unhealthy but shes still connecting with him and they even share a to of laughs. He even wanted to hang out with her afterward - I imagine not for sex either, just to be friends. Cant imagine he has a lot of platonic, female friends lol to me it shows he was comfortable with her. Having someone share a different of opinion or telling you they disagree with your actions doesn't mean you're being provoked - its not that deep.
@@sputniksweetheart5187 of course a woman ofthe same shitty character like zeze would defend her judgey, stank attitude, even if she admitted to it, makes no difference, she still judged.
Yeah cause everyone walkiing around trying to be politically correct and don't even know how to be themselves this dude here got be my brother from another mother I can relate to this dude heavy!
@@westerwester3273 so being himself is obnoxious 🤣🤦🏿♂️people just want to be politically correct and use these dumb as words and terms cause you authentic he being what every human should be themselves has nothing to do with being obnoxious people
ZeZe the literal definition of “give anybody a camera and they think they’re a talk show host” this guy is giving her great insight and her natural instinct is to belittle him rather than find understanding and relations
that's funny you got that because I thought she did a pretty decent job of catching herself when she was saying judgemental things - and I got a lot of insight from their conversation about who he is as a person.
I think he’s a genuine person. I appreciate how he just accepts his past for what it is. Especially the biological dad thing. I feel the same way about mine, he really is just some random dude I couldn’t care less for him. Good on him for being true to himself.
Why underate his grandmother? He said his grandmother IS his mother, there is nothing complicated about that. Why does she expect him to show her emotion, she is an interviewer not a close connection. His relationship with his mother is difficult as she has serious mental health issues. Once she realised that, she should have moved on and not continue to press him. You cannot determine how people should feel. Not everyone shows emotion to the outside world. I rate her for touching subjects that are difficult but I feel she does not understand mental health otherwise she would have approached the subject more compassionately. Schizophrenia is a very serious illness and he probably wants to put it in the back of his mind and address his own way.
No, he just doesn’t see a problem. Your stance isn’t any different than hers, your both projecting your bias instead of listening to what he’s saying. He made it very clear that he doesn’t feel a way about it because for him his grandma is is mother. Second he’s fully aware of his conception and he doesn’t have feelings of abandonment. He doesn’t seem like he has an issue talking about it or telling people. He’s 100% okay with the facts of life and moves on. Things that may seem like a sensitive topic to you isn’t a sensitive topic for others
Rob Biologically, no, you’re right, but relationship-wise, yes. For example, I grew up with my Mum only and my Dad wasn’t in my life. As an adult now, my Dad is now in my life but we don’t have any kind of relationship even though I am around him often. If a child don’t grow up with one parent (or both, in his case), the relationship isn’t going to be the same. I personally have a friend who grew up with his grandmother, but although his Mum was always around, he actually calls his grandmother “Mum”. Not everybody’s upbringing is the same.
Rob I wouldn’t say that every single person would care. For example, when asked on more than one occasion, 50 Cent is doesn’t care about finding out who his real father is. Some will care some won’t. But it’s like in the interview Zeze is trying to draw emotions from Castillo that aren’t even there.
Being honest is telling people you aren't the only one. He honestly speaking after the fact. He was with someone for 3 1/2 yrs who didn't know he was seeing other people. Really. Liars never win.
this guy is how everyone should be. this is the optimal result to therapy. if you are getting counselling for trauma this is what you should aspire for, learn to take it in the chin and keep moving forward. He knows life is hard and you have to handle the hard because it never gets easier.
@@MrFasho123 Does alcohol trigger Schizophrenia? I haven't read anything about that. Weed has been shown to trigger Schizophrenia in people who are susceptible.
@@leehalloway8787 about weed I heard that it can both trigger but also help people with it. I guess it depends on content where the kind with higher THC content and less CBD is bad for schzophrenia. Was long time ago I read it but to my understanding people with such things shouldnt use anything that alters mind.
this guy could be a massive star in america. we love poking fun at british people, cause it gets yall so riled up. but we fuck with this guy. hes real af
This lady is trying to one up him. Either she's not okay with the reality he's dealing with or she's uncomfortable because she doesn't understand his reality. It is what it is. And he's okay with it. Sniper on all digital platforms 🤘🏾
The irony of this interview. This Zeze women is actually getting in the way of her own exclusive. This man is open and candidly honest. As crass as he is, most female viewers would appreciate this male insight. Instead of trying to analyse him, and imprint your impression, just leave the confirmation bias and appreciate his honesty. To boot, she seemed annoyed that, she wasn't his type.
It's called attachment theory, where a child who didn't form secure bonds with primary carers struggle to do so in adult life. It's a trauma that denies you intimacy and connection with other people.
This is a classic case of a woman and a mans perspective on life. He’s been dealt a terrible hand and is dealing with it as he can and She’s had her life and wants to analyse it to death.
People who say he’s emotionless don’t understand that he’s actually very in tune with his emotions. He just knows the reality of how the world thinks and works so he can control it.
Facts. Cos you reach a point where on the surface you don't really feel anything and just feel numb to things which is mainly due to how your feelings have sunk deep down internally to a point where it doesn't bother you like that unless you just think deeply about it.
Zeze I would suggest you to show more empathy when asking people about their family background. The way you came across was very ignorant and rude. When Castillo shared how is biological mother put him over hot water as a child don't compare that to your own mother and share "my mom didn't do that". Yes this was funny but it made me sad seeing someone share such hardship and hide it with humor. I pray he sees a therapist or some sort of counsel because it's clear he may have been using sex as a coping method or to fill that void.
The thing that disappoints me the most is that she will have all this energy for someone like Castillo who’s just living a positive life then when people like Pastor Tobi who are basically criminals come on she will be all humble and respectful
Because she's small minded. She doesn't get that because she's never been through that It can't be that way. In reality she's hella stupid man. A lot of things she says in this interview is so stupid and small minded
@@princessd3966 but how hard is to comprehend what he's saying? Assuming English is her first language, he shouldn't need to explain something that's so simple. 🤷🏾♂️
First time seeing this Zeze lady, she comes across as wildly unintelligent. She lacks the emotional intelligence to ask sensitive questions! Castilo seems like a nice cool guy, he answered her questions well.
Thank you, this is like maybe the second or third video of hers I watched, and the more I listen to her than more I realise like you said she is wildly unintelligent. But she thinks she’s smarter than she really is..
This is a classic case of women not listening and wanting a man to tell them what they want to hear. I know it's an interview but she have damn near asked every question twice with a stanch look on her face. The guy is not switching up and she wishes she is as likable as he is but she will blame it on being a black women. Just accept it, people just don't like her like that.
I really felt uncomfortable watching this , had to stop . This is why you shouldn’t explain your trauma to everyone , she probably didn’t mean but she was so judgy and just forceful about his past . I get the girlfriend stuff but with his situation with his family that’s just wrong and dangerous don’t push on peoples trauma cause you are definitely not prepared for what will come out . As much as we don’t think some people need to be emotional distant from themselves because dealing with what’s really underneath would kill them .
Rumbiie Mudzengi every interview is the same with her they are all awkward make me turn it off also hope people see this woman for the useless interviewer she is
My thing is if you're not well versed within a subject, don't talk about it. Don't try and engage or even lead a debate about it. Zizzi should have allowed Castillo to lead and express his life experience without interruption. She would have learnt quite a bit. Her lack of emotional intelligence is troubling. She's in her own ignorant world but these type of interviews, she needs to step back and leave it alone. I'm interested to see her style of interviewing with an older man or woman. I'm sure she would be more humble, allowing them to lead and wouldn't ask such stupid questions and have nonsensical responses. Oh my goodness, this girl is jarring beyond belief.
I don't like rap or hip hop at all. Yet I'm binging on Castillo and his interviews because I find the man so fascinatingly hilarious and insightful. I'd enjoy to be his friend.
Truth is that there are so many guys like him out there but they won't tell the truth to the girls in their lives, not even on camera. It takes a lot of guts to be this honest about the life you've lived at a point you're becoming famous. I wish Castilo success.
castillo genuinely so realistic and jus accepted his life for what it is, but fr tho the interviewer fr trippen and maddddd judgey yk? i hada scyts/bipolar disorder parent and she used to fr be so caring and loving one second but then crazy tryn kill you typa shi the next yk? and overtime fr you jus accept your parent for who they are fr bc you can’t genuinely speak to someone like that specially if they have the narcissistic personality disorder it’s impossible so eventually you stop resenting and just understand them and let them have there moments bc i mean they can’t really control it yk? i mean idk i feel castillo for not blaming his parents fr it’s jus how they are and i feel him for that bc i’ve been growing to that point aswel jus accepting and moving on yk?
She wants him to be traumatised. She can’t accept he’s from a different background. She has seen her own mates go crazy with average upbringing, but can’t believe this guy is sane and thriving with a more horrible upbringing
I think she fancies him; because her questions are OFF. She's negative and her inquisitiveness makes her come across with no empathy, and abrupt. Zeze pried too hard into his personal territory with a dismissive whip. He composed himself and replied well; but never set a boundary. Just open and ready to answer like an open plug socket.
This is the best thing I accidentally came across on RUclips. She is highlighting all the ways he's compensating for his childhood trauma and he's like, nope that just life. THOROUGHLY enjoyed this sh!t.
@@Blkberry79 ironic she was pretending to care about him being "emotionless" but she was constantly taking digs at him and making fun of his personality in a mean way, where he was nice the whole way through. Most people are fake and she's no exception
He’s so honest it makes PC or dishonest people uncomfortable. Interviewers ( the broads) get mad when he talks about sex but they’re the ones who bring it up .
He's just honest, open and real and she keeps trying to say he's wrong for being so. Also, not everyone wants to be in relationships, get married or be monogamous.
He’s probably told the story of his parents so many times that’s why he has become so desensitised.. deep down he is an emotional person.. seems he doesn’t want to be put in a vulnerable position..
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He doesn’t have a lack of emotions. He’s literally accepted his life for what it is and moved on with it
Exactly zeze is tapped 😂😂😂 lol
Facts
Amen
This comment is absurd.
I dont think he necessarily doesnt respect women, but it takes a clear lack of emotion to be able to lie to 9 people all at the same time, have sex with them, and leave them
its called using people.
is it wrong if consensual?? no, but when he is lying to them he is hurting them and as he seems in this video that doesnt affect him very much at all.
when you go around using people instead of creating connections with them there is something emotionally lacking its common sense.
but to directly rebuttal what you just commented it’s easy to except how your life is and move on when you’re not the one getting hurt. AND THATS ON GOD
@@Ellebelle2565 i was only commenting on his lack of emotions when speaking on his life. As I too have a lack of an emotional connection to my up bringing. As it’s easier to deal with when I speak on it in a matter of a fact type of way.
My opinion on how he treats women I kept to myself. As I can’t understand how/why he treats and speaks to women as if they’re just objects
This guy is the definition of dealing with the cards he's been dealt. He just accepts it and doesn't blame anything on his circumstances. Actually rate it tbf.
it's called emotionally numb
But you suppose to respect that no reason to dwell on situations outside of your control
Legend
he says that in his song yuh nuh "played the cards i was dealt"
Khepera CIC how so?
No lie, his personality on Aba and Preach's recap made me search out his music...Sniper available on all platforms, bruv🤷🏾♂️😎
digital bruv
😂😂😂
That's how i found out about him as well. Shout out to Aba and preach
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😂😂😂
This man's self awareness and assurance literally makes normal people feel insecure,Look at the interviewer 😂😂😂
Because normal people are insecure.
I admire the guy - i rarely say that about men tbh
WHAT’S NORMAL THO?
Big facts, it's like they feel that you loving your self diminishes them smh
Or maybe he’s just an unapologetic menace. He needs to go sit down since he has gray hairs in his beard and he’s simply too old for this shit
She's tryna to heal him, but man was never broken to be healed.
Heal? Wtf is that? Shout out to my podiatry community brev
@@GiovanniGiorgio74LMAOOO
this guy is the embodiment of "it eez what it eeez"
🤣🤣🤣😂
Underrated comment 😂
Absolutely
😂😂😂😂
@@TK-cs1qc I have I have PT Cmz🎈
Only in England can you have a polite hood guy like this
Chile... Anyways so
@@justk6683 terrible use of aave
@@abdi9308 it’s not
@@abdi9308 wtf is aave
@@z-brother2351 African American American English
The irony is that she accuses him to not have emotion and be "cold' but when he tells her about all the terrible things that happened in his past she doesn't seem bothered at all or show ANY compassion.
Yeah because she is there in defense of the women not him.
@@YoungGrizzly ye but he is like an open book, he says it how he goes and when women decide to have anything to do with him they know what he’s about so why do they need defending?
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It only applies to her view of the world. If it doesn't fit her view it doesn't. Typical double standard person
"Hosts" are the most vacuous people on the planet. The majority think its about them instead of their guests. I swear everyone that wants to be on the podium don't have fuck all to say.
This is the second time im seeing him talk to a girl on camera, the first time was chian on grilling. And what i notice is that he is really being real, and acceoting, but women cant accept that he is o.k. with who he is, and how honest he is. Honestly, wished more people was like him.
Right it was like she was trying to have him have emotional issues and push the black men have unresolved trauma narrative. It was so annoying
@@itsyaaveragegirl get a life do u think that a man should bang bare women at the same time without protection and be so deluded that the women aren't cheating
@@denisehomestlno5470 what your saying has nothing to do with how she is trying to be a therapist. You can interview someone without trying to psychoanalyze them. Women have the tendency to do that. And to answer the question if the sex is good most women won't cheat or sleep with someone else
u can't be real in this life lol. You just get cancelled quick fr
@Zih Vil lmao you think this guy is evil? Go outside
After that grilling episode I went on a Castillo binge. He's way too cool. This my 2nd go around. 😂
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@@leonjustleon bro, u see Castillo new video paid in full? He GOT that grilling chick at the end 😂
😭😭😭😂😂😂 guess I ain’t the only one
@@daviedood2503 i know and he has his own show now called clout chasers
Facts
Some women are a walking paradox. Here you have a man saying he likes big women(cankles and all), but Zeze thinks it's weird and yet I bet she is one of those girls that would say," women are beautiful in all shapes and sizes". The devil is in the details!
RIGHT!!!!
Wordddd! It’s actually a bit annoying the way girls don’t wanna realise they can be so hypocritical
Bruh you on point 🎯
... Female Accountability, not out yet on all digital platforms.
Some women just wanna argue, at any cost 😂😂
He sounds like he's accepted life and moved on ..
*accepted? Maybe???
@@PJ-po7fu Maybe what?
I swear and she’s tryna bring up some emotional response that was never there
@@TK-cs1qc yeah that was so annoying
@@TK-cs1qc being disconnected doesnt mean you've moved on - just means you found a way to cope so you can take care of the daily upkeep of life. It's a legitimate and common response to trauma that works for some types of lives but doesn't work if you're trying to do something like building a strong family of your own lol. He said if he thinks about it, it has the capability to fuck him up. He's not "wrong" in that response.
He’s an example of going through trauma but not letting that trauma consume his life, just accepting the card and playing with it to get the best outcome, on deep man to man level, got mad respect
I know this was done over a year ago but I was secretly expecting him to say "sniper out on all digital platforms bruv"😂😂😂
Not only you buh still sniper out on all platforms 😎
there was so many questions where i was thinking if sniper was out his exact reply would be 'sniper out now on all digital platforms' lool
What was happening with the girl holding the camera at the End of the video?
Was she calling to end of the video or what?😅
Having him as a friend must me very funny 😂
Freja Polska he cray cray
Trussssss
Kufre Inua pp”
Wouldn’t want to be his friend
He only has male friends 😁
People with most painful past are the funniest. This guy is legit crazy 😂
😂😭😭
A I I think that’s how he’s getting over his past you know, cracking jokes and smashing everything in sight.
Facts
Coping mechanisms
They are often comedians. They have to find ways to bring humor to their turbulent life.
I don’t know why Zeze finds it hard to understand that Castillo sees his grandma as his mom.....
She's a modern woman
She's a numpty that's y
Considering all he went through and the genetic he holds, he is a well-adjusted individual. He is calm while talking about the worse, he laughs when attacked and provoked by her.
Provoked? She caught herself when she was being judgemental, and admitted it. She didn't get caught up in debates. His attitudes on relationships are pretty sad and unhealthy but shes still connecting with him and they even share a to of laughs. He even wanted to hang out with her afterward - I imagine not for sex either, just to be friends. Cant imagine he has a lot of platonic, female friends lol to me it shows he was comfortable with her.
Having someone share a different of opinion or telling you they disagree with your actions doesn't mean you're being provoked - its not that deep.
@@sputniksweetheart5187 of course a woman ofthe same shitty character like zeze would defend her judgey, stank attitude, even if she admitted to it, makes no difference, she still judged.
@@sputniksweetheart5187 his attitude towards relationships is healthy
I'M JUST WAITING FOR THE PART WHERE HE SAYS "BIG MAN TING YEAH IT'S NOT LOOKING GOOD BROV"😂😂😂😂😂
No wonder he only spends £40 on a date. He’s got 9 girlfriends 😂😂
How much do the girls spend on dates?
Is 40 too small or what
That's a good amount to spend
Castillo is the men we should take a page from his book
Kadeem Liburd if by a good ammount to spend you mean 1 course each and 1 drink at a push then sure 😂
This interview killed me man. He didn't even try to be funny
zeze stop trying to get into the mans soul. He is comfortable with who he is
MUMS
It's like she wants him to have a break down, he's in a good way for what he's been through
@@deffmuzic I mean she is an interviewer and not a therapist that’s the goal to pull in views.
Fr tryna make him feel ashamed of himself
@@Sara-zi7xq definitely a shit one tho
This guy is so nonchalant it's crazy. I'm here for it
He’s been through so much and still remains candid as he shares his story
Definition of no 2 fx given
@@Pssst.ByTheWay 😂😂😂😂
He seems secure within himself, however his interviewers seem to be unsure of themselves and their place in this world.
Nailed it 👏🏾👏🏾
these are all her problems! she needs the help
Yeah cause everyone walkiing around trying to be politically correct and don't even know how to be themselves this dude here got be my brother from another mother I can relate to this dude heavy!
No matter how seemingly obnoxious he was,
His sense of life acceptance proved he's 5x more mature than the interviewer
@@westerwester3273 so being himself is obnoxious 🤣🤦🏿♂️people just want to be politically correct and use these dumb as words and terms cause you authentic he being what every human should be themselves has nothing to do with being obnoxious people
ZeZe the literal definition of “give anybody a camera and they think they’re a talk show host” this guy is giving her great insight and her natural instinct is to belittle him rather than find understanding and relations
😂😂🤣
that's funny you got that because I thought she did a pretty decent job of catching herself when she was saying judgemental things - and I got a lot of insight from their conversation about who he is as a person.
I wanted to say the same thing! She’s also trying to be a psychologist
It’s a show. Keyword “show”
Yeah ... she irritates me... she is so judgemental
love this man. stoicism at it's pure form. wish him all the best luck!
exactly!
I think he’s a genuine person. I appreciate how he just accepts his past for what it is. Especially the biological dad thing. I feel the same way about mine, he really is just some random dude I couldn’t care less for him. Good on him for being true to himself.
Does zeze think she's a qualified therapist
Please
s k right
She'd do a lot of damage if she was
Innit
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Why underate his grandmother? He said his grandmother IS his mother, there is nothing complicated about that. Why does she expect him to show her emotion, she is an interviewer not a close connection. His relationship with his mother is difficult as she has serious mental health issues. Once she realised that, she should have moved on and not continue to press him. You cannot determine how people should feel. Not everyone shows emotion to the outside world. I rate her for touching subjects that are difficult but I feel she does not understand mental health otherwise she would have approached the subject more compassionately. Schizophrenia is a very serious illness and he probably wants to put it in the back of his mind and address his own way.
Patricia Robinson I just see your comment now. I posted the same kind of thing. I totally agree with you. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
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No, he just doesn’t see a problem. Your stance isn’t any different than hers, your both projecting your bias instead of listening to what he’s saying. He made it very clear that he doesn’t feel a way about it because for him his grandma is is mother. Second he’s fully aware of his conception and he doesn’t have feelings of abandonment. He doesn’t seem like he has an issue talking about it or telling people. He’s 100% okay with the facts of life and moves on. Things that may seem like a sensitive topic to you isn’t a sensitive topic for others
@@itsyaaveragegirl If that is your interpretation, you are entitled to your opinion.
She attracted to him and want to "fix" him.
Why she keep pressing on the parent ting when he made it clear that he sees his Grandmother as his Mum!
Rob How do you mean Bro?
Rob Biologically, no, you’re right, but relationship-wise, yes. For example, I grew up with my Mum only and my Dad wasn’t in my life. As an adult now, my Dad is now in my life but we don’t have any kind of relationship even though I am around him often. If a child don’t grow up with one parent (or both, in his case), the relationship isn’t going to be the same. I personally have a friend who grew up with his grandmother, but although his Mum was always around, he actually calls his grandmother “Mum”. Not everybody’s upbringing is the same.
Rob I wouldn’t say that every single person would care. For example, when asked on more than one occasion, 50 Cent is doesn’t care about finding out who his real father is. Some will care some won’t. But it’s like in the interview Zeze is trying to draw emotions from Castillo that aren’t even there.
Rob This is true. Who knows.
@Rob bro you thinking too deep into it, some people just don't care. It's nothing psychological, just no energy to give to them situations
I love this guy's honesty he doesn't have ego. He's just straight up and seems unbothered... This is the way you should face life
Being honest is telling people you aren't the only one. He honestly speaking after the fact. He was with someone for 3 1/2 yrs who didn't know he was seeing other people. Really. Liars never win.
this guy is how everyone should be. this is the optimal result to therapy. if you are getting counselling for trauma this is what you should aspire for, learn to take it in the chin and keep moving forward. He knows life is hard and you have to handle the hard because it never gets easier.
He is super smart for staying away from weed, that would definitely trigger certain people who are susceptible to schizophrenia.
Problem is he said he still drinks alcohol which is a drug that alters your mind as well. If you agraid of triggering it you shouldnt drink either.
@@MrFasho123 Does alcohol trigger Schizophrenia? I haven't read anything about that. Weed has been shown to trigger Schizophrenia in people who are susceptible.
@@leehalloway8787 about weed I heard that it can both trigger but also help people with it. I guess it depends on content where the kind with higher THC content and less CBD is bad for schzophrenia.
Was long time ago I read it but to my understanding people with such things shouldnt use anything that alters mind.
@@MrFasho123 weed does not help on Schizo..never
What bullshit....weed leads onto psychosis not schizo....u daft? Try cigarettes and u will know what a schizo is....sheeesh
I respect this guy so much I cant even explain it
🤢 He's a psychopath
Why do you think that?
@@sbg6876 Eh what's it to you?
@@sbg6876 cant be any worse than how some black women speak about men
@@wutgreens443 really isn’t
No self pity from this guy. I rate him.
this guy could be a massive star in america. we love poking fun at british people, cause it gets yall so riled up. but we fuck with this guy. hes real af
He is not emotionless.. he is stoic ...that's it 😂😂
This man is one of the most naturally funny people I have ever seen.
Come to Jamaica
Castillo seems normal lmaooo what else can he do it’s all in the past. Do you want him to break down? It’s his story and he accepted it.
Is it me or is she tryin to tell him how to feel about his childhood😑,
Cherylin Castillo Exactly!!
Nah she’s just tryna get some emotion out of him🤷🏿♀️
@@rodiyah2007 he has emotions, maybe not the conventional type.
Tbh I wouldn't show any emotion with this kind of vibe she is givinh
This interviewer is insensitive
“My mom didn’t put me in a hot bath and try to make me a chicken” 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I come back to this part when I need to laugh
This lady is trying to one up him. Either she's not okay with the reality he's dealing with or she's uncomfortable because she doesn't understand his reality. It is what it is. And he's okay with it.
Sniper on all digital platforms 🤘🏾
ZeZe’s questions are a bit leading... he has explained himself well. Top man 👨🏾
Thank you
She wants to force pain from this man.
Bravo Anane Yes! 🤷🏽♂️
Trying to do a ‘Piers Morgan’ on him!
You made my day with that comment😅😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Legend
@@marloncampbell4708 in his words is that a fair point haha
She keeps digging into him like she want him to shit out his soul to her.
The irony of this interview. This Zeze women is actually getting in the way of her own exclusive. This man is open and candidly honest. As crass as he is, most female viewers would appreciate this male insight. Instead of trying to analyse him, and imprint your impression, just leave the confirmation bias and appreciate his honesty. To boot, she seemed annoyed that, she wasn't his type.
🎯
period
Facts, nuff said
He is the realist guy I ever seen and people can appreciate that.
Please understand that not every broken person can be fixed.
Castillo always saying bruv 🤣
It's called attachment theory, where a child who didn't form secure bonds with primary carers struggle to do so in adult life. It's a trauma that denies you intimacy and connection with other people.
I though so too. Definitely some trauma behind his logic.
We need to stop with the white man's labels.
@@freedom7508 don't speak english then
yh definitely ive lowkey been thru the same situation and ive got the mindset
ItsRy me too. I can’t bond with men
This is a classic case of a woman and a mans perspective on life. He’s been dealt a terrible hand and is dealing with it as he can and She’s had her life and wants to analyse it to death.
no women don't analyze shit, they have perspective in their head and every man should follow it
He isn't dealing with it, he's accepted it
I actually like his personality...🤷🏽♂️
People who say he’s emotionless don’t understand that he’s actually very in tune with his emotions. He just knows the reality of how the world thinks and works so he can control it.
Facts. Cos you reach a point where on the surface you don't really feel anything and just feel numb to things which is mainly due to how your feelings have sunk deep down internally to a point where it doesn't bother you like that unless you just think deeply about it.
This guy is a warrior🌺🌼🌷wishing him all the love and peace in the world.
ZEZE is the UK Wendy Williams. This interview is a joke.
thats offensive to wendy
The thing is Wendy knows her facts but Zeze doesn't know what the hell she's talking about 🤦🏾♀️.
It's unfortunate when people don't realize we display emotion and trauma differently
Exactly women are different from man
@@kingblack3837 I agree
He is far far more self-aware than her.
Zeze I would suggest you to show more empathy when asking people about their family background. The way you came across was very ignorant and rude. When Castillo shared how is biological mother put him over hot water as a child don't compare that to your own mother and share "my mom didn't do that". Yes this was funny but it made me sad seeing someone share such hardship and hide it with humor. I pray he sees a therapist or some sort of counsel because it's clear he may have been using sex as a coping method or to fill that void.
Exactly and this is why men find it difficult to express themselves emotionally. It's due to girls like this interviewer.
I'm not a fan of her interviewing technique & skills. To ignorant, cold 🥶 and lacks thought or direction.
The thing that disappoints me the most is that she will have all this energy for someone like Castillo who’s just living a positive life then when people like Pastor Tobi who are basically criminals come on she will be all humble and respectful
She was going off of his energy.. you can see that she was trying to understand him but he’s not showing any emotion lol plus he laughed at it
All of you need to shut up brav if he's comfortable he's comfortable. if he had a problem then he would state it
Why is it hard to understand his gran is his mum period
Because she's small minded. She doesn't get that because she's never been through that It can't be that way. In reality she's hella stupid man. A lot of things she says in this interview is so stupid and small minded
why do u wana tell ppl you're on period?
Caramel Lisha But it’s not his mom that’s the point. He was abandoned by his mom & that will mess with your head. PeriodT.
@@princessd3966 but how hard is to comprehend what he's saying? Assuming English is her first language, he shouldn't need to explain something that's so simple. 🤷🏾♂️
She's obviously culturally deficient
He was barebacking 3 different women and had the nerve to say he didn’t trust some of them . 😂😭
Most of them don't deserve trust
I actually like him.... He has accepted "it is what it is" & not dwelling on anything that's happened to him.... He is actually a nice funny person 😊
First time seeing this Zeze lady, she comes across as wildly unintelligent. She lacks the emotional intelligence to ask sensitive questions! Castilo seems like a nice cool guy, he answered her questions well.
She's not professional
We all can hide pain . But it shows in his relationships
Thank you, this is like maybe the second or third video of hers I watched, and the more I listen to her than more I realise like you said she is wildly unintelligent. But she thinks she’s smarter than she really is..
They were my girlfriends, so I know they were bless 🤣🤣🤣
Crazy 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Love this cat. He's honest and open and I don't understand why she's trying to have a heartfelt moment. He's owning her.
I saw the disappointment on her face when he told her she's 2 skinny🤣🤣🤣
@@vixenuk2609 that’s facts I was thinking the same 😂😂
She's got a lot of confidence for someone who looks like Mac from Predator in a fucking wig.
😭😭😭😭😭
This is a classic case of women not listening and wanting a man to tell them what they want to hear. I know it's an interview but she have damn near asked every question twice with a stanch look on her face. The guy is not switching up and she wishes she is as likable as he is but she will blame it on being a black women. Just accept it, people just don't like her like that.
This guy is just too raw. I need to cleanse myself after this video 😂😂
Tobi Adelaja man said cleanse 😂😭
I swear down 😩😂🤣
Lmfao cleanseeeeeee get the sageee!!!!!! Palo santo 🤣
Brudda man had to have a shower half way through the ting
Hahahaha
I really felt uncomfortable watching this , had to stop . This is why you shouldn’t explain your trauma to everyone , she probably didn’t mean but she was so judgy and just forceful about his past . I get the girlfriend stuff but with his situation with his family that’s just wrong and dangerous don’t push on peoples trauma cause you are definitely not prepared for what will come out . As much as we don’t think some people need to be emotional distant from themselves because dealing with what’s really underneath would kill them .
Rumbiie Mudzengi every interview is the same with her they are all awkward make me turn it off also hope people see this woman for the useless interviewer she is
My thing is if you're not well versed within a subject, don't talk about it. Don't try and engage or even lead a debate about it. Zizzi should have allowed Castillo to lead and express his life experience without interruption. She would have learnt quite a bit. Her lack of emotional intelligence is troubling. She's in her own ignorant world but these type of interviews, she needs to step back and leave it alone. I'm interested to see her style of interviewing with an older man or woman. I'm sure she would be more humble, allowing them to lead and wouldn't ask such stupid questions and have nonsensical responses. Oh my goodness, this girl is jarring beyond belief.
Tbh it's just unbearable how she goes about his traumatic experience.
Why’s everything so deep about trauma and emotional distant ffs lighten up
@@mashwork6615 you'd have to go through it to understand what this lady is talking bout
This made me become a castilo fan! Wasnt too sure on his IG content but tbh now, I just wanna see this guy win!!!
Sniper available on all platforms, bruv 🤣. Maaan I Love this guy.
Perfect example of how just being real beats everything.
Guy came from nothing, sleeps around etc. and *still* has nothing but respect from everyone.
He ain’t lyin.
Also Sniper out on all digital platforms.
🔥
😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂
"Brev"
When he said the last time he cried was to “waves” by Normani I lost it💀💀💀
timestamp?
Frrrr🤣💀🤣🤣🤣
I don't like rap or hip hop at all. Yet I'm binging on Castillo and his interviews because I find the man so fascinatingly hilarious and insightful. I'd enjoy to be his friend.
Square
@@diamondgen4834 fr
Hip hop don't Ned you
Same
@@diamondgen4834 Weirdo
Like if you’re seeing this after his full disclosure episode. RUclips know what they’re doing. I didn’t even search for this.
Truth is that there are so many guys like him out there but they won't tell the truth to the girls in their lives, not even on camera.
It takes a lot of guts to be this honest about the life you've lived at a point you're becoming famous.
I wish Castilo success.
I think she likes him.. She's intruiged by him
Facts
She's so mad he expresses himself freely lmaooo
She’s not mad just weirdly pressed
@@faithfulservant1380 so she’s mad 💀
His Story is actually heartbreaking 😔
castillo genuinely so realistic and jus accepted his life for what it is, but fr tho the interviewer fr trippen and maddddd judgey yk? i hada scyts/bipolar disorder parent and she used to fr be so caring and loving one second but then crazy tryn kill you typa shi the next yk? and overtime fr you jus accept your parent for who they are fr bc you can’t genuinely speak to someone like that specially if they have the narcissistic personality disorder it’s impossible so eventually you stop resenting and just understand them and let them have there moments bc i mean they can’t really control it yk? i mean idk i feel castillo for not blaming his parents fr it’s jus how they are and i feel him for that bc i’ve been growing to that point aswel jus accepting and moving on yk?
Word dawg
She wants him to be traumatised. She can’t accept he’s from a different background. She has seen her own mates go crazy with average upbringing, but can’t believe this guy is sane and thriving with a more horrible upbringing
Yeah Caribbean ppl grow different and majority of Caribbean kids grow with their Grandparents or in a big family home
“Sniper out on all digital platforms”
I'll call Brother Mouzone on ya
I think she fancies him; because her questions are OFF. She's negative and her inquisitiveness makes her come across with no empathy, and abrupt. Zeze pried too hard into his personal territory with a dismissive whip. He composed himself and replied well; but never set a boundary. Just open and ready to answer like an open plug socket.
I like this dude....he just chats facts, and there is no false in him
Cos you know him personally lol
@@JH-Baksh just because you aren't intelligent enough to tell when people are being honest doesn't mean everyone else is on your level
@@lachlanm7149 That's a very intelligent response, pat yourself.
Ikr
Mans just honest and straight up, I don’t see nothing wrong with it, dude is mad funny!!
Can’t lie I always come back to watch this multiple times 🤣🤣 this is so funny
Ikr
I like this sorta interview rather than the standard interviews everyone’s heard a million times
You just can’t dislike him he’s just honest
Who wants to see young adz
Keangd 18 i wanna see chunkz and filly
Pure flirting will gwaan
I love how zen self focused and accepting he is off himself.
Something about this guy is heavy motivational
how that girl in the back kept a straight face the whole time I dont know
Trust me I would’ve burst out laughing too many times dem man would have to fire me
She didn’t she was smiling and all that
When you work for zeze for a length of time you become emotionless or emotionally dead
(I'm joking BTW zeze seems like a very genuine person)
This is the best thing I accidentally came across on RUclips. She is highlighting all the ways he's compensating for his childhood trauma and he's like, nope that just life. THOROUGHLY enjoyed this sh!t.
She can't comprehend he had a rough life but won't victimize himself
This guy talks straight! Respect👊🏾
Unfortunate that the interview was made awkward by the host!
He has the right feel how he feels ✌🏾❤
EXACTLY. He has the right to feel how he feels, that girl has no empathy!
@@Blkberry79 ironic she was pretending to care about him being "emotionless" but she was constantly taking digs at him and making fun of his personality in a mean way, where he was nice the whole way through.
Most people are fake and she's no exception
He’s so honest it makes PC or dishonest people uncomfortable. Interviewers ( the broads) get mad when he talks about sex but they’re the ones who bring it up .
The way he keeps her from bringing the discussion into the emotional realm Is impressive .
He's just honest, open and real and she keeps trying to say he's wrong for being so. Also, not everyone wants to be in relationships, get married or be monogamous.
She's asking these questions for her own personal ego lol
And when he gives her the answer she wanna act surprised🤔
That’s same as every interview she does
She’s a narcissist sociopath.
She just wanted him, she definitely wanted to chill and freak
Correct
yep im gonna watch the full ting again
Literally darrg
I'm in quarantine rn so same
1st ?🤣 he's so honest. You ask ? Didn't expect his answer 🤣. Came here from ana & preach.
Camera woman trying to contain herself at the back 🤣🤣🤣🤣
He’s probably told the story of his parents so many times that’s why he has become so desensitised.. deep down he is an emotional person.. seems he doesn’t want to be put in a vulnerable position..
True.. Very True