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Hey guys, it's Charlotte here and in today's video, we're going to talk about cougars on TikTok! Now, I'm not talking about the animal, but rather the term used to describe older women who are on the prowl for younger men.
If you've been scrolling through TikTok lately, you might have noticed a growing trend of women in their 40s and 50s showcasing their confidence and sex appeal. These women are unapologetically embracing their age and flaunting their bodies, and their videos are racking up millions of views.
But why is this trend taking off? Some say it's because of the pandemic - with many people feeling isolated and lonely, TikTok has become a platform for connection and self-expression. And for cougars, it's a way to feel young again and attract attention from younger men.
Of course, not everyone is a fan of this trend. Some people argue that it perpetuates harmful stereotypes and promotes predatory behavior. But others say that as long as both parties are consenting adults, there's nothing wrong with it.
So what do you think about cougars on TikTok? Are they empowering or problematic? Let me know in the comments below. And as always, don't forget to like and subscribe for more videos like this!
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Someone called me a cougar and I actually managed to answer, "No, honey. Cougars have to hunt..." I have been proud of that moment since! :)
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Dang!! That’s a good one!
I would say that makes you a Puma!
@@Dihechuwa Cougar and puma are two names for the same animal.
2 last guys I dated were 17 and 18 yrs younger then I. But I am not a cougar because they went after me, not the other way around. The first one waited 10months before I gave in and accepted to go on a date with him. But also can hardly be a cougar when the guys think I am at least 10years younger and they think I not that much older then them.
Dang you were puking and pooping at the same time and Mike didn’t pretend like he didn’t know you? That’s marriage material 😂
Absolutely put a ring on that. If there was poop involved and no running away? That's it.
you have a good man, God blessed you, girl!!
Damn right!!!
and he's younger!
Agreed. He's a keeper.
I'm 37 and my wife is 56. We are about 19 years a part in age. We met in November of 2013, got married a month and a half later in January 2014. Everyone said it would never last because we don't know each other very well, and our age is too much of a gap. Well, here it is 9 years and almost 4 months later and we are still happily married, and loving every minute of it. She was unfortunately diagnosed with brain cancer last year, which truly shook me to the core. But she's doing better now, and fighting with all her might. I love her just as much now, or even more, than I did 9 years ago.
Age means absolutely nothing. Chemistry, faithfulness, loyalty, honesty, and how you two can get along and find common ground is all that matters.
Praying for your wife's health and for you as well. You are so right about age being a number. I married a man just 6 years old than me. When our youngest son was 18 months old, I was diagnosed with MS, RA and Ataxia. He was completely healthy. Five weeks after our 20th anniversary, he unexpectedly died of an aortic dissection. That was the day, that age is just a number and that when it is your time there is nothing that can be done to stop it. We tried EVERYTHING to save him. My brother's best friend, Paul shocked everyone when he married a woman that was 20+ his senior right after college graduation. They have been happily married for 33 years. I am so incredibly happy for them.
That’s so sweet ❤ I’m sorry to hear about her diagnosis and hope that she has continued to improve. If you come across this reply we’d love to know how she is doing. Sending much love to your family!
I am glad that you are happy but don't dismiss the age. When you are older this very likely cause problems that you didn't see coming when you are young.
(I know four couples with this type of gape and all have some sort of issues. It is kind of unavoidable)
@@parthsavyasachi9348 I've never known any couples with an age gap to have any issues. So I'm not sure where you get your uneducated information from. But it's very wrong. (Smh) 🙄
@@parthsavyasachi9348 Whenever I hear someone say something ignorant like that they are usually jealous. I'm sorry if you got cheated on or something and I hate to be the one to tell you this but all relationships have problems. All throughout the relationship. The trick is how you deal with them. 🙄 Age doesn't have anything to do with it.
Totally agree with Charlotte, if the younger one is close to your kids age that's weird as hell. Screams age denial and making up for fomo 😂
My cousin, Mike, married a woman who was 50 when he was 30. Mike and Margaret were married for over 40 years when Margaret passed away in her 90s! I teased her that she was a cougar when a cougar was still just an animal. 😂 She always giggled at that. She died last May and Mike died in December. I sure miss y'all M & M!! ❤
Omg this is such a beautiful story I'm crying. And can we discuss how she died in May and he died in DECEMBER???? My Indian dad says that when old people die very close together, it shows how dedicated they were and how in love they were. :'D I can't get over this story, thank you for sharing!!
The relationship between an older woman with a younger man is called a May-December romance.
Ultimately, I think the key is with age-gap relationships (the healthy ones) is that the younger counterpart is already an established adult, on top of the usual no grooming, no toxic/abusive behavior, etc. (all of which can be seen in relationships without age-gaps as well). Because to my mind, I still see people fresh out of high school and going into college as freshman as kids. They haven't experienced adulthood. They're just embarking on it. And while I'm honestly not that much older than them, it still feels icky because I definitely see the maturity difference that is only developed through experience and taking the time to learn about yourself.
As a victim of an abusive age-gap partner, I completely agree with you.
I agree; I’m 20 but I’ve been working since I graduated high school but the thought of dating someone who is 18 feels a little icky to me especially if they are still in high school
@@HulaHula667 as a former younger partner in a fairly healthy, but massive age gap relationship, I also agree. If the younger person is much under 30, it doesn’t work. It just doesn’t.
Edit: of course, in my case it was my professor. Which is essentially The Backrooms of relationship territory. So don’t listen to me. I’m just saying I have some experience
I think that's crucial to a healthy relationship in general, but especially with age gaps. The appeal of older men/women is how established they are and their presumed life experiences. These can be mutually beneficial or they can be used to manipulate and/or intimidate the younger person. I agree with what Charlotte said. 10 years isn't that major (if both are legally adults, of course). Over 20 years of difference is where it gets a bit questionable on a case-by-case basis imo. I also think it's a bit iffy when someone refuses to date people their age, targeting only people way younger than them (i.e. Leo DiCaprio). Throwing in other factors like fame and money definitely makes it seem predatory more than a simple happenstance
("we met and just clicked") or preference.
Absolutely!
I'm a guy, my fiancee is 18 years older than me. When I first met her she told me she couldn't date me because of our age difference. I was just out of college when we met, and we met doing something we love, karaoke. We became great friends and then we gave it a try. There have been hurdles for sure, but I'm happily engaged to the love of my life. Neither of us planned it, I pursued her first, I've never thought any different about her or our relationship because of our age difference. And all because we had a love of karaoke, did God bring us together.
My late wife was 21 years older than me. We had a wonderful marriage and were deeply in love.
I was 34 when we met, just in case anyone was wondering.
I know I’m just a stranger but I hope you’re processing okay. Sending you good energy and love. 💛
@@rosemoe3203 Thank you, I appreciate that very much.
I am doing much better these days.
I can still feel the love you have for your wife ❤
@@laurapeattie5605 I will never stop loving her. ❤️
To the cougar asking for fashion advice, I totally like what she’s wearing on screen. Dress as you always do, or the BF’s friends and family will think you’re overcompensating, insecure or disingenuous.
You have bad taste/no fashion sense then ...
Hint: dont ask fish for advice on fishing ... ask fishermen. ["You women" should stop thinking yourself qualified on the topic of fashion. That kind of leather looks CHEAP and SLUTTY ... and if the last outfit is "conservative" in her eyes she is an esss-elll-u-tea.]
Agree. She´s really pretty
I do too. But the first one isn’t a good outfit to meet parents in. Imho
I was thinking she's meeting the parents for the first time and she shows up in head to toe black leather? She may be so focused on looking young, she's forgetting that she's meeting parents her age or older.
@@JourneyAlee I believe she said she's meeting his "friends" for the first time, not parents!
Quick question: If I liked younger guys I'd be a cougar...I like older guys so am I a leopard? 😂 Have an awesome day!❤
Damn 😂😂😂😂 good question
There's a joke in here somewhere, about age spots and leopards changing their...
Melanie’s asking the important questions over here 🤔
I would say Maine Coon
🤣
As someone who had a older mum I just want to say it makes me really sad to see much older ladies getting pregnant. I am happy for them if that's what they want, but I am sad for their children.
I used to get really sad because my mum wouldn't run arround with me and jump on the trampoline like my firends mums would because she just couldn't!
Also having to deal with you mum passing at such a young age can really mess you up! Its been years and I've been though grief counceling but having been a carer for her and seeing her fade and disappear like that still haunts me. Even after all those years it feels like it could have been yesterday
I really don't want to discourage people for getting pregnant and fulfilling their dreams of family ect. But at a certain point you need to think of the kid too, not just your immediate happiness
Not trying to disagree here, but isn't that an issue with older dads too? I don't see why you talk only about being sad of older women getting pregnant, it happens much more often that an old man gets a younger woman pregnant, those children experience loss early in life too. Looking at the mostly shorter life span of men in most countries this is much more likely. Also, where I live I see much more men running around and doing other physical activities with their kids than I would see women.
I see how your personal story plays a part in your comment, but I guess I just don't understand why you are not talking about older parents in general.
@@MsReya1 you make a really good point! I totally agree. I guess I didn't think of it as the video focused more on older women and showed an older women pregnant (also as you say, I was influenced by my own life).
It's an issue with older parents in general. My dad died in 2020 because he was older, had Alzheimers. Meanwhile, barring any health issues, I'll have my mom around for a minimum 20 more years.
Children are the worst
My partners parents are of the older generation, they were in their 40's. My mom was in her early 30's. Having to worry about their health while branching out is a tough one, but I wouldn't say it isn't worth it. We can wish they did it earlier and had more time but I see no reason to stop them or say not to.
The hair flips from the women saying that young women don't have the confidence of older women 👌✨️
(I dont agree, but thats a vibe! Lol)
So, my brother just turned 31. His gf is 16 yrs older then him. They’ve been together for 5 years now and are SOO ABSOLUTELY incredibly happy. He was 26 and she was 42 when they got together. They both share SO much in common. My brother always was an old soul and very mature for his age. We all ABSOLUTELY adore his gf. She’s the best thing that’s ever happened in his life and has helped him grow in SOOO many ways. I do get sad from time to time knowing I’ll never be an Aunt but still…I’m happy he’s happy.
Aw love this 🙏 Happy for your fam ❤❤
my older 32 year old bro is w/a 51 year old woman and they both act like 20 year olds who have never had fun or love until the day they went to uni and met eyes; its disgusting and i'm so happy for them 🤣!
My mom met her boyfriend when he was 27 and she was 42 too! They are together for 16 years now. She already had 4 children when they met and he took us all in like we are his own. They are so happy and we all love him so much
@@Mellix3bff
That’s awesome! I’m 14 years older than my husband. We met when he was 26 and I was 40. We’ve been together almost 11 years now and he’s my best friend. We love so many of the same things and truly enjoy each other’s company. I love hearing about other happy couples because I want everyone to find their person.
My husband and I met when I was 32 and he was 22 through a mutual friend. When he asked me out I told him my age, and that I had an ex-husband and 3 kids. He didn't care. He said he was tired of "young girls that play mind games" and wanted someone "who knew who they were and what they wanted". That was 21 years ago. We've been married for the last 17 years of that and as far as he's concerned, since we didn't have children of our own (I couldn't anymore, also told to him up front), my kids from a previous marriage are his kids :)
So sweet!!
Our stories are very similar. Many times these age gaps mean nothing. Love has a way of conquering obstacles ❤️ So happy you found your forever❣️
3 kids by 22? Wow! My mother was super young too. She had me at 18 yo. I didn't start having kids until I hit my 30s.
@@SherriLyle80s OP was 32, their husband was the 22 year old.
@@Natashajb why???
I love this video!!!! I’m 9 years older than my hubby. I was his bodybuilding coach when he was a teen (late teen 18/19). I was married at the time. Never thought anything about him in that way. Push forward 4 years. Now I was divorced. Him and I ran into each other at a bar. My first thought was, “damn! Someone grew up!” He saw me and gave me the biggest hug. I asked him out on a lunch date the next day. The rest is history. We’ve been together for 8.5yrs and have a child together. ❤
Wow totally love it. I am 3 years older than my husband we still act silly together he will be 50 this month I love to remind him. We have 3 beautiful children together xx
Fun fact, my Aunt just got married to a man 30 years older than her (she’s in her thirties and he’s in his 60’s) and everyone was very unsure at first. His daughter didn’t even come to the wedding because she thought it was really weird that she was older than my aunt. But they are genuinely so happy together and it is so sweet. They bought a business together a few years ago (before they were married) and it was all her idea while he supported her. I think sometimes you just meet your person even if they are younger than you. My Aunt is his 3rd wife because his first wife died and he rushed into getting married the second time.
I'm glad to see others having successful age gap relationships. My husband is 16 years younger than me, but he was far more mature than the 40 and 50 year olds I'd dated. I think experience is the key. I'd always been young for my age, and he'd been on his own since he was 16 so he acted much older. We're now on 15 years together and we still love each other like crazy.
YES! It’s the maturity and experience that makes or breaks relationships with age gaps. Like, if it were a 27 year old and a 19 year old, it’s just… it’s so one sided, there needs to be a balance for a relationship to healthy and happy
This is the place I come to get my “judgie” out for the day. Lol😂
I'm 13 years older than my partner (no one is under 30). My experience is that men my own age or older are more likely to be sexist and emotionally unavailable. It makes a sad kind of sense given what the norms were as teens in the 80s and 90s. I imagine a lot of women in their 40s and 50s are sick of dealing with that so we end up with younger guys. I don't have much of an explanation for the ones who go after 18 year olds though.
If you've given the wrong people a chance over time I can see that happening also at 18 women need to choose better
Aww Mike. Thank you for taking care of our potato Queen! She's very important to us! Love from England ❤️🥔 👑
In my opinion, cougars are over 45, wear leopard print leggings/tops/short dresses, and are aggressively hunting guys half their age. That's what I picture a cougar being, half these women don't seem to fall into that category 😂 love your videos Charlotte!! ❤️
YES 😂😂😂, definitely what l picture too 😅.
SAMEEE
My father was 18 years older than my stepmom and they were happily married for 25 years. I am 10 years older than my husband. We’ve been together 7 years and ridiculously happy in our relationship. It’s all about finding someone on your level, that wants what you want and has the same values as you.
How are your children?
My dad was 20 years older than my mom, I had an uncle whose wife was ten years older than him, and aunt who was 11 years younger than she was. All happy 'til death do us part relationships!
@@ChaiTea1Hah! You said Depends.
My partner and I were born on the same day.... we're basically in a relationship with ourselves.
@@Muck006 my dad was 27 years older than my mom and they were happily in love, we all admit though that she was a bit of a trophy wife but they did love each other. He died when I was a little kid from an illness, but if we're being honest right now if he wouldn't have died then of an illness old age would've caught him by now.
Don't forget that those older women have snacks in their fridge for their own kids.
Aww the second gal, she's so nervous, it's so sweet! I hope meeting everyone goes well!
"They said we wouldnt last, but look at us two whole years later!" is always a hilarious take to me.
Reminds me of the Michael Jackson/Lisa Marie Presley “marriage”. “They” ended up being right.
@@davidguidry657 tale as old as time, really.
Honestly, people didn’t think my man and I would last because everyone thought I was in my 20s and him in his 40s. I’m in my late 30s and he’s late 40s. We’ve been together 5 years. People still doubt us, but the years keep coming, and we keep loving each other harder and harder. Sometimes it isn’t the amount of years you’ve gathered, but the amount of happy memories and the crushing wave that love can be. Real love only makes you stronger. Makes you feel over filled. Makes it so you spill that love in to other people. Love is a beautiful thing when used right. Sometimes only a few months is all it takes to make a difference. Love happens at the most random times.
In defence of the 23 year old, two years for 23 year old guy is a big fucking deal lol
Two year long relationship?! Wow. They've basically been together forever. 😂
When ever someone says age is just a number my friend always responds with "yeah and prison is just a room" 😂
bahaha 😂😂 love this
Lmao I loved that prison is just a room,not heard that before😂
Usually I hear "You know what else is just a number? *proceeds to call 911*" , but that's a new sentence
Exactly!!
My mother is 20 years older than me, and she brought home a guy who was 5 years older than I am. To be fair, he looked older than she is (she's pushing mid-50s now). They dated for about 12 years before they broke up. Can't say it was a stable relationship, but it existed that long. It was a bit weird in the initial stages when he moved in but eventually you just forget about the age difference.
NEED more cougar content!!! Love it so much!!!
My dad's wife is a year older than me, when I was 18 it was a bit weird trying to work out how to treat each other. She made a couple of inappropriate comments over sharing which made me want to vomit 😂
Years later and we're both in our forties and have a great sort of sisterly relationship, and I'm happy my dad finally made a relationship work regardless of her age ❤
I'm 3 years older than my husbands oldest son. I was 20 when we met and he was 34. I'm now 35 and we are married with a 7 year old.
Happy it all worked out 😊😊
rare :)
@@ivania321 it definitely didn't happen overnight but with a bit of effort from both sides it's possible 😉
Just watched a vintage Charlotte video while I waited for the new one to be posted. I've NEVER been a fan of a content creator like this 😂 You make my day Charlotte!
Oh I do the same!!!! I have an alarm set for 5pm (UK Time) as that’s when it gets posted!! ❤😂😂
i do the same thing, i think i’ve honestly watched all of the old videos😅
OMG SAME!!! I just finished one of the dad jokes ones and have been grinning! Also, I love Mike but I kinda miss 'Naked guy'.. remember??
Wow, thank you!
My dear older friend married a man 22 years younger than herself. It was weird when I heard she was dating a much younger guy. But, after a couple of times hanging out with them, the age gap totally disappeared. They’re so perfect for one another. He’s an awesome step dad and here we are, 10 years on… still acting like newlyweds.
I love how the guy found his maths teacher on tinder like he was trying to call her out but yet he set his age limit and matched with her so he swiped left. Plus that woman was gorgeous
Cougar here! He is 15 yrs younger and we're getting married this summer, right when my Medicare kicks in 😀 I have never laughed to much in my entire life.
Damn. 7 views and I'm one of them?! I'm so excited. Love having Charlotte during my coffee time.
Can we just talk about how much of an icon Mike is for carrying his puking and pooping girlfriend around with zero effs given? Round of applause for Mike! Charlotte you've landed a good one xx
Cougar manor!!!! Televisual gold!
At my last job I was newly divorced at 39 (after 18 years of marriage). My younger co-workers (22-27) were constantly messaging to “hang out/hook up”. Weirded me out after being out of the dating scene for almost 2 decades lol. Flattering but not my vibe lol.
It's the "stage of life" difference. That's why we find it weird when a 16 year old dates a 19 year old, but not when a 19 year old dates a 22 year old, despite them being the same age difference.
My husband is 13 years older than me. We've been together 15 years. Married for going on 12 years. I wouldn't trade him for anything!!!!
Aww that's wonderful! My boyfriend is 22 years older than me. We've been together for almost 5 years, and we make such an amazing pair 😊
The funniest thing, is that I heard of that calculation, where you divide your age and add 7 to know if it's "okay" or whatever, and our ages perfectly match up, 38 and 62 😂
@@justhearmeout3959he's 62?
Good for you guys!
My wife is seven years younger than me. She's always teasing me that she was in grade school when I was in high school. Going on twenty years and five kids. FYI we were both well out of high school when we met! 😄🫶
Mine is eight years younger, going on thirty years.
0:41 😳"If That's Not Love, Idk What Is."
😅 Mike for President‼️✌🏾😂 Thanks 4 taking care of our Tato Queen. We see U.... ❣️✊🏾
OMFG, Charlotte, he is one hell of a catch, you gotta keep him after that. Major" I wanna die" moment, coz you literally feel like you are, but with embarrassment aswell.
Well….I’m judging. My sons are 23 and 25 years younger than me. To date someone in their age range would be….not okay with me. I don’t know. To me, once they’re at least 25 a lot of my problems with it calm down because at 25, your brain is fully grown. I don’t think people should date younger than 25 if they’re more than a decade older. I know people have it work out but I’m just uncomfortable with the thought.
And having your own opinion is absolutely fine as long as you’re not a Cunt about it, which you are not being.
Women HIT THE WALL 30-35 ... men START GETTING GOOD at 30 ... that's why women in their 20s SHOULD get together with men 30-35 ...
The other way round doesnt make any sense. Unless you hate children or are delusional ... (which most women these days are ... thanks to a certain ideology).
@@Muck006 lol what rock are you living under 😂
I’ve met 18 year olds who have it more together than 40 years olds ,
And I’ve met many women who didn’t peak until after 30
😂
(Not that I would date someone a lot younger or older)
But yaaaaaaa how about find the person who is right for you no matter the age 😂
Imagine a 18 year old women finding the perfect bf who is 19 but says -
Errr sorry men don’t start getting good till 30 😂
Just cause you didn’t doesn’t mean others don’t -
Also those younger women who go for y’all over 30s are clearly just after your money ….
And will most likely cheat on you or leave you when you have financial Troubles 😂
I’m looking for a life partner that matches me where I’m at not a sugar daddy 😂
My mom was 26 and my dad 36 with two kids already. And one was 19. They had a 10 year marriage and two kids. But my mom as a side had two marriages on her back. One ended due to distance and the other because her and then other guy weren't on the same page about life. I love them both despite both have their flaws. And I don't fint it weird at all. Because to me 10 years is acceptable. Though I feel like I couldn't date outside a 1 year age gap because I know myself. I know what I want and I don't want to be seen as creepy nor deal with immature guys. Or be taken advantage of. But that's my opinion.
I agree. 18 is a no-go, 23 is still iffy. I dont think they are ready for older women who might take advantage of them. 25 at least you’ve calmed down a little in life and start appreciating the little things around you :3
I just turned 50 and am getting WAY more attention now than ever! I honestly had NO clue this would happen! Everything those two women said is 100% true. My body may not be as firm as when I was in my 20s, but I'm MUCH more confident now, which makes me a thousand times more attractive. I say go for it!
Cap
it's not confidence but a less likelihood of game playing that's attractive - honesty goes a long way whether you're interested in a temporary, long term, or even 1 time fun situation
Girl, I'm old AND FAT. It was shocking to me too... at first. Then it was just fun. 😃
@@stacey5440 Yeah, I'm definitely not upset about it!
hearing what she said about mike at 0:35 and y'all still together? that man effing loves you!
Your comment about not dating someone your children’s age made me smile because both my parents are divorced for the third time and both of their third spouses were younger than me.
There is no such thing as too old to find love. I worked in a long term care home and knew a couple who only met 5 years prior and married. Their daughters set them up and they had their first date at Tim hortons. They loved each other dearly, and cared for one another.
"What have we found out about younger guys? That they like older women"
As a younger guy myself, I can 100% say that I'm not into older women.
*I mean, the fact that I'm into guys might be why, but still*
That last line! 😂😂😂
You had is in the first half, not gonna lie. 😅
😂😂😂 it could definitely contribute lol
Haha. But dude, you are trying to tell us gay men don't have large age gap relationships.... really?
@@dudeorduuude5211 some do, but not with older women. 😆
The one with the futon was clearly a skit, but I loved the woman's acting, very fun and sitcomeish I felt.
That first couple was absolutely beautiful lol!
Mike is a trooper, so glad he carried you through that tough situation and still likes you, he’s definitely a keeper
Also at 43 I’m just not attracted to anyone who is young enough to be my child, I prefer a shorter age gap
My husband is 17 years older than me and I couldn’t be happier! Never planned to marry an older man (we tried hard to cancel our feelings for each other, haha), but here we are and I feel blessed ❤
My wife is 8 years older than me. We had a blast at her 20th High School reunion, we were all anyone talked about (and back then I was in pretty good shape with hair almost to by waist ... I looked like a young Eddy Vedder ... only taller). We will celebrate our 26th anniversary next month.
Met my husband when he was 26 and I was nearly 38. A second marriage for us both. It's been 26 years and going strong. ❤ ~SHE & ELD
Try not to judge... you're asking for the impossible, bestie😂😂😂
Mike is such an amazing man to carry you while you’re so sick. What a hero.
Charlotte and I (about outfit #2) at the same exact time say “you got the body for it” 🤣
On a wholesome note, senior year of high school, my first boyfriend was a year younger and a junior. When I was talking to my friend group one day about what animal to put on a new hoodie (tiger, lion, or puma), one girl said that she thought “the cougar represents you the best” to me. We laughed about it and I still think it’s funny to this day.
lol, can i just say that if mike is carrying you while pooping and throwing up, that man is a keeper!!
I'm a guy, first, just for context. I dated a woman 12 years older than I was, and honestly, BEST SEX EVER!!! To give even MORE context, I was 38 and she was 50. It was all about the sex, though we pretended we were "dating", because she had grown children, and two grandkids. She's now married to a great guy, and I couldn't be happier for her. :)
There's a lot, and I mean A LOT, of health risks getting pregnant older. Complications during delivery, fetal underdevelopment and a whole host of other things is why doctors recommend not getting pregnant when you're past 30.
ong lady who was nervous about what outfit to wear looked amazing in all of them, she's got a great bod and I'm super jellous 😂
What a ride! The emotions while watching this video were just all over the place. I’m not sure what to think or feel but I think I need a shower. 😂🤣
I swear, it's 7pm where I'm at, and I was here 3mins earlier. I was like, "mmmh, now where is Charlotte? She better be here somewhere. Right! Here she is, 1 min ago. 😂"
Omg Charlotte .. "honestly I would be happy with anything at that point " 😅😅😅😅
Charlotte!! I LOVE your Hair style in this video!! Its sooo cute on you!!!!
I screamed when they showed milf manor. Straight up grasped my pearls and fainted
Wait, wait…the very young guy that walked the old pregnant lady down the aisle to the semi creepy pregnant stomach robot that opened to reveal a blue light (there’s a sentence I never expected to say)…I don’t think that was her grandson. We were so taken with the idea of her getting pregnant, we forgot to notice she’s with what looks like an 18 year old. I want to know how that happened with them. Like how. She looks like his grandmother, he looks like her grandchild. I mean the age difference has to be like 40-50 years
Yes, that one was anything but inspiring honestly.
@@rabbitguts2518 yeah definitely.more like an old buzzard than a cougar
I’m surprised no one has made a “Harold and Maude” reference.
I can only hope that clip was a joke.
Yeah that was extremely creepy, I can only hope this was his granny and it's a joke. But who knows, maybe he just looks young and he's 30+
This is a hoax, done for $$ and views. It looks like his grandmother because it IS his grandmother!
*A teenager has fooled the internet into believing he is dating his 76-year-old grandmother - as part of a year-long hoax in which he claimed she was pregnant.
Giuseppe D'anna, 19, has shared numerous videos to his 3.1 million TikTok followers suggesting Milina Gatta was his girlfriend.
Earlier this month, he also left his 80,000 Instagram fans horrified when he claimed he was expecting a baby with Ms Gatta, who is 57 years his senior.*
(from the UK's "Daily Mail")
Yuck! Even though it's 100% fake, still gross.
My moms neighbor is a cougar. She's old enough to be my grandma and is with a guy who is probably in his early 30's and is very attractive. The cougar next door is actually an incredibly kind woman and my family and I love her!
Cream pie?? Pull out last minute??
Hilarious 😂😂😂😂😂
How is dressing all in leather to meet your younger BF's parents not giving off a cougar vibe? Just wear a sweater and jeans, so you look like a normal person who just happens to be dating someone younger.
She wasn't meeting his family yet. She was meeting his friends. For meeting the fam, I definitely agree tho.
It isnt really "leather" ... it is PLASTIC (with some leather powder mixed into it for the smell).
That's what I learned in university ... ~35 years ago ... material sciences. Oh and common sense / your eyes can tell that too.
@@Muck006 This woman doesnt need any help in choosing an outfit she knows exactly what she is gonna wear
My thought was " don't wear leather with leather", like one fake leather Item is more than enough
I was thinking a classic black dress. Not overstated and timeless.
When my ex and I divorced I got approached by a MUCH younger man (I was around 40, he was 18). It really got me thinking about what I thought was appropriate for me (no judgement for others). I didn’t take him up on it. But for me, I think it is more about where they are in life. I’m established in my career, I own my home, etc. I can’t imagine being attracted to someone 1/2 my age and have anything in common with them unless they were at a similar point in their life. However, if they were, I might consider it. I would say the same for someone my age who was still living with their parents who couldn’t hold down a job, or partying all the time, etc. I can’t see having any kind of relationship with them since I don’t see us having anything in common. So I think that matters more to me than age.
I was 23 when I dated a 46 year old math teacher...outside my current marriage with my current wife, it was an amazing relationship. she taught me a lot!!!
'judgy-wuhgey was a Charlotte' got me good.
First, Mike is a keeper and you should keep him forever. Second, I feel a lot less weird about my boyfriend being 5 years younger than me now. My late husband was 15 years older!
My husband is 11 years younger than me. We met when he was 26 and I was 37. I kept trying to set him up with more age appropriate women I knew because I thought he was a great guy, but too young for me. We just celebrated our 13 year anniversary.
The first one, being carried, is Caroline Stansbury. She was on Ladies of London. She's 46 and he's 28. A wee bit older...
Regarding the pregnancy thing: it’s never been impossible to conceive at an older age for women, however the older you get the higher the risk that the baby will be born with special needs; things like Down syndrome are more common for example. That’s why it is commonly advised to conceive before your 40s, and gets the pressure on women.
I don't think it's ever been about how old you are...it's always about the maturity and attitude you have ❤❤
The problem with getting pregnant when you are older is that it makes complications a lot more likely and means that your kids will probably have their mum die younger than all the rest of their friends.
The dying early is not a point.28 year olds also die and some people live to be 90!
@@deedee9835 if you look at individual cases it might not seem like a point but if you look at the overall statistics then it is. The child is more likely to have their mum die younger in their life due to them being older, that is an undeniable fact. That woman could end up in a nursing home before the kid graduates high school.
My mom was told after several miscarriages when she was young that she would never have kids. She found herself pregnant at 38 and had me when she was 39. She lived to be 80 and got to be the best grandma to my kids.
She said the worst part was being in labor for 3 days. She liked to tease me when I got older that I didn't want to be born until she could get a decent hospital meal.
@@lindapatton4478 this woman is a lot older than 38. Also individual cases don't mean anything, the overall statistics do.
That 80 year old aint pregnant, if you havent figured that out.
Franklin wrote a book advising young men to go with older women because of their experience and how much they could teach them. One thing he wrote was that they could be safe in the knowledge that they wouldn’t get them pregnant.
I am 72 and she is 36. It has been 2 months and we are hitting it off. Of course I get the robbing the cradle remark and I say why can't it be robbing the grave? LOL
I was surprised when a younger guy hit on me, and I asked him if he knew how old I was. He winked and replied "Some guys just like a little patina on their precious metals" 😂
Okay, I love that line!
I'm 30 and my wife is 39 and I love her so much. She's my everything. I also love that when we were dating there was no games. We both wanted something serious and we got that. We've been married for 8 years now.
I married young & had children in my early 20's. I divorced in my mid-30's, staying single for over a decade. Into my 40's I had a lot of younger men coming onto me. It was almost a daily thing for me to get hit on by younger men. I didn't mind men in their 30s or older, but I always told boys in their 20's I don't date in their age group bcuz my kids are in it. 😂 I wasn't necessarily attracted to younger men, but many men in my age group couldn't keep up. I was the type to hop in my car & drive to South Lake Tahoe or Vegas on a moment's notice or fly to the coast & ride dune buggies. One night me & my co-40's bestie went skinny dipping in Lake Michigan under a beautiful moonlit night after a night of dancing & drinking😂 I really was too high-energy for most men my age. So for me, it wasn't really about younger men so much as a person's energy. No regrets; I had such fun🤗
You guys always find a way to say that you did the exact same thing but differently
I love your videos they are bite size and i can watch them on my breaks , also your very funny
my wife is 59 and I am 51 We have been married for over 30 years. We have 5 kids and 9 grandkids. We have had an awesome life and honestly it has never come up or affected our life in any way. I love her with all my heart and I know she does also.
That's real love.. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx ❤️
5:30 *I LOVE HER!* ❤ I wish EVERYONE could be this honest w themselves, as well as their friends & family! 🐱
“I’m immortal.” Love that energy! 😂😁
"Wake up Maggie, I think I got something to say to you! "
My father was engaged to this older woman that I had known all my life because she was my fathers older brothers wife and her kids were my cousins. I thank the stars it didn’t work out between them and I didn’t end up with brother cousins. Anyway, at 45 years old, she ended up marrying some 19 year old kid a few years later. They had twins and have been together over 20 years now. It’s especially noticeable now that she is in her mid 60s and he’s not even 40 yet.
When my parents separated my mom started dating again.
I had to help her to set the age range for a dating app (not tinder), because she constantly got pms from guys my age (mid 20s back then) and found it really strange and mildly disturbing.
Some of those guys had real mommy k*nks😳
Rule of thumb
Half your age+ 7
Any younger than that it gets hella weird
I agree, at first it’s flattering to get attention from guys that are 10+ years younger, but then you realize that it’s a kink for a lot of them
My husband doesn’t have a mommy kink. He can’t stand drama, or games, or jealousy. He wanted an established woman, and doesn’t want children because he doesn’t want to raise a child with all the horrible things going on in the world..Covid, recession, school shootings etc. we share core values, we communicate well together, and we have a lot of the same likes and dislikes. We’ve been together since November 10, 2019, married since May 2021. There’s 19 years age difference. But we get each other… I never expected to be married again, especially to a man so much younger. He was lonely and so was I. We are there for each other and have a happy relationship and life together. We have each other’s back. Peace, joy, affection, and love is what it’s all about for us..🥰
That first one was a couple from Real Housewives of Dubai I think! Best version!!
So true about the settling thing. Ha this bid was fun, I love that for them🤪
I so don't need to get my own tik tok...😂
Make no mistake Charlotte, you’ll become a cougar in less time than you can imagine. 😂
I’m a middle age bloke mastering the art of dad jokes. I’m looking at myself these days and try to understand where the last 20 years went. 😂
Currently 3.59am in South Africa, and im still up watching your videos since 1am🤣🤣❤️❤️❤️❤️.
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Faaaaaaaavourite❤️❤️❤️!!
That one where it was the chick getting ready to meet his friends for the first time, it was so annoying that the dryer was on the whole time!
Nah, nothing screams Cougar more than a FULL leather outfit. Switch that top out for a band tee and you're good.
Regarding children: My wife and I have several older friends who tried to conceive after 40. There were two that succeeded, the oldest 42. No one of either our acquaintance managed it after 42, though one of my wife's childhood friend's mother did get pregnant at 42. So that does seem to me to be a harder limit. You hear about women older than 42 getting pregnant, but I think that's because it is so rare that it's news.
Which is all to say you have time, Charlotte. Maybe not as much as you're hoping, but more than enough so you don't have to rush.
But don't get overconfident, either. Everyone is different, and you're not the woman in the video. Don't count on being able to get pregnant in your 50s. Or even your later 40s...
Plus, pregnancy gets riskier the older you are.
That's very true. I believe the world record for oldest natural pregnancy was 59 or something like that but it's very rare and even if you were to get pregnant there's a higher risk of miscarriage as well as risks genetically like downs syndrome (don't know if i got the spelling right). Although if you still wanted to be pregnant there are donor eggs as an option or IVF you could even try with your own but that doesn't succeed alot, I don't know if you froze your eggs earlier if that would be more helpful. But there are many options now.
Pregnancy is also riskier for the mom and child, and there's a greater chance the parent may die from health related issues before the child grows up.
My husband is 12 years younger, we've been together for 4 years. we were married one year ago. This is the BEST relationship I've ever had.
I had a kid with a guy 17 years older than me. It wasn't good, it was predatory and exploitative and abusive and full of manipulation and all of the things. I was in my early 20's and lost, it just happened.
I think the weirdest thing is knowing that he has a total of 4 other children, the oldest one of which is about 3 years younger than myself. So my child's half-sibling is about my age, and the fact that he started changing diapers, when I was still in diapers...that's just undeniably, so gross.