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Have you ever had an ex who just can't seem to move on? Maybe they constantly message you, show up unannounced, or even stalk you online. Dealing with a crazy ex can be both frustrating and scary, and it's not uncommon for people to go through this experience.
In this video, we'll be diving into the world of crazy ex's that just can't let it go. We'll explore the different types of behaviors that these ex's exhibit, from constant texting and calling to harassment and even violence.
We'll also discuss the potential dangers of dealing with a crazy ex, and provide tips and strategies for protecting yourself and getting them to leave you alone. You'll learn how to set boundaries, block them on social media, and even involve law enforcement if necessary.
Throughout the video, we'll share real-life stories from people who have dealt with crazy ex's and provide insights from experts on the psychology behind this type of behavior. We'll also offer advice for those who may be struggling with their own emotions after a breakup, and how to move on in a healthy way.
If you've ever dealt with a crazy ex, or know someone who has, this video is a must-watch. Join us as we explore this fascinating and often frightening topic, and learn how to protect yourself and move on from a toxic relationship.
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First one is placing waaay too much blame on only the ex, and needs to tell her bf to man up and tell the ex to leave them alone. It shouldn’t be his new girls job to keep his ex’s away. Imo it sounds like the bf isn’t worth the anger.
Well spotted, a 2 seconds to block the ex's number from both phones could have spared everyone from the drama, however, it seems the new gf is looking forward to hearing back from the ex probably more than the bf
I was also wondering why her bf hadn't blocked the ex just out of respect for his current relationship
And thens he says the ex texted him...that means his phone, right? So why should she be texting his current partner? I dooouubbt it. They talk, he deleted messages, and the real conspiracy theorist in me says ex is perganante with his kid bc they been rompin the whole time.
Yeah, they all suck & have an unhealthy dynamic going on here.
She sound like crazy-ex and really annoying
In my experience, usually when a guys ex keeps texting and calling him it's because he's still giving her reason too. I've had 2 exes that swore their ex was just crazy. Only to later find out they were cheating or keeping the line of communication open. It's like their backup plan.
The ex that said she wanted to wait until marriage and then refused even after marriage... Charlotte missed the part where the ex-husband said that she got married the same year they got divorced. He shouldn't have cheated, but something tells me she was sleeping around the whole relationship even prior to the marriage.
Yeah her remarrying that quickly basically showed why she never slept with him their entire marriage.
Exactly
Yep. He may have legal recourse if that is to be found true
Yep
Yep
I saved myself for my husband and we waited till after marriage. Now, 16 years later, we have 8 children. Saving yourself for marriage is one thing; depriving your spouse is another.
AND depriving yourself, no??
My husband and I waited too. Never regretted it! ❤
I think the story where the ex-wife didn't want sex with her husband but still tried to interfere in his life, is not about her being jealous because she is no longer with him, it's about control and trying to make sure he is not happy.
Yup and it sounds like she’s got a very twisted view of intimacy if she didn’t want to even after marriage. I get the saving yourself for marriage/spouse but once you have that, celebrate! Vigorously and often! 😉😂
@@davidguidry657 Maybe she saved herself for her second marriage.
I'm honestly thinking she never saved herself to begin with and second hubby that she married out the gate had been canoodling with her the entire time. 🤷🏻♀️
@@alosialee either that or she is actually trans and doesn't have lady parts yet.
I think she was really a he and didn't want him to find out, so she kept everything tucked away so to speak 🤣🤣🤣🤣
The last story. I can’t believe her ex had the nerve to say he wouldn’t have slept with his cheating psychotic ex had she saw him when he asked. He’s blaming her for his idiocy. She needs to block him and move on.
This!
Yes, I was tending towards giving it a chance until we hit that little ROADBLOCK. Nononononononono
I've always had the mentality that if we are done, WE ARE DONE!! No creeping, no calling. I dont even think of them!!
Same. I’m in it 100% and will work to make it happen but if it don’t, it won’t and I’m moving on.
Catch Amnesia real quick!
Same never called or texted my ex's again. Even blocked them so they can't get in touch with me.
@@Park-Kim_VMin same! I block them from everything. I make it so it's like I don't exist.
Imho it depends on the breakup. If it was an amicable one and you wish each other the best and you catch up once or twice a year to know the other one is ok, that's quite fine
Honestly been going through a depressive episode recently (winter in Canada, amirite) and i just discovered your channel and listening to other peoples' issues and realizing how fucking normal my life is is refreshing. Other peoples' drama be good for us
Canadian winters are grim for me too. Still cold but sooooon! We made it through another one Carmen!
All their messages before those two are deleted, his ex texts, "Happy Father's Day", the exes number isn't blocked AFTER you have made it obvious their being friendly bothers you bc she blatantly flirts....then she says she was texting YOU???
Ma'am, the disrespect is coming from inside the house. Old dude is playing you, and that's just how it feels to me.
I agree. I may even go further to say there's a reason she said happy father's day if it was his phone. She didn't make it clear whether she texted his phone or her phone.
What if he really is a father to somebody else, maybe not even the ex, and she's just hanging it over his head.
@@mermer3168 exactly what the deeper part of me thinks, but who really knows. It's definitely what I'D be thinking!
How the red flag parade didn't go up for this girl that it's the ex telling him he her baby daddy now, I don't know.
That, and Im sorry I side eye girls this aggressively angry and their mans ex. It gives off insecurity, and then I think is that a you thing that he indulges you on or is that a him thing where his suble behaviours push you but its not enough to push you away completely 🧐 but yh he clearly has a type, and He should look into thay 😅
@@jessimarim_m9387 yes I totally agree! Why doesn't she focus that anger on her bf and the fact that he didn't even delete or block his ex? Maybe because "Happy Father's day" was valid and she obviously don't know they have a kid together? The blue haired gf is acting really remedial, sad, desperate and intentionally delusional 😬
5:04 yes! They notify you when you’re specifically being followed by said air tag!
I’ve had exes text me so I can forgive them and they always say “I messed up, you were always so chill and laidback and I took advantage of that. I just want to deserve you!”, and I always say, “yes you did mess up, but that’s ok because I’m happier without you. And you will never deserve me, because I don’t deserve garbage behavior. Good luck in your endeavors.”.
Don’t take an ex back. Especially if it didn’t end well.
And BLOCK the ex!
@@rosemaryraplar8 yes ma’am!!!
Yes!
The girl who texted happy Father’s Day, probably used to call him daddy 😂😂😂
I have had a singular crazy ex. T'was not fun, they kept stalking me and trying to "win me back." Then I moved next door to a fire station, and my ex tried their shananigans again. The fire squad shut that down real quick, and now I have a whole bunch of wonderful friends!
Stalkers are the worst.
So wholesome re: the firefighters 😄
why did I read this as "the firing squad" hahaha
@@Cashhhhew I mean...verbally yes. One of the firefighters is Southern, and can give a verbal lashing that is probably deadlier than any firing squad ever could be.
@@bgoldschmidt2583 I’m swooning 😂😍
Stories like these make me so grateful to be in a healthy relationship with an incredible guy that is my fiancé, best friend, partner, and so much more. We’ve been together for over seven years and have always been able to get through life’s ups and downs together. Unlike with my exes.
My boyfriend had a crazy ex who almost got him arrested for human trafficking. (She was, ahem, advertising for men to come to HIS apartment while he was at work, for money)
And for the first year we were together, she would change her number and text him out of the blue randomly, usually asking for money 🤔
He ended up having to change his number, and then she showed tf up at 10pm crying and screaming and begging to be let in. We had to call the cops, he has a restraining order now
Yikes. Dodged a bullet train of psycho on that one. Poor guy.
Did she get into rehab? Cause this sounds like addict behavior
@@L3onking it really does
My ex’s ex was like this. She would call and stalk me! Even calling me crying asking if I was pregnant when we had a scare. We had mutual friends… so it made things messy. I had to change my number manyyy of time. Even when I left the country she called me said she was “last night with him”…. She hung up when I said we’ve been in the US for a month already. 😂
@@rimuruslime23 the new gf of my Ex stalked me for almost 2 years.
Had to take her to court to make her stop.
It was so crazy she was living with him they had a child together and I had no contact with him but she made my life a living hell during my cancer expirience.
Charlotte’s reaction faces are pure dopamine. Y’all know she makes u laugh when SHE laughs LOL 😂😂😂
With the first one, the ex is getting exactly what she wants with texting you. She’s getting under your skin. Just ignore and don’t give her the power to bother you.
I had the reverse happen, my ex told some new girl that he was getting back with me (I guess they didn’t have a great relationship and he lied to get her to go away lol)
She started messaging me all this 💩 about how I wasn’t allowed to get back with him, he cheated on me bla bla. I could’ve eviscerated her with words and dropped him in the 💩 for lying, but then I remembered how happy I was away from his bull 💩and I just blocked her and carried in enjoying my life.
@@BeeLZBeeb same for me but I don't know if he told her something.
The new gf of my ex stalked me for almost 2 years and I had to take her to court to make her stop.
It was so crazy because she was living with him they had a child together and I had no contact with him but she was making my life a living hell during my cancer expirience.
@@jesmey4902 that’s rough, I’m so sorry. I hope you have a good support network around you
@@BeeLZBeeb thank you 😊
Yes I had and have, and luckily I'm healthy again.
She is just stalking me online nowadays and checks my job social media frequently but that doesn't bother me. I'm just glad the up to 400 calls per month stopped after her court expirience.
For me it was the same as for you, and I was just happy to be away from my ex and didn't want him back.
I'm enjoying my life now and travel through Europe because of my job.
@@jesmey4902 sounds like she has some serious issues, I’m glad you’re away from it all now and enjoying your freedom from it all. Mine just disappeared, I blocked her twice, as she created a second profile, and that was it.
Enjoy Europe 🙂
During the early days of my high school, I dated a popular girl. Just to clarify this, I was not at all in love with her but she was extremely in love with me. She was super nice and funny so we immediately got close to each other after talking to one another for a few months. She confessed and I initially dumped her but asked to be friends still. Unfortunately, she kept being heavily sad about how I dumped her and out of pity with a little bit of curiosity, I decided to why not give her a chance? We dated and that's when things started to turn bad, she became very obsessed with me. Controlling and possessive, she was practically holding my life in her hands. Noticing this and how our relationship was one-sided, I decided to break up with her. It was fine for a while until she started to do things that went out of control. She sent multiple friends of hers to harass me online and send me death threats. She then proceeded to guilt trip and manipulate my friends to try and get me to come back with her. She also did some very harmful stuff to herself so I could come back to her. Obviously, I didn't. She did a lot of things I don't really want to mention or remember, she almost ruined my life and because of her I went through major depression. I also suffered from PTSD because of the things she did after and before we broke up. I've been afraid to enter romantic relationships ever since then and have been extremely doubtful & cautious of people who are generally nice to me because they could be one of her friends and such. I managed to cut her off my life even when she kept trying to come back in it. I went through therapy and I'm now dating a person who knows about my boundaries and would not try to cross them. We've been dating for 4 years now and I can't ask for anything more than to continue being happy with them. I still suffer from fear and paranoia of ex coming back into my life to ruin it but my partner reassures me that it won't happen as long as they're with me and I believe them.
Finding the ex’s grandmother’s address flies past snooping and into stalking territory.
Yeah - that girl is a crazy stalking ex in the making.
Yeah I cringed at that one because she's unwell and is a major stalker.
@@LaquetaHodge seriously tho! I hope every man See's her video and avoids her crazy self😬
Wow...the stalker girl was so over the top I assumed she was just being funny by being so extreme...now I'm not so sure after reading these comments. Ick.
A friend of mine went through a similar situation like the guy in the reddit story that never had relations with his wife. He married his now ex wife when he was 20, they both grew up in conservative Christian homes and were taught to wait until marriage for sex and all that bs. So when the wedding night came his wife was literally too scared to have sex with him because all her life she had been told sex was a bad sinful thing. Unfortunately my friend's ex wife never got any help to move past the issue so they separated and then divorced.
Other things were in wrong in their relationship before they got married and that was just the last straw for mt friend.
I feel really bad of women who grew up in conservative Christian households because there's always fear amd shame when talking about sex which leads them to fear it when the time eventually comes.
That’s not completely true, my mom hammered home the “no sex before marriage” message, but she was very open and unashamed about sex, so I don’t have any hangups about sex. But I don’t ascribe to the belief about sex outside of marriage anymore and I see how it can cause problems
Why do you assume every woman who wants to wait until marriage is “scared” of sex? Couple’s who wait tend to have a better sex life and the divorce rates are lower according to statistics. You can tell if someone is fearful of sex or thinks it’s “sinful” just by talking to them 99% of the time. The biggest reason a woman can fear sex is from SA or a previous trauma.. that’s not the new man’s fault, but I think it’s definitely something you need to tell your partner BEFORE you marry them.
I'm not christian but my religion also says to wait until after marriage to have intimate relations which i don't have an issue with cuz aroace energy. And while we are told it is a sin to do it before marriage, they never drill it into us and think it's literally the worst thing we could ever do and if we did we'd go straight to he**.
@@CHloE748I love how both of you completely dismiss the commenters story and act like they're assuming nonsense by having it. What are you even talking about?
I'm a woman who grew up in a Concervative Christian household, was taught about sex, but was never made to fear it. Not sure where you're getting your information....
Your videos are like Saturday morning cartoons in our house! 8mo old & I watch everymorning and my hubby joins on the weekends. 🤣 instead of Goodbye, my hubby now yells 'Subscribe!'
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Love that!😊
That is absolutely adorable!!!! ❤❤❤❤
I’m going to start doing that too! My family will laugh😂
I love how your kid will be like a small Charlotte telling the kiddos in the play yard about themselves and how Cindy gotta drop Bobby because of some bad behavior and what not!! Teachers are gonna be tripping out !!😂😂😂😂😂❤❤❤❤❤ Raising Petty kiddos!!❤❤❤
@@misskittymcg630 coming home from school like "mommy that teacher had the Audacity!!!" 🤣
The lesson my parents taught me about confessing when you've done something wrong is this: if the other person would have a more pleasant life never knowing and you tell them anyway, you're not doing it for them. You're doing it for you. You are intentionally hurting them to make yourself feel better.
Applying that to this case, if you cheated: you take that shit to your grave. The guilt is yours to bear, not theirs.
I agree with this
Well I got a super story for you Charlotte. My bf was with his ex for many years, they had a house together and many other stuff. When their relationship ended, she told him that he didn't deserve anything and made a tantrum over every little thing from books, tools to his birth certificate. So he left her everything and left. Idk, I couldn't do it myself, I would fight her but he just did it. Later on like 4 years after her house was robbed. And she told cops that he must have done that. So he was on an interrogation on a police station and lucky he has his map tracking still on, so showed them where he was all that time and they had to release him in a few minutes. Omg, she got it all and she still wants to make him desperate...
How is she gatekeeping his birth certificate like what lmao
Why the birth certificate though??? That's creepy, makes me think that she might try to steal his identity one day.
@@meganmichaels9510 I think this is not about the thing itself, but about power. What people don't understand is, that if they need to use force, then they don't have power in the first place.
@@meganmichaels9510 well I asked him a minute ago and he told me, she just wanted everything, she wanted me to walk away with naked ass. It was totaly toxic relationship in every drop of its meaning.
@@2007animegirl yeah, Im also a scared abou that thing because she seems like a girl with evil tendencies and she may sell it to some shady person.. But he is quite sure she doesn't even know that she has it. Maybe the robbers get it now.. Don't know what can we do about it tho..
Honestly I was genuinely friends with a couple of my exes until they got into some weird stuff. Like we're not really friends anymore not because they're my exes but because we differ on some pretty core values. I've known plenty of people who have really healthy relationships with their exes, it's just up to the people that were in that romantic relationship.
Why can’t people just be grownups and let it go when people break up. Some people are so vindictive. Love ❤️ your videos Charlotte so much❤️💯
Grown ups are freaking vindictive, that's why divorce attorneys get payed like 500 bucks per hour to listen to idiots arguing for hours over who gets the cans of soup they got last time they shopped together.
Your exactly right. I’m just not like that.
Oh my God literally I think I have to move towns because of a break up because everybody in the family harasses me LOL?😅 thanks Charlotte❤❤ looking beautiful as always
It just seems like a waste of energy to me..
Some of my ex's are friends, some not. Just don't see why it has to be so complicated
@@shannamarietaylor1937 That's gross that the family does that shit. I am moving countries because some girl I used to work with won't stop harassing me. Not because she likes me. Because she thinks I'm going to sexually harm and kill her. Where she got the idea I don't know. I am on the spectrum and can come off as creepy because I don't express emotions well. So, that might be part of it. But, she was never all there to begin with either. Either way, the police arrested me the last time I called 911 after she hid and lied about being out of state. So, I have to move before things get violent.
5 years of marriage and no sex at all? That guy is the most patient, oddity ever to exist in human nature!
I know a couple that got married when they were 20. They waited until they were both 26 to do any of that, so that they could spend time together and “relationship goals,” haha 😂 There’s more to relationships than just “being romantic,” right? I’m not sure, I’m still young and don’t understand fully, so correct me if I’m wrong! 😅
@@corvixie oh no, you are absolutely right! It is unusual, though!
However in the above mentioned case, that was not part of their 'goals' together.
@@Aurora3242 Okay thank you for clearing that up! I appreciate your reply! 😄
My husband got separated in 2000 and divorced in 2003. We met shortly after the divorce and very slowly started a relationship. His ex is still attempting to get him back. 20 years!!!
And?
Bro they need to move on
@@JR-lw3ms Aaaand she's telling her very-relevant-to-the-topic story. Lol
@@HappiiWheels lol it’s probably the ex
@@JR-lw3ms are you the 20 years desperate ex? 😂
One thing I was always told by my mum growing up was “never go back for ‘closure’ if a situation/person has hurt you, because you would never go back and ask a snake why it bit you” has always stuck with me…
The guy who never had relations with his wife...if you really want to make sure she knows nothing about you, you have to block not only her but her family and friends. Everyone you know who is associated with her. Sometimes you have to go a step further and ask your current partner to do the same, especially if the ex is highly unstable. Some may see that as extreme, but sometimes it is very necessary. Protect yourselves from the crazies, friends.
I love Instagram feature where when you block an account it automatically blocks any other accounts created by the same user. This should be implemented by other social media platforms
Fantastic advice!
Why didn't they get an annulment if it was never consummated, then he could prove this, but he got a divorce instead saying he cheating, seems suspicious to me.
Better safe than sorry.. .
@Patricia Puleski the problem with that is, he would never have been able to prove that they didn't consummate the marriage. If she's denying it now then she certainly would have denied it in court.
I actually like hearing about my man's exes from him. I don't want to know them but I want to know what his perception of the best and worst about them was because that can teach me how to love him better.
It boggles my mind that our society has been so ingrained by social media that, the first thing people think to do when something bad happens, or they get upset; is go straight to posting it online. Seriously, why are we airing our dirty laundry out for a world of strangers?
I feel people get off on the attention they get from it. I keep my social media presence low not sharing anything bad or even good at times.
Humans enjoy communication. When something happens (be it good, bad, or crazy) they want to let as many people know to either try it, avoid it, or spot the signs of something. Sometimes it's incredibly helpful, but it's hidden in a sea of clout-chasing and funny videos.
It is actually pathetic and attention seeking.
Exactly.
@@WaryJester you raise a good point. I do believe there are people out there who want to educate people on certain situations, or show them what not to do. Good point.
Im so glad im the total opposite of the crazy ex lmao, if all relationships are done, it'll hurt but fine. If i can stay friends with them I'll take that and be happy with my life
I had an ex who made a tinder pretending to be me whilst dating. Sexted these guys pretending to be me. This was because I caught him cheating via meet me,tinder, kik, WhatsApp, Craigslist with other 30 women and he wanted me to sleep around to make it even. No. I was emotionally abused in that relationship and struggled to leave. I was morbidly obese and he was a feeder. Anytime I would try to lose weight he would sabotage me and scream at me if I didn’t finish a plate he made me. Threatened to keep my puppy if I left him. What finally sent me over the edge is when he punched my puppy in the face and gave him a swollen shut black eye. So I broke his nose. Very mature I know. He started stalking me on my college campus. He went on to tell people he dumped me because I cheated and he had the “proof” from the tinder he made. Absolute trash can of a human. I ended up finding out the poor girl he dated after me went from being 120lbs to well over 300lbs. I hope she was able to get out too.
Glad you are free. Well done for protecting the pup.
OHH HELLL NAHH!!! PUNCHED A PUPPY??? Awesome that you broke that hideous nose of his. Sentence him to public execution!
Só proud of you! I wish i could ser that punch hahaha you Go girl
hoooly shit feeders are dangerous!!! good job getting away from that guy, he sounds like he's not gonna get better and i personally like your 'mature' response very much.
Girl I just wanna say I discovered your channel a few days ago and I am on a major binge of all of your videos.
You are amazing!
Just got to drop this story and perspective here: I'm a psych student and my ex was a malignant narcissist. He managed to charm everyone and convinced me during the relationship that everyone hated me, as well as other cruel psych tactics. Now here's where it's juicy- his ex's all appeared "crazy" and he labeled them as such. He was stringing them along the entire 7 years. I thought they were crazy until I went to therapy and saw his actions as purposely creating addictive like behavior in almost every woman he engaged with, ever. These stories might have more behind them, be careful ladies. Not every "crazy ex" actually is. Narcissists frequently manipulate people who know their actions to stay separate, hate each other, not trust each other, and string multiple people along. Now I'm the "crazy ex" but he's out of my life and I have moved on, don't reach out etc. He used to bait and provoke me into responding, though. He doesn't want his new girl to know the truth and really wants his ex's to look bad and untrustworthy. Nah, we are mostly just codependents with a frustrated sense of justice. Just saying, this perspective belongs here. Also: Narcissists denying sex is an actual, legit narcissistic tactic. I'm suspicious of the dude's story around 7 minutes in.
Dang, we date the same guy??
This was my ex. Told me such horror stories about his cheating previous ex and how awful cheating was, abused me for years, cheated for nine months and now I'm watching him replay our entire relationship step by step with a clone of that "horrible ex" while undoubtedly telling her how AWFUL I was. Hell, he even tried to tell my own father I was the bad one.
Yeah.... Pretty sure that he was cheating with his new lady in the last months of our relationship also. Triangulation, every time I saw something he called me crazy, constant gaslighting, and a rotation of love bombing and isolation, and being legit sadistic to his kid and me behind closed doors. In public he would parade me and talk highly of me because his ego is tied with a "good guy" image. Then he got into crypto, met a couple millionaires and he couldn't hide anymore. His greed became #1 and all of a sudden his bad behavior was visible to multiple people. Pretty sure that he agrees with Andrew Tate now, but never publicly! Also his ex's all seem to be brilliant but sensitive romantic types. And their "crazy" behavior makes SO MUCH SENSE after therapy and time away from his circle of lies and toxicity. Poor women! We all needed therapy after him.
100% You always have to be so careful.
@@deepwaters7242 - whoa! I'm blown away by your description of the same kind of actions by the man I'm with/not with. The strong/healthy part of me knows I need to completely cut him off & out of my life, but the weak/lonely/unhealthy part of me has been part of my life for much longer.
She should have scared her by saying, 'I'm pregnant, how did you know'
Boy, am I glad that I’m in my SECOND marriage because my first marriage had all the drama! He kept his ex around but swore she was a crazy person who was jealous of our relationship. Turns out, he was cheating on me with her the entire 2 years we were dating and even slept with her right before our wedding. During our marriage, I found out about multiple other partners. It was a nightmare! What I learned is if you have an ex messaging you, it could be that he or she is crazy. It could also be that your boyfriend/girlfriend isn’t being honest about their relationship. Be careful!
You’re gorgeous
Yasss Charlotte pls get me through this last 45 mins at work
It's people like these that gives me the "it's moment like these that I'm glad I'm single" thoughts. Cuz if I don't date, I don't have to worry about potentially dating a psycho who won't leave me alone well after the relationship is over. 😅
She certainly knows how to send you into crazy jealousy, makes you derranged. Your reaction is what she wants. You have given her power.
Reminds me when I got with my husband years ago, him and his ex had been broken up for over a year or more and as soon as I got in the picture it was constant texting him, calling him at work, late at night wanting him to phone and check in on her kids, lying and making up stories to get a rise out of him hoping he would be jealous or he would go out of his way to rescue her from her own drama. She got mad when she found out I was pregnant, but that didn't stop her till she took off to clear her head and stay with family members hoping my husband would go out of his way for her, he never once tried to contact her at the point and it seems like she got the hint and hasn't bothered since.
4:52 ... the auto voice saying this dollar hit is so crazy got me in stitches 😂😂😂
I patiently wait everyday continuously refreshing my page just to watch your videos as soon as you post. I love you Queen.
She posts the same time every day so you can set an alarm (a couple minutes ahead so you can gather the tea and popcorn 😉) and get here right on time.
Can I just say Charlotte thank you so much for being a constant. I have been struggling a lot with the death of my dog who is my everything and these videos are really keeping me going a lot of RUclipsrs disappear. Thank you for staying consistent AF. You always cheer me up and make me laugh.❤
Shawna, I am so sorry about your loss of your fur baby. Dogs give unconditional love. Keep filling your heart with love and learn to love another fur baby when you are ready.
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. It's horrible to lose your dog. Charlotte is a great distraction and laughter is good for you. Peace.
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the fact that he's allowing her to keep in contact with him (especially knowing how it upsets you) is a major red flag... it makes it seem like he's still attached to her as well...
When Snoopy appeared on screen I was ecstatic, no kidding. Big fan of both!! 😂❤
When it’s over it’s over for me. I never have done anything vindictive or crazy. In my mind it’s just over
15:09 I can’t believe Charlotte passed on the “he says it was nothing deep” joke. 😂
The story with the woman who didn't want to have intimacy after marriage bothers me. Not because of not wanting intimacy (there are plenty of people who aren't interested in that, just gotta find the right ones), but because there was an insinuation she would be interested (i.e. "waiting for marriage"). If things change, fine. Just talk. But it feels like she pulled him into the marriage with false promises of what it would be like.
Gross.
She might have been lying to herself thinking that she would feel differently once she was married. I find it harder to understand that she would lie intentionally.
@@pearlofthedarkage yh honestly purity culture can fuck up your perspective on sex and intimacy a lot. it sounds to me like she needed therapy (not condoning what she did to him later on tho). being taught your whole life that sex is bad and to stay away only to then be told it’s okay for u to do it overnight isn’t easy
@@pearlofthedarkage That's fair, but they were married for 5 whole years. That's a long time to not even discuss it in different ways. Obviously there might be more the OP didn't share. And if there is religious trauma, I hope the ex-wife got help.
Purity culture church culture can REALLY fuck up someone's views of sex and intimacy. When you've been taught your whole life sex is disgusting and dirty and wrong and lust is a sin, that switch doesn't just flip because a ring is on your finger.
Who marry someone just for sex...
Women in Chicago were finding air tags on their cars! Some were followed home and were attacked 😢 one friends daughter caught a guy putting an air tag on her car when she forgot something and went back to her car. Be careful everyone!!
The fact that the last guy said he wouldn't have cheated if she had just listened to him was a red flag in itself.
Edit: I forgot they weren't dating at the time but it's still messed up.
it happened after they broke up and while she was trying to date someone else. he didn't cheat, but his comment about listening is still a red flag.
Huge red flag. I commented the same thing before I read your comment. If you blame others for your own bad behavior there is something seriously wrong with you. It's not just that he'll blame her for...I bet if she looks back he did it all time. Such as... well you didn't tell me you wanted me to do the dishes so I just didn't think about it. well you didn't have sex with me so I went elsewhere. What else was I supposed to do? If he/she starts with well, you...then run away fast!!
Searched for a comment like this for 10 minutes. Gaslighting at its finest.
I agree with you that it sounds a bit manipulative, but I have a feeling the only reason he did hook up with his ex was why anyone hooks up with there ex.. convenience.
Exactly....somehow he tries to blame HER for his choice to xxx his ex. He HAD to because this woman wouldn't talk to him???? 😅 Nice try. But illogical. And textbook manipulation behaviour. Beware.
You can't cheat on someone you love. IF you do, you don't love that person. No matter HOW you THINK you feel about them, it's not love.
That first girl with the green hair needs help. The ex is crazy but so is she for staying with a man who won’t cut the ex off.
My kid's dad recently told my youngest (age 20), "I still have feelings for your mom, and she feels the same." My son gave him a reality check. My son told him I was happily married and in no way does she have romantic feelings. He reported to his dad, "The only reason she talks to you is because of my sister and I.". Move on, please. He cheated and lied, nope nope nit ever again. 😅😅😊😮
Ahhhhaaaa!!! That face edit with Weird Al took me out. This is such a creepy yet funny clip. These Ex’s are Bonkers. Keep them coming Queen Charlotte. 🤣😂😆👑
Couldn’t be me, I moved across the whole damn US and then broke up with my ex 😂 …I’m in a very healthy relationship now(6 years later) that I couldn’t be more grateful for, has opened me up into the person I was before all that bs and really loving life again. Took a lot of self reflection & therapy but yayy to happiness 😌💛💛💛
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the reason she's creating this 'fiction' about your past relationship and 'denied' her sex is because she found out (after the problems that led to the divorce) is that everyone thinks she's weird for not having sex with her husband for 5+ years... so now she's wanting to shake of the stigma of her being weird about sex and trying to throw the blame onto him in order to get rid of the stigma. she's 'deflecting' the reason onto him. hoping that it won't taint any more relationships she has, but you can't stop being who you are and if she has some weird sex hang-ups then she'll continue to have them unless she gets some serious help. and even then it'll take YEARS before she'll be able to handle it. BUT until then, she'll keep blaming him in order to try and get people to not realize it was her and give her funny looks... it's easier to blame the other person instead of owning up to your own crap... AND it has the added benefit of trying to hurt his relationship as a form of getting back at him for the cheating, which I can promise, she's STILL hurt about....
Assuming she's a closet Ace, she's giving the rest of us Aces a bad name.
"Amicable" is nodding hello when you see them in a grocery store, not texting because of a random holiday that doesn't even apply to him.
I still talk to one of my exes. She's actually like my closest friend.
I'm a lesbian and live in a medium sized city with a small LGBT community so everyone is kind of connected. Everyone dated each other's ex etc so a lot of us end up being/staying friends.
It's sort of nice when people are mature about it. I feel like when a relationship ends the friendship part of that relationship can sometimes continue. Depending on the people involved.
My current partner is also friends with my ex.
I should note it did take time. It was a pretty bad breakup so we both had to work on our feelings about it before we could consider ourselves friends again. We both wish we had just stayed friends and never had a relationship. We were meant to just be friends all along.
I don't see the issue with being friends with an ex either - one of my best friends is also an ex (the relationship was based on a friendship to begin with and ended because of differences in dreams for the future). I'm good friends with the wife of another ex and talk to him (the ex) occasionally, mostly through her lol, me and my current partner have dinner with them sometimes and stuff like that. Different kind of breakups lead to different relationships with exes. Sometimes you never speak to them again and sometimes you stay close friends forever 🙃
Oh! Musical beds! Sounds Stinkingly Gross. They will all eventually turn against you, ha, that’s how it works in the Alphabet community. Go get therapy!
@@pufferpuffer4434 the fuck
Yes LGBTQ community can be like that. I am only friends with one or two exes. But glad you can make it work.
Lmfao For first story, I would have said, "Wow! You heard we're expecting?! Thanks!"
🤣 @11:22 I’m on a lunch break and literally laughed out my 🍟 at the alien scene reference to cheating. Love the content Charlotte! Your ability to heal wounds with advice and comedy is amazing! 😅❤
Your feelings are validated.
I’ve never been this early! I look forward to your videos during every lunch break at my job. You brighten so many people’s day Charlotte keep it up.
I have remained friendly with some of my ex's, in those cases we weren't really 'in luurrve' but more of being comfortable around each other.
My ex husband however, stalked me, asked me out on a date for my birthday the year AFTER our divorce came through, and when I said no, repeatedly, still turned up at my house anyway and got pissy because I wasn't ready to go out and he had tickets and "everything". He kept saying we could get back together. This is the man who drove me to the brink of suicide, gaslighted me, hit me etc etc. Nothing I did was ever good enough for him..... not to mention how he was gaslighting our kids too and mentally stuffed them up. It's been 15 years since our divorce and for the last 8 he has had a constant partner who is just like him.
No thanks... I'll pass.
Does anyone else ever refresh page starting at 11 waiting for her to upload? Just me?
Same - but 10:00
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"If you need closure, just block him" best advice ever!
Bahahaha your Alien reference “priceless” omg we would so be friends Char
That last story reminds me of me and my ex. He broke up with her, got with me a week later, cheated on me with her, I was stupid and stayed with him. He broke up with me, 3 weeks later was back with her, cheated on her with me, and just constantly played both of us. Always lying to me says she’s crazy and that I “made him a better man” bs. Saw she’s with someone else now and I have a way better man now. And now he’s not even in the same state as me anymore. Good riddance
The first one is SOOO ANNNNOYINGGG!!!!!!
I love your videos!!! Thanks for all the laughs and petty ideas ! ❤️😊
You are so welcome!
Omg! Thanks so much for the reply made my day . Have a great day 💗💗
I spit my drink out and everyone is staring at me. When the host said she never gave you the giggity goo
Have some pride. Recognize your own worth. If they don't want you it's their loss. Let them go. ❤
LOL that first one I'd have been like, "OMG how did you know? We haven't even gone to the gyno yet, but the RING is amazing, and I just couldn't wait until after the wedding."
I'm friendly with my ex-husband, and we still communicate, but it's always respectful. I hope he gets in a happy relationship sometime, and if his partner asked me to limit contact, I would to just business. Since he pays me alimony so we still need to communicate, but I would definitely stop the friendly texts. We had a horrible relationship, but he was my husband, and I love him for that and still want him to move on and be happy. I mean, I have. My current partner's ex is constantly butting in amd its really annoying, and they aren't friendly she's just obsessive.
I have 2 ex partners I'm being in sort of friendly relationships with. For me it's so weird that some people think the only way to end relationship is to cut off the ex and block them everywhere. One of my exes lives nearby me and sometimes babysits my dogs or I borrow his tools. Or I lend him my van or store his potatoes in my basement or smth. I also get along with his new partner. The fact that we didn't fit as a couple does not mean we can't be friendly with each other. We are not super close and there's NOTHING romantic with him. Also we have similar taste in films, we work in the same industry, so we talk about mutual interests as well. With another ex I'm still in good terms with I go to cinema or concerts. But I have some dudes I've been dating that I do not even greet when we see each other. I think it depends on person as well.
@Maria Teng for sure I feel the same way. I don't really spend time with my ex but we will ask each other about advice on gardening or he taught me how to cook really well so when I have a question about a recipe I'll text him. He knows if he needs advice he can contact me. My parents are like that too. They've been divorced for years and they will call each other and chat. My dad was just over at my mom's for the week cat sitting while she went to New Orleans with my grandparents and her BF. There are definitely some exs I do not want anything to do with but I think after youve been with someone for a long time or married you know a lot about them and it's just nice knowing you can still be friendly and wish the best for them.
4:29 I love that she made it so the “t” looks a bit like an “r”
My ex-bf and I ended on really good terms, no bad blood and I genuinely hope for the best for him, and I'm sure he feels the same way! We're both in different relationships right now, and from time to time I even order cakes from his company - which are the best, btw- when I go to pick it up if he happens to be there, we have a friendly chat and that's about it! Even though there's no bad feelings, for me, there's no reason to be keeping in touch with your ex, especially if the significant other is bothered by it! And honestly, if you still feel something for that person and he/she has moved on to somebody else, you're only making yourself suffer! Give yourselves a chance to be happy!
I love this, for both of you. Such a healthy way to handle a breakup.
I have my daughters' names over my heart. That love will never change.
That first girls boyfriend better never break up with her… there is some seriously "creepy ex" vibes about her
Gigidigoo😂😂😂😂 for some reason that had me cracking me🤣
Always so much FUN Charlotte🎉 Thank you for sharing your humor, love and time. I love you my STUNNING POTATO QUEEN ❤❤❤❤ xxxx
I'd been married 15 or more years when my ex fiance (the 1st love, that 16 year old drama love 😅😂) messaged me saying I had a beautiful family and he wanted to talk to me about something. I messaged back, "I can't think of anything you and I have left to say to each other," and then blocked him! Blocked his girlfriend's account, too, just in case. 😂
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studies in psychology and relationships have shown that it's never a good idea to 'stay friends' with your ex... the only exception is being you were great friends BEFORE the relationship for YEARS. and even then, it's extremely rare that the friendship will last after the breakup. There are too many issue that arise (the most obliviously being that one of you will always want to get back together) in the 'friendship' after the relationship and usually just causes more problems in whatever new relationship you get into... it's better in the long run to just cut ties cold turkey and view them as part of your past and make sure that there is no more contact (unless it's legal stuff through lawyers only) from then on... you'll be happier and have less complications in your life... the exception being with kids involved, then try to keep it civil, otherwise as limited contact as possible...
Yes I actually had a guy tell me he's still friends with all his ex because it didn't end badly and that I should absolutely compete to treat him better than they did. I blocked him so fast.
So to be very crude I always told myself....if a body part has entered me in any way then when we separate we will NOT BE FRIENDS 😅😅
Wasn't expecting the Alien/cheater scene and I lost it 😂
Also, my cousin's ex husband tattooed her face on the back of his hand with her name in a banner underneath. Their marriage didn't last long and I've wondered what he did with the tattoo after the divorce.
Also, for the last one (in my opinion) it should have been a HUGE red flag that he didn't respect that she was in a relationship with someone else and kept bugging her anyway. That right there tells me he doesn't believe in loyalty and if he thinks this way about her relationship with someone else, he would think about *their* relationship the same way. No respect for boundaries.
I swear wayyyy too many people have crazy exes 😂. At this rate if you haven't had one, you've probably been one 🤷🏾♀️😂
Sending love from South Africa ❤️🇿🇦
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The hidden airtags are scary. There have been so many terrifying stories in the news of people who find airtags hidden in their purses or cars and end up having someone stalking them.
My ex-husband was 6'4". When we were young, dumb & in love he tattooed my name (12"x 3") across his _whole_ lower abdomen. That tattoo really hurt to get, so he never bothered to cover it when we broke up. To this day I laugh everytime I think about him. Cause, anytime any girl's ever been down near "his area" would have to be thinkin' to herself, "Oh look, I'm not the 1st girl to be down here & the last girl left her name!" 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Finding the personal contact/name etc. of anyone you DON'T know personally, borders upon stalking
Imma be honest, first girl sounded a bit cray… says she’s happy, but uh.. doesn’t seem like it. My bf’s ex also texts him and I… don’t care. Because I trust my bf. And he doesn’t engage back. And I certainly don’t make an unhinged TikTok about it.
That’s my potentially unpopular opinion for this video. :)
Not unpopular, she seems insecure and I think her boyfriend should step up. Someone pointed out that the texts from the ex and boyfriend before the ones in the screenshot had been deleted and he's not putting up any boundaries
For the last story, whenever some says anything along the lines of: "If you had (done what I wanted you to), then I wouldn't have ( done something to hurt or discomfort you); I become completely done. You will not make me the cause of your wrongdoing.
5 years after marriage and still no relations. Like Sus.
Some people love the drama. It isnt that hard to block phone numbers....
Okay, the ex-wife sounds like she married OP for stability. If she wasn't sleeping with him, she was sleeping with someone else & the fact she remarried within a year of the divorce is sus. I think she was just withholding intimacy as a control tactic to get what she wanted because she only wanted what OP could give her, but not him.
I'm so glad this sort of drama is behind me.
I think it's odd to assume you can't be friends with an ex. Sometimes, a relationship ends up being a horrible idea or you just grow apart, but a friendship works out great. I've also had an exes girlfriends totally freak out over me when we barely chat and 100% friend zone, even one made up a fake email with an email address I hadn't used in years to frame me for telling her he was a cheater 😬 Crazy ! I didn't even know her name 😅 Either trust someone or let them go.
Agreed! It is possible to be friends with your ex. Imo it's the overly insecure gfs that act like the ones you mentioned who end up causing all the drama, rather than the ex. Most of the time all it takes is one conversation to explain boundaries, etc.
Yeah...tattooing your SO's name on yourself is basically prophetic of breaking up.
Why isn't the ex blocked by now?
That bleugh at the end scared me so bad! 😂😂
Exes*
EDIT: I'm pretty sure you don't have to go through a full divorce if the marriage isn't consummated. You just tell the courts that you didn't ever bone and you qualify for an annulment, last I checked.
That's interesting that that is still a thing and also not limited to Catholics.
@@catherine-eggallergyinmd I mean, I'm not _certain_ it's still a thing, but I'm pretty sure. Most North American laws _were_ written by some variety of Christian, after all.
@@Arcanist_Gaming either way it's still cool 🙂👍
OMG!!! Charlotte your hair looks amazing, you look so beautiful!!💗💝
As someone who is asexual (and also aro, but that isnt relevant rn) I can sympathise with the no ahem relations ex a tiny bit bc it can be very hard in this society to admit that its not something your into. However that's where my sympathy ends bc you absolutely need to be communicative about how you feel about these sorts of things. I cant understand that she strung him along for 5 years? But then again we only hear his side of the story so maybe she did try to talk about it, but to some men the concept of asexuality is so far out of the realm of reality, you might as well try to explain the concept to a fish 😅 Then again again, if she really made up that bs story then she sounds crazy either way xD
Yes. I finally realized I am Grey Ace Demi in my late 40s. Very rarely am attracted to anyone at all. Great to figure that out. Sadly, there was zero awareness about Asexuality when I was growing up. But good to know I am not broken. ❤