Honestly man you're one of the only "men's help" guys that recognizes that women are just human beings with some broad differences from most men, and brings actual sociology to the table. You're saving the incels from themselves while putting out good info, God bless ya.
Summary: 1. Smell good 2. Use your smile as a reward 3. Tell her a secret (not too soon and not crazy personal) 4. Strong eye contact (when speaking, break eye contact frequently/ when listening, heavy eye contact) 5. Accentuate shoulder: hip ratio (well fitted shirts that taper at waist, broad shoulders) 6. Speak from chest (deeper voices, but don't overdo it) 7. End off sentences with a low note/ confident tone (don't pitch up, like you're questioning yourself) 8. Tease and banter (don't be a dick though) 9. Social proof yourself, make sure your friends hype you up and aren't putting you down 10. Learn to...salsa? LOL
Lol....we share almost the same name handle. Anyway I applaud this list. Finally!! Somebody gets it. I particularly despise oversized shirts or trousers on guys. Poor dressing is a real urgh! In fact as a woman, everything on this list is on target.👍
Dude I just have to confirm right now that you are in fact a genius. I've heard so many people talk about eye contact but nobody has ever broken it down so simple and practical like this.
The best results of social proof are when a friend jokingly says: ''This guy is a complete asshole!'' I found that works much better than being positive and boring.
Funny thing i dance salsa. I remember i took a girl on a first date to a salsa night and yea we were touching while dancing the whole night and we ended making out passionately. Just one note we already had great chemistry together before starting dancing. Salsa made things progress easily and effortlessly, but it s not salsa who created the spark ! Oh ! Nd u need more than a couple of months to be able to dance decently... but it totally worth it ! :)
As a level 3 salsa dancer/ dance instructor you will need more than 3 months of salsa lessons and you have to practice at home. I don't even have to approach women anymore which got me spoiled.
@@PilipBwoy I don't think it's sustainable tactic. You can't keep many different girls from the same "social pool". Plus salsa community can be sometime so close and open to gossiping
@@eftiprwtopapadakis9310 it depends where you are. i live in NJ and 15 minutes away from New York which is the birthplace of salsa. i always see new people every time im at a social
All 9 are great tips but number 10.... Dancing is a mating ritual, sooner or later, if you're in a LTR she´ll want to dance with other dudes, then good luck on that negotiation! Anyway, good job man!
Very good advices, greetings from Budapest. One thing I noticed regarding "social status with friends" . I have two good friends who are better than me regarding getting women. My social status is a little bit lower in our group although I am the tallest, and way more musculous than them. They can tease girls very well, and I am the one who follows them cause I know that they have more courage to start talking to a girl, and then it is way easier for me talk to the girl's girlfriend. If I was the guy who gets more girls in the club, approaches way earlier than them, my friends would follow me in the club, which means girls would see that my status is the highest... Thatswy its so hard...
Yeah definitely! a large number of poeple who dance salsa, also dance bachata - I do both as well - And most clubs who play salsa, also play bachata music :)
How can I reach out to you directly, I would like to set up a meeting with you as I am a talented marketing student who would like to share some ideas with you if you are interested.
Why try to trick any woman into liking you? Men just need better grooming habits. Women make a lot of effort to look good. I’m not into those metrosexual men who are overgroomed, but clean, sharp, and smells nice can’t be beat. Effort is better than faking the funk.
I don't think most men are appreciative of getting dressed up and would wish people would just dress normal. It'd be amazing to just hang out in sweats and watch netflix.
@@SchoolOfAttraction it feels like making a conscious effort to deepen your voice. I mean, how long can you keep that up? Why not just speak the way you normally speak, and if she doesn't like it, then she isn't worth the trouble?
Honestly man you're one of the only "men's help" guys that recognizes that women are just human beings with some broad differences from most men, and brings actual sociology to the table. You're saving the incels from themselves while putting out good info, God bless ya.
Thanks a lot dude, it's a fight, and I think it's the good fight :)
Summary:
1. Smell good
2. Use your smile as a reward
3. Tell her a secret (not too soon and not crazy personal)
4. Strong eye contact (when speaking, break eye contact frequently/ when listening, heavy eye contact)
5. Accentuate shoulder: hip ratio (well fitted shirts that taper at waist, broad shoulders)
6. Speak from chest (deeper voices, but don't overdo it)
7. End off sentences with a low note/ confident tone (don't pitch up, like you're questioning yourself)
8. Tease and banter (don't be a dick though)
9. Social proof yourself, make sure your friends hype you up and aren't putting you down
10. Learn to...salsa? LOL
Lol....we share almost the same name handle. Anyway I applaud this list. Finally!! Somebody gets it. I particularly despise oversized shirts or trousers on guys. Poor dressing is a real urgh!
In fact as a woman, everything on this list is on target.👍
YES! I really value your advice on using your smile as a reward so remember to brush your teeth on a regualar basis guys ;-)
Dude I just have to confirm right now that you are in fact a genius.
I've heard so many people talk about eye contact but nobody has ever broken it down so simple and practical like this.
This is all great advice Damien! Keep up the good work man.
Wow! Did you go to finishing school? incredibly practical constellation of skill!
this is perfect! If anyone can get these tips down even if they don't get it down 100% at all the tricks they'll do so well with most woman
This info is golden.
Thank you.
You're welcome Jay
Social proof is an interesting one, maybe you could do a video on how to improve in that area?
I might just do that :)
The best results of social proof are when a friend jokingly says: ''This guy is a complete asshole!'' I found that works much better than being positive and boring.
Thank you for making this video!
You're welcome bud!
Top-notch! Real insights.
Cheers WTF
That is the eternal question!
You alwaysgive great advice my,I use your techniques on the daily and it's working great.
That's great to hear mate!
@SchoolOfAttraction Very Powerful!
Cheers Plamen
Funny thing i dance salsa. I remember i took a girl on a first date to a salsa night and yea we were touching while dancing the whole night and we ended making out passionately. Just one note we already had great chemistry together before starting dancing. Salsa made things progress easily and effortlessly, but it s not salsa who created the spark !
Oh ! Nd u need more than a couple of months to be able to dance decently... but it totally worth it ! :)
As a level 3 salsa dancer/ dance instructor you will need more than 3 months of salsa lessons and you have to practice at home. I don't even have to approach women anymore which got me spoiled.
@@PilipBwoy I don't think it's sustainable tactic. You can't keep many different girls from the same "social pool". Plus salsa community can be sometime so close and open to gossiping
@@eftiprwtopapadakis9310 it depends where you are. i live in NJ and 15 minutes away from New York which is the birthplace of salsa. i always see new people every time im at a social
I'm learning salsa! Right now!
It's great fun isn't it?
@@SchoolOfAttraction yes! Thanks for the advice ;)
8:39 i already have a deep voice i got a atoms apple so 🤙😁🤣
All 9 are great tips but number 10.... Dancing is a mating ritual, sooner or later, if you're in a LTR she´ll want to dance with other dudes, then good luck on that negotiation! Anyway, good job man!
Very good advices, greetings from Budapest. One thing I noticed regarding "social status with friends" . I have two good friends who are better than me regarding getting women. My social status is a little bit lower in our group although I am the tallest, and way more musculous than them. They can tease girls very well, and I am the one who follows them cause I know that they have more courage to start talking to a girl, and then it is way easier for me talk to the girl's girlfriend. If I was the guy who gets more girls in the club, approaches way earlier than them, my friends would follow me in the club, which means girls would see that my status is the highest... Thatswy its so hard...
Nowadays you just gotta supply the girl with the type of drugs she’s into and she’ll be hooked.
Social proof is huge.
I smoke so I always disregard people when they tell me to smell nice 😂
Chris Mazuras doesn’t take much effort to wash your hands after a cigarette and hit your body with some cologne.
13:42 is Bachata as good???? :)
Yeah definitely! a large number of poeple who dance salsa, also dance bachata - I do both as well - And most clubs who play salsa, also play bachata music :)
Why would I want to think about 20 different variables at the same time? There is no way even 10% of guys think about this all the time
I always try good eye contact...but I have strabismus....and it doesnt help
How can I reach out to you directly, I would like to set up a meeting with you as I am a talented marketing student who would like to share some ideas with you if you are interested.
Hi Cymone, you're welcome to send and email through to me on info@schoolofattraction.com.au
YES, I WANT TO BE A CREEP!! GIVE ME 10 TRICKS TO BE A CREEP!!!
What about bachata?
Sure, Bachata is great! Usually salsa and bachata are taught at the same places anyway
@@SchoolOfAttraction I know, I've been dancing bachata on intermediate level
Too many women drown themselves in perfume. It's disgusting, they shouldn't try so hard.
Why try to trick any woman into liking you? Men just need better grooming habits. Women make a lot of effort to look good. I’m not into those metrosexual men who are overgroomed, but clean, sharp, and smells nice can’t be beat. Effort is better than faking the funk.
I don't think most men are appreciative of getting dressed up and would wish people would just dress normal. It'd be amazing to just hang out in sweats and watch netflix.
Man, the deep voice thing is just silly! It seems totally opposite and backwards from what seems to be your philosophy.
In what way?
@@SchoolOfAttraction it feels like making a conscious effort to deepen your voice. I mean, how long can you keep that up? Why not just speak the way you normally speak, and if she doesn't like it, then she isn't worth the trouble?