Do THIS When A Man Pulls Away Or Isn't Contacting You (Or You Think You Pushed Him Away)

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  • Опубликовано: 28 сен 2024
  • Learn what to do when a man pulls away or isn't contacting you (or you're worried you might have pushed him away) in this video with Helena Hart, a dating and relationship coach for women.
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Комментарии • 83

  • @HelenaHartCoaching
    @HelenaHartCoaching  Год назад +8

    Follow my “Master Your Magnetism” podcast on Spotify here: open.spotify.com/show/2sQpQcwuijinXm5y8G06O3
    …or on Apple Podcasts here (feel free to leave me a review!): podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/master-your-magnetism-with-helena-hart/id1585522214
    If you want to learn the secrets to attracting the man you want and inspiring his love, devotion and commitment, get my FREE "3 Keys To Attract The Man You Want" report and audio training here: helenahartcoaching.com/
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    The flowers in this video are from Rose Forever. They're preserved with natural oils so they last for a year! Check out their website here (use the coupon code HART25 to get $25 off your order): bit.ly/3XHpaoQ

  • @yomama4917
    @yomama4917 Год назад +100

    "At your absolute best, you still won't be good enough for the wrong person. At your worst, you'll still be worth it to the right person.” - Karen Salmansohn.

  • @MmM20978
    @MmM20978 Год назад +22

    You are correct on focusing on yourself. It is the only way. So 32 yrs married here and it was a no win situation at the end. Learn to prioritize yourself thru Divorce. You have your own identity and Marriage doesn't define you. Let it make you stronger regardless of his choices

  • @Lil_HandGrenade
    @Lil_HandGrenade Год назад +13

    He was consistent for a while. He pursued me. But then he slacked off

  • @kv2723
    @kv2723 Год назад +9

    He was pursuing, moving things forward, and clear about his intentions. However, there was an underlying depression and anxiety there. He'd stopped dating completely during the year before we met because of whatever his issues are. The first time we were supposed to go out, he had a panic attack. His emotional responses to things that were happening at work weren't healthy - it was a rollercoaster regarding his job. Eventually he sank into a total depression. He'd go to work, go home, and hole himself up in his room. That's basically his life. He knows there's something wrong with him and thinks he may need professional help. No one can help him and nothing can be done unless he deals with this himself. It's terribly sad. We had the beginning of something that could have been wonderful. He was making plans for us to have BBQs with my parents during the summer and other things we would be doing in the near future. We both wanted the same things. Shared the same values, common interests, everything between us felt easy, peaceful, and natural. It's very sad.

    • @audreyandrea460
      @audreyandrea460 Год назад +5

      You’re completely focused on him, not on yourself. You’ve just told a story all about his life that doesn’t actually have anything to do with your own.

    • @BrooklynBaby100
      @BrooklynBaby100 Год назад +2

      He’s not dateable at this point, NEXT! Pay attention to actions not just talk.

    • @vvn-hg3ht
      @vvn-hg3ht 10 месяцев назад +1

      maybe you can encourage him to seek professional help or take things slowly if you are still interested in him? seems like he is not pulling away from you on purpose, its just that he has emotional issue.

    • @maryelizabeth2751
      @maryelizabeth2751 4 месяца назад

      It’s very difficult to be married to someone with severe depression. I’m sorry this happened to you. But I hope you’ll feel peace about it not working out.

  • @maricarc.7638
    @maricarc.7638 Год назад +7

    Awww this advice really helps me. It's very accurate ❤ thank you.

  • @colleenmariebeautiful1897
    @colleenmariebeautiful1897 Год назад +6

    Great Content and just what I needed to Hear! Thank You Helena~🙏

  • @leesanderson6885
    @leesanderson6885 Год назад +2

    Just in process of coming out of the dark and catching up with the reality of my (situationship). He isn't in the dark.he knows the whole story, staying in touch with me weekly. But, reluctant to get together...since going to a festival. Very confusing. Have had some amazing dates together ..but I'm constantly confused. When I'm with him..can't fault our time together. Yes, consistent weekly communication until the big festival. Now when I suggest getting together ..he is busy. FFS!!! So, I'm suggesting again ..to hit pause button.

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  Год назад +1

      Thanks for sharing your experience here. These videos might be helpful: ruclips.net/video/aHDHiOJALjc/видео.htmlsi=v_fTuUuheIQSDW_9, ruclips.net/video/VcjFqtaGj3Y/видео.htmlsi=x4mJpU8-Iff8DXst and ruclips.net/video/RZdL_-_q2f4/видео.htmlsi=lBIx8PaNEB42h-2G.

  • @ekaterinasaturn6853
    @ekaterinasaturn6853 Год назад +1

    Helena, hi! Thank you for this video🌺 I know that you are more into podcasts now, but seeing your face really adds value❤

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  Год назад +2

      You’re welcome! With the very limited time I have now, if I’m going to do something it needs to be worth the time, energy and resources I spend putting into it. RUclips is not for me anymore, but I’m grateful that I started a podcast. 🩷

  • @chiquecrafts4350
    @chiquecrafts4350 Год назад +2

    He has been consistently showing up I know hime for about 4 years but he was in a relationship. Dat relationship ended earlier this year. He started coming towards me for about a month now den he stopped calling.

  • @angelesesperaspiazu9825
    @angelesesperaspiazu9825 Год назад

    Yes he was. I don't know what happened

  • @Lisa-fe5lv
    @Lisa-fe5lv Год назад +2

    Love your insight 💕

  • @halimaelouafi1348
    @halimaelouafi1348 Год назад +1

    Hello helena I am from Montreal love your Jobe
    Please can you explain more about how my man mirror my masculin energy big thanks to you ❤

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  Год назад +1

      Hi, thanks for watching! These episodes might be helpful: ruclips.net/video/tLW_jfx1H4U/видео.htmlsi=WRRkOzaTIfs8GyBV and ruclips.net/video/wykTZL1oOg4/видео.htmlsi=Dt8TE9bmC7_aWXHW.

  • @Jess-wk5jo
    @Jess-wk5jo Год назад +2

    Things i dont get about affairs.
    1 is it really affair or cheating without having never never having no sex.
    2 is their non sexual affairs.
    3 I have question about affairs. Can people have affair or cheat on someone without never having sex

    • @Ishtabest
      @Ishtabest Год назад +1

      Yes, there are definitely non sexual affairs. There are emotional affairs. Look up 'What is an emotional affair' or 'how do I know I'm having an emotional affair?'
      In another note, there's also affairs when there's phone sex, oral sex, etc
      Perhaps seek some counselling as to how you feel about your relationship and why your asking about affairs. All the best to you.

    • @Jess-wk5jo
      @Jess-wk5jo Год назад

      ​@@IshtabestI dont understand affairs that reason why I ask questions respect

  • @user-yc4zz1vt6y
    @user-yc4zz1vt6y Год назад +1

    Hi from South Africa

  • @mariaare9023
    @mariaare9023 Год назад +1

    Consistently always hot n cold!

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  Год назад +1

      These videos might be helpful for anyone who’s in a situation like that: ruclips.net/video/dLj3_tqtCmo/видео.htmlsi=Z5I0bXQWfnKsAvT9, ruclips.net/video/_D37APGOy8Y/видео.htmlsi=u_t2Y-cKAmvzqNh2 and ruclips.net/video/EFzjPYsm_Pk/видео.htmlsi=-lp85kfYnDYR_5hP.

  • @justteething8428
    @justteething8428 11 месяцев назад +1

    7:57 🎉

  • @annisarahma4474
    @annisarahma4474 Год назад +1

    For now he still breadcrumbing me. Text me 1 in a day / 2 days and when i answer he didnt reply it again.
    I'm so confusing right now, guess i'm still really anxious and insecure.
    Going deep down through youtube searching for the explanation and what should i do next, found some make sense thing that i should do like i have to focusing to my life and not overthinking about him, don't push him / too much texting him.
    I do that, but i'm still confusing if i do it wrong or something and i'm doing it while feeling a little bit angsty.

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  Год назад +1

      This podcast episode should be helpful for your situation - you can listen to it on Spotify here: spotify.link/1e8tY99MmDb
      …or on Apple Podcasts here: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/master-your-magnetism-with-helena-hart/id1585522214?i=1000627398255

  • @roohikhan888
    @roohikhan888 Год назад +1

    Thnx

  • @vvn-hg3ht
    @vvn-hg3ht 10 месяцев назад +1

    hi, he hasn't text or call me first for a month and very minimal response when i text him ( we were totally fine and always talking on the phone for 9 months)... his birthday is coming up in a week, should I text him happy birthday or just... ignore it......... thanks for your opinion

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  10 месяцев назад +4

      Thanks for sharing your experience here. Were you in a committed relationship with this guy? If he’s not interested, the eventual outcome is going to be the same no matter what you do so it really doesn’t matter. If it were me, I wouldn’t continue putting my energy out toward someone who wasn’t doing the same in return. Hope that helps! 💜

  • @Empress4U
    @Empress4U Год назад

    I’m looking for more information on staying and being in your feminine energy. Do you have videos on this?

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  11 месяцев назад +2

      Absolutely! These episodes would be a good place to start: ruclips.net/user/liverdRTPiJnC_w?si=5-O_m28bMI5D592T and ruclips.net/video/B9uUdpNRkYA/видео.htmlsi=Ebv7Au5tOLSEFOUe.

  • @ArriannaRobinson-i4k
    @ArriannaRobinson-i4k 11 месяцев назад

    My guy was showing up very consistently. We've been dating casually for about 3 months but I feel like I became very anxious and feeling uneasy with him not claiming me. For me, 3 months of dating feels like enough time to decide you want to be in a relationship with someone; but he prefers to know someone longer before committing. I'm not sure if that means we're just not aligning?

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  11 месяцев назад +1

      Thanks for sharing your experience here! While every situation is different, my latest episode might be helpful: ruclips.net/video/PzHP5tO3FeU/видео.htmlsi=TPshi-3eXkQvdVnF

  • @positivevibeskx1102
    @positivevibeskx1102 Год назад

    He is not showing consistently but makes some effort,that's make me to believe that he might one day start seeing me different...lol,we live in different countries,he is surrounded by attention because of his job ,artist,I'm an ordinary woman ,so I don't trust I am enough for him but I never show him.Lately I got enough because he promised he will send me a voicemail and never do that , later he said is been busy ,then I got enough and said him I'm done so it's better he to stop writing me as well,I told him that he proved he doesn't care about me and so on....think is too much for mans ego to come back , but even I'm tempted I will not write him again...

  • @angelapriddy6308
    @angelapriddy6308 Год назад +1

    Hello

  • @mn9120
    @mn9120 Год назад +1

    🙏👌💫

  • @anitahedgecock1968
    @anitahedgecock1968 Год назад +1

    🌹🌿❤

  • @liztowers2058
    @liztowers2058 Год назад +11

    No ..he wasn't motivated. He slacked on effort ..hed rather be alone on his days off than call me to hang out. How stupid.😂😂 So i stepped back. Period

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  Год назад +2

      Thanks for sharing your experience here. This episode might be helpful for anyone who’d like some help moving on from a man like that: ruclips.net/user/livevUfa6RMLMFg?si=qqkMG50tCJwfiqnK

    • @liztowers2058
      @liztowers2058 Год назад +1

      yes pls, i feel so rejected and used, even though he says im not and never was,,,,talk is cheap without action to back it up. @@HelenaHartCoaching

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  Год назад +1

      Absolutely, this episode might also be helpful: ruclips.net/video/tC3GHtPkzII/видео.htmlsi=zwWgBDdoApbSDA5X

  • @craftswithjeni
    @craftswithjeni Год назад +12

    Thanks Helena, exactly what I needed to hear. Felt guilty for pushing him away with my insecurity.

  • @zlatnimjesec2706
    @zlatnimjesec2706 Год назад +7

    Dear Helena your advices help me very much. Before I start listening your channel I was woried about mens ask myself so many questions and now when men pull away and don't put effort in our connection I just feel boredom and luck of sense and move on with my life much more easily then before. So if men don't conntact you go about your day, goals, dreams and don't give a tiny little athom of energy to this guy.

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  Год назад +1

      I’m happy to hear that, thanks for sharing your experience here! 💕

  • @MegHarrington
    @MegHarrington 11 месяцев назад +4

    Watched this video last night. The guy has not contacted me a 4 days and I am going to follow the 5 steps that you said. One being forget about the person and get back to living a full life. I really hope it works!!!

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  10 месяцев назад +2

      These videos might also be helpful for your situation: ruclips.net/video/PEJ98MwHVTo/видео.htmlsi=SAOYq-21Wd-yJXRp and ruclips.net/video/S3QzqZctAcE/видео.htmlsi=KxqoogA6CAILPl-y.

  • @annyespinal8077
    @annyespinal8077 7 месяцев назад +2

    You look so beautiful, I like your hair , green top and background picture, plant, the hurt… looks so perfect

  • @giovannarusso2601
    @giovannarusso2601 Год назад +3

    ❤❤❤thank you Helena for this advice

  • @kristinleigh2274
    @kristinleigh2274 Год назад +3

    No he isn’t showing up😢

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  Год назад +1

      Thanks for sharing your experience here. 💙 This episode might be helpful for anyone who’d like some help moving on from a man like that: ruclips.net/user/livevUfa6RMLMFg?si=qqkMG50tCJwfiqnK

  • @Agent-cf6jo
    @Agent-cf6jo 6 дней назад

    does any of this advice help when this was a short term intense (1.5 weeks) and long distance relationship ??

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  5 дней назад +1

      While I don’t know the details of your situation, these videos might be helpful if you’re long distance right now: ruclips.net/user/live_Rm3bi1DNT8?si=txtqpLsikLW1zngz and ruclips.net/user/liveb6yUgQCtrzE?si=EeD54ZgLjEDf4CmH.

  • @melissabarrett3088
    @melissabarrett3088 Год назад +1

    ❤❤

  • @SManier
    @SManier Год назад +1

    Perfect!!! Thank You! ❤

  • @graceb947
    @graceb947 Год назад +1

    No, he was not.❤

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  Год назад +1

      Thanks for sharing your experience here. 💜 This episode might be helpful for anyone who’d like some help moving on from a man like that: ruclips.net/user/livevUfa6RMLMFg?si=qqkMG50tCJwfiqnK

  • @tracksidequeen
    @tracksidequeen 9 месяцев назад

    He pursued me for one week. Then stopped and blocked me.

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  9 месяцев назад +1

      Thanks for sharing your experience here. 💙 These are the videos I’d recommend for anyone who’s going through something similar: ruclips.net/video/sHR3dJ8QiLA/видео.htmlsi=yyrjOClv08gXh31r and ruclips.net/video/9UiCZsNJzno/видео.htmlsi=2ISE4EhylFv3OyJH.

  • @chocolateMa1234
    @chocolateMa1234 Год назад

    No he wasn't he did things and blamed me for things he done to me and I am going through this situation right now and I've been blaming myself and beating myself up because he's did wrong to me he cheated on me and blame me for who he's been towards me all along and I loved him he just didn't love me the way I loved him now I am trying to make things work when I shouldn't have to because he's the one that made thing

  • @dailybread6757
    @dailybread6757 Год назад

    Great info! Hey, I tried to put my email in for the free book, but it never came. Any thoughts?

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  Год назад +2

      Thank you! I’d check your spam folder since automated emails sometimes get caught there. You can also send an email to helenahartcoaching@gmail.com and my assistant will send you what you need. 💜

  • @humahameed9018
    @humahameed9018 Год назад

    A guy constantly staring at me after I send him request he accepted and we talk just randomly after that all when he come back to my work place now he is ignoring me idk why plz tell me wat I have to do for his attention on me again?

    • @liztowers2058
      @liztowers2058 Год назад +1

      That's the point ..do NOTHING...

    • @liztowers2058
      @liztowers2058 Год назад +2

      Nothing. She just said STEP BACK! LET HIM COME TO YOU. STOP TRYING STOP WORRYING.

    • @liztowers2058
      @liztowers2058 Год назад +2

      Also who cares....if he doesn't want you move on. If he never talks to you again, who cares. He's not the only man alive is he? Why does his attention need to be important?
      Are you ugly?
      Are you stupid?
      Are you weak?
      Probably NO to all of those.
      Don't allow any man to make you worry like this. Penis is a dime a dozen . Find another.